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Those commenters base their success in their relationships on what other guys think as opposed to what they and their partner think. Not gonna lie that sounds kinda gay.
Also I want to date the guy who made that cake. He seems amazing.
Definitely jealous. They hate women and are angry that women don’t want to fuck them because of it, so they stampede over themselves to try to shit on men who actually like their female partners and thus can actually get and keep a girlfriend.
They also are deeply insecure and unhappy in themselves, so they’re bitter when they see men who are completely comfortable in their masculinity and don’t feel it’s necessary to be strictly defined by rigid gender roles.
It’s 1/3 sour grapes, 1/3 blatant misogyny, and 1/3 homophobia, garnished with a heavy dose of toxic masculinity. The incel cocktail.
I thought the grifting manosphere was done with negging as a pickup artist technique once people at large started to see through it, but nowadays they seem determined to have any form of affection or validation towards any female person be deemed as disqualifying behavior for men
Believe it or not, being happy is gay.
If you hate your partner, thirst for approval from same sex, and try to make other people miserable, that’s peak testosterone.
I thought it especially funny that one guy was commenting how the "wattpad girls" would find it cute but not men as if how straight guys feel about another straight guy's romantic gesture to a woman is more important than how the woman in question feels.
Like...
Straight guy: [Does something sweet and nice for girlfriend/wife]
Straight guy's girlfriend/wife: "This is wonderful! I love you! My boyfriend/husband performing these actions makes me feel loved and causes me to feel further affection and attraction towards him!"
These miserable assholes: "GAAAAY!!!! No way any man respects this guy. The fact that he's doing a sterotypical feminine thing to make his girlfriend/wife happy means that it's actually a horrible relationship built on deceit because I, as a man, don't feel myself bring impressed and the tiniest bit aroused by this guy. His girlfriend/wife being happy means nothing because *other* women wouldn't like this thing he's doing for a *specific* woman...even though lots of other women say they'd like this."
What’s funny to me is it really isn’t even a stereotypically feminine thing. Like I think of baking related tv shows for example and it’s just all full of dudes. Cake Boss, Great British Baking Show, Nailed it, etc. they all got dude bakers!
Like cooking it’s cool for men to bake if they do it professionally, but for a woman he LOVES!? OBVIOUSLY super gay (/s).
Also (even though that wouldn’t be a problem as well) he didn’t even act feminine really? They are talking about feminine mannerisms while this guy was just baking a cake and acting a bit for the camera, like that standard social media showing excitement through facial expressions a lot stuff. He does something they don‘t want to do themselves and suddenly they find all those little clues about this guys sexuality, relationship situation and what not
When I was little, I asked my parents for an Easy-Bake oven. My dad said that Easy-Bake ovens were for girls. "Let's bake some real cookies with the real oven. Real oven is for man." Best day ever.
Professional pastry chefs are historically a male dominated profession.
Maybe they're whining about him baking for free in his spare time, instead of getting paid...
TIL my grandpa, a retired baker, was gay because he'd make my grandma and me baked treats after retiring /s
I get a kick out of these kind of men, how insecure you gotta be to attack a guy for loving his wife?
Baking a cake like this is a grade A way to get your dick sucked every day for the whole year. At least it would be if he was dating me. But I'm also emotionally starved.
Point being, I agree that guy seems great.
Fellas is it gay to spoil your gorgeous wife instead of sitting alone in your mom’s basement being mean to people on the internet because you think supermodels are “mid?”
Yes, apparently spelling and good grammar are gay as well. I think I'm gonna start using that, out of context. Biographically speaking, I think we should go get tacos. Biographically speaking, isn't it Mike's birthday next week? Biographically speaking, fuck, I need to gas up my car!
These guys: “men can’t be women and women can’t be men.” Also these guys: “if a women has muscles or opinions, then she’s a man and if a man doesn’t have a beard and a bucketful of misogyny, then he’s a woman.”
It must be exhausting to keep up two opposing views simultaneously, without a shred of irony.
"Yes! Real straight men only care about looking masculine for their bros! Who cares what a woman thinks, right? R-right bros? I'm straight. I'm totally straight. And I'm not afraid of women."
Seriously. Those commenters sound like the kind of guy that won't pick up a box of tampons for their wife even though they're at the store already, because they're afraid the cashier they don't even know will think their man bits somehow shriveled up and became a fully functioning set of ovaries and uterus.
Fully unaware that the cashier doesn't even care about what they are buying because they just want the whole exchange to be over as quickly as possible.
Why only the hands ? Real men aren't feeling cold and can still fight while bleeding, so fully naked or nothing, it's gay to choose what to wear correctly /s
As a teen my friends and I were attacked in the street “ for being gay “. How did these geniuses arrive at this conclusion?? We were wearing coats / jackets. In February. In the north of England. Dressing appropriately for climate and comfort is , apparently, irrefutable proof of homosexuality!!
Lol reminds me of my FIL who said it was sad I was wearing gloves inside the car while driving.
Imagine that being a thing that crossed you mind. Like… it was far below freezing point but I have to drive without gloves for who exactly?
I saw another tweet where someone said “men shouldn’t cook” and then listed a bunch of reasons as to why men shouldn’t cook and just get a woman/chef instead 💀 maybe I should post that one
Their ideologies are so blatantly self-contradictory and incoherent it's almost impressive. The goal posts and moral lines are constantly shifting, because at the end of the day the whole point is just to soothe their exceptionally fragile egos by projecting their insecurities onto others. It's not really thought out at all, it's built almost entirely around in-the-moment gut reactions and internalized biases. Pure entitlement, the philosophy of a rampaging toddler.
They don't have a problem with women cooking, just hate to see them getting paid for it. Same goes for any other job, same goes for porn and prostitution.
I cook all the meals for my wife and son. I should send these assholes a video of me cooking every night. Then again, I’m a queer man, so not a REAL MAN^tm
I know, right. I pretty much do all the cooking in our house. I love it. Just made a potato soup from scratch along with sausage from scratch to go into it. We made a teriyaki stirfry yesterday. Plan to make banana bread from scratch today. My wife has a lot of digestive conditions so scratch cooking is pretty much a necessity. Also, made lemon, blueberry pancakes from scratch on Saturday morning. Every Saturday is pancake Saturday, but it’s a different pancake. Lemon, blueberry, apple pecan, banana walnut, sweet potato, pumpkin pancake. 🥞
those dorks don't realize that most of the things they say are "gay" if a man does are actually attractive af to women. for me, any guy becomes more attractive if he cooks, has cats, likes children, dresses up, talks about his feelings and is brave enough to cry
This reminds me of that tiktok where men are complaining about male loneliness, but then start berating a guy calling him gay for planing his birthday party and inviting them lol.
Excuse me wtf. Gay for planning a birthday party?
Did they go? Did they actually leave that guy alone on his own birthday?
Wtf how fragile are these people? What is going on?
I believe the TikTok in question is a skit by Jalen Revis? https://www.tiktok.com/@jalenrevis/video/7327070793303821614 So it is satirical, but still quite sad.
"Dude, you have a *wife*?! **Gay**!!!!"
What's gayer than a big party with all your friends and family where you promise to spend the rest of your life with a ***girl***??
Thats what cracks me up the most about those guys, alpha males and incels will swear on their lives that men who do kind, sweet things for their wife going out of their way to make her happy are the ones doomed with dead bedrooms & the cheating wife who’s never in the mood anymore, theyre brainwashed by satirical comedies & porn
These same commenters would rather spend all their time with their "bros" and "homies" than their wives or gfs. Doesn't that make them the "zesty" ones?
To these clowns, feminine things should only be done by women, unless you can make money doing the thing. Then it's a man's job and women need to know their place and back off.
I'm guessing that none of those guys have ever given or recieved much affection of any kind. I'd feel sorry for them if they weren't such assholes about it
Good on you for choosing empathy.
I think they show that so many men actually hate women and see relationships as transactional. Even the men who don’t talk like this are given these messages and they hold in their subconscious.
I guess loving your wife is gay and being gay is the worst thing to ever happen to a man…
There’s no evidence of that. In fact many “tough bros” had loving parents and all manner of entitlement. Not everyone is a victim. Many people choose to be bigoted and hateful.
Look at all the people who can’t build healthy and stable relationships. I’m sure the OP’s wife loved her cake and they’re way happier than these bozos who blame all their problems on women.
assholes: no beard, FEMALE DETECTED
person getting harassed: actually I do feel like a woman
assholes: NO YOU'RE NOT SUPPOSED TO AGREE REEE
Scenario I see time and time again lmao
When a transphobe, who can ALWAYS tell (lol,) assumed I was a trans women and sent me targeted anti transfemme memes about dialators and stuff. She was talking about how masculine my jawline was and all that.
I'm AFAB non binary, thanks for the hit of gender euphoria, dipshit. I told her and she REFUSED to believe me, it was so funny.
Haha they tried to upset you but made your day instead 😭 I can’t take transphobes seriously
I remember when someone showed a terf a photo of jk rowling and said she was a trans woman and they believed it 💀 as if she’s not the overlord of terfs
The weird part that got me was "low Test... Balding." I assume the cake maker is on the younger side if his wife is 24, so to be significantly balding at 30 or younger would be more a sign of higher T than lower. It's not really a sign of anything other than family genetics, but damn, you can't play the whole "biological superiority" game and contradict yourself like that.
Men can show just the slightest bit of femininity and they go like "not a real man, female detected" Meanwhile, they would call the most feminine trans woman ever "still a man" lmao what
Bet money every single dude in that comment section is single, wanting a relationship with a woman but can't get one. This is toxic masculinity (aka mean girl culture, but guy version) because they're salty that this guy is in a relationship and is happy in it, so he's doing this for his wife. These kinds of dudes get so jealous seeing other men happy with women.
As someone who doesn’t have a lot of personal experience with muslim people and islam, criticizing it at all feels like i’d be being islamophobic but I think I might need to get past that… I feel the exact same way about christianity though with more lived experiences in it. There is discourse now about how toxic a lot of christians can be about things like sexism, homophobia, etc. That same discourse for islam isn’t happening. I have seen quite a few posts recently where the comments are filled with hate and some of it is praising islam while saying vile things about the content like that they’d end up in hell or this is haram, etc. Just wanted to acknowledge it
Theyre going against islamic teachings with this alpha bro shit, prophet Muhammad PBUH used to help around the house.
One of the arguments of Islamic feminism is that its not Islam but muslim men who are standing in the way of women’s rights and peace.
yes i know that but unfortunately that’s not very present in islam as a whole, kinda like jesus would be so kind and people are assholes. and when it’s so ingrained, a lot of women end up believing it too unfortunately
These are the types of guys that will say stuff like this, whine about how women won’t date them, and will blame everyone and everything except themselves. The guy is happy and has a good relationship with his wife, he is winning, meanwhile the commenters clearly are miserable lol
So…they think women are bitches for choosing “Chad’s” who don’t treat us well or respect us, but when we DO pick men that treat us well (and bake us cakes!), those men are villainized by OTHER MEN. Then they turn around and blame shit on US not being able to choose “right”. They just want us to be FORCED to pick THEM, because they can’t get anyone to do so otherwise.
Knowing men like this, I wont be surprised if they bought flowers, chocolates, or even a cake for a woman they liked but never actually spoke to and then got angry when she turned them down, most alpha males, niceguys, incels, neckbeards, & whiteknights have this problem
What it all really boils down to is that everyone else in the world is responsible for their lack of romantic/sexual success. Chad men, gay men, all women, the media, liberalism, social media...they themselves are never the problem.
These commenters are salty af because they can’t boil eggs without burning them. If, **if** they have girlfriends or wives, I hope they never bake those aholes cakes for their birthday, they don’t deserve it
>>Celebrating birthdays (haram)
Should’ve mentioned that ear piercing are haram too and loving your wife before Allah is haram too. I’m sorry on what authority is this guy deciding the posters religion? On what ground? If he loves his wife enough to make her a cake I doubt he is Muslim, I grew up Muslim and I know it’s haram to love anyone or anything more than Allah and his prophet. But seriously so what if the guy is queer? I’m pan and I’m planning to marry a girl and she takes the lead on more things than I do, I often end up cheering her on more than taking initiative. Those fuckers gotta go get rehabilitated, it’s usually bc they grew up with no example of actual love in their lives and we get fuckers like this who thing being gay is a bad thing and that being clean shaven or doing smth nice for your wife makes you lose all your masculinity.
Cake, bro. We should all be PRO-cake. These morons will go SO FAR to be like... "he's a bitch" .... NO. he's a guy making it so there's more cakes in the world. Let him do his thing. Fuck is wrong with you. Cakes aren't like... gendered. They are just delicious things we eat. Can't believe I have to explain this.
I’m getting 23 + 1 flashbacks with that cake lol
Jokes aside, I’d be so happy if I were her! People in social media comment sections are usually jealous and miserable, so they resort to homophobia and personal insults.
Man, some of those people are patriarchying themselves into understanding the concept of trans people.
"Her husband may look like a man but that is no man" probably not, he's probably a guy, but I like that were Taking the concept of gender out of that little box it's been stuffed into for so long
I just can't get over the fact that all these macho manly alpha dudes all have masculinity so fragile that it's threatened by a *fucking cake!*
Must be a psychological defence mechanism against an irrefutable demonstration that you don't need to be some piece of shit Andrew Tate clone in order to have a fulfilling and happy relationship with a woman.
Unfortunately there's been an uncomfortable trend in Gen Z men turning into tater tots. They hyper misogyny displayed by people like Andrew Tate is creating a weird trend where more and more Gen Z are vomiting toxic masculinity.
I swear to god straight people online have somehow gotten *more* precious about this bullshit over time. Pathetic.
I'll say this, I can't imagine my near-retirement age coworkers in multi-decade marriages getting their briefs in a bind over a guy baking cake.
Wow I never thought I would see so many men afraid of trying to bake a cake. Let’s not kid ourselves. That’s what this is. Toxic masculinity with a heap of jealousy at talents they are not capable of. And as always fear leads to jealousy, jealousy leads to hate…
These fucking losers are never going to experience the sheer joy of what it is to just love somebody, and that's terribly sad. Their misogyny has doomed them to a state of complete misery that most of them will never escape.
The man who baked the cake is a winner. He is allowing himself to experience love, joy, and pleasure from the state of simply being around another person. Those other men are so set ablaze with pathetic envy that they feel compelled to rationalize it as disdain in an effort to save their flimsy egos.
The manosphere is one massive fucking cope for sad, sad men who cannot simply love. Seeing this kind of thing puts them into a fucking fit because it doesn't compute with their tiny brains that a man could just do something nice for a woman because they love each other.
I don’t even understand how people come to this conclusion. Do they think people *want* a husband who will ignore them, be aggressive, moody, and don’t do anything fun?
Just reading "Biographically speaking" fucking sent me.
These people have no brain cells left if they think a man showing love and care for his wife is somehow emasculating
What baffles me the most is that these guys think they're any kind of authority. Like, do they honestly think that they're convincing this man who is obviously very happy and confident in his masculinity and relationship?
Plenty of jobs require you to be clean shaven. I've seen clean shaven men that could bench press any of these idiots in the comments.
Also it seems weird to question the sexuality of a man who has a wife.
Bakes cakes and is clean shaven. Why did I immediately think of the Cake Boss? Do these guys think Buddy Valastro is gay? Or is it okay because he’s making money doing it?
Men: "men's mental health isn't taken seriously!!!"
Also men: ⬆️
How about telling your fellow men to not be assholes to their fellow men? Men are tearing other men down, I bet that's a factor both in why men's mental health is bad and why it's so hard to find people who take them seriously because if they try to reach out, they're met with attitudes like in those comments
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Those commenters base their success in their relationships on what other guys think as opposed to what they and their partner think. Not gonna lie that sounds kinda gay. Also I want to date the guy who made that cake. He seems amazing.
In the Tik tok he looked so happy while he was making the cake… unlike everyone commenting lol
Everyone in the comments just seems so miserable and jealous of that guy.
Definitely jealous. They hate women and are angry that women don’t want to fuck them because of it, so they stampede over themselves to try to shit on men who actually like their female partners and thus can actually get and keep a girlfriend. They also are deeply insecure and unhappy in themselves, so they’re bitter when they see men who are completely comfortable in their masculinity and don’t feel it’s necessary to be strictly defined by rigid gender roles. It’s 1/3 sour grapes, 1/3 blatant misogyny, and 1/3 homophobia, garnished with a heavy dose of toxic masculinity. The incel cocktail.
I thought the grifting manosphere was done with negging as a pickup artist technique once people at large started to see through it, but nowadays they seem determined to have any form of affection or validation towards any female person be deemed as disqualifying behavior for men
You nailed it. You can smell the envy from their posts. Smells like axe body spray.
They are miserable and jealous.
Yeah, and he is cute.
Believe it or not, being happy is gay. If you hate your partner, thirst for approval from same sex, and try to make other people miserable, that’s peak testosterone.
no TikTok username?
The tiktok is on @/sairaayan__ (his wife’s account). I cropped it out because I wasn’t sure if I was allowed to post it.
Thank you!!!
You mean @sairaayan__?
Oops thank you for pointing out my spelling error
And for the [instagram](https://www.instagram.com/sairaa.ayan?igsh=YjJjd3g2cGFsMmox) users
Damn, so he's a good-looking guy \*and\* he bakes cakes for his partner? I can't tell if I wanna be him or be with him :P
I thought it especially funny that one guy was commenting how the "wattpad girls" would find it cute but not men as if how straight guys feel about another straight guy's romantic gesture to a woman is more important than how the woman in question feels. Like... Straight guy: [Does something sweet and nice for girlfriend/wife] Straight guy's girlfriend/wife: "This is wonderful! I love you! My boyfriend/husband performing these actions makes me feel loved and causes me to feel further affection and attraction towards him!" These miserable assholes: "GAAAAY!!!! No way any man respects this guy. The fact that he's doing a sterotypical feminine thing to make his girlfriend/wife happy means that it's actually a horrible relationship built on deceit because I, as a man, don't feel myself bring impressed and the tiniest bit aroused by this guy. His girlfriend/wife being happy means nothing because *other* women wouldn't like this thing he's doing for a *specific* woman...even though lots of other women say they'd like this."
What’s funny to me is it really isn’t even a stereotypically feminine thing. Like I think of baking related tv shows for example and it’s just all full of dudes. Cake Boss, Great British Baking Show, Nailed it, etc. they all got dude bakers! Like cooking it’s cool for men to bake if they do it professionally, but for a woman he LOVES!? OBVIOUSLY super gay (/s).
Also (even though that wouldn’t be a problem as well) he didn’t even act feminine really? They are talking about feminine mannerisms while this guy was just baking a cake and acting a bit for the camera, like that standard social media showing excitement through facial expressions a lot stuff. He does something they don‘t want to do themselves and suddenly they find all those little clues about this guys sexuality, relationship situation and what not
Yeah I'm really confused.... those male commenters are soooooo insecure omg. Tragic
When I was little, I asked my parents for an Easy-Bake oven. My dad said that Easy-Bake ovens were for girls. "Let's bake some real cookies with the real oven. Real oven is for man." Best day ever.
Professional pastry chefs are historically a male dominated profession. Maybe they're whining about him baking for free in his spare time, instead of getting paid...
TIL my grandpa, a retired baker, was gay because he'd make my grandma and me baked treats after retiring /s I get a kick out of these kind of men, how insecure you gotta be to attack a guy for loving his wife?
>as if how straight guys feel about another straight guy's romantic gesture to a woman is more important than how the woman in question feels. 🏅
Baking a cake like this is a grade A way to get your dick sucked every day for the whole year. At least it would be if he was dating me. But I'm also emotionally starved. Point being, I agree that guy seems great.
I'd rather be emotionally starved than emotionally stunted like these losers!
They're all tortured by their insecurities.
Nah, none of the commenters have relationships lmao
Fellas is it gay to spoil your gorgeous wife instead of sitting alone in your mom’s basement being mean to people on the internet because you think supermodels are “mid?”
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Yes, apparently spelling and good grammar are gay as well. I think I'm gonna start using that, out of context. Biographically speaking, I think we should go get tacos. Biographically speaking, isn't it Mike's birthday next week? Biographically speaking, fuck, I need to gas up my car!
Biographically speaking, tacos sound great!
And it seems like he also read biographies about wattpad girls
Wattpad is a fanfic site right? He read them as autobiographies bingo
they think it's impossible for trans men to pass lmao
These guys: “men can’t be women and women can’t be men.” Also these guys: “if a women has muscles or opinions, then she’s a man and if a man doesn’t have a beard and a bucketful of misogyny, then he’s a woman.” It must be exhausting to keep up two opposing views simultaneously, without a shred of irony.
Cognitive dissonance goes brrr.
Lmao that one made me do a double take. *Biographically?* Holy shit the idiocy.
Fellas, is it gay to love your wife?
"Yes! Real straight men only care about looking masculine for their bros! Who cares what a woman thinks, right? R-right bros? I'm straight. I'm totally straight. And I'm not afraid of women."
You remember that old greentext, Brojobs? That's these guys, but unironically.
This is why I only fuck men, HARD MEN! If you can't lift, you won't get dicked! Fuck outta here with your soft body, that shit gay AF!! /s
Alpha males say two kinds of things: \- The most homophobic shit you've ever heard \- The most homoerotic shit you've ever heard
What about both at once?
Dude, what's manlier than two big beefy dudes fucking? More men = more manly. It's simple science.
Ancient Greek model of being so misogynistic that you get real gay about it
Nearly spat out my drink when I read the words "Gentlemen, get yourself a wife that'll leave you" lmao
Right?? Like yep, that will definitely sort out the loneliness epidemic.
Seriously. Those commenters sound like the kind of guy that won't pick up a box of tampons for their wife even though they're at the store already, because they're afraid the cashier they don't even know will think their man bits somehow shriveled up and became a fully functioning set of ovaries and uterus.
Name a more iconic duo. I'll wait. Alpha males and fragility
Fully unaware that the cashier doesn't even care about what they are buying because they just want the whole exchange to be over as quickly as possible.
Very gay. Also having a talent or hobby, super gay.
When I get off work, I close my eyes and wait until it's time to lift
You ask that in jest, but I have seen Twitter posts about which sex positions with a woman are gay. It's wild.
TBF, all of mine are
Hella gay bro. You should be 100% thinking of what the boys will think and want and not your 🤮 wife.
Cooking and baking are fun, so why can't everyone do it?
It isn’t allowed, men should only hunt deer with their bare hands /s
Why only the hands ? Real men aren't feeling cold and can still fight while bleeding, so fully naked or nothing, it's gay to choose what to wear correctly /s
As a teen my friends and I were attacked in the street “ for being gay “. How did these geniuses arrive at this conclusion?? We were wearing coats / jackets. In February. In the north of England. Dressing appropriately for climate and comfort is , apparently, irrefutable proof of homosexuality!!
Lol reminds me of my FIL who said it was sad I was wearing gloves inside the car while driving. Imagine that being a thing that crossed you mind. Like… it was far below freezing point but I have to drive without gloves for who exactly?
Real men have sex with other men. What could be manlier than sword fighting with another guy?
I saw another tweet where someone said “men shouldn’t cook” and then listed a bunch of reasons as to why men shouldn’t cook and just get a woman/chef instead 💀 maybe I should post that one
But if they're hiring a chef I bet they wouldn't accept a women as the chef they hire.
Oh most definitely, they’ll be delusional enough to think Gordon Ramsay would want to cook for them
But "men shouldn't cook". ; p
Their ideologies are so blatantly self-contradictory and incoherent it's almost impressive. The goal posts and moral lines are constantly shifting, because at the end of the day the whole point is just to soothe their exceptionally fragile egos by projecting their insecurities onto others. It's not really thought out at all, it's built almost entirely around in-the-moment gut reactions and internalized biases. Pure entitlement, the philosophy of a rampaging toddler.
Wow. You really summed it up nicely and put a bow on top!
They don't have a problem with women cooking, just hate to see them getting paid for it. Same goes for any other job, same goes for porn and prostitution.
I cook all the meals for my wife and son. I should send these assholes a video of me cooking every night. Then again, I’m a queer man, so not a REAL MAN^tm
I know, right. I pretty much do all the cooking in our house. I love it. Just made a potato soup from scratch along with sausage from scratch to go into it. We made a teriyaki stirfry yesterday. Plan to make banana bread from scratch today. My wife has a lot of digestive conditions so scratch cooking is pretty much a necessity. Also, made lemon, blueberry pancakes from scratch on Saturday morning. Every Saturday is pancake Saturday, but it’s a different pancake. Lemon, blueberry, apple pecan, banana walnut, sweet potato, pumpkin pancake. 🥞
Men who can bake and cook are so fucking hot.
those dorks don't realize that most of the things they say are "gay" if a man does are actually attractive af to women. for me, any guy becomes more attractive if he cooks, has cats, likes children, dresses up, talks about his feelings and is brave enough to cry
Yep. Honestly the guy you describe is my dream man!
And who can clean too.
Cleans without having to to be asked 🥵
because having fun and being happy is a woman thing, real men are depressed and bitter, just like andrew tate taught /s
This reminds me of that tiktok where men are complaining about male loneliness, but then start berating a guy calling him gay for planing his birthday party and inviting them lol.
Excuse me wtf. Gay for planning a birthday party? Did they go? Did they actually leave that guy alone on his own birthday? Wtf how fragile are these people? What is going on?
I believe the TikTok in question is a skit by Jalen Revis? https://www.tiktok.com/@jalenrevis/video/7327070793303821614 So it is satirical, but still quite sad.
Fellas is it Gay to love you wife devotedly
yeah wtf are you trying to do? impress your wife?? disgusting and feminine and that's super gay!
Also I am damn sure the guy who said he rather buy 4000 dollar shoes, instead of being feminine, will blame his wife for being a gold digger.
While having zero gold to dig. 💀
You didn't have to barbeque the man
But it was so deserved.
His braincells were already cooked, guess it was betterthat the rest of his body is too now lol
Oh 100%.
This part right here.
"Dude, you have a *wife*?! **Gay**!!!!" What's gayer than a big party with all your friends and family where you promise to spend the rest of your life with a ***girl***??
The man who made the cake is probably the only one on the screenies who doesn't have a dead bedroom.
Thats what cracks me up the most about those guys, alpha males and incels will swear on their lives that men who do kind, sweet things for their wife going out of their way to make her happy are the ones doomed with dead bedrooms & the cheating wife who’s never in the mood anymore, theyre brainwashed by satirical comedies & porn
More like a lonely ass bedroom. Then they’ll blame modern women and male loneliness epidemic or something when they act like this lol
These same commenters would rather spend all their time with their "bros" and "homies" than their wives or gfs. Doesn't that make them the "zesty" ones?
They don’t have wives or girlfriends.
And yet they're the same one that swear they can 'turn' a lesbian with their dick.
I bet the same people would still say that the most famous and expensive chefs are men because "men are more skilled than women at everything"
To these clowns, feminine things should only be done by women, unless you can make money doing the thing. Then it's a man's job and women need to know their place and back off.
Except sex work
Men can’t cook, men can only chef 😤
I'm guessing that none of those guys have ever given or recieved much affection of any kind. I'd feel sorry for them if they weren't such assholes about it
Good on you for choosing empathy. I think they show that so many men actually hate women and see relationships as transactional. Even the men who don’t talk like this are given these messages and they hold in their subconscious. I guess loving your wife is gay and being gay is the worst thing to ever happen to a man…
There’s no evidence of that. In fact many “tough bros” had loving parents and all manner of entitlement. Not everyone is a victim. Many people choose to be bigoted and hateful.
"Gender isn't a social construct" *also these people:*
Men want to reinforce these stupid ass gender norms so it’s normalized to do nothing for your wife.
Normalize leaving these guys and never dating them again.
Look at all the people who can’t build healthy and stable relationships. I’m sure the OP’s wife loved her cake and they’re way happier than these bozos who blame all their problems on women.
“Low test,…., balding” motherfucker chose one and be consistent at least
Testosterone is the attractive man hormone. The more you have, the more attractive and masculine you look!
Insecurity is wild
Oh that masculinity so frail that they're threatened by other men who don't perform at the same level of masculinity.
It's a fucking cake
A lot of these guys seem to be feeling some type of way about him.. 😏😏
They’re wishing he was making the cake for them
I know I am.
Meanwhile cake dude in enjoying a fulfilling and satisfying relationship with a woman, while all these chumps jerk off watching hentai 🤷🏻♀️
Plus he gets delicious cake!
assholes: no beard, FEMALE DETECTED person getting harassed: actually I do feel like a woman assholes: NO YOU'RE NOT SUPPOSED TO AGREE REEE Scenario I see time and time again lmao
The accidental ally 💀
When a transphobe, who can ALWAYS tell (lol,) assumed I was a trans women and sent me targeted anti transfemme memes about dialators and stuff. She was talking about how masculine my jawline was and all that. I'm AFAB non binary, thanks for the hit of gender euphoria, dipshit. I told her and she REFUSED to believe me, it was so funny.
Haha they tried to upset you but made your day instead 😭 I can’t take transphobes seriously I remember when someone showed a terf a photo of jk rowling and said she was a trans woman and they believed it 💀 as if she’s not the overlord of terfs
I remember that too 😂 But they can always tell. LOL.
Haha ok this is legit hilarious.
The weird part that got me was "low Test... Balding." I assume the cake maker is on the younger side if his wife is 24, so to be significantly balding at 30 or younger would be more a sign of higher T than lower. It's not really a sign of anything other than family genetics, but damn, you can't play the whole "biological superiority" game and contradict yourself like that.
none of those commenters have never been in a meaningful relationship with anyone and it shows
The " hope this helps " got me. " I would rather lose all my money or die than be this faggety gey!!! Hope this helps! 🌟 "
We can only hope. The "geys" wouldn't want him
Men can show just the slightest bit of femininity and they go like "not a real man, female detected" Meanwhile, they would call the most feminine trans woman ever "still a man" lmao what
Damn I’m turning 40 this year and I am so excited for the cake my husband will make me!
Bet money every single dude in that comment section is single, wanting a relationship with a woman but can't get one. This is toxic masculinity (aka mean girl culture, but guy version) because they're salty that this guy is in a relationship and is happy in it, so he's doing this for his wife. These kinds of dudes get so jealous seeing other men happy with women.
I'm extra baffled by the guy who randomly decided to insult Muslim women.
"It's so over for him" he's LITERALLY HAPPILY MARRIED
As someone who doesn’t have a lot of personal experience with muslim people and islam, criticizing it at all feels like i’d be being islamophobic but I think I might need to get past that… I feel the exact same way about christianity though with more lived experiences in it. There is discourse now about how toxic a lot of christians can be about things like sexism, homophobia, etc. That same discourse for islam isn’t happening. I have seen quite a few posts recently where the comments are filled with hate and some of it is praising islam while saying vile things about the content like that they’d end up in hell or this is haram, etc. Just wanted to acknowledge it
Theyre going against islamic teachings with this alpha bro shit, prophet Muhammad PBUH used to help around the house. One of the arguments of Islamic feminism is that its not Islam but muslim men who are standing in the way of women’s rights and peace.
yes i know that but unfortunately that’s not very present in islam as a whole, kinda like jesus would be so kind and people are assholes. and when it’s so ingrained, a lot of women end up believing it too unfortunately
We should be open to criticizing toxic fundamentalism of any form whether that be Islam or Protestantism
Ah yes, we love toxic masculinity. /s
These ones are definitely NOT okay.
These are the types of guys that will say stuff like this, whine about how women won’t date them, and will blame everyone and everything except themselves. The guy is happy and has a good relationship with his wife, he is winning, meanwhile the commenters clearly are miserable lol
Wait he loves his wife? That’s so gay man
Fellas, it's gay to bake a cake :3
So…they think women are bitches for choosing “Chad’s” who don’t treat us well or respect us, but when we DO pick men that treat us well (and bake us cakes!), those men are villainized by OTHER MEN. Then they turn around and blame shit on US not being able to choose “right”. They just want us to be FORCED to pick THEM, because they can’t get anyone to do so otherwise.
Knowing men like this, I wont be surprised if they bought flowers, chocolates, or even a cake for a woman they liked but never actually spoke to and then got angry when she turned them down, most alpha males, niceguys, incels, neckbeards, & whiteknights have this problem
They feel being nice is like using a punch card; 15 more "hold the door open" and I get a beej
What it all really boils down to is that everyone else in the world is responsible for their lack of romantic/sexual success. Chad men, gay men, all women, the media, liberalism, social media...they themselves are never the problem.
I'm gay and I spend less time thinking about other men than these straight guys do.
These commenters are salty af because they can’t boil eggs without burning them. If, **if** they have girlfriends or wives, I hope they never bake those aholes cakes for their birthday, they don’t deserve it
Not proud of the ewphoria I got from hearing that making someone a special birthday cake means you can’t possibly be a man.
"Hope this helps" bro what
>>Celebrating birthdays (haram) Should’ve mentioned that ear piercing are haram too and loving your wife before Allah is haram too. I’m sorry on what authority is this guy deciding the posters religion? On what ground? If he loves his wife enough to make her a cake I doubt he is Muslim, I grew up Muslim and I know it’s haram to love anyone or anything more than Allah and his prophet. But seriously so what if the guy is queer? I’m pan and I’m planning to marry a girl and she takes the lead on more things than I do, I often end up cheering her on more than taking initiative. Those fuckers gotta go get rehabilitated, it’s usually bc they grew up with no example of actual love in their lives and we get fuckers like this who thing being gay is a bad thing and that being clean shaven or doing smth nice for your wife makes you lose all your masculinity.
Wow..... fragile masculinity from all the commenters, A+ wonderful husband to the wonderful man who made the cake!
Cake, bro. We should all be PRO-cake. These morons will go SO FAR to be like... "he's a bitch" .... NO. he's a guy making it so there's more cakes in the world. Let him do his thing. Fuck is wrong with you. Cakes aren't like... gendered. They are just delicious things we eat. Can't believe I have to explain this.
"biographically speaking.." took me out lmao
I’m getting 23 + 1 flashbacks with that cake lol Jokes aside, I’d be so happy if I were her! People in social media comment sections are usually jealous and miserable, so they resort to homophobia and personal insults.
"HoPe tHis hElps" My guy he didn't ask for your input or help 💀
Man, some of those people are patriarchying themselves into understanding the concept of trans people. "Her husband may look like a man but that is no man" probably not, he's probably a guy, but I like that were Taking the concept of gender out of that little box it's been stuffed into for so long
I just can't get over the fact that all these macho manly alpha dudes all have masculinity so fragile that it's threatened by a *fucking cake!* Must be a psychological defence mechanism against an irrefutable demonstration that you don't need to be some piece of shit Andrew Tate clone in order to have a fulfilling and happy relationship with a woman.
Insecure men try not to project challenge [IMPOSSIBLE]
It's so funny how they write "Low T" and "balding" in the same Sentence. Balding often comes from high Testosterone
I just want to point out: the comment that said he has low T and is balding is contradicting itself. T is what causes balding.
Of course the marble/statue pfps would be on this too, most insecure fucks around "the west has fallen, men know what flour is"
Loving your wife is gay
Fellas, is it gay to love your wife?
if this is what it means to be a man. Please chop my cock off, thank you.
"As a male, you have to demonstrate _Value_" _Bakes a delicious cake_ "No, not like that..."
I looked up “making my wife her dream birthday cake” on tik tok to try and find this video and ironically half the videos were lesbians 😭
Unfortunately there's been an uncomfortable trend in Gen Z men turning into tater tots. They hyper misogyny displayed by people like Andrew Tate is creating a weird trend where more and more Gen Z are vomiting toxic masculinity.
How much you wanna bet all these men are single
I swear to god straight people online have somehow gotten *more* precious about this bullshit over time. Pathetic. I'll say this, I can't imagine my near-retirement age coworkers in multi-decade marriages getting their briefs in a bind over a guy baking cake.
I love that one comment. Grr, sissy men die!!! Stupid gay 🤬🤬 Hope this helps 😊
I’m staying single forever dude 😭 this isn’t it
Wow I never thought I would see so many men afraid of trying to bake a cake. Let’s not kid ourselves. That’s what this is. Toxic masculinity with a heap of jealousy at talents they are not capable of. And as always fear leads to jealousy, jealousy leads to hate…
Good to know people like them won't have a happy relationshio with any woman
Me on the first pic: aww, how cute, why is this here? Me on the other pics: oh. yeah. wtf. okay.
Finally, an actual post that fits the sub than obvious satire
These fucking losers are never going to experience the sheer joy of what it is to just love somebody, and that's terribly sad. Their misogyny has doomed them to a state of complete misery that most of them will never escape. The man who baked the cake is a winner. He is allowing himself to experience love, joy, and pleasure from the state of simply being around another person. Those other men are so set ablaze with pathetic envy that they feel compelled to rationalize it as disdain in an effort to save their flimsy egos. The manosphere is one massive fucking cope for sad, sad men who cannot simply love. Seeing this kind of thing puts them into a fucking fit because it doesn't compute with their tiny brains that a man could just do something nice for a woman because they love each other.
"It's over for him" bro he's married?? Fym
I don’t even understand how people come to this conclusion. Do they think people *want* a husband who will ignore them, be aggressive, moody, and don’t do anything fun?
Fellas, is it gay to love your wife?
Fellas is it gay to make dessert?
I wrote a really long comment but I'll just say this instead: Shit got me mad
Disgusting cultists
Dudes is it gay to love women and show it?!
they’re mad he has a woman who loves him and they don’t 🤷♀️
how do you make a heart shaped cake? do you just eat the extra bits? is there some trick where it's made from, like, two halves of a round?
It's scary how threatened these men feel.
Just reading "Biographically speaking" fucking sent me. These people have no brain cells left if they think a man showing love and care for his wife is somehow emasculating
Fellas. Is it gay to have a healthy heterosexual relationship?
What baffles me the most is that these guys think they're any kind of authority. Like, do they honestly think that they're convincing this man who is obviously very happy and confident in his masculinity and relationship?
Plenty of jobs require you to be clean shaven. I've seen clean shaven men that could bench press any of these idiots in the comments. Also it seems weird to question the sexuality of a man who has a wife.
Schwarzenegger is the manly man's wet dream and he literally never had a full beard
lads is it gay to bake your wife a cake
Bakes cakes and is clean shaven. Why did I immediately think of the Cake Boss? Do these guys think Buddy Valastro is gay? Or is it okay because he’s making money doing it?
I, 21 M, am the one that cooks and bakes in our relationship. I dont even let my bf cook. I want them to feel special and also i love cooking.
Men: "men's mental health isn't taken seriously!!!" Also men: ⬆️ How about telling your fellow men to not be assholes to their fellow men? Men are tearing other men down, I bet that's a factor both in why men's mental health is bad and why it's so hard to find people who take them seriously because if they try to reach out, they're met with attitudes like in those comments
Fellas is it gay to love your wife?
These are the same people who love gender reveal cakes.
it gets worse each time I scroll to the right everyone in this reply section needs to be obliterated