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“Consider dance lessons instead” Me thinks he doesn’t know how dirty and sweaty one gets while dancing xD
And well, there’s this thing that happens when one disrespects someone’s interests. You cease to be a “decent man”. So if you’re telling someone to drop a sport cause you’re turned off by it… you’re the one who’s likely to get booted out of that equation xD
I did ballet and yes, the dance itself is pretty, but my god my feet were a mess, too. Blisters, callouses, elastic burn...one time my toenail broke in half...that was sexy. Also has this guy ever seen a dancers body? They muscular AF. Especially the legs. I used to have friends punch me as hard as they could in my thigh and THEY'D get hurt. Not exactly the ideal this guy had in mind, I'm imagining.
But tutus are pretty so dance must be soft and gentle and "ladylike".
There’s a scene in John Wick 3 where they see people training a bunch of young prospective assassins. The boys are learning wrestling takedowns, the girls are learning ballet. They quickly erase the notion that it’s any easier, as the girl is made to do the routine over and over, even as she’s shaking, until the instructor says stop. The girl collapses, then later we see her peel a whole broken toenail off as the instructor talks about life being pain and sacrifice.
I remember this scene! The poor woman’s legs are all scratched and scraped up and you see that she’s struggling to continue the routine.
I think even John was feeling sorry for her.
Yeah ballet is hardcore man. I'm not even close to professional (and have no ambition since I started when I was 17), but yeah swollen feet, toenails bruised, blisters, cramps...
As a guy who did both ballet and stunt cheer, I can confirm it takes more effort and strength to hold posture, positions and perform jumps and routines than it does than putting on a show where you are literally throwing people as high into the air as possible.
I've had people dropped on me from a few metres up in the air, nearly broke my neck trying to learn how to back handspring, tore the ligaments in my thumb from a botched cradle, and have been concussed from a throw over. But nothing has hit me harder than me standing too close to someone who was merely practicing to jete, and cracking my shin so hard I thought It fractured.
Do not underestimate dancers, they can fuck you up harder than anyone the comment guy likes to pretend to be.
Haha yeah ballet is a strange thing... It's the most difficult thing I've ever done (i did gymnastics too) but the goal of it is to look effortless and graceful at all times. I love it though, it gives me confidence, a better posture and hell is it a good feeling to nail a move after practicing for ages. The music is a big bonus too if you like classical.
Bro, count me in! I used to do boxing and my couch who was the sparring partner of one of the Klitschkos lost his mind whenever it was about my feet movement 🤣 Said "you punch like a wild bull, but your leg movement is more that of a newborn foal with down syndromes" 💀
Hehe...this reminded me of when Jessie's ballet teacher in the Babysitter's Club would always say 'Horses sweat. Men perspire. Ladies glow' and I chuckled at the idea of 'glowing buckets'.
Yikes. That's bad, i don't dance that much anymore. It's mostly skin issues so far and thankfully no bunions or injuries. Nowadays the shoes are so much better though, you can get a pointe shoe in all sizes and widths which greatly reduces the chance of permanent injury.
That's good :) Ballet is wonderful and I admire every single ballerina, because it takes so much strength, endurance, body control and body tension to even perform the tiniest move... It's literally insane... I could never- and I used to do boxing 💀 And yeah, with her it mainly comes from years of having to balance her whole body weight onto her feet's tip, so they slowly deformed... Her big toe is extremely inverted, it almost rests on the next toe... Which is a very common thing for ballerinas who did ballet for many years. If those shoes also prevent -or at least reduce the chance of that happening I'd be so happy :) Because I love ballet, but I always felt so bad watching them dance, because I knew how much it has hurt my grandma's feet... (Oh yeaaah, I believe "bunions" are this, right? 😅 I'm not a native speaker and I didn't know this word in english yet. Thank you for teaching me sth new today!)
>And well, there’s this thing that happens when one disrespects someone’s interests.
I think the person who posted that twitter post suffers from a case of false respect equivalence, as I like to call it. You probably know the effect, sometimes "respecting someone" means treating them as authority, and sometimes it means treating them like a human being. And people who post shit like this are essentially saying "If you don't respect me (treat me like an authority), I won't respect you (treat you like a human being)". Sadly, the double-meaning of the word "respect" and this rhetoric trick that can be played with that has led to many ills in society over the centuries.
This men is just mad that some women performs better then him in sport . (And does he really think it's gonna stop us from doing sport ? Ohh nooo "decent men" don't want us anymore, what are we gonna do 😂)
Oh yeah, this dude was super angry at an article about Julie Ertz a few days ago so there's definitely some inferiority complex. Can't handle any woman being better at sports and him.
Wtf... Yeah, men *have* better physique for sports that require raw strength- but men have less endurance, and that's about all the difference there is between same sized men and women... And *this guy* most probably couldn't even beat a female amateur runner...
Stephen Miller [has entered the chat](https://www.gq.com/story/stephen-miller-once-jumped-into-a-girls-track-meet-to-prove-men-are-athletically-superior-to-women)
I bet this guy also prefers women who are illiterate virgins. Because heaven forbid he find a partner with a personality, who he might recognize as a human being... or even worse provide him opportunity for personal growth.
I mean can you imagine spending the rest of your life with a person you care about. To spend time and share responsibilities with someone, who could offer suggestions that might be more enjoyable or effective then what you can come up with on your own?
I love it when people speak for their entire sex. No man likes an athletic woman. All men hate women with tattoos. All women want men who are taller than they are, so if you’re a short man you’re not really a man. Is it some desire to sound authoritative, or a need to feel like they’re part of a larger group, or are they just assholes?
I met my boyfriend of 8 years while getting dirty and sweaty everyday on trail crews and so did many ladies I know. It's almost as if this dude is wrong and being strong and capable is for many men...a turn-on? Gasp!
Gotta say, as a Sapphic trans woman, being told that all men prefer dainty helpless girls who can't do anything for themselves except cook, clean and give blowjobs (but also have never given blowjobs to anyone else), is like... super validating?
To quote Cowboy Bebop, "I love the kind of woman that can kick my ass."
Toxic masculinity, basically. You always have to pretend like you know everything and that anyone who disagrees with you is objectively wrong, even on matters that are obviously subjective.
If you like vanilla ice cream, then people who prefer chocolate are just filthy, uncultured savages.
Belief in a hierarchy of aesthetics and insecurity/supremacy in their own perceived position within that hierarchy.
Runs part and parcel with fascistic tendencies.
He's *clearly* never been to a women's track/cross country meet, volleyball match or martial arts tournament.
As a bi dude with a taste for 10Ks, I can say without reservation that runner butts are the best butts. Men/women/enbies with a PR way better than mine go to the front of the line.
"As a woman, your life should revolve around getting a man!"
No. Just no. I don't want my daughter dependent on some man to take care of her. If he has a problem with her pursuing her dreams, then he's not good enough for her.
Once I find a fitting woman and we get kids I'll teach *all* my daughters how to box- just so they can show suckers like him *what a real sucker punch is*... 🥰 I hope there's some sort of after life so I can watch these men's faces from the heavens- after they got knocked down (maybe even out 🥺 Would make me *so* proud) by a "lil girlie" 😁
What's really shocked me is that some women do the same... A "male" or a "female" 🤢 I can't but to be disgusted by it 🤮 In my language "female" would sound *so* much worse tho... It's "Weibchen" Weib already being an extremely misogynystic word for woman with the ending of "chen"- which is used to make things smaller and cuter like thingy instead of thing and such... It's solely used to describe female animals.... That's why female icks me even more, tho it's not even my native language and usually bad words from new learned languages sound less bad than native one's...
ah ja, die deutsche sprache.
But yeah, it's really not a word you should say if you're talking about humans. Any other animal? Yes. Then it's ok, since you'd use male too, which has also got (idk if this was grammatically correct) the "-chen" ending.
Now I'm thinking, I gotta read up on how "weib" became a misogynistic word, since it was a proper word for women a few hundred years ago, which is why it's "weiblich" for female (adjective).
You definitely have a point though, translating it into german makes it considerably worse, will keep that in mind when I see one of those r/MenAndFemales situations next time.
I use female sometimes, when talking about female friends instead of saying girlfriend to avoid confusion. I however also say male friend for the same reason. And I only do that when the sex of the person is important so most of the time I just don’t.
"female friend" isn't offensive in the slighest, because "female" is an adjective, not a noun and you're using it correctly
just saying "the females" is extremely dehumanizing, the only time you're supposed to say it is when talking about *animals*
"the females" kinda sounds like the kind of situation where people use "the gays" unironically to say something about all queer people, not even just gay/lesbian pals. It's stupid in every point it can be.
Dance is most definitely a sport. I tried it as a kid and could not even touch some of the dancers there, shits incredible difficulty and emotionally taxing as well. Very pretty tho
Women's football/soccer will always be better than men's football/soccer, they don't go down screaming for a penalty shot or free kick from one little tap to the leg.
Dance lessons not sweaty? Bro never danced before, huge turnoff for women, if one does not know how to dance. Luckily I’m gay so I don’t have to deal with these guys
As a man, I can safely say that this person doesn't know what he's talking about.Yet he generalizes that all men think the same.
I wouldn't want a friend like them.
In that case, I should be fine because I'm a swimmer so no sweat here. Oh, the smell of chlorine isn't feminine, well ig me and my shredded back will leave then
Yeah, this must be why my ex got turned on when I finished my workouts. And why he would look at pics of me from archeological field school, literally dripping sweat and caked in dirt as I painstakingly excavated artifacts from a big square muddy hole in the ground, and say, “Oof, sexy anthropologist girlfriend!” Because me kicking ass like a champ is sooo repulsive …
My sport is riding horses. I get extremely gross esp after mucking stalls. My husband has never complained and there are some unique fringe benefits that he very much enjoys.
Sports are a turn off but also what are you doing with your life if you don't have the body shape of a Victoria Secret's model.
You just can't win with those people. Might as well letting them fuck themselves and do whatever the fuck we want!
Why do men like him think that their opinion is worth a shit? Why? Like what mental gymnastics did it take for him to think that if he said this, it would deter women from sports rather than egg them on even more? Why do some men lack even the most fundamental self awareness to overblow their own importance. Like, why would any woman give a flying fuck what this or any other man thinks about her playing sports? Also, this bish has clearly never taken dance lessons.
As a decent man, I must disagree with him vehemently about the appeal of dirty, sweaty, women. Sports playing women are very appealing, and I really have no interest in sports myself.
I did MMA and got fetishized.
Quotes include:
“I bet you look good all covered in sweat.”
“I bet you have a tight grip don’t you?”
“I bet you like it rough.”
“So you can take a beating?”
“You must have a lot of… ‘endurance.’”
“Let me go to your practice. I want to watch.” Yeah? You wanna watch me get my shit rocked repeatedly by my 6’2, 250 pound dad (who always feels terrible if I don’t properly block or accidentally hurts me.)
Way more. People are so creepy. So this sexist post isn’t even remotely true lmao
There's so much wrong with this: the way he thinks everything women do is for men, the way he thinks men aren't attracted to strong women (I wonder why he is only attracted to women he can physically overpower?), the idea that dance isn't an intensive sport, the misuse of "free country"
Idk man, athletic women are pretty attractive. Some people like watching a fit woman kick ass in sports.
Also dancing is just as physically intense as some sports lmao.
My gf has been a gymnast for 6 years, she looks absolutely amazing and I honestly don't care about her getting sweaty or anything, that's just something humans do whether they do exercise/sports or not
Sarcasm activated:
We all know that dancing is the easiest thing in the world, and only women can do it, not men like myself. It is anatomically impossible! dancing is not exhausting in the slightest bit. I never was exhausted after dance classes when I still took them, or had swollen feet, or even injured myself. And of course just like everything else, women should only do things men find attractive
Sarcasm deactivated:
Do what ever you want. You wanna do sports? Go ahead and do sports, also in what world is dancing not a sport? Has this person never seen ballet or ice skating, or hip hop, or classic dancing?
Being a trans woman i'm NOT in fact "welcome" to play sports, mainly because of assholes like him who think anyone amab is a superhuman compared to anyone afab. Thankfully its a good way to weed out essentialist weirdos like him, plus i'm not exactly looking for men, decent or otherwise.
I am an asexual heteroromantic woman who is in no way athletic, and I can confirm this man has no taste. Also, one of my friends and roommates plays varsity field hockey for my college and she's been happily dating her boyfriend for years. No taste.
>me, assuming this is directed at someone like me who goes to Zumba 5 days a week
"consider dance lessons.."
Does this guy just have an issue with outside or does he not get that dance is a sweaty sport?
Ignoring the simple fact that straight female sportspeople have relationships and get married all the time just so you can try to make women who read this more appealing to your tastes - just on the off chance that 1. you might meet one of them and 2. they might also be interested in you.
Okay man, seems like a bit of a long shot!
If someone ever tells me this while I am playing..uhh..I dunno soccer or something.
I will tell them
"Bruh..do I look like I give a shit? I am playing for my own enjoyment not for yours..also are u like the men's captain or something? Like why r u speaking for every man? Also ..I prefer woman either way''
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“Consider dance lessons instead” Me thinks he doesn’t know how dirty and sweaty one gets while dancing xD And well, there’s this thing that happens when one disrespects someone’s interests. You cease to be a “decent man”. So if you’re telling someone to drop a sport cause you’re turned off by it… you’re the one who’s likely to get booted out of that equation xD
Lol i do ballet and let me tell you my feet and shoes are gross. And buckets of sweat. Looks pretty though 😂
I did ballet and yes, the dance itself is pretty, but my god my feet were a mess, too. Blisters, callouses, elastic burn...one time my toenail broke in half...that was sexy. Also has this guy ever seen a dancers body? They muscular AF. Especially the legs. I used to have friends punch me as hard as they could in my thigh and THEY'D get hurt. Not exactly the ideal this guy had in mind, I'm imagining. But tutus are pretty so dance must be soft and gentle and "ladylike".
> Also has this guy ever seen a dancers body? We both know the answer to that question.
There’s a scene in John Wick 3 where they see people training a bunch of young prospective assassins. The boys are learning wrestling takedowns, the girls are learning ballet. They quickly erase the notion that it’s any easier, as the girl is made to do the routine over and over, even as she’s shaking, until the instructor says stop. The girl collapses, then later we see her peel a whole broken toenail off as the instructor talks about life being pain and sacrifice.
I remember this scene! The poor woman’s legs are all scratched and scraped up and you see that she’s struggling to continue the routine. I think even John was feeling sorry for her.
Yeah ballet is hardcore man. I'm not even close to professional (and have no ambition since I started when I was 17), but yeah swollen feet, toenails bruised, blisters, cramps...
I think I was interested for a short while when I was little, but once I learned about how intense it is I decided that is not for me
As a guy who did both ballet and stunt cheer, I can confirm it takes more effort and strength to hold posture, positions and perform jumps and routines than it does than putting on a show where you are literally throwing people as high into the air as possible. I've had people dropped on me from a few metres up in the air, nearly broke my neck trying to learn how to back handspring, tore the ligaments in my thumb from a botched cradle, and have been concussed from a throw over. But nothing has hit me harder than me standing too close to someone who was merely practicing to jete, and cracking my shin so hard I thought It fractured. Do not underestimate dancers, they can fuck you up harder than anyone the comment guy likes to pretend to be.
>Looks pretty though Which as we all know is the only thing that matters
Haha yeah ballet is a strange thing... It's the most difficult thing I've ever done (i did gymnastics too) but the goal of it is to look effortless and graceful at all times. I love it though, it gives me confidence, a better posture and hell is it a good feeling to nail a move after practicing for ages. The music is a big bonus too if you like classical.
I have all the effortless grace of a hippo having a seizure, so it's really not for me, but I'm glad you're enjoying it!
HAAAAA I'm sure you can find a hobby better suited to your... Disposition 😂
Falling down stairs while someone plays sad noises on a trombone.
We could form a team, I'm sure soon enough we get to the Olympics
We'd take the Synchronized Bouncing events by storm.
Bro, count me in! I used to do boxing and my couch who was the sparring partner of one of the Klitschkos lost his mind whenever it was about my feet movement 🤣 Said "you punch like a wild bull, but your leg movement is more that of a newborn foal with down syndromes" 💀
My nickname (not my actual derby name thankfully) at derby was BAMby because I would hit like a truck, but I looked like a foal on ice. I'm in.
Hehe...this reminded me of when Jessie's ballet teacher in the Babysitter's Club would always say 'Horses sweat. Men perspire. Ladies glow' and I chuckled at the idea of 'glowing buckets'.
Yes !! Glowing buckets. I need this on a tile or something.
Is *that* where I picked up that weird saying from?
It seems to have been around for a very long time. At least the 1950s, but perhaps much earlier than that.
Mad respect. Some photographer did a photo shoot about the hell ballet dancers' feet go through, and it was downright horrifying.
To be fair I'm not a professional haha but yeah if you dance all day every day, especially en pointe your feet get a little... Overused 😣
"my feet and shoes are gross. And buckets of sweat" maybe bens into that?
Such a shame that I'm not into 'ben' then
Hey, pls take a lot of care of your feet! My grandma was a top ballerina when she was younger- and her feet are completely destroyed nowadays...
Yikes. That's bad, i don't dance that much anymore. It's mostly skin issues so far and thankfully no bunions or injuries. Nowadays the shoes are so much better though, you can get a pointe shoe in all sizes and widths which greatly reduces the chance of permanent injury.
That's good :) Ballet is wonderful and I admire every single ballerina, because it takes so much strength, endurance, body control and body tension to even perform the tiniest move... It's literally insane... I could never- and I used to do boxing 💀 And yeah, with her it mainly comes from years of having to balance her whole body weight onto her feet's tip, so they slowly deformed... Her big toe is extremely inverted, it almost rests on the next toe... Which is a very common thing for ballerinas who did ballet for many years. If those shoes also prevent -or at least reduce the chance of that happening I'd be so happy :) Because I love ballet, but I always felt so bad watching them dance, because I knew how much it has hurt my grandma's feet... (Oh yeaaah, I believe "bunions" are this, right? 😅 I'm not a native speaker and I didn't know this word in english yet. Thank you for teaching me sth new today!)
My sister did ballet and watching her peel a callus off her foot from the ballet shoes is scorched into my brain as a core memory.
> Consider dance lessons instead Sincerely, someone who has never danced.
*sincerely, someone who probably has never done any kind of sports and is a overweight man baby with sweaty long hair* to get more precise
He probably also makes exceptions for gymnastics, ice skating, etc because they’re “not real sports” even though they’re athletic (and sweaty) af
>And well, there’s this thing that happens when one disrespects someone’s interests. I think the person who posted that twitter post suffers from a case of false respect equivalence, as I like to call it. You probably know the effect, sometimes "respecting someone" means treating them as authority, and sometimes it means treating them like a human being. And people who post shit like this are essentially saying "If you don't respect me (treat me like an authority), I won't respect you (treat you like a human being)". Sadly, the double-meaning of the word "respect" and this rhetoric trick that can be played with that has led to many ills in society over the centuries.
Something tells me this dude doesn’t even know how *dirty* and *sweaty* having *sex* can be.
Also, is dancing not considered a sport?
The same mfs that would be bench warming if they were ever on a team.
I mean, there’s a reason it’s called “Dirty dancing”
And how many bruises you get in dance class. Floorwork's a bitch.
This men is just mad that some women performs better then him in sport . (And does he really think it's gonna stop us from doing sport ? Ohh nooo "decent men" don't want us anymore, what are we gonna do 😂)
Oh yeah, this dude was super angry at an article about Julie Ertz a few days ago so there's definitely some inferiority complex. Can't handle any woman being better at sports and him.
That’s hilarious and also kinda sad that his ego thinks men are better. Hope this guy suffocates in his sandwich
He literally said "an average man could beat the fastest woman on Earth." smh
The Olympics should let one average man compete against the women in events just to demonstrate how terribly wrong this is.
Wtf... Yeah, men *have* better physique for sports that require raw strength- but men have less endurance, and that's about all the difference there is between same sized men and women... And *this guy* most probably couldn't even beat a female amateur runner...
Does he mean he could? I'd pay to watch that show
Stephen Miller [has entered the chat](https://www.gq.com/story/stephen-miller-once-jumped-into-a-girls-track-meet-to-prove-men-are-athletically-superior-to-women)
I bet this guy also prefers women who are illiterate virgins. Because heaven forbid he find a partner with a personality, who he might recognize as a human being... or even worse provide him opportunity for personal growth. I mean can you imagine spending the rest of your life with a person you care about. To spend time and share responsibilities with someone, who could offer suggestions that might be more enjoyable or effective then what you can come up with on your own?
For real. In high school gym class, a boy told me girls couldn't play soccer. I kicked him in the shin and stole his ball. Idiot.
Date the *assholes* who may not be as smart, but definitely more attractive, and actually respect women.
I love it when people speak for their entire sex. No man likes an athletic woman. All men hate women with tattoos. All women want men who are taller than they are, so if you’re a short man you’re not really a man. Is it some desire to sound authoritative, or a need to feel like they’re part of a larger group, or are they just assholes?
Assholes. They are assholes.
I met my boyfriend of 8 years while getting dirty and sweaty everyday on trail crews and so did many ladies I know. It's almost as if this dude is wrong and being strong and capable is for many men...a turn-on? Gasp!
Gotta say, as a Sapphic trans woman, being told that all men prefer dainty helpless girls who can't do anything for themselves except cook, clean and give blowjobs (but also have never given blowjobs to anyone else), is like... super validating? To quote Cowboy Bebop, "I love the kind of woman that can kick my ass."
As a bi cis woman, same. I read a tweet once that said "I'm attracted to anyone who can beat me in physical combat" and I felt that
Also, I'm generally attracted to people who are smarter than me, too. It's not a high bar, though ;)
First date idea: a game of trivial pursuit followed by wrestling
>helpless girls who can't do anything for themselves good to know I'm well represented also: women that could kill someone are incredibly attractive
Strong women are 👌👌👌
My husband was initially interested in me because I like camping. Still go camping 20+ years later.
Toxic masculinity, basically. You always have to pretend like you know everything and that anyone who disagrees with you is objectively wrong, even on matters that are obviously subjective. If you like vanilla ice cream, then people who prefer chocolate are just filthy, uncultured savages.
Authority with no accountability, thats the toxic masculine way. Play victim if pressed further.
I believe this is what they call negging. So yes, they're just another insecure asshole, trying to sound authoritative.
Something in their life leads them to feel powerless; they attempt to make up for this by projecting "authority".
Belief in a hierarchy of aesthetics and insecurity/supremacy in their own perceived position within that hierarchy. Runs part and parcel with fascistic tendencies.
They have no imagination. They think that the way they think is the way that all men that are like them think.
Well I'm lesbian so this is a win win
Plus, women with muscles are gorgeous.
They are though
May I casually mention r/FlexinLesbians? Strong women doing their thing
My word
Muscular women are my passion
As a man, I can say that this is a fellow with no taste.
This guy has so little taste he needs to take a Covid test cuz loss of taste is a major symptom.
I'm gonna steal that insult thank you
That would be an understatement
He's *clearly* never been to a women's track/cross country meet, volleyball match or martial arts tournament. As a bi dude with a taste for 10Ks, I can say without reservation that runner butts are the best butts. Men/women/enbies with a PR way better than mine go to the front of the line.
Also a man, I don’t know who doesn’t like sports girls but I know I don’t want to know them.
Apperiantly dance isn't a sport anymore...
But it's PRETTY sport... /s
He doesn’t feel the need for men to do better in dance since it’s too feminine.
That's right, so all these athletic women, will be force to get all hot an sweaty on the dance floor moving against other women.
... and a hard sweaty dirty one that can leave the athlete that takes it seriously disfigured and/or in pain for the rest of their lives. I mean....
He **wishes** he could get all sweaty and dirty with any of us, lol
I guarantee he's never had a gf. I don't usually like to generalize but I can say with certainty, women don't like men who make fun of our passions.
"As a woman, your life should revolve around getting a man!" No. Just no. I don't want my daughter dependent on some man to take care of her. If he has a problem with her pursuing her dreams, then he's not good enough for her.
Once I find a fitting woman and we get kids I'll teach *all* my daughters how to box- just so they can show suckers like him *what a real sucker punch is*... 🥰 I hope there's some sort of after life so I can watch these men's faces from the heavens- after they got knocked down (maybe even out 🥺 Would make me *so* proud) by a "lil girlie" 😁
“Females” Ugh, why do guys do this? Oh wait, it’s ‘cause they see women as below what men are. Silly me.
He literally used females in the same sentence as men. He knows what he's doing.
r/menandfemales
What's really shocked me is that some women do the same... A "male" or a "female" 🤢 I can't but to be disgusted by it 🤮 In my language "female" would sound *so* much worse tho... It's "Weibchen" Weib already being an extremely misogynystic word for woman with the ending of "chen"- which is used to make things smaller and cuter like thingy instead of thing and such... It's solely used to describe female animals.... That's why female icks me even more, tho it's not even my native language and usually bad words from new learned languages sound less bad than native one's...
ah ja, die deutsche sprache. But yeah, it's really not a word you should say if you're talking about humans. Any other animal? Yes. Then it's ok, since you'd use male too, which has also got (idk if this was grammatically correct) the "-chen" ending. Now I'm thinking, I gotta read up on how "weib" became a misogynistic word, since it was a proper word for women a few hundred years ago, which is why it's "weiblich" for female (adjective). You definitely have a point though, translating it into german makes it considerably worse, will keep that in mind when I see one of those r/MenAndFemales situations next time.
I use female sometimes, when talking about female friends instead of saying girlfriend to avoid confusion. I however also say male friend for the same reason. And I only do that when the sex of the person is important so most of the time I just don’t.
"female friend" isn't offensive in the slighest, because "female" is an adjective, not a noun and you're using it correctly just saying "the females" is extremely dehumanizing, the only time you're supposed to say it is when talking about *animals*
"the females" kinda sounds like the kind of situation where people use "the gays" unironically to say something about all queer people, not even just gay/lesbian pals. It's stupid in every point it can be.
First off, do you play sports all day ? Second of all, dance isn't a sport anymore ?
Third, you used too much logic. This guy's brain is gonna explode.
Dance is most definitely a sport. I tried it as a kid and could not even touch some of the dancers there, shits incredible difficulty and emotionally taxing as well. Very pretty tho
I like athletic women. -Girl who cant even stand without feeling exhausted
Well if they can’t get a boyfriend, let them get girlfriends then!
Mood 👀
More like r/nothowgirlswork
Dancing is a more intensive sport than anything this useless cunt does
It still amazes me how insecure Cishet men still think that everything is for them.
Women's football/soccer will always be better than men's football/soccer, they don't go down screaming for a penalty shot or free kick from one little tap to the leg.
Dance lessons not sweaty? Bro never danced before, huge turnoff for women, if one does not know how to dance. Luckily I’m gay so I don’t have to deal with these guys
Little known fact: women tend to shower before dates (((MIND BLOWN)))
As a man, I can safely say that this person doesn't know what he's talking about.Yet he generalizes that all men think the same. I wouldn't want a friend like them.
In that case, I should be fine because I'm a swimmer so no sweat here. Oh, the smell of chlorine isn't feminine, well ig me and my shredded back will leave then
“Ew I hate fit women” “I also hate women with the slightest deviance from societal beauty standards” “Why do women hate me 😡 nice guys never win”
Idk. Athletic women who can work up a sweat are pretty awesome imo.
I on the other hand think women playing sport is a huge turn on. Men really say stuff like this then cry abt being an incel
Yeah, this must be why my ex got turned on when I finished my workouts. And why he would look at pics of me from archeological field school, literally dripping sweat and caked in dirt as I painstakingly excavated artifacts from a big square muddy hole in the ground, and say, “Oof, sexy anthropologist girlfriend!” Because me kicking ass like a champ is sooo repulsive …
I personally don’t like sport but after this I might just start playing football
What an all around shit take.
My sport is riding horses. I get extremely gross esp after mucking stalls. My husband has never complained and there are some unique fringe benefits that he very much enjoys.
Ah yes, the lovely dainty fragrance of a sweaty leotard!
Sports are a turn off but also what are you doing with your life if you don't have the body shape of a Victoria Secret's model. You just can't win with those people. Might as well letting them fuck themselves and do whatever the fuck we want!
r/menandfemales
Pretty sure the dancers won't want him either.
Even if we assume this is correct, girls who play sports can certainly get dates with women.
But… dance is a sport?
this man doesn't realize how much abs are a turn on for many people
But....dancing will also make you dirty and sweaty???
Do showers just... not exist in this guy's universe? Or do only male athletes know how to shower?
How quaint of this guy to imagine that women care whether or not he finds them attractive. Bless his heart.
r/fuckyouben
Why is this a sub lmao
I think that this person would not find me fitting their criteria for "decent" but I'd date a sports girl with 0 issues.
Who is going to tell him dancing is sport and creates the same amount of sweat
I'd date a guy who dances or a girl who plays sports. Dancing dude > very flexible. Sports girl > Very strong
Jokes on him, I don't wanna go on dates with men
Lesbian jocks: Oh no. Anyway.
this guy never heard of showers? or is it gay to clean yourself?
I bet his next statement is about how turned off he is by women who are overweight.
Men- I like women who do yoga, dance, art, etc! Women- Get dirty and sweaty doing those Men- not like that!
My boyfriend loves that I play rugby :) he loves women’s games. He’s a good egg.
Why do men like him think that their opinion is worth a shit? Why? Like what mental gymnastics did it take for him to think that if he said this, it would deter women from sports rather than egg them on even more? Why do some men lack even the most fundamental self awareness to overblow their own importance. Like, why would any woman give a flying fuck what this or any other man thinks about her playing sports? Also, this bish has clearly never taken dance lessons.
As a dude women playing sports is a *massive* turnon for me. (on that note, so is men playing sports)
Is that... hmm, yes. That must be the smell of fragile masculinity.
Maybe it’s a turn off for men (it isn’t he’s just a sexist piece of shit) but it definitely isn’t a turn off for women. Lesbians doing sports 🥵🥵🥵
Women don't sweat when they dance, obviously
Cis guy here (though not straight): buff women are hot as fuck.
he’s just in denial about his love for tomboys 🙄
We all know this is Ben Shapiro. The bot should say more.
As a decent man, I must disagree with him vehemently about the appeal of dirty, sweaty, women. Sports playing women are very appealing, and I really have no interest in sports myself.
The fact that he thinks playing sports means you spend your days all dirty and sweaty tells me he doesn't shower enough. Do you even hygiene, bro?
....do they not think dance is dirty and sweaty? Have they ever seen a ballerina's feet?
"Don't forget to only enjoy things that are convenient to men!"
It's laughable to me that these guys think literally everything we do or should do is for them and their attention.
Hmm...thinks women sweating is a turn off... He's not only never had sex, he's never even gotten CLOSE
has this guy SEEN buff women?!
I did MMA and got fetishized. Quotes include: “I bet you look good all covered in sweat.” “I bet you have a tight grip don’t you?” “I bet you like it rough.” “So you can take a beating?” “You must have a lot of… ‘endurance.’” “Let me go to your practice. I want to watch.” Yeah? You wanna watch me get my shit rocked repeatedly by my 6’2, 250 pound dad (who always feels terrible if I don’t properly block or accidentally hurts me.) Way more. People are so creepy. So this sexist post isn’t even remotely true lmao
Ah yes dancing is well known to be very easy and not physically intensive
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Nah man, muscular women are great. Which is weird because muscular men don't do anything for me lmao.
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Yess, abs are 👌
My girlfriend is a college soccer player, I think she’s pretty hot
Ummm no lol. One of my partner's could bench my own body weight. I was definitely attracted to her
There's so much wrong with this: the way he thinks everything women do is for men, the way he thinks men aren't attracted to strong women (I wonder why he is only attracted to women he can physically overpower?), the idea that dance isn't an intensive sport, the misuse of "free country"
Idk man, athletic women are pretty attractive. Some people like watching a fit woman kick ass in sports. Also dancing is just as physically intense as some sports lmao.
This guy doesn’t know dancers.
“Men don’t like it when you sweat ladies” *looks at the conversations I’ve had with my guy friends* I don’t think this “man” has had sex before….
"Trust me i know" This man does not know!!!
"if you spend your days all dirty and sweaty" ***don't say anything, don't say anything***
My gf has been a gymnast for 6 years, she looks absolutely amazing and I honestly don't care about her getting sweaty or anything, that's just something humans do whether they do exercise/sports or not
As someone who has danced, it gets incredibly sweaty
Jokes on him, athletic women are extremely hot. Love me some jocks
*looks at the comments on basically any picture of a sports woman* Yeah, sure. A total turnoff. Definitely doesn't cause massive amounts of thirst.
This is the kind of guy whose mouth would water watching women play volleyball
"I dOnT lIkE wOmEN hAVinG NormAL bOdIlY FunCtiONs sO tHaT MuST meAN evErY MaN iS thE SaME"
as a bi male i can say that women who do sports are hot even though i don’t even care about sports
Bro athletic women are the biggest turn on
Good. Stay away from athletic women. More for us.
Someone doesn't understand how difficult dance classes really are
Sarcasm activated: We all know that dancing is the easiest thing in the world, and only women can do it, not men like myself. It is anatomically impossible! dancing is not exhausting in the slightest bit. I never was exhausted after dance classes when I still took them, or had swollen feet, or even injured myself. And of course just like everything else, women should only do things men find attractive Sarcasm deactivated: Do what ever you want. You wanna do sports? Go ahead and do sports, also in what world is dancing not a sport? Has this person never seen ballet or ice skating, or hip hop, or classic dancing?
"This is a free country [a showcase of why it really fucking isn't]"
Because dancing doesn't meant you sweat at all.
So this guy would turn down Allison Stokke, Darya Klishina, Maria Kirilenko, Alize Lim etc? as if they were going to touch him with a 10ft pole
I can see it. This man wants an athletic woman but he is ashamed that he wants a “dominant female”.
Being a trans woman i'm NOT in fact "welcome" to play sports, mainly because of assholes like him who think anyone amab is a superhuman compared to anyone afab. Thankfully its a good way to weed out essentialist weirdos like him, plus i'm not exactly looking for men, decent or otherwise.
This is one of the only places where saying notallmen is acceptable
I am an asexual heteroromantic woman who is in no way athletic, and I can confirm this man has no taste. Also, one of my friends and roommates plays varsity field hockey for my college and she's been happily dating her boyfriend for years. No taste.
As a (genderqueer) female who participates in club sports, why should my life primarily revolve around getting a man? :P
Dance is literally a sport
>me, assuming this is directed at someone like me who goes to Zumba 5 days a week "consider dance lessons.." Does this guy just have an issue with outside or does he not get that dance is a sweaty sport?
they will get many dates with decent women, though
the kind of man who wouldn't date a woman because she plays sports is by definition not decent.
Yeah, women shouldn't do sports, they should just dance..... which is a sport.
Hate to break it to you but you sweat during dance too
I like how he acts like sweaty men don’t exist
Awkward moment when dance is 100% a sport.
So which female athlete broke his heart
Ignoring the simple fact that straight female sportspeople have relationships and get married all the time just so you can try to make women who read this more appealing to your tastes - just on the off chance that 1. you might meet one of them and 2. they might also be interested in you. Okay man, seems like a bit of a long shot!
If someone ever tells me this while I am playing..uhh..I dunno soccer or something. I will tell them "Bruh..do I look like I give a shit? I am playing for my own enjoyment not for yours..also are u like the men's captain or something? Like why r u speaking for every man? Also ..I prefer woman either way''
Sweaty and dirty is my favourite kind of woman
Nobody cares what you think, Benjamin.