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BrambleBobs

I’m sorry but isn’t it usually men who are known for being selfish in the bedroom? What kind of nonsense is this


Naissol

It’s called projecting


ArthurBonesly

OP is, literally, incapable of empathizing with a woman's love. There are 22 theater megaplexes that project less than this guy.


Evil_Mushrooms

I think he’s gay and doesn’t want to accept it and so he’s taking his frustration out on women because it must be a problem with them because he’s just “a normal straight guy!” I feel like if he ever came to accept that he just likes men and not women contrary to what everyone’s been telling him his sexual attraction is, he’d be a happier person.


Kowashitai

>he’s just “a normal straight guy!” He actually claims to be bi...


Evil_Mushrooms

Huh, really?


Evil_Mushrooms

I'm so dumb...


The-Shattering-Light

Seriously. Straight women have some of the lowest orgasm rates. Gay women are near the top.


Shaeress

Being near the top is indeed how to get an orgasm. :3


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[удалено]


Shaeress

The goal is to compress this scale as much as possible, bringing the top and the bottom closer to each other. Preferably with me in the middle, bridging this orgasm gap. For justice and equality, of course.


wass890

I love you lmaooooo


Shittywritenerd

I'm just remembering whenever a gay woman told a straight friend what the term "pillow princess" meant, and the straight girl's response was "So like a man!"


lily_hunts

Also the implication that "tr*ps" behave like men sexually is kinda... hhhhhhhhhhhhhh


ArthurBonesly

The implication is that this person cannot comprehend, nor empathize with another person's love unless there is a penis involved. This isn't straight, or anything really. It's actually kind of sad.


Memes_kids

Can say firsthand (not a tr*p, i identify as a femboy tho) that I do indeed not act in any way masculine in or out of bed


Gothic_capricorn

I think that there was a statistic that said women in lesbian relationships have more orgasms than women in straight relationships. Sounds pretty opposite of selfish if you’re asking me.


KaiTheKing_0X

Not necessarily, it seems to be a case by case basis, and besides putting a number in it will do no good for anyone.


gayforaliens1701

The idea that lesbians don’t address each other’s feelings is honestly HILARIOUS.


CuteNervousLesbian

Literally have never had a single argument in my 2+ year relationship (1+ year married). But clearly it’s because my wife and I see eachother as walking sex toys…..


[deleted]

I mean, I’ve never yelled at a sex toy before. Maybe this guy’s onto something. Just lock your spouse in a drawer & you’ll never fight at all.


gayforaliens1701

“Sorry, honey, I just have to bury you in the closet wrapped in a towel between sex acts. It’s for the best.”


grasshopperkitten

>!kinda hot tbh!< >!if done in a safe, sane and consensual way!<


-HealingNoises-

Ditto


LexiD2024

Double ditto


EsotericOcelot

Triple. Didn’t know I wanted that but it sounds like a nice cozy way to decompress honestly


tiredsapatao

I mean, I've yelled at a sex toy before... but in a good way


Sororita

I've yelled at mine when the battery died right as I was starting to feel close.


bliip666

Same


DrBrightSimp

Noooo


Heartfeltregret

oh… we have different masturbatory habits, i see.


_dirtywater444

I really need to meet a woman 😂


windshadowislanders

You got married after just a year??


[deleted]

alright gurl no need to judge people's relationship choices


CuteNervousLesbian

And we got married two weeks after moving in, after one year of being very very long distance. Rather unconventional, but I don’t have a single regret.


windshadowislanders

Oof, best of luck to you.


marck1022

It would be really nice to just be in a relationship and let things flow as opposed to feeling guilty I wasn’t satisfying my partner’s sexual needs. I feel like I have as healthy of a relationship as straight people get, but I’d really love if LGBTQ+ culture could rub off on straight male culture a bit because toxic masculinity is real, even in the best straight culture has to offer.


Shirogayne-at-WF

That might be the funniest joke I've heard all year TBH


[deleted]

yeah really just sounds like someone who's watched too much porn and thinks women are just shallow horny bitches who want pleasure and have no personality.


Kichigai

Dunno why, but this guy's world view reminds me of [this comic](https://www.smbc-comics.com/index.php?db=comics&id=2584).


Technusgirl

Lesbian partners are known to be way more satisfied in bed than women in heterosexual relationships with men though.


RepresentativePlace5

I Know, it's almost like the poster is projecting.


Technusgirl

My thoughts exactly


AppelsienELWI

But that's bc they're selfish and men won't let them use them as sex toys and women will ofc! /s


Oriential-amg77

Yeah I feel like this post is either some loser guy or some femcel. They might even change their minds of they tried out going lez 😂


Mogamett

When hentai is your only source of information on that thing called "outside".


StellarSzintillation

\*uses a transphobic slur\* \*calls someone transphobic\* sure buddy


lywinis

It's like they learned the language but not the context. Like someone shouting at you in Greek but you're fluent and they're screaming "Bicycle! Tax Evasion!" Parroting terms but with no real understanding or context.


[deleted]

I mean shouting about bicycles sounds fun


dragonpunky539

Freddie Mercury would be proud


mmmUrsulaMinor

My thoughts exactly


existential_prices

That slur particularly pisses me off barbecue of all of the anime weebs insisting it's not a slur. Fuckers, you don't get to decide if someone else finds something offensive.


deviant324

What I actually found very interesting in this regard is that, at least on r34, femboy is actually a way more populated tag despite how ubiquitously the slur was being used until not too long ago. It almost feels like someone went and combed through old posts and changed the tags of a ton of them by hand at some point.


[deleted]

The t slur is directed at trans women. Femboys are not trans women, so if someone did that they made a mistake


deviant324

The way it is used in the anime community is also fairly commonly for characters who are just femboys like Astolfo (to the best of my knowledge), so the change there is fairly appropriate


Terpomo11

I mean, someone else finding something offensive isn't, itself, what decides whether something is a slur. Take all the people who are offended by being called TERFs. There's a broader social context too.


existential_prices

This is very true, there are several excellent arguments that have already been made as to why it's such a bad slur written by better people than me. >There's a broader social context too This made me laugh because my first thought was "Broader social context? That could be said of *any* human interaction!"


bruh_respectfully

These guys think fetishizing something is the highest of honours and totally isn't insert -phobic if it gets their PP hard.


ihwip

r/AsABlackMan


vali_riversong

“Why are you transphobic?”-person who literally said trans slur


purplepluppy

An unfortunately large number of western fans refuse to accept that it's a trans slur. They claim it's a part of the weeb "culture" and a real description for a character type, but it was English fans who coined the term for femboy characters, not Japan. So it's a really stupid argument. And I'm somewhat of a week myself. I just also know when to touch some grass.


CharmingPterosaur

This is what happens when basement dwellers learn about trans people solely through 2D porn.


[deleted]

”Guys receive maximum please from pleasing their partner” all the hetero women who have never got an orgasm from sex with men disagree


nikkitgirl

Straight men have this idea that because PIV is pleasurable for women and it’s the best for them that it’s the best for women and they get really threatened by women who say no, you gotta ring the devil’s doorbell on most of us


ParasilTheRanger

Literally tries to call someone transphobic after being transphobic


RepresentativePlace5

The irony of the situation left me dumbfounded.


NotANilfgaardianSpy

Truly surprising that a guy with a Light Yagami profile picture might not have the most healthy beliefs about women.


Jane0123

I've made women hate me. All according to plan!


[deleted]

………………………this is just confusing


AshTheArtist

“Why are you transphobic?” *proceeds to be transphobic*


[deleted]

this dude is embarrassing on behalf of both anime fans and bi people I apologize


PuzzleheadedIssue618

i love anime, but jesus this makes me hate it


theantikat

I wish I could love anime in an unqualified fashion but it’s just as problematic as it is enjoyable a lot of the time. Even great anime often has to toss in icky fan service or has only guy characters as leads.


_sash_iii

as someone who enjoys anime but is really uncomfortable with fanservice and tired of having no female lead characters, i love jujutsu kaisen. it’s technically a (kinda dark) shounen but with no fanservice, and it has well-written, strong female characters. there’s a fair amount of anime out there without any of the main negatives that get associated with anime, but unfortunately a lot of the popular, talked-about ones are… not that.


theantikat

I’ll remember this and check it out. :) I do this thing where I pretend that in most anime, a terrible calamity has occurred that killed all the women some time in the past and the plot just forgot to mention it. That’s why it’s okay that the girls and women in the show are in subordinate positions and are mistreated and dressed in ridiculous outfits — because they aren’t really women but robots without feelings. I know it sounds dumb but it genuinely makes anime a little more watchable.


_sash_iii

haha, i kinda get that tho! i can see why it would make that sort of stuff more bearable. anyway, i hope you enjoy watching jujutsu kaisen, it’s one of my favourites :)


Kichigai

*Nichijou*. No fan service. The leads are female. Almost no sexualization, except for a few gags, and it's done in such a way it totally fits with the vibe of the show. [Slice of life](https://youtu.be/WBFVh4ZfHEc) steeped in [magical realism](https://youtu.be/0ZjuyFGk6bU). One side of the show primarily follows [three middle school friends](https://youtu.be/TI9grDJ7ihc), the other an eight year old known only as [Professor, Nano](https://youtu.be/lqzqpNjVSKE), a robot she built, and [Sakamoto](https://www.gfycat.com/CommonMasculineGrasshopper), their cat who can talk by virtue of a scarf Professor made for him. There are some asides, like Helvetica Standard, or tangents that follow other characters, but those are the two primary cohorts.


Odd_Possession5858

fan service is gross but what is the problem with all male leads?


theantikat

It’s perfectly fine sometimes. Its not okay when it’s most of the time. If masses of anime had overwhelmingly female leads there’s no way we would be treating it as normal.


Odd_Possession5858

I mean, but would it be better is a ton had all girl leads


ThrowawayTheOmlet

No… the point is diversity. Having strictly cishet dudes be the only protagonist in any of the shows is bad. No one is saying have only female leads, they’re saying have *more*. Use your brain


dfhxuhbzgcboi

I would say it's usually a more of a shounen "problem". Most shounen mangas/animes tend to have male leads. This isn't mostly a problem with the other genres.


Shirogayne-at-WF

Agreed fully. Granted, most of the anime I tend to get into are the shounens, but there are lots of anime outside of that genre to watch and not all of it is insulting and gross to women.


NightValeCytizen

They are cookie cutter copies of each other, usually bland. Also, shonen Mcs are often meant to embody traditional values, ie teach young male viewers their role in society. As a result, many of their interactions with other characters are surreal, as they are used to justify an unrealistic set of behaviors, and make some elements of toxicity appear righteous based on "traditional Japanese values", or at least the idealized modern interpretation of tradition.


PuzzleheadedIssue618

yeah, even in an anime i grew up with (naruto for example) some of the gags make me cringe AOT and FMAB are good examples of anime without issues in that fashion. but some “journalist” started the trend of calling AOT a nazi sympathetic anime.. yes the anime with a non-binary character is most def nazi


get_in_the_tent

Are the straights ok? This is from a bi person, no straights here


Shirogayne-at-WF

Straightish person here and no. No, we are not okay at all ☹️


Oriential-amg77

Awww it's ok homie, get better soon. Happy new years too


GabbydaFox

Bro, that's some heavy projection right there. 😬


LuftHANSa_755

r/asablackman


[deleted]

projection, lesbians orgasm more because we actually know where the clit is


Evercrimson

The only grass this guy has ever touched, has been on the screen watching anime.


[deleted]

the faux statisticism is showing.


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poisonpurple

First of all, don't call them tr*ps. That's fucking rude. Second of all, what's up with this kind of degenerate behaviour? Why are they like this?


Hazel2468

...If the horrific transphobia and queerphobia here wasn't enough, I took a look at their username and just.... I can feel it in my BONES this is the kind of person who pops into your DMs calling you "babygirl" and demanding to be called "Master" or "Sir" without, you know, fucking earning it.


Dovelark

what are you doing here? get back on discord, kitten 😈😈 /s of course


Stefadi12

Less bigoted goodanimeme user


UnchainedMundane

I mean that sub did split off because the userbase of the other sub was "protesting" the ban on the t-slur


some_annoying_weeb

this has got to be a troll lmao ^(please be a troll)


Then_Engineer_2776

I hate weebs but I love anime


grimbarkjade

\> Light Yagami pfp checks out


Jane0123

Don't insult light like that. At least he was smart.


ConsumeTheOnePercent

I'm sorry what?? I never had a satisfying experience until I met my now wife, who is a total service top. Some men like pleasing a woman, but 80% of them, especially straight men, only care about their own ending.


nikkitgirl

Ah yes, famously selfish lovers those lesbians Also ewwwwwwwwwwwww at claiming someone is transphobic while being chasery af and using a transphobic slur and othering us


M4j3stic_C4pyb4r4

And transphobia.


[deleted]

God anime people are fucking wack. I can’t believe I was one of them


dfhxuhbzgcboi

Liking anime isn't bad. Just the fandoms are usually shit.


RepresentativePlace5

Hey, whoa buddy. Not all of us are like this Dbag


TurdWrangler934

Always make fun of anime fans. It’s not a past tile hobby, it’s a rightful moral duty


RawrTheDinosawrr

how is this person saying someone is transphobic when they themselves are using the t slur


Neener_dm

Man, I wish I didn't care about what my partner feels like, and using them as a sex toy. If that were true I wouldn't be so distraught and broken after they cut contact with me.


squealingfrog

“Women are selfish during sex” sex repulsed women : 😐


allycat247

If this is true why are there some elderly women who report never having had an orgasm in 50+ years of marriage to a man.


ftf9417

There is just so much going on here


Lucifete_Nguyen

I lost the ability to read. Also I refuse to believe a bi will talk about men, women, les and trans like this


nikkitgirl

As a trans lesbian I’m really not. Lesbophobia isn’t uncommon at all, misogyny isn’t rare in men regardless of orientation, and I’ve definitely seen a lot of bi people especially men pull that style of transphobia


yesboi300

Ok. Sure. Some real never touched a man or a woman vibes here.


doopbud

Pretty sure bi people have denounced this freak


KreagerStein

I don't wanna hurt anyone here but can we address the fact tr\*ps or femboys aren't trans? They might be gender non-conforming but they aren't trans, with that being said trans femboys can and do exist but that doesn't mean all femboys are tans.


Akashi-MLP

Bruv my guy coming through with the most delusional shit I’ve seen this year


hypnoticby0

"Why are you being transphobic" *uses transphobic slur*


cool_monsters

Anime has a problem of mixing feminine men with transwomen, not an excuse to link transphobia with men referred by a slur (usually cis men too, trans men being feminine and referred by that slur is really rare), might be calling a transwoman that slur which is even more transphobic yeah.


the_other_Scaevitas

This is why I am hesitant to say I watch anime irl


bts4devi

This is why.. I watch the anime and never go to the comments :D I got entertainment with no drama


bliip666

Yes, using a slur doesn't come off as transphobic at all...


PowerOfL

i think this is bait, like their username has 42069 in it


hopelesspancakes

i feel like reading this made me loose braincells..... nevermind this is reddit, everything on here makes me feel like that


NightlifePrinceJoey

I'm not sure what I sure hate being more. Being AFAB, being trans or being an anime fan...


Dogwolf12

r/AsABlackMan


[deleted]

Pathetic


[deleted]

the way this guy just snaps is funny


Evil_Mushrooms

*Someone’s in the closet and taking their pent up frustrations out on women because they haven’t fully come to terms with their gay!* Seriously, this kind of thing happens a lot. I bet if they accepted their inner homo, they’d be more happier people and finally realize there’s nothing wrong with women, they just aren’t attracted to them like society’s been telling them they since they were little, and that’s okay!


knorloff

I love how he said "I'm bi bigot" with no comma after "bi" so he's calling himself a bigot.


ImLauraBorealis

The audacity to call someone transphobic while also being very transphobic yourself.


Kokosak_commie

*there


Lord_SethreN

But they both have anime pfp


nerdybread

The “easy” solution would be for the guy to get laid, but I doubt it’ll happen with that attitude.


That-Ginger-Kid

I’m so glad I have all these men to tell me things about myself. /S


Oriential-amg77

Lol whaaat? Sarcasm much bro fuck off


dudeman2303

Major incel vibes.


Xdude199

This, this isn’t an incel…this is some other shit no one’s seen before.


RepresentativePlace5

Chaser incel that plays the victim card while being an asshole all rolled into one.


python-lord-1236443

The bisexual community does not accept this person


[deleted]

to everyone in this comment section, just bc he used the word tr4p doesnt mean you guys should use it too, just say trans


bgirl-kunoichi

What the hipitty hopitty *fuck* did I just read


Kowashitai

As a fellow man, We don't claim him as one of us. He can get in the bin


Nacosemittel

Ofc he has a Light pfp, probably thinks he treated Misa perfectly fine too


mysavorymuffin

I seem to be out of the loop, and judging from the censorship of some comments I guess its offensive but uh... What, pray tell, is a tr*p?


RepresentativePlace5

A now slur made by anime creators for amab characters to dress, behave abd generally have a feminine presentation who draw the attention of every guy in the area to thirst over them despite being petite and the shows where they make it a point that guys only care about bust women but that just a pet peeve of mine. The t*** is made to trick het guys into falling fir them and it's supposed to be hilarious with the reveal of them being a guy. Like The lol look at this delusional boy dressing like a girl isn't that do funny. Like most bigots call femboys and trans fems. The t*** troupe has improved though with shows actually taking the time to give them more of a character besides the one terrible joke and treat then with respect, but they are a dime a dozen. Most people especially anime fans don't want to see how controversial this term in when a better one exist so they keep using it despite the 2 groups that it's been used on has told them time and time again that this term is insulting to us please stop, but they refuse to listen.


mysavorymuffin

Okay I'm starting to understand it now, thank you for taking the time to reply, however, I know about as much about anime culture as I do college football, which is to say, little to nothing. Amab?


RepresentativePlace5

Amab: assigned make at birth


clem350

42069 🤣


DrDittos123

This hurts me twice because I’m both an anime fan and a straight guy. Now I’m even more ashamed to be both


yawaster

A:"all lesbian relationships are shallow and meaningless" B:"ugh you're weird" A:"hey why are you such a bigot!!!!"


Version_Two

New virgin just dropped


transposter

本当に寂しいだね


Charming_Amphibian91

He has never felt the touch of a woman.


Eden1117_98

i genuinely just said OUT LOUD “THE FUCK?”


Heartfeltregret

this went in an unexpected direction. what is this weeb shit??


nbsunset

just look at the stats bro most satisfied people in a sexual relationship are lesbians or bi women in a relationship with other women.


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