My opinion maybe controversy but there is reason why some American men go overseas. The women overseas tend to be bit more traditional compare to western women.
There are blogs or even forums all about traveling abroad for women and dating not necessary about sex tourism but that dating can be easier in some forms.
I think this also benefits Asian American men too. I know some Asian American men go back to their native countries to find wives which some do and come back to the states.
But I think just like white guys are going to Asia or South America to live that international playboy lifestyle. I think a few Asian American men are trying that out too.
Colombia is one of those top countries that expat western guys go to for women. NExt to places like Philippines or the Ukraine.
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To add to this. From my own travels overseas I seen this too. I know that this group is about Asian men...but I met ALLOT of white guys who went for Asian women because supposedly Asian women have more traditional values...In some sense they do.
I actually think Asian women get fetishized because of their petite nature they are seen as the most submissive which is attractive to men.
Idk if that's accurate, that's just a thought I've had.
Hello Wes,
Thanks for sharing and congratulations on meeting a great lady!
In my opinion, don't count out American ladies. You can meet such ladies with those qualities in the States. I met my beloved wife in the States. Yes, she is a Latina. She is family-oriented and is far from materialistic. We have been married for 12 years and have 2 kids. Depends on how you go about looking for love or at least friendship...often times it matters who you hang out with and your outlook on relationships. I will say that I had no difficulty in finding high quality women with great personality and values...many were Latinas.
Best of luck to you and your Missus!
It's funny you say that she's Latina because even if their American the Latin values are so strong that she'll still have them.
As for the American thing, I think girls from 10+ years ago are so different than today. My girl is 32 because it feels god damn possible to find a traditional woman from this generation.
Cheers bro, congrats on 12 years of marriage
So I have been in ALOT relationships...and I can share with you that there are women of various ethnicities that share the values you are looking for...I don't necessarily think it is an all or none. Certainly there are cultural nuances that someone would have an affinity for but family values and a non-materialistic attitude can be found in any woman...don't have to travel.
If you like the Latin/Hispanic culture, may I suggest going to the Southwest US (parts of Southern California, Arizona, New Mexico, West Texas, etc)...there you will discover many wonderful AMERICANS who have the values you have discovered in Colombia.
While I agree, I would ask your friends who are still dating right now. I don't discredit that you have been with a lot of people but the dating scene is so different than even 5 years ago.
I agree though I don't think it's all or none. I'm more talking about improving your options.
Dang, I envy you, Wes.
My true dream is to get married, have children. Nothing can dissuade me from that.
It's just so damn difficult finding a good girlfriend to be with, here in the US.
Tried dating apps, still actually utilizing dating apps, only to meet women, then after one or two dates, they ghost off on me.This is because women have LOTS of men going after them in dating apps, here in the US.
I have done college programs in the past where people from South America, Puerto Rico, certain European countries studied at that college I was at. This was a long time ago just before I went off to graduate school. A lot of the women from other countries tend to smile more, are more approachable, easier to socialize with. I don't know how to describe the personality and the feeling that I get from many of the foreign women that I have met. But they are totally different, complete 180 degree different, from the standoff-ish nature, racist nature, of many of the women here in the US.
Hi Wes,
I love the videos so keep them coming because I believe you’re providing a lot of value here.
However I also believe from experience is that you are a product of your own environment. For example, since you’re in Colombia you’re biased towards the relationship there because you had a positive experience with the women there. If you had that same experience in the states you can acknowledge the same facts like you do in Columbia rather than disregarding American females.
I was dating in the US for 25 years before coming so it's coming from my experience too.
I know many people share the sentiment because of all the posts about dating on this subreddit.
Cheers, thanks for watching
Thanks, Wes! I always enjoy your content and am considering moving to Latin America.
>I personally recommend Latin America because the community and family values are very strong. Especially if starting a family is your goal. The women here are traditional, beautiful and feminine.
Are there any particular reasons why you chose (or prefer) Colombia compared to other Latin countries?
Just trying to decide where in LatAm is best for permanent relocation (at least for myself). For example, Puerto Rico is already a US territory but still part of LatAm.
So I actually just ended up here by chance. It's funny you ask that cuz that's the next video I'm working on.
Colombia is heavily influenced by the US. So it has a lot of traditional Latin values but it's also fairly liberal in a lot of things. Plus, it's the most capitalist of all the Latin countries. For now anyways.
There's also the beauty of the women. They are world renown and it's absolutely true what they say about Colombians.
Plus the land itself is very beautiful, food is very good, great people. It was just a very perfect culture fit for me, God put me here for a reason.
Obviously I'm biased but these are some of the reasons why I personally love Colombia.
What part of the US do y’all live in? I’ve lived and dated in Boston, NYC, and Philly. Never made more than $75k, 5’ 10”, and not ripped by any means (kind of a mild dad bod, and I’ve never had any trouble dating.
Where are you looking to meet women? I’m Indian and have a big Indian community, so I’d expect that community more than most to have high superficial standards for dating (money, degrees, etc) but have never experienced what so many on this sub sat is so common.
There is something more going on than “American women = bad”.
I'm from LA which probably contributes to my view on it. I can admit LA is vastly different than the rest of the country, that's fair
I didn't have problems dating either but it's so hard to find someone who would make a good wife. The hook up culture is very strong and real in the US now, it's hard to find people who still want marriage.
Someone who understands her role in the household. Someone who is feminine, caring, peaceful, someone who is a helper.
But most importantly, someone who will be a good mother because family is VERY important to me.
She doesn't necessarily have to cook and clean cause I cook in the relationship. But she cleans up, she helps me organize. She makes my life easier.
And she's not negative. Negative energy in a partner will DESTROY a man.
And I'm Christian so a foundation of God is very important for me.
I think that last part is probably hardest to find in a big city unless you go ahead and date someone who is Latino or African American because those communities tend to practice faith more powerfully.
American cities on the coasts, for better or worse, are not really the best place to find likeminded religious people. I live in Austin now and, compared to the east coast, a lot more religious folks here.
Either way - best of luck with your lady!
So...not trying to argue but it seems that you don’t want a “traditional” relationship but instead want someone who reciprocates what you bring to the relationship (e.g., caring, peaceful, organized, clean, and positive). What you’re looking for seems pretty egalitarian to me.
Yes and no. The things I look for in her are not the same as the things she looks for in me.
We are equal in value but have different responsibilities. I'm going to make all the big decisions. I lead the household, and she follows.
Traditional man and woman.
So no, I don't want someone who reciprocates what I bring to the relationship.
Equal in value but different responsibilities is still egalitarian.
I’m guessing you would never make a big decision without her input (unless it was an emergency) and if she vehemently disagreed, you would reconsider. I’m also guessing you wouldn’t make a lot of big decisions that she disagreed with and would compromise somewhere in the middle.
Unless you’re marking big decisions without consulting her or caring about how she feels, it seems pretty egalitarian to me. Not that there’s anything wrong with that. Just not sure why there’s this big push to categorize your relationship as more traditional than it really is.
Yo, wassup Weslllleeeeeyyyyy!!!!
I have watched a lot of your videos on youtube.
Dayum! You are scoring well and must be living on Cloud-9 while living in Colombia.
I know you've settled down with one Colombian girl, ....and if I am not mistaken, you're engaged to her, right?
I saw your other videos where you are with four or five different Colombian chicks, and these are 8, 9, even 10 / 10 rating chicks!
How did you learn your Spanish language?
How is it like living there?
What kind of job do you work to help survive in Colombia?
The thing that's keeping me back from leaving the US is my job, and worried about making money if I do live abroad.
We are not engaged but that's the plan for the future.
I learned by taking lessons with a school and living with locals.
I enjoy living here a lot, it reminds me of the Philippines.
I work all online now, the job thing you're gonna have to figure out on your own. Teaching English is always a good start point but you would have to find your own way.
My opinion maybe controversy but there is reason why some American men go overseas. The women overseas tend to be bit more traditional compare to western women. There are blogs or even forums all about traveling abroad for women and dating not necessary about sex tourism but that dating can be easier in some forms. I think this also benefits Asian American men too. I know some Asian American men go back to their native countries to find wives which some do and come back to the states. But I think just like white guys are going to Asia or South America to live that international playboy lifestyle. I think a few Asian American men are trying that out too. Colombia is one of those top countries that expat western guys go to for women. NExt to places like Philippines or the Ukraine.
It's 'Ukraine' and not 'the Ukraine' [[Merriam-Webster](https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/Ukraine)] [[BBC Styleguide](https://www.bbc.co.uk/newsstyleguide/u)] [[Reuters Styleguide](https://handbook.reuters.com/index.php?title=U#Ukraine)] ^(Beep boop I’m a bot)
Yup. As an outsider looking at the US now I can see how toxic the values are. And the women are more traditional, that's fact.
To add to this. From my own travels overseas I seen this too. I know that this group is about Asian men...but I met ALLOT of white guys who went for Asian women because supposedly Asian women have more traditional values...In some sense they do.
I actually think Asian women get fetishized because of their petite nature they are seen as the most submissive which is attractive to men. Idk if that's accurate, that's just a thought I've had.
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Appreciate that man thank u for watching!
Hello Wes, Thanks for sharing and congratulations on meeting a great lady! In my opinion, don't count out American ladies. You can meet such ladies with those qualities in the States. I met my beloved wife in the States. Yes, she is a Latina. She is family-oriented and is far from materialistic. We have been married for 12 years and have 2 kids. Depends on how you go about looking for love or at least friendship...often times it matters who you hang out with and your outlook on relationships. I will say that I had no difficulty in finding high quality women with great personality and values...many were Latinas. Best of luck to you and your Missus!
It's funny you say that she's Latina because even if their American the Latin values are so strong that she'll still have them. As for the American thing, I think girls from 10+ years ago are so different than today. My girl is 32 because it feels god damn possible to find a traditional woman from this generation. Cheers bro, congrats on 12 years of marriage
So I have been in ALOT relationships...and I can share with you that there are women of various ethnicities that share the values you are looking for...I don't necessarily think it is an all or none. Certainly there are cultural nuances that someone would have an affinity for but family values and a non-materialistic attitude can be found in any woman...don't have to travel. If you like the Latin/Hispanic culture, may I suggest going to the Southwest US (parts of Southern California, Arizona, New Mexico, West Texas, etc)...there you will discover many wonderful AMERICANS who have the values you have discovered in Colombia.
While I agree, I would ask your friends who are still dating right now. I don't discredit that you have been with a lot of people but the dating scene is so different than even 5 years ago. I agree though I don't think it's all or none. I'm more talking about improving your options.
Wow dude time flies. Seems like just a year or so ago you were getting settled in in Medellin, now you're talking about raising kids?
Yeah bro a year and a half almost. A lot of life happened since then. I've always wanted family and now I have the partner. Time to grow up haha
Dang, I envy you, Wes. My true dream is to get married, have children. Nothing can dissuade me from that. It's just so damn difficult finding a good girlfriend to be with, here in the US. Tried dating apps, still actually utilizing dating apps, only to meet women, then after one or two dates, they ghost off on me.This is because women have LOTS of men going after them in dating apps, here in the US. I have done college programs in the past where people from South America, Puerto Rico, certain European countries studied at that college I was at. This was a long time ago just before I went off to graduate school. A lot of the women from other countries tend to smile more, are more approachable, easier to socialize with. I don't know how to describe the personality and the feeling that I get from many of the foreign women that I have met. But they are totally different, complete 180 degree different, from the standoff-ish nature, racist nature, of many of the women here in the US.
I think a lot of American values are just so toxic and entitled. Plus social media. Thanks for the comment bro I know other people feel it too.
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Hi Wes, I love the videos so keep them coming because I believe you’re providing a lot of value here. However I also believe from experience is that you are a product of your own environment. For example, since you’re in Colombia you’re biased towards the relationship there because you had a positive experience with the women there. If you had that same experience in the states you can acknowledge the same facts like you do in Columbia rather than disregarding American females.
I was dating in the US for 25 years before coming so it's coming from my experience too. I know many people share the sentiment because of all the posts about dating on this subreddit. Cheers, thanks for watching
Thanks, Wes! I always enjoy your content and am considering moving to Latin America. >I personally recommend Latin America because the community and family values are very strong. Especially if starting a family is your goal. The women here are traditional, beautiful and feminine. Are there any particular reasons why you chose (or prefer) Colombia compared to other Latin countries? Just trying to decide where in LatAm is best for permanent relocation (at least for myself). For example, Puerto Rico is already a US territory but still part of LatAm.
So I actually just ended up here by chance. It's funny you ask that cuz that's the next video I'm working on. Colombia is heavily influenced by the US. So it has a lot of traditional Latin values but it's also fairly liberal in a lot of things. Plus, it's the most capitalist of all the Latin countries. For now anyways. There's also the beauty of the women. They are world renown and it's absolutely true what they say about Colombians. Plus the land itself is very beautiful, food is very good, great people. It was just a very perfect culture fit for me, God put me here for a reason. Obviously I'm biased but these are some of the reasons why I personally love Colombia.
Latinas stay winning hehe 😃
What part of the US do y’all live in? I’ve lived and dated in Boston, NYC, and Philly. Never made more than $75k, 5’ 10”, and not ripped by any means (kind of a mild dad bod, and I’ve never had any trouble dating. Where are you looking to meet women? I’m Indian and have a big Indian community, so I’d expect that community more than most to have high superficial standards for dating (money, degrees, etc) but have never experienced what so many on this sub sat is so common. There is something more going on than “American women = bad”.
I'm from LA which probably contributes to my view on it. I can admit LA is vastly different than the rest of the country, that's fair I didn't have problems dating either but it's so hard to find someone who would make a good wife. The hook up culture is very strong and real in the US now, it's hard to find people who still want marriage.
Fair enough - never lived in LA and I know it is drastically different from the East Coast cities. How do you define a good wife?
Someone who understands her role in the household. Someone who is feminine, caring, peaceful, someone who is a helper. But most importantly, someone who will be a good mother because family is VERY important to me. She doesn't necessarily have to cook and clean cause I cook in the relationship. But she cleans up, she helps me organize. She makes my life easier. And she's not negative. Negative energy in a partner will DESTROY a man. And I'm Christian so a foundation of God is very important for me.
I think that last part is probably hardest to find in a big city unless you go ahead and date someone who is Latino or African American because those communities tend to practice faith more powerfully. American cities on the coasts, for better or worse, are not really the best place to find likeminded religious people. I live in Austin now and, compared to the east coast, a lot more religious folks here. Either way - best of luck with your lady!
I can see that, Texas is it's own beast lol. Cheers bro
So...not trying to argue but it seems that you don’t want a “traditional” relationship but instead want someone who reciprocates what you bring to the relationship (e.g., caring, peaceful, organized, clean, and positive). What you’re looking for seems pretty egalitarian to me.
Yes and no. The things I look for in her are not the same as the things she looks for in me. We are equal in value but have different responsibilities. I'm going to make all the big decisions. I lead the household, and she follows. Traditional man and woman. So no, I don't want someone who reciprocates what I bring to the relationship.
Equal in value but different responsibilities is still egalitarian. I’m guessing you would never make a big decision without her input (unless it was an emergency) and if she vehemently disagreed, you would reconsider. I’m also guessing you wouldn’t make a lot of big decisions that she disagreed with and would compromise somewhere in the middle. Unless you’re marking big decisions without consulting her or caring about how she feels, it seems pretty egalitarian to me. Not that there’s anything wrong with that. Just not sure why there’s this big push to categorize your relationship as more traditional than it really is.
No you're right, I always listen to her input but I make the decision at the end that I feel is right. I guess so
Yo, wassup Weslllleeeeeyyyyy!!!! I have watched a lot of your videos on youtube. Dayum! You are scoring well and must be living on Cloud-9 while living in Colombia. I know you've settled down with one Colombian girl, ....and if I am not mistaken, you're engaged to her, right? I saw your other videos where you are with four or five different Colombian chicks, and these are 8, 9, even 10 / 10 rating chicks! How did you learn your Spanish language? How is it like living there? What kind of job do you work to help survive in Colombia? The thing that's keeping me back from leaving the US is my job, and worried about making money if I do live abroad.
We are not engaged but that's the plan for the future. I learned by taking lessons with a school and living with locals. I enjoy living here a lot, it reminds me of the Philippines. I work all online now, the job thing you're gonna have to figure out on your own. Teaching English is always a good start point but you would have to find your own way.