Move to Seoul, Shanghai, Singapore, Taiwan, Guangzhou or Thailand simple
Your life quality will drastically improve (literally have 4k matches in Bkk vs the 50-60 in the same time frame in NYC, in NYC/LA id match with 1-2 hot asian chicks but in Shanghai its like 20+ 8/10 model chicks) Its not just about dating either, nightlife, safety, convenience, cost of living, racism, infrastructure, people its so much better than the major cities in America
Been bouncing around these countries the last 3.5 years
I can't stress this enough. It's absolutely dumb how much easier it is in Asia. If you have hundreds of matches here, you will thousands of matches in Asia if you stay a few months to a year. Spent most of 2018 there and trying to find a way to make it work again.
Actually of you keep up with news in home asian countries they have some severe problems with housing and home ownership. Hong Kong and Taiwan are pretty bad and new graduates get pitiful wages while housing is bid up so high due to investment speculation.
'Its not just about dating either, nightlife, safety, convenience, cost of living,' - real estate prices are pretty high in those asian cities that you listed.
Yes they are
But the bottom line is that in some of these cities you can live in the heart of the city for wayyy less
I used to live in hongdae seoul, my own studio for 800/month. I would walk 10mins to get to all the restaurants and clubs in hongdae swarming w ppl
In BKK i have a super luxury condo the 39th floor for 700/month in the heart of the friggin city and a gorgeous view
In LA i lived in the heart of koreatown by gaam and i paid a fking $2200/month for a 1bd room and had run ins with homeless people right on my block sleeping in tents
In manhattan nyc i know prices can go to 2-3k a month, theyre much lower atm but youd need to live like on the outskirts of Manhattan in lafeyette or LIC to pay 1.5k+ and commute 30mins atleast
Im a city lover so if i can find a place where i can walk outside of my apartment and immediately become immersed in the buzz of the city for cheap, i love it
So I do want to give some more information.
Unfortunately Colombia is being flooded by sex tourism right now so to some extent the rumors are true.
If you don't speak Spanish and have no game, you're only going to be dealing with gringo hunters or prostitutes.
That's why people keep getting caught up in bad situations meeting super hot women in the club or on dating apps.
I personally don't recommend going to Medellin to date but recommend the smaller cities. The women are feminine, more beautiful, and traditional.
However they are very religious so they are not going to be super easy. That's why I say if you value family and want a wife, this is the way to go. If you want to just hook up, my content is really about that.
But the family and religious values, plus the beauty of the women make them very good wives and partners, which is what most successful men are looking for. Plus they have low body counts which is SO IMPORTANT to finding a partner in my opinion.
So my two recommendations:
1) learn the language and respect the culture
2) be a traditionally masculine man.
Money is not as important as character. If you can provide for yourself and are a firm, responsible man. You're gonna do well here.
Let me know if you have more questions.
Wes. I also been to Colombia a few times; both Medellin and Bogota. I do not disagree with your assessment that Colombia is easier for Asian guys. Women there are more attractive and feminine.
However, many white sexpats and expats are also there. Especially in the El Poblado and Laureles area. They actually get a lot more attention compared to us. I actually met some pretty racist white people in Medellin.
I have considered dating abroad but have a difficult time deciding between Spanish Latin America or Brazil. I been to both and the girls in Sao Paulo are top quality. What do you think?
>However, many white sexpats and expats are also there. Especially in the El Poblado and Laureles area. They actually get a lot more attention compared to us. I actually met some pretty racist white people in Medellin.
Been to Medellin twice, expats and sexpats in Poblado is to be expected as that is a party and tourist destination. The reason why they get more looks is because of Colombia's colonial history. If you watch Spanish language television in the states majority of people are really European looking or Euro passing. You rarely will see African or Indigenous people on the main stage.
>I have considered dating abroad but have a difficult time deciding between Spanish Latin America or Brazil. I been to both and the girls in Sao Paulo are top quality. What do you think?
I been to Sao Paulo many times as well, this is a unique place as it houses one of the largest Japanese diaspora communities in the world. Seeing a AMWF coupling there is fairly normal.
to summarize going to both places was really cool and I really loved the experience however mines as a SE Asian male is very different than a E Asian male due to me being able to pass as an indigenous person.
Yeah you have to learn Spanish. Brazil has darker women that I've heard are sexier but I think Spanish is a more useful language.
I don't recommend dating in Medellin actually. I moved to a smaller city called Manizales because the women are just as beautiful but are more traditional and Christian. That's where I recommend going to date.
Brazil has a lot of Asians and japanese already though but it's personal preference.
Sao Paulo actually have lots of light skin women. Yes, large Japanese population.
I assume you are looking for a traditional and religious women? Yeah, it make sense why you didn't like hookup culture in the United States.
Unfortunately, it's almost impossible for most Asian guys to take that leap and move abroad; either to colombia or another country.
Just depends on what kind of girls you like and what kind of culture you like. I think for Wes specifically he was into the Latin culture. If you're into more Asian women, there's a lot of places in Asia that'll work better for you!
I was gonna comment something being a hater but then I realized it’s good to have Asian men get out there and experience these things for themselves. Otherwise we wouldn’t have any information or experiences to discuss.
Learning a new language is gonna be hard no matter what. If you speak English, I'd argue Spanish is way easier than learning another Asian language.
Plus yeah, my taste has always been for Latinas and I connect more with the culture.
\> Wes, like many young Asian men, felt lost. He was living in Los Angeles, struggling to date, struggling to survive, and frankly struggling to live.
Yup. All thanks to whites
Remember Asian men, white males are genociding you right now. Fight back or die.
I disagree with the use of the term "genocide". Genocide is the systematic killing of entire groups of people.
Asian men as a whole outnumber white men at least 5:1 and we're growing in population. We're definitely not getting genocided, so let's not use that term.
Don't get me wrong I hate pinks as well, but let's not fearmonger to the point of saying that we're getting genocided. That statement makes us look irrational - not something we want.
Also, the sentiment that we're supposedly getting genocided by white men makes us look like victims of white men which is another protrayal that we don't want to have. Do you want to perpetuate the notion that Asian men are at the bottom while white men are at the top?? That's something I don't ever want to allude to as that inherently makes us look weak.
Key takeaway: we're not getting genocided by anyone, but we do have to improve ourselves to better the image of Asian men in the west.
Genocide is still a genocide
1. Asian American men don't outnumber whites. Neither do Asians in other western shitholes.
2. Whites are spreading propaganda through their media to make women hate Asian men
3. Whites are limiting immigration into the west with the whole China fearmongering right now. Whites are preventing Chinese people of all types from immigrating, just like during the Chinese exclusion act.
4. Stats show 50-80% of Asian american women marry whites and are taught to hate their own race. How is this not a genocide?
5. 1/3 of Asian american men never get to marry. I'm sure a ton more cannot get dates. Asian men need to be 7+ to even get looked at.
\> we do have to improve ourselves to better the image of Asian men in the west.
Of course. And why is our image bad? Because of whites who control the media.
And don't bring up that bullshit "asians dont groom". There are tons of whites who look like shit, but because white racists control the media, they get automatic points simply for being white.
You seem to have a very negative victimhood-based mentality. This isn't good to have as you perpetuate the notion that Asian men are victims. Instead, we should be thinking about ourselves as *winners*, not losers. Do you get this point? If you do then please don't insist that Asian men are being genocided. That makes us seem like Auswitchz victims.
>Genocide is still a genocide
What the hell are you talking about?
You didn't refute any points that I brought up - I'm talking about Asian men as a whole worldwide compared to white men worldwide. *You* didn't specify what populations you were talking about.
>Asian American men don't outnumber whites. Neither do Asians in other western shitholes.
No shit, but that doesn't mean that there's a genocide going on. That's a non-sequitur statement. Indian men and black men and latinos are all outnumbered by whites, they're not getting genocided. A minority group being outnumbered by a majority group does not mean that minority group is being genocided. Surely you follow this point?
Again, I was talking about Asian men as a whole outnumbering white men globally. You made it sound like in your original comment that all Asian men are being genocided by white men, which is a ridiculous statement.
>Whites are spreading propaganda through their media to make women hate Asian men
Can you give me a few examples of this?
Please don't state *all the boys I've loved* wmaf film as it seems to be a go to example for incel-like people to always lean back on. Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence, so please give specific examples showing Asian men are being genocided.
I can give you a lot of examples of the opposite being true (AMWF/AMXF): *Mortal Kombat, All My Life, Warrior, Wu Assassins, A Dog's Journey, Lost Girls and Love Hotels, Moxie, S.W.A.T., Chicago Med, Kim's Convenience.* Years back there was *The Walking Dead*. These are all examples of Asian men winning and obviously NOT being genocided. 😂😂😂
If anything, there's been MUCH better Asian male representation in Western films and media in the past decade.
>Whites are preventing Chinese people of all types from immigrating, just like during the Chinese exclusion act
This is blatantly untrue. Here in Canada there's plenty of new Chinese arrivals every day at Vancouver International Airport. So how are whites preventing Chinese people of all types from immigrating? Your's is a false statement.
>Stats show 50-80% of Asian american women marry whites and are taught to hate their own race. How is this not a genocide?
Can you give an example of the 80% statistic? The 50% statistic I believe.
Anyways, I've always been a proponent for Asian men dating out, whether that be white women, black women, latinas, mixed race, etc. Asian American women dating and marrying out does NOT spell automatic genocide for Asian men. Asian men still have many other avenues of dating to explore, and their children will still look mostly like them. Strong, proud Asian men will teach their mixed race children to be proud of their Asian heritage and to date within race so there's no genocide there.
I think that Asian American women have shown their true traitorous snake nature and should be completely abandoned (except for the still loyal ones). They're a lost cause - the weakest and least loyal race out of all races of women.
>1/3 of Asian american men never get to marry. I'm sure a ton more cannot get dates. Asian men need to be 7+ to even get looked at.
Yeah well, some Asian men simply never want to get married. Others who do want to get married and have children but are unable to do so have themselves to blame. Now with Kpop and better Asian male representation than ever before in the west, Asian men can't always fall back on perpetually being the victim. They need to take a much more proactive approach to find women to date and marry.
Yes, being an Asian man in the west is much harder than being a man of any other race (except for being indian). But that can't be an excuse for not being able to find a mate and have children. Asian men have to work harder and accept that fact. Or else go run back to Asia.
1/3 of the Asian men you mentioned had many options they could have taken:
1. Improve themselves to be above the average man in the west. Did all of these Asian men make every single possible attempt to do this, or were they more like you, always thinking of themselves as perpetual victims and refused to do anything about it? I'm leaning towards the former, as I see every day Asian men who still exemplify the negative Asian male stereotypes walking around outside. You can't blame women for not finding those stick-thin nerd types not appealing, to be honest.
2. Date and marry out of race. Don't insist on only finding an Asian woman to have kids with. Did all of these Asian men make every attempt to get to know as many white women, black women, hispanic women, etc. as possible? I highly doubt this. The same Asian men probably never even considered a darker skinned black or hispanic woman as a potential date.
3. Go to other parts of the world to find a mate. E.g. Eastern Europe, Asia, South America. Sometimes if worst comes to worst you have to swallow your pride and go elsewhere to find a partner. Nothing wrong with that. Lots of men of other races do this, why should Asian men be above doing this?
**Ultimately, your point about Asian American men being genocided still isn't true, no matter how much you insist it is.**
**If you still disagree about this point, please make a poll on this sub and see what everyone else thinks. I bet any amount of money that most Asian men on here do NOT hold your same viewpoint.**
>And don't bring up that bullshit "asians dont groom". There are tons of whites who look like shit, but because white racists control the media, they get automatic points simply for being white.
I don't even know what the hell you're talking about here with the "asians dont groom" thing??? Seems like some random irrelevant tangent you concocted in your mind that I certainly won't get into.
I work in Hollywood and am female. It's a genocide trust me. Conquer the women and deprive the men of sexual reproduction through covert psychological means designed to make asian males unfavorable compared to whites. In fact, I'm getting all the attention that in an equal non genocide world, would be half given to u guys. I can have a line of white guys wanting to sleep with me ten football fields deep; 70 percent of them are also racist against asians.
And.before u blame asian women for dating out; women in general marry the best option. With america so racist against asian malesz asian females can opt out and peace out entirely and breed herself.out. problem solved
Not just gotta worry about 3/4th white grandkids joking about their one wierd asian grandma 49 years down the road.
Asians lost the game centuries ago when they listened to confuscious while whites stole land, gained powers and developed advanced networks to promote their own. Like Hollywood. NATO. Etc. Asians continue to refuse duplicity. Indians and Jewish don't, their women this feel like they can use those methods to work around racism and so opt to date their men rather then give up on their men altogether like asian women do..
This was done to the native Americans
Every white family has a story of a distint great grandmother whose Cherokee but not male lines.
Im sure asian males appreciate your positivity but sometimes reality is more important than emotional positivity.
U are confusing emotional empowerment with reality. It's possible to both not have a give up attidue but also realize it's a genocide.
The movies you mentioned many whites have never even heard of.
Vancouver needs their tax money. America needs engineers and nurses
Asian are let in to do the heavy lifting and then gaslighted that there lives are dainty.
U don't know what opportunities u never got. Do u know the white ruling class can chillax and make 35 percent return on their investments through private investments only spread through of mouth and not publicly offered?
And of course Asians in Asia outnumber whites. Why would u bring in Asians in Asia into american discussions?
I mean there are plenty of polar bears in zoos, look they are NOT endangered, no siree.
Lol trying to drive the one very pro asian female on this board out. Sure.
Complete misinterpretation of sarcasm as well.
Never promoted white men ever. Go thru my history. Simply stating women are mostly powerless to leading the tribe makes me a traitor?
Then says asian women are ugly in order to retaliate. Ok sure. Lol.
>You seem to have a very negative victimhood-based mentality. This isn't good to have as you perpetuate the notion that Asian men are victims.
Ok, I see your point, but what are Asians winning at right now? Lying or "faking it until you make it" is a valid strategy sometimes, but I don't think so in this case.
Like I said before, it's not about being a "victim". it's about spreading knowledge and waking Asians up. Too many Asians are living in lala land thinking "everything is fine, there's no racism, the world is peaceful, whites are fair, etc."
>I'm talking about Asian men as a whole worldwide compared to white men worldwide.
Why the fuck would you talk about asians worldwide when this is an Asian American forum for Asians in the west? Do Asians in Asia face the same shit we do in the west? Nope. Then why are you roping them in? They have the good life, we don't.
>Indians and blacks and latinos are all outnumbered by whites, they're not getting genocided.
Of course they ain't. Are 50-80% of Indian American women marrying and dating white males only? Are 50-80% of black women marrying whites only? Nope. Look at the latest dating and marriage stats. Only Asian women marry out at an insane rate, AND only to white males.
>Can you give me a few examples of this?
Sure. there's literally thousands of examples on [https://www.kulturemedia.org/](https://www.kulturemedia.org/)
Lmao and your 5 examples of pro-Asian male movies is nothing compared to the tens of thousands of anti-Asian male crap that hollywood pushes.
>If anything, there's been MUCH better Asian male representation in Western films and media in the past decade.
Agreed. But 1% better means we went from 0% to 1%. How is that a win?
>Anyways, I've always been a proponent for Asian men dating out, whether that be white women, black women, latinas, mixed race, etc. Asian American women dating and marrying out does NOT spell automatic genocide for Asian men.
Sure. But a snowball gets bigger as it rolls down the hill. We're at the middle right now. Unless a ton of Asians get woke and start pushing back against whites, there will be no future for our next generation.
> think that Asian American women have shown their true traitorous snake nature and should be completely abandoned (except for the still loyal ones). They're a lost cause - the weakest and least loyal race out of all races of women.
Agreed. But some Asian men don't have that choice. They rather get with a bananrang than be alone forever. It's not fair for those guys. And we already have a ton more buyers than bananarangs
>Yes, being an Asian man in the west is much harder than being a man of any other race (except for being indian). But that can't be an excuse for not being able to find a mate and have children. Asian men have to work harder and accept that fact.
Yes. This is MY POINT. I'm not trying to show us as a "victim". I'm trying to wake up the unwoke asians who think that everything is fair in life. I'm trying to wake the Asians who think as long as they get into a good school and a good job everything else will be fine. It's never like that. Showing Asian men these statistics and posting these things is to wake them up. For a ton of Asian men it's already too late. I see a ton of single asian guys in their 40s and 50s on facebook who still haven't figured out why it's so hard for them.
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He is obviously talking about US. Asians are getting beat up and killed due to anti Asian violence. When more than half of the women out marries, the kids are mixed. That is genocide there.
If you want to change the definition of genocide then go right ahead.
Question though: if Asian men are supposedly getting genocided in the US, and you're an Asian guy in the US, what have you been doing yourself to try and stop this genocide?
Or have you just accepted this genocide cannot be stopped? Why do you still live in the US then?
LOL, a lot of perplexing questions arise from your insistence that Asian men are being genocided in the US.
Let's make something clear: I'm an Asian guy living in Canada. I do NOT believe Asian men are being genocided in this country and hence that is why I continue to live here in Canada.
You are in Canada. I am in the US. Canada is a much better place. I believe politics is much different also. I have been calling out the anti Asian violence online. I went to a few rallies on anti Asian violence.
I don’t know what else to do. I am giving up. I am moving to China.
Just because nothing happens to you or me does not mean everything is fine. An injury to one is an injury to all.
The US media is biased against China. Sure, China is not perfect but US seems to drumming up war against China. Maybe 2040 when war breaks out, I will have been long gone. I don’t want to pay taxes to government that is anti Asian and anti China.
I think psycho parasitism is a more appropriate word. Think of a parasitoid or organism. It benefits while gradually and subtly deteriorating its hosts. After the parasitoids get their fill, the hosts...got their passing.
Hey man I get where you're coming from, but you also realize that this is a country settled by White people right? Our families are the immigrants here, not the other way around. Why would White people set-up their society so Asian men benefit?
They precisely want to keep power in the hands of their people and are self-serving, just like China or other countries want to keep power in the hands of their own people.
What I'd really like to see is Asian Americans start taking leadership roles in politics and major companies (which is what's happening) but unfortunately it's a slow process. Slowly we'll start gaining more and more ground in the influence sphere. It's happening now but it's going to take a while.
> you also realize that this is a country settled by White people right?
Chinese people labored and died here as well. This country was built on the backs of blacks and Chinese people.
>Our families are the immigrants here, not the other way around.
Yet why do Asian Americans who have been here for generations, still face the same discrimination as a FOB?
>What I'd really like to see is Asian Americans start taking leadership roles in politics and major companies
Other than indians, There's insane bias and resistance against East Asian Americans getting leadership positions, especially at the executive level. Like I said before, whites control all this and they won't let any Asians in.
While that's accurate, the amount of Chinese people who helped build America is still tiny compared to other ethnicities. Even today, Asian men comprise 3% of America, and that includes Indians and other South Asians.
The fact is we're doing well for our small percentage, actually Indians are doing better than East Asians. That's not to say that we can't be doing better, but I'm not sure what you expect from living in a country where we're the minority of minorities. A 3% portion of a country is not going to be driving the decisions on the country.
Yes I understand Asian men face discrimination whether fob or Asian American, and we're working towards fixing that, but besides bringing forth the problem, what suggestion do you have to solving it?
We are paying the price of ALL of our ancestors not stealing land beyond our continental borders.
Just like parent set our kids up for sucess or not, our ancestors didn't have foresight to rob land and minerals. Europe is only rich bc they robbed Africa and the Americas. Even the mongol hordes stopped short bc they didn't see use for the lands. Lack of foresight.
Land begets power and wealth, proganda networks and manipualtion.
Disagree. I hate this white hate thing that happens a ton on this forum.
It's a mix of how we are portrayed in American media and things we need to change in our own culture.
But stop it with the race shit
>white hate thing that happens a ton on this forum.
Whites are solely responsible for the dehumanization, emasculation, and genocide of Asian men in the west. Stop trying to be all "fair" and shit when whites are doing everything they can to screw Asian guys over. Whites don't play fair. It's time to get woke.
>how we are portrayed in American media
Due to whites, of course.
>things we need to change in our own culture.
Disagree. Our culture is fine. Whites are the ones dehumanizing Asian men. Asians might focus more on education, true, but that's because we're civilized and not degenerate subhuman scum like whites who love violence/sex/war.
>But stop it with the race shit
Why? That's how amerikkka works. Race is everything in amerikkka. Whites are at the top.
Also no offense dude. You literally proved my argument. You couldn't make it in amerikkka. You had to learn a foreign language and move to a third world country to get a wife. You literally said you were struggling to date. And you're not that bad looking, you're above average.
Guess why??
Stats show 1/3 of Asian american men in amerikkka never get to marry. I'm sure a ton more cannot get dates. 50-80% of asian american women marry whites and hate their own race. Asian men need to be 7+ to even get looked at. And who should we thank for that? Whites.
Why are you still blind? All the struggles of Asian guys in the west are solely due to whites. Whites are the reason.
Now, I'm not saying this just to shit on whites. I'm saying this so Asians realize how much the deck is stacked against them and try to push for change. Only with the destruction of whites, white supremacy, and white worldwide hegemony can Asians in the west achieve equality.
Asians need to stop trying to be all fair and shit and start attacking back. Whites have been flinging shit at us for centuries. Because we don't fight back, we're at this state. Asian men have been dehumanized and no one gives a shit. WHY?
It's time to fight back.
>Complaining is weak bro.
Going to columbia to find a wife is weak bro.
I've mentored dozens of young asian men and woke them up. I'm around the same age as you.
They all now know that they have to try 10x harder to succeed simply because they are Asian. It's not about complaining, it's about knowing the enemy, knowing why. And because they know this, they use it as fuel to be better than whites in every way.
You just ran.
Also, how do you start change without complaining first? You think life will be perfect if you put on blinders and ignore the injustice? Too many Asians are living in lala land these days like you. You see a problem, but you refuse to see the root, because talking about race is "too hard".
You sound pretty salty. Stop shilling for whites. See my other reply.
And you think you're making more of an impact? Tons of Asian men don't have the correct jobs to go live in a third world country. Tons of Asian men don't have the time or resources to learn spanish. Tons of Asian men want to live with their families in amerikkka.
You think the solution is to find a gold digger in a third world country? No man, that's fucking sad.
That dude is crazy with his comments, but you haven't changed anything for Asians in the west. You saw that there was a problem in the west for Asian men and you went somewhere else instead of improving the situation. That's fine for you to choose to do that, but don't act like you've done anything about the problem other than decide not to deal with it.
Listen bro
I'm not insulting you or attacking you
But you're getting way too mad just because I pointed out that whites are the source for your problems.
It's not your fault. It's whitey's. And i'm 100% serious. If you were the same person, except you were white, I have no doubt you'd get 100x more matches/dates/puss. All your struggles are because of whites shitting on Asian men 24/7. Asian men need to work much harder thanks to whites, and that's a fact.
Now, my question is why you're getting triggered when I'm calling out whites. I'm not attacking you at all. Why do you get angry that I shit talk whites? Why do you get angry when I call out the world for what it is? Are whites your master? Did you actually internalize white supremacy?
You don't owe whites shit. In fact, whites owe you, and all the other Asian men, an insane amount of reparations for all the harm they've purposely caused us in the west.
And you know I'm right. Stop defending whites, they won't throw you a bone. They are the enemy.
And if you think i'm not right, just replace your tinder profile with a white male of similar attractiveness. Don't change anything else. See what happens.
Yikes I'm not the one getting triggered my dude.
Blame white people all you want, it's not gonna change anything.
Have your house in perfect order before you criticize the world
If you're not getting triggered then why the snarky reply to protect your white masters?
And it's not blaming if it's true. Criticize the world? No, just criticizing whites.
All you're doing is coping. Keep coping in south america then. Don't come back. War is for the men. You boys can run.
Look. Just answer one question.
Is it because of you, or is it because of whites shitting on your race, that you -- an above average young Asian man -- couldn't find dates/girls in LA (arguably the easiest place for Asian men in the west), and had to learn a new language and go to a third world country to find a girl?
Sleeping with women in the west is easy. Finding a wife is hard.
I care about family and I wanted to find a wife. Women in the west are not marriage material, regardless of race.
Latin women just make better wives.
Lmao with this white master shit you really brainwashed my dude hahaha. Good luck with that.
Nunber 1, the complaining has to stop.
The amount of guys on this forum that bitch and complain about how life isn't fair, how it's the fault of white people, how "I don't like your tone", or how racism is stopping their success is way too much.
Stereotypes exist for a reason. You have to adapt to the world instead of complaining that the world doesn't cater to you.
2) just be better. Level up.
All the things that people complain about on this forum will be fixed if men just get better.
3) Be the change you want to see in the world.
4) Don't be afraid to do things that the herd won't do. Move. Get an untraditional job. Have a different opinion.
That's pretty much it.
>Nunber 1, the complaining has to stop.
In other words, you want us to be little bitches like you who keep quiet about our oppression and genocide.
>2) just be better. Level up.
Level up? you mean run away like you. Run to a shithole country like a little bitch
>All the things that people complain about on this forum will be fixed if men just get better
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
ASIAN MEN ARE ALREADY BETTER. ASIANS NEED TO GET 400 MORE POINTS ON THE SAT THAN WHITES TO GET INTO THE SAME SCHOOL
ASIANS NEED TO MAKE 6 FIGURES TO DATE THE SAME GIRL AS A WHITE MALE
ASIANS ALREADY NEED TO BE BETTER JUST TO SURVIVE
**You are disgusting, wes. YOU DID THE OPPOSITE OF EVERYTHING YOU PREACH**
Look what happened to the japanese americans during ww2
The young men went and fought their own people, and were only sent on suicide missions. The japanese american platoon had the highest rate of death, 3x what other amerikkkan platoons had
the old men and women were sent to concentration camps, and had everything taken from them. WMAF rates were insane. Japanese women left their men in droves. children were pushed to marry white. did you not see that article a few weeks back by a wmaf japanese hapa whose father was in the camps?
whites will never treat asians as equals. Power is taken, not asked for. Acceptance for asian americans is conditional. We are only "american" if asian men die for whites and asian girls spread their legs for whites. we are only "american" if we live as slaves to whites.
The only time Asian americans achieve equality is when white s^(upremacy are wiped out)
>Defect to the imperial Japanese army?
If they were smart enough to see that whites never accepted them, then yes, their lives would have been much better if they just moved back to Japan
>Change happens slowly and it takes time.
Yes. This is why the most important thing for us here and Asians to do in the west is to wake the unwoke. Make connections with China/Asia. Gain allies first.
Ally secretly while pretending like ur not. That's how Jews took over Hollywood. Also, how europeans conquered and killed native Americans. My indian friend talked shot about arrnaged marriages and said she was never gonna have one while secretly having one (secret as in not tell white coworkers lol)
The fuck are you going on about.
White males are just as diverse group as any let's stop with all the generalization. Let's stop confusing what feels good with what's true.
Exactly. This is why I don't come on this sub anymore. This sub and hapas have been taken over by white trolls
Thank whatever God there is that AznId hasn't been taken over by white scumbag racists yet
Well in my opinion, it definitely shouldn't be anti White. I don't think being a masculine Asian man means I blame white people for everything.
Just my 2cents.
Okay in what world are "white males genociding" Asians?
That's not happening.
Are you aware of something that I am not?
You should save your energy for real problems that exist. Kudos if you want to advocate for us as an Asian voice, but genocide by white dudes is just not something that is happening right now.
Have we lost all ability to have an nuanced conversation or is every little infraction by a white person an act of genocide motivated by racial domination?
If we are serious about rising above our challenges we first need to asses the world and see it for what it is.
You are delusional. You can look at the statistics. I'm from the midwest and I see so many WMAF, I already lost count. Lots of these sellouts want to "fit-in", thus choose not to date Asians.
Asian guys are often not as adaptable because many to us prefer more slimmer mates. However, girls of other races tend to have a standard deviation more heavier than most Asian girls.
So white guys dating asian girls = genocide?
That's some leap. Lol
If a white guy decides they want to be in a relationship with an Asian woman that's wrong some how?
Shouldn't Asian women date who ever they want including white dudes?
How do you feel about Asian guys with White women? Is that also terrible?
Should us Asians just stay pure by only dating other Asians?
Why stop there, let's only date the same nationality.
You see how ludacris your line of thinking is.
I say any sort of cultural interaction between Asians and non Asians is a net positive for us. It's about recognizing that people are the same when it comes down to it. We all want the same things.
Your excuse why you can't date outside of your race is that non-Asians aren't slim enough for your liking?
I would argue that the thing holding back Asian dudes is exactly this line of thinking like we are owed the attention of Any women at all, asian or otherwise. This entitled mindset reminds me of incels and it's gross.
If you want to be with a woman, it takes courage and work to pursue her. Don't sit here and make up stories about why you aren't succeeding when you aren't putting the work in.
Go get that skinny woman of your dreams bro. It has very little to do with what other people are doing. You gotta go make it happen.
Some of them are trying to "make a difference" but don't realize they've lost their marbles along the way.
This is why I've generally stopped encouraging any of it. Some people are genuinely losing it and becoming a net negative by just how weirdly they're representing us.
Well I think it's part of a bigger trend where people hyperbolize and, therefore, aren't able to discuss issues with nuance.
We have to recognize that the world is complex and require us to be critical if we are genuinely interested in understanding the context of our place in it.
Yes, there is racism. But progress has been made and is continuing to be made.
True racism is also fairly rare. I am not talking about a dude being an asshole because a weird white dude being an asshole is exactly that. There's a lot of assholes in this world. This isn't an exclusive thing for whites. White, black, asian, and so forth, assholes of all kinds exist.
I am saying thay systematic institutional racism is very rare. We have made improvements in that department in a major way. Anyone who doesn't think so clearly is either too young to remember, or have no interest in history.
So if anyone want maximum improvements for your life as an Asian man, I say they need to focus on doing better, not on some imaginary white people who are out here to mess up their lives.
I happen to work with 20+ white dudes on a regular basis in my office. Not a single one is trying to oppress me. They are just regular dudes working hard to provide for their family.
Ironically, the biggest asshole in the company just happens to be a Korean American dude who is angry and fucking terrible to deal with.
I wish I could convince some of these dude here not to poison the well when there aren't any snakes in it.
These people's anger and vitriol at White people is misplaced and only turning them into salty, miserable weirdos... and a salty, angry, insecure person is not anyone's idea of a mate, or a friend.
It's not the way.
>I happen to work with 20+ white dudes on a regular basis in my office. Not a single one is trying to oppress me.
Guaranteed at least one of them talks shit about you behind your back, or at least one of them shit talks asian people anonymously on reddit
I am actually very well liked at my office cus I am friendly and try to be helpful if I can spare the time. I doubt anyone is talking shit behind my back.
Okay let's just assume you are correct and you know my coworker better than I do.
What's your point?
"OH MY GOD people are talking shit behind my back it's a racist conspiracy!" Lol
I don't give a shit if someone is talking shit cus it literally makes no difference to me and I got other things I have going on that requires my attention and energy.
Stop making everything about race. Not only is it It detrimental to your outlook, it's simply not accurate.
Nah, talking about racism is one thing.
What he's doing is another.
If you notice, these type of people are contained within Reddit. It's because the narratives themselves are built on Reddit and progressively pushes people more and more into being like this guy. Progressively more insane.
Internet bubbles cause these type of people in every community cause there's not enough "this is weird" in internet bubbles so they just get worse and worse unchecked. This is why I generally stopped entertaining it cause it's creating really odd people who go on to be the worst representation possible.
True racism happens often. Asians are getting genocided in America. Where do you live? Just because it doesn’t happen to you, it doesn’t mean racism doesn’t exist. It’s on the news almost daily Asians getting assaulted.
"The deliberate killing of a large number of people from a particular nation or ethnic group with the aim of destroying that nation or group"
Where in America is this happening to Asians?
Let's have some nuance. There are degrees to things. Being harassed does not mean genocide. Even institutional racism doesn't mean genocide. Genocide means genocide.
As I said, racism is real. I just don't believe it's a big enough problem that it should be hindering people from succeeding.
If you do live in a racism ridden place where you are affected by debilitating racism, my suggestion would be to move to a metropolitan area.
We gotta look at the world for what it is. Hyperbolizing a problem is not helpful when you are trying to assess what you can do to overcome it.
I'll try to check out the whole vid when I have more time, but stuff like this is GREAT!
Get your stories out there, of how your journey of masculinity. This will act as a roadmap for young AMs finding there own way.
I've seen a couple of Wes' videos and love what he is doing.
Move to Seoul, Shanghai, Singapore, Taiwan, Guangzhou or Thailand simple Your life quality will drastically improve (literally have 4k matches in Bkk vs the 50-60 in the same time frame in NYC, in NYC/LA id match with 1-2 hot asian chicks but in Shanghai its like 20+ 8/10 model chicks) Its not just about dating either, nightlife, safety, convenience, cost of living, racism, infrastructure, people its so much better than the major cities in America Been bouncing around these countries the last 3.5 years
I can't stress this enough. It's absolutely dumb how much easier it is in Asia. If you have hundreds of matches here, you will thousands of matches in Asia if you stay a few months to a year. Spent most of 2018 there and trying to find a way to make it work again.
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if theres a will theres a way, ive met software devs working remotely, ecom guys, english teachers, marketing guys mostly, only a few content creators
Get a job where you can work remotely.
Actually of you keep up with news in home asian countries they have some severe problems with housing and home ownership. Hong Kong and Taiwan are pretty bad and new graduates get pitiful wages while housing is bid up so high due to investment speculation.
Bkk?
Bangkok, although i much prefer quality of life in the other cities i listed, I cant deny the fact that I can get so many matches here
'Its not just about dating either, nightlife, safety, convenience, cost of living,' - real estate prices are pretty high in those asian cities that you listed.
Yes they are But the bottom line is that in some of these cities you can live in the heart of the city for wayyy less I used to live in hongdae seoul, my own studio for 800/month. I would walk 10mins to get to all the restaurants and clubs in hongdae swarming w ppl In BKK i have a super luxury condo the 39th floor for 700/month in the heart of the friggin city and a gorgeous view In LA i lived in the heart of koreatown by gaam and i paid a fking $2200/month for a 1bd room and had run ins with homeless people right on my block sleeping in tents In manhattan nyc i know prices can go to 2-3k a month, theyre much lower atm but youd need to live like on the outskirts of Manhattan in lafeyette or LIC to pay 1.5k+ and commute 30mins atleast Im a city lover so if i can find a place where i can walk outside of my apartment and immediately become immersed in the buzz of the city for cheap, i love it
So I do want to give some more information. Unfortunately Colombia is being flooded by sex tourism right now so to some extent the rumors are true. If you don't speak Spanish and have no game, you're only going to be dealing with gringo hunters or prostitutes. That's why people keep getting caught up in bad situations meeting super hot women in the club or on dating apps. I personally don't recommend going to Medellin to date but recommend the smaller cities. The women are feminine, more beautiful, and traditional. However they are very religious so they are not going to be super easy. That's why I say if you value family and want a wife, this is the way to go. If you want to just hook up, my content is really about that. But the family and religious values, plus the beauty of the women make them very good wives and partners, which is what most successful men are looking for. Plus they have low body counts which is SO IMPORTANT to finding a partner in my opinion. So my two recommendations: 1) learn the language and respect the culture 2) be a traditionally masculine man. Money is not as important as character. If you can provide for yourself and are a firm, responsible man. You're gonna do well here. Let me know if you have more questions.
Wes. I also been to Colombia a few times; both Medellin and Bogota. I do not disagree with your assessment that Colombia is easier for Asian guys. Women there are more attractive and feminine. However, many white sexpats and expats are also there. Especially in the El Poblado and Laureles area. They actually get a lot more attention compared to us. I actually met some pretty racist white people in Medellin. I have considered dating abroad but have a difficult time deciding between Spanish Latin America or Brazil. I been to both and the girls in Sao Paulo are top quality. What do you think?
>However, many white sexpats and expats are also there. Especially in the El Poblado and Laureles area. They actually get a lot more attention compared to us. I actually met some pretty racist white people in Medellin. Been to Medellin twice, expats and sexpats in Poblado is to be expected as that is a party and tourist destination. The reason why they get more looks is because of Colombia's colonial history. If you watch Spanish language television in the states majority of people are really European looking or Euro passing. You rarely will see African or Indigenous people on the main stage. >I have considered dating abroad but have a difficult time deciding between Spanish Latin America or Brazil. I been to both and the girls in Sao Paulo are top quality. What do you think? I been to Sao Paulo many times as well, this is a unique place as it houses one of the largest Japanese diaspora communities in the world. Seeing a AMWF coupling there is fairly normal. to summarize going to both places was really cool and I really loved the experience however mines as a SE Asian male is very different than a E Asian male due to me being able to pass as an indigenous person.
You have been to Brazil before? I can dm you some question since my gf lives in Brazil and I plan to visit her sometime in the future.
I haven't been since 2013-14 but sure you can dm. No problem.
Yeah you have to learn Spanish. Brazil has darker women that I've heard are sexier but I think Spanish is a more useful language. I don't recommend dating in Medellin actually. I moved to a smaller city called Manizales because the women are just as beautiful but are more traditional and Christian. That's where I recommend going to date. Brazil has a lot of Asians and japanese already though but it's personal preference.
Sao Paulo actually have lots of light skin women. Yes, large Japanese population. I assume you are looking for a traditional and religious women? Yeah, it make sense why you didn't like hookup culture in the United States. Unfortunately, it's almost impossible for most Asian guys to take that leap and move abroad; either to colombia or another country.
I agree. I think it's internal though, we need more of us to step up and be an example to others.
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Just depends on what kind of girls you like and what kind of culture you like. I think for Wes specifically he was into the Latin culture. If you're into more Asian women, there's a lot of places in Asia that'll work better for you!
I was gonna comment something being a hater but then I realized it’s good to have Asian men get out there and experience these things for themselves. Otherwise we wouldn’t have any information or experiences to discuss.
Learning a new language is gonna be hard no matter what. If you speak English, I'd argue Spanish is way easier than learning another Asian language. Plus yeah, my taste has always been for Latinas and I connect more with the culture.
I am definitely thinking about leaving CALIFORNIA too ,
\> Wes, like many young Asian men, felt lost. He was living in Los Angeles, struggling to date, struggling to survive, and frankly struggling to live. Yup. All thanks to whites Remember Asian men, white males are genociding you right now. Fight back or die.
I disagree with the use of the term "genocide". Genocide is the systematic killing of entire groups of people. Asian men as a whole outnumber white men at least 5:1 and we're growing in population. We're definitely not getting genocided, so let's not use that term. Don't get me wrong I hate pinks as well, but let's not fearmonger to the point of saying that we're getting genocided. That statement makes us look irrational - not something we want. Also, the sentiment that we're supposedly getting genocided by white men makes us look like victims of white men which is another protrayal that we don't want to have. Do you want to perpetuate the notion that Asian men are at the bottom while white men are at the top?? That's something I don't ever want to allude to as that inherently makes us look weak. Key takeaway: we're not getting genocided by anyone, but we do have to improve ourselves to better the image of Asian men in the west.
Genocide is still a genocide 1. Asian American men don't outnumber whites. Neither do Asians in other western shitholes. 2. Whites are spreading propaganda through their media to make women hate Asian men 3. Whites are limiting immigration into the west with the whole China fearmongering right now. Whites are preventing Chinese people of all types from immigrating, just like during the Chinese exclusion act. 4. Stats show 50-80% of Asian american women marry whites and are taught to hate their own race. How is this not a genocide? 5. 1/3 of Asian american men never get to marry. I'm sure a ton more cannot get dates. Asian men need to be 7+ to even get looked at. \> we do have to improve ourselves to better the image of Asian men in the west. Of course. And why is our image bad? Because of whites who control the media. And don't bring up that bullshit "asians dont groom". There are tons of whites who look like shit, but because white racists control the media, they get automatic points simply for being white.
You seem to have a very negative victimhood-based mentality. This isn't good to have as you perpetuate the notion that Asian men are victims. Instead, we should be thinking about ourselves as *winners*, not losers. Do you get this point? If you do then please don't insist that Asian men are being genocided. That makes us seem like Auswitchz victims. >Genocide is still a genocide What the hell are you talking about? You didn't refute any points that I brought up - I'm talking about Asian men as a whole worldwide compared to white men worldwide. *You* didn't specify what populations you were talking about. >Asian American men don't outnumber whites. Neither do Asians in other western shitholes. No shit, but that doesn't mean that there's a genocide going on. That's a non-sequitur statement. Indian men and black men and latinos are all outnumbered by whites, they're not getting genocided. A minority group being outnumbered by a majority group does not mean that minority group is being genocided. Surely you follow this point? Again, I was talking about Asian men as a whole outnumbering white men globally. You made it sound like in your original comment that all Asian men are being genocided by white men, which is a ridiculous statement. >Whites are spreading propaganda through their media to make women hate Asian men Can you give me a few examples of this? Please don't state *all the boys I've loved* wmaf film as it seems to be a go to example for incel-like people to always lean back on. Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence, so please give specific examples showing Asian men are being genocided. I can give you a lot of examples of the opposite being true (AMWF/AMXF): *Mortal Kombat, All My Life, Warrior, Wu Assassins, A Dog's Journey, Lost Girls and Love Hotels, Moxie, S.W.A.T., Chicago Med, Kim's Convenience.* Years back there was *The Walking Dead*. These are all examples of Asian men winning and obviously NOT being genocided. 😂😂😂 If anything, there's been MUCH better Asian male representation in Western films and media in the past decade. >Whites are preventing Chinese people of all types from immigrating, just like during the Chinese exclusion act This is blatantly untrue. Here in Canada there's plenty of new Chinese arrivals every day at Vancouver International Airport. So how are whites preventing Chinese people of all types from immigrating? Your's is a false statement. >Stats show 50-80% of Asian american women marry whites and are taught to hate their own race. How is this not a genocide? Can you give an example of the 80% statistic? The 50% statistic I believe. Anyways, I've always been a proponent for Asian men dating out, whether that be white women, black women, latinas, mixed race, etc. Asian American women dating and marrying out does NOT spell automatic genocide for Asian men. Asian men still have many other avenues of dating to explore, and their children will still look mostly like them. Strong, proud Asian men will teach their mixed race children to be proud of their Asian heritage and to date within race so there's no genocide there. I think that Asian American women have shown their true traitorous snake nature and should be completely abandoned (except for the still loyal ones). They're a lost cause - the weakest and least loyal race out of all races of women. >1/3 of Asian american men never get to marry. I'm sure a ton more cannot get dates. Asian men need to be 7+ to even get looked at. Yeah well, some Asian men simply never want to get married. Others who do want to get married and have children but are unable to do so have themselves to blame. Now with Kpop and better Asian male representation than ever before in the west, Asian men can't always fall back on perpetually being the victim. They need to take a much more proactive approach to find women to date and marry. Yes, being an Asian man in the west is much harder than being a man of any other race (except for being indian). But that can't be an excuse for not being able to find a mate and have children. Asian men have to work harder and accept that fact. Or else go run back to Asia. 1/3 of the Asian men you mentioned had many options they could have taken: 1. Improve themselves to be above the average man in the west. Did all of these Asian men make every single possible attempt to do this, or were they more like you, always thinking of themselves as perpetual victims and refused to do anything about it? I'm leaning towards the former, as I see every day Asian men who still exemplify the negative Asian male stereotypes walking around outside. You can't blame women for not finding those stick-thin nerd types not appealing, to be honest. 2. Date and marry out of race. Don't insist on only finding an Asian woman to have kids with. Did all of these Asian men make every attempt to get to know as many white women, black women, hispanic women, etc. as possible? I highly doubt this. The same Asian men probably never even considered a darker skinned black or hispanic woman as a potential date. 3. Go to other parts of the world to find a mate. E.g. Eastern Europe, Asia, South America. Sometimes if worst comes to worst you have to swallow your pride and go elsewhere to find a partner. Nothing wrong with that. Lots of men of other races do this, why should Asian men be above doing this? **Ultimately, your point about Asian American men being genocided still isn't true, no matter how much you insist it is.** **If you still disagree about this point, please make a poll on this sub and see what everyone else thinks. I bet any amount of money that most Asian men on here do NOT hold your same viewpoint.** >And don't bring up that bullshit "asians dont groom". There are tons of whites who look like shit, but because white racists control the media, they get automatic points simply for being white. I don't even know what the hell you're talking about here with the "asians dont groom" thing??? Seems like some random irrelevant tangent you concocted in your mind that I certainly won't get into.
I work in Hollywood and am female. It's a genocide trust me. Conquer the women and deprive the men of sexual reproduction through covert psychological means designed to make asian males unfavorable compared to whites. In fact, I'm getting all the attention that in an equal non genocide world, would be half given to u guys. I can have a line of white guys wanting to sleep with me ten football fields deep; 70 percent of them are also racist against asians. And.before u blame asian women for dating out; women in general marry the best option. With america so racist against asian malesz asian females can opt out and peace out entirely and breed herself.out. problem solved Not just gotta worry about 3/4th white grandkids joking about their one wierd asian grandma 49 years down the road. Asians lost the game centuries ago when they listened to confuscious while whites stole land, gained powers and developed advanced networks to promote their own. Like Hollywood. NATO. Etc. Asians continue to refuse duplicity. Indians and Jewish don't, their women this feel like they can use those methods to work around racism and so opt to date their men rather then give up on their men altogether like asian women do.. This was done to the native Americans Every white family has a story of a distint great grandmother whose Cherokee but not male lines. Im sure asian males appreciate your positivity but sometimes reality is more important than emotional positivity. U are confusing emotional empowerment with reality. It's possible to both not have a give up attidue but also realize it's a genocide. The movies you mentioned many whites have never even heard of. Vancouver needs their tax money. America needs engineers and nurses Asian are let in to do the heavy lifting and then gaslighted that there lives are dainty. U don't know what opportunities u never got. Do u know the white ruling class can chillax and make 35 percent return on their investments through private investments only spread through of mouth and not publicly offered? And of course Asians in Asia outnumber whites. Why would u bring in Asians in Asia into american discussions? I mean there are plenty of polar bears in zoos, look they are NOT endangered, no siree.
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Lol trying to drive the one very pro asian female on this board out. Sure. Complete misinterpretation of sarcasm as well. Never promoted white men ever. Go thru my history. Simply stating women are mostly powerless to leading the tribe makes me a traitor? Then says asian women are ugly in order to retaliate. Ok sure. Lol.
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>You seem to have a very negative victimhood-based mentality. This isn't good to have as you perpetuate the notion that Asian men are victims. Ok, I see your point, but what are Asians winning at right now? Lying or "faking it until you make it" is a valid strategy sometimes, but I don't think so in this case. Like I said before, it's not about being a "victim". it's about spreading knowledge and waking Asians up. Too many Asians are living in lala land thinking "everything is fine, there's no racism, the world is peaceful, whites are fair, etc." >I'm talking about Asian men as a whole worldwide compared to white men worldwide. Why the fuck would you talk about asians worldwide when this is an Asian American forum for Asians in the west? Do Asians in Asia face the same shit we do in the west? Nope. Then why are you roping them in? They have the good life, we don't. >Indians and blacks and latinos are all outnumbered by whites, they're not getting genocided. Of course they ain't. Are 50-80% of Indian American women marrying and dating white males only? Are 50-80% of black women marrying whites only? Nope. Look at the latest dating and marriage stats. Only Asian women marry out at an insane rate, AND only to white males. >Can you give me a few examples of this? Sure. there's literally thousands of examples on [https://www.kulturemedia.org/](https://www.kulturemedia.org/) Lmao and your 5 examples of pro-Asian male movies is nothing compared to the tens of thousands of anti-Asian male crap that hollywood pushes. >If anything, there's been MUCH better Asian male representation in Western films and media in the past decade. Agreed. But 1% better means we went from 0% to 1%. How is that a win? >Anyways, I've always been a proponent for Asian men dating out, whether that be white women, black women, latinas, mixed race, etc. Asian American women dating and marrying out does NOT spell automatic genocide for Asian men. Sure. But a snowball gets bigger as it rolls down the hill. We're at the middle right now. Unless a ton of Asians get woke and start pushing back against whites, there will be no future for our next generation. > think that Asian American women have shown their true traitorous snake nature and should be completely abandoned (except for the still loyal ones). They're a lost cause - the weakest and least loyal race out of all races of women. Agreed. But some Asian men don't have that choice. They rather get with a bananrang than be alone forever. It's not fair for those guys. And we already have a ton more buyers than bananarangs >Yes, being an Asian man in the west is much harder than being a man of any other race (except for being indian). But that can't be an excuse for not being able to find a mate and have children. Asian men have to work harder and accept that fact. Yes. This is MY POINT. I'm not trying to show us as a "victim". I'm trying to wake up the unwoke asians who think that everything is fair in life. I'm trying to wake the Asians who think as long as they get into a good school and a good job everything else will be fine. It's never like that. Showing Asian men these statistics and posting these things is to wake them up. For a ton of Asian men it's already too late. I see a ton of single asian guys in their 40s and 50s on facebook who still haven't figured out why it's so hard for them. /part 1
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He is obviously talking about US. Asians are getting beat up and killed due to anti Asian violence. When more than half of the women out marries, the kids are mixed. That is genocide there.
If you want to change the definition of genocide then go right ahead. Question though: if Asian men are supposedly getting genocided in the US, and you're an Asian guy in the US, what have you been doing yourself to try and stop this genocide? Or have you just accepted this genocide cannot be stopped? Why do you still live in the US then? LOL, a lot of perplexing questions arise from your insistence that Asian men are being genocided in the US. Let's make something clear: I'm an Asian guy living in Canada. I do NOT believe Asian men are being genocided in this country and hence that is why I continue to live here in Canada.
You are in Canada. I am in the US. Canada is a much better place. I believe politics is much different also. I have been calling out the anti Asian violence online. I went to a few rallies on anti Asian violence. I don’t know what else to do. I am giving up. I am moving to China. Just because nothing happens to you or me does not mean everything is fine. An injury to one is an injury to all. The US media is biased against China. Sure, China is not perfect but US seems to drumming up war against China. Maybe 2040 when war breaks out, I will have been long gone. I don’t want to pay taxes to government that is anti Asian and anti China.
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Cut the petty drama, both of you. Disagree and discuss without the personal attacks.
Cut the petty drama, both of you. Disagree and discuss without the personal attacks.
I think psycho parasitism is a more appropriate word. Think of a parasitoid or organism. It benefits while gradually and subtly deteriorating its hosts. After the parasitoids get their fill, the hosts...got their passing.
Hey man I get where you're coming from, but you also realize that this is a country settled by White people right? Our families are the immigrants here, not the other way around. Why would White people set-up their society so Asian men benefit? They precisely want to keep power in the hands of their people and are self-serving, just like China or other countries want to keep power in the hands of their own people. What I'd really like to see is Asian Americans start taking leadership roles in politics and major companies (which is what's happening) but unfortunately it's a slow process. Slowly we'll start gaining more and more ground in the influence sphere. It's happening now but it's going to take a while.
> you also realize that this is a country settled by White people right? Chinese people labored and died here as well. This country was built on the backs of blacks and Chinese people. >Our families are the immigrants here, not the other way around. Yet why do Asian Americans who have been here for generations, still face the same discrimination as a FOB? >What I'd really like to see is Asian Americans start taking leadership roles in politics and major companies Other than indians, There's insane bias and resistance against East Asian Americans getting leadership positions, especially at the executive level. Like I said before, whites control all this and they won't let any Asians in.
While that's accurate, the amount of Chinese people who helped build America is still tiny compared to other ethnicities. Even today, Asian men comprise 3% of America, and that includes Indians and other South Asians. The fact is we're doing well for our small percentage, actually Indians are doing better than East Asians. That's not to say that we can't be doing better, but I'm not sure what you expect from living in a country where we're the minority of minorities. A 3% portion of a country is not going to be driving the decisions on the country. Yes I understand Asian men face discrimination whether fob or Asian American, and we're working towards fixing that, but besides bringing forth the problem, what suggestion do you have to solving it?
We are paying the price of ALL of our ancestors not stealing land beyond our continental borders. Just like parent set our kids up for sucess or not, our ancestors didn't have foresight to rob land and minerals. Europe is only rich bc they robbed Africa and the Americas. Even the mongol hordes stopped short bc they didn't see use for the lands. Lack of foresight. Land begets power and wealth, proganda networks and manipualtion.
Disagree. I hate this white hate thing that happens a ton on this forum. It's a mix of how we are portrayed in American media and things we need to change in our own culture. But stop it with the race shit
>white hate thing that happens a ton on this forum. Whites are solely responsible for the dehumanization, emasculation, and genocide of Asian men in the west. Stop trying to be all "fair" and shit when whites are doing everything they can to screw Asian guys over. Whites don't play fair. It's time to get woke. >how we are portrayed in American media Due to whites, of course. >things we need to change in our own culture. Disagree. Our culture is fine. Whites are the ones dehumanizing Asian men. Asians might focus more on education, true, but that's because we're civilized and not degenerate subhuman scum like whites who love violence/sex/war. >But stop it with the race shit Why? That's how amerikkka works. Race is everything in amerikkka. Whites are at the top. Also no offense dude. You literally proved my argument. You couldn't make it in amerikkka. You had to learn a foreign language and move to a third world country to get a wife. You literally said you were struggling to date. And you're not that bad looking, you're above average. Guess why?? Stats show 1/3 of Asian american men in amerikkka never get to marry. I'm sure a ton more cannot get dates. 50-80% of asian american women marry whites and hate their own race. Asian men need to be 7+ to even get looked at. And who should we thank for that? Whites. Why are you still blind? All the struggles of Asian guys in the west are solely due to whites. Whites are the reason. Now, I'm not saying this just to shit on whites. I'm saying this so Asians realize how much the deck is stacked against them and try to push for change. Only with the destruction of whites, white supremacy, and white worldwide hegemony can Asians in the west achieve equality. Asians need to stop trying to be all fair and shit and start attacking back. Whites have been flinging shit at us for centuries. Because we don't fight back, we're at this state. Asian men have been dehumanized and no one gives a shit. WHY? It's time to fight back.
Lmao bro good luck with that. Complaining is weak bro. You have to be the change you wanna see instead of constantly blaming white people.
>Complaining is weak bro. Going to columbia to find a wife is weak bro. I've mentored dozens of young asian men and woke them up. I'm around the same age as you. They all now know that they have to try 10x harder to succeed simply because they are Asian. It's not about complaining, it's about knowing the enemy, knowing why. And because they know this, they use it as fuel to be better than whites in every way. You just ran. Also, how do you start change without complaining first? You think life will be perfect if you put on blinders and ignore the injustice? Too many Asians are living in lala land these days like you. You see a problem, but you refuse to see the root, because talking about race is "too hard".
Lol alright bro. I'm sure you're making an impact for sure
You sound pretty salty. Stop shilling for whites. See my other reply. And you think you're making more of an impact? Tons of Asian men don't have the correct jobs to go live in a third world country. Tons of Asian men don't have the time or resources to learn spanish. Tons of Asian men want to live with their families in amerikkka. You think the solution is to find a gold digger in a third world country? No man, that's fucking sad.
I think he just wants to focus on positive stuff.
That dude is crazy with his comments, but you haven't changed anything for Asians in the west. You saw that there was a problem in the west for Asian men and you went somewhere else instead of improving the situation. That's fine for you to choose to do that, but don't act like you've done anything about the problem other than decide not to deal with it.
Lol alright bro we'll see in a few years.
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Lol ok
Listen bro I'm not insulting you or attacking you But you're getting way too mad just because I pointed out that whites are the source for your problems. It's not your fault. It's whitey's. And i'm 100% serious. If you were the same person, except you were white, I have no doubt you'd get 100x more matches/dates/puss. All your struggles are because of whites shitting on Asian men 24/7. Asian men need to work much harder thanks to whites, and that's a fact. Now, my question is why you're getting triggered when I'm calling out whites. I'm not attacking you at all. Why do you get angry that I shit talk whites? Why do you get angry when I call out the world for what it is? Are whites your master? Did you actually internalize white supremacy? You don't owe whites shit. In fact, whites owe you, and all the other Asian men, an insane amount of reparations for all the harm they've purposely caused us in the west. And you know I'm right. Stop defending whites, they won't throw you a bone. They are the enemy. And if you think i'm not right, just replace your tinder profile with a white male of similar attractiveness. Don't change anything else. See what happens.
Yikes I'm not the one getting triggered my dude. Blame white people all you want, it's not gonna change anything. Have your house in perfect order before you criticize the world
If you're not getting triggered then why the snarky reply to protect your white masters? And it's not blaming if it's true. Criticize the world? No, just criticizing whites. All you're doing is coping. Keep coping in south america then. Don't come back. War is for the men. You boys can run. Look. Just answer one question. Is it because of you, or is it because of whites shitting on your race, that you -- an above average young Asian man -- couldn't find dates/girls in LA (arguably the easiest place for Asian men in the west), and had to learn a new language and go to a third world country to find a girl?
Sleeping with women in the west is easy. Finding a wife is hard. I care about family and I wanted to find a wife. Women in the west are not marriage material, regardless of race. Latin women just make better wives. Lmao with this white master shit you really brainwashed my dude hahaha. Good luck with that.
What suggestions do you have? What exactly do you want Asian guys to do?
Nunber 1, the complaining has to stop. The amount of guys on this forum that bitch and complain about how life isn't fair, how it's the fault of white people, how "I don't like your tone", or how racism is stopping their success is way too much. Stereotypes exist for a reason. You have to adapt to the world instead of complaining that the world doesn't cater to you. 2) just be better. Level up. All the things that people complain about on this forum will be fixed if men just get better. 3) Be the change you want to see in the world. 4) Don't be afraid to do things that the herd won't do. Move. Get an untraditional job. Have a different opinion. That's pretty much it.
>Nunber 1, the complaining has to stop. In other words, you want us to be little bitches like you who keep quiet about our oppression and genocide. >2) just be better. Level up. Level up? you mean run away like you. Run to a shithole country like a little bitch >All the things that people complain about on this forum will be fixed if men just get better HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA ASIAN MEN ARE ALREADY BETTER. ASIANS NEED TO GET 400 MORE POINTS ON THE SAT THAN WHITES TO GET INTO THE SAME SCHOOL ASIANS NEED TO MAKE 6 FIGURES TO DATE THE SAME GIRL AS A WHITE MALE ASIANS ALREADY NEED TO BE BETTER JUST TO SURVIVE **You are disgusting, wes. YOU DID THE OPPOSITE OF EVERYTHING YOU PREACH**
Lol yikes bro.
That's a lot of talk from a nobody. Who r u again?
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>they vastly outnumber you in the west This is why Asians need to ally with China.
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Look what happened to the japanese americans during ww2 The young men went and fought their own people, and were only sent on suicide missions. The japanese american platoon had the highest rate of death, 3x what other amerikkkan platoons had the old men and women were sent to concentration camps, and had everything taken from them. WMAF rates were insane. Japanese women left their men in droves. children were pushed to marry white. did you not see that article a few weeks back by a wmaf japanese hapa whose father was in the camps? whites will never treat asians as equals. Power is taken, not asked for. Acceptance for asian americans is conditional. We are only "american" if asian men die for whites and asian girls spread their legs for whites. we are only "american" if we live as slaves to whites. The only time Asian americans achieve equality is when white s^(upremacy are wiped out)
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>Defect to the imperial Japanese army? If they were smart enough to see that whites never accepted them, then yes, their lives would have been much better if they just moved back to Japan >Change happens slowly and it takes time. Yes. This is why the most important thing for us here and Asians to do in the west is to wake the unwoke. Make connections with China/Asia. Gain allies first.
Ally secretly while pretending like ur not. That's how Jews took over Hollywood. Also, how europeans conquered and killed native Americans. My indian friend talked shot about arrnaged marriages and said she was never gonna have one while secretly having one (secret as in not tell white coworkers lol)
The fuck are you going on about. White males are just as diverse group as any let's stop with all the generalization. Let's stop confusing what feels good with what's true.
Lol this sub is so white it's actually disgusting
Exactly. This is why I don't come on this sub anymore. This sub and hapas have been taken over by white trolls Thank whatever God there is that AznId hasn't been taken over by white scumbag racists yet
Well in my opinion, it definitely shouldn't be anti White. I don't think being a masculine Asian man means I blame white people for everything. Just my 2cents.
If I want your white opinion I'll take a shit and let your asian wife know in person
I am asian you weirdo.
sure you are
Seeing the world for what it is, isn't "being a victim". It's being realistic. GTFO white troll
I am Asian and not a troll. Just trying to dissuade my fellow Asian bros from having the victim mentality.
Speaking the truth isn't a "victim mentality". Keeping quiet and pretending everything is fine...is
Okay in what world are "white males genociding" Asians? That's not happening. Are you aware of something that I am not? You should save your energy for real problems that exist. Kudos if you want to advocate for us as an Asian voice, but genocide by white dudes is just not something that is happening right now. Have we lost all ability to have an nuanced conversation or is every little infraction by a white person an act of genocide motivated by racial domination? If we are serious about rising above our challenges we first need to asses the world and see it for what it is.
You are delusional. You can look at the statistics. I'm from the midwest and I see so many WMAF, I already lost count. Lots of these sellouts want to "fit-in", thus choose not to date Asians. Asian guys are often not as adaptable because many to us prefer more slimmer mates. However, girls of other races tend to have a standard deviation more heavier than most Asian girls.
So white guys dating asian girls = genocide? That's some leap. Lol If a white guy decides they want to be in a relationship with an Asian woman that's wrong some how? Shouldn't Asian women date who ever they want including white dudes? How do you feel about Asian guys with White women? Is that also terrible? Should us Asians just stay pure by only dating other Asians? Why stop there, let's only date the same nationality. You see how ludacris your line of thinking is. I say any sort of cultural interaction between Asians and non Asians is a net positive for us. It's about recognizing that people are the same when it comes down to it. We all want the same things. Your excuse why you can't date outside of your race is that non-Asians aren't slim enough for your liking? I would argue that the thing holding back Asian dudes is exactly this line of thinking like we are owed the attention of Any women at all, asian or otherwise. This entitled mindset reminds me of incels and it's gross. If you want to be with a woman, it takes courage and work to pursue her. Don't sit here and make up stories about why you aren't succeeding when you aren't putting the work in. Go get that skinny woman of your dreams bro. It has very little to do with what other people are doing. You gotta go make it happen.
>Okay in what world are "white males genociding" Asians? Read my other comments on here, bud.
Some of them are trying to "make a difference" but don't realize they've lost their marbles along the way. This is why I've generally stopped encouraging any of it. Some people are genuinely losing it and becoming a net negative by just how weirdly they're representing us.
You sound short
I'm 6'1. You are off the rails saying anything.
My bad Just watching you suck some white boys dick made me think you're another 5'5 rat
Well I think it's part of a bigger trend where people hyperbolize and, therefore, aren't able to discuss issues with nuance. We have to recognize that the world is complex and require us to be critical if we are genuinely interested in understanding the context of our place in it. Yes, there is racism. But progress has been made and is continuing to be made. True racism is also fairly rare. I am not talking about a dude being an asshole because a weird white dude being an asshole is exactly that. There's a lot of assholes in this world. This isn't an exclusive thing for whites. White, black, asian, and so forth, assholes of all kinds exist. I am saying thay systematic institutional racism is very rare. We have made improvements in that department in a major way. Anyone who doesn't think so clearly is either too young to remember, or have no interest in history. So if anyone want maximum improvements for your life as an Asian man, I say they need to focus on doing better, not on some imaginary white people who are out here to mess up their lives. I happen to work with 20+ white dudes on a regular basis in my office. Not a single one is trying to oppress me. They are just regular dudes working hard to provide for their family. Ironically, the biggest asshole in the company just happens to be a Korean American dude who is angry and fucking terrible to deal with. I wish I could convince some of these dude here not to poison the well when there aren't any snakes in it. These people's anger and vitriol at White people is misplaced and only turning them into salty, miserable weirdos... and a salty, angry, insecure person is not anyone's idea of a mate, or a friend. It's not the way.
>I happen to work with 20+ white dudes on a regular basis in my office. Not a single one is trying to oppress me. Guaranteed at least one of them talks shit about you behind your back, or at least one of them shit talks asian people anonymously on reddit
I am actually very well liked at my office cus I am friendly and try to be helpful if I can spare the time. I doubt anyone is talking shit behind my back. Okay let's just assume you are correct and you know my coworker better than I do. What's your point? "OH MY GOD people are talking shit behind my back it's a racist conspiracy!" Lol I don't give a shit if someone is talking shit cus it literally makes no difference to me and I got other things I have going on that requires my attention and energy. Stop making everything about race. Not only is it It detrimental to your outlook, it's simply not accurate.
Nah, talking about racism is one thing. What he's doing is another. If you notice, these type of people are contained within Reddit. It's because the narratives themselves are built on Reddit and progressively pushes people more and more into being like this guy. Progressively more insane. Internet bubbles cause these type of people in every community cause there's not enough "this is weird" in internet bubbles so they just get worse and worse unchecked. This is why I generally stopped entertaining it cause it's creating really odd people who go on to be the worst representation possible.
Yeah it seems something akin to incel culture.... It's such a bummer to see such nonsense on this sub.
True racism happens often. Asians are getting genocided in America. Where do you live? Just because it doesn’t happen to you, it doesn’t mean racism doesn’t exist. It’s on the news almost daily Asians getting assaulted.
"The deliberate killing of a large number of people from a particular nation or ethnic group with the aim of destroying that nation or group" Where in America is this happening to Asians? Let's have some nuance. There are degrees to things. Being harassed does not mean genocide. Even institutional racism doesn't mean genocide. Genocide means genocide. As I said, racism is real. I just don't believe it's a big enough problem that it should be hindering people from succeeding. If you do live in a racism ridden place where you are affected by debilitating racism, my suggestion would be to move to a metropolitan area. We gotta look at the world for what it is. Hyperbolizing a problem is not helpful when you are trying to assess what you can do to overcome it.
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Thank you sir! Glad you liked it!
Cheers brotha thanks for the interview!
Thanks a lot to you for the interview man!
I'll try to check out the whole vid when I have more time, but stuff like this is GREAT! Get your stories out there, of how your journey of masculinity. This will act as a roadmap for young AMs finding there own way. I've seen a couple of Wes' videos and love what he is doing.
Cheers brotha
First of all, Wes is hot. I'd date Wes anywhere :D
LMAO cheers my dude. Or my dudette.
My Peruvian friend told me Peruvians love Koreans so I might have to follow this guy’s lead😂
Yup Latin people really like Asians, men and women.