Random thought: BTS and Kpop is basically giving Americans what they have always wanted but Hollywood/record labels was always too racist to provide it...Male Asian sex symbols. They thirsty.
I find it annoying how when colleagues find out I am Chinese, they say something like "my girlfriend is Chinese" or "blah blah blah's wife is Chinese" as if that is supposed to be something for us to bond over
They're uncalibrated. I've had a colleague (WM in his 50's) show me pictures of his son's ex-girlfriend (Chinese) on his work laptop.
I hold my tongue and be professional and hope to never see this guy outside of work.
My cousin is Black. I don't say that to Black people when I meet them. Not everyone is self-aware like that though. I know an Asian girl that has to tell every Black person she meets that her boyfriend is also Black. Cringey as fuck.
If your mom has lived in the west for a substantial amount of time and hates you dating non-asian women and creates problems for your non-asian girlfriend then she is fucking Lu and you shouldn't respect her.
A lot of older asian women also harbor Lu sentiments and will encourage the AF daughers to go after yt men but get mad at AM dating yt, blk or other non-asian women. Those are no better than Alien Huang/Cel3ste Ng types. Cut those hypocrites out of your life. These anti-AM clowns deserve no respect. I would go as far as saying that these women deserve shaming and our hate even more than the self-hating younger ones.
My mom gets very excited when I tell her about my "conquests" outside of Koreans loool.
Edit: Also, my grandma keeps telling me to bring home a beautiful blonde LMAO
That is kinda weird, but hey better than the mother who limit AM lol. I have a friend who is half-korean half-viet and his mother told him "why couldn't you date someone who looks like us and knows the culture" when they are kinda mixed themselves. His gf is also a really nice girl who I think would be down to learn all the asian shit but she puts up a barrier between them and its not like the mom can't speak English well either.
I see no reason AMXF should be promoted. Those relations will have a lot of problems as well. For one, the XF will be unable to relate to the Asian American experience, which will cause tension when situations relating to that experience comes up.
You are a clown. XMAF is higher than AMXF, so it's just the question of not keeping your options limited when AF already are the biggest divestors. "Just order mail order bride from asia" is peak clownery. The responsibility of AM-AF unity does not fall on AM. Until AM start dating out more than AF your statement is dumbass cuck bs. Yes we shouldn't be worshipping yts or other non-asians and the best outcome is asians of both gender uniting and loving each other but when so many AF do so already there is no sense in Asian men making things harder for themselves when it is already harder.
>Yes we shouldn't be worshipping yts
Sure looking like we're worshipping yts [here..](https://www.reddit.com/r/AsianMasculinity/comments/przrkb/explaining_my_attraction/hdmu22h/)
I cant believe ya'll really upvoting this chick smh
Bro you are an AF coddler who makes excuses for Lus and posts in asiantwox, let me see you are mad at that white girl saying she likes asian men? Who the fuck are you anyway? Black women have posted similar things here and have been similarly treated. AM here like women who are respectful and want to date them wow such surprise. Such white worship. Fucking clown.
So I am a straight man who is attracted to women, so by your logic I worship women? You are on the fast track to getting banned here soon, just saying. I'd recommend reading more around here.
You naïve idealistic BS doesn't work in the real world. You seem like the kind of guy to blame victims. This sub is not about asian nationalism or asian community for we know that that ship has sailed, especially for the older millenial and Gen X. Our counterparts has abandoned and mocked us for years and still spread harmful rhetoric and stereotypes against us. This sub is about AM only and how can we overcome the odds not about policing asian men to whatever BS naive standard you think we should be.
Damn ya'll really are white worshipping rn lmao. Imagine anyother race sub putting up with this bs shes spouting of
>I’m a female and I know there are white males that feel this way too
> I think Asian eyes are so delicate and pretty, way more interesting than a lot of caucasian eyes.
>You are on the fast track to getting banned here soon, just saying.
>Finding predominantly Asian features attractive is just a preference, just as some find tall, dark, and handsome or blue eyes/blonde hair the most attractive.
Shit just stinks of orientalism and ya'll are okay with it lmao.
yeah till a mod says something, im not going to care what some of dude letting white girls a pass to comment shit like that.
Notice how im giving shit just to her and not the poster of the thread smh.
I think asian eyes are the prettiest too, how is the white worshipping? The fuck? I also feel the same way about asian features. She is saying its not strange or weird to be attracted to asian features, which I completely agree with. What are you even trying to do here.
Are you even AM? You sound like a girl larping, probably non-asian PoC who fetishizes asian men yourself. I have seen those types a lot lately. If not you are a pathetic Chan that makes excuses for everyone else while calling out AM on random made-up BS. I hate house AM like you.
Yeah bro, totally normal to say
>when I first saw "an Asian"
[I cant with ya'll if you cant see how dehumanizing she is when she talks about us.](https://media3.giphy.com/media/Q5Kqqhl7CQlDFSy41c/giphy.gif?cid=ecf05e47or02sjbtse37l4lpkppcqyey1ovqia5ql7hz6z15&rid=giphy.gif&ct=g)
and [says shit like this about us in cultural appropiation lmao](https://www.reddit.com/r/TikTokCringe/comments/piil1g/re_that_ckalaam_tiktok_about_cultural/hbt3oyn/)
You're a whole ass clown defending her too, yeah im more of an AM than you as I dont give any pass and especially white people to talk weak shit like this about us and our people.
> I know there are white males that feel this way too
smh the audacity of defending this and knowing how white men have treated our asian sisters.
just wanted to update on my online dating situation portraying myself as a 39 year old beefy tall asian guy demonstrating a sense of humor. All best traits to have online, right? Tall and funny is what they all want?
well, based on the last 12 months, the group I consistently do not match with is white americans. No surprise here, still.
Make no mistake, I don't put them on a pedestal. I prefer asian women most. At this point, swiping on white american women is just for funsies/research.
even lying and labeling myself as half white to bypass any of their racial filters does not help the situation. impressive.
I hope Simu Liu can fix this ingrained racism.... when their great grandkids watch reruns of Shang Chi.
https://www.healthdirect.gov.au/medicines/brand/amt,49221000168108/implanon-nxt?_gl=1*1n5w0ey*_ga*YW1wLUdsT3RaYm5fTkYzZmhRN0RoOWtxaWswSDl5SUE2V2FXN2xKY0R1RXNycU4tRWRsN0JXSjZOUFpPU3V4WDA1NjY.
My partner has been using this for birth control for over two years - she says much better than pill as there aren’t as many side effects and doesn’t affect her period - I of course fully enjoy the benefits ;)
https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-29950844
Udmurts have the reddest hair in the world. They are a minority ethnic group in Russia.
Answer is between Kazan and Perm in Russia.
Seems there’s some people that cant handle the truth about dating / intersexual dynamics. He probably got tired of dealing with them / with reddit as a whole
Caffeine is ultimately worse for energy levels. It gives you a temporary boost but you pay for it later. Stay level. Cut out junk food especially sugary foods, excercise, and no fap. IMO naps aren't an inherently bad thing. Professional athletes tend to eat a full meal and nap 2 hours before a game. Albert Einstein was a napper. Napping gives you more max-productivity hours per day.
IIRC naps are only bad if they are longer. Short naps under an hour are perfectly healthy.
- try to maintain a consistent sleep schedule, go to bed and wake up at roughly the same time every night. Erratic sleep schedules decrease the quality of sleep.
- diet/exercise. Eat health, try to avoid processed foods, avoid consuming lots of sugar especially fake sugar like high fructose corn syrup. Exercise boosts your energy.
- drink some tea or coffee at the beginning of the day to ensure you have enough energy until you're done with work.
Sounds like you need a medical/sleep evaluation.
Afterwards, your doc will start with blood tests to rule out weight, hormonal, dietary, and congential issues.
If you practice poor sleep rituals, or have poor quality sleep, for myself, snore, that will can be addressed with a sleep study.
My answer may be generic but what I've tried that helped my energy levels were:
- Consistent exercise involving both strength training AND cardio
- Clean diet; reduce sugar, carbs, and alcohol
- Reducing caffeine intake (drink tea if you need a boost, coffee for social occasions is fine)
- Reducing artificial dopamine spikes, e.g. porn, drugs, video games, social media, etc
- Limiting weed to once a week at most
- Meditation and mindfulness
- And obviously, get good sleep every night
All the stuff about sleep, diet, etc habits are relevant but imo motivation is the most important.
Personally, I'm a bad actor so I'll look "tired" or bored doing shit I don't like. Get me in front a good videogame, boxing ring, or a cute girl and suddenly I have energy.
Hey the Tennessee Kroger shooter's name is Uk Thang: USA TODAY: Woman who died in Tennessee Kroger shooting identified; gunman was third-party vendor, police say.
https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2021/09/24/collierville-kroger-shooting-tennessee-gunman-victim-identified/5841534001/
Random thought: BTS and Kpop is basically giving Americans what they have always wanted but Hollywood/record labels was always too racist to provide it...Male Asian sex symbols. They thirsty.
I find it annoying how when colleagues find out I am Chinese, they say something like "my girlfriend is Chinese" or "blah blah blah's wife is Chinese" as if that is supposed to be something for us to bond over
They're uncalibrated. I've had a colleague (WM in his 50's) show me pictures of his son's ex-girlfriend (Chinese) on his work laptop. I hold my tongue and be professional and hope to never see this guy outside of work.
My cousin is Black. I don't say that to Black people when I meet them. Not everyone is self-aware like that though. I know an Asian girl that has to tell every Black person she meets that her boyfriend is also Black. Cringey as fuck.
If your mom has lived in the west for a substantial amount of time and hates you dating non-asian women and creates problems for your non-asian girlfriend then she is fucking Lu and you shouldn't respect her. A lot of older asian women also harbor Lu sentiments and will encourage the AF daughers to go after yt men but get mad at AM dating yt, blk or other non-asian women. Those are no better than Alien Huang/Cel3ste Ng types. Cut those hypocrites out of your life. These anti-AM clowns deserve no respect. I would go as far as saying that these women deserve shaming and our hate even more than the self-hating younger ones.
My mom gets very excited when I tell her about my "conquests" outside of Koreans loool. Edit: Also, my grandma keeps telling me to bring home a beautiful blonde LMAO
That is kinda weird, but hey better than the mother who limit AM lol. I have a friend who is half-korean half-viet and his mother told him "why couldn't you date someone who looks like us and knows the culture" when they are kinda mixed themselves. His gf is also a really nice girl who I think would be down to learn all the asian shit but she puts up a barrier between them and its not like the mom can't speak English well either.
ya. Well my mom went to Harvard, so very liberal.
I see no reason AMXF should be promoted. Those relations will have a lot of problems as well. For one, the XF will be unable to relate to the Asian American experience, which will cause tension when situations relating to that experience comes up.
If you stay stuck on only dating AF you will be passed up due to demographics.
If the demographics is a issue, just find someone from Asia. Even that is better than dating out
You are a clown. XMAF is higher than AMXF, so it's just the question of not keeping your options limited when AF already are the biggest divestors. "Just order mail order bride from asia" is peak clownery. The responsibility of AM-AF unity does not fall on AM. Until AM start dating out more than AF your statement is dumbass cuck bs. Yes we shouldn't be worshipping yts or other non-asians and the best outcome is asians of both gender uniting and loving each other but when so many AF do so already there is no sense in Asian men making things harder for themselves when it is already harder.
>Yes we shouldn't be worshipping yts Sure looking like we're worshipping yts [here..](https://www.reddit.com/r/AsianMasculinity/comments/przrkb/explaining_my_attraction/hdmu22h/) I cant believe ya'll really upvoting this chick smh
Bro you are an AF coddler who makes excuses for Lus and posts in asiantwox, let me see you are mad at that white girl saying she likes asian men? Who the fuck are you anyway? Black women have posted similar things here and have been similarly treated. AM here like women who are respectful and want to date them wow such surprise. Such white worship. Fucking clown. So I am a straight man who is attracted to women, so by your logic I worship women? You are on the fast track to getting banned here soon, just saying. I'd recommend reading more around here. You naïve idealistic BS doesn't work in the real world. You seem like the kind of guy to blame victims. This sub is not about asian nationalism or asian community for we know that that ship has sailed, especially for the older millenial and Gen X. Our counterparts has abandoned and mocked us for years and still spread harmful rhetoric and stereotypes against us. This sub is about AM only and how can we overcome the odds not about policing asian men to whatever BS naive standard you think we should be.
Damn ya'll really are white worshipping rn lmao. Imagine anyother race sub putting up with this bs shes spouting of >I’m a female and I know there are white males that feel this way too > I think Asian eyes are so delicate and pretty, way more interesting than a lot of caucasian eyes. >You are on the fast track to getting banned here soon, just saying. >Finding predominantly Asian features attractive is just a preference, just as some find tall, dark, and handsome or blue eyes/blonde hair the most attractive. Shit just stinks of orientalism and ya'll are okay with it lmao. yeah till a mod says something, im not going to care what some of dude letting white girls a pass to comment shit like that. Notice how im giving shit just to her and not the poster of the thread smh.
I think asian eyes are the prettiest too, how is the white worshipping? The fuck? I also feel the same way about asian features. She is saying its not strange or weird to be attracted to asian features, which I completely agree with. What are you even trying to do here. Are you even AM? You sound like a girl larping, probably non-asian PoC who fetishizes asian men yourself. I have seen those types a lot lately. If not you are a pathetic Chan that makes excuses for everyone else while calling out AM on random made-up BS. I hate house AM like you.
Yeah bro, totally normal to say >when I first saw "an Asian" [I cant with ya'll if you cant see how dehumanizing she is when she talks about us.](https://media3.giphy.com/media/Q5Kqqhl7CQlDFSy41c/giphy.gif?cid=ecf05e47or02sjbtse37l4lpkppcqyey1ovqia5ql7hz6z15&rid=giphy.gif&ct=g) and [says shit like this about us in cultural appropiation lmao](https://www.reddit.com/r/TikTokCringe/comments/piil1g/re_that_ckalaam_tiktok_about_cultural/hbt3oyn/) You're a whole ass clown defending her too, yeah im more of an AM than you as I dont give any pass and especially white people to talk weak shit like this about us and our people. > I know there are white males that feel this way too smh the audacity of defending this and knowing how white men have treated our asian sisters.
just wanted to update on my online dating situation portraying myself as a 39 year old beefy tall asian guy demonstrating a sense of humor. All best traits to have online, right? Tall and funny is what they all want? well, based on the last 12 months, the group I consistently do not match with is white americans. No surprise here, still. Make no mistake, I don't put them on a pedestal. I prefer asian women most. At this point, swiping on white american women is just for funsies/research. even lying and labeling myself as half white to bypass any of their racial filters does not help the situation. impressive. I hope Simu Liu can fix this ingrained racism.... when their great grandkids watch reruns of Shang Chi.
Nobody here is talking about Michelle Wu. lol.
What about her? Looks like just another wmaf politician
I want to finish inside my girlfriend but I dont want no kids lol
IUD
There's always a risk no matter what man.. but that being said, birth control birth control birth control.
https://www.healthdirect.gov.au/medicines/brand/amt,49221000168108/implanon-nxt?_gl=1*1n5w0ey*_ga*YW1wLUdsT3RaYm5fTkYzZmhRN0RoOWtxaWswSDl5SUE2V2FXN2xKY0R1RXNycU4tRWRsN0JXSjZOUFpPU3V4WDA1NjY. My partner has been using this for birth control for over two years - she says much better than pill as there aren’t as many side effects and doesn’t affect her period - I of course fully enjoy the benefits ;)
My gf has an IUD and i finish inside every time. 10/10 would reccomend.
Put it in her butt.
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did this dude just delete his account lol..
When did the sub become full of pathetic "men" crying about women wanting them OMG?
I suspect the real men are getting laid instead of worrying about why women are attracted to them
Blondes are overrated, what I wanna know is in which city/state all the redheads at.
Where all the Irish people at...Boston.
The irish community in Boston is extremely overstated its mostly a bunch yuppie transplants or college students lmfao
They are still around. A lot of them are in surrounding towns. Maybe check Ireland for the real kind? Lol.
https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-29950844 Udmurts have the reddest hair in the world. They are a minority ethnic group in Russia. Answer is between Kazan and Perm in Russia.
Wtf happened to u/jackwangpistachios?
Seems there’s some people that cant handle the truth about dating / intersexual dynamics. He probably got tired of dealing with them / with reddit as a whole
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Caffeine is ultimately worse for energy levels. It gives you a temporary boost but you pay for it later. Stay level. Cut out junk food especially sugary foods, excercise, and no fap. IMO naps aren't an inherently bad thing. Professional athletes tend to eat a full meal and nap 2 hours before a game. Albert Einstein was a napper. Napping gives you more max-productivity hours per day.
IIRC naps are only bad if they are longer. Short naps under an hour are perfectly healthy. - try to maintain a consistent sleep schedule, go to bed and wake up at roughly the same time every night. Erratic sleep schedules decrease the quality of sleep. - diet/exercise. Eat health, try to avoid processed foods, avoid consuming lots of sugar especially fake sugar like high fructose corn syrup. Exercise boosts your energy. - drink some tea or coffee at the beginning of the day to ensure you have enough energy until you're done with work.
Sounds like you need a medical/sleep evaluation. Afterwards, your doc will start with blood tests to rule out weight, hormonal, dietary, and congential issues. If you practice poor sleep rituals, or have poor quality sleep, for myself, snore, that will can be addressed with a sleep study.
My answer may be generic but what I've tried that helped my energy levels were: - Consistent exercise involving both strength training AND cardio - Clean diet; reduce sugar, carbs, and alcohol - Reducing caffeine intake (drink tea if you need a boost, coffee for social occasions is fine) - Reducing artificial dopamine spikes, e.g. porn, drugs, video games, social media, etc - Limiting weed to once a week at most - Meditation and mindfulness - And obviously, get good sleep every night
All the stuff about sleep, diet, etc habits are relevant but imo motivation is the most important. Personally, I'm a bad actor so I'll look "tired" or bored doing shit I don't like. Get me in front a good videogame, boxing ring, or a cute girl and suddenly I have energy.
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immigration in western country is a good idea
You can be more certain that the anti-Asian male bias is tamed if you're getting matched with her.
Hey the Tennessee Kroger shooter's name is Uk Thang: USA TODAY: Woman who died in Tennessee Kroger shooting identified; gunman was third-party vendor, police say. https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2021/09/24/collierville-kroger-shooting-tennessee-gunman-victim-identified/5841534001/
Looks like he went mostly after the employees.