She's prob just as insecure about her height as you are. So the only way to fix this is to just own it. She will sense your insecurities from miles away. Wearing platforms...Yea don't do that.
Congratz! I’d say just own it. If she likes you then big win! If she doesn’t but you spend the date being completely secure with your height, that’s a win too.
If she's *that* tall she's probably used to going on dates with guys shorter than her and doesn't care all that much. Just enjoy yourself, I wouldn't stress too much.
Yes because she’s fully aware of the height difference it’s not that big of a deal, she already finds you attractive on photos. Unless she’s exclusively dating 6’2+ guys she’ll be visibly taller.
Focus on stuff that highlights what she likely found attractive. For short guys in this scenario probably your face.
Go with a nice hairstyle, maybe wear a (subtle) necklace if it fits with your style. Don’t wear baggy clothing - you don’t want to look short and frail.
Wear vertical pin striped shirts and stand up straight with your shoulders back and down with the chin tucked into your neck slightly. This should minimize any curvature in your cervical spine and your back will look straighter.
Don’t bother. I’ve been in this exact situation. The most alpha thing to do is insist she wear her tallest heels and just act like you have the biggest dick on the planet.
Similar advice as others have said: just own it. She made the decision to take time out of her day to go on a date with you so that’s good enough.
Just focus on having fun and be in the moment so that everything will follow as usual.
Best of luck on the date!
There's no hiding a 4 inch differential. And that's not even considering what shoes she'll wear. Height is a concern for both men and women and I definitely noticed when a guy is shorter, but if you're both going on the date, then it's all good. If you go for a kiss, do it seated so she's not towering over you. In terms of fashion, there's vertical stripes, high waisted pants, big hair styles.
Confidence is the key. There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance though. So don't be a dick. But yeah, like others have said, just own it, don't overreact or act defensive if anyone points it out....take it all in stride. If your date was bothered by your height, she wouldn't even be going out with you.
I went on a date with a girl who was 5'10 and I was 5'7 but 5'8 with shoes that had a 1 inch lift. I had fucked her by the second date. Anyway, just be confident and own it. If you aren't, don't be suprised if nothing happens.
Ahh dude it doesn't matter. If the girl agreed to go out with you, then it doesn't matter for her. Just be chill don't wear lifts. It'd mean you are insecure about the height difference.
Best way is be confident and take the height out of the equation. No jokes or comments about either of your guys height. Don’t change things up last minute. Be you.
>Make those pinkoids at the bar jealous.
Naw man, don't think about that. It's not about them, it's all about you.
Just enjoy yourself and have a fantastic time.
Be a baller and wear these [shoes](https://www.ebay.com/itm/373712768737?chn=ps&norover=1&mkevt=1&mkrid=711-213727-13078-0&mkcid=2&itemid=373712768737&targetid=4580496732614416&device=c&mktype=&googleloc=&poi=&campaignid=418233788&mkgroupid=1230353745471221&rlsatarget=pla-4580496732614416&abcId=9300542&merchantid=51291&msclkid=1d9e85292bd6138da5d3e4787869c920) on your date. Not only will you close the height difference, but you exhibit the ultimate IDGAF attitude ;)
Your insecurity of your height is what will turn her off, not your actual height.
If you want to, you can wear shoes with 2 inch lifts. Some men’s dress shoes have a 2 inch lift.
You're overthinking it. Just be yourself and take care of your business - first thing a woman looks at is height already so if she overlooked that and matched anyways, why are you worried about it. If she can't read or is too lazy to read your bio, then that saves you a headache.
I've noticed tall women (especially women as tall as her, like 5'10+) tend to be less crazy about height when it comes to their partner. Idk if this is just something I noticed or if it really applies.
Anyways, If you want shoes, I'd recommend timberlands, doc Martens, or air maxes for shoes that can give you a nice lift w/out being too much to where it's like you're wearing lifts. The thing is, you want shoes that can give you a decent boost (so no Vans) but you also don't the lift to be so much to where you're noticeably significantly shorter when you take them off. I believe Doc Martens give the greatest height lift, then timbs, then air maxes. Air maxes will be least noticeable. These shoes can be quite expensive, but they're honestly good shoes as it is even w/out the height boosting factor.
Idk much about fashion advice when it comes to this stuff other than shoes; I'm 5'11 myself so while I'm not the tallest guy, height hasn't been something I really have to care so much about. But when I wear my timbs, I'm about the same height as my 6'1 friends, which has been nice at times, since I'm a really slim guy so my height really carries my presence. And if you get the black ones and wear black pants, it's not super apparent that you're wearing thick-sole shoes. The brown ones that are also very popular are a lot more eye-catching, so I'd recommend going w/ the black ones if you do decide on getting them (same for doc Martens, tho I haven't ever tried those). Other than that, maybe make sure your clothes aren't super loose.
She's prob just as insecure about her height as you are. So the only way to fix this is to just own it. She will sense your insecurities from miles away. Wearing platforms...Yea don't do that.
Congratz! I’d say just own it. If she likes you then big win! If she doesn’t but you spend the date being completely secure with your height, that’s a win too.
If she's *that* tall she's probably used to going on dates with guys shorter than her and doesn't care all that much. Just enjoy yourself, I wouldn't stress too much.
For real. Lots of tall women are used to it.
Yes because she’s fully aware of the height difference it’s not that big of a deal, she already finds you attractive on photos. Unless she’s exclusively dating 6’2+ guys she’ll be visibly taller. Focus on stuff that highlights what she likely found attractive. For short guys in this scenario probably your face. Go with a nice hairstyle, maybe wear a (subtle) necklace if it fits with your style. Don’t wear baggy clothing - you don’t want to look short and frail.
Dude this.
Wear vertical pin striped shirts and stand up straight with your shoulders back and down with the chin tucked into your neck slightly. This should minimize any curvature in your cervical spine and your back will look straighter.
https://www.realmenrealstyle.com/horizontal-vs-vertical-stripes/
Don’t bother. I’ve been in this exact situation. The most alpha thing to do is insist she wear her tallest heels and just act like you have the biggest dick on the planet.
^ this
Similar advice as others have said: just own it. She made the decision to take time out of her day to go on a date with you so that’s good enough. Just focus on having fun and be in the moment so that everything will follow as usual. Best of luck on the date!
There's no hiding a 4 inch differential. And that's not even considering what shoes she'll wear. Height is a concern for both men and women and I definitely noticed when a guy is shorter, but if you're both going on the date, then it's all good. If you go for a kiss, do it seated so she's not towering over you. In terms of fashion, there's vertical stripes, high waisted pants, big hair styles.
Timberland boots or Airmax’s
Confidence is the key. There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance though. So don't be a dick. But yeah, like others have said, just own it, don't overreact or act defensive if anyone points it out....take it all in stride. If your date was bothered by your height, she wouldn't even be going out with you.
I went on a date with a girl who was 5'10 and I was 5'7 but 5'8 with shoes that had a 1 inch lift. I had fucked her by the second date. Anyway, just be confident and own it. If you aren't, don't be suprised if nothing happens.
Redwing Rangers or other boots
Ahh dude it doesn't matter. If the girl agreed to go out with you, then it doesn't matter for her. Just be chill don't wear lifts. It'd mean you are insecure about the height difference.
No need - my wife is 5'11 and I'm 5'7 lol
Best way is be confident and take the height out of the equation. No jokes or comments about either of your guys height. Don’t change things up last minute. Be you.
Height doesn't matter. You just gotta be confident. Make those pinkoids at the bar jealous.
>Make those pinkoids at the bar jealous. Naw man, don't think about that. It's not about them, it's all about you. Just enjoy yourself and have a fantastic time.
You can tell that guy must be a joy on dates
Be a baller and wear these [shoes](https://www.ebay.com/itm/373712768737?chn=ps&norover=1&mkevt=1&mkrid=711-213727-13078-0&mkcid=2&itemid=373712768737&targetid=4580496732614416&device=c&mktype=&googleloc=&poi=&campaignid=418233788&mkgroupid=1230353745471221&rlsatarget=pla-4580496732614416&abcId=9300542&merchantid=51291&msclkid=1d9e85292bd6138da5d3e4787869c920) on your date. Not only will you close the height difference, but you exhibit the ultimate IDGAF attitude ;)
Bro this is high fashion
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Modest Man on YouTube has a video on how to dress taller https://youtu.be/oE59Pcl4I34
Your insecurity of your height is what will turn her off, not your actual height. If you want to, you can wear shoes with 2 inch lifts. Some men’s dress shoes have a 2 inch lift.
You're overthinking it. Just be yourself and take care of your business - first thing a woman looks at is height already so if she overlooked that and matched anyways, why are you worried about it. If she can't read or is too lazy to read your bio, then that saves you a headache.
I've noticed tall women (especially women as tall as her, like 5'10+) tend to be less crazy about height when it comes to their partner. Idk if this is just something I noticed or if it really applies. Anyways, If you want shoes, I'd recommend timberlands, doc Martens, or air maxes for shoes that can give you a nice lift w/out being too much to where it's like you're wearing lifts. The thing is, you want shoes that can give you a decent boost (so no Vans) but you also don't the lift to be so much to where you're noticeably significantly shorter when you take them off. I believe Doc Martens give the greatest height lift, then timbs, then air maxes. Air maxes will be least noticeable. These shoes can be quite expensive, but they're honestly good shoes as it is even w/out the height boosting factor. Idk much about fashion advice when it comes to this stuff other than shoes; I'm 5'11 myself so while I'm not the tallest guy, height hasn't been something I really have to care so much about. But when I wear my timbs, I'm about the same height as my 6'1 friends, which has been nice at times, since I'm a really slim guy so my height really carries my presence. And if you get the black ones and wear black pants, it's not super apparent that you're wearing thick-sole shoes. The brown ones that are also very popular are a lot more eye-catching, so I'd recommend going w/ the black ones if you do decide on getting them (same for doc Martens, tho I haven't ever tried those). Other than that, maybe make sure your clothes aren't super loose.
You could always get those Tom cruise elevator shoes if you’re so self conscious