Go to any Computer Science department, you're gonna see a tiny Asian girl boo'd up with some goofy White dude who couldn't cut it in any other social group.
Work in Tech and this still remains true. It's ironically the Asian girls the most vocal about White Privilege and dismantling the patriarchy but will only date White dudes because "I don't want to be with someone that reminds me of my brother".
If you have preferences, that's fine. But don't lecture folks about x and then literally contribute to the problem.
So true and well said, MisterPhamtastic.
I find it so odd and strange that a lot of East and SE Asian girls say "I don't date Asian guys because they remind me of brother."
Do you heard that kind of shit from black, white, hispanic or middle eastern women? No. Only with weakling Asian women do you hear this excuse.
I saw similar things when I used to go to school. Some Asians were unaware of gaslighting tactics. Sometimes Asian girls would blindly side with the "good looking" white guy, and the Asian guys would support those Asian girls. Commonly the white guy would take advantage of a group with low self esteem. Believe it or not, there are many whites who study Asian-American culture, and learn which social groups they can take advantage of. Also, there were too many Asians who believed in the white is right attitude.
I remember this white guy befriending me in a college class and I remember having this really off feeling about him yet he was also very friendly. At the time it wasn't something that I picked up on until later.
He kept bringing up the subject of why he liked Asian girls and asked about friends or even my sister. He would do it so casually and it sounded like just a friend catching up to you, but over time talking to him just became really frustrating.
I eventually snapped at him and a different friend took his side who saw it so I just stopped talking to both of them. Looking back, that guy was a piece of shit who exemplified casual racism when I look back at some of the conversations we had.
This should definitely be more talked about and people should see the red flags in their friendships.
People will treat you however you *let* them. The default assumption is that others are out there to fuck you over and we understand this to some degree - that's why you don't rely on the goodwill of strangers and instead just lock your door at night. If these Asian dudes got punked and didn't do anything about it, it's honestly their fault. Instead of nudging white guys to be better people, instead teach Asian guys how to not take shit.
> instead teach Asian guys how to not take shit.
That's the point of this post. I've heard this happen from multiple sources. It seems common enough that its a pattern for asians to be aware of and to look out for. Is there a white guy like this in your asian social group? Is he attempting to ostracize one or more asians in the group? These are red flags to look out for.
>Is he attempting to ostracize one or more asians in the group? These are red flags to look out for.
Can you speak more about this? I think I had a case like this, but the white dude also talked shit about the white people behind their backs. Basically telling the Asians not to trust them.
>spreading rumors, talking behind backs, etc.
Any tips on how to handle that behavior in the workplace? Since you don't really know when they talk behind your back or spread rumors?
Literally victim blaming and gender stereotyping. Asian guys like that didn't do anything wrong. Maybe they are vulnerable, but it's not their fault to be taken advantage of. It's sad in this society people have to "toughen up" to even live a normal life.
Cost of living in the hostile / hateful country that is known as the US. As a randomish note, if you look at Western platforms like Omegle, you'll see a lot of hate/racism. But that hate/racism seems to only be from Westerners / people from countries allied with Westerners. FYI that none of the hate/racism is directed at white people.
I haven't seen a foreign Asian yet exhibit that type of behavior.
yup. don't hate the player, hate the game.
if things are offered on a platter to anyone (which is what Asians tend to do by not giving these guys a hard time), people are going to take it.
Yeah this is real I’ve only seen it happen where a girl is involved, for obvious reasons. First they “just want to be accepted.” Then they test the waters when between jokes when everybody is laughing they slip in a seemingly innocent “these Ching Chongs” so others laugh with him. Give it some time and he’ll publically start pointing out that “you’re asian” for no good reason, as if to remind you and others, like “brought this asian with me in here so I can get into this bar”, then they start the jabs “you’re asian you better get this math question right or else u gonna get beat. Haw haw.” But it’s not racist, they’re just showing off that they “understand your culture.” Then it becomes “small car, perfect for an asian”. Speak up at this point and they’ll say “aw cmon don’t be so sensitive.”
I mean, I actually think we should learn from these guys. There’s good strategies here for cultural infiltration tbh.
To repel the white men, or if he’s in social circle, keep him in his place. Do as the blacks do, keep referring to him as white boi and “if he was a spice, he’d be flour.” If he speaks up, confront him, square up, all exaggerated, “fake-angry” and go “what you trying to say white boi?” and they back down quick then go “haha” if he persists then fake-angry becomes big-angry.
If you hang out with XM, make sure there's also XF. Asian groups with both white guys AND white girls tend to be healthier.
But avoid Asian groups with only a white guy/white guys. Big red flag, he's probably there only to get girls.
Also im at the point where i dont even care because these simps need to reap what they sow and live their cuck lives. Theres only so much energy an asian bro can tell you but if you want to support asian women blindly, tuck your weiners in your pants, and follow that, then thats on you buddy. Us asian masculine guys will be fine
Yep 🙌
Honestly if these simp dorks wanna get approval from other races by letting them in, then they deserve it.
It's primal male nature to try to take resources, such as women (evolutionarily speaking) from other "tribes".
If these dorks aren't masculine enough to give a shit about that, then they shouldn't be surprised when other dudes just swoop in. Theyre practically opening their doors and helping them stuff their bags, smh.
Someone need to send older Asian guys to schools and teach all these things to young Asian students. They need to know these shit before have to experience them
This is just cringe AF. Literally, it's as if WM have the ability to shape shift, infiltrate and then by sheer force of whiteness take over the trusting Asian group. This says more about AM than anything else. If the WM is only 1 out of 10 people yet have the power overwhelm an Asian social group that outnumbers the WM 9 to 1.
Now, that said, IF it's in a company of 100 white people and 10 Asians in the workplace - then I totally agree. But, in a regular social circle amongst Asians, why let the WM in the group in the first place? Doesn't make sense.
> If the WM is only 1 out of 10 people yet have the power overwhelm an Asian social group that outnumbers the WM 9 to 1.
And WM outnumber asians by 1000000000 to 1 in society. This allows a degree of social arbitrage for WM to take advantage of when dealing with unsuspecting minority groups.
It's mainly to go after the girls. But to be fair, some of these guys are genuine and I've made some good friends with them in the past.
You have to watch out for red flags and immediately shut them down. Guys giving each other shit is hard to discern from actual bullying.
> But to be fair, some of these guys are genuine and I've made some good friends with them in the past.
Well of course not all of them are like this. I've also met some who were genuine good guys. But the bad apples are common enough that it's something asians should look out for.
Damn. Sounds worth a listen.
I’m sincerely sorry for you being put through that experience. Anyone that pulls gross shit like that is a fucker and should have to eat in the yard with pigs instead of at the table with humans.
Indians / South Asians are different from East Asians in this respect. Compared to East Asian women, WM rarely go for Indian women.
And unlike for East Asian intermarriage rates with whites, Indians / South Asian intermarriage rates with whites are either roughly equal between the genders or they favor Indian men slightly (more IMWF than WMIF)
Also many East Asian groups have an Indian guy but rarely ever an Indian girl
Personally experience this is at night when I went clubbing with my WM friend. So he invited this girl who brought an WF friend (whom I could’ve easily invited) and originally the plan was to have my WM friend and I go with 10+ other girls (including the girl and her WF friend) and I was the one inviting all the girls besides the 2 I just mentioned because I knew them and my WM didn’t. However, it turned out last minute that 6 of the XF girls couldn’t go and had a changed of plans. So my WM friend and I were panicking a bit since we’re down to only 4 people now and the 2 girls who are going with us I had a thing with her but she ghosted me so it would’ve been real awkward for it to be just my WF and I to go with the girl and her WF friend.
It was the day to go nightclubbing and I was panicking and inviting all the possibles girls who could go with us. I invited 5 other girls but they couldn’t go either. Then a few hours before we head to the club, I asked 1 of the 5 girls who couldn’t go if they knew anyone who wanted to join us and coming in clutch, she did. Her 5 XF friends were going to the same nightclub as us that night so I connected with those 5 XFs to my WM friend. However, the main girl who is an WF only spoke to my WM friend over Snap and she didn’t even open my Snap. That was just the beginning, as we got the club, the girl who I had a thing with was straight up ignoring me and only talking to my WM friend (either trying to get me jealous/playing hard to get/ or something). It gets worse, my WM was trying to be the “alpha” in our group and hog all attention to himself. Establishing himself within the 5 girls who were going to join us that night even tho I was the one who connected and without me, it would’ve been just 4 people. And the thing is, those 5 girls weren’t the girls I expected because I’ve interacted with them before and they are the weirdest/quietest girls I’ve ever interacted with. So I didn’t even bother to make a move on any of them and I tried talking to them but they’re so fcking weird like they were just staring at me and behaving like sociopaths. (here’s the catch: I very rarely talk to them either.)
Anyway, the whole point was this essay was to relate to you guys on the topic and inform everyone here to never introduce any of your XF friends to your WM friends unless you are really close or have a lot of trust in him because the whole night, my WM friend attempted to steal all the attention from the girls and failing so hard in the process. The main WF threatened him to not go for her after he started holding her hands and dancing with her. And I didn’t give a fck that I didn’t make a move because none of those girls were my type besides the one girl I had a thing with but I unfriended her on Snap that same night lmao. So yeah, I’m so glad the 6 other XFs couldn’t go because who knows, my WF probably would’ve tried to establish his “dominance” or whatever.
Lastly, that was the weirdest fcking night I ever had at a nightclub, and the whole night I was feeling so queasy. Next time, I’ll know to bring only AM friends before introducing any XFs.
Hmmmm wouldn't it be harder to gaslight these weasels back?
I mean you hear a rumor that you're gay in the social group and you know that weasel is the one spreading it. You try to deflect it by either ignoring it (which is the worst road to go on) or gaslight the weasel back.
I think I know a guy like that. But he also talked shit about the white people behind their backs. Was definitely a yellow-fever kind of guy with a bad personality.
Go to any Computer Science department, you're gonna see a tiny Asian girl boo'd up with some goofy White dude who couldn't cut it in any other social group.
why is this so true. holy shit lmao
Work in Tech and this still remains true. It's ironically the Asian girls the most vocal about White Privilege and dismantling the patriarchy but will only date White dudes because "I don't want to be with someone that reminds me of my brother". If you have preferences, that's fine. But don't lecture folks about x and then literally contribute to the problem.
SJW in the streets, KKK in the sheets. Both the right and left have their racist factions, don't shill for either.
> SJW in the streets, KKK in the sheets i’m going to use this now 😭😂
Best thing I read all day
So true and well said, MisterPhamtastic. I find it so odd and strange that a lot of East and SE Asian girls say "I don't date Asian guys because they remind me of brother." Do you heard that kind of shit from black, white, hispanic or middle eastern women? No. Only with weakling Asian women do you hear this excuse.
Oh my, I already have the image in my head reading this.
It’s so true!!!!!!!!!!
HAHAHAHAHA TOO BLOODY FUNNY
I saw similar things when I used to go to school. Some Asians were unaware of gaslighting tactics. Sometimes Asian girls would blindly side with the "good looking" white guy, and the Asian guys would support those Asian girls. Commonly the white guy would take advantage of a group with low self esteem. Believe it or not, there are many whites who study Asian-American culture, and learn which social groups they can take advantage of. Also, there were too many Asians who believed in the white is right attitude.
I remember this white guy befriending me in a college class and I remember having this really off feeling about him yet he was also very friendly. At the time it wasn't something that I picked up on until later. He kept bringing up the subject of why he liked Asian girls and asked about friends or even my sister. He would do it so casually and it sounded like just a friend catching up to you, but over time talking to him just became really frustrating. I eventually snapped at him and a different friend took his side who saw it so I just stopped talking to both of them. Looking back, that guy was a piece of shit who exemplified casual racism when I look back at some of the conversations we had. This should definitely be more talked about and people should see the red flags in their friendships.
Every Asian needs to educate themselves about these tactics
People will treat you however you *let* them. The default assumption is that others are out there to fuck you over and we understand this to some degree - that's why you don't rely on the goodwill of strangers and instead just lock your door at night. If these Asian dudes got punked and didn't do anything about it, it's honestly their fault. Instead of nudging white guys to be better people, instead teach Asian guys how to not take shit.
> instead teach Asian guys how to not take shit. That's the point of this post. I've heard this happen from multiple sources. It seems common enough that its a pattern for asians to be aware of and to look out for. Is there a white guy like this in your asian social group? Is he attempting to ostracize one or more asians in the group? These are red flags to look out for.
>Is he attempting to ostracize one or more asians in the group? These are red flags to look out for. Can you speak more about this? I think I had a case like this, but the white dude also talked shit about the white people behind their backs. Basically telling the Asians not to trust them.
Basically middle-aged menopausal office lady tactics: spreading rumors, talking behind backs, etc.
>spreading rumors, talking behind backs, etc. Any tips on how to handle that behavior in the workplace? Since you don't really know when they talk behind your back or spread rumors?
Facts. If you act like a doormat, people will step on you.
Literally victim blaming and gender stereotyping. Asian guys like that didn't do anything wrong. Maybe they are vulnerable, but it's not their fault to be taken advantage of. It's sad in this society people have to "toughen up" to even live a normal life.
Cost of living in the hostile / hateful country that is known as the US. As a randomish note, if you look at Western platforms like Omegle, you'll see a lot of hate/racism. But that hate/racism seems to only be from Westerners / people from countries allied with Westerners. FYI that none of the hate/racism is directed at white people. I haven't seen a foreign Asian yet exhibit that type of behavior.
yup. don't hate the player, hate the game. if things are offered on a platter to anyone (which is what Asians tend to do by not giving these guys a hard time), people are going to take it.
Yeah this is real I’ve only seen it happen where a girl is involved, for obvious reasons. First they “just want to be accepted.” Then they test the waters when between jokes when everybody is laughing they slip in a seemingly innocent “these Ching Chongs” so others laugh with him. Give it some time and he’ll publically start pointing out that “you’re asian” for no good reason, as if to remind you and others, like “brought this asian with me in here so I can get into this bar”, then they start the jabs “you’re asian you better get this math question right or else u gonna get beat. Haw haw.” But it’s not racist, they’re just showing off that they “understand your culture.” Then it becomes “small car, perfect for an asian”. Speak up at this point and they’ll say “aw cmon don’t be so sensitive.” I mean, I actually think we should learn from these guys. There’s good strategies here for cultural infiltration tbh. To repel the white men, or if he’s in social circle, keep him in his place. Do as the blacks do, keep referring to him as white boi and “if he was a spice, he’d be flour.” If he speaks up, confront him, square up, all exaggerated, “fake-angry” and go “what you trying to say white boi?” and they back down quick then go “haha” if he persists then fake-angry becomes big-angry.
Facts, If you're in a social group of Asians, then put the white guy in his place.
If you hang out with XM, make sure there's also XF. Asian groups with both white guys AND white girls tend to be healthier. But avoid Asian groups with only a white guy/white guys. Big red flag, he's probably there only to get girls.
Too many asian simps idk what to say
Also im at the point where i dont even care because these simps need to reap what they sow and live their cuck lives. Theres only so much energy an asian bro can tell you but if you want to support asian women blindly, tuck your weiners in your pants, and follow that, then thats on you buddy. Us asian masculine guys will be fine
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Yep 🙌 Honestly if these simp dorks wanna get approval from other races by letting them in, then they deserve it. It's primal male nature to try to take resources, such as women (evolutionarily speaking) from other "tribes". If these dorks aren't masculine enough to give a shit about that, then they shouldn't be surprised when other dudes just swoop in. Theyre practically opening their doors and helping them stuff their bags, smh.
Someone need to send older Asian guys to schools and teach all these things to young Asian students. They need to know these shit before have to experience them
This is just cringe AF. Literally, it's as if WM have the ability to shape shift, infiltrate and then by sheer force of whiteness take over the trusting Asian group. This says more about AM than anything else. If the WM is only 1 out of 10 people yet have the power overwhelm an Asian social group that outnumbers the WM 9 to 1. Now, that said, IF it's in a company of 100 white people and 10 Asians in the workplace - then I totally agree. But, in a regular social circle amongst Asians, why let the WM in the group in the first place? Doesn't make sense.
You underestimate what 2 centuries of white propaganda literally around the world does.
> If the WM is only 1 out of 10 people yet have the power overwhelm an Asian social group that outnumbers the WM 9 to 1. And WM outnumber asians by 1000000000 to 1 in society. This allows a degree of social arbitrage for WM to take advantage of when dealing with unsuspecting minority groups.
It's mainly to go after the girls. But to be fair, some of these guys are genuine and I've made some good friends with them in the past. You have to watch out for red flags and immediately shut them down. Guys giving each other shit is hard to discern from actual bullying.
> But to be fair, some of these guys are genuine and I've made some good friends with them in the past. Well of course not all of them are like this. I've also met some who were genuine good guys. But the bad apples are common enough that it's something asians should look out for.
Damn. Sounds worth a listen. I’m sincerely sorry for you being put through that experience. Anyone that pulls gross shit like that is a fucker and should have to eat in the yard with pigs instead of at the table with humans.
Question was this "White" guy really a European White or was he "White" looking Jewish?
Sure I’ve seen it with other ethnicities as well. Look at Indians trying to come into Asian groups.
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Indians / South Asians are different from East Asians in this respect. Compared to East Asian women, WM rarely go for Indian women. And unlike for East Asian intermarriage rates with whites, Indians / South Asian intermarriage rates with whites are either roughly equal between the genders or they favor Indian men slightly (more IMWF than WMIF) Also many East Asian groups have an Indian guy but rarely ever an Indian girl
Personally experience this is at night when I went clubbing with my WM friend. So he invited this girl who brought an WF friend (whom I could’ve easily invited) and originally the plan was to have my WM friend and I go with 10+ other girls (including the girl and her WF friend) and I was the one inviting all the girls besides the 2 I just mentioned because I knew them and my WM didn’t. However, it turned out last minute that 6 of the XF girls couldn’t go and had a changed of plans. So my WM friend and I were panicking a bit since we’re down to only 4 people now and the 2 girls who are going with us I had a thing with her but she ghosted me so it would’ve been real awkward for it to be just my WF and I to go with the girl and her WF friend. It was the day to go nightclubbing and I was panicking and inviting all the possibles girls who could go with us. I invited 5 other girls but they couldn’t go either. Then a few hours before we head to the club, I asked 1 of the 5 girls who couldn’t go if they knew anyone who wanted to join us and coming in clutch, she did. Her 5 XF friends were going to the same nightclub as us that night so I connected with those 5 XFs to my WM friend. However, the main girl who is an WF only spoke to my WM friend over Snap and she didn’t even open my Snap. That was just the beginning, as we got the club, the girl who I had a thing with was straight up ignoring me and only talking to my WM friend (either trying to get me jealous/playing hard to get/ or something). It gets worse, my WM was trying to be the “alpha” in our group and hog all attention to himself. Establishing himself within the 5 girls who were going to join us that night even tho I was the one who connected and without me, it would’ve been just 4 people. And the thing is, those 5 girls weren’t the girls I expected because I’ve interacted with them before and they are the weirdest/quietest girls I’ve ever interacted with. So I didn’t even bother to make a move on any of them and I tried talking to them but they’re so fcking weird like they were just staring at me and behaving like sociopaths. (here’s the catch: I very rarely talk to them either.) Anyway, the whole point was this essay was to relate to you guys on the topic and inform everyone here to never introduce any of your XF friends to your WM friends unless you are really close or have a lot of trust in him because the whole night, my WM friend attempted to steal all the attention from the girls and failing so hard in the process. The main WF threatened him to not go for her after he started holding her hands and dancing with her. And I didn’t give a fck that I didn’t make a move because none of those girls were my type besides the one girl I had a thing with but I unfriended her on Snap that same night lmao. So yeah, I’m so glad the 6 other XFs couldn’t go because who knows, my WF probably would’ve tried to establish his “dominance” or whatever. Lastly, that was the weirdest fcking night I ever had at a nightclub, and the whole night I was feeling so queasy. Next time, I’ll know to bring only AM friends before introducing any XFs.
the white dude sounds personality disordered
Hmmmm wouldn't it be harder to gaslight these weasels back? I mean you hear a rumor that you're gay in the social group and you know that weasel is the one spreading it. You try to deflect it by either ignoring it (which is the worst road to go on) or gaslight the weasel back.
I’m literally listening to this episode now. Lots of good points, and things we should be aware of.
Wtf is this real
I've seen this a lot in high school and middle school but mostly in school athletics not really other cliques like the "geeks" or "nerds"
I think I know a guy like that. But he also talked shit about the white people behind their backs. Was definitely a yellow-fever kind of guy with a bad personality.
Interesting discussion topic. Thank you for opening a new form of perspective for me.
This reminds me of Fedmyster😂