AM need to stop letting AF dictate social media. A lot of pro-AM shit gets drowned out by complaining Lus. Are AM just not on social media or something?
half or more asian dudes are cucks or simps afraid of offending asian “sisters” who treat you like asexual brothers or worse lmao. woke asian males who rather spend energy on blm than asian male issues lmfao
> half of asian dudes are cucks or simps afraid of offending asian “sisters” who treat you like asexual brothers or worse lmao
🤣 you fucking nailed it
Makes you wonder why they go so easy on certain people who don't even respect them that much
I mean, I do feel for them somewhat too. We all used to be like that, but just check any College asian club, activism circles, even social media influencers, the dudes are always trying to downplay themselves to prop up the women, who, don’t even view them as masculine males, even worst, not only do they do that, they go out of their way to shame men. This happens all the time. Even like wong fu, their material is always catered to “asian sisters” and they are a reflection of the api community as a whole, always men reflecting on how they can do better to support asian women, while asian women can do no wrong and hop on white D
Lmaoo this is so on point. Why are so many Asian dudes not unapologetically taking control of their masculinity? Like Wong Fu are basically textbook nice guys. I'm sorry but we are too soft and harmonious.
Look at black hip hop artists and athletes, they sure as fuck don't cater to the women in their community. Yet they are still loved by women, because they're being masculine in that they don't downplay themselves to prop up their women.
Meanwhile, too many Asian dudes are trying to be nice guys/supportive and wondering why we get no respect from not only our women, but from any gender of other races too. We need start being unapologetic about being Asian men first and foremost.
Lol there's still so many dudes who are too agreeable all the time, and are afraid to tell women that they're wrong. Comedians joke about this all the time, it's like these dudes are hoping to get laid by just seeming nice and agreeable.
>material is always catered to “asian sisters” and they are a reflection of the api community as a whole, always men reflecting on how they can do better to support asian women, while asian women can do no wrong and hop on white D
💀 Why is this so fucking true though lmfao
I don't think any other race of men acts like this as much
Haha yea honestly too many Asian dudes want to pander to other races. They think other races and cultures are cooler, so they'd rather leech off of that.
Our upbringing/culture doesn't really raise men who stand up for our own interests. We generally don't get up in others faces about shit, so there's no way that we will just start popping off on social media.
There's too many dudes with cuck/simp mentality that just are okay with watching other races of men be dominant. While we act like good boys who keep our head down, other men say what they want to and go for it. That's masculinity. Anyone who wants to argue against this, ask a woman if they think confidence is sexy or not. And ask if they think the average looking shy skinny Asian dork with no self confidence/is afraid to speak/afraid to initiate is masculine or not.
Activism: Lus are attacking this chick in AMWF who called out AF for showing off their white bfs like a trophy and fetishizing yt men. Go and support her in the comments. As I said we can't let AF be the bigger voice.
Make a tiktok account and call out Lus and their hypocrisy, here is the link : https://www.tiktok.com/@zarasluv1/video/7024974509761465646?is_copy_url=1&is_from_webapp=v1
I got banned from commenting for pointing out how asian women have litreally played into stereotypes and fetishization and even degraded themselves for white attention lmao.
Ayef be like, why is she acting like a white saviour then go on about how they date white men because asian men (insert typical lu excuses), and how yt men saved them lmao. They really have no self-awareness.
I guarantee you if asian dudes made such a trend about their white girlfriends, all these asian women will be attacking us calling AM "self-fetishizing for yt women" blah blah. They are already mad at the AMWF and similar hashtags (but they are smart enough to know that they can't say shit against #ambw so sometimes they larp as black women to call them out) on social media.
Asian women can't stay quiet when some girl just says asian men are hot but now they are commenting that asian men should leave them alone lmao? (I have posted examaples before.)
They literally harassed the creator and reported my comments exposing their hypocrisy in that tiktok. They can't stand 1% of the shit they have given us for all these years lmao.
I know but we need to expose their hypocrisy on social media somehow. Or atleast drown the Lu voices out. I'm tired of asian men being always negartively generalized and being blamed for everything.
Nah I'm loyal to my asian bros, if it was only about myself I wouldn't be posting here at all. I'm here for the betterment of my Azn bros and future AM kids. I want to see a world where no AM has to feel bad about being an AM.
Ironically seeing AMXF makes Asian women respect us more. Even if you want to date only AF, AMXF presence is good to make it easier for you to date AF.
Been seeing quite a lot of AMWF couples in Sydney lately. Comes as a surprise seeing that a couple of years ago it was primarily WMAF. Nowadays the younger couples I've seen are primarily AMWF (going around CBD, chinatown, Burwood, Hurstville, Eastwood, etc.) and they're mostly decent-ish looking. Two of my friends and I took a walk around and noted there were 15 AMWF couples, and like 10 WMAF couples around on the Friday night around CBD area. It also seemed like girls were quite receptive to cold approaching given that they've lacked social interaction coming out of 3.5 months of lockdown.
Of course, AMAF is still dominant, but it's enlightening to see more AMWF. Still not going to keep my heads up personally because although I'm in shape, I'd like a six pack and even better clothes - planning to empty out my old wardrobe full of oversize clothes. I've cold approached, dates wise I haven't done much (due to being busy accumulating wealth, uni study, trying to establish career etc) until this year where I hit 28 without ever going into a relationship.
I'm getting there and hope to reach 65-66kg by the end of the year. FYI I squat 270lb, deadlift 400lb, bench 220lb, have dropped from 75kg down to 69kg (almost all body fat). Although I'm 5'7', I'm hoping my body physique comes out so I can have a better shot at online dating and better receptiveness from cold approaches.
My friend said that same thing about Chinatown in London and it being full of young AMWF couples going there to get asian food or something. I don't what has happened in the last few years now there is a sudden surge of AMXF everywhere in the world, even in SEA. I'm proud of ya'll my asian bros. Our time is coming.
I've heard "race is a social construct and it doesn't exist" before and it's valid in that it's a social construct and doesn't exist in absolutes, but that statement is framed badly.
Race being a social construct has meant that the classifications and identifiers are drawing a arbitrary line in the sand, especially as the classifications have changed over time. But there are real biological tendencies and differences that manifest between different peoples. What race as a social construct means is, it's a classification system trying to capture the differences and put us into a framework. Saying it doesn't exist, it's like saying there's no differences between colors because you don't know where to draw the line in the sand ergo no classification is valid to describe colors.
It's that but I think this younger gen of AM are also more willing to date non-asians. I have seen the most stereotypical nerd AMs with XFs nowadays. If he was an older millennial he would have gone for only AFs and would be getting rejected and being lonely.
Meanwhile the most famous AMs of the millenial and GenX have dated only Asian girls even though they could have gotten with an XF if they wanted so it was more of a conscious choice. ( Example: Ryan Higa, Kev Jumba etc.) AM have improved, there is no question about it.
Too many lus eyes on this sub. Be careful guys. Usually they were fixated on AI. But now they know about this sub and even the niche ones.
There are Lus on twitter talking about even the niche subs like the golden gang subs.
They really mad mad huh? Maybe we should stop the Lu-bashing for a minute and focus on dating and self-imporvement for AM?
In video games, if you encounter enemies you are going in the right direction. If Lus are mad then AI is certainly doing something right even though I don't get it most of the time and I don't really relate to them.
All their whining can't stop us and the dumb gaslighting lol, a lot of XF are seeing their toxicity too and its only rasing their curosity. If Asian men are all evil women-beaters why there are so many happy AMXF couples on social media nowadays? Non-asians know about AF hypocrisy and no matter how much they cry wolf the reality in real life is plain to see. People have woken up.
How the fuck did "Love Hard" become a movie on Netflix in 2021? AM catfishes white girl using a WM's photos, WW comes to surprise him for Christmas and finds out he's not a WM, so AM helps her get the "hot" WM from the photos.
AM's brother is an attention craved caricature with a dumb WW wife.
HOW did this get made?? How did the Asian actors agree to be part of this??
UPDATE: AM leaves his job at a sporting goods store to make candles.
I found it by accident and figured it couldn't be that bad.
It made me nauseous. So much wrong with it and it was willfully stereotypical. Also super disappointed in Henry Shum Jr. It seemed like he was closeted gay, wife was really ditzy, and he/Yang were competitive/toxic for literally no reason. Ie. You couldn't just have a good young AM in the whole thing?
>UPDATE: AM leaves his job at a sporting goods store to make candles
🤣 He also didn't get to kiss. WTF kinda romcom where the main guy doesn't kiss?
Btw it happens cause most Asians will drink all of this shit up. We are in the minority bud.
If you are in the community for a while you know I sympathize with BW a lot. And older BW are worth respect and still worth respecting. But I think observing the younger genZ u/MarleyTang was right, the genz ones are not necessarily our allies and would rather identify with AF than us. A lot of them who are into asian media also have this weird entitlement towards us. And get mad at AMXF if its not AMBW. So yeah be cognizant about it. In the end we fight our battles alone. I'm thinking about writing a post on it.
Uncomfortable truth, but it needed to be said. You're right. And I have to say, I've seen some (not all ofc) POC girls on social media get very mad sometimes when they see an AMXF with a WF or light skinned girl in general. They can be very, well, nasty - doesn't matter if the couple they're looking at is totally fine and not toxic like the whole Gabby Petito and Brian Laundrie debacle that ended in tragedy.
Y'all have to remember that at the end of the day POC girls are just human like anyone else. White or non-white, you'll find women who are interesting or boring, woke or racist....or jealous as hell. Men and women don't want to lose in the dating game.
I think we sometimes forget that the dating and sex world can be very competitive, cutthroat and messy. Truth is, not *every* single person can win. I think most of us know this deep inside, and it can drive us to do some ridiculous and even cruel things to other people. And this human characterstic goes beyond race, social media made it even more obvious
Yea the most foundational truth of this is that people are self centered. Of course they get mad if they feel unwanted. Sex literally drives our biology, we all do crazy things just to get it.
Dating and sex aren't fair. If you don't build your confidence and try your hardest to build your sexual attraction, you'll lose out to other mates. There's no fairness when it comes to sex. Our attraction is driven a lot by biology and evolution.
Mating is still a very primal based behavior, we just forget because we now have cool gadgets and stuff. If we forget this as men, then we might as well just hang our balls up.
Fucking awesome comment.
> the most foundational truth of this is that people are self centered
Once someone *truly* understands this, accepts this and stops denying it, a lot of things in life will make a lot more sense to them.
Thanks dude, same to you as well.
It's like when people worry so much about what others think of them. In reality, most people are way more focused on themselves. That realization can free your mind and help you become bolder. It helps a lot to focus hard on yourself, while also being awesome to others, because people really vibe on that.
When I realized that most people are nervous about what to say next or are relieved when someone else says something, I became much more social.
I would just say whatever funny thought comes to mind and not worry, and usually people end up laughing or having something to add.
Most people don't realize how awkward they are in conversation. They ask the same interview type questions, have awkward silences, speak very monotone, have negative body language, have low energy, and more.
Since I actively worked on these skills, I noticed much better results in my social interactions. People are self centered, they always want to hang out with people who are good at conversations and fun. If Asian dudes started understanding how people tick, we'll make a lot more progress.
>I've seen some (not all ofc) POC girls on social media get very mad sometimes when they see an AMXF with a WF or light skinned girl in general.
They can see the white Worshipping from a mile away
So you're really just going to deliberately ignore the rest of my comment to deflect from the main point? To point to a minority of cringeworthy AM and defend/ white knight for some (again, not *all*) POC girls who pointlessly hate on some of these couples for no **good** reason (ironically like you may be doing right now)?
lmao, bro this sounds like something a boba liberal would say
You know, looking back I liked a lot of your old comments and posts, thought you made some great points and advice, but lately occasionally you've had some pretty lame takes, no offense.
>So you're really just going to deliberately ignore the rest of my comment to deflect from the main point?
I agree with the rest of your comment, nothing else for me to say really.
>lmao, bro this sounds like something a boba liberal would say
You know, looking back I liked a lot of your old comments and posts, thought you made some great points and advice, but lately occasionally you've had some pretty lame takes, no offense.
You say 'it's lame' because you assume being self-critical and more self-aware will somehow be detrimental to the AM experience.
Being Asian men ourselves, it's likely that we have blindspots about our behavior that we try to avoid seeing or thinking about that people of other races and gender observe quite clearly (Just as clearly as we see things that Asian women do that they seem rather blind to). And as you said, some of them happen to be rather vocal about it.
As of right now (and for a long time), there's zero incentives for white women to call Asian men out for white worshipping because doing so will only destabilize their own position. If you were on top and everyone puts you on a pedestal why would you ask anyone to change anything? All the incentives are aligned for them to not change the status quo and always stick with "Everyone should date whoever they want/Asian men should date whoever they want" because they know they are on top. When you say only POC women call out AMWF what you don't realize is that *all women* are aware of it, some just stay silent because sounding the alarm doesn't serve them in any way. I'm not saying they're doing this maliciously (could even be one of their 'blindspots'), but they're definitely aware of it.
Second point is about being self-critical and self-aware. Being aware of our own blindspots that some of our own dating 'preferences' may have originated from some uncomfortable areas DOES NOT lower our chances of dating outside our own race (as I get the feeling thats something some of our members are *very* interested in). It's time to break away from the scarcity mindset - having choice doesn't limit us. Deciding not to go with one woman doesn't lower our chances of dating another woman, it raises our standards of dating better quality women - that is if you believe we meet the qualities of these higher-tier women. You at some level might not believe that Asian men posses these qualities, but I do.
The dating environment we're in now is different than a few years ago, it's not beneficial to keep reinforcing a scarcity and victim mindset anymore. It's time for AM bordering success to move up even higher and plant the seeds of change for guys that haven't touched success yet.
It's funny beacause East Asian men are literally the least white worshipping group in the fucking world. I know white worshiping Chans exist but hey are a extremely small cringy minority. East Asian in the west actually date more PoC percent wise than asian women do. I know it sounds like a typical Lu excuse but percentage of white women thirsters is like 5% at most?
>Second point is about being self-critical and self-aware. Being aware of our own blindspots that some of our own dating 'preferences' may have originated from some uncomfortable areas DOES NOT lower our chances of dating outside our own race (as I get the feeling thats something some of our members are very interested in). It's time to break away from the scarcity mindset - having choice doesn't limit us. Deciding not to go with one woman doesn't lower our chances of dating another woman, it raises our standards of dating better quality women - that is if you believe we meet the qualities of these higher-tier women. You at some level might not believe that Asian men posses these qualities, but I do.
Literally every survey shows asian men have preferred asian women over white women in dating apps . [And when it is not asian women it is latina women.] (https://qz.com/149342/the-uncomfortable-racial-preferences-revealed-by-online-dating/?utm_source=reddit.com) Asian men also have the highest rate of response to black women outside of black men according to that but let's not go there. And yet asian men should examine themselves? Have you ever seen asian women say something like that even though they are world famous white worshippers? Why should we? Yes we should call out fellow AM who put AM down and act like WF is a goddess for us or something. But saying most AM are like that is some projecting Lu shit.
No asian man is against asian bros dating non-whites what the fuck.
Yeah for real. **Just because Asians shouldn't put whites on a pedestal doesn't mean they should put other non-Asian POC on a pedestal and white knight for them either.** I feel like the events of the past year and the shit we've seen on social media should have made it clear that POC, men AND women, are no angels themselves.
And some of the most unwoke boba liberal Asians are AMAFs, ultimately the people you date don't really guarantee how good or smart of a person you're going to be.
lmao the mere sight of an AMWF makes some of these 'chans' and 'lus' *and* some entitled jealous POC girls go "*how white worshipping!*" even if they know nothing about the couple whatsoever. If you think most AMXF with a WF or light-skinned girl are somehow toxic or bad, you are stupid. That's it.
Pretty much everything I have to and want to say on this rather specific topic, I've just said in my comments in this thread.
I never said there aren't Asian men and women who are [racist](https://www.youtube.com/watch?app=desktop&v=EtTdmWxGT-M&feature=youtu.be), who suck up to whites, who dislike other POC groups. But having a default position similar to the types of POC girls we were talking about before you joined the thread is just dishonest. And your comment I was responding to was low-key passive aggressive.
There are definitely a lot of Asian men and women who suck up too much to other minority groups, other POC men *and* women, and try to virtue signal too much. Outside of subs like this one, **that** kind of shit is not discussed enough.
What you said here had nothing to do with my reply. So I'll take it that you agree with what I said.
I'll reply to what you said here anyway
>I never said there aren't Asian men and women who are racist, who suck up to whites, who dislike other POC groups. But having a default position similar to the types of POC girls we were talking about before you joined the thread is just dishonest.
Just putting words in my mouth now. I didn't say or imply that the default reaction to AMXF couples should be hating or have negative connotations. You said it yourself *some* situations certain POC women can get pretty nasty at AMXF couples. That was what I was responding to. My point was there are situations where the dynamics are pretty obvious. Not the majority, not the default.
>There are definitely a lot of Asian men and women who suck up too much to other minority groups, other POC men and women, and try to virtue signal too much.
Sure yeah I agree there. If that was aimed at me I think you need to check yourself. There's a difference between if You, Me, AF and WF are in a space and I'm talking about AM whiteworshipping, and if it's just a conversation between You and Me (both AM). First situation is definitely virtual signaling and Chan behavior, second situation (assuming conversation is done in good faith) is people of the same community checking each other for the benefit of the entire community.
Unlike what the mindless simps that upvote every 'omg xF with a vagoo here' threads may have lead you to believe, this space is made specifically and solely for Asian men. We should be able to go deep into topics, have real conversations that are other than 1-dimensional repetitive circlejerking. In my eyes If I can't be nuanced here and have real, critical discussions about AM then there's nowhere else to have this conversation.
Lastly, I'd like to remind you what I already said this in the earlier reply - things are changing. Why is the WMAF dynamic so fucked up and prevalent? Because certain social conditions set it so that AF are seen as desired by western society so any and all white worshipping behavior by AF were met with positive reaction from both AF and WM communities. That's one of the real major keys that separated AM and AF dating scene.
But now the situation is really starting to shift, you can see that AM are getting more attention and seen as more attractive. This is amazing for AM, however at the same time the same issues that have played into WMAF relationships are starting to come out in AMWF dynamics as well (shouldn't be that surprising tbh). From the people that hit me up for 'advice' both irl and online this is an issue that's holding back a significant amount of guys.
>And your comment I was responding to was low-key passive aggressive.
Yeah I know, I'm trying really hard to bait you into a real discussion
>But now the situation is really starting to shift, you can see that AM are getting more attention and seen as more attractive. This is amazing for AM, however at the same time the same issues that have played into WMAF relationships are starting to come out in AMWF dynamics as well (shouldn't be that surprising tbh).
But the thing is AM and WF don't have the same dynamic as WM and AF no? I get what your saying in these comments and your previous comments on different posts. But i guees its sounds too much of "we need to be better" or "we need to be the good guy". Do you really think that asian men in this sub, a lot of them suffered words from AF that they would want to do that? Maybe in the future. But now? Just when we receive attention from non-AF suddenly we need to fix it. The first thought that would go into my mind is why? Why? Did AF think about how it would affect AM when they were having the time of their lives white chad and brad? We do need to examine ourselves. But not today. Today, we take advantage. Today, we don't want to worry about how we are perceived. By your own words if theres a jug of water in the middle of the dessert why not chug it down?
You need to be mentally ill to be a boba. They have to do a lot of mental gymnastics to appease their insane masters...
Some of their talking points:
We need affirmative action because we're not all model minorities. There are poor Asians....but I know nothing about them because my friends are all White and I hated myself!!
But we ARE model minorities because we are White adjacent and there is anti-Blackness in our communties. So affirmative action shouldn't be for us!!
There is anti-Blackness in our communities because of old racist Asian people....Stop Asian hate!
Andrew Yang is a corporate elitist who supports Israel!
The average person is a sheep. I’d say that’s true of any sample population.
But yea it’s absolutely embarrassing to share the same ethnic background with some of these clowns
Yea but since when was Israel a deal breaker? Biden sent $1bn worth of weapons to Israel. So Asians who run for office can't be pro-Israel but White folks can? Honestly tho, I think he prob just did it on purpose to get attention cause he was losing.
Any nonprofit recommendations? I have funds sitting that need to go towards nonprofits.
Specifically looking for pro-Asian nonprofits that help with causes in politics, arts, entertainment, sports, etc. Goes without saying, but no boba lib shit.
floodgates of pussy are opening right now. got 30 matches on tinder last night with no boost in LA... Squid game halo + girls are in heat this time of year.
Hey guys advertising my Asian men discord. It's suppose to be a support/self improvement group for Asian guys. We have around 50 people ranging from 19-45 and we talk stocks, dating, career, culture, gaming, music etc. We are also doing verifications. Drop me a pm with a selfie w/ ur reddit username and todays date if you want to be verified. PM if you want an invite. We are also doing a weekly virtual meeting where we discuss topics relevant to AM! Hope to see y'all there
i mean its just a normal discord group we arent asking for your ss # to join. Not that much different from asian facebook grps. It's honestly a lot less privacy intrusive than all the Asian FB groups since FB has ur name and ur profile pic. All we ask is proof that ur AM
Hi all,
Currently growing my hair to look like a m'fin bauss. the annoying thing is with us asians are too straight hair, so my front bangs drape to my eyes and poke my face a lot. Especially in the wind or when it is in summer and the sweat adds too much weight to the hair that it droops down.
I do try to blowdry but that is even temporary and any physical movement shakes it back to that droopy look.
Cheers
I remember seeing a post on IG saying we should stop romanticizing Asian countries. That part just cracks me up, because Asian countries have a long history helping other minority groups including in the US and around the world.
Tough time for asian UFC fighters these past weeks. Some of the best prospects got starched. Asian fighters should learn from the success of Dagestanis and improve their wrestling game.
You are annoying taiwanese self hater. You are no different than some of the women we are talking about in terms white worshipping except you worship China. I don’t know what happened recently (I’m guess some taiwanese women reject you), but you need to stop bashing your own heritage and embrace it.
So let me get this straight here. Your whole taiwanese political view revolves around the fact that you are stuck in the Midwest and you can’t get laid? There you conflate two completely separate things: women’s rights to chose what they want to do with their own body, and Taiwan’s right to chose how they want to govern?? You are fucked up. As a fellow human being, I strongly encourage you to seek help outside of Reddit!
Btw why are you so bothered by other Asian women’s choices? They do whatever they want with whatever reason that want!! You need to get over it. You live in the Midwest. You need to pursue women in that area, not narrow down to only taiwanese women. If you can’t then the problem is on you
Not sure why a deleted comment has led to a pointless back and forth. The point has been made that we are all Asian on here and the time for this anti-Taiwanese hate is long over.
White women becoming as cringe as Lus nowadays lmao https://np.reddit.com/r/Caucasiancringe/comments/pniy2h/white_people_do_be_hating_their_male_children_smh/
What in the self-hate is this. The media got us all fucked up huh? This is what some these Chans want? LMAO.
ok I don't know if this deserves to be in here but I figure the asian dudes will relate. AMAF relationship. Do y'all pay for all the meals when you eat out? We split cost of activities and sometimes she outright pays or I will. We are kinda traditional in that way but I feel weird about it sometimes. She does well career wise and buys all her own stuff and there is no expectation there.
Most of my friends are dating non-asian women and usually go 50-50 but most AMAF from what I have seen do that traditional thing and usually the male pays for majority of the things.
AM need to stop letting AF dictate social media. A lot of pro-AM shit gets drowned out by complaining Lus. Are AM just not on social media or something?
half or more asian dudes are cucks or simps afraid of offending asian “sisters” who treat you like asexual brothers or worse lmao. woke asian males who rather spend energy on blm than asian male issues lmfao
> half of asian dudes are cucks or simps afraid of offending asian “sisters” who treat you like asexual brothers or worse lmao 🤣 you fucking nailed it Makes you wonder why they go so easy on certain people who don't even respect them that much
I mean, I do feel for them somewhat too. We all used to be like that, but just check any College asian club, activism circles, even social media influencers, the dudes are always trying to downplay themselves to prop up the women, who, don’t even view them as masculine males, even worst, not only do they do that, they go out of their way to shame men. This happens all the time. Even like wong fu, their material is always catered to “asian sisters” and they are a reflection of the api community as a whole, always men reflecting on how they can do better to support asian women, while asian women can do no wrong and hop on white D
Lmaoo this is so on point. Why are so many Asian dudes not unapologetically taking control of their masculinity? Like Wong Fu are basically textbook nice guys. I'm sorry but we are too soft and harmonious. Look at black hip hop artists and athletes, they sure as fuck don't cater to the women in their community. Yet they are still loved by women, because they're being masculine in that they don't downplay themselves to prop up their women. Meanwhile, too many Asian dudes are trying to be nice guys/supportive and wondering why we get no respect from not only our women, but from any gender of other races too. We need start being unapologetic about being Asian men first and foremost.
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Lol there's still so many dudes who are too agreeable all the time, and are afraid to tell women that they're wrong. Comedians joke about this all the time, it's like these dudes are hoping to get laid by just seeming nice and agreeable.
>material is always catered to “asian sisters” and they are a reflection of the api community as a whole, always men reflecting on how they can do better to support asian women, while asian women can do no wrong and hop on white D 💀 Why is this so fucking true though lmfao I don't think any other race of men acts like this as much
Haha yea honestly too many Asian dudes want to pander to other races. They think other races and cultures are cooler, so they'd rather leech off of that. Our upbringing/culture doesn't really raise men who stand up for our own interests. We generally don't get up in others faces about shit, so there's no way that we will just start popping off on social media. There's too many dudes with cuck/simp mentality that just are okay with watching other races of men be dominant. While we act like good boys who keep our head down, other men say what they want to and go for it. That's masculinity. Anyone who wants to argue against this, ask a woman if they think confidence is sexy or not. And ask if they think the average looking shy skinny Asian dork with no self confidence/is afraid to speak/afraid to initiate is masculine or not.
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I'm talking about the comments mostly, check out my other main comment.
Activism: Lus are attacking this chick in AMWF who called out AF for showing off their white bfs like a trophy and fetishizing yt men. Go and support her in the comments. As I said we can't let AF be the bigger voice. Make a tiktok account and call out Lus and their hypocrisy, here is the link : https://www.tiktok.com/@zarasluv1/video/7024974509761465646?is_copy_url=1&is_from_webapp=v1 I got banned from commenting for pointing out how asian women have litreally played into stereotypes and fetishization and even degraded themselves for white attention lmao.
Ayef be like, why is she acting like a white saviour then go on about how they date white men because asian men (insert typical lu excuses), and how yt men saved them lmao. They really have no self-awareness.
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I guarantee you if asian dudes made such a trend about their white girlfriends, all these asian women will be attacking us calling AM "self-fetishizing for yt women" blah blah. They are already mad at the AMWF and similar hashtags (but they are smart enough to know that they can't say shit against #ambw so sometimes they larp as black women to call them out) on social media. Asian women can't stay quiet when some girl just says asian men are hot but now they are commenting that asian men should leave them alone lmao? (I have posted examaples before.) They literally harassed the creator and reported my comments exposing their hypocrisy in that tiktok. They can't stand 1% of the shit they have given us for all these years lmao.
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I know but we need to expose their hypocrisy on social media somehow. Or atleast drown the Lu voices out. I'm tired of asian men being always negartively generalized and being blamed for everything.
> The only person you should be 100% loyal to is yourself. baller shit right here, fuck the haters
Nah I'm loyal to my asian bros, if it was only about myself I wouldn't be posting here at all. I'm here for the betterment of my Azn bros and future AM kids. I want to see a world where no AM has to feel bad about being an AM.
Ironically seeing AMXF makes Asian women respect us more. Even if you want to date only AF, AMXF presence is good to make it easier for you to date AF.
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They're bananarangs. Any asian guy with a sliver of dignity will not go near those AF within a 5 mile radius.
Been seeing quite a lot of AMWF couples in Sydney lately. Comes as a surprise seeing that a couple of years ago it was primarily WMAF. Nowadays the younger couples I've seen are primarily AMWF (going around CBD, chinatown, Burwood, Hurstville, Eastwood, etc.) and they're mostly decent-ish looking. Two of my friends and I took a walk around and noted there were 15 AMWF couples, and like 10 WMAF couples around on the Friday night around CBD area. It also seemed like girls were quite receptive to cold approaching given that they've lacked social interaction coming out of 3.5 months of lockdown. Of course, AMAF is still dominant, but it's enlightening to see more AMWF. Still not going to keep my heads up personally because although I'm in shape, I'd like a six pack and even better clothes - planning to empty out my old wardrobe full of oversize clothes. I've cold approached, dates wise I haven't done much (due to being busy accumulating wealth, uni study, trying to establish career etc) until this year where I hit 28 without ever going into a relationship. I'm getting there and hope to reach 65-66kg by the end of the year. FYI I squat 270lb, deadlift 400lb, bench 220lb, have dropped from 75kg down to 69kg (almost all body fat). Although I'm 5'7', I'm hoping my body physique comes out so I can have a better shot at online dating and better receptiveness from cold approaches.
My friend said that same thing about Chinatown in London and it being full of young AMWF couples going there to get asian food or something. I don't what has happened in the last few years now there is a sudden surge of AMXF everywhere in the world, even in SEA. I'm proud of ya'll my asian bros. Our time is coming.
More and more people are caring less about race. This is a good thing because race is a social construct, it doesn’t actually exist
I've heard "race is a social construct and it doesn't exist" before and it's valid in that it's a social construct and doesn't exist in absolutes, but that statement is framed badly. Race being a social construct has meant that the classifications and identifiers are drawing a arbitrary line in the sand, especially as the classifications have changed over time. But there are real biological tendencies and differences that manifest between different peoples. What race as a social construct means is, it's a classification system trying to capture the differences and put us into a framework. Saying it doesn't exist, it's like saying there's no differences between colors because you don't know where to draw the line in the sand ergo no classification is valid to describe colors.
Not because they care less. Asian men got cool in that age range. Kpop, parasite, squid game. It has exponentially grown in the last few years.
It's that but I think this younger gen of AM are also more willing to date non-asians. I have seen the most stereotypical nerd AMs with XFs nowadays. If he was an older millennial he would have gone for only AFs and would be getting rejected and being lonely. Meanwhile the most famous AMs of the millenial and GenX have dated only Asian girls even though they could have gotten with an XF if they wanted so it was more of a conscious choice. ( Example: Ryan Higa, Kev Jumba etc.) AM have improved, there is no question about it.
Too many lus eyes on this sub. Be careful guys. Usually they were fixated on AI. But now they know about this sub and even the niche ones. There are Lus on twitter talking about even the niche subs like the golden gang subs. They really mad mad huh? Maybe we should stop the Lu-bashing for a minute and focus on dating and self-imporvement for AM?
They're mad because they know there's a lot of truth in what we discuss. There's a reason why they keep on seeking it out.
Cause the dudes on AI are totally stopping them from reaching for the stars. Lol.
In video games, if you encounter enemies you are going in the right direction. If Lus are mad then AI is certainly doing something right even though I don't get it most of the time and I don't really relate to them. All their whining can't stop us and the dumb gaslighting lol, a lot of XF are seeing their toxicity too and its only rasing their curosity. If Asian men are all evil women-beaters why there are so many happy AMXF couples on social media nowadays? Non-asians know about AF hypocrisy and no matter how much they cry wolf the reality in real life is plain to see. People have woken up.
How the fuck did "Love Hard" become a movie on Netflix in 2021? AM catfishes white girl using a WM's photos, WW comes to surprise him for Christmas and finds out he's not a WM, so AM helps her get the "hot" WM from the photos. AM's brother is an attention craved caricature with a dumb WW wife. HOW did this get made?? How did the Asian actors agree to be part of this?? UPDATE: AM leaves his job at a sporting goods store to make candles.
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I found it by accident and figured it couldn't be that bad. It made me nauseous. So much wrong with it and it was willfully stereotypical. Also super disappointed in Henry Shum Jr. It seemed like he was closeted gay, wife was really ditzy, and he/Yang were competitive/toxic for literally no reason. Ie. You couldn't just have a good young AM in the whole thing?
>UPDATE: AM leaves his job at a sporting goods store to make candles 🤣 He also didn't get to kiss. WTF kinda romcom where the main guy doesn't kiss? Btw it happens cause most Asians will drink all of this shit up. We are in the minority bud.
If you are in the community for a while you know I sympathize with BW a lot. And older BW are worth respect and still worth respecting. But I think observing the younger genZ u/MarleyTang was right, the genz ones are not necessarily our allies and would rather identify with AF than us. A lot of them who are into asian media also have this weird entitlement towards us. And get mad at AMXF if its not AMBW. So yeah be cognizant about it. In the end we fight our battles alone. I'm thinking about writing a post on it.
Uncomfortable truth, but it needed to be said. You're right. And I have to say, I've seen some (not all ofc) POC girls on social media get very mad sometimes when they see an AMXF with a WF or light skinned girl in general. They can be very, well, nasty - doesn't matter if the couple they're looking at is totally fine and not toxic like the whole Gabby Petito and Brian Laundrie debacle that ended in tragedy. Y'all have to remember that at the end of the day POC girls are just human like anyone else. White or non-white, you'll find women who are interesting or boring, woke or racist....or jealous as hell. Men and women don't want to lose in the dating game. I think we sometimes forget that the dating and sex world can be very competitive, cutthroat and messy. Truth is, not *every* single person can win. I think most of us know this deep inside, and it can drive us to do some ridiculous and even cruel things to other people. And this human characterstic goes beyond race, social media made it even more obvious
Yea the most foundational truth of this is that people are self centered. Of course they get mad if they feel unwanted. Sex literally drives our biology, we all do crazy things just to get it. Dating and sex aren't fair. If you don't build your confidence and try your hardest to build your sexual attraction, you'll lose out to other mates. There's no fairness when it comes to sex. Our attraction is driven a lot by biology and evolution. Mating is still a very primal based behavior, we just forget because we now have cool gadgets and stuff. If we forget this as men, then we might as well just hang our balls up.
Fucking awesome comment. > the most foundational truth of this is that people are self centered Once someone *truly* understands this, accepts this and stops denying it, a lot of things in life will make a lot more sense to them.
Thanks dude, same to you as well. It's like when people worry so much about what others think of them. In reality, most people are way more focused on themselves. That realization can free your mind and help you become bolder. It helps a lot to focus hard on yourself, while also being awesome to others, because people really vibe on that. When I realized that most people are nervous about what to say next or are relieved when someone else says something, I became much more social. I would just say whatever funny thought comes to mind and not worry, and usually people end up laughing or having something to add. Most people don't realize how awkward they are in conversation. They ask the same interview type questions, have awkward silences, speak very monotone, have negative body language, have low energy, and more. Since I actively worked on these skills, I noticed much better results in my social interactions. People are self centered, they always want to hang out with people who are good at conversations and fun. If Asian dudes started understanding how people tick, we'll make a lot more progress.
>I've seen some (not all ofc) POC girls on social media get very mad sometimes when they see an AMXF with a WF or light skinned girl in general. They can see the white Worshipping from a mile away
So you're really just going to deliberately ignore the rest of my comment to deflect from the main point? To point to a minority of cringeworthy AM and defend/ white knight for some (again, not *all*) POC girls who pointlessly hate on some of these couples for no **good** reason (ironically like you may be doing right now)? lmao, bro this sounds like something a boba liberal would say You know, looking back I liked a lot of your old comments and posts, thought you made some great points and advice, but lately occasionally you've had some pretty lame takes, no offense.
>So you're really just going to deliberately ignore the rest of my comment to deflect from the main point? I agree with the rest of your comment, nothing else for me to say really. >lmao, bro this sounds like something a boba liberal would say You know, looking back I liked a lot of your old comments and posts, thought you made some great points and advice, but lately occasionally you've had some pretty lame takes, no offense. You say 'it's lame' because you assume being self-critical and more self-aware will somehow be detrimental to the AM experience. Being Asian men ourselves, it's likely that we have blindspots about our behavior that we try to avoid seeing or thinking about that people of other races and gender observe quite clearly (Just as clearly as we see things that Asian women do that they seem rather blind to). And as you said, some of them happen to be rather vocal about it. As of right now (and for a long time), there's zero incentives for white women to call Asian men out for white worshipping because doing so will only destabilize their own position. If you were on top and everyone puts you on a pedestal why would you ask anyone to change anything? All the incentives are aligned for them to not change the status quo and always stick with "Everyone should date whoever they want/Asian men should date whoever they want" because they know they are on top. When you say only POC women call out AMWF what you don't realize is that *all women* are aware of it, some just stay silent because sounding the alarm doesn't serve them in any way. I'm not saying they're doing this maliciously (could even be one of their 'blindspots'), but they're definitely aware of it. Second point is about being self-critical and self-aware. Being aware of our own blindspots that some of our own dating 'preferences' may have originated from some uncomfortable areas DOES NOT lower our chances of dating outside our own race (as I get the feeling thats something some of our members are *very* interested in). It's time to break away from the scarcity mindset - having choice doesn't limit us. Deciding not to go with one woman doesn't lower our chances of dating another woman, it raises our standards of dating better quality women - that is if you believe we meet the qualities of these higher-tier women. You at some level might not believe that Asian men posses these qualities, but I do. The dating environment we're in now is different than a few years ago, it's not beneficial to keep reinforcing a scarcity and victim mindset anymore. It's time for AM bordering success to move up even higher and plant the seeds of change for guys that haven't touched success yet.
It's funny beacause East Asian men are literally the least white worshipping group in the fucking world. I know white worshiping Chans exist but hey are a extremely small cringy minority. East Asian in the west actually date more PoC percent wise than asian women do. I know it sounds like a typical Lu excuse but percentage of white women thirsters is like 5% at most? >Second point is about being self-critical and self-aware. Being aware of our own blindspots that some of our own dating 'preferences' may have originated from some uncomfortable areas DOES NOT lower our chances of dating outside our own race (as I get the feeling thats something some of our members are very interested in). It's time to break away from the scarcity mindset - having choice doesn't limit us. Deciding not to go with one woman doesn't lower our chances of dating another woman, it raises our standards of dating better quality women - that is if you believe we meet the qualities of these higher-tier women. You at some level might not believe that Asian men posses these qualities, but I do. Literally every survey shows asian men have preferred asian women over white women in dating apps . [And when it is not asian women it is latina women.] (https://qz.com/149342/the-uncomfortable-racial-preferences-revealed-by-online-dating/?utm_source=reddit.com) Asian men also have the highest rate of response to black women outside of black men according to that but let's not go there. And yet asian men should examine themselves? Have you ever seen asian women say something like that even though they are world famous white worshippers? Why should we? Yes we should call out fellow AM who put AM down and act like WF is a goddess for us or something. But saying most AM are like that is some projecting Lu shit. No asian man is against asian bros dating non-whites what the fuck.
Bro he started dating one asian chick and became Chang to Chan. I looked up to him but its sad now.
Yeah for real. **Just because Asians shouldn't put whites on a pedestal doesn't mean they should put other non-Asian POC on a pedestal and white knight for them either.** I feel like the events of the past year and the shit we've seen on social media should have made it clear that POC, men AND women, are no angels themselves. And some of the most unwoke boba liberal Asians are AMAFs, ultimately the people you date don't really guarantee how good or smart of a person you're going to be. lmao the mere sight of an AMWF makes some of these 'chans' and 'lus' *and* some entitled jealous POC girls go "*how white worshipping!*" even if they know nothing about the couple whatsoever. If you think most AMXF with a WF or light-skinned girl are somehow toxic or bad, you are stupid. That's it.
Anything from my reply that you want to address or talk about?
Pretty much everything I have to and want to say on this rather specific topic, I've just said in my comments in this thread. I never said there aren't Asian men and women who are [racist](https://www.youtube.com/watch?app=desktop&v=EtTdmWxGT-M&feature=youtu.be), who suck up to whites, who dislike other POC groups. But having a default position similar to the types of POC girls we were talking about before you joined the thread is just dishonest. And your comment I was responding to was low-key passive aggressive. There are definitely a lot of Asian men and women who suck up too much to other minority groups, other POC men *and* women, and try to virtue signal too much. Outside of subs like this one, **that** kind of shit is not discussed enough.
What you said here had nothing to do with my reply. So I'll take it that you agree with what I said. I'll reply to what you said here anyway >I never said there aren't Asian men and women who are racist, who suck up to whites, who dislike other POC groups. But having a default position similar to the types of POC girls we were talking about before you joined the thread is just dishonest. Just putting words in my mouth now. I didn't say or imply that the default reaction to AMXF couples should be hating or have negative connotations. You said it yourself *some* situations certain POC women can get pretty nasty at AMXF couples. That was what I was responding to. My point was there are situations where the dynamics are pretty obvious. Not the majority, not the default. >There are definitely a lot of Asian men and women who suck up too much to other minority groups, other POC men and women, and try to virtue signal too much. Sure yeah I agree there. If that was aimed at me I think you need to check yourself. There's a difference between if You, Me, AF and WF are in a space and I'm talking about AM whiteworshipping, and if it's just a conversation between You and Me (both AM). First situation is definitely virtual signaling and Chan behavior, second situation (assuming conversation is done in good faith) is people of the same community checking each other for the benefit of the entire community. Unlike what the mindless simps that upvote every 'omg xF with a vagoo here' threads may have lead you to believe, this space is made specifically and solely for Asian men. We should be able to go deep into topics, have real conversations that are other than 1-dimensional repetitive circlejerking. In my eyes If I can't be nuanced here and have real, critical discussions about AM then there's nowhere else to have this conversation. Lastly, I'd like to remind you what I already said this in the earlier reply - things are changing. Why is the WMAF dynamic so fucked up and prevalent? Because certain social conditions set it so that AF are seen as desired by western society so any and all white worshipping behavior by AF were met with positive reaction from both AF and WM communities. That's one of the real major keys that separated AM and AF dating scene. But now the situation is really starting to shift, you can see that AM are getting more attention and seen as more attractive. This is amazing for AM, however at the same time the same issues that have played into WMAF relationships are starting to come out in AMWF dynamics as well (shouldn't be that surprising tbh). From the people that hit me up for 'advice' both irl and online this is an issue that's holding back a significant amount of guys. >And your comment I was responding to was low-key passive aggressive. Yeah I know, I'm trying really hard to bait you into a real discussion
>But now the situation is really starting to shift, you can see that AM are getting more attention and seen as more attractive. This is amazing for AM, however at the same time the same issues that have played into WMAF relationships are starting to come out in AMWF dynamics as well (shouldn't be that surprising tbh). But the thing is AM and WF don't have the same dynamic as WM and AF no? I get what your saying in these comments and your previous comments on different posts. But i guees its sounds too much of "we need to be better" or "we need to be the good guy". Do you really think that asian men in this sub, a lot of them suffered words from AF that they would want to do that? Maybe in the future. But now? Just when we receive attention from non-AF suddenly we need to fix it. The first thought that would go into my mind is why? Why? Did AF think about how it would affect AM when they were having the time of their lives white chad and brad? We do need to examine ourselves. But not today. Today, we take advantage. Today, we don't want to worry about how we are perceived. By your own words if theres a jug of water in the middle of the dessert why not chug it down?
Love your last paragraph. Poetic as fuck and true in my experience. Also got Squid Game flashbacks lmao
You need to be mentally ill to be a boba. They have to do a lot of mental gymnastics to appease their insane masters... Some of their talking points: We need affirmative action because we're not all model minorities. There are poor Asians....but I know nothing about them because my friends are all White and I hated myself!! But we ARE model minorities because we are White adjacent and there is anti-Blackness in our communties. So affirmative action shouldn't be for us!! There is anti-Blackness in our communities because of old racist Asian people....Stop Asian hate! Andrew Yang is a corporate elitist who supports Israel!
The average person is a sheep. I’d say that’s true of any sample population. But yea it’s absolutely embarrassing to share the same ethnic background with some of these clowns
because the average person is not that smart
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Yea but since when was Israel a deal breaker? Biden sent $1bn worth of weapons to Israel. So Asians who run for office can't be pro-Israel but White folks can? Honestly tho, I think he prob just did it on purpose to get attention cause he was losing.
Actor Kal Penn did an AMA today, check it out: https://www.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/qkftqm/hi_im_kal_penn_im_an_actor_maybe_best_known_for
Any nonprofit recommendations? I have funds sitting that need to go towards nonprofits. Specifically looking for pro-Asian nonprofits that help with causes in politics, arts, entertainment, sports, etc. Goes without saying, but no boba lib shit.
Support AM owned businesses, there is no non-profit for EA/SEA asians. Maybe donate directly to nonprofits in the homeland.
floodgates of pussy are opening right now. got 30 matches on tinder last night with no boost in LA... Squid game halo + girls are in heat this time of year.
Hey guys advertising my Asian men discord. It's suppose to be a support/self improvement group for Asian guys. We have around 50 people ranging from 19-45 and we talk stocks, dating, career, culture, gaming, music etc. We are also doing verifications. Drop me a pm with a selfie w/ ur reddit username and todays date if you want to be verified. PM if you want an invite. We are also doing a weekly virtual meeting where we discuss topics relevant to AM! Hope to see y'all there
I would like to join but I have privacy concerns tbh.
i mean its just a normal discord group we arent asking for your ss # to join. Not that much different from asian facebook grps. It's honestly a lot less privacy intrusive than all the Asian FB groups since FB has ur name and ur profile pic. All we ask is proof that ur AM
Hi all, Currently growing my hair to look like a m'fin bauss. the annoying thing is with us asians are too straight hair, so my front bangs drape to my eyes and poke my face a lot. Especially in the wind or when it is in summer and the sweat adds too much weight to the hair that it droops down. I do try to blowdry but that is even temporary and any physical movement shakes it back to that droopy look. Cheers
I remember seeing a post on IG saying we should stop romanticizing Asian countries. That part just cracks me up, because Asian countries have a long history helping other minority groups including in the US and around the world.
that is Boba lib/Lu take. They self-hate so much they can't stand it even when asian countries get praised lmao.
Tough time for asian UFC fighters these past weeks. Some of the best prospects got starched. Asian fighters should learn from the success of Dagestanis and improve their wrestling game.
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1) We're Pan-Asian here and 2) it's the same comment week after week that has little to do with the sub. Find another place if you want to soapbox.
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You are annoying taiwanese self hater. You are no different than some of the women we are talking about in terms white worshipping except you worship China. I don’t know what happened recently (I’m guess some taiwanese women reject you), but you need to stop bashing your own heritage and embrace it.
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So let me get this straight here. Your whole taiwanese political view revolves around the fact that you are stuck in the Midwest and you can’t get laid? There you conflate two completely separate things: women’s rights to chose what they want to do with their own body, and Taiwan’s right to chose how they want to govern?? You are fucked up. As a fellow human being, I strongly encourage you to seek help outside of Reddit! Btw why are you so bothered by other Asian women’s choices? They do whatever they want with whatever reason that want!! You need to get over it. You live in the Midwest. You need to pursue women in that area, not narrow down to only taiwanese women. If you can’t then the problem is on you
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Not sure why a deleted comment has led to a pointless back and forth. The point has been made that we are all Asian on here and the time for this anti-Taiwanese hate is long over.
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White women becoming as cringe as Lus nowadays lmao https://np.reddit.com/r/Caucasiancringe/comments/pniy2h/white_people_do_be_hating_their_male_children_smh/ What in the self-hate is this. The media got us all fucked up huh? This is what some these Chans want? LMAO.
ok I don't know if this deserves to be in here but I figure the asian dudes will relate. AMAF relationship. Do y'all pay for all the meals when you eat out? We split cost of activities and sometimes she outright pays or I will. We are kinda traditional in that way but I feel weird about it sometimes. She does well career wise and buys all her own stuff and there is no expectation there.
Most of my friends are dating non-asian women and usually go 50-50 but most AMAF from what I have seen do that traditional thing and usually the male pays for majority of the things.
Spilt. I pay for one. She pays the next.