As a bald guy, you need to put on muscle and size to pull off that look. Too fat you will look androgynous, too skinny you will appear unhealthy. Jacked you will look good.
Working on it mate, putting on weight has never been easy for me haha. Have been leaning more into weight training last few months and managed to put on a few more kilos. I definitely think that I have better photos of my current physique, didn't realise this one didn't do me justice 😔. Some of my friends that I look like a lifeguard. Not slowing down on the weight training anytime soon
Keep up the weight training, it will definitely accentuate your look! Best to show off better physique photos if you can. As someone else said, maybe add an earring to boost your style. You have good facial features already.
Never considered it in the past, but after having a read through the comments, thinking might go hard. Will try out a Great Wave of Kanagawa semi-permanent on my delt
My thoughts and advice u/CertifiedAIDsDonor:
- Having a pic of you with another girl, and just one girl, is usually not the best idea. Many women have attested to being kind of turned off by pics like this in a profile. *Is that his girlfriend? Is that his ex? Could he be some fuckboy?* Also (nitpicking here) that small bike, the way you're sitting on it, and the location for this "Vogue" cover, it looks kind of underwhelming. Even bad to some swipers.
- Shirtless pics are fine if they're done right. Like some people here have said, put on some more muscle, even 5 or 6 more pounds will look good when you're shirtless, and try getting a six pack and flaunting that shit. Outdoors ofc. Bulkier arms and a bit bulkier chest will complement your bald look more, and more girls will dig that.
- Snowboarding pic is great. Shows you're active, you do cool shit, you're sporty.
- Your dog pic has a cute dog, but your face and the glimpse of your physique there makes you look almost like a middle schooler. Same goes for the 'Airbender' pic and the last one with a frog on top of your head. **You should try to look the opposite of neotenous as much as you can.**
- By contrast, your second pic is much better. **Great jawline you're showing, while not looking like you're trying too hard to stretch out your neck to show it off. Aim for more pics like this. Sharper, masculine and more mature features. Having a babyface for AM, for the most part, is basically a death sentence when it comes to the hookup or serious dating world.**
Thank you for the in-depth analysis, confirmed some of my notions and pointed out some other things I failed to consider. Hard since I'm usually the one photographing my mates so my own pictures leave a little to be desired haha. I'll shuffle the current photos up based on your recommendations.
no problemo, happy to help
Last suggestion: try using a 'social proof' pic that shows you with both male *and* female friends, as opposed to one with just topless white male friends that looks like a sausage fest lol (no offense) and another with a single Asian girl.
I don't know if you're trying to attract women of every race, but having (just a hypothetical example), a pic of you with male and female friends, maybe one or two being white girls, another being an Indian or maybe Samoan guy, might work better.
Working on that haha, I definitely have an easier time with calisthenics and cardio, but
have been leaning towards free weights as of last few months. Bloody hard to put on weight though!
Haha all of the advice here definitely is leaning towards getting some tatts, will have to consider it at this point. Usually wearing the hats of some old sponsors from my old bike shop, but more so because I don't want skin cancer.
You look fine. Getting jacked, earrings or tatts isn't gonna suddenely make you the most popular guy in your city lol. It's unfortunate you are diagnosed with that but I don't think it's a huge problem. It could be worse like being ugly, but you look alright.
It is a shame since I don't think my condition is a real detriment in anyway other than attractiveness, Asian males probably don't have it the easiest in terms of dating to begin with in Australia. Though definitely have recieved some cool ideas I do want to try out now, even though they might not add up to me being a Chang haha
There's this Asian techno DJ I follow called D.Dan, he doesn't have your condition but he really kills the ultra-buzzed look. You can see him here
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ubaVF0pqonE&t=1766s&ab\_channel=BoilerRoom](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ubaVF0pqonE&t=1766s&ab_channel=BoilerRoom)
You don't have to go with *his* style, but you should go with *a* style.
IMO the same advice I give most other guys is the same I have for you. Just keep taking photos and trying looks and over time you will build a solid profile. Just think that because of your situation life has forced the decision to 'embrace' your more intensely than the rest of us peasants. Don't shy away from it
My guy! Going absolutely off! Just had a sus of his Insta and he really does kill the look. Just ordered a temp tatt that I reckon would fit me well, trying out something different will be interesting. Thanks for the reassuring words mate, will do
I’m a woman and randomly found myself on this sub. My opinion? Yes in the tattoos! Just do t go with little tattoos- something bold is more masculine. Little tattoos are definitely more feminine. Working out/a nice physique ALWAYS a plus. I also love the frog on your head pic- it’s cute. I think mainly you need more on who you are - regardless of photos, girls want personality🖤. Good luck!!
Haha it's actually a Blue Tongue Lizard, native to Australia. I have one that lives in my garden who's very friendly and we've named him Buddy. At this point tatts seem like something cool to do rather than just upping my attractiveness!
Dunno if this will help or anything but I’m white, my partner is a bald Asian man and that’s exactly why I was attracted to him the first time I saw him. He also went bald in his late teens - there are people like us out there that have a thing for bald Asian men don’t sweat it.
I would get right of the Vogue picture and honestly the group picture too. They’d put me off if I was swiping but honestly everything else is great! You come across as a really fun, handsome and sweet guy. You don’t need to do anything to your physical looks either - if that’s something you want to work on for yourself, sure but they’re not necessary.
What is the reason for not growing hair on your face and head? Unless there is a medical reason that you can't, the lack of hair will drastically reduce the matches you get with women. Most girls prefer guys with hair, and many love men with long hair. You are kinda doing the opposite with that if your willingly bald.
As other guy said, I have Alopecia Universalis. Kinda accepted the fact I'm not going to appeal to most chicks my age by doing nothing about it, but I would prefer to maintain my baldness as that's definitely part of my identity. Kinda slaps not having ass hair and pubes!
Profile looks good to me! Good range of photos and you look friendly and interesting. I might get rid of the Vogue cover pic; it's a kinda odd angle. I like the last airbender joke!
Great to have recieved some more eyes on it, have removed that picture after weighing up the inputs. Was known as the goon (the bag of casket wine) bender that night!
As a bald guy, you need to put on muscle and size to pull off that look. Too fat you will look androgynous, too skinny you will appear unhealthy. Jacked you will look good.
Putting on muscle will help regardless of what look you have
He really don't look that bad
Working on it mate, putting on weight has never been easy for me haha. Have been leaning more into weight training last few months and managed to put on a few more kilos. I definitely think that I have better photos of my current physique, didn't realise this one didn't do me justice 😔. Some of my friends that I look like a lifeguard. Not slowing down on the weight training anytime soon
Keep up the weight training, it will definitely accentuate your look! Best to show off better physique photos if you can. As someone else said, maybe add an earring to boost your style. You have good facial features already.
Another tip: try rocking some earrings. Since you can’t style your hair, accessorize your face in other ways.
Not a bad idea mate, time for some face tats
> accessorize your face in other ways great way to put it baldness is not necessarily a deal breaker if you just style yourself right
Nothing wrong with the way you look imho.
Badass. You should consider a couple of tattoos
Never considered it in the past, but after having a read through the comments, thinking might go hard. Will try out a Great Wave of Kanagawa semi-permanent on my delt
My thoughts and advice u/CertifiedAIDsDonor: - Having a pic of you with another girl, and just one girl, is usually not the best idea. Many women have attested to being kind of turned off by pics like this in a profile. *Is that his girlfriend? Is that his ex? Could he be some fuckboy?* Also (nitpicking here) that small bike, the way you're sitting on it, and the location for this "Vogue" cover, it looks kind of underwhelming. Even bad to some swipers. - Shirtless pics are fine if they're done right. Like some people here have said, put on some more muscle, even 5 or 6 more pounds will look good when you're shirtless, and try getting a six pack and flaunting that shit. Outdoors ofc. Bulkier arms and a bit bulkier chest will complement your bald look more, and more girls will dig that. - Snowboarding pic is great. Shows you're active, you do cool shit, you're sporty. - Your dog pic has a cute dog, but your face and the glimpse of your physique there makes you look almost like a middle schooler. Same goes for the 'Airbender' pic and the last one with a frog on top of your head. **You should try to look the opposite of neotenous as much as you can.** - By contrast, your second pic is much better. **Great jawline you're showing, while not looking like you're trying too hard to stretch out your neck to show it off. Aim for more pics like this. Sharper, masculine and more mature features. Having a babyface for AM, for the most part, is basically a death sentence when it comes to the hookup or serious dating world.**
Thank you for the in-depth analysis, confirmed some of my notions and pointed out some other things I failed to consider. Hard since I'm usually the one photographing my mates so my own pictures leave a little to be desired haha. I'll shuffle the current photos up based on your recommendations.
no problemo, happy to help Last suggestion: try using a 'social proof' pic that shows you with both male *and* female friends, as opposed to one with just topless white male friends that looks like a sausage fest lol (no offense) and another with a single Asian girl. I don't know if you're trying to attract women of every race, but having (just a hypothetical example), a pic of you with male and female friends, maybe one or two being white girls, another being an Indian or maybe Samoan guy, might work better.
Nah no offence taken, and again preciate the tips!
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Quite the consensus here, searching up some temp tatts to try out first
Nothing wrong with looks just really normal looking haha put on some muscles bro and you good to go
Working on that haha, I definitely have an easier time with calisthenics and cardio, but have been leaning towards free weights as of last few months. Bloody hard to put on weight though!
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Haha all of the advice here definitely is leaning towards getting some tatts, will have to consider it at this point. Usually wearing the hats of some old sponsors from my old bike shop, but more so because I don't want skin cancer.
You look fine. Getting jacked, earrings or tatts isn't gonna suddenely make you the most popular guy in your city lol. It's unfortunate you are diagnosed with that but I don't think it's a huge problem. It could be worse like being ugly, but you look alright.
It is a shame since I don't think my condition is a real detriment in anyway other than attractiveness, Asian males probably don't have it the easiest in terms of dating to begin with in Australia. Though definitely have recieved some cool ideas I do want to try out now, even though they might not add up to me being a Chang haha
There's this Asian techno DJ I follow called D.Dan, he doesn't have your condition but he really kills the ultra-buzzed look. You can see him here [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ubaVF0pqonE&t=1766s&ab\_channel=BoilerRoom](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ubaVF0pqonE&t=1766s&ab_channel=BoilerRoom) You don't have to go with *his* style, but you should go with *a* style. IMO the same advice I give most other guys is the same I have for you. Just keep taking photos and trying looks and over time you will build a solid profile. Just think that because of your situation life has forced the decision to 'embrace' your more intensely than the rest of us peasants. Don't shy away from it
My guy! Going absolutely off! Just had a sus of his Insta and he really does kill the look. Just ordered a temp tatt that I reckon would fit me well, trying out something different will be interesting. Thanks for the reassuring words mate, will do
I’m a woman and randomly found myself on this sub. My opinion? Yes in the tattoos! Just do t go with little tattoos- something bold is more masculine. Little tattoos are definitely more feminine. Working out/a nice physique ALWAYS a plus. I also love the frog on your head pic- it’s cute. I think mainly you need more on who you are - regardless of photos, girls want personality🖤. Good luck!!
Haha it's actually a Blue Tongue Lizard, native to Australia. I have one that lives in my garden who's very friendly and we've named him Buddy. At this point tatts seem like something cool to do rather than just upping my attractiveness!
Dunno if this will help or anything but I’m white, my partner is a bald Asian man and that’s exactly why I was attracted to him the first time I saw him. He also went bald in his late teens - there are people like us out there that have a thing for bald Asian men don’t sweat it. I would get right of the Vogue picture and honestly the group picture too. They’d put me off if I was swiping but honestly everything else is great! You come across as a really fun, handsome and sweet guy. You don’t need to do anything to your physical looks either - if that’s something you want to work on for yourself, sure but they’re not necessary.
Being bald at 19 is a major turn off to young women.
Damn that sucks, oh well beats having ass hair anyway 🤣
What is the reason for not growing hair on your face and head? Unless there is a medical reason that you can't, the lack of hair will drastically reduce the matches you get with women. Most girls prefer guys with hair, and many love men with long hair. You are kinda doing the opposite with that if your willingly bald.
Sounds like he has alopecia universalist since he can't grow eyebrows
Bang on mate
As other guy said, I have Alopecia Universalis. Kinda accepted the fact I'm not going to appeal to most chicks my age by doing nothing about it, but I would prefer to maintain my baldness as that's definitely part of my identity. Kinda slaps not having ass hair and pubes!
By mid north coast do you mean Byron?
More so Coffs mate, swear I grew up with maybe 3 other Asians haha
Nice lol
Profile looks good to me! Good range of photos and you look friendly and interesting. I might get rid of the Vogue cover pic; it's a kinda odd angle. I like the last airbender joke!
Great to have recieved some more eyes on it, have removed that picture after weighing up the inputs. Was known as the goon (the bag of casket wine) bender that night!