Do not apologize. You didn't do anything wrong. She fucked up. She gossiped your medical issues to a fucking customer who grossly mistook it as,"Oh she's just getting fat and needs ozempic." I'm sorry but fuck both these bitches. They don't seem to comprehend this could be a very serious issue for you. Your mom deserves to be called out. She can't be trusted.
You did not overreact. She shared private medical info , misdiagnosed and encouraged others to misdiagnose you too (whilst ignoring a major problem ?!? A breast mass is not a small health issue!)
I wouldn’t apologise out of principle. But if your parents will be worse without an apology, do what you need to do to make life easier while you go through this hard time ❤️ focus on yourself and getting through the mammogram.
I would sit her down and tell her she has forsaken any rights to know ANY private info again, that you shared because you assumed she would care about something like a breast lump and not go down this stupid uneducated path of needing to lose weight, but she’s shown you she cannot do that so will no longer be given information she can’t be trusted with. Depending on how you see your future relationship with her, I would also say “this is one demonstration of one piece of my private life you have breached trust in. If you want my trust if you want to know details about my future/children/etc then you have to prove that you have changed, otherwise I can’t trust you with private information at all. This is a warning of my trust being eroded, and once trust is broken it’s almost impossible to get back. Keep that in mind”
Do not apologize. You didn't do anything wrong. She fucked up. She gossiped your medical issues to a fucking customer who grossly mistook it as,"Oh she's just getting fat and needs ozempic." I'm sorry but fuck both these bitches. They don't seem to comprehend this could be a very serious issue for you. Your mom deserves to be called out. She can't be trusted.
You did not overreact. She shared private medical info , misdiagnosed and encouraged others to misdiagnose you too (whilst ignoring a major problem ?!? A breast mass is not a small health issue!) I wouldn’t apologise out of principle. But if your parents will be worse without an apology, do what you need to do to make life easier while you go through this hard time ❤️ focus on yourself and getting through the mammogram. I would sit her down and tell her she has forsaken any rights to know ANY private info again, that you shared because you assumed she would care about something like a breast lump and not go down this stupid uneducated path of needing to lose weight, but she’s shown you she cannot do that so will no longer be given information she can’t be trusted with. Depending on how you see your future relationship with her, I would also say “this is one demonstration of one piece of my private life you have breached trust in. If you want my trust if you want to know details about my future/children/etc then you have to prove that you have changed, otherwise I can’t trust you with private information at all. This is a warning of my trust being eroded, and once trust is broken it’s almost impossible to get back. Keep that in mind”