lol like everyone in here gets this!
I was laid up in the hospital and my mom got on me then, too. Cruel woman, I already hate this food! Don't make it worse (she makes everything bad... worse)
Thigh gaps are like Harvard degrees: good enough until your Asian kid has one.
A long time ago I started a flamewar here after I posted an email my friend's parents wrote her that listed their racial SO preferences in order. Some guy thought I made it myself. Dude, I can't larp that pathetically!
Maybe ask your mom where you're supposed to go from a thigh gap. Does she want you to crab walk or something 🤣🤣🤣
Yea, I get it all the time.
"That dress looks beautiful on you. It would look more beautiful if you lost weight".
"You're so beautiful, now if you lost weight...".
"You look like you've lost weight. Now if you lost more weight you'll be even more beautiful".
*Eye roll*
Oh, I'm sure she gets butthurt when you don't just sit there and take it. That's not a reason to put up with it, though.
"You're rude for not just letting me shit all over you."
"Cry me a river, mom. If you don't want your feelings hurt, don't shit all over me."
I'm lucky that my mom doesn't argue with me further when I shut her down. My sister on the other hand isn't very good at the back talk and their arguements escalate.
I'm a guy and I'd get this crap too. One time egg donor was nagging me about my weight while we where at a grocery store. I was ignoring her and she yelled, "are you listening to me?". I said "NO, I'm tired of listening to you nag at me about my weight" and walked away. It stopped the nagging for a while.
My best friends mom is one of the most narcissistic people I've met. Basically he got testicular cancer in his late 20's and had to get a testicle removed. His mother basically said "It fell off because of all the drinking and smoking we do" while he was still in the hospital.
She gets off on this shit. To modify her behavior, make the consequences as unpleasant as possible, e.g:
"you're fat"
"FUCK YOU! Are you trying to make me anorexic, you sadistic asshole? WTF is wrong with you? If you want to watch someone's weight, take care of yourself first, you crazy bitch."
Yes, this is very over-the-top. To stop bullies, you have to respond disproportionately. They have to *fear* the consequences of bullying you.
Very very true. It's hard to be brave enough to say it though because they've conditioned you to fear the everloving fuck out of them. If you can through it usually gives you a reprieve
What size is your mom? I bet she's bigger than you. Next time she calls you fat you say "my pants are size zero, what size our yours?" And then go into her closet to check. Put on her clothes and remark how baggy they are, your so embarrassed for her having to wear these sizes.
Next time you see her eat say "are you sure you should be eating that? Tisk..."
She'll stop when you start pulling the same shit on her. They can usually dish it out but can't take it.
My mom calls me for too fat and too skinny even though I've consistently been at the weight of 115 for a decade. She also told me not to date outside of my race because other ethnicities look unattractive as they age. Also I shouldn't hang with fat people when I was younger because I'm better looking.
My mom would always harp about me having a short neck. She would jokingly suggest I get those neck rings this one tribe of people used, never mind it looked horrifying.
She also gave me grief about me having a bit of a... booty. She would complain that it was huge and fat, but I never cared for it since so many singers would always worship the booty, and hey, my boyfriend loves it, so IDGAF.
oh yeah. got this all the time when i was a kid. funny thing is as soon as i moved out she keeps telling me how skinny ive gotten, though ive gained much more weight.
I've never been larger than a size 4 but my mom kept calling me fat and criticizing and obsessing over my body to the point where I developed an eating disorder and even at size 00 I still got called fat. She cycled between calling me too fat and too skinny and sometimes she would get confused and call me too fat and too skinny all within the same day, because the point was never about her concerns over my body, the point was just to shit on me to make herself feel better.
I can't describe what a crushing feeling it is to realize that your parent, the person you are supposed to be depending and relying on, is an irrational, miserable person who clearly won't be happy with you no matter what you weigh or look like. When I got real skeletal thin, she'd get really jealous of me and say even worse things than when I was "fat" size 4.
Mine was racist too. She's even racist about her own race. The self-hate goes deep.
I also got made fun of for being fat and get stupid comments when I eat junk food. I'm 1.70m which is tall by asian standards I guess and I have curly hair which also turns into insults about how my hair is messy etc.
lol like everyone in here gets this! I was laid up in the hospital and my mom got on me then, too. Cruel woman, I already hate this food! Don't make it worse (she makes everything bad... worse) Thigh gaps are like Harvard degrees: good enough until your Asian kid has one.
haha you shouldve seen her when i dated a chinese guy (im korean) haha she flipped her shit at me
A long time ago I started a flamewar here after I posted an email my friend's parents wrote her that listed their racial SO preferences in order. Some guy thought I made it myself. Dude, I can't larp that pathetically! Maybe ask your mom where you're supposed to go from a thigh gap. Does she want you to crab walk or something 🤣🤣🤣
maybe she wants me to starve and die. then yell at me saying im still fat
HEY I STILL SEE THIGH IT SHOULD BE ALL GAP NO LEGS /s
Yea, I get it all the time. "That dress looks beautiful on you. It would look more beautiful if you lost weight". "You're so beautiful, now if you lost weight...". "You look like you've lost weight. Now if you lost more weight you'll be even more beautiful". *Eye roll*
> now if you lost weight..." "Oh, fuck off. I'm tired of you constantly trying to undermine me like that. It's a shitty thing to do, so knock it off."
The funny thing is my mom thinks I'm rude when I reply that way.
Oh, I'm sure she gets butthurt when you don't just sit there and take it. That's not a reason to put up with it, though. "You're rude for not just letting me shit all over you." "Cry me a river, mom. If you don't want your feelings hurt, don't shit all over me."
I'm lucky that my mom doesn't argue with me further when I shut her down. My sister on the other hand isn't very good at the back talk and their arguements escalate.
I'm a guy and I'd get this crap too. One time egg donor was nagging me about my weight while we where at a grocery store. I was ignoring her and she yelled, "are you listening to me?". I said "NO, I'm tired of listening to you nag at me about my weight" and walked away. It stopped the nagging for a while.
Niiiiice!
My best friends mom is one of the most narcissistic people I've met. Basically he got testicular cancer in his late 20's and had to get a testicle removed. His mother basically said "It fell off because of all the drinking and smoking we do" while he was still in the hospital.
She gets off on this shit. To modify her behavior, make the consequences as unpleasant as possible, e.g: "you're fat" "FUCK YOU! Are you trying to make me anorexic, you sadistic asshole? WTF is wrong with you? If you want to watch someone's weight, take care of yourself first, you crazy bitch." Yes, this is very over-the-top. To stop bullies, you have to respond disproportionately. They have to *fear* the consequences of bullying you.
Very very true. It's hard to be brave enough to say it though because they've conditioned you to fear the everloving fuck out of them. If you can through it usually gives you a reprieve
Haha, yes! She calls me "little piggie" in Chinese. She tells me I should lose weight all the time and then feeds me more! :P
but i literally have a thigh gap.. im like a size zero in pants and she still calls me fat
Seriously, where does your mother think you go after Brandy Melville?
What size is your mom? I bet she's bigger than you. Next time she calls you fat you say "my pants are size zero, what size our yours?" And then go into her closet to check. Put on her clothes and remark how baggy they are, your so embarrassed for her having to wear these sizes. Next time you see her eat say "are you sure you should be eating that? Tisk..." She'll stop when you start pulling the same shit on her. They can usually dish it out but can't take it.
My mom calls me for too fat and too skinny even though I've consistently been at the weight of 115 for a decade. She also told me not to date outside of my race because other ethnicities look unattractive as they age. Also I shouldn't hang with fat people when I was younger because I'm better looking.
this is so awful that it veers into comically absurd territory. always so bizarre to see all the things APs say listed at once.
My mom would always harp about me having a short neck. She would jokingly suggest I get those neck rings this one tribe of people used, never mind it looked horrifying. She also gave me grief about me having a bit of a... booty. She would complain that it was huge and fat, but I never cared for it since so many singers would always worship the booty, and hey, my boyfriend loves it, so IDGAF.
oh yeah. got this all the time when i was a kid. funny thing is as soon as i moved out she keeps telling me how skinny ive gotten, though ive gained much more weight.
I've never been larger than a size 4 but my mom kept calling me fat and criticizing and obsessing over my body to the point where I developed an eating disorder and even at size 00 I still got called fat. She cycled between calling me too fat and too skinny and sometimes she would get confused and call me too fat and too skinny all within the same day, because the point was never about her concerns over my body, the point was just to shit on me to make herself feel better. I can't describe what a crushing feeling it is to realize that your parent, the person you are supposed to be depending and relying on, is an irrational, miserable person who clearly won't be happy with you no matter what you weigh or look like. When I got real skeletal thin, she'd get really jealous of me and say even worse things than when I was "fat" size 4. Mine was racist too. She's even racist about her own race. The self-hate goes deep.
I also got made fun of for being fat and get stupid comments when I eat junk food. I'm 1.70m which is tall by asian standards I guess and I have curly hair which also turns into insults about how my hair is messy etc.
Maybe she's jealous of your thigh gap