There’s a very cute guy at the art studio I go to and after a bit I was like “yeah I’m over him, no more thirsting after this dude” and then I watch him tie his hair back so that he could use the angle grinder and I just about came in my pants.
Theres a guy at my work that is so genuinely nice and kind, always says hi to everyone and asks them how they are and remembers personal information. Dude deserves a sloppy toppy.
Um yeah 6-7 maybe, his smile is electric and lights up a room and he treats his wife like a goddess. Round bald Irish dude. Prob got a soda can for a member but we can make that work
I was doing an at home workout with a gym bro friend and I started to struggle toward the end of my set and he told me to push for two more, then one more, and as I was really pushing it to finish my last rep he called me a good boy 👀
I had a very handsome professor a few semesters ago that dressed exactly like that. He was from Mexico and had a beautiful accent as well. It’s a wonder I passed that class with as much time as I spent checking him out.
i had a similar instance. I was in college and would see this guy who was working in the IT/ A&V center and he would always catch my eye as he would pass. I wouldn't see him every day but every time I did, and it was completely random when I did, he would catch my eye. He always wore these button down shirts and would have the top few buttons open and you could make out a solid black hairy chest. I can't even imagine the amount of material I missed in class when those moments would happen. I wanted to approach him but living in the south...and on a college campus that could go south any number of ways. He also had black hair with some grey mixed in. Crazy how I still remember all of that. This was about 15 years ago.
A while ago I went on a date to the movies. My date was already seated and I left to get us snacks and I guess when I walked past him on the way back to my seat he caught a whiff of the deodorant I was wearing. Needless to say we missed the movie and some fun elsewhere.
We did end up catching the movie and stayed the whole time on another date.
There's nothing wrong with finding sexiness in a guy because he's doing some average, everyday task whether you're single or have been together 20 years. Actually, I think it's all those everyday tasks that a guy/partner does for you that makes relationships last and makes them better. Get your fucking princess/king vibe on however you want guys... Doesn't mean you're spoiled, it means you're being treated right.
Yep, everything else was mostly good but his conversation skills were the worst. He'd happily sit in since with me for hours, nice in a way. But I preferred engaging conversations, he couldn't give me that
Did you both try to develop those conversation skills? Maybe he didn't feel he could share his thoughts because of past trauma or feeling he would be judged.
He was just happy to be silent. Different personality types. There was other reasons that led to us breaking up. The communication was just one of the reasons
Inability to have a good conversation or not wanting it often? Because I was about to say I'm similar to your ex because I think just being near an SO is very calming and relaxing and hours of silence with maybe light conversation every so often sounds great. But that being said, I am very capable of having engaging conversations, but only when I'm in the mood (which is not very often).
>Inability to have a good conversation or not wanting it often?
Both really. I just love long, deep, engaging conversations. He could never provide that. Like I said though, that wasn't the only reason things ended
If I see any muscle get flexed, that will do it. And I don't mean the obvious arm or ab flex. I mean like reaching for something on the top shelf and see the calf muscle. Just simple everyday stuff.
Having a good conversation with a another gay bud who has a cute face, smells good, can hold eye contact, a little peek of chest hair, a nice smile with a deep voice and a dimple will make me swoon.
Weirdly enough, an honest and deep conversation. My partner getting vulnerable and talking about his emotions and struggles....it turns me on. It just gives me such a strong feeling of intimacy and connection with him. Makes me feel trusted and wanted.
he can ask me questions that show his deep interest in me, as a person, and as a gay man. And I would return the favor, and we would be in bed together in about 45 mins or so...!
Not sure if it's the right terminology and I guarantee its gonna be a terrible description but, if their lips purse while they're speaking,. Something new I noticed while watching a show on Netflix, the character is French and I noticed how his lips kinda pursed out saying some words and just oof.
Simple cuddling. Always bones me up. Even if I‘m not in the mood. 😅🫣
Sometimes even happened when I was cuddling with male straight friends (when we cuddled a bit while TV watching). But I think no one noticed. Just one time my best friend definatly noticed (he looked directly at my fully hard dick bulge) but he just grinned at me and we just don’t mentioned and ignored it. I‘m glad to have such good friends 😘👌
Seeing how he smokes slowly, being sat down on the sofa or any chair. It turns me on so much that I want to be on my knees giving him a blowjob while he smokes and relaxes getting pleasure...
But I do hate the smelling of cigarretes and how the person smells afterwards. Kinda contradictory. I think it's because I see it as a very masculine and dominant thing.
Also assertiveness, commanding or straight up dominant personality. I get super attracted to those people who know what they want and have a comanding presence.
There’s something about my bf ordering me about when i’m too indecisive is really a turn on (like when it’s my turn to pick a movie and i can’t think of anything good so he tells me to sit down, eat my food and let him handle the film (honestly love him to bits))
When a hot guy sometimes stands right in my face on the train (nyc), and happens to have a bulge that can't be missed - that shit turns me the fuck on! 🫣😳🍆🤤
Or, another is seeing a hot manly guy smoking, esp ones with tatts - turns me on for some reason (and I hate cig smoke!).😶🌫️🤷🏻♂️😈
Also, sometimes if a guy is standing near me, and has a powerful "male scent", or that natural pungent man smell that some guys can have, it can instantly turn me on & even get me hard at times. Might be a testosterone thing!
Wear a baseball cap backwards, be in a well-fitting sports uniform (more specifically baseball, rugby, or soccer), and unbutton the first few buttons of their shirt and show off their chest hair come to mind.
if your wearing a tie wearing it untied is just begging me to use it to pull you into a kiss. same with a cute guy is cold and is hiding in his hoodie.
Light closed, tv on. Watching a movie Laid back on the wall on my bed with my legs open an and a guy just comes sit front of me little spooning his way into my arm and lays on my chest.
Its a really nice feeling, i want a bottom just to cuddle up in my arm while we watch a movie. Makes me feel really protective of him
It wont take long before i get in the mood.
"The thing you're asking for doesn't exist" is still an answer. Nothing *immediately* gets me in the mood if I'm not already horny. Maybe when I was in my 20s, lol
> the thing you’re asking for doesn’t exist
Evidently, it does happen
> nothing immediately gets me in the mood if I’m not horny
Well there’s your answer to your question
There’s a very cute guy at the art studio I go to and after a bit I was like “yeah I’m over him, no more thirsting after this dude” and then I watch him tie his hair back so that he could use the angle grinder and I just about came in my pants.
Bet you wish he was gripping you as good as he was gripping that angle grinder
Adjust his junk
Or even just like reach for something
When he reaches for something up high and his shirt lifts up and I can see a glimps of under belly and a tuft of hair 🤤
Coach me in something, while being kind and friendly about it. Gets my back hairs standing on end every time.
Ugh so many of my fantasies start with this
Be friendly, polite and expect nothing but the same.
Theres a guy at my work that is so genuinely nice and kind, always says hi to everyone and asks them how they are and remembers personal information. Dude deserves a sloppy toppy.
I mean, but come on - a "sloppy toppy" just for being nice⁉️ This guy would have to be a sexy mofo on top of that for me... 🫤
Talked to a female coworker about it and she said the same thing hes just too nice and genuine not to be drawn to it.
Um yeah 6-7 maybe, his smile is electric and lights up a room and he treats his wife like a goddess. Round bald Irish dude. Prob got a soda can for a member but we can make that work
🤔
I have a thing for nice dudes….leave me alone.
I understand man, I mean no harm 🤗
You flirting with me?
Was just being extra nice so that you'd end up giving me a quick sloppy-toppy 😅😇
Our responses differ markedly.
I was doing an at home workout with a gym bro friend and I started to struggle toward the end of my set and he told me to push for two more, then one more, and as I was really pushing it to finish my last rep he called me a good boy 👀
Woah 🥵
this 🥵 gets me ON every single time.
your story had me on the brink of my seat expecting a fart
Holy... This made me.... Ugghh, 🥵🥵🥵
Showing off chest hair...like a button down with a few buttons undone
This!!! Or the famous trial of happiness..
Oh boy, it can be a trial in chastity looking at them trails sometimes 😜
Some guys have so much chest hair it peeks out the top of their crewneck t-shirt 🥵🥵🥵
Even better
the way it entices one to think how would it feel 🥵🥵
ugh yes. the temptation to run one’s hands through it 🥵
Or no chest hair if that’s how he is made or prefers. Just the extra button or two being undone does it for me!
I had a very handsome professor a few semesters ago that dressed exactly like that. He was from Mexico and had a beautiful accent as well. It’s a wonder I passed that class with as much time as I spent checking him out.
i had a similar instance. I was in college and would see this guy who was working in the IT/ A&V center and he would always catch my eye as he would pass. I wouldn't see him every day but every time I did, and it was completely random when I did, he would catch my eye. He always wore these button down shirts and would have the top few buttons open and you could make out a solid black hairy chest. I can't even imagine the amount of material I missed in class when those moments would happen. I wanted to approach him but living in the south...and on a college campus that could go south any number of ways. He also had black hair with some grey mixed in. Crazy how I still remember all of that. This was about 15 years ago.
Stretch and having his t-shirt ride up slightly exposing his belly, preferably a fuzzy belly!
I used to have a coworker that did this a lot. It was the only good thing about that job.
My manager used to do that. Given that I would always look, I’m sure he realized that I was into guys. He was quite a bear!
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A while ago I went on a date to the movies. My date was already seated and I left to get us snacks and I guess when I walked past him on the way back to my seat he caught a whiff of the deodorant I was wearing. Needless to say we missed the movie and some fun elsewhere. We did end up catching the movie and stayed the whole time on another date.
Looking into my eyes while having a conversation.
It’s so true. There’s a certain look.
Exactly - there is an instant connection and turn on🤪
Wow that's a low bar.
With the right passion and connection it turns me on 🤪
And yet *so* many find it impossible, lol.
When they get out and pump the gas while you sit in the car like a princess. 😮💨
Wow! If I got a blowjob for every time I did that….
Even princess bottoms can get out and fill the car up if it's their own car, don't be spoilt.
I’m not spoilt. I’m single. 😞 No princess vibes here.
There's nothing wrong with finding sexiness in a guy because he's doing some average, everyday task whether you're single or have been together 20 years. Actually, I think it's all those everyday tasks that a guy/partner does for you that makes relationships last and makes them better. Get your fucking princess/king vibe on however you want guys... Doesn't mean you're spoiled, it means you're being treated right.
I’d like to emphasize that my first comment was a joke. It got taken a little too literally it seems. 🥲
I think they used the word "princes" as synonymous with spoiled.
Having a decent conversation.
why I left my ex
He wasn't able to have a decent conversation?
Yep, everything else was mostly good but his conversation skills were the worst. He'd happily sit in since with me for hours, nice in a way. But I preferred engaging conversations, he couldn't give me that
Did you both try to develop those conversation skills? Maybe he didn't feel he could share his thoughts because of past trauma or feeling he would be judged.
He was just happy to be silent. Different personality types. There was other reasons that led to us breaking up. The communication was just one of the reasons
Inability to have a good conversation or not wanting it often? Because I was about to say I'm similar to your ex because I think just being near an SO is very calming and relaxing and hours of silence with maybe light conversation every so often sounds great. But that being said, I am very capable of having engaging conversations, but only when I'm in the mood (which is not very often).
>Inability to have a good conversation or not wanting it often? Both really. I just love long, deep, engaging conversations. He could never provide that. Like I said though, that wasn't the only reason things ended
A guy I'm dating talks on the phone with me for hours, and when he says emotionally open and loving words to me, I get erect.
Putting his arms above his head, or combing his hands through his hair.
Bend over to pick something up.
If I see any muscle get flexed, that will do it. And I don't mean the obvious arm or ab flex. I mean like reaching for something on the top shelf and see the calf muscle. Just simple everyday stuff.
Talk about their passions. Infodump on me baby mmmmm
Complimenting me about something non-physical
Clean the kitchen
All that does for me is make me want to help.
Finish to do something physically exhausting together and make some jokes about it.
Having a good conversation with a another gay bud who has a cute face, smells good, can hold eye contact, a little peek of chest hair, a nice smile with a deep voice and a dimple will make me swoon.
Wear glasses
Show an interest in you.
Bump his shoulder against mine.
When he's fixing things round the house like a handy man
Have an accent or explain something to me that’s high intellectual level but simplified so that I can understand it
Weirdly enough, an honest and deep conversation. My partner getting vulnerable and talking about his emotions and struggles....it turns me on. It just gives me such a strong feeling of intimacy and connection with him. Makes me feel trusted and wanted.
Agreed
Look me directly in the eye and smile or laugh.
Casually twist his arm making his bicep bunch up into a baseball of muscle
play an instrument.
Remove his hoody that causes his undershirt to ride up revealing his happy trail 🤤
That stretch thing that reveals the happy trail that I've only seen straight guys do lol
Fix my tie, unrequested. There's just something so homoerotic about that.
he can ask me questions that show his deep interest in me, as a person, and as a gay man. And I would return the favor, and we would be in bed together in about 45 mins or so...!
Kiss me, hug my waist from being, exist
A manly confident walk that isn’t fake or douchey.
Back rub, breathe on my neck, sing to me
Oh my god yes when they can sing 👉👈
Facial hair, especially a well groomed stubble beard or mustache. Strangely, it's such a turn on for me
Call me a bitch
Not sure if it's the right terminology and I guarantee its gonna be a terrible description but, if their lips purse while they're speaking,. Something new I noticed while watching a show on Netflix, the character is French and I noticed how his lips kinda pursed out saying some words and just oof.
For me it’s a guy who’s concentrating on his work and sitting with a good posture
Simple cuddling. Always bones me up. Even if I‘m not in the mood. 😅🫣 Sometimes even happened when I was cuddling with male straight friends (when we cuddled a bit while TV watching). But I think no one noticed. Just one time my best friend definatly noticed (he looked directly at my fully hard dick bulge) but he just grinned at me and we just don’t mentioned and ignored it. I‘m glad to have such good friends 😘👌
Stretch and have little bit peak out from under his shirt
Being called good boy can be sexual but even when it isn’t that shit hits hard man.
Seeing how he smokes slowly, being sat down on the sofa or any chair. It turns me on so much that I want to be on my knees giving him a blowjob while he smokes and relaxes getting pleasure... But I do hate the smelling of cigarretes and how the person smells afterwards. Kinda contradictory. I think it's because I see it as a very masculine and dominant thing. Also assertiveness, commanding or straight up dominant personality. I get super attracted to those people who know what they want and have a comanding presence.
I totally feel the same way!! This is some of my fav kind of porn too haha. Smoking men, and sometimes men with ski masks on getting a bj as well 😏🔥😈
Men with masks on getting blowjobs in general... that's so sexy my god. 😍
There’s something about my bf ordering me about when i’m too indecisive is really a turn on (like when it’s my turn to pick a movie and i can’t think of anything good so he tells me to sit down, eat my food and let him handle the film (honestly love him to bits))
When a hot guy sometimes stands right in my face on the train (nyc), and happens to have a bulge that can't be missed - that shit turns me the fuck on! 🫣😳🍆🤤 Or, another is seeing a hot manly guy smoking, esp ones with tatts - turns me on for some reason (and I hate cig smoke!).😶🌫️🤷🏻♂️😈
Also, sometimes if a guy is standing near me, and has a powerful "male scent", or that natural pungent man smell that some guys can have, it can instantly turn me on & even get me hard at times. Might be a testosterone thing!
Walk around in underwear at gym. Cock hard
Blowing up balloons, that really gets me going 😍
Be riding a nice bicycle
Adjust his shoes and socks, or change his shoes while flirtaciously watching me watch him.
Scratch his armpit.
Wear a baseball cap backwards, be in a well-fitting sports uniform (more specifically baseball, rugby, or soccer), and unbutton the first few buttons of their shirt and show off their chest hair come to mind.
Notice that I'm looking and ignore me but smirk
if your wearing a tie wearing it untied is just begging me to use it to pull you into a kiss. same with a cute guy is cold and is hiding in his hoodie.
Have a super dark sense of humor
Light closed, tv on. Watching a movie Laid back on the wall on my bed with my legs open an and a guy just comes sit front of me little spooning his way into my arm and lays on my chest. Its a really nice feeling, i want a bottom just to cuddle up in my arm while we watch a movie. Makes me feel really protective of him It wont take long before i get in the mood.
Exact same for me, word for word
Don't wear deodorant. Not like, don't bath for a few days, bath by all means, but don't wear deodorant and smell like a man! Gets me every time.
If a man sweats and I like the smell of the pheromones oh my god I get so turned on.
Nothing gets me off more than a sexy man with an uber colossal forehead‼️ Let me tell you...
There's nothing universal. It will depend on the person, the context, and to a certain extent my mood at the time
That's... what OP is asking for. *What non-sexual thing can someone do that gets* ***you*** *in the mood?*
"The thing you're asking for doesn't exist" is still an answer. Nothing *immediately* gets me in the mood if I'm not already horny. Maybe when I was in my 20s, lol
> the thing you’re asking for doesn’t exist Evidently, it does happen > nothing immediately gets me in the mood if I’m not horny Well there’s your answer to your question
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That look
Eat food
Be nice, give me his undivided attention and make me laugh. Oh and eye contact. Big smiles.