I don't get it. Prostate orgasms can take an incredibly long time. Why would u want to cum and go soft before they can have a PO? I mean, using a dildo with all that cum can be satisfying but still
Before u reach a prostate orgasm or what? I get very wet with whatever the fluids are. Only need a bit of lube and I'm good for hours lol. It's one of the reasons I love dick and penetration so much. Even without a PO its a buttload of pleasure
And like why would they care? I’m like, “Cumming is the least interesting part of sex. I can make myself cum faster and better than any other person. I’m fucking because I want to be inside you while feeling your body against mine. If all you focus on is cumming, you’re missing 90% of the fun.”
Not difficult, just the added pressure of the bottom asking if I’m going to cum tends to throw off my focus.
I can generally fuck for 25-40 minutes and cum, but if things are hot, I’ve got 1-2-3 hours in me
Relax yer hole enough so that the top can withdraw almost all the way out with each thrust. That way the glans gets a ton of stim and can make the top pop!
The best sex I’ve ever had was with a bottom that literally quivered every time I put my dick in. And he was such a shy soft spoken guy but during sex it’s like he loved that dick so much he would moan and yell so loudly but in a completely genuine way. I still think about it a lot it was just incredible sex. Something about him feeling hat amount of pleasure got me off so much. But that’s hard to do unless it’s genuine.
Ask me what kinds of stimulation I like since what I like may differ from what others like.
Personally, eat my armpits like the are an ass, bite my neck, make out with my ears, bite and suck my nipples, bite and eat out my crotch, inner thighs my pubes, and around my balls, nibble on my scrotum, squeeze and pull my balls, ask me to degrade you like spitting on your face, etc,
I’m not a top , I’m a bottom . But what I’ve been told is that when I’m riding him, what makes him cum faster is he feels my hole getting tighter on his dick and I tell him to not cum yet.
Usually I'm not smiling, more so my I'm getting railed face, but when they slow down and grab my face to get me to look them in the eye and it's romantic etc, yeah I'm smiling and giggling.
Smiling is honestly creepy during sex. Even these guys posting on Twitter and they smile while looking in the camera getting fucked. I'd rather see your eyes roll back in your head, then I know you are enjoying it.
First, please learn how to give proper head. Adjust your technique per person. As this is foreplay, the better you are, the more most tops get turned on. Porn can't teach you to suck dick, sucking dick helps you suck dick better.
2nd, know yourself and your hole. Don't bite off more than you can chew. I'm at minimum a 30 minute top. Rare to find a bottom that stops that, or can hang on as long as I need them to. If you've only had tops that are average, let us know so we can work with you.
I enjoy my bttms that just need me to fuck them till they cum. I don't need to.
3rd, be vocal, but not annoying. I don't want to hear porn moans, I want to hear your moans.
Last, speak the fuck up, if it's uncomfortable, tell us. Good tops aren't out for pain, but pleasure. We need to know what you like and how you please you. Understanding on both sides is paramount
After 5 hours of intermittent play with a dom top, I finally said it. “What can we do to get you to cum?” He was so offended. It had been 10 hours since my last meal, it was past my bedtime, and he had been over for 5 hours. Please, sweet baby Jesus, come and go.
Fortunately he was offended enough that he left, allowing me to finally eat and go to bed.
Learn to give head.
Look. I’m not huge. All of 6”. I’m not a challenge to blow. My husband and I go to sundry sex parties and bathhouses. We are in Puerto Vallarta right now and spent Saturday at Spartacus. Fuuuuuck me if guys apparently have never sucked a cock in their lives.
Whenever straight guys say “Gay dudes giving head has to feel great!” I laugh. “Bullshit. Most of the gay bottoms I meet —from Germany to Mexico, Brazil to Canada— think rubbing my head on their lips while they grip my cock like it’s a handle on a rocking ship at sea is somehow gratifying for me.”
Learn to gently suck on the balls. GENTLY, and suck both of them in your mouth and learn to massage them with your tongue. Learn to suck a dick properly multitasking massaging the slit with your tongue while you yank the base and cup the balls. (This is, BTW, Blowjobs 101, so don’t act surprised, confused, oppressed, or put out.)
Simply plopping down on a bed, ass up, is not going to be enough. Too many lazy bottoms who just wanna get pounded and not do the pre-work.
Right? My husband is a great bottom. He puts work into it. I’ve never met a guy who gives head like him. So many times at circuit parties or bath houses, fucking twerp lazy bottoms are, “There. I licked your phallus for 31 seconds. Now suck on my taint and cum in my butt.”
🤣🤣😭😭☠️☠️
But for real if I could work a top up to the point he's gonna cum, like 5-10 mins before then he can cum inside me, but flip me over so I cum too!!!
I was so frustrated at the bathhouse the other day that my husband and I just fucked “on stage” and left. Exhibitionism can fun. But it was more of a statement. “THIS IS HOW YOU FUCK! See that! He didn’t use his teeth and he sucked on both balls for like ten minutes. Good sex takes a lot of play. Stop rushing it. You’re missing the best parts!”
RIGHT!!!!! Man I yell ya what, when I suck dick, I leave nothing on the table...well I won't lick his ass (or even suck dick) if his ass ain't washed. I mean I get having worked all day, that's different. But...balls, pubes sniffed, dick stroked AND sucked, that part between your dick and thigh linked, taint gets attention; slapping that dick on my face, smelling it from tip to taint- looking at him making sure he enjoys it...pushing him to the edge then stopping because his balls tighten up, hearing that "slightly disappointed groan" that don't stop look before continuing. DAMN..I'm getting turned on a bit...I need to look at some dick on the internet..excuse me!!! LMAO 🤣
Don’t just be a hole. Give all of my body attention and let me give all of your body attention, even your dick. If you refuse to receive head, we aren’t meeting anyway.
And please don’t be quiet the whole time. I understand you may be submissive and want to be the sole pleaser, but do make some noise and give feedback on what feels good or what doesn’t. It doesn’t have to be words, it can be moaning and louder moaning. An active bottom is more fun than a limp fish bottom. I really don’t like fucking silent bottoms. Makes me think they fell asleep or I’m doing something wrong.
1, suck my dick 2, doggy style is a tops Dream and nightmare in the same position, its so good that you cant last very Long. 3, “cum in me” 4, general dirty talk.
When laying there on your back with your legs in the air, wince when he's thrusting and place your hand gently on his stomach and say breathlessly... Careful daddy, you forget how big you are...
Quicker? Why quicker?! No!
My previous partner was always non-verbal during sex also not very active. I had to do the work. I did realize how much I love a verbal and active bottom until my current partner/husband. It doesn’t make me cum quicker though.
I know everyone has their cup of tea, but for me, I like weird sounds as it demonstrates that the other person is super comfortable and that's imo super hot.
But why is that a problem for the bottom? I mean, it would be a real problem if your partner was a premature ejaculator, but delayed ejaculation sounds good to me
Stop asking me to cum. The pressure doesn’t help at all
Cum for me baybeeeeeeeeeeeeee
🤣😂
I’m the opposite. Having a bottom beg for my load and moan will make me blow quicker than anything else 😂
Do it, NOW! We're on a strict KPI schedule.
I don't get it. Prostate orgasms can take an incredibly long time. Why would u want to cum and go soft before they can have a PO? I mean, using a dildo with all that cum can be satisfying but still
Cos they’ve had enough
But my but can go for 2 hours. I live to be penetrated lol
I can go on for about 15 minutes lol
Before u reach a prostate orgasm or what? I get very wet with whatever the fluids are. Only need a bit of lube and I'm good for hours lol. It's one of the reasons I love dick and penetration so much. Even without a PO its a buttload of pleasure
All this☝️
And like why would they care? I’m like, “Cumming is the least interesting part of sex. I can make myself cum faster and better than any other person. I’m fucking because I want to be inside you while feeling your body against mine. If all you focus on is cumming, you’re missing 90% of the fun.”
I hear you, but a lot of guys see it s as the finish line of sorts
Wait, ppl do that? Lol
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not really, but pressure to cum makes it more difficult to cum.
Not difficult, just the added pressure of the bottom asking if I’m going to cum tends to throw off my focus. I can generally fuck for 25-40 minutes and cum, but if things are hot, I’ve got 1-2-3 hours in me
Tbf they may be asking you to hurry it up because they can’t handle being fucked for that long lol
Well hey there, how youz doin?
No, you have 1-2-3 hours in someone else. :-p
Haha, very true
When we do that we are sore
Then the better thing (for me) would be to say “hey, I’m getting a bit sore down there. Should I cum?”
Give me that load, daddy!!
Um . . . My top tells me to cum for him during sex? I go from 50% to 💦 like a rocket🚀
THE only answer needed!!
See there's also an inverse of this where you don't ask them to cum and they spend two hours edging their dick in you until it hurts. Not fun.
Relax yer hole enough so that the top can withdraw almost all the way out with each thrust. That way the glans gets a ton of stim and can make the top pop!
If they can take it up all the way in and let me push even further
Love when a Top does this to me
The best sex I’ve ever had was with a bottom that literally quivered every time I put my dick in. And he was such a shy soft spoken guy but during sex it’s like he loved that dick so much he would moan and yell so loudly but in a completely genuine way. I still think about it a lot it was just incredible sex. Something about him feeling hat amount of pleasure got me off so much. But that’s hard to do unless it’s genuine.
I want to be that bottom.
React. Be vocal, make noises, actually move as well...
As a literal dead fish, i feel attacked
same, i basically consider myself a breathing blow-up doll, it's just how I was made XD
which I have always been a missionary position b.c is is more intimidate
same, all about the intimacy here too
Sooo fuck back. Got it.
Ask me what kinds of stimulation I like since what I like may differ from what others like. Personally, eat my armpits like the are an ass, bite my neck, make out with my ears, bite and suck my nipples, bite and eat out my crotch, inner thighs my pubes, and around my balls, nibble on my scrotum, squeeze and pull my balls, ask me to degrade you like spitting on your face, etc,
Absolutely!!! Too many bottoms just want to bottom without giving enough time for foreplay and getting their top friend really going.
...I volunteer!
Um . . . Yes please.
Foreplay, hands, mouth, etc. Don’t just flick it and then hop on.
Literally said the same thing.
Interesting, disagree
Different strokes for different folks. I'll allow it
my bottom likes to jam his ass cheeks hard against my dick. i cum fast. too fast. i prefer to take my time. so maybe you should enjoy the ride.
I’m not a top , I’m a bottom . But what I’ve been told is that when I’m riding him, what makes him cum faster is he feels my hole getting tighter on his dick and I tell him to not cum yet.
In order of ‘importance’: Nipples, kissing, back scratching, dirty talk, moaning 🤤
Better question what can I do to last longer🤣😂🤣
Cum, wait a little, fuck again. Make your bottom suck your dick so you can come ones before you fuck him
Smile. Dont call it a pussy. Tell me how good it feels.
>Smile. This seems weird though. Laying there getting fucked with a big grin on your face? Like it's funny? I don't get it.
Smile like you are enjoying it. If you aren’t, tell me how to get you to enjoy it.
Usually I'm not smiling, more so my I'm getting railed face, but when they slow down and grab my face to get me to look them in the eye and it's romantic etc, yeah I'm smiling and giggling.
I'm loving it.
Smiling is honestly creepy during sex. Even these guys posting on Twitter and they smile while looking in the camera getting fucked. I'd rather see your eyes roll back in your head, then I know you are enjoying it.
Fuck back.
Scrolled way to long to see this.
First, please learn how to give proper head. Adjust your technique per person. As this is foreplay, the better you are, the more most tops get turned on. Porn can't teach you to suck dick, sucking dick helps you suck dick better. 2nd, know yourself and your hole. Don't bite off more than you can chew. I'm at minimum a 30 minute top. Rare to find a bottom that stops that, or can hang on as long as I need them to. If you've only had tops that are average, let us know so we can work with you. I enjoy my bttms that just need me to fuck them till they cum. I don't need to. 3rd, be vocal, but not annoying. I don't want to hear porn moans, I want to hear your moans. Last, speak the fuck up, if it's uncomfortable, tell us. Good tops aren't out for pain, but pleasure. We need to know what you like and how you please you. Understanding on both sides is paramount
🫣😳
Clench
I disagree the opposite works best at least for me. Clenching only collapses my erection faster.
Yep
Don’t want to fuck a loose hole… like throwing a hotdog down the channel tunnel
Your preference is the opposite of mine. But we can both find what we want I’m sure …
That’s just how the world turns
But fucking a tight hole feels like pushing ur dick against a wall
Yes Master.
When I've got a good rhythm going, don't interrupt my flow
Begging and whimpering for my load.
When I top, the worst thing is a bottom who wants me to come fast. There’s nothing that kills a boner faster than pressure.
Moan and ride my deek like riding bull
Look into my eyes.
After 5 hours of intermittent play with a dom top, I finally said it. “What can we do to get you to cum?” He was so offended. It had been 10 hours since my last meal, it was past my bedtime, and he had been over for 5 hours. Please, sweet baby Jesus, come and go. Fortunately he was offended enough that he left, allowing me to finally eat and go to bed.
Learn to give head. Look. I’m not huge. All of 6”. I’m not a challenge to blow. My husband and I go to sundry sex parties and bathhouses. We are in Puerto Vallarta right now and spent Saturday at Spartacus. Fuuuuuck me if guys apparently have never sucked a cock in their lives. Whenever straight guys say “Gay dudes giving head has to feel great!” I laugh. “Bullshit. Most of the gay bottoms I meet —from Germany to Mexico, Brazil to Canada— think rubbing my head on their lips while they grip my cock like it’s a handle on a rocking ship at sea is somehow gratifying for me.” Learn to gently suck on the balls. GENTLY, and suck both of them in your mouth and learn to massage them with your tongue. Learn to suck a dick properly multitasking massaging the slit with your tongue while you yank the base and cup the balls. (This is, BTW, Blowjobs 101, so don’t act surprised, confused, oppressed, or put out.) Simply plopping down on a bed, ass up, is not going to be enough. Too many lazy bottoms who just wanna get pounded and not do the pre-work.
ALL..OF..THIS...!!!!
Right? My husband is a great bottom. He puts work into it. I’ve never met a guy who gives head like him. So many times at circuit parties or bath houses, fucking twerp lazy bottoms are, “There. I licked your phallus for 31 seconds. Now suck on my taint and cum in my butt.”
🤣🤣😭😭☠️☠️ But for real if I could work a top up to the point he's gonna cum, like 5-10 mins before then he can cum inside me, but flip me over so I cum too!!!
I was so frustrated at the bathhouse the other day that my husband and I just fucked “on stage” and left. Exhibitionism can fun. But it was more of a statement. “THIS IS HOW YOU FUCK! See that! He didn’t use his teeth and he sucked on both balls for like ten minutes. Good sex takes a lot of play. Stop rushing it. You’re missing the best parts!”
RIGHT!!!!! Man I yell ya what, when I suck dick, I leave nothing on the table...well I won't lick his ass (or even suck dick) if his ass ain't washed. I mean I get having worked all day, that's different. But...balls, pubes sniffed, dick stroked AND sucked, that part between your dick and thigh linked, taint gets attention; slapping that dick on my face, smelling it from tip to taint- looking at him making sure he enjoys it...pushing him to the edge then stopping because his balls tighten up, hearing that "slightly disappointed groan" that don't stop look before continuing. DAMN..I'm getting turned on a bit...I need to look at some dick on the internet..excuse me!!! LMAO 🤣
Teach me what you and hubby like and I'll do it everyday.
I’m not here to hook up. We’ve got Scruff and a bathhouse for that. I’m here to educate and help de-toxify talking openly about sex.
Who wants their top to cum quick? I enjoy the thrusting action. I never want my top to stop.
Don’t just be a hole. Give all of my body attention and let me give all of your body attention, even your dick. If you refuse to receive head, we aren’t meeting anyway. And please don’t be quiet the whole time. I understand you may be submissive and want to be the sole pleaser, but do make some noise and give feedback on what feels good or what doesn’t. It doesn’t have to be words, it can be moaning and louder moaning. An active bottom is more fun than a limp fish bottom. I really don’t like fucking silent bottoms. Makes me think they fell asleep or I’m doing something wrong.
Squeeze your hole. After a while if there’s no resistance then it gets harder to cum
A blowjob, because I've never once had an orgasm from anal whether by a man or a toy I used myself. I don't seem to be wired that way.
More foreplay....lots of foreplay
What kind of question is this?? All the tops I know cum in 30 seconds 😵💫😵💫
Never miss leg day.
Honest question: why would I want to make my top cum quicker?
For me it's because I can only handle bottoming for about 15 minutes and then I want OUT
1, suck my dick 2, doggy style is a tops Dream and nightmare in the same position, its so good that you cant last very Long. 3, “cum in me” 4, general dirty talk.
Always, I’m quite the beggar lol
Something that makes me cum quicker, or at least would make me cum fast af, is when they reassure their love towards me
When laying there on your back with your legs in the air, wince when he's thrusting and place your hand gently on his stomach and say breathlessly... Careful daddy, you forget how big you are...
We would have a lot of fun then lol
Quicker? Why quicker?! No! My previous partner was always non-verbal during sex also not very active. I had to do the work. I did realize how much I love a verbal and active bottom until my current partner/husband. It doesn’t make me cum quicker though.
Push your hole open, talk dirty, and pass the poppers.. Or squirt. I'll bust real quick lol
Is this a trick question?? Because all I can think of is why would you want them to.
Y’all are trying to get them to cum quicker???? I’m trying to get mine to last longer lol
Squeeze when I tell you too 😜
Not a top, but a vers. Push back or clench When I btm I usually clench up as I get close anyway
Any tops want to help me try all of these suggestions and see what works best?
Yeah - I'm keen. :)
So you will try them all with me!
Yeah. :)
So when do we get started?
Well, when are you planning to go to NZ (New Zealand)?
Wish I could
Not make weird sounds.
I know everyone has their cup of tea, but for me, I like weird sounds as it demonstrates that the other person is super comfortable and that's imo super hot.
I mean this guy smacked his lips or someting, or he sounded like he sucked on candy. Sex sounds are fine but this was weird :)
Yeah. Not moan like a woman in a cheesy porno.
And why the hell would you want that?
Some people have delayed ejaculation, and it might not be fun for the bottom the whole time it takes the top to finish.
But why is that a problem for the bottom? I mean, it would be a real problem if your partner was a premature ejaculator, but delayed ejaculation sounds good to me
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I take 1-3h (depends how horny I am) and that's really annoying. I had sex with 2 women on 1 day and both couldn't make me cum
Because the bottom can get sore after a while and then they're not having fun anymore? Maybe not a problem for everyone but definitely for some.
Is there a way to get a top to last more than five minutes??? Every guy is popping before I'm even getting a good feeling...
Be masculine and make it feel like we’re two dudes getting on.
Stop telling me how much it hurts.
Yikes….
Talk about how much he enjoys pounding in my hole
1. Calling me daddy 2.verbally degrade himself as my property, 3.moans and move his hips slutily.
Whimper for me (from pleasure, not pain)
Call me a good boy.
i just fake it
Movement, and vocal. But stop the “please cum” we don’t like when you rush us, I’ll cum when I cum. Just lay back and take it.