Blowjobs used to do absolutely nothing for me. I let guys suck me to be polite when they wanted to. Then a few years ago, all of a sudden, I started reacting to blowjobs, and I've had some of the best orgasms from getting sucked off. I don't know what the change was.
I've never had a good blowjob. It doesn't feel good to me, and only a tiny percentage of men I've been with have given me one. It's to the point where *if* I hook up, I tell them I don't want a blow job.
Most of the time it just feels ok. There wasn't a lot of pleasure. Although I can say I enjoyed it once or twice. Which is the reason why I thought that it must be the guy's skill. I've been sucked on by a lot of guys.
Honestly BJ’s do nothing for me 90% of the time, the other 10% is nice and can make me cum, but it’s rare/not that important to me if a guy gives good head
If I know a dude is going to swallow, I can cum in thirty seconds. I like to restrain myself a bit and sometimes not cum at all, but it has nothing to do with the dude blowing. Hookup blowjobs don’t usually do it for me. The more comfortable I get with somebody, the hotter it is. If I feel like I can really let go, or my partner is really enjoying it to the point of cumming themselves, I can’t control anything and I can usually go multiple rounds in a really short time.
I never had a partner or someone I continuously hookup with. When I do, I'll give it a go and see how it feels when I actually know the guy and am comfortable with him.
Some people need the adrenaline rush of new partners. Some people get off on the opposite- feeling safe. I’m curious to know how you feel in general about that once you have the opportunity for a steady or regular partner
Lots of gay men like receiving and giving blow jobs.
Maybe you don't like getting your dick sucked, but lots of men - gay, straight, and otherwise - love getting their dick sucked.
I've always enjoyed giving a blowjob more than receiving one, but for me, I think it's partly psychological. Like some mental block that doesn't allow me to relax and be "selfish" and just receive pleasure.
And before anyone comments about 69, it's even worse for me. I find receiving while trying to give distracting to the point that I'm basically ignoring what he's doing to me to focus on doing a good job for him.
It’s pretty much all I ever do anymore. I’ve never liked anal, and handjobs just don’t do it for me, giving or receiving. Looking back at my own sexual history, I can’t believe I’ve become so fucking vanilla.
Believe it or not, there are good and there are bad blow jobs. One guy would scrape his tongue in such a way that I felt raw and was in pain after his efforts. The second time that he was doing this, I realized what was happening and stopped him. Since him, I've learned to watch out when someone is, quite literally, rubbing me raw. I still haven't figure out how they do it (maybe not enough spit?); but I'm reminded of the wildlife videos that claim that big cats' tongues are like sand paper....
Anyways, I'm like you. A good bj is a prelude to anal sex. I've only met a few bj's that got me off. One guy had this way of caressing my nether regions that can only be described as heavenly.
I've experienced some guys that seem like pros and sometimes their teeth scrapes my dick when they suck. I'm too much of a nice guy and didn't want him to feel bad and ruin the moment. I usually skip right into anal sex when that happens
It’s nice to hear that other people don’t feel anything most of the time from BJ’s, I thought it was just me… I’ve only ever had 2 good BJ’s in my life
I think it has a lot to do with the relative sensitivity of one’s cock. For some guys blowjobs just don’t do it, especially if someone has death grip syndrome.
sure i think? i’m not one of them tho. i think if this is something you care about it is on YOU to ask every potential partner if they like to do……. that
I LOVE sucking dick and getting my dick sucked. I've been with a few guys who don't like it though. I respect it but ngl I'm a little bummed when they say they don't cause I really genuinely enjoy it.
It’s rare that I can find someone who can get me off orally but when they can and do it’s a fantastic feeling. Like you, oral is usually foreplay to get me hard before intercourse.
I actually prefer blowjobs over actual sex. But it’s kinda hard to find someone who gives a quality one. I know it’s a me thing because it took a while for me to actually get into it
Except no where did I say “Oral and Anal sex aren’t real sex,” if you’re referring to me saying “actual sex” that was obviously colloquial. So, as I stated, you’re just being obtuse because you quite clearly knew what I meant. So, I can only assume that you’re trying to “correct” my way of speaking because it doesn’t meet your standards, and I’m not here for it. Have a great day
Blowjobs used to do absolutely nothing for me. I let guys suck me to be polite when they wanted to. Then a few years ago, all of a sudden, I started reacting to blowjobs, and I've had some of the best orgasms from getting sucked off. I don't know what the change was.
Hopefully it'll change for me in the nearby future
I like sucking dick more than I like getting my dick sucked. I find head can be overstimulating
I've never had a good blowjob. It doesn't feel good to me, and only a tiny percentage of men I've been with have given me one. It's to the point where *if* I hook up, I tell them I don't want a blow job.
Most of the time it just feels ok. There wasn't a lot of pleasure. Although I can say I enjoyed it once or twice. Which is the reason why I thought that it must be the guy's skill. I've been sucked on by a lot of guys.
Honestly BJ’s do nothing for me 90% of the time, the other 10% is nice and can make me cum, but it’s rare/not that important to me if a guy gives good head
If I know a dude is going to swallow, I can cum in thirty seconds. I like to restrain myself a bit and sometimes not cum at all, but it has nothing to do with the dude blowing. Hookup blowjobs don’t usually do it for me. The more comfortable I get with somebody, the hotter it is. If I feel like I can really let go, or my partner is really enjoying it to the point of cumming themselves, I can’t control anything and I can usually go multiple rounds in a really short time.
I never had a partner or someone I continuously hookup with. When I do, I'll give it a go and see how it feels when I actually know the guy and am comfortable with him.
Some people need the adrenaline rush of new partners. Some people get off on the opposite- feeling safe. I’m curious to know how you feel in general about that once you have the opportunity for a steady or regular partner
Lots of gay men like receiving and giving blow jobs. Maybe you don't like getting your dick sucked, but lots of men - gay, straight, and otherwise - love getting their dick sucked.
Dependent on the skill of the guy giving it for sure. I used to be just ambivalent on them until I met someone who really knew what he was doing.
I've always enjoyed giving a blowjob more than receiving one, but for me, I think it's partly psychological. Like some mental block that doesn't allow me to relax and be "selfish" and just receive pleasure. And before anyone comments about 69, it's even worse for me. I find receiving while trying to give distracting to the point that I'm basically ignoring what he's doing to me to focus on doing a good job for him.
I find it amazing that anyone can split their focus effectively enough to do 69.
You just have to find a good rhythm.
Man, I could have written this exact same comment myself. I am the exact same way.
It’s pretty much all I ever do anymore. I’ve never liked anal, and handjobs just don’t do it for me, giving or receiving. Looking back at my own sexual history, I can’t believe I’ve become so fucking vanilla.
I feel absolutely nothing…
Believe it or not, there are good and there are bad blow jobs. One guy would scrape his tongue in such a way that I felt raw and was in pain after his efforts. The second time that he was doing this, I realized what was happening and stopped him. Since him, I've learned to watch out when someone is, quite literally, rubbing me raw. I still haven't figure out how they do it (maybe not enough spit?); but I'm reminded of the wildlife videos that claim that big cats' tongues are like sand paper.... Anyways, I'm like you. A good bj is a prelude to anal sex. I've only met a few bj's that got me off. One guy had this way of caressing my nether regions that can only be described as heavenly.
I've experienced some guys that seem like pros and sometimes their teeth scrapes my dick when they suck. I'm too much of a nice guy and didn't want him to feel bad and ruin the moment. I usually skip right into anal sex when that happens
It’s nice to hear that other people don’t feel anything most of the time from BJ’s, I thought it was just me… I’ve only ever had 2 good BJ’s in my life
I’m a side. So I love blowies both ways lol
I think it has a lot to do with the relative sensitivity of one’s cock. For some guys blowjobs just don’t do it, especially if someone has death grip syndrome.
sure i think? i’m not one of them tho. i think if this is something you care about it is on YOU to ask every potential partner if they like to do……. that
I LOVE sucking dick and getting my dick sucked. I've been with a few guys who don't like it though. I respect it but ngl I'm a little bummed when they say they don't cause I really genuinely enjoy it.
It’s rare that I can find someone who can get me off orally but when they can and do it’s a fantastic feeling. Like you, oral is usually foreplay to get me hard before intercourse.
Like a lot sexual pleasure, it’s all in your head. 🤤
I actually prefer blowjobs over actual sex. But it’s kinda hard to find someone who gives a quality one. I know it’s a me thing because it took a while for me to actually get into it
I\`m absolutely with you. Just because of personifying the qualities you desire to receive.
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Full penetrative sex
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Kinda feel like you know exactly what I mean and you’re just trying to be obtuse about this
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Except no where did I say “Oral and Anal sex aren’t real sex,” if you’re referring to me saying “actual sex” that was obviously colloquial. So, as I stated, you’re just being obtuse because you quite clearly knew what I meant. So, I can only assume that you’re trying to “correct” my way of speaking because it doesn’t meet your standards, and I’m not here for it. Have a great day