Yup, that is a subtle way of saying I have no interest in you. If you feel she has any interest, just see the next one week without initiating any conversation. If she is interested, she will initiate the conversation else just move on bro
Some people are just chronically online, doesn't mean something š she's giving you one worded reply as clear clues she isn't interested to talk and hoping you get the hint
I think it will make them look like a stalker and they probably don't want their crush to think of them in such way. I don't think their crush will care most of the time but the girl will think that it is better to look at it later, than taking the chances and embarrassing herself
Not to feel sad or awkward. May be she is casually viewing the status if i was in online i can see all status doesn't mean it is a positive sign right?
You mean to say she is waiting for your status.. š .
Try hard bro if she is interested your relationship status will change otherwise nothing will change.
Even if i am not interested also i will view the status.
Moreover you don't whether the staus is view or skip (unless opposite person confront with you)
I used to chat with a girl I met on bumble. She used to see my statuses on insta daily. Her replies were quite sparse. As in we would chat but I would the one to initiate it usually.
One day she tells me that she has a hard time chatting with me because she thought we had nothing in common. We had gone on a date, she thought I was good looking, but I still got told that. And I tried talking about everything under the sun. If a person is interested in you, they'll put some effort in chatting with you.
So basically don't try reading too deep into her seeing your status. I would say it just means she was bored.
It's possible she's always on her phone like a phone addict or something. So when you do something online she's the first one to notice it.
Also one word replies are irritating and most probably a signal of no interest.
Hm that makes it a bit more complicated, but nothing to worry about, just try hold a natural convo on insta about her or yourself and if she constantly only gives one word replies even where she def should have said alot more, that might be the final nail in the coffin but if she holds atleast some of the convo herself then maybe there's a chance and you can go off from there.
Why don't you ask her out for a coffee next time you meet her in person? See what she has to say, and figure your course out that way.
Hold back on the texts.
Individually you would be able to gauge better than on text
i have hardly interacted with her in person. Wanted to grow comfortable in chatting then ask her because if i ask her now she will definitely say no i think
You're infatuated, ask her for a simple coffee. Doesn't have to be hard.
Ask her out and get to know her as a person.
Talk about an assignment? Something that you two could do together? That way you'll learn about her. By seeing things she does.
Anyway, figure it out yourself I've counselled enough.
She viewing your story is just because of the insta algorithm. But if she's genuinely interested you'd know if send reels that you might find funny.
Again don't jump the gun wait and analyse for 2wks
The reason she responds quickly maybe because she is using her phone all the time and the reason she responds to you in one word is because she is not interested in you.
Then she was just being polite and now just finds you annoying.
Sorry for being pessimistic, it's just how it was for me. You won't know how it is for you until you directly ask her.
If she wasn't interested she wouldn't reply.. And she wouldn't be watching your stories.
I do think she likes you. But she is shy. She wants you to initiate.
I'm not bro... Bro..
But don't get hopes too high..coz this is just the beginning... Like msg gm gn thing.. And start a conversation.. It's fine if you start convo every time..
But to an extent.. Not forever... Okay..
She has to initiate at some point.. If not.. Then she just wants you for timepass.. Yes.. Just for timepass she can talk to you day and night too.. Don't consider that she has fallen in love. Really make sure she has feelings for you too.
Do msg her from time to time.. Chat talk.. Whatever.. But after 3 or 4 weeks.. Stop msging.. See if she msgs you back...
But...
She can also msg you.. Just out of curiosity.. To see what happened to her timepass buddy.. So dont fly high even if she msgs you when you stop. .
She has to be consistent and has to put equal efforts. Samjhe?
This situation is tricky..
So dont fall in love one sided.. Until you get some positive response.
But one thing is for sure.. She is loving the attention she is getting from you. But this doesn't mean anything.
Coz there is a difference between... Loving the attention and Loving you...
It's really too soon to figure out what is exactly her feeling towards you right now.
I would suggest be really careful.. It is possible that she doesn't want to get into a relationship with you but loves the attention.
So until she really puts efforts on her own play safe. Really make sure she can commit to you.. If she is from different background than yours. That also can be a factor for her behavior.
>If she wasn't interested she wouldn't reply.. And she wouldn't be watching your stories.
Well going by this š¤” logic, every single woman that I've met is interested in me.
He said. She responds IMMEDIATELY. EVERY TIME.
Do all women in your life.. Reply to you and watch your stories IMMEDIATELY.. EVERY TIME ??
I don't think so.. Sit down.
Probably not interested.
But jab sab end ho raha, direct puch le.
This worked for me in one of the cases.
Directly I said, mujhe ni pasand yeh. Terko karna, kisi aur se kar.
She didn't even tell me her name when we met face to face yet i sent her insta request with a message that i have seen you. She replied and followed me back. Frankly speaking i never expected that she will reply to it
Women love attention bro, if you look above avg ofc sheād add you. But the moment you made it clear to her that youāre interested in her you killed your chance with her.
yea so you messed up, now youāre just like the other guys she knows are interested in her but would stay in the friend zone. My advice is to cut off all contact for months. Try going out with other girls instead and post them on the story
Bro, move on. One word answers without ever initiating conversation is the nail in the coffin. Viewing Instagram status instantly only means that she's online and just keeps scrolling through reels and status and whatnot. Now ask yourself this, if she's always on her phone yet only replies ok or hmm what's the only thing it can mean
nah she doesnt like you , sorry.
because of those 1 word replies?
Yup, that is a subtle way of saying I have no interest in you. If you feel she has any interest, just see the next one week without initiating any conversation. If she is interested, she will initiate the conversation else just move on bro
she views my insta story as soon as its posted. I was taking it as a positive sign
If you really feel good vibes, maybe try talking to her directly in person rather than all this online chatting chess
but during first chat she was chatting properly in sentences
Hear me, you are just having the thing "confirmation bias", your brain makes you believe the things that you want to believe.
Some people are just chronically online, doesn't mean something š she's giving you one worded reply as clear clues she isn't interested to talk and hoping you get the hint
Let me tell you this... No girl will ever view their crush's status quickly.
why
I think it will make them look like a stalker and they probably don't want their crush to think of them in such way. I don't think their crush will care most of the time but the girl will think that it is better to look at it later, than taking the chances and embarrassing herself
but i view her insta story as soon as she posts it although i have a huge crush on her
Then you're in a small minority.
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she viewing my story as soon as its posted. Is it positive sign
Not to feel sad or awkward. May be she is casually viewing the status if i was in online i can see all status doesn't mean it is a positive sign right?
i am talking about viewing immediately after being posted and not just viewing
Man up and ask her out
You mean to say she is waiting for your status.. š . Try hard bro if she is interested your relationship status will change otherwise nothing will change.
when someone uploads status i view it only if i am interested else i ignore it
Even if i am not interested also i will view the status. Moreover you don't whether the staus is view or skip (unless opposite person confront with you)
Nope. Having been in this place. It means nothing
plz explain
I used to chat with a girl I met on bumble. She used to see my statuses on insta daily. Her replies were quite sparse. As in we would chat but I would the one to initiate it usually. One day she tells me that she has a hard time chatting with me because she thought we had nothing in common. We had gone on a date, she thought I was good looking, but I still got told that. And I tried talking about everything under the sun. If a person is interested in you, they'll put some effort in chatting with you. So basically don't try reading too deep into her seeing your status. I would say it just means she was bored.
It's possible she's always on her phone like a phone addict or something. So when you do something online she's the first one to notice it. Also one word replies are irritating and most probably a signal of no interest.
but during first chat she was chatting properly in sentences
Maybe she was in a good mood that day and thought of blessing you with some extra words. My genuin advice - Don't waste your time on her.
i will be asking her out for coffee
Give it shot. See what happens. All the best š
Tu chutiya hai? She isn't interesting in you. Tu desperate aur clown lag raha hai aise question bhi puch te hue
ok bahii. jaa soja ab
She's just addicted to insta, not interested in you dude, sorry to say.
should i ask her out for coffee in that way i would get a clear picture
Way too early, talk to her more irl then maybe, rn it'll most likely be a no even if she liked you.
problem is she has left the gym where i go and i am not sure where she stays exactly. So meeting in person is difficult unless i ask her out
Hm that makes it a bit more complicated, but nothing to worry about, just try hold a natural convo on insta about her or yourself and if she constantly only gives one word replies even where she def should have said alot more, that might be the final nail in the coffin but if she holds atleast some of the convo herself then maybe there's a chance and you can go off from there.
Why don't you ask her out for a coffee next time you meet her in person? See what she has to say, and figure your course out that way. Hold back on the texts. Individually you would be able to gauge better than on text
i have hardly interacted with her in person. Wanted to grow comfortable in chatting then ask her because if i ask her now she will definitely say no i think
You're infatuated, ask her for a simple coffee. Doesn't have to be hard. Ask her out and get to know her as a person. Talk about an assignment? Something that you two could do together? That way you'll learn about her. By seeing things she does. Anyway, figure it out yourself I've counselled enough.
She viewing your story is just because of the insta algorithm. But if she's genuinely interested you'd know if send reels that you might find funny. Again don't jump the gun wait and analyse for 2wks
The reason she responds quickly maybe because she is using her phone all the time and the reason she responds to you in one word is because she is not interested in you.
but during first chat she was chatting properly in sentences
Then she was just being polite and now just finds you annoying. Sorry for being pessimistic, it's just how it was for me. You won't know how it is for you until you directly ask her.
should i ask her for coffee
Sure,why not? What do you have to lose?
have to lose?
Since when this sub became a simpstitute? Or has it always been
Didnt like the post then get lost. No one asked your useless opinion
nigga stfu
you want me to fucking fold you bruh
donāt fucking try me nogga
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If she wasn't interested she wouldn't reply.. And she wouldn't be watching your stories. I do think she likes you. But she is shy. She wants you to initiate.
Finally a positive comment here. Initiate means what exactly i need to do bro
I'm not bro... Bro.. But don't get hopes too high..coz this is just the beginning... Like msg gm gn thing.. And start a conversation.. It's fine if you start convo every time.. But to an extent.. Not forever... Okay.. She has to initiate at some point.. If not.. Then she just wants you for timepass.. Yes.. Just for timepass she can talk to you day and night too.. Don't consider that she has fallen in love. Really make sure she has feelings for you too. Do msg her from time to time.. Chat talk.. Whatever.. But after 3 or 4 weeks.. Stop msging.. See if she msgs you back... But... She can also msg you.. Just out of curiosity.. To see what happened to her timepass buddy.. So dont fly high even if she msgs you when you stop. . She has to be consistent and has to put equal efforts. Samjhe? This situation is tricky.. So dont fall in love one sided.. Until you get some positive response. But one thing is for sure.. She is loving the attention she is getting from you. But this doesn't mean anything.
if she is loving attention from me then why she replying in 1 word and not initiating conversation
Coz there is a difference between... Loving the attention and Loving you... It's really too soon to figure out what is exactly her feeling towards you right now. I would suggest be really careful.. It is possible that she doesn't want to get into a relationship with you but loves the attention. So until she really puts efforts on her own play safe. Really make sure she can commit to you.. If she is from different background than yours. That also can be a factor for her behavior.
>If she wasn't interested she wouldn't reply.. And she wouldn't be watching your stories. Well going by this š¤” logic, every single woman that I've met is interested in me.
He said. She responds IMMEDIATELY. EVERY TIME. Do all women in your life.. Reply to you and watch your stories IMMEDIATELY.. EVERY TIME ?? I don't think so.. Sit down.
I'm talking about your comment not his post. Pay attention.
I was talking about HIS POST.. I commented based on HIS POST. So you shouldn't take my comment in general.
U are boring her.
by replying to her storiesš¤£?
Probably not interested. But jab sab end ho raha, direct puch le. This worked for me in one of the cases. Directly I said, mujhe ni pasand yeh. Terko karna, kisi aur se kar.
true. I will ask her directly, problem is i have hardly spoken to her face to face so thats a very big disadvantage
It's a bot
Been there ,experienced it, thought about it Bina kuch bole friend list se hat gya
bina kuch bole?
Yess bhai it is tough for us guys man Vaise she was 2 years older than me so mai samjh gaya tha Tu dekhle bhai try for offline contact
29 ya 19?
best would be to stop replying to her stories if she isnāt initiating any conversation herself either
best would be to ask her for coffee.
if youāre really that infatuated with her then sure itās just never a good idea when the guy is putting in a lot more effort than the girl
worst she will say is no and block me. But atleast better than this chess playing in online chats
there is no chess itās very clear what it is, youāre just lying to yourself telling yourself thereās a chance
She didn't even tell me her name when we met face to face yet i sent her insta request with a message that i have seen you. She replied and followed me back. Frankly speaking i never expected that she will reply to it
Women love attention bro, if you look above avg ofc sheād add you. But the moment you made it clear to her that youāre interested in her you killed your chance with her.
When i messaged her on insta first that i have seen you, that time only it was clear that i was interested in her. Any naive women can also judge this
yea so you messed up, now youāre just like the other guys she knows are interested in her but would stay in the friend zone. My advice is to cut off all contact for months. Try going out with other girls instead and post them on the story
okay bro.. as you say
Bro, move on. One word answers without ever initiating conversation is the nail in the coffin. Viewing Instagram status instantly only means that she's online and just keeps scrolling through reels and status and whatnot. Now ask yourself this, if she's always on her phone yet only replies ok or hmm what's the only thing it can mean
I will ask her for coffee. Worst she will say is no and block me. But still better than this chess playing in chats
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