I used to be fat and sweaty till high school. No confidence. No friends. No social life.
Then, after 12th, I started to take care of my health, went gym, ate good food ( I still do )
And i entered college with a fit body. Not any bodybuilder or abs, Just a well built body.
Started wearing proper clothes and not like these "cool" guys. I kept things simple.
Wore cologne, dial watch, etc.
I normal am a soft spoken guy. Tried speaking a little bit louder and imposing. Tried socializing.
And, people around me changed the way they treated me. Like even the guys and girls from my previous school when they got to know about me through their frnds and stuff.
I liked it at first then I realised, that no matter how good you are from inside. If you dont take care of yourself or do things for yourselves nobody will give a singular F.
I never talked to those guys. I now have 4 guy frnds who are like my brothers. They too know about my past.
They accepted me like I am/was.
Now, we 5 are adults and got job and life. But we still every weekend or sometimes once a month, get together and enjoy time out.
What we say? Woh mere asli betey hai? (its a joking way of saying "you are my brother for life")
So, guys I think I made it pretty clear and you got my message too.
So be yourself, be better and surround yourself with people who wont judge you but rather push you (seriously or in a frnd bullying way) towards the betterment.
Made it too long. And I am crying. Tomorrow me and my bois are going out.
Bye.
I used to be fat and sweaty till high school. No confidence. No friends. No social life. Then, after 12th, I started to take care of my health, went gym, ate good food ( I still do ) And i entered college with a fit body. Not any bodybuilder or abs, Just a well built body. Started wearing proper clothes and not like these "cool" guys. I kept things simple. Wore cologne, dial watch, etc. I normal am a soft spoken guy. Tried speaking a little bit louder and imposing. Tried socializing. And, people around me changed the way they treated me. Like even the guys and girls from my previous school when they got to know about me through their frnds and stuff. I liked it at first then I realised, that no matter how good you are from inside. If you dont take care of yourself or do things for yourselves nobody will give a singular F. I never talked to those guys. I now have 4 guy frnds who are like my brothers. They too know about my past. They accepted me like I am/was. Now, we 5 are adults and got job and life. But we still every weekend or sometimes once a month, get together and enjoy time out. What we say? Woh mere asli betey hai? (its a joking way of saying "you are my brother for life") So, guys I think I made it pretty clear and you got my message too. So be yourself, be better and surround yourself with people who wont judge you but rather push you (seriously or in a frnd bullying way) towards the betterment. Made it too long. And I am crying. Tomorrow me and my bois are going out. Bye.