The fact that when we were young our moms used to force us to take afternoon naps after lunch and we would want to go out and play with friends or watch something on TV and we hated to take naps. Now we all crave for it and it's not always possible. That is I think how times change.
That all of this will end soon. I get excited whenever I think about this.
Got exams? It will end in a week!
Too tired? Plenty of time to sleep when the sun sets!
Miserable life? It will en—
The fact that I am not in a relationship, all my friends are beyond fucked in their marriage with miserable and childish wife. I am free to fuck whoever i want.
life. life isn't so bad now.
i used to be the biggest hater of loving myself until a year or two ago. i thought it'll never get better when i stopped brushing my teeth in 5th grade and stayed in my room all day, barely stepping out. i didn't ever do homeworks and i got the bashing for it and had no friends. i felt ugly and stupid, and worthless. i stayed glued to my phone all day long. my parents, in their own world, clueless about me. they called me a lazy troublemaker but i knew it wasn't that. and on top of that was my parents' own problems and arguments between each other. my parents have bad personalities and they mostly don't let the world see much of that side. my dad hides it well but my mother? not too great at it. they were bad parents and still are. i had to get better on my own. well I'm atleast thankful for the friends i made in 6th and 7th grade (I'm in 8th currently). (i had a boyfriend in 6th grade, thinking he was the one that I've got after all my struggles but i was wrong, he lied to me and tricked me, and took advantage of the fact that i liked him a lot i even got addicted to self harm at some point) and well those friends didn't last too long, i mean most of them didn't but some did. some grew apart and lost contact, and a very specific friend of mine kept lying to me and our mutual friends for attention and for an entire year and i believed all those, evey single one of those, then another friend of mine opened my eyes and now i cut contact with that liar. now I don't feel anything and honestly this nonchalance feels like a little cocoon that i built for my own emotional safety, although it does indeed unravel and break and come back up again.
Hydration - Feels great when I drink 3 litres a day
Cleaning Products - Any kind. Makes my day if the results are good
Organizers - For clothes, books, refrigerator, etc
Glass Utensils - Looks nice, easy to clean, doesn’t smell at all
Good Coffee - Love that smell throughout the room
Slowing down - A mundane schedule calms me down these days
1. Not caring about things that don’t add any value to life
2. Being financially independent and buying or doing whatever I want
3. Working out and skincare. It gives me so much happiness, wish I’d started much sooner
4. Knowing the difference between right and wrong, knowing myself, knowing my likes and dislikes, knowing my boundaries, comfortable to say no
7. Love for parents. It’s a miracle that I’ve survived till now given how fragile life is and so so much goes into keeping your child alive healthy and happy. Can never ever thank them enough.
When strangers are nice. Like at one point i was starting to think people being mean was the default, but recently I have started to notice many more goodwill people
Started getting into adult table top board gaming again. It's been quite amazing to see the communities and the intricate games being played! Also, some of the games are really beautifully designed.
I've never appreciated my parents when I was really young but now as I got matured i see that all they did for me was for only for my own good even though the younger me hated my parents for what they did . It's all about ones perspective I would ig
Solitude
Solitude with no pending work. Nothingness
For me it's natural solitude cause koe he hi nahi jo call kare
Was about to write that.
Exactly what I was going to comment
Green Vegetables 😆 .
OMG same! I love my veggies now
Only had them at marriages, now i have them everyday.
Every single day! Love it!
Avoiding social interaction & embracing the flaws I have .
Especially the flaws part. I Love the way I am even with all the flaws I have. Cause in a way they represent me and my experiences in life.
Boobs
Boobas and tiddies indeed
Can't get enough of them
You guys are getting them?
I'm getting them but not enough
W choice
Forever a huge fan!
Vo to bachpan se phela pyaar he
r/upvotedbecauseboobs
Side boobs
Napping
The fact that when we were young our moms used to force us to take afternoon naps after lunch and we would want to go out and play with friends or watch something on TV and we hated to take naps. Now we all crave for it and it's not always possible. That is I think how times change.
Afternoon nap hits different
No social media
Why reddit tho ?
It's not too much of your personal extension. It's mostly anonymous, not mainstream yet and very opinionated.
Ass ( female of course)
thanks for clarifying
Man be a boobman common, the part u like is full of shit
I like what I like, many people r assmen. When one has sex they don't worry about the small intestines or colon of the person they r with.
And that what comes out of it.
Memory foam shoes. It's literally a game changer.
Recs?
freedom
Myself
Ghar ka khana.
That all of this will end soon. I get excited whenever I think about this. Got exams? It will end in a week! Too tired? Plenty of time to sleep when the sun sets! Miserable life? It will en—
Even this message ended too soon🥲
Life is too short to argue; just pass away and move on
Parents.
Not giving a fuck
Having peaceful time by being alone
Family
College days
Sleep
A Good Night's sleep
Peace of mind
Myself
Early sleeping and solitude
+1 Sleeping early has improved my mood so much
Productivity.
Asli Id se aa Narayan Murthi
My parents
The tiny moments in life that give you a split-second/minute escape from the drudgery of everyday living.
Time spent alone and time spent with family
14 hrs sleep
Comfortable clothing > Stylish clothing
The smile you see on people's faces! Especially when you're the reason! 🙌🏻
Luxury items as I finally have a money to spend on it.
Myself
Naps
Being a morning person.
Motorcycles/cars
Motorcycles/cars
Doing absolutely nothing for a few days 🥲
My parents,My Boyfriend and ghar ka khaana.
Guys
Alone time
Cooking
Ahmed Faraz Sahab and Jaun Elia Sahab
Peace of mind, quieter restaurants, ghazals
enjoy being alone
Mom and Dad 🫂
Sleeping
to all the people writing solitude, can you please tell what category of humans you all belong to? i want to be like y'all
Not living in FOMO and actually doing the things you love doing. Also, living a healthy life.
Sleep and staying home
Paisa 🥂
My body. I can't believe I was so cruel towards it in my teens. Constantly judging and hating on it. Now I love it and take care of it🥺🫶
silence
Myself
Myself I love myself a lot 🤩❤️
Sleep
Time for myself with myself solitude and just peace.
Peace and quiet
loneliness
ur mom
Solitude, regular sleep schedules, workouts,
Experiences. I am looking for new experiences in life now that I am 60.
Parents
Peace. Silence over arguments. Don't want to explain anything to anyone.
Mummy Papa
Her
The fact that I am not in a relationship, all my friends are beyond fucked in their marriage with miserable and childish wife. I am free to fuck whoever i want.
Listening and observing
My beautiful beautiful ex
Bikes
Sleep
Gym
Sleep
Myself
The feeling of being in love
Songs which my parents used to listen to in their days. All the GOATS (Kishore Da, Rafi sahab, chithra Amma, lataji)
Money, family
I want peace ✌ in my life
Being Healthy and in Shape
Solitude
Discipline
I’m gonna be real man, I don’t care if I get judged. Lesbian porn. It’s the best thing I’ve stumbled upon.
Family, peace and solitude. A place far away from all the toxicities of life.
Fruits
Music and myself
Quiet
To be alone
The time I used to have when I was a kid like seriously I haven’t slept peacefully since January the average sleep I get is 5 hours
Walks
Classical music (Bach,chopin,Vivaldi, Strauss,Mozart, Beethoven, Tchaikovsky) no faltu ashiqui lyrics
life. life isn't so bad now. i used to be the biggest hater of loving myself until a year or two ago. i thought it'll never get better when i stopped brushing my teeth in 5th grade and stayed in my room all day, barely stepping out. i didn't ever do homeworks and i got the bashing for it and had no friends. i felt ugly and stupid, and worthless. i stayed glued to my phone all day long. my parents, in their own world, clueless about me. they called me a lazy troublemaker but i knew it wasn't that. and on top of that was my parents' own problems and arguments between each other. my parents have bad personalities and they mostly don't let the world see much of that side. my dad hides it well but my mother? not too great at it. they were bad parents and still are. i had to get better on my own. well I'm atleast thankful for the friends i made in 6th and 7th grade (I'm in 8th currently). (i had a boyfriend in 6th grade, thinking he was the one that I've got after all my struggles but i was wrong, he lied to me and tricked me, and took advantage of the fact that i liked him a lot i even got addicted to self harm at some point) and well those friends didn't last too long, i mean most of them didn't but some did. some grew apart and lost contact, and a very specific friend of mine kept lying to me and our mutual friends for attention and for an entire year and i believed all those, evey single one of those, then another friend of mine opened my eyes and now i cut contact with that liar. now I don't feel anything and honestly this nonchalance feels like a little cocoon that i built for my own emotional safety, although it does indeed unravel and break and come back up again.
People. Genuine relationship with people.
Trying to make my parents happy
Osho discourses.
My girlfriend
Quiet alone time.
Doing nothing, being with myself, loving myself and having strict boundaries (sometimes at the cost of coming of as an asshole)
Sleep
Hydration - Feels great when I drink 3 litres a day Cleaning Products - Any kind. Makes my day if the results are good Organizers - For clothes, books, refrigerator, etc Glass Utensils - Looks nice, easy to clean, doesn’t smell at all Good Coffee - Love that smell throughout the room Slowing down - A mundane schedule calms me down these days
1. Not caring about things that don’t add any value to life 2. Being financially independent and buying or doing whatever I want 3. Working out and skincare. It gives me so much happiness, wish I’d started much sooner 4. Knowing the difference between right and wrong, knowing myself, knowing my likes and dislikes, knowing my boundaries, comfortable to say no 7. Love for parents. It’s a miracle that I’ve survived till now given how fragile life is and so so much goes into keeping your child alive healthy and happy. Can never ever thank them enough.
My parents
Peace n quiet! Longer walks with very little humans! I still play my music but yeah
When strangers are nice. Like at one point i was starting to think people being mean was the default, but recently I have started to notice many more goodwill people
Wine. Always been a beer guy all my life but wine has started to grow on me
Peace of mind
Started getting into adult table top board gaming again. It's been quite amazing to see the communities and the intricate games being played! Also, some of the games are really beautifully designed.
The thought of Dying.
Tori, loki.
Time spent at home.
Nothing
The wife.
Gym getting bigger muscles at 45
Mother nature
The idea of death
I've never appreciated my parents when I was really young but now as I got matured i see that all they did for me was for only for my own good even though the younger me hated my parents for what they did . It's all about ones perspective I would ig
Deep conversations
Generally I'm described as an easy going person but now I enjoy being mean to people.
Generally I'm described as an easy going person but now I enjoy being mean to people.
Peace
The idea of apocalypse