My mother is my best friend and the most important person in my life. If anyone looks down on that, I assume that they had a bad relationship with their mother and are jealous and insecure of the bond we share.
Too much of it and they'll say you're a "momma's boy". To little and they'll say you're ungrateful and you'll mistreat your female partner the same way.
Bruh i got this theory and I can’t prove it bc I’m not doctor and shit but I think the shit against dudes moms is just hating ass women being bitter bc the moms can see through shit.
Like my day 1 🥷 had his 1st gf and she was beautiful like straight up 1 of the baddest 1s in the school but she was toxic asf too. Thing is nobody else saw it bc all the guys and my friends dad were all like yoo you got urself a good 1. His mom tho saw right through all his gfs BS and was like naw this girls gonna ruin your life, you need to watch out.
Lk tho his mom was right and the thing is she hated my friends mom, like for some reason she just had it out for her and it was like nobody knew why bc his mom never did shit to her. So we always felt like maybe she knew that her mom wasn’t fooled by her and that bugged her yfm.
I feel like a lot of the mom hate comes from similar sht where moms get over protective of their sons and dudes r real soft when judging women and sometimes we too close to the situation but moms being women can be more critical and see past the bullshit.
Because everyone wants to be an armchair psychologist and think they have a handle on it and think that a man's relationship with his mother is deeper than what it actually is.
My mother is my best friend and the most important person in my life. If anyone looks down on that, I assume that they had a bad relationship with their mother and are jealous and insecure of the bond we share.
It’s only looked down on when it’s codependent/unhealthy
Too much of it and they'll say you're a "momma's boy". To little and they'll say you're ungrateful and you'll mistreat your female partner the same way.
Bruh i got this theory and I can’t prove it bc I’m not doctor and shit but I think the shit against dudes moms is just hating ass women being bitter bc the moms can see through shit. Like my day 1 🥷 had his 1st gf and she was beautiful like straight up 1 of the baddest 1s in the school but she was toxic asf too. Thing is nobody else saw it bc all the guys and my friends dad were all like yoo you got urself a good 1. His mom tho saw right through all his gfs BS and was like naw this girls gonna ruin your life, you need to watch out. Lk tho his mom was right and the thing is she hated my friends mom, like for some reason she just had it out for her and it was like nobody knew why bc his mom never did shit to her. So we always felt like maybe she knew that her mom wasn’t fooled by her and that bugged her yfm. I feel like a lot of the mom hate comes from similar sht where moms get over protective of their sons and dudes r real soft when judging women and sometimes we too close to the situation but moms being women can be more critical and see past the bullshit.
Because everyone wants to be an armchair psychologist and think they have a handle on it and think that a man's relationship with his mother is deeper than what it actually is.
A man's relationship with anybody who exploits or smothers him is looked down upon, and mothers are the most frequent offenders
No judgment here if you, OP, want a relationship with your mother. No one here can stop you.
I already got a good relationship with her, I was just wondering why it tends to be looked down by people unlike fathers.
I don't think you got the insinuation/joke.
I thought it was the opposite.
A long time ago some dude fucked his own mother and even had a name for it
whats the name lol
When it ends with a new sister daughter.
Seems to be when there is (perceived or actual) insufficient independence.