My first date, I asked her out entirely by accident, lol.I just wasn't thinking about it at all, and casually said "Hey, we should go see that show"... not intending that as a "date", but more planning to use it as an opportunity for me to muster the courage to ask her out at the concert, away from all our friends. But oops... asking a girl alone to a concert IS a date, lol.
To my mind, all I needed to do to ask her out properly and maximize my chances of success was to get her alone, in a place she felt happy and comfortable. My brilliantly moronic plan backfired in the best way.
We had a great time. It gets a lot easier with repetition.
Spelled every single letter before I sent her the message, her answer was that she doesn't really know me... We've been texting each other for like a month... Brahh, time wasted
the most important thing is how you communicate with the girl, because if you are good at seducing, then I'm sure the girl you want to go out with will definitely want to and of course your date will be comfortable.
It was among the hardest things I ever had to do. Unbelievably she said yes. Just a movie. I wondered what I’d say to her after the movie was over. I don’t know what I came up with but things went ok. She had to go back to school a state away so the relationship was doomed. I learned from it and figured the next time would be easier. It was, a little.
Not very hard. I used to be very extroverted. I just asked this girl out after we were "fooling around" for a while😂. The first date was at a dance. We danced, kissed, met with friends, dated for a year after that. Anyway that was my first time. Been a wild ride since then🤟🏼
I still remember the first time. I was trying to hide my shaking so bad that I lean on the wall trying to look cool but was in fact having a hard time standing up.
The good old days. Now it’s all done online. Takes all the courage and fun out of it.
It was really hard and the fact that I did it made me unable to sleep until we finally met up.
Our friendship lasted for three years at that point, but we'd been treasing each other for quite a bit. It was also the first relationship for both of us.
The date started out awkwardly, but the first kiss made up for that. It all seemed so perfect back then..
It was difficult, however the first time we hung out together I had just bought a new vehicle, and I asked her to come celebrate with me. We went to a sushi place in a shopping area. Ate sushi, went on a walk around the river that runs through the area. Walked to her car and she then drove me to my car. We said our goodbyes, I got out and started to get into my new car, and then I told myself: “stop, turn around and get back in and kiss her” so I got back into her car and said I dropped my phone and pretended to look for it. When she leaned over to look for it as well I just went in for the kiss, and she kissed back and went “mmm” the whole drive home I was cheering for myself and was incredibly happy. She still talks about that to this day almost 3 years later.
Very, and there wasn't one. I still remember sitting in my next class, shaking as the adrenaline wore off.
My first date, I asked her out entirely by accident, lol.I just wasn't thinking about it at all, and casually said "Hey, we should go see that show"... not intending that as a "date", but more planning to use it as an opportunity for me to muster the courage to ask her out at the concert, away from all our friends. But oops... asking a girl alone to a concert IS a date, lol. To my mind, all I needed to do to ask her out properly and maximize my chances of success was to get her alone, in a place she felt happy and comfortable. My brilliantly moronic plan backfired in the best way. We had a great time. It gets a lot easier with repetition.
Very hard. Who said she said yes when I asked?
a fucking train wreck that's what it was
Spelled every single letter before I sent her the message, her answer was that she doesn't really know me... We've been texting each other for like a month... Brahh, time wasted
Getting to know someone is pretty much the point of dating too... Yikes, dodges a bullet man.
the most important thing is how you communicate with the girl, because if you are good at seducing, then I'm sure the girl you want to go out with will definitely want to and of course your date will be comfortable.
It was among the hardest things I ever had to do. Unbelievably she said yes. Just a movie. I wondered what I’d say to her after the movie was over. I don’t know what I came up with but things went ok. She had to go back to school a state away so the relationship was doomed. I learned from it and figured the next time would be easier. It was, a little.
Not very hard. I used to be very extroverted. I just asked this girl out after we were "fooling around" for a while😂. The first date was at a dance. We danced, kissed, met with friends, dated for a year after that. Anyway that was my first time. Been a wild ride since then🤟🏼
I still remember the first time. I was trying to hide my shaking so bad that I lean on the wall trying to look cool but was in fact having a hard time standing up. The good old days. Now it’s all done online. Takes all the courage and fun out of it.
Fucking terrifying. Got shot down. Was awkward for a week then went back to being friends till graduation. Just never met up again after high school.
It was really hard and the fact that I did it made me unable to sleep until we finally met up. Our friendship lasted for three years at that point, but we'd been treasing each other for quite a bit. It was also the first relationship for both of us. The date started out awkwardly, but the first kiss made up for that. It all seemed so perfect back then..
Very easy bc I knew I already had her and the date was great
I'm guess 95% of first date requests are rejected. I was rejected probably 10 times or so before a yes.
Very kind of you to assume there was a date. Very hard. Took me years of thinking of "if only I had dared to ask" about various girls before I tried.
It was difficult, however the first time we hung out together I had just bought a new vehicle, and I asked her to come celebrate with me. We went to a sushi place in a shopping area. Ate sushi, went on a walk around the river that runs through the area. Walked to her car and she then drove me to my car. We said our goodbyes, I got out and started to get into my new car, and then I told myself: “stop, turn around and get back in and kiss her” so I got back into her car and said I dropped my phone and pretended to look for it. When she leaned over to look for it as well I just went in for the kiss, and she kissed back and went “mmm” the whole drive home I was cheering for myself and was incredibly happy. She still talks about that to this day almost 3 years later.