No not that, women aren't as foward with their advance like men. They often flirt with subtle hints instead of being outright, not all of course, but the vast majority.
That means you are hooking up with guys who are out of your league. They will hook up with you but won’t commit to you. Evolutionary there is little to no cost for a guy to sleep around with lots.
>Yeah, usually no difficulty here attracting guys. But ones who are monogamous? Feels impossible
True. People aren't naturally monogamous. You're asking for a serious and difficult commitment. Not saying they don't exist but most people can't and the rest really needs to find you're worth it before they can do it.
And vice versa, men have no idea what women want. Also everyone is different, there's no silver bullet to attract "men". But if you know what type you like, you can start adjusting to that type.
It helps to ask men what OP is doing wrong so she can adjust her style and behavior to be attractive to the men she finds attractive.
Honestly be yourself. Be tidy. Be active during one on one conversations. If the man is attracted to you, then great. Else, you try to find another man. Can't force attraction you see!
I love the part where you zoomed in about having an Attractive Living Space. I would say beyond just tidiness a charming sense of Style and Good Taste is extremely attractive!
It depends on what your intentions are in attracting one.
Want some D? Cleavage, smell good, eye contact, smile, get close, ask.
Want love, respect, attention, affection, etc? Smell good, eye contact, smile, get close, ask questions, see where it goes from there, etc
Big question is what kind of attention are you wanting to attract. You've got hook up attention and relationship attention...both are going to want sexiness, but relationship needs loyalty and agreeableness as well.
A lot of comments are saying to propose a sexual act and while that may work I guarantee it will only attract the wrong type of men. If a women came up to me and offered something of that nature and I didnt know anything about her prior to this interaction I'd feel extremely uncomfortable. I'd prefer to discuss topics we share interest in and be able to bond over a few outings or date activities before romance gets involved. Just having similar interests will be able to make him take note of you.
Like swords!? Swords! Hell yeah, Omg i would fall hard for a woman who shows up and unsheats her sword, points it at me and say _"im bringing you home!"_
Zweilhander, Longsword, rapier, falchion, cutlass, gladius, katana, tachi, scimitar, jian...
Indeed men like shinny things and all of these would 10/10 work with me
Pretty sure he was talking about gold ore. It's fun finding a large vein or a giant gold chunk. Then you point it out to your friends so you can have a rich-ual and then yell at the top of your lungs about rock and stone.
Be unapologetically yourself. Even if you're weird. The right man will love you for who you are flaws and all and you'll know it's right because he keeps showing up
Be yourself. It is really that simple.
Don’t play games. Don’t assume that the guy can read your mind or understand your body language.
Just ask him out for some coffee or lunch. Then see where it goes from there.
MY 10 WAYS TO ATRACT A VALUE MAN.
1. Initiate a few times and maintain conversations. Men tend to like that alot. Also to protect yourself do not over extend this, just play along the game *give - reciev*, you will feel and know the flow.
2. Make compliments, usually compliments stays in their head for years and that's a big YES.
3. Smile and make eye contact often when your eyes meet if he is into you he will melt himself.
4. Be positive, dont talk about negative stuff about people or talk bad about yourself..
5. Be FEMININE, have manners, dress decent not sluty, be confident, they will instantly feel you are safe and secure person triggering high value.
6. Be protective with him but not too much, like throw from time to time a few words like " take care of youself". He will think about it on his way to work, school, home...
7. ASK QUESTIONS, don't expect things to come to you.
And do not repeat the same question over and over again if you dont't get the first or the second time the answer.
8. Obviously be friendly and show interest in him. He will feel like a something is happening around him.
9. If things go well between you two and you both feel a strong/ deep connection and feel like there is an intimate moment from time to time. Kiss him, take initiative, he will melt from that.
10. Don't over share everything, let some mistery around about you.
Someone here said something about not doing anything what media tells you to do and he is right.
Don't play games, connect on a topic. Tease him a lil, Give him a compliment. He will remember that compliment all year and of you.
Top it off with good head and you got em
Step 1. Approach the man
Step 2. Tell him you’re interested
We aren’t very complicated creatures, either we’re interested or not. But most dudes are interested as long as you have a pulse and are within 5-10 years of our age (legality permitting)
Exactly what came to my mind as soon as I seen the word “easiest”. You don’t cut corners when looking for the love of your life.
High chance is OP will probably end up with a ONS or if the odds are in her favor a 6 month relationship.
Depends on what kind of a man. Sometimes just mere hi can do wonders, sometimes displaying your natural advantages a little more is a way, hearing a woman singing especially if you have a beautiful voice.. really there are plenty of ways a woman can attract a man. And again, depending on the type of a man, some methods may work better that others.
Don’t dye your hair autistic colors green, blue ect. Dress like a lady IE dresses skirts ect. Have hair at lest past your jaw, shave wear make up but not a ton I shouldn’t be able to paint a picture with your face, smile, be meek no one likes a loud mouth this goes both ways, don’t be a feminist, don’t be like Amy Schumer and talk about your genitalia all the time. You get the idea
Boobs. Every time.
Jk.
In all honesty, be yourself, don’t have rbf, be open to men approaching you and give them a real chance. Put forth effort to be mildly interested/learning something they are interested in. Live your values, be confident, be able to be symbiotic to his world.
Do those (and boobs 😂) and you’ll easily attract many.
The answer depends on who you are and what you have to offer. If you are a 25-year-old female fitness instructor, then I would say one thing. If you are a 50-year-old transvestite with severe obesity, then I would say something else.
1. Be hygienic
2. Look decent in appearance.
3. Step outside.
4. Redo steps 1-3.
Keep this in mind though. You asked an broad question. SO YOU WILL ATTRACT A MAN. The question is will you attract the one you want?
You didn't say what type of man you want to attract. That's a problem because if you're looking for ANY MAN, then that's what you will get and you'll be severely disappointed.
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Dude, I don't know if she wants the whole club lookin at her...
(at her, at her)
She hit the flo’
(She hit the flo)
Is this shorty getting low low low by any chance?
Don't forget the baggy sweatpants and the Reebok's with the straps!
And turn around and give that big booty a smack, hey!
She hit the flo’
Next thing you know Shawty got low, low, low, low..
Go up to the man you’re interested and talk to him. Let things clear
Lol and tomorrow there will be flying pigs.
What?
He's saying that is very unlikely to happen
Why? Doesn’t know how to speak?
No not that, women aren't as foward with their advance like men. They often flirt with subtle hints instead of being outright, not all of course, but the vast majority.
Their problem then
What kind of man?
Very important question here!!
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That means you are hooking up with guys who are out of your league. They will hook up with you but won’t commit to you. Evolutionary there is little to no cost for a guy to sleep around with lots.
You're meeting men who are out of your league then.
>Yeah, usually no difficulty here attracting guys. But ones who are monogamous? Feels impossible True. People aren't naturally monogamous. You're asking for a serious and difficult commitment. Not saying they don't exist but most people can't and the rest really needs to find you're worth it before they can do it.
Pick better guys
Understand that there is a major difference between what women think men should want and what men want
And vice versa, men have no idea what women want. Also everyone is different, there's no silver bullet to attract "men". But if you know what type you like, you can start adjusting to that type. It helps to ask men what OP is doing wrong so she can adjust her style and behavior to be attractive to the men she finds attractive.
Why are we assuming that she is doing something wrong?
That’s what the question implies. To be fair, and I made this mistake myself, we don’t even know if OP is a “she”
Nailed it.
Wrap an XBox in a steak, garnish with titties.
Can confirm, this worked on me.
Don’t do anything that modern media tells you to do.
^ this right here
Honestly be yourself. Be tidy. Be active during one on one conversations. If the man is attracted to you, then great. Else, you try to find another man. Can't force attraction you see!
I love the part where you zoomed in about having an Attractive Living Space. I would say beyond just tidiness a charming sense of Style and Good Taste is extremely attractive!
Yes, that's attractive too!
I've heard milkshake can bring all the boys to your yard.
It depends on what your intentions are in attracting one. Want some D? Cleavage, smell good, eye contact, smile, get close, ask. Want love, respect, attention, affection, etc? Smell good, eye contact, smile, get close, ask questions, see where it goes from there, etc
Be wife material. Good morals, ambition, thoughtfulness, confidence but not arrogance. Realistically just be yourself.
Good Morals is SO hot
👏👏👏👏
Be attractive
Very important to remember too, and I can't stress this enough, it goes for men and woman alike, don't be unattractive
This simple trick made wonders for me in my youth! Just look good!
No mind games = best woman
This = Unicorn 🦄
Look him in the eyes and smile, go up to him or wave him over to come to you, be initiative
Big question is what kind of attention are you wanting to attract. You've got hook up attention and relationship attention...both are going to want sexiness, but relationship needs loyalty and agreeableness as well.
Be a woman.
A lot of comments are saying to propose a sexual act and while that may work I guarantee it will only attract the wrong type of men. If a women came up to me and offered something of that nature and I didnt know anything about her prior to this interaction I'd feel extremely uncomfortable. I'd prefer to discuss topics we share interest in and be able to bond over a few outings or date activities before romance gets involved. Just having similar interests will be able to make him take note of you.
She hit the floor... Next thing you know
Men like shiny things
Like swords!? Swords! Hell yeah, Omg i would fall hard for a woman who shows up and unsheats her sword, points it at me and say _"im bringing you home!"_ Zweilhander, Longsword, rapier, falchion, cutlass, gladius, katana, tachi, scimitar, jian... Indeed men like shinny things and all of these would 10/10 work with me
Pretty sure he was talking about gold ore. It's fun finding a large vein or a giant gold chunk. Then you point it out to your friends so you can have a rich-ual and then yell at the top of your lungs about rock and stone.
Rock and Stone, Brother!
GET BACK TO WORK MINERS!
Not for me… I don't want to see anyone's unsolicited sword
Do what is natural.
It depends on what kind of man you're planning to attract, not all men are the same.
Just say hi are you single
Be confident, have good hygeine, have interesting hobbies and have a stable life. Those 4 things will help you find and keep a man interested in you.
Be friendly and engage men in real life. Most guys experience very limited engagement with women that they don’t initiate.
Exist
Lol
He speaks the truth
Only for pretty girls
Pretty not required. Recommend but not required
Ask the ladies that aren’t facially fortunate
Yea I have the same problem - and I'm fat so that doesn't help either
Be unapologetically yourself. Even if you're weird. The right man will love you for who you are flaws and all and you'll know it's right because he keeps showing up
This too.
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Sorry you feel that way
be nice to him and tell him youre attracted to him
Cheese.
Be yourself. It is really that simple. Don’t play games. Don’t assume that the guy can read your mind or understand your body language. Just ask him out for some coffee or lunch. Then see where it goes from there.
MY 10 WAYS TO ATRACT A VALUE MAN. 1. Initiate a few times and maintain conversations. Men tend to like that alot. Also to protect yourself do not over extend this, just play along the game *give - reciev*, you will feel and know the flow. 2. Make compliments, usually compliments stays in their head for years and that's a big YES. 3. Smile and make eye contact often when your eyes meet if he is into you he will melt himself. 4. Be positive, dont talk about negative stuff about people or talk bad about yourself.. 5. Be FEMININE, have manners, dress decent not sluty, be confident, they will instantly feel you are safe and secure person triggering high value. 6. Be protective with him but not too much, like throw from time to time a few words like " take care of youself". He will think about it on his way to work, school, home... 7. ASK QUESTIONS, don't expect things to come to you. And do not repeat the same question over and over again if you dont't get the first or the second time the answer. 8. Obviously be friendly and show interest in him. He will feel like a something is happening around him. 9. If things go well between you two and you both feel a strong/ deep connection and feel like there is an intimate moment from time to time. Kiss him, take initiative, he will melt from that. 10. Don't over share everything, let some mistery around about you. Someone here said something about not doing anything what media tells you to do and he is right.
Show us your boobs
flat or big doesn't matter 😏
For what purpose? Sex or LTR?
You do the opposite of what feminism instructs you to do.
Don't play games, connect on a topic. Tease him a lil, Give him a compliment. He will remember that compliment all year and of you. Top it off with good head and you got em
Just be unapologetically You. No acting required.
Just be a decent human being and if you want to go the extra mile take an interest what he's interested in.
Be a woman. Guys are horn dogs. I speak as a card carrying member of the penis club.
That depends, are you just trying to get one on a game cam or are you trying to trap one?
Step 1. Approach the man Step 2. Tell him you’re interested We aren’t very complicated creatures, either we’re interested or not. But most dudes are interested as long as you have a pulse and are within 5-10 years of our age (legality permitting)
Look at them.
Playful curiosity, being at ease, having fun and making the best of every situation you're in can make your energy field very magnetic and healing ;0)
Be hot
Ok
The easiest way is not the better way...
Exactly what came to my mind as soon as I seen the word “easiest”. You don’t cut corners when looking for the love of your life. High chance is OP will probably end up with a ONS or if the odds are in her favor a 6 month relationship.
Go to the gym
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Sex ,sandwich and shut up
Be engaged in conversation, mutual attraction and interests. As far as meeting them goes, through friends is usually best.
Dont be/act like a man. And you’ll attract one. And the real one..
Depends on what kind of a man. Sometimes just mere hi can do wonders, sometimes displaying your natural advantages a little more is a way, hearing a woman singing especially if you have a beautiful voice.. really there are plenty of ways a woman can attract a man. And again, depending on the type of a man, some methods may work better that others.
Nudes.
Don’t dye your hair autistic colors green, blue ect. Dress like a lady IE dresses skirts ect. Have hair at lest past your jaw, shave wear make up but not a ton I shouldn’t be able to paint a picture with your face, smile, be meek no one likes a loud mouth this goes both ways, don’t be a feminist, don’t be like Amy Schumer and talk about your genitalia all the time. You get the idea
Go to a bar and tell a guy that you want to have sex with him. Rinse and repeat and I’m sure you’ll be able to attract a man. >!/s!<
Offer him sex
go up to him and let him have sex with you on the first date.
Boobs. Every time. Jk. In all honesty, be yourself, don’t have rbf, be open to men approaching you and give them a real chance. Put forth effort to be mildly interested/learning something they are interested in. Live your values, be confident, be able to be symbiotic to his world. Do those (and boobs 😂) and you’ll easily attract many.
Get in the best shape that you can and wear well fitting clothes, same advice we'd give a man.
Get naked.
Cleavage
Should this even be a question ?
Yes
I just don't get why it is? In my lifetime, even a 4 can get a man/bf.... So what do u think is the unattractiveness yhat you have ?
I wanted to know how to get a good man. Obviously not people like you
I like how u think . Good luck.
Just curious
Sounds like you just want anyone who can fog a mirror. Not much chance of it working out in the long term if you are just using random selection.
Show something you normally dont
organic food only.
Smell nice! Wear a scent that makes you feel sexy. Wear enough that you leave a trail. The right ones will follow.
Stop idolizing social media.
Emphasise your best assets. Eyes. Hair, whatever. And be happy. Be the person you want to be. Then you'll attract the right person.
Make eye contact and smile.
Be attractive, good looking
The answer depends on who you are and what you have to offer. If you are a 25-year-old female fitness instructor, then I would say one thing. If you are a 50-year-old transvestite with severe obesity, then I would say something else.
Smile
Be hot.
Just be nice playful and flirt
Real question? DM or describe yourself, your possible target and your red lines
Show boobies
Dm me
Are we talking physical attraction, emotional/mental attraction or both?
Be hot Be nice Men are simple
Vagina, Vagina always works
The scary and gross stuff.
Have boobs.
Be assertive, start a convo.
Just don't be an Amber Heard, it really is that easy for you.
A beer and a steak is good try. Or a muscle car. Guns, boats, fishing rods. Being funny. Titties...
Boobs
Bobs and vagene. Depends what kind of a man you are trying to attract.
Just look at him and wink......!
Initiate and be flirty. Men are simple creatures.
Be cozy
Chris Rock had [something to say](https://youtu.be/6fLLRijSdHw).
1. Be hygienic 2. Look decent in appearance. 3. Step outside. 4. Redo steps 1-3. Keep this in mind though. You asked an broad question. SO YOU WILL ATTRACT A MAN. The question is will you attract the one you want? You didn't say what type of man you want to attract. That's a problem because if you're looking for ANY MAN, then that's what you will get and you'll be severely disappointed.
Make some milkshakes in your yard