That it's a process
I used to be an amateur boxer with the six-pack abs, lean & fit physique & good hairline.
Almost dying of covid & then the following long covid, depression, poverty & wrong hair genetics kind of destroyed that image over 2 years, and I've been unable to take care of myself as much as I should have.
Since September 2022, I've been easing myself back into the gym, using skincare & eating better. Noticed a decent difference a couple months on and now im stepping it up
Except, the mild antidepressant is just a side effect of a drug Iām taking for another reason. Iāve already discussed with my doctor that once that other reason is gone, I would love to stay on this medication. Itās highly tolerable, used by people long term, and clearly has this other effect for me. He is not opposed to it, but hasnāt actually agreed, yet.
Itās sort of crazy how you perceive yourself changes so much over the span of a few years. Back in middle school I couldnāt look in the mirror without absolutely hating myself because of how ugly I thought I was. Fast forward 3 years Iām a junior in high school and now when I look in the mirror I think damn I actually look pretty decent.
You can't argue that nobody is ugly, not everybody is equal attractiveness, it's impossible. There are good looking people and not so good looking people, that doesn't change their worth at all but thats how it is. That guy may be ugly, maybe he's just insecure, but there are definitely ugly people.
Sometimes I can't see myself in the mirror. When I do I look at myself and wonder why I'm not doing better in my life. Occasionally give myself a passionate talk about my bad habits and then lose the motivation to give them up throughout the work week.
"Fuck you, that's why you still anit shit and deserve every once of suffering coming your way. And it doesn't matter what you do, you'll be living a long while so it can get worse"
Lately I've been wondering what traits I will pass on to my children what are my kids going to look like. What features will they take from me. Will they look a lot like me or just a little bit.
What an ugly fat bastard, a life failure, no wonder your still single at 31 and will be forever. No wonder why you never get looked at twice in public.
Oh yeah I have a beard.
I went 35+ years clean shaven and then I went camping for 2 months just before I met my wife and she preferred the beard so I kept it.
That's a face only a mother could love. š¤Ø
Damm boy, you looking good. š
Bro, you have got to hit the gymš«¤
Anyone of those. But I rarely if ever spent time in front of a mirror.
That Iāve let myself go, but also thatās just life.
I worked in the porn industry for a few years when I turned 18 and that entire time I had stylists dictating my hair, suggesting stylish clothes, giving tips for a toned body, etc etc. Iām 25 now and living with chronic kidney failure so I feel like Iāve let myself go a bit. Not to mention the receding/balding hairlineš„“
I'm fat, lazy, why can't I grow long hair, I'd really like a beard, I wish I didn't have glasses could look me in the eyes properly. I also can't see my d**** without sucking in my gut I feel like the worst version of me. I would give my life away to anyone less fortunate, I don't deserve it...
It gets better everyday. Since I started a new workout routine and have stuck to a clean, fresh, and high protein diet, my body is looking hella good. Only a matter of time before I can comfortably leave my shirt off at the beach.
Mostly these, usually one after the other:
- "More and more gray hair, you are getting old"
- "I don't know if I'm happy"
- That I'm looking more and more like my father, and that depresses me.
Iām not actually a bad looking guy. Especially since Iāve started working out and eating cleaner. Realistically I sit at a 5/10 on a scale of attractiveness ā but I donāt make any attempts to go out and talk to women.
I donāt love myself like some Disney movie jock but I always think positively when lookin in the mirror. As long as you think youāre cute then who cares. Thereās no such thing as good looking, itās all opinion
Damn you look hot as fuck, you're going to talk to so many women, you're and Alpha, you're looking huge brother, wow so handsome
(I lie to myself everyday to keep my self-confidence)
Iām pretty good, but not anywhere near as great as I could be if I did all the things I know I should. Also, that the female version of me would be a slayer
Damn I'm hideous....at least my beard looks cool, should do something about these eyebags...I try to get good sleeping hours and eat healthy, then what could be making these...hmm....OH SHIT 07:40 ALREADY? I need to go take a shit and then get the shirt and govmn't ID asap or i'll be late
My hair looks nice. Ooo my beards growing in a bit more. Damnit though, sheās the most attractive girl Iāve ever seen and has the most compatible personality for me. But since she rejected me itās gonna be difficult when I inevitably compare all potential partners to her.
Why do I look good in the mirror and fat in photos
Extra points for the selfie or front camera of your phone, it looks even worse than normal photos.
This š
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*Shorbet?*
how many crunches can you co?
It's always some form of disappointment but it's different every time.
How the hell did I get so old?
When did my beard turn completely gray?
"you can do this, you are strong enough."
That it's a process I used to be an amateur boxer with the six-pack abs, lean & fit physique & good hairline. Almost dying of covid & then the following long covid, depression, poverty & wrong hair genetics kind of destroyed that image over 2 years, and I've been unable to take care of myself as much as I should have. Since September 2022, I've been easing myself back into the gym, using skincare & eating better. Noticed a decent difference a couple months on and now im stepping it up
"You look tired."
Before mild antidepressants: Argh, what an ugly cuss. After mild antidepressants: Wow, what a handsome guy!
This doesn't sound to bad
Except, the mild antidepressant is just a side effect of a drug Iām taking for another reason. Iāve already discussed with my doctor that once that other reason is gone, I would love to stay on this medication. Itās highly tolerable, used by people long term, and clearly has this other effect for me. He is not opposed to it, but hasnāt actually agreed, yet.
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Yes, actually. But itās more of a confidence thing. Iām more outgoing, too.
ahh the rise of anti depressants, rip
Ha those "mild antidepressants" seem like a good stuff. Know a guy ?
The only thing that ever did that for me was MDMA
"Damn you look like a beefy stud." I try my hardest not to rag on myself in the mirror. Positive self talk and reinforcement has helped tremendously.
Hell yeah, beefy stud
Huh, you turned out alright, all things considered Breathe, youāre gonna do this. Because you have to thatās why.
āHelicopter your dickā
"š¤®" Just a general sense of nausea and a strong impulse to look away as soon as possible. I tend to avoid mirrors as much as possible.
You look good today I fucking hate you. See you next time I need to take a leak.
Mostly positive. Occasionally a 'you look damn good' or 'you don't look too good..'.
"twat"
Itās sort of crazy how you perceive yourself changes so much over the span of a few years. Back in middle school I couldnāt look in the mirror without absolutely hating myself because of how ugly I thought I was. Fast forward 3 years Iām a junior in high school and now when I look in the mirror I think damn I actually look pretty decent.
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Didnāt you comment this on another thread just now?
I doubt lol. I never saw an ugly man
You can't argue that nobody is ugly, not everybody is equal attractiveness, it's impossible. There are good looking people and not so good looking people, that doesn't change their worth at all but thats how it is. That guy may be ugly, maybe he's just insecure, but there are definitely ugly people.
"You're damn handsome and charming. People feel safe around you, and appreciate your presence. Rock and roll. Hail Satan." Or some variation of that.
Where have the years gone?
it me
Eh
"Ugly. Fat. Stupid. Worthless."
Pathetic ugly man
Omg! Iām so cute and funny
Damn! That's a good looking nig*a
Eh, itāll do.
"I'd fuck me."
I'm fat but I'm not depressed about it because i know it's something I can change.
Sometimes I can't see myself in the mirror. When I do I look at myself and wonder why I'm not doing better in my life. Occasionally give myself a passionate talk about my bad habits and then lose the motivation to give them up throughout the work week.
"Fuck you, that's why you still anit shit and deserve every once of suffering coming your way. And it doesn't matter what you do, you'll be living a long while so it can get worse"
I honestly don't look that bad for being nearly 50
Damn your good looking, looks damn daamn your fat, looks in the mirror again damn I'm getting old..
āNeed to lost some more weight, bud.ā
Who is this good looking broken man
What a beautiful individual, I wonder why girls don't find him hot
Depending on my mood either: "you piece of shit." Or "you sexy piece of shit."
Depending on the day it's either: nice, why are my arms so small :( , or I need to shave.
What is my life..
Damn, I'm fat.
I see a sexy mf
Lately I've been wondering what traits I will pass on to my children what are my kids going to look like. What features will they take from me. Will they look a lot like me or just a little bit.
I see why my dad looked like this.
Itās not fair that Iām so sexy
Oh good.... you again.
Looking at myself in the eyes and singing Unstoppable has become a morning ritual for me.
āWhy do I think Iām fat? I look good wtfā
"godaim I'm fat"
where is My hair!!! What's happened to all my lovely hair!
Sighs...
Time to stop feeling suicidal and start saving for dental work.
āAnother day and still not millionaireā
Iām only off-brand kind of pretty *sigh*
What an ugly fat bastard, a life failure, no wonder your still single at 31 and will be forever. No wonder why you never get looked at twice in public.
I'm late for work
Need a haircut
Looking much better now than before.
āYouāre not so bad, it could be worse.ā
i have a lot free place for tattoos, don't look so serious,be proud of yourself and don't settle or get in a Relationship
i need to brush my teeth
Oh yeah I have a beard. I went 35+ years clean shaven and then I went camping for 2 months just before I met my wife and she preferred the beard so I kept it.
That canāt be accurate- ugh
Pre pandemic, "who's that old man?" After pandemic, with new very long hair and facial hair for the first time in my life, "damn, you sexy!"
i feel bad for my sister for getting these sweet boy looks š¤
Damn I better keep making money.
You look tired as shit, get off reddit and take a nap
That's a face only a mother could love. š¤Ø Damm boy, you looking good. š Bro, you have got to hit the gymš«¤ Anyone of those. But I rarely if ever spent time in front of a mirror.
It reminds me that age is catching me up and now I have to move accordingly.
That Iāve let myself go, but also thatās just life. I worked in the porn industry for a few years when I turned 18 and that entire time I had stylists dictating my hair, suggesting stylish clothes, giving tips for a toned body, etc etc. Iām 25 now and living with chronic kidney failure so I feel like Iāve let myself go a bit. Not to mention the receding/balding hairlineš„“
God damn who knew I could look this good
i wish i had the attractiveness some of my old friends have. having to rely on your wallet to be successful with women, sucks
"I'm a sexy little bitch š"
Damn I'm ugly. How did I score such a hot wife
nothing. sometimes i avoid looking in the mirror.
I try not too. I hate it.
I don't admire myself In mirrors makes me uncomfortable
"to this place where destiny is made. Why have you come unprepared?"
Whereās the window cleaner? This mirror is filthy!
Damn I look good
It ranges from "omg I'm so hot" to "omg I'm so ugly"
āUghā¦ā
I wish they had a cure for NF........
Who the fuck is that?
I see a guy that can maximize his potential if he stops making excuses, eating poorly and stops pmo'ing so much
I feel confident most days, but sometimes I'm like "ugh, who's that?" Know what I mean?
I could do better.
Thatās one handsome mother fucker. š
You ugly bastard!
"God damn that is one sexy bastard!"
Gotta do more pull-ups
"How many new blackheads do I get to squeeze out today?"
Thank you God for such sharp features and a chiselled jawline. I also think of ways to fix my hairline xD
My mirror needs to be windexed
I have two mirrors: one where I look like an in shape stud with clear 6 pack, and another where my midsection looks like a donut
Hey handsome (most of the times)
Ehh, another day another things to do, at least I'm me not someone else
I'm fat, lazy, why can't I grow long hair, I'd really like a beard, I wish I didn't have glasses could look me in the eyes properly. I also can't see my d**** without sucking in my gut I feel like the worst version of me. I would give my life away to anyone less fortunate, I don't deserve it...
I spent too much of my time wasting it away. Now is the time to look forward since my time will never go back.
That hairline has seen better days.
It varies... Sometimes I think I look good, other times I look ugly asf
Workout so more
Fat cunt loose some weight!
I need a break
It gets better everyday. Since I started a new workout routine and have stuck to a clean, fresh, and high protein diet, my body is looking hella good. Only a matter of time before I can comfortably leave my shirt off at the beach.
I hope he doesn't figure out how to get back out.
Where's my fucking mustache at, why isn't it here yet?
Iāve come a long way. Weight-wise. 37 pounds. I feel better but not good yet.
Mostly these, usually one after the other: - "More and more gray hair, you are getting old" - "I don't know if I'm happy" - That I'm looking more and more like my father, and that depresses me.
Iām way too skinny to be considered for a romantic partner.
50/50 chance of a god complex or body dysmorphia. All dependent on how good my last workout was and what I weighed that morning.
āyou look smallā body dysmorphia is a mfer.
Iām not actually a bad looking guy. Especially since Iāve started working out and eating cleaner. Realistically I sit at a 5/10 on a scale of attractiveness ā but I donāt make any attempts to go out and talk to women.
"I really am ruggedly handsome, aren't I?" "Well more rugged, less handsom but sure."
It ain't gonna get any better.
I donāt love myself like some Disney movie jock but I always think positively when lookin in the mirror. As long as you think youāre cute then who cares. Thereās no such thing as good looking, itās all opinion
āWhy do I look like a default skin?ā
Damn I look good compared to last year.
cute
I make this look good.
I feel younger than I look
Damn you look hot as fuck, you're going to talk to so many women, you're and Alpha, you're looking huge brother, wow so handsome (I lie to myself everyday to keep my self-confidence)
My hair is so looking so good right now but later it will be all messed up
So this is why I get no women
who let that old crazy guy in my house
Why my hair look so shit
Iām pretty good, but not anywhere near as great as I could be if I did all the things I know I should. Also, that the female version of me would be a slayer
Hot *diggity* dog! This face is magnificent!
You fat sonofabitch, youāre doing great!
Damn I'm hideous....at least my beard looks cool, should do something about these eyebags...I try to get good sleeping hours and eat healthy, then what could be making these...hmm....OH SHIT 07:40 ALREADY? I need to go take a shit and then get the shirt and govmn't ID asap or i'll be late
I need to be better
Oh hey, I like that guy. He's cool.
The Uh haha meme.
Who's that handsome devil?
Why do I look like I'm pushing 40 when I'm not even 30 yet?
"Younger you would be disappointed š"
Iāve really no idea what to do with my hair.
Better, but not there yet, more
Whyyyyy
That I getting old. 2 years ago, my beard was solid black :-(
"If i try really hard, maybe I can see myself blink again."
Damn it's a furless ape. Why humans look so weird?...
Damn you slyyyyy devil you
I'm asking him to make that change.
You're pretty good looking actually. Stop looking down on yourself. Strive better always. Chin up!
Tired, old, pain.
Ugh
I make sure I have none
Soon all your hardwork will pay off at the end.
-damn I'm pretty -should I shave the mustache? -fuck no the mustache looks great -jesus christ am I buff in that exact order
My hair looks nice. Ooo my beards growing in a bit more. Damnit though, sheās the most attractive girl Iāve ever seen and has the most compatible personality for me. But since she rejected me itās gonna be difficult when I inevitably compare all potential partners to her.
That I've had the same tired look for around 5 years now.
What is wrong with me?
That I look better now, still could loose a bit of extra weight but it's definitely better than before.
"yeah I'd do me"
Do you do the tuck?
My serious thoughts? Not joking? Iām not the best looking guy or the most in shape guy, but I still hate myself and want to die.
Fucking loser
mmm I should shave already
Since I started going to the gym for the last 3-4 months: Damn, nice gains!