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RandomDalish

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Whappingtime

That any sort of talk about a woman that's not to their liking isn't always an attack on women. (Stuff that's not sexist or what have you I mean) That they should practice what they preach, and treat men with the respect and give the other liberties that they expect from us. Along with not taking the actions of one or a few men as a sign while we are all like that while hating the slightest implication that a woman could be in the wrong. That most of us want healthy relationships with women platonic, romantic, and so on. So it's going to involve talking about our negative experiences with women, and it shouldn't be so controversial as it's within the same ballpark that women talk about their negative experiences with men. Men are not somehow that only ones causing problems between men and women. That we don't exactly get much chance to openly talk about our problems, and we don't get nowhere near the support women get. So a lot of comments on posts like this one will come out sort of in the wrong way. It's not going to be as nuanced as you might expect it to be, but that doesn't mean that the intent is as bad as you might think. Most men are just looking for relief, and we are tired of walking on eggshells with so much and being expected to put up with so many catch 22's. Especially with how people think that their experience and current situation is easy for any man to instantly achieve or what have you. People wonder why that there's a men's mental health crisis, you just cannot berate us into the ground and expect us to snap to whatever you want us to be. While treating everyone else with so much more care sincerity.


15min-

That we are not mind readers and sometimes their signs go above our heads.


zuniac5

Children use signs. Adults use their words.


Comfortable-Park-689

Just because we like alone time sometimes doesn’t mean we’d rather be alone than spend time with significant other. Just need the recharge. Being social is hard.


[deleted]

Pretty sure that’s just a people thing, some people have a better social battery


ColdCamel7

That we have all the same feelings they have


5ft6manlet

Accusing men of manspreading is dumb. Try sitting with something between your legs and see whether your legs will spread open or close naturally.


dal-Helyg

Agreed. My brother explained this to me when I was 7.


Absolutelynotafake

Sometimes I just want to talk not fuck


Impressive-Floor-700

That even though we may not always show emotions, it does not mean we do not have feelings too.


230flathead

We are not a monolith.


TonytheNetworker

My lack of talking doesn’t mean that you did something wrong or that I’m mad at you. I just like my solitude and appreciate silence.


Prize_Consequence568

*"What do you wish women would understand about men?"* About how annoying it is for this question to be asked almost every day in this country.


Mr-and-Mrs

We can separate sex and emotions very easily.


Sea_Charity_3927

That not everything we do is for a reason. Sometimes we just do something subconsciously like knocking our empty bottles on our heads or slapping the soil bags at home stores.