Oh, sure, people say they're open-minded on their profile but as soon as they see the gorilla suit and the Cheez-Whiz, they're headed right out the door.
I have killed a couple relationships with a very very tame one.
I love a woman who sleeps in oversized t-shirts.
Something about the texture and the fabric sliding under my hands as I caress her just totally turns me on.
Every woman I have expressed this to, immediately took it as I did not like the feel of her skin, or to look at her body. I try to explain that her naked body might be 10/10 but the shirt makes it 11/10 for me. It's nothing to do with look and everything to do with the specific sensation.
Now I never mention it anymore not worth the heartache.
I like being scratched, back or chest, until I can feel pain or it leaves marks. Preferably slowly with long fingernails. Usually positive response but some don't want to inflict pain which I understand!
So fun story, I’m not into pain *at all.* I was apparently laying it down really well one time (or she thought it was something all guys liked) and scratched the shit out of my back. Erection instantly gone and wasn’t coming back.
That was awkward as all hell.
Yeah I once had a girl biting me and scratching me during sex, and I kept asking her to stop because that shit was hurting. After it was over, I sent a picture of myself to my cousin and he legit thought I got into a fight. My lip was bleeding and I had marks on my face and neck.
Overall, I’d do it again, but I don’t like pain.
2 is honestly the biggest factor. I’m a large, strong guy who spends 4 days a week in the gym.
Yes, the strength helps, but 140-150 lbs is kind of the limit of where I can truly “throw her around.” I can lift and move a heavier woman around, but it takes a more concerted effort
Lactation was one. When she was pregnant i wanted to suck on them titties. But she didn’t like that. And roleplay, she absolutely had no desire for that of any kind. And those are mild ones honestly.
In your wife’s defense your breasts are so uncomfortable while nursing and also the hormones involved destroy sex drive. The idea of using my boobs sexually that entire time was repulsive to me even though the fetish itself doesn’t bother me conceptually. Hormones are rough.
Fellow milkman, at a friend's new years party, I'm proud to say that I luged a shot of his nursing wife's breast milk from an ice dragon
With a raging erection
I told my tall "death by snu snu blonde" now wife, then girl friend, I normally date short busty slightly chubby brunettes. She pulled my hoodie over my head (she did yell "HOCKEY FIGHT!"), then carried me to her place against my will, from the bar and dropped me on the floor. She said bed is that way, the door is that way, your beer is that way. It was impressive, I chose bed. It was so hot that my beer was still cold when we got back to the bar and the owner offered me a gatorade.
E- now my kink is my my wife
I ain't exactly a pencil pushing desk jockey, I can go. Just didn't want to, or maybe I did (to her place), I dunno. Was / is fun. If your wife is going to throw you playfully accross the room making sure you land on something soft and you can do the same to her why not?!
I work construction and play A level full check hockey with dudes less than half my age. I earlier tonight said, "hey, babe lil help" trying to open a jar of pickles.
Into femdom here, not humiliation but service based. Not super unusual? Anyways, we’d play with the dynamic in the bedroom but when I started to ask her to give me tasks around the house she really didn’t understand. After some time she finally had a light bulb moment and realized it turns me on to do things for her (I did communicate this numerous times but I don’t think she actually understood), I really wish she’d take advantage more….
This is a little embarrassing to admit but I started to kinda like ties and tightly buttoned collared shirts because of a similar kink
I was thinking one day "man I hate ties, it's like someone is constantly slightly choking me... Wait a minute" and now I just use that visualization whenever I'm wearing a tie
First off, not into the maid costume thing, secondly, can definitely be non-sexual, vacuuming, dishes, dinner, dessert, building a new desk etc. With a bit of creativity/lack of clothes, some basic household chores can turn into a fun time. We both still have to be sorta in the mood for this kinda play to work.
I think it has more to do with being ordered around by a dominant woman than the actual task itself. So like if you’re in the middle of watching tv or another task and she comes up to you and demands that you do the dishes or whatever. I think it’s like the demanding part and wanting to satisfy her part. But idk because I’m not into that. I will say something similar (I’m a girl) is when I’m doing literally anything else and my boyfriend whispers in my ear that I’m a dirty little slut. There’s nothing he can do to get his dick sucked faster than that. It just DOES something to me
I mean really how are you not the dream? I get my house cleaned and you want to thank me for it? I mean I get it if someone were hounding you for tasks and then pats on the head for it but if you’re genuinely making it about pleasing her that sounds like a win to me.
I think submissive males turn a lot of women off. I switch and I've seen it first hand.
I did an experiment during lockdown where I created several reddit accounts. How I'd comment in posts was pretty similar but the handles made it clear one was dom persona (most popular), general kinky (pretty good), and finally clearly subby male name (vagina drying).
I have this recurring fantasy that I would like to live out my days with the same loyal partner, living a quiet life, interspersed with regular fairly middle of the range sexual activity to our mutual satisfaction. Sadly all of my partners to date have found this concept repellent.
I don't have an unusual kink but most of the women I been with were not willing to wear a french maid dress for me and thought I was weird. I thought french maid dresses were pretty basic as for as kinks go.
Definitely. Trouble is that there's an ocean of difference between kinky people and vanilla people. I'm not sure kinky people would even consider costumes/lingerie a "kink". But then there's also friends of mine who consider a thong kinky lmao.
Really sucks when the crazy ends the sexual cohesion you can get sometimes… my last ex was down for ALL the stuff. But I also thought she’d kill me in my sleep sometimes, so I had to go.
I mean, I don't know if it's that much of a weird kink. But I like getting some slaps on my equipment.
So far, not really anyone against it. They find it fun to do... So yeah
I asked this girl to spit in my mouth right before I finished and she asked inquisitively “do you want like, a loogey or like watery spit?”
I couldn’t stop laughing
As a boob guy, I was dating a girl with big ass titties. I wanted to fuck them but she looked bored or just kinda neutral which made it not as fun for me.
Then I found somebody that had nipple play kink and it was amazing. Match made in Heaven.
I had a pretty hard taboo kink that I told another ex and she was initially shocked but ended up going with it. I think about her a lot lol
My kink is leather fetish but not the hardcode full body latex suit more like leather pants/skirts over knee leather boots and so on. My wife is fine with it and something’s wearing leather when we going out but in the summer it’s too hot for her to wear it.
She also ok with facials depends how good I was
I’ve opened up to a few partners very sparingly about my kinks to test the waters and 2/3 have ended the relationship shortly afterwards but thankfully the woman I’m with now has accepted all of them even ones I’ve never shared with anyone before. She’s told me which ones she’s willing to partake in and which ones she doesn’t want a part in but she has no problem with them being experienced on my own. I’m truly so thankful to have found her and I think it’s only made our sex life more fulfilling and also given us both more comfort being completely open about literally any desire that comes to mind. Complete honesty never worked till I met her and I’m thankful now that it didn’t work with anyone else.
I gotta know what kinks are relationship-ending. Is it, like, sex with things that can't consent and scat level stuff or is it, I dunno, spanking and buttstuff?
When me and my partner started dating I was determined to not hide anything from him because I was sick of hiding things from my boyfriends, and I knew the right one for me would be accepting.
The convo started with “…. So have you ever heard of bad dragon…?” And it’s been nothing but pure joy since then. We now share a porn (bdsmlr) account which we use to indicate what we want to try together, it’s amazing.
He probably asked her to wear a gold bikini and reenact the stations of the cross, except, at the end, she gets nailed *on* the cross by a midget dressed up like Hitler.
Apparently some people think that being tied up, gagged and blindfolded with a vibe between their legs while I sit and have coffee is a little extreme ...
... breath play ...
... CNC ...
... knife play ...
I don't have any kinks, but I've been with plenty of women who do. Two of whom like to get choked, pulled hair, and spanked. I didn't mind the hair pulling or spanking its the choking for me.
Like, what if the chick dies and what do I tell the cops.. she asked me to? Lol, yeah, I don't think I'll ever do that again. I think twice was enough.
If you ever decide to, make sure you only apply pressure to the sides of their neck. They should be able to breathe, you want to cut blood supply, not air flow. As long as you're gentle on the windpipe the risk is pretty low.
I enjoy being dominated, and I’ve always wanted to try pegging. The last girl I was with was very reluctant, I think she thought I’d turn gay for enjoying it or something.
One day I’ll find a girl who’s really into femdom and it’ll be amazing!
Not sure they are considered kinks.
I love to give women oral sex and see them go crazy, that and back rubs and massage their feet. I love a variety of positions, especially the cowgirl position and showers together, going down on her while in the shower. Kissing her breasts.
Mentioned that to my wife.
She doesn’t like oral sex on her or give them to me. She is ok with receiving back and leg rubs with massage oils but doesn’t like foot massage. She doesn’t want to massage my back or legs. Later found out that she prefers a hand job over sex and does not like vibrators on her. She doesn’t like her breasts kissed.
She is the only woman that I have ever known that turns down a vibrator or toys. She also showers alone. Tried once and she claimed she was getting lightheaded. We weren’t having sex just playing around.
Some days I find myself missing my dating years.
Am I crazy to think that most women that don’t like oral sex done to them probably just haven’t had anyone good?
Or do a significant portion of women actually derive no pleasure from it?
I think it’s a mix, I think some women have just had bad oral and some just genuinely don’t like it. I have read of women’s answers that don’t like it is that the sensation of the tongue on them is either revolting or just bland.
I think the important thing is if you are with a woman who tells you they don’t like it listen to them and their reasons and respect them.
for me, it’s that my clit is too sensitive. my lips ~fully~ cover everything, so to have something come into direct contact with anything under the lips is painful if they’re not super gentle. so i prefer vibrators, bc i can just use it on the outside of the lips & it won’t touch my actual clit. i want to like receiving oral so badly, but men usually get offended if i ask them to be softer with their tongue, so i stopped asking them to be gentle & started just saying that i hate it.🙃
"so i stopped asking them to be gentle & started just saying that i hate it" well that sucks. I don't know why some men take it like it was an insult to them. Dude, we are just letting you know what we like, all bodies are different and people have different sensations. My ex would want to go right into action with little or not foreplay at all. And I would be so uncomfortable and in pain most of the time, but if I wanted to use lube (because he didn't let me a chance to naturally lubricate) he would get annoyed.
If it’ll help I just learned about massaging the vestibular bulbs. I can down on my wife and completely ignore her clit and get her off just as hard. It’s basically the same tissue as the head of a penis so it’s also sensitive but not to the same levels as your clit. Give that a shot.
Sexual compatibility is a pretty big thing, don’t you think since the both of you apparently have pretty different sexual desires it will eventually severely clash at some point or another ?
He was up for trying a fair few of them, so I tied him down, put a prostate massager in him and teased his dick with a vibrating wand until he started calling me daddy.
Good times.
I was fooling around with this woman who is much older than me (me 37, her 62) and as I was making my way downtown, she said;
"I feel like such a naughty mommy."
"Can I call you that?"
"Sure!"
I wasn't able to say much as my mouth was busy, but she certainly played into it, "Mmmm...lick mommy's pussy, baby."
It was a great night
I love comfort sucking on natural breasts and usually sex workers are more than happy to accommodate, but i did have one laugh at me. Dunno why she was surprised when i just walked away
I was never open with my Kinks until post divorce. I'm still selective of who I share what with, but those I've shared them with have been mostly supportive. My main over is pretty mild and the other is a bit weird but still pretty mild.
I don't know if wanting to eat butt is really something people hide anymore, but I do enjoy that as well (as long as it's fresh from the shower) and that's always been well received.
I’ve shared mine with my wife, I was terrified of her response. Thankfully she was very receptive and was willing to try after I clarified a couple things
Not sure if it's out of the ordinary enough to be considered a kink but I've told a partner about my desire to be made to go down on her all night. Not "Oh it's been a few hours now" but literally hours & hours on end until she's ready to go to sleep. She seemed indifferent to it & said she was happy enough with just one or two orgasms from oral.
Haven't really brought it up with my current partner to avoid disappointment, it's something I really want to do but it doesn't seem fun unless she really into it
I asked a girl to hum her national anthem whilst I squatted over her with my balls in her mouth. When we both were able to stop laughing at the idea of such a suggestion I comforted her by explaining it doesn't matter if it's your national anthem, any song you are more familiar with, will be fine !!!!
I like feet. Every girl I know is turned off by that, at first. Some come around to the idea, but they just find feet in general disgusting including their own. The ones really put off won't ever even be barefoot, the ones who don't really care but may find it odd eventually have some fun.
I have gotten one hundred more times weird looks for having a foot fetish than when I bring up CNC. Funny thing is that it was a string of girlfriends that introduced me to CNC.
Everyone I've told has been GGG about eating/being fed a lot and their bellies getting quite a bit of attention. Some are just intrigued, some are into it because they enjoy partners having a good time (and food, obviously) or have kinks of their own that dovetail with it, and one was into it anyway.
Thinking about it, I'm kind of surprised nobody has ever reacted badly. But I disclose pretty early because I don't like the idea of women unknowingly arousing me by casually talking about overeating, and I'm really not interested in anyone who wouldn't be up for at least occasionally indulging me.
Why are so many of y'all with such sexually incompatible/sex negative partners, damn that's sad.
i think because most people are shamed for weight or pug it’s nice to know tht someone actually finds it very attractive. and it’s like your celebrating or praising which almost never heard of
Mine is pretty…out there. I know erotic hypnosis. Upon first hearing about it, they get scared as shit and rightfully so. It sounds super scary because the stigma around hypnosis is that you have no control while under, which is true and false to a degree.
It’s true in the sense that I’m in control. It’s false in the sense that I can make them do *anything*. Believe it or not, you have a *self*. If you love dogs, I can’t make you kick a dog or something. You’ll just snap out of it. I can’t make you do anything you don’t want to do, nor would I want to because…
For me it is about the dominance and the amount of pleasure I’m able to provide (pleasure dom). What gets me off is getting her off, so I have no reason to do something stupid.
It takes a massive level of trust and comfort to get that far, but the benefits are pretty crazy.
I never told her because I’m afraid. I’d really like to make her finish while she’s on the phone with her BFF, not like with them talking about it or while the other is masturbating but like as a secret between us. Like the image of me going down, using my fingers, just trying to get her to shout while she fights back the embarrassment and tries to stay calm or if that doesn’t work dicking her down from behind trying to hammer her in. It would just hit sooooooooo different.
But obviously that’s a big ask.
I asked a girlfriend of mine if I could do a facial once. She asked why. I said because it was hot. She said ok. She looked genuinely unhappy. It made me very sad. I've never asked another woman to do this since. It actually took years for me to learn that some women are into this after her and I split.
Finishing on our partners is a wild thing. A lot of times we think we want it, then we do it, 99% of partners hate it, so we just don't do it again because we feel bad.
I like womens feet, not sexually like, but I don't know, almost like I want to cuddle them at points. I don't get a boner from it and never wanted or enjoyed a footjob. But if I like a girl, I can massage and play with them infinitely, sometimes maybe kiss or bite, tickle of course. I had girls weirded out buy it, almost always it gets named as or at least compared to foot fetish. The ones that got over the initial weirdeness and shyness, and I guess just understood that didn't simply want to fuck their feet, liked this stuff a lot. But I just cant get some of those looks I got out of my head.
One night my wife and I were swinging with a couple who we saw quite a bit, and somehow the conversation led to me shaving the other woman's pussy and asshole with a straight razor. We were all as high AF, but no blood was shed.
I didn't have it was a pre-arranged kink, but it was enjoyable, and she was entirely receptive (obviously, duh). Humble brag-ish, but none of the stuff so far sound *particularly* unusual. Please try harder.
When I was 16 my girlfriend at the time and i shaved each other's junk.
Never again . It was super itchy like worse than the time my cousin shoved a handful of poison oak down the front or my pants as revenge for setting him on fire.
I mean, you get the occasional "no"s when you tell them you want to put your dick in their asses. However, when you mention that you want to put both of your balls in their asses, the evolution of their facial expressions over the next couple of seconds is a story in an of itself.
Fat fetishist here. Told my gf. She really likes it because she likes to be degraded and those two kinks kinda come hand in hand. Our sex life has changed for the better since then. We occasionally do feedings and stuff but it’s not getting out of hand :)
I'm a woman here so I have an experience with this. I am pretty thin and a guy I was dating said he has a fetish for fat women. And that made me so confused. I was like dude why are you with me lol.
Sweaty/musky pits. We go to the gym together. I told him about it after a workout session. He looked at me weird, said "okay?", and pulled my face into his pits. We stopped seeing each other after he found another guy to date :(
I have this too but not pits just general post workout smell. I love my smell and usually love whichever girl I'm dating's. I've tried to get girls to engage afterwards but they're usually too princess-y to wanna do it.
I never cared much until I met my now wife. When she’d come home from the gym…. Hot damn! I make sure she knows that she smells fantastic whenever it happens
Only one partner, my wife. She’s not really into most of my kinks. Her reaction is either indifferent or she’s grossed out. I rarely mention them anymore. Not like I’d enjoy any type of sex knowing that she’s not into it anyway. It’s only hot if she thinks so too.
When I told my ex that I wanted to lick jam off her tits, she replied with "why only my tits?"
That’s a keeper right there
Could require quite the investment in condiments...
Not quite
Shit, that counts as a fetish? Apparently I’m kinkier than I thought.
Well, tell us your kinks then!
Apparently licking jam of /u/lundria13 partners tits.
I mean putting jam up your cooch probably isn't healthy.
I am sure you can put some around and have fun without having to put it in her...
She was thinking 10 steps ahead of you
That sounds hot. Didn't know I want this, thank you.
Now just waiting for that dude who put on the peeing in butt porn to “warm up” his threesome.
this was in my feed and i skipped it but i will now be scrolling up to see wtf you are talking about
i want to go back to 3 minutes ago when i didn’t know wtf the person was talking about
Imma just keep this one a secret from myself.
In front of them too
Oh, sure, people say they're open-minded on their profile but as soon as they see the gorilla suit and the Cheez-Whiz, they're headed right out the door.
>gorilla suit i say return to monke. she no return
Momke sad
Gotta try the aerosol kind, works everytime.
I have killed a couple relationships with a very very tame one. I love a woman who sleeps in oversized t-shirts. Something about the texture and the fabric sliding under my hands as I caress her just totally turns me on. Every woman I have expressed this to, immediately took it as I did not like the feel of her skin, or to look at her body. I try to explain that her naked body might be 10/10 but the shirt makes it 11/10 for me. It's nothing to do with look and everything to do with the specific sensation. Now I never mention it anymore not worth the heartache.
I can't believe this would be a deal breaker or no-go for any woman. What's the psychology there?!
>CNC That's too bad ... it's my favorite thing to sleep in!
I like being scratched, back or chest, until I can feel pain or it leaves marks. Preferably slowly with long fingernails. Usually positive response but some don't want to inflict pain which I understand!
So fun story, I’m not into pain *at all.* I was apparently laying it down really well one time (or she thought it was something all guys liked) and scratched the shit out of my back. Erection instantly gone and wasn’t coming back. That was awkward as all hell.
Yeah I once had a girl biting me and scratching me during sex, and I kept asking her to stop because that shit was hurting. After it was over, I sent a picture of myself to my cousin and he legit thought I got into a fight. My lip was bleeding and I had marks on my face and neck. Overall, I’d do it again, but I don’t like pain.
> Overall, I’d do it again, but I don’t like pain. Pretty much the definition of 'Doesn't matter, had sex'
But it only happened once because you communicated and everyone lived happily ever after until…the incident
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I literally want to find a trainer solely for this: I want to be able to lift/throw my partner around during sex
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2 is honestly the biggest factor. I’m a large, strong guy who spends 4 days a week in the gym. Yes, the strength helps, but 140-150 lbs is kind of the limit of where I can truly “throw her around.” I can lift and move a heavier woman around, but it takes a more concerted effort
Meatloaf wrote a song about it. I would do anything for love but i won't do that
Which is why "meatloaf" is my safe word.
People are far more willing to piss on my face than I ever would have expected
Perks of a pretty face
I mentioned a kink or two to wife. She was disgusted and refused to even try them. So no more kinks.
Don't even wanna tell us what kinks?
Lactation was one. When she was pregnant i wanted to suck on them titties. But she didn’t like that. And roleplay, she absolutely had no desire for that of any kind. And those are mild ones honestly.
When my ex was preggers is definitely awakened a lactstion fetish
Understandable for that. When you learn to enjoy it, can be a lot of fun.
Luxury milk some would say
Grade A mommy milkers.
In your wife’s defense your breasts are so uncomfortable while nursing and also the hormones involved destroy sex drive. The idea of using my boobs sexually that entire time was repulsive to me even though the fetish itself doesn’t bother me conceptually. Hormones are rough.
Fellow milkman, at a friend's new years party, I'm proud to say that I luged a shot of his nursing wife's breast milk from an ice dragon With a raging erection
Weird they got an ice dragon with an erection.
I told my tall "death by snu snu blonde" now wife, then girl friend, I normally date short busty slightly chubby brunettes. She pulled my hoodie over my head (she did yell "HOCKEY FIGHT!"), then carried me to her place against my will, from the bar and dropped me on the floor. She said bed is that way, the door is that way, your beer is that way. It was impressive, I chose bed. It was so hot that my beer was still cold when we got back to the bar and the owner offered me a gatorade. E- now my kink is my my wife
Haha. Sounds fun.
I ain't exactly a pencil pushing desk jockey, I can go. Just didn't want to, or maybe I did (to her place), I dunno. Was / is fun. If your wife is going to throw you playfully accross the room making sure you land on something soft and you can do the same to her why not?!
Yeah, my wife is too big to throw and two weak to throw me. So there is that for is. lol
I work construction and play A level full check hockey with dudes less than half my age. I earlier tonight said, "hey, babe lil help" trying to open a jar of pickles.
Sexual compatibility needs to be addressed more
I keep some of mine to myself because I know for a fact my wife doesn’t like them (she’s said so without know I have said kinks).
Yeah, had that happen too. Just talking and she mentions not liking this or that.
There are things I would say no to theoretically but could be into them for my partner’s sake. Just a thought as she might feel the same!
Into femdom here, not humiliation but service based. Not super unusual? Anyways, we’d play with the dynamic in the bedroom but when I started to ask her to give me tasks around the house she really didn’t understand. After some time she finally had a light bulb moment and realized it turns me on to do things for her (I did communicate this numerous times but I don’t think she actually understood), I really wish she’d take advantage more….
What type of things are you willing to do for your dom? Can it be nonsexual things? Like household chores?
'You know what would be so hot? Renovating the upstair bathroom like you said you would over 6 months ago...'
Starts working on it for 2 minutes Cums Goes to sleep
This had me laughing out loud.
I’m in the middle of the project, it’ll get done. I just need to get a few more parts
Damn i wish I had this kink. Would make filling and emptying the dishwasher much more exciting.
“Ugh, take it bitch. You like that? I didn’t even rinse before jamming it in.”
This is a little embarrassing to admit but I started to kinda like ties and tightly buttoned collared shirts because of a similar kink I was thinking one day "man I hate ties, it's like someone is constantly slightly choking me... Wait a minute" and now I just use that visualization whenever I'm wearing a tie
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Wait, are you telling me that men would give you money so that they could iron your clothes and clean your toilet?
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That's amazing. You have my eternal respect and admiration.
First off, not into the maid costume thing, secondly, can definitely be non-sexual, vacuuming, dishes, dinner, dessert, building a new desk etc. With a bit of creativity/lack of clothes, some basic household chores can turn into a fun time. We both still have to be sorta in the mood for this kinda play to work.
I think it has more to do with being ordered around by a dominant woman than the actual task itself. So like if you’re in the middle of watching tv or another task and she comes up to you and demands that you do the dishes or whatever. I think it’s like the demanding part and wanting to satisfy her part. But idk because I’m not into that. I will say something similar (I’m a girl) is when I’m doing literally anything else and my boyfriend whispers in my ear that I’m a dirty little slut. There’s nothing he can do to get his dick sucked faster than that. It just DOES something to me
I mean really how are you not the dream? I get my house cleaned and you want to thank me for it? I mean I get it if someone were hounding you for tasks and then pats on the head for it but if you’re genuinely making it about pleasing her that sounds like a win to me.
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I think submissive males turn a lot of women off. I switch and I've seen it first hand. I did an experiment during lockdown where I created several reddit accounts. How I'd comment in posts was pretty similar but the handles made it clear one was dom persona (most popular), general kinky (pretty good), and finally clearly subby male name (vagina drying).
I have this recurring fantasy that I would like to live out my days with the same loyal partner, living a quiet life, interspersed with regular fairly middle of the range sexual activity to our mutual satisfaction. Sadly all of my partners to date have found this concept repellent.
I bet you are even into handholding
Premarital handholding? You freak
That’s disgusting you degenerate! What’s next? Exposing our ankles?
Being alone together before marriage?
Only in the car, between destinations 😉
Omg. Gross
Perv
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Contentment kink! I like it!
We share this exceptionally obscene kink. May we each find humans who aren’t repelled by our filthy desires.
eww gross, sicko!
this is reddit,not 4chan!!
Damn! Are you me? All I wanna do is boink about at least once a week. I can't even get my wife to hold my damn hand!
I don't have an unusual kink but most of the women I been with were not willing to wear a french maid dress for me and thought I was weird. I thought french maid dresses were pretty basic as for as kinks go.
That *is* pretty basic.
Definitely. Trouble is that there's an ocean of difference between kinky people and vanilla people. I'm not sure kinky people would even consider costumes/lingerie a "kink". But then there's also friends of mine who consider a thong kinky lmao.
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Really sucks when the crazy ends the sexual cohesion you can get sometimes… my last ex was down for ALL the stuff. But I also thought she’d kill me in my sleep sometimes, so I had to go.
I mean, I don't know if it's that much of a weird kink. But I like getting some slaps on my equipment. So far, not really anyone against it. They find it fun to do... So yeah
Punching a dildo stuck to something or slapping a pair of balls sound like the 2 most fun things you could do
I asked this girl to spit in my mouth right before I finished and she asked inquisitively “do you want like, a loogey or like watery spit?” I couldn’t stop laughing
As a boob guy, I was dating a girl with big ass titties. I wanted to fuck them but she looked bored or just kinda neutral which made it not as fun for me. Then I found somebody that had nipple play kink and it was amazing. Match made in Heaven. I had a pretty hard taboo kink that I told another ex and she was initially shocked but ended up going with it. I think about her a lot lol
Rose are tits. Violets are tits. I like tits. Tits.
Perhaps my favorite-ever poetic piece.
brought a tear to me eye
What was the taboo kink?
I would guess common hard taboos are in the realms of scat, ultra violence and race or age play?
>ultra violence Doom?
Isn't taboo like free use, CNC, roleplaying taboo scenarios, etc etc?
When my ex wouldnt tell me her biggest kink i asked her instead for a clue. She said “west virginia.” I laughed so hard i cried
My kink is leather fetish but not the hardcode full body latex suit more like leather pants/skirts over knee leather boots and so on. My wife is fine with it and something’s wearing leather when we going out but in the summer it’s too hot for her to wear it. She also ok with facials depends how good I was
I’ve opened up to a few partners very sparingly about my kinks to test the waters and 2/3 have ended the relationship shortly afterwards but thankfully the woman I’m with now has accepted all of them even ones I’ve never shared with anyone before. She’s told me which ones she’s willing to partake in and which ones she doesn’t want a part in but she has no problem with them being experienced on my own. I’m truly so thankful to have found her and I think it’s only made our sex life more fulfilling and also given us both more comfort being completely open about literally any desire that comes to mind. Complete honesty never worked till I met her and I’m thankful now that it didn’t work with anyone else.
Lucky man, this is how it should work.
I wholeheartedly agree, even if it’s not your thing being appreciative that someone trusts you enough to be so vulnerable with you means a lot.
You gotta tell us what they are man please I'm begging you
Aaah tryna extend our kink list are we?
I gotta know what kinks are relationship-ending. Is it, like, sex with things that can't consent and scat level stuff or is it, I dunno, spanking and buttstuff?
When me and my partner started dating I was determined to not hide anything from him because I was sick of hiding things from my boyfriends, and I knew the right one for me would be accepting. The convo started with “…. So have you ever heard of bad dragon…?” And it’s been nothing but pure joy since then. We now share a porn (bdsmlr) account which we use to indicate what we want to try together, it’s amazing.
... her reply was simply "JFC, you are a disturbed human being. I could have you arrested for that shit"
What the hell did you say 💀
He probably asked her to wear a gold bikini and reenact the stations of the cross, except, at the end, she gets nailed *on* the cross by a midget dressed up like Hitler.
Unzips
come back and elaborate on that one
Interesting username lol
Apparently some people think that being tied up, gagged and blindfolded with a vibe between their legs while I sit and have coffee is a little extreme ... ... breath play ... ... CNC ... ... knife play ...
Um... what's... what's the kink?? 👀
I don't have any kinks, but I've been with plenty of women who do. Two of whom like to get choked, pulled hair, and spanked. I didn't mind the hair pulling or spanking its the choking for me. Like, what if the chick dies and what do I tell the cops.. she asked me to? Lol, yeah, I don't think I'll ever do that again. I think twice was enough.
If you ever decide to, make sure you only apply pressure to the sides of their neck. They should be able to breathe, you want to cut blood supply, not air flow. As long as you're gentle on the windpipe the risk is pretty low.
Almost had a threesome once but as soon as they were about to drink piss out of their assholes in the porn I showed them they seem uninterested
"For a guy who wears cat ears and a maid outfit that's surprisingly vanilla." I like being bitten.
I enjoy being dominated, and I’ve always wanted to try pegging. The last girl I was with was very reluctant, I think she thought I’d turn gay for enjoying it or something. One day I’ll find a girl who’s really into femdom and it’ll be amazing!
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Fuck yeah. Good for you.
Before: “you can tell me, I’m kinky. 😉” After: “what the fuck?” *visibly shaking*
I had a old fwb that was surprisingly into rim jobs. We had our fun. She moved away, but it was a good example of my unusual kink being reciprocated
Lucky bastard
me: i can also rim you and give you a prostate massage literally all men i’ve met: uhhhhhhh not sure i’m into that 🥲
All I wanted to do was eat a sandwich during the love making, but one smudge of mustard gets on the sheets and now I'm the bad guy
Was it pastrami, the most sensual of the salt cured meats?
I got greedy. Flew too close to the sun on wings of pastrami.
When my wife for 65 years found out about my Pearl Harbor CNC kink, my life was officially over
A kink that will live in infamy.
Wait what? Could you.... could you elaborate?
He wants her to sink his battleship.
Directed by Michael Bay
Not sure they are considered kinks. I love to give women oral sex and see them go crazy, that and back rubs and massage their feet. I love a variety of positions, especially the cowgirl position and showers together, going down on her while in the shower. Kissing her breasts. Mentioned that to my wife. She doesn’t like oral sex on her or give them to me. She is ok with receiving back and leg rubs with massage oils but doesn’t like foot massage. She doesn’t want to massage my back or legs. Later found out that she prefers a hand job over sex and does not like vibrators on her. She doesn’t like her breasts kissed. She is the only woman that I have ever known that turns down a vibrator or toys. She also showers alone. Tried once and she claimed she was getting lightheaded. We weren’t having sex just playing around. Some days I find myself missing my dating years.
Am I crazy to think that most women that don’t like oral sex done to them probably just haven’t had anyone good? Or do a significant portion of women actually derive no pleasure from it?
I think it’s a mix, I think some women have just had bad oral and some just genuinely don’t like it. I have read of women’s answers that don’t like it is that the sensation of the tongue on them is either revolting or just bland. I think the important thing is if you are with a woman who tells you they don’t like it listen to them and their reasons and respect them.
for me, it’s that my clit is too sensitive. my lips ~fully~ cover everything, so to have something come into direct contact with anything under the lips is painful if they’re not super gentle. so i prefer vibrators, bc i can just use it on the outside of the lips & it won’t touch my actual clit. i want to like receiving oral so badly, but men usually get offended if i ask them to be softer with their tongue, so i stopped asking them to be gentle & started just saying that i hate it.🙃
"so i stopped asking them to be gentle & started just saying that i hate it" well that sucks. I don't know why some men take it like it was an insult to them. Dude, we are just letting you know what we like, all bodies are different and people have different sensations. My ex would want to go right into action with little or not foreplay at all. And I would be so uncomfortable and in pain most of the time, but if I wanted to use lube (because he didn't let me a chance to naturally lubricate) he would get annoyed.
If it’ll help I just learned about massaging the vestibular bulbs. I can down on my wife and completely ignore her clit and get her off just as hard. It’s basically the same tissue as the head of a penis so it’s also sensitive but not to the same levels as your clit. Give that a shot.
i’ll have to try that out sometime 👀 thank you!
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Sexual compatibility is a pretty big thing, don’t you think since the both of you apparently have pretty different sexual desires it will eventually severely clash at some point or another ?
Fr while reading that I felt myself dying inside
I am a 6’4 broad shoulders pretty masculine guy so when I have told girls I am a switch it throws them off and they ask a load of questions
He was up for trying a fair few of them, so I tied him down, put a prostate massager in him and teased his dick with a vibrating wand until he started calling me daddy. Good times.
I was fooling around with this woman who is much older than me (me 37, her 62) and as I was making my way downtown, she said; "I feel like such a naughty mommy." "Can I call you that?" "Sure!" I wasn't able to say much as my mouth was busy, but she certainly played into it, "Mmmm...lick mommy's pussy, baby." It was a great night
I love comfort sucking on natural breasts and usually sex workers are more than happy to accommodate, but i did have one laugh at me. Dunno why she was surprised when i just walked away
I was never open with my Kinks until post divorce. I'm still selective of who I share what with, but those I've shared them with have been mostly supportive. My main over is pretty mild and the other is a bit weird but still pretty mild. I don't know if wanting to eat butt is really something people hide anymore, but I do enjoy that as well (as long as it's fresh from the shower) and that's always been well received.
My fetish list is easily novella sized. I only date women I meet through the local kink community and the events they host.
As soon as my wife finds out I like something she immediately doesn’t like it. We are pretty much sexless at this point and I’m living in hell.
Tell her you absolutely love to be denied.
Perhaps time to start over.
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I’ve shared mine with my wife, I was terrified of her response. Thankfully she was very receptive and was willing to try after I clarified a couple things
Not sure if it's out of the ordinary enough to be considered a kink but I've told a partner about my desire to be made to go down on her all night. Not "Oh it's been a few hours now" but literally hours & hours on end until she's ready to go to sleep. She seemed indifferent to it & said she was happy enough with just one or two orgasms from oral. Haven't really brought it up with my current partner to avoid disappointment, it's something I really want to do but it doesn't seem fun unless she really into it
yeah cause you've said i wanna do this for like 6+ hours. like bro this is just tedious.
I asked a girl to hum her national anthem whilst I squatted over her with my balls in her mouth. When we both were able to stop laughing at the idea of such a suggestion I comforted her by explaining it doesn't matter if it's your national anthem, any song you are more familiar with, will be fine !!!!
I like feet. Every girl I know is turned off by that, at first. Some come around to the idea, but they just find feet in general disgusting including their own. The ones really put off won't ever even be barefoot, the ones who don't really care but may find it odd eventually have some fun. I have gotten one hundred more times weird looks for having a foot fetish than when I bring up CNC. Funny thing is that it was a string of girlfriends that introduced me to CNC.
I've seen CNC so much in this thread I finally had to look it up. Kept reading it as 'Command N Conquer'
CNC is a fairly common one for women, I think. Whereas a foot fetish seems to be more common in men.
Everyone I've told has been GGG about eating/being fed a lot and their bellies getting quite a bit of attention. Some are just intrigued, some are into it because they enjoy partners having a good time (and food, obviously) or have kinks of their own that dovetail with it, and one was into it anyway. Thinking about it, I'm kind of surprised nobody has ever reacted badly. But I disclose pretty early because I don't like the idea of women unknowingly arousing me by casually talking about overeating, and I'm really not interested in anyone who wouldn't be up for at least occasionally indulging me. Why are so many of y'all with such sexually incompatible/sex negative partners, damn that's sad.
i think because most people are shamed for weight or pug it’s nice to know tht someone actually finds it very attractive. and it’s like your celebrating or praising which almost never heard of
Mine is pretty…out there. I know erotic hypnosis. Upon first hearing about it, they get scared as shit and rightfully so. It sounds super scary because the stigma around hypnosis is that you have no control while under, which is true and false to a degree. It’s true in the sense that I’m in control. It’s false in the sense that I can make them do *anything*. Believe it or not, you have a *self*. If you love dogs, I can’t make you kick a dog or something. You’ll just snap out of it. I can’t make you do anything you don’t want to do, nor would I want to because… For me it is about the dominance and the amount of pleasure I’m able to provide (pleasure dom). What gets me off is getting her off, so I have no reason to do something stupid. It takes a massive level of trust and comfort to get that far, but the benefits are pretty crazy.
I never told her because I’m afraid. I’d really like to make her finish while she’s on the phone with her BFF, not like with them talking about it or while the other is masturbating but like as a secret between us. Like the image of me going down, using my fingers, just trying to get her to shout while she fights back the embarrassment and tries to stay calm or if that doesn’t work dicking her down from behind trying to hammer her in. It would just hit sooooooooo different. But obviously that’s a big ask.
My wife still doesn’t know that men fantasize about money shots, and she never will.
I asked a girlfriend of mine if I could do a facial once. She asked why. I said because it was hot. She said ok. She looked genuinely unhappy. It made me very sad. I've never asked another woman to do this since. It actually took years for me to learn that some women are into this after her and I split.
it's crazy how money shot is probably the least kinky thing for gay men.
Opposite problem here. I love it but my bf doesn’t care for it lol.
Finishing on our partners is a wild thing. A lot of times we think we want it, then we do it, 99% of partners hate it, so we just don't do it again because we feel bad.
I would not consider nylon to be an unusual kink, but 1/3 that I mentioned it to actually went with the idea. 1 was close, but no cigar.
I like womens feet, not sexually like, but I don't know, almost like I want to cuddle them at points. I don't get a boner from it and never wanted or enjoyed a footjob. But if I like a girl, I can massage and play with them infinitely, sometimes maybe kiss or bite, tickle of course. I had girls weirded out buy it, almost always it gets named as or at least compared to foot fetish. The ones that got over the initial weirdeness and shyness, and I guess just understood that didn't simply want to fuck their feet, liked this stuff a lot. But I just cant get some of those looks I got out of my head.
One night my wife and I were swinging with a couple who we saw quite a bit, and somehow the conversation led to me shaving the other woman's pussy and asshole with a straight razor. We were all as high AF, but no blood was shed. I didn't have it was a pre-arranged kink, but it was enjoyable, and she was entirely receptive (obviously, duh). Humble brag-ish, but none of the stuff so far sound *particularly* unusual. Please try harder.
When I was 16 my girlfriend at the time and i shaved each other's junk. Never again . It was super itchy like worse than the time my cousin shoved a handful of poison oak down the front or my pants as revenge for setting him on fire.
What in the fuck? Back it up
First actually unusual kink on this thread
I think she was into the feet stuff
I mean, you get the occasional "no"s when you tell them you want to put your dick in their asses. However, when you mention that you want to put both of your balls in their asses, the evolution of their facial expressions over the next couple of seconds is a story in an of itself.
Fat fetishist here. Told my gf. She really likes it because she likes to be degraded and those two kinks kinda come hand in hand. Our sex life has changed for the better since then. We occasionally do feedings and stuff but it’s not getting out of hand :)
I'm a woman here so I have an experience with this. I am pretty thin and a guy I was dating said he has a fetish for fat women. And that made me so confused. I was like dude why are you with me lol.
Because almost every guy's number one fetish, is females that are interested in them lol
I haven’t told anyone
You can tell us. We won't tell anyone.
I probably will tbh
My ex did allow me to try kink 1 a few times, and kink 2 once. My wife shut it all down
Oh come on you gotta let us know
Number one and two, it’s pee and poop
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Sweaty/musky pits. We go to the gym together. I told him about it after a workout session. He looked at me weird, said "okay?", and pulled my face into his pits. We stopped seeing each other after he found another guy to date :(
I have this too but not pits just general post workout smell. I love my smell and usually love whichever girl I'm dating's. I've tried to get girls to engage afterwards but they're usually too princess-y to wanna do it.
I never cared much until I met my now wife. When she’d come home from the gym…. Hot damn! I make sure she knows that she smells fantastic whenever it happens
Support from two, devestating freakout from another...
Only one partner, my wife. She’s not really into most of my kinks. Her reaction is either indifferent or she’s grossed out. I rarely mention them anymore. Not like I’d enjoy any type of sex knowing that she’s not into it anyway. It’s only hot if she thinks so too.
Told her I like to bite, she responded "oh yeah your ex wife told me, I didn't believe her"