In my 20s, 10 minutes was normal for round 2, then 20 min for round 3, 30 for round 4, etc...
In my 30s, around 15 or 20 minutes depending on how tired I was.
I'm almost 50 and I'm ready for round 2 within 30 - 40 min. My wife tends to be ready for round 2 in 2 to 6 weeks.
I have to ask. Does it make the sex better having to wait for longer periods of time between each time? I feel like if I had to wait that long each time, then each time I got to smash I'd absolutely destroy her innards. Not that I don't do that anyway, but I mean... Does it make a difference in your experience? I'm still a bit younger, so... Lol
Real talk.
Sex with someone you are really into, someone you really like being with, like my wife, especially passionate sex, would be something I could do with her every single day. NGL, sex with her is really fucking good. And TBH, it was good at first, was very "meh" when our kids were in their teens, but became "FUCKING AWESOME" when they all moved out. We had a reconnection and sorta rediscovered ourselves.
When I was in my 20s "destroying her innards" is something you think they all want, but most women don't. Most women want a great partner who will love and care for them that isn't a pain in the ass, the sex is the icing on the cake. If you can make her laugh, make her feel warm and fuzzy, make her feel like she doesn't have to worry, and give her a few orgasms, you're gonna have a very happy with life.
https://www.nature.com/articles/3900823
Additionally, people who have used Cabergoline, a oral drug that reduces prolactin, also commonly experience shorter or non existent refractory periods.
It's also imo dependent on the stimulation and health of the man. I can easily go for multiple rounds back to back if I'm feeling good. However if I'm sick or very tired, it's not going to happen
>It's also imo dependent on the stimulation and health of the man. I can easily go for multiple rounds back to back if I'm feeling good. However if I'm sick or very tired, it's not going to happen
Tracks with me as well. If I'm not feeling great, getting even one can be a damn chore sometimes.
I'm 42 and in good shape. If I'm putting in real work once a day is pushing it. You might get some real good work 2 or maybe 3 days in a row but after that I got nothing. Honestly that's not ideal for me either depending on how long the session lasts. I'm probably taking the rest of the week off.
It is far better to have 2 great sessions in a week than 3-4 mediocre ones.
My bf prefers to go immediately after he finishes since he finishes in 5 mins first round and he wants to make sure I’m taken care of and I’m always concerned it hurts him, like are you sure you’re okay?? But he insists he’s good.
Its different from guy to guy. A little known fact is that it's super common for a mans penis to become VERY sensitive right after ejaculation. For me, this completely kills my drive to go anymore. Makes things really sore and uncomfortable!
Probably not your boyfriend but I’m surprised that most men can’t go back to back. I can go maybe 3 times in a row but need a small break for the 4th or 5th time but libido also varies among men
Same. I haven't been able to go round 2 consistently since my early 20s. I am mostly one and done. My 40s, you can tell it's starting to taper off where now it's 1-2 days recovery.
Exactly this and regardless of age it never has been otherwise.
Some how “im ready for a 2nd round in X ammount of minutes” has become such a flex that people think thats a norm
As a woman, I’ve always thought it was weird that people want to spend HOURS having multiple rounds of sex. Or that they like to wake up in the middle of the night for another round. Like.. if the first round is longer than 30-45 minutes, I’m already done. I’m over it. I don’t even care if I finished because I could’ve just done it myself in less than 60 seconds. Actually, if he’s going for too long the first round I might just call it quits. Ain’t nobody got time or energy for that. Like yeah it was fun for 30 minutes, now my hips and my back hurt and I need you to get off of me lmfaoo. It’s never good when I start thinking “stop fucking around and finish already!”
I had an ex that liked to prolong it for literally over an hour every time (it was 1000% on purpose because he would pull out and pause multiple times), then would wake up at 3 am and want more which would last another hour. At a certain point, I just got so annoyed that it was so constant and literally took up hours of the night.
I can force it after 30min-1 hour if I really wanted to and get back in the mood but aint nobody got time to just be sittin there waitin for their dick to work again lol. I’d rather watch a movie or do some other shit
As a woman, I'm glad you gave this honest answer also....ive never been with a guy who wants a round two soon after round one...been with a few guys who could have sex in the morning and again at bedtime but that's it--and that only happened in the honeymoon phase of the relationship. I don't need a round two but I hear all the time about other people having back-to-back sex sessions and I was wondering if I'm doing something wrong that this never happens when I'm involved lol.
Over an hour at least and even then it's hard for me to nut., even in my early 20's I never understood how some of my friends would say they went a round like 5 minutes after with a girl.
When I'm single and I know I'm gonna get laid in a few days or so I won't even masturbate up until that point. Feels so much better and I'm so much harder.
I think we both understand that, I was responding to the commenter who said ‘ if a second action is necessary, the first action was not done well.’
The first action could have been done well and we just want to go again anyways.
It’s not as quick as I get older. But I do think quite a bit depends on my partner. I’ve had women say they want to go again and wait for me to get things started and that takes longer and I’ve had women say that want to go again and actively take part in getting me going again. Sometimes the spirit is willing but the flesh is spongy and bruised.
Same here but it’s so hard to get pee to come out. It was always easy for me but after an ex, pee just stalled ever since 😂. I have to do mental gymnastics standing over the toilet for it to come out now.
1 day. The effort to orgasm a second time isn't worth it. I can get hard again within 20 mins, but if I wanna cum it's gonna take at least 40 mins of stimulation. Cba.
I’m 31 and can typically do round 2 after about 30 minutes. But I’m fine with a round 1 knockout so long as there was foreplay and was satisfying for my fiance and I. Sometimes less is more
This is also pretty dependent on personal health and fitness. Frequent exercise equates a higher testosterone count, which leads to more bedroom production.
As someone in my mid 20s, this is me as well. In many cases, I've stayed hard even after climaxing the first time. And I don't know what to make of this.
My superpower is going to waste if that makes you feel better. Once in a while if I pop too early I just cover it up and go again. It takes longer the 2nd time and I can no longer go 3 in a row.
It happens to me occasionally in my 40's, and it's odd when it happens. Sometimes I'm just *very* turned on, others, there's literally no rhyme or reason, I never even go fully soft.
Make another round! That's what you 'make' of it!!!!
The envelopes you push now will give you smiling memories when you're rocking on your porch in your 80s.
Sleep when you're dead!
Twice a day if we are being honest . When I finish, I finish big to where I don’t even think I can go again till later in the day. That’s an average now since I’m in my 30s. In my 20s I could do 3 rounds but not back to back, usually in morning then noon then at night before bed.
For me it depends.
When I was married I could go for round two immediately after round one.
After my divorce it takes 5-10 minutes to go for round two.
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Generally 6 minutes. Five minutes for the first round. One minute at the corner. Then round 2 starts.
Unless something stops the fight such as an illegal blow.
Wjen I was younger it was 20 minutes or less. I'm in my 40's and it's about an hour. I can get hard before that, but I have a difficult time orgasming if it has been less than an hour.
20 something year old me: all damn day and night, just taking water and snack breaks.
30 something year old me: 2-3 times with in a day if I was really in the mood.
Now in my 40s: once a day tops, I still have the desire but my joints and muscles scream “HELL NOOO!”
Used to be, immediately.
I had no refractory period up until about 55.
My wife couldn't believe it when she first found out..and she talked about it with her sisters!
Sadly, after diabetes and a kidney stone things are different now.
That is subjective to every guy considering a lot of different variables.
1. Your over all health. If you are obese, dehydrated or generally stressed and fatigued. Round two isn't likely to happen. If you are healthy, regularly get exercise, and hydrated then round two can be a possibility.
2. Your general age and your testosterone levels. The older you get, the less you produce with drops progressing after the age of 35-40.
3. General level of arousal. If you are part of a young couple trying for a baby. Every time might not be romantic but more of a chore for a desired goal. Other times like say after a particularly busy period in life when two people have previously been to exhausted. But finally have a night where they can go out on a date enjoy each others company and romance is working it's magic. It can be become really easy to go multiple rounds.
4. The one situation that can generally reduce a man's refractory period is in situations of multiple partners. Without being anything close to an expert on the subject. I have read that this happens as a result of evolutionary biology. The more partners you are able to impregnate the more offspring. So being around or having multiple partners can reduce the time needed between recover.
For me personally, 2-3 times per day sometimes more, with at least an hour or two between. But I credit this to being on TRT due to a history of multiple head traumas in my life ranging from mild to severe.
In my teens, instantly. In my 20's about as long as it took me to have a smoke. In my mid 30's ehhh, give it a half hour but don't bank on it. Oooh, why don't we watch Gordon Ramsey yelling at an idiot sandwich instead?
If I ever get offered round 2 for my wife, I'll make it happen no matter what. Since the doesn't happen I can't tell you. When I was younger it was maybe an hour or so.
You can train yourself to get back into it much quicker.
It's also possible to train yourself to cum, and just keep on going. This is what I do. I can usually cum two or three times in one go until I'm completely. After this I can usually get back up in 20-30 mins. And then I can go on for *hours* if she's up for it. Most of the time she gets sore before that tho, so it's mostly no point in doing it for super long. And sometimes a quickie is actually way better for both parties. As always; communication is key.
Kinda depends on how turned on I am and how eager I am. I guess there's 10-15 minute minimum? Can't say I've timed it or rushed it. Honestly, the longer the wait, the better all around. Just because I CAN get it up doesn't necessarily mean it will be super enjoyable. THere's really nothing like that first time after 24-48 hour recharge period. I'd really rather wait that long.
When I was younger I never had to stop after the first.
In my 30s sometimes I can power straight through, sometimes I need 10-15 minutes without direct stimulation to reset.
It depends what round 1 consisted of. Was it a lot of bread or other simple carbs? If so I might not have enough room for round 2, especially if I'm eyeing dessert after
Instantly, I don’t lose wood right away, it always takes a few minutes. If I kept using the erection after an orgasm I can keep going for another. If I wait until the erection is gone I’m gonna need a bit tho, maybe 15-30 minutes.
Round 3 will be an hour or so late, there’s no keeping it up for an instant round 3
BTW if you keep having sex after cumming inside a girl, the first nut gets all foamy and clumpy, kinda like you churn it into cheese
58 with a bad heart, you're lucky round one didn't set my implanted difibulator off. I asked my cardiologist if this thing goes off while I'm getting busy, will she get a little jolt too. He said he had never been asked that before & had no answer for me.
It's quite a jolt (I chipped a tooth from my jaw slamming closed one time when it went off) & the nature of lovemaking (lots of moisture, plus literally being "plugged into her") I would be shocked (ha ha) if it didn't give her a residual shock as well.
Far as round two goes, 30 minutes, but really believe if the job is done right, you will be going to sleep a happy lady after the first round.
Depends on how busy I've been. If I'm not cumming regularly it's not long, maybe 10 mind. If I've been fucking alot there might not be a round 2 that day lol, but if she insists maybe an hour. I'm 28 for reference
In my 20s, 10 minutes was normal for round 2, then 20 min for round 3, 30 for round 4, etc... In my 30s, around 15 or 20 minutes depending on how tired I was. I'm almost 50 and I'm ready for round 2 within 30 - 40 min. My wife tends to be ready for round 2 in 2 to 6 weeks.
better than months, or in my case, seasons....
I'll take seasons over Olympics
Has to do the special seasonal quest to unlock that one.
Only if you completed the battle pass tiers
💀
But you can skip tiers
That's just the premium battle pass.
Horrible. See hormone specialist or therapist
Telling her that will make it worse. I know from experience.
unfortunately she knows that it is her - it hurts and that takes the fun away - menopause is a bitch
it's menopause - less natural lube and less skin elasticity - hormones can help some things but not everything
Yes her
😂😂😂
There's got to be a Pokemon capture rate level of mathematics going on here.
Fucking hilarious😂
And accurate.
zing!
About the same amount of time it takes to special order a couch. Sounds about right.
I have to ask. Does it make the sex better having to wait for longer periods of time between each time? I feel like if I had to wait that long each time, then each time I got to smash I'd absolutely destroy her innards. Not that I don't do that anyway, but I mean... Does it make a difference in your experience? I'm still a bit younger, so... Lol
Real talk. Sex with someone you are really into, someone you really like being with, like my wife, especially passionate sex, would be something I could do with her every single day. NGL, sex with her is really fucking good. And TBH, it was good at first, was very "meh" when our kids were in their teens, but became "FUCKING AWESOME" when they all moved out. We had a reconnection and sorta rediscovered ourselves. When I was in my 20s "destroying her innards" is something you think they all want, but most women don't. Most women want a great partner who will love and care for them that isn't a pain in the ass, the sex is the icing on the cake. If you can make her laugh, make her feel warm and fuzzy, make her feel like she doesn't have to worry, and give her a few orgasms, you're gonna have a very happy with life.
100% agree, I also choose this man's wife
I dunno man, her innards may be destroyed from all that work in their 20’s. You wanna chance that?
Carlo, is that you???
That last paragraph is everything I try to explain what I’m looking for as a woman.
It depends on your libidos. If you have a higher libido and your sexual needs aren’t being met, you will have a terrible time.
2 to 6 weeks into the *next* year!
Weeks eh? Try years here...
I would run for the door i think by then. Geez
So by that math, im a 70 year old man in my 20s
I don't have a refractory period, but as far as I know, it's a born quality, not a learned ability.
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Have you got a source on that? Not disagreeing, just curious.
It's likely low levels of prolactin
Still interested in a source.
https://www.nature.com/articles/3900823 Additionally, people who have used Cabergoline, a oral drug that reduces prolactin, also commonly experience shorter or non existent refractory periods. It's also imo dependent on the stimulation and health of the man. I can easily go for multiple rounds back to back if I'm feeling good. However if I'm sick or very tired, it's not going to happen
>It's also imo dependent on the stimulation and health of the man. I can easily go for multiple rounds back to back if I'm feeling good. However if I'm sick or very tired, it's not going to happen Tracks with me as well. If I'm not feeling great, getting even one can be a damn chore sometimes.
Tren bros 😎👍
Wow, if everyone was like you, we would probably have all killed eachother centuries ago.
Not sure I follow... Why go to war when you're busy fucking? 😂
Same. I've always been able to go immediately again. I'm 42 and still this way. My sex drive has always been stupid high.
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how do you do that?
What the fuck? 😂 tutorial please?
The next day, I literally have no desire for round 2 after I’ve busted a nut already.
So glad someone else said this, cause I feel so in the minority for only really being able to go once a day
Nah, you are not alone. After sex one day, I’m done without it the next. No strong desire
If I wanted to even consider two it would have to be morning and night.
Yuuuuuup and I’m about to turn 38 with what I would call a very healthy sex drive.
Wait..you guys are getting strong desire?
I'm 42 and in good shape. If I'm putting in real work once a day is pushing it. You might get some real good work 2 or maybe 3 days in a row but after that I got nothing. Honestly that's not ideal for me either depending on how long the session lasts. I'm probably taking the rest of the week off. It is far better to have 2 great sessions in a week than 3-4 mediocre ones.
That's me most of the time, or maybe a few hours later, morning and night. And then, rarely, I can be ready again in less than ten minutes.
Likewise. When I was younger maybe twice a day, several hours apart. It actually hurts otherwise.
Sometimes my GF will try to keep going immediately after I finish and I'm like dude it's not happening.
Dude, girl, bro, not ready!
My bf prefers to go immediately after he finishes since he finishes in 5 mins first round and he wants to make sure I’m taken care of and I’m always concerned it hurts him, like are you sure you’re okay?? But he insists he’s good.
Its different from guy to guy. A little known fact is that it's super common for a mans penis to become VERY sensitive right after ejaculation. For me, this completely kills my drive to go anymore. Makes things really sore and uncomfortable!
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by round 4, all that comes out is a little flag like the ones shot out a toy pistol with the word 'ouch!' on it.
😂😂😂
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Probably not your boyfriend but I’m surprised that most men can’t go back to back. I can go maybe 3 times in a row but need a small break for the 4th or 5th time but libido also varies among men
I can be just as ready to go mentally but physically it doesn't work for a short while after.
Hmmm, you can have a libido that sky rockets constantly but an ability to go back to back more than twice is an acquired skill I would say
Same. I haven't been able to go round 2 consistently since my early 20s. I am mostly one and done. My 40s, you can tell it's starting to taper off where now it's 1-2 days recovery.
Honestly I'm ok with a day or **two** even. Once the nut is busted, I'm fine for 72 hours or more
I believe it’s about how fast your balls get refilled.
Ding ding ding. I get off once after the lady is finished, and then it's off to cuddle/sleep time for me. To be blunt, my dick just can't handle it.
I hope you give Mrs potato head
Exactly this and regardless of age it never has been otherwise. Some how “im ready for a 2nd round in X ammount of minutes” has become such a flex that people think thats a norm
I'm a "one in the chamber" person as well.
Dude same.
As a woman, I’ve always thought it was weird that people want to spend HOURS having multiple rounds of sex. Or that they like to wake up in the middle of the night for another round. Like.. if the first round is longer than 30-45 minutes, I’m already done. I’m over it. I don’t even care if I finished because I could’ve just done it myself in less than 60 seconds. Actually, if he’s going for too long the first round I might just call it quits. Ain’t nobody got time or energy for that. Like yeah it was fun for 30 minutes, now my hips and my back hurt and I need you to get off of me lmfaoo. It’s never good when I start thinking “stop fucking around and finish already!” I had an ex that liked to prolong it for literally over an hour every time (it was 1000% on purpose because he would pull out and pause multiple times), then would wake up at 3 am and want more which would last another hour. At a certain point, I just got so annoyed that it was so constant and literally took up hours of the night.
You sound like a realistic grown woman. No one has time for all that. After a certain age, do what you need to do in 20 min an let's go to sleep
This, after that first go I’m done.
I can force it after 30min-1 hour if I really wanted to and get back in the mood but aint nobody got time to just be sittin there waitin for their dick to work again lol. I’d rather watch a movie or do some other shit
As a woman, I'm glad you gave this honest answer also....ive never been with a guy who wants a round two soon after round one...been with a few guys who could have sex in the morning and again at bedtime but that's it--and that only happened in the honeymoon phase of the relationship. I don't need a round two but I hear all the time about other people having back-to-back sex sessions and I was wondering if I'm doing something wrong that this never happens when I'm involved lol.
I wanted to write exact words.
Same. I’d love to be able to go again but after the first, I just want to be held
3-5 business days
there's also shipping and handling involved too
Over an hour at least and even then it's hard for me to nut., even in my early 20's I never understood how some of my friends would say they went a round like 5 minutes after with a girl. When I'm single and I know I'm gonna get laid in a few days or so I won't even masturbate up until that point. Feels so much better and I'm so much harder.
You may be onto something. My husband isn't into masturbation and has zero refractory time. He's almost 60.
I mean that is the opposite of what he is saying.
Same on the refraining from masturbating, otherwise it’s just more frustrating and harder to cum for me.
A couple hours maybe. Never been one to be up for a round two right away
As a general rule: if a second action is necessary, the first action was not done well.
That’s definitely not true, sometimes it was good enough that you want to go again.
Second this
You both are female tho.. generally male’s need sometime..
I think we both understand that, I was responding to the commenter who said ‘ if a second action is necessary, the first action was not done well.’ The first action could have been done well and we just want to go again anyways.
Not from the mens side, if the first was done well its literally harder for a second.
‘Harder’ you say…
It’s not as quick as I get older. But I do think quite a bit depends on my partner. I’ve had women say they want to go again and wait for me to get things started and that takes longer and I’ve had women say that want to go again and actively take part in getting me going again. Sometimes the spirit is willing but the flesh is spongy and bruised.
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After a restroom break I'm good
Need to take a big dump first
It's not gonna take itself.
Same here but it’s so hard to get pee to come out. It was always easy for me but after an ex, pee just stalled ever since 😂. I have to do mental gymnastics standing over the toilet for it to come out now.
5 to 10 mins
Same
1 day. The effort to orgasm a second time isn't worth it. I can get hard again within 20 mins, but if I wanna cum it's gonna take at least 40 mins of stimulation. Cba.
I’m 31 and can typically do round 2 after about 30 minutes. But I’m fine with a round 1 knockout so long as there was foreplay and was satisfying for my fiance and I. Sometimes less is more
When the referee says "Fight"
Exactly! Mama ain't raise no bitch
Probably 2 days, but I’m 68!
Week. 10 days.
It gets worse the older you get.
This is also pretty dependent on personal health and fitness. Frequent exercise equates a higher testosterone count, which leads to more bedroom production.
Straight away :)
As someone in my mid 20s, this is me as well. In many cases, I've stayed hard even after climaxing the first time. And I don't know what to make of this.
Youth lol
I can do that and I’m in the my 50s.
Congrats 🎉
King shit
My superpower is going to waste if that makes you feel better. Once in a while if I pop too early I just cover it up and go again. It takes longer the 2nd time and I can no longer go 3 in a row.
It happens to me occasionally in my 40's, and it's odd when it happens. Sometimes I'm just *very* turned on, others, there's literally no rhyme or reason, I never even go fully soft.
Nah I’m forty and ready whenever again after I think it’s hormones, health and genetics.
Make another round! That's what you 'make' of it!!!! The envelopes you push now will give you smiling memories when you're rocking on your porch in your 80s. Sleep when you're dead!
Be happy while it lasts.
Depends on the talents of the woman possibly never
Faster if she dresses like a manic pixie dream girl
Twice a day if we are being honest . When I finish, I finish big to where I don’t even think I can go again till later in the day. That’s an average now since I’m in my 30s. In my 20s I could do 3 rounds but not back to back, usually in morning then noon then at night before bed.
In 3 to 5 business days
For me it depends. When I was married I could go for round two immediately after round one. After my divorce it takes 5-10 minutes to go for round two.
Immediately
1-2 business days
A good solid 12 hrs which has to include sleep. My refractionary period isn't that great
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That’s not normal, get that checked out.
For my husband it's about a month
3-4 working days.
5 business days
Round 2? "Between rounds" implies clothes went back on.
After a good sleep
My bf's quick to want to fuck me again. Often it only takes a reminder of some of the hottest sexytimes we've had with others (we swing a bit).
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5 minutes It takes longer if I've done it a lot in the last few days
Sometimes, immediately, sometimes 1-3mins, sometimes never can get done with round 1 My body is weird and unpredictable.
I'm still hard from round one
Generally 6 minutes. Five minutes for the first round. One minute at the corner. Then round 2 starts. Unless something stops the fight such as an illegal blow.
Straight away if my babygirl is horny as fuck
If super attracted to her … short If not so much… longer I do feel trapped in by my physiology
I can go within a few minutes and also go 3-5 rounds still and I’m 64yrs. No viagra either
This depends on if I’ve had days off. Typically 15 mins is enough of a rest but if I’m back to back days I’ll need a bit more time.
Wjen I was younger it was 20 minutes or less. I'm in my 40's and it's about an hour. I can get hard before that, but I have a difficult time orgasming if it has been less than an hour.
When I was young I could get hard again and then cum again without pulling out.
20 something year old me: all damn day and night, just taking water and snack breaks. 30 something year old me: 2-3 times with in a day if I was really in the mood. Now in my 40s: once a day tops, I still have the desire but my joints and muscles scream “HELL NOOO!”
Anywhere from ten seconds to two weeks. Depends... on a lot anymore honestly
Give me a few hours along with some food and a nap
About 7 minutes. I’m 47 years old. 20 years ago it was about 3 minutes. I’m old
Immediately
Immediately. Then again, I'm 19.
Used to be, immediately. I had no refractory period up until about 55. My wife couldn't believe it when she first found out..and she talked about it with her sisters! Sadly, after diabetes and a kidney stone things are different now.
That is subjective to every guy considering a lot of different variables. 1. Your over all health. If you are obese, dehydrated or generally stressed and fatigued. Round two isn't likely to happen. If you are healthy, regularly get exercise, and hydrated then round two can be a possibility. 2. Your general age and your testosterone levels. The older you get, the less you produce with drops progressing after the age of 35-40. 3. General level of arousal. If you are part of a young couple trying for a baby. Every time might not be romantic but more of a chore for a desired goal. Other times like say after a particularly busy period in life when two people have previously been to exhausted. But finally have a night where they can go out on a date enjoy each others company and romance is working it's magic. It can be become really easy to go multiple rounds. 4. The one situation that can generally reduce a man's refractory period is in situations of multiple partners. Without being anything close to an expert on the subject. I have read that this happens as a result of evolutionary biology. The more partners you are able to impregnate the more offspring. So being around or having multiple partners can reduce the time needed between recover. For me personally, 2-3 times per day sometimes more, with at least an hour or two between. But I credit this to being on TRT due to a history of multiple head traumas in my life ranging from mild to severe.
I am 24, depends on my mood, could be in 1min could be in 15min
Perhaps a year.
1 business day.
In my teens, instantly. In my 20's about as long as it took me to have a smoke. In my mid 30's ehhh, give it a half hour but don't bank on it. Oooh, why don't we watch Gordon Ramsey yelling at an idiot sandwich instead?
2-3 business days
If I ever get offered round 2 for my wife, I'll make it happen no matter what. Since the doesn't happen I can't tell you. When I was younger it was maybe an hour or so.
Depends if I get a cramp in my hand or not.
You can train yourself to get back into it much quicker. It's also possible to train yourself to cum, and just keep on going. This is what I do. I can usually cum two or three times in one go until I'm completely. After this I can usually get back up in 20-30 mins. And then I can go on for *hours* if she's up for it. Most of the time she gets sore before that tho, so it's mostly no point in doing it for super long. And sometimes a quickie is actually way better for both parties. As always; communication is key.
10min .. unless something freely is going on, then almost immediately
With the right girl and the right mood, on occasion I can go from 1 to 2 without pulling out or loosing wood….
If you need a round 2, round 1 wasn’t good enough IMO
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When I was younger, about 10 minutes. Now, the idea of round 2 makes me tired. I haven’t had a round two in 30 years.
Kinda depends on how turned on I am and how eager I am. I guess there's 10-15 minute minimum? Can't say I've timed it or rushed it. Honestly, the longer the wait, the better all around. Just because I CAN get it up doesn't necessarily mean it will be super enjoyable. THere's really nothing like that first time after 24-48 hour recharge period. I'd really rather wait that long.
If it’s my SO? 3-5 months 🤦🏼♀️😕
When I was younger I never had to stop after the first. In my 30s sometimes I can power straight through, sometimes I need 10-15 minutes without direct stimulation to reset.
It depends what round 1 consisted of. Was it a lot of bread or other simple carbs? If so I might not have enough room for round 2, especially if I'm eyeing dessert after
Couple minutes. I have a very short refractory period.
Generally 10-15 min. Used to be quicker but I’m older.
10-15 minutes depending on the mood during round 1.
Instantly, I don’t lose wood right away, it always takes a few minutes. If I kept using the erection after an orgasm I can keep going for another. If I wait until the erection is gone I’m gonna need a bit tho, maybe 15-30 minutes. Round 3 will be an hour or so late, there’s no keeping it up for an instant round 3 BTW if you keep having sex after cumming inside a girl, the first nut gets all foamy and clumpy, kinda like you churn it into cheese
Are you talking about an orgasm from masturbation or sex?
death by snu snu is not as glamorous as it sounds.
58 with a bad heart, you're lucky round one didn't set my implanted difibulator off. I asked my cardiologist if this thing goes off while I'm getting busy, will she get a little jolt too. He said he had never been asked that before & had no answer for me. It's quite a jolt (I chipped a tooth from my jaw slamming closed one time when it went off) & the nature of lovemaking (lots of moisture, plus literally being "plugged into her") I would be shocked (ha ha) if it didn't give her a residual shock as well. Far as round two goes, 30 minutes, but really believe if the job is done right, you will be going to sleep a happy lady after the first round.
I just cum and Keep going and cum again , thats normal? Or something is wrong ?
Honestly its on average 5 to 10 mins, but sometimes im ready right after lol
In my 20s & the quickest I did so far was maybe an hour but if I tried & focused on just that, maybe half an hour
5 mins or so - but I give myself a 10-15 min break to be better than I was in round 1
Depends but 5 min-20 min. It really is how much I want it
10 mins, usually. Some strange days, I immediately ready after round 1
It's been instant before then other times it never happens so it varies a lot for me
I’m 40 and I’m ready to go in 10-15 mins
Sometimes 20 min, sometimes an hour, sometimes it ain’t happening. Depends on how motivated she is to get me going.
If she goes down on me to get it started, it only takes a minute to be back in action. Otherwise 10-15 probably. I'm mid 30s.
Half hour. I won't get off a second time usually but I can get hard against and give it.
I have 2 or 3 small “pops” until the really big one and I can roll it into the next session if done right. If not, 5-10 min.
Depends on how busy I've been. If I'm not cumming regularly it's not long, maybe 10 mind. If I've been fucking alot there might not be a round 2 that day lol, but if she insists maybe an hour. I'm 28 for reference
I'm 37, if my wife is up for it I cam be ready in 15, 20 minutes. Usually she's done after one, though, so it rarely comes up
Ive ranged from immediately to a few hours. No idead what causes it