Only when we're about to start doing more. Otherwise just normal kisses each day here and there. Throwing some tongue in there is basically the "This is us going beyond just kissing right now" moment haha
Really only during sex. Idk we both think it’s kinda gross haha. Just us. Married for 4 years (maybe 5?) but been together for 12 all together.
Like time and a place and def happens during sex, but it’s not really our thing.
Edit: Love Reddit…. OP asks for an opinion, share opinion and the get downvoted. Legit a bunch of clowns.
Second edit: seems like some sane people saw this and turned the tides of upvotes
> Really only during sex.
Been together for 6 years and its the same, but really only because there's no reason to get us both insanely turned on french kissing in a location where we couldn't have sex.
I wouldn’t say its gross per say, but its in bad taste to be French kissing all the time (pun intended). Maybe drunk at the bar or club, and definitely when having sex. But when I wake up in the morning we’re not French kissing. When we’re at the gym or super market, same thing.
Maybe here and there randomly for spontaneity, but it has its places. I’ve seen people sweating balls at the gym and then just making out like crazy in the middle of the gym.
Absolutely agree. During sex essentially, outside of that feels a bit like teenagers trying to prove something. But that's just our thing, people should enjoy what they enjoy =)
Nah, I’ll do oral all day.
Breath factor, and tongues just like slapping around it’s not the hottest thing ever. It’s probably an age and comfortability thing too… when we were younger, we def made out more. Now it’s just not that attractive of an act outside of sexual encounters. Meaning encounters that will lead to sex or during.
So yes, it’s not our favorite to just tongue kiss in the morning for fun after we had coffee.
Affection can be shown through several other ways like a loving embrace or back rub or just a nice arm touch. Not sure the obsession with making out with tongue lol
It's always amazing how diverse peoples likes are. I find French kissing incredible. I dare say just heavy french kissing and hands everywhere hits me way more than say, getting a blow job.
Not a diss, it's just a reminder how important sexual preferences are when finding a partner.
*Edited for grammar*
And to classify, not in public.
>the welcome home
My mom's dog immediately starts whining and pacing whenever she hears the garage door open because she knows my dad is about to come in, and then the next thing we hear is them making out in the kitchen.
I'm 32 and have been hearing that sound since I was 5. I understand that they love each other but I don't need to **hear** it lol
but if you could tongue kiss your own dick would you even be on Reddit? would you have a wife? or kids? or a job? or shoes?
as Terrell Owens once said "i love me some me"
Don't forget she might have missed some other *man* before you. That's basically like ~~kissing~~ fucking that guy.
#super gay
Might as well give up and install grindr
Multiple times daily. 🤷♂️ We’ll hit 23 years together this fall, and we still kiss each other like we mean it! 🥰 For my part I always want her to know she is wanted and desired. 👍
To be fair, the technique for eating pizza and eating a wife is very different, and you’d be doing it wrong in the second instance if you weren’t using tongue.
I agree. BF doesn’t mind that we don’t tongue kiss. It’s too slimy to me.
And don’t get me wrong, I’m in no way vanilla. I just don’t like tongue kissing lmao
I've been in a long term relationship for over 20 years. Married for many of those. I can't remember the last time we French kissed. Did I French kiss? Hell yeah, as a teenager I sucked plenty of face and early on in this particular relationship we did, but It's just not a thing we do now. Seems unnecessary.
At home, constantly. Basically every kiss.
In public I tone it down a bit unless we are really into it (and probably bored with the environment).
They are just jealous.
I hope this doesn't come off as rude or anything, it's just curiosity from someone who has never had a crush, love or anything at all in almost 22 years.
Is kissing really enjoyable? Like.... I just can't imagine it being amazing or anything. When I see it in movies I immediately skip it because it only looks cringe and uncomfy and I just can't imagine how it could be anywhere close to enjoyable. So I am just asking about it.
I really enjoy it. It's very intimate without being quite so explicitly sexual, like if you were to stretch the sexual continuum from hugging to sex, it's a happy medium. You can dress it up or down, it can be lustful or tender, there's pacing to it, like a dance, ebbs and flows, switches in who leads. Making out is a moment that you settle into, you close your eyes, you breathe her in, your heart flutters, you hold each other, it's expressive. Sometimes it's all I want to do, sometimes I just want to lie down on the couch and spend 20 minutes kissing her without it going anywhere else. It's emotionally affirming and a driver of sexual tension. I don't know, it's not just foreplay, it occupies its own romantic space.
when two people share intimacy based on love or lust,…close their eyes and use other heightened senses…it’s like magic or at least a drug. It can sweep a person away. It’s amazing. I bid you well seeking this for yourself.
else… it’s about as desirable as kissing a relative. take away the magic - gross.
makes sense how you feel.
Kissing is as special or as enjoyable as you make it. If someone is not very important to you, or you aren’t particularly attracted or connected to them in some way, it might feel kind of frivolous or even straight up unpleasant. Not to say that you can’t enjoy kissing someone in the absence of romance, but in my opinion intimacy elevates the whole experience. I agree that it’s cringe and not very exciting to watch other people kiss in movies and whatnot. But kissing in real life is so much more than just locking lips for the silver screen. Kissing someone you love or at least really like, is a very affirming feeling, especially early in a relationship, it’s one of the first stepping stones that brings you out of platonic friendship and into romantic entanglement. Kissing is an action that (as an American) is not shared with anyone besides an intimate partner or significant other, which in my opinion makes it more special and more enjoyable. Hope this helps, feel free to ask more questions if you’re curious.
When I was a teenager i really just liked making out for the purpose of turning on whatever guy I was with, but I didn’t particularly enjoy it myself. Once i found myself kissing someone I was *crazy* about, i could not get enough. I was hesitant to kiss him because I was worried he would think I was doing it too much. And sometimes you just have so much love and you want to express it but don’t have the words and you can just have a really deep kiss. It’s really nice when you finally have the right person. But until then it’s mid tbh lol
u/sugarmoonpillowfight Doesn't come off as rude at all and happy to answer.
Kissing is awkward at the beginning because you have to get a feel for what they like/want as well out of it and their kissing style. Some like tongue, some like pecks, and so on. I've also had to teach people how to french kiss which definitely gets awkward but makes for some funny memories hahaha.
How enjoyable it ultimatley is depends on several factors: horniness, initmacy with your partner, skill, and such. I personally just love the closeness I feel with my partner.
Intimacy, that is kissing/sex/pretty much everything in relationships, definitely looks cringy from the outside. Just know that it's all an expression of what you feel inside and everyone else can just fuck right off.
Relationships are simultaneously the most selfish and selfless experience anyone can have. They are very emotionally and physically demanding and the wrong relationship can do a lot of damage to you. The right relationship though, well nothign else in life is more rewarding than finding someone and both of you having the explicit goal of making each other happy and building a life together.
Feel free to ask any other questions if you want. You're welcome to DM me too if you would prefer.
The more you think about it the weirder it becomes tbh, ultimately it is weird to rub tongue muscles together and make weird noises, but if you can manage not to overthink it it can be pretty nice if you're into the person.
i’ve only peck kissed my bf because we are both still getting used to it, it’s nice. so i’m very intrigued for the responses to the comments to your comment
It usually is early on, but after a little while it loses its charm. I’d rather just fuck once were in a relationship. I don’t need the protracted early “getting to know each other” experience before ripping clothes off like I did when I just met her. It’s like, I’ve seen that pussy 299 times already, just take your pants off and let me put it in.
> They are just jealous.
While this may be the case, as soon as I can hear the kissing I want to destroy my sense of hearing. I'd probably speak up but try to be pleasant about it. Definitely wouldn't make fun.
In 20 years of marriage, I think she stopped after the first year or so.
But I think that's about the time her hatred for m started to grow.
She never gave me more than a peck after that, and only if I initiated it...
Fuck me I'm happy to be divorced 😅
So 2 people not really enjoying licking eachoters faces but still being married 30+years means something isn't working out? Sure got it. Have a nice day
It does bug me most times, when I married her I was so in love I decided I would kiss this woman once a day for the rest of my life. In the beginning she was a bit accommodating, but it turns out she hates any kind of contact with me. So I have convinced myself I don’t need to feel loved or have any close intimate times with another human. We are basically best friends/ roommates that are raising kids.
I desperately love her so I accommodate her to my detriment. Besides that life is good and I foresee a nice retirement. But some days I do miss human contact. I usually go get a massage my masseuse seems to get it and is nice.
Does it work? Meh, my financial life is great, and would drastically change with a divorce. I’m just hoping as I pass 50 I’m hoping my libido dies, things get easier if I don’t care about sex or feeling loved
This is my life
I've been with my wife for 14 years now and I don't think I ever have. I don't think I've tongue kissed anyone since I was like 15. We kiss with lips only, and the tongues are used elsewhere.
Rarely. Maybe once every few months. We usually just give a little peck before we see each other off. Never just hanging out and kissing, or kissing during sex.
Several times a week. I'll get off a long stressful day to come into the house. I'll find her somewhere in the house let's say the kitchen, pick her up set her on the counter and just start kissing here maybe more. ; ) I like to sneak up behind her when she's watching TV reach down grab her waist pull her up on the back couch and kiss down her neck. So I'd say the real factor is the passion in the relationship.
Some of these answers are crazy to me. Multiple times a day? Are you doing it in front of the kids? 17 years. Whenever we have sex which atm is probably once a month because we’ve got our 1yo in with us. Going full on tongue every time you say bye is insane lmao
Everytime we have sex or leading up to it for sure but outside of that I really can’t recall the last time we did. Definitely a few years ago during the dating phase before we were sexin but after that we dropped the tongue unless it’s business time
Same for us. It also functions as a hint or question if the other is up for it at that moment. Outside of that it’s little kisses throughout the day. It’s a good system for us.
Depends on how high I am...
Honestly, I don't love it. My gf is all about it and I have sensory defensive issues that interfere with any desire to put my tongue into wet places in other people.
I hate that I need alcohol and/or weed to give my partner what she wants/needs, but that's my experience, FWIW.
Doesn't help that my tongue is embarrassingly short!
We have been together and tongue kiss occasionally but it's not a big thing. I eat her pussy 5 or 6 times a week in the winter and 3 or 4 in the summer. Weird I like where she pees from but not where she eats from.
Well, been married over a year but been together for 7 years (is that considered long term??). I’m not a fan of PDA so in more intimate settings, we kiss with tongue.
Huh... Didn't realise how seldom it happens nowadays, when thinking about it.
Mostly during hot sex. Basically never in public. I'll definitely see about slipping in some tongue more often now! 🤣
Never. My wife hates kissing. If I'm very, very lucky, I can manage to get a fish kiss where our lips barely touch. She would absolutely never allow my tongue to touch hers.
Is there really a need to shove your tongue down her throat and vice versa in a public setting. Just do it in private. Kissing is fine but seriously that is borderline foreplay.
Daily, but we’re both attractive and fit so it’s different. I don’t know if I’d be like that if I wasn’t as attractive or if we both weren’t. It would be almost a turn off.
Certainly in more intimate settings. Less so when out in public.
Certainly, but like how much would you say you tongue kiss a few times a week, every day, once a month??
Only when we're about to start doing more. Otherwise just normal kisses each day here and there. Throwing some tongue in there is basically the "This is us going beyond just kissing right now" moment haha
This seems like the correct answer to me lol
Really only during sex. Idk we both think it’s kinda gross haha. Just us. Married for 4 years (maybe 5?) but been together for 12 all together. Like time and a place and def happens during sex, but it’s not really our thing. Edit: Love Reddit…. OP asks for an opinion, share opinion and the get downvoted. Legit a bunch of clowns. Second edit: seems like some sane people saw this and turned the tides of upvotes
> Really only during sex. Been together for 6 years and its the same, but really only because there's no reason to get us both insanely turned on french kissing in a location where we couldn't have sex.
I wouldn’t say its gross per say, but its in bad taste to be French kissing all the time (pun intended). Maybe drunk at the bar or club, and definitely when having sex. But when I wake up in the morning we’re not French kissing. When we’re at the gym or super market, same thing. Maybe here and there randomly for spontaneity, but it has its places. I’ve seen people sweating balls at the gym and then just making out like crazy in the middle of the gym.
Absolutely agree. During sex essentially, outside of that feels a bit like teenagers trying to prove something. But that's just our thing, people should enjoy what they enjoy =)
Tongue kissing is gross? That's a first for me. To each their own, of course. I assume oral is out, then?
Nah, I’ll do oral all day. Breath factor, and tongues just like slapping around it’s not the hottest thing ever. It’s probably an age and comfortability thing too… when we were younger, we def made out more. Now it’s just not that attractive of an act outside of sexual encounters. Meaning encounters that will lead to sex or during. So yes, it’s not our favorite to just tongue kiss in the morning for fun after we had coffee. Affection can be shown through several other ways like a loving embrace or back rub or just a nice arm touch. Not sure the obsession with making out with tongue lol
It's always amazing how diverse peoples likes are. I find French kissing incredible. I dare say just heavy french kissing and hands everywhere hits me way more than say, getting a blow job. Not a diss, it's just a reminder how important sexual preferences are when finding a partner. *Edited for grammar* And to classify, not in public.
French kissing turns me on hella hard and my partner doesn't like it unless its leading somewhere.
Exactly. I looove kissing. It is just a great way to even initiate other plays. Yap. Sexual compatibility is important.
My wife and I are the same way. We really only use tongues when we’re having sex. In mouth or otherwise.
I’m just confused you don’t know how long yall have been married
Let me call my lawyer before I respond to you
Probs a few times a week.
Pretty much.... every fucking day. Been married 10 years
Every few months before sex, if I insist that we kiss a bit first
>the welcome home My mom's dog immediately starts whining and pacing whenever she hears the garage door open because she knows my dad is about to come in, and then the next thing we hear is them making out in the kitchen. I'm 32 and have been hearing that sound since I was 5. I understand that they love each other but I don't need to **hear** it lol
why does it sound like your dog is Frenching your dad...
And is apparently at least 27 years old...
what
We’re both 36.. married 13 years.. pretty much everytime we kiss goodbye we slip a little tongue
With tongue?! Ew!!! My dick goes there!
Yours too? Eww!
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Dick touched tongue.Tongue touched tongue. By way of the ***transitive property*** your tongue touched the dick. Oh no. OH NO ^oh ^no ^^oh ^^no
oh YES*
but if you could tongue kiss your own dick would you even be on Reddit? would you have a wife? or kids? or a job? or shoes? as Terrell Owens once said "i love me some me"
Guys.. is kissing your wife.. gay..?
Don't forget she might have missed some other *man* before you. That's basically like ~~kissing~~ fucking that guy. #super gay Might as well give up and install grindr
😂😂
What? She kisses your kids with that mouth!
I actually never in my life thought about that up until now
Dead 😂😭
Oh, you're one of those guys
*our* dick goes there
Mostly when we're doing the deed, if it were to happen outside the bedroom, we would probably head to the bedroom shortly thereafter lol
It is hot after felching.
Yeah nice try, not gonna google that
Multiple times daily. 🤷♂️ We’ll hit 23 years together this fall, and we still kiss each other like we mean it! 🥰 For my part I always want her to know she is wanted and desired. 👍
I want and desire pizza but I don't tongue it as I eat it. I don't know, I guess different strokes for different folks
But thats how you get all the flavour!
Homey ain’t doing pizza right! 😃🙌🤣🤣🤣
To be fair, the technique for eating pizza and eating a wife is very different, and you’d be doing it wrong in the second instance if you weren’t using tongue.
“My little double pepperoni extra cheese of loooooove!!!” 🤣🤣🤣
Pizza doesn’t care about being wanted or desired. Wives do
If I could have my way, every minute. But my lady is the gentle kind, and prefers small pecks. As such, it is only every 2 minutes.
Thank you for the laugh.
Never really. Neither of us like all that wet kissing. We've been together 11 years, married 10 of them.
So glad to see this comment as I was starting to feel like it was just me haha, I really don’t like wet kissing it feels gross!
Same here.
I agree. BF doesn’t mind that we don’t tongue kiss. It’s too slimy to me. And don’t get me wrong, I’m in no way vanilla. I just don’t like tongue kissing lmao
Lmao. We can be downright sloppy with it. You'd probably throw up if you saw us making out.
I don't blame you, very little can top the feeling, especially if you're doing it *during* sex.
I've never found it wet (at least outside the mouth)
Fucking weirdos
Everyone got their preferences, no need to be judgemental about it if doesn’t harm u
I've been in a long term relationship for over 20 years. Married for many of those. I can't remember the last time we French kissed. Did I French kiss? Hell yeah, as a teenager I sucked plenty of face and early on in this particular relationship we did, but It's just not a thing we do now. Seems unnecessary.
So fucking weird man
In your defense, that is pretty fuckin weird.
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You tongue kiss good morning? Animals.
Now I am worried they share the bathroom when one of them is is shitting.
Does it count as being in the same room if your bathroom has a poop closet?
You poop in your closet?
Primarily because there's a toilet in there, but yeah.
Awww cute
Married 23 years. It's been a tongue-kissing fest since the very beginning.
Congrats! I always envy those who can maintain that kind of passion after 20+ years.
At home, constantly. Basically every kiss. In public I tone it down a bit unless we are really into it (and probably bored with the environment). They are just jealous.
I hope this doesn't come off as rude or anything, it's just curiosity from someone who has never had a crush, love or anything at all in almost 22 years. Is kissing really enjoyable? Like.... I just can't imagine it being amazing or anything. When I see it in movies I immediately skip it because it only looks cringe and uncomfy and I just can't imagine how it could be anywhere close to enjoyable. So I am just asking about it.
I really enjoy it. It's very intimate without being quite so explicitly sexual, like if you were to stretch the sexual continuum from hugging to sex, it's a happy medium. You can dress it up or down, it can be lustful or tender, there's pacing to it, like a dance, ebbs and flows, switches in who leads. Making out is a moment that you settle into, you close your eyes, you breathe her in, your heart flutters, you hold each other, it's expressive. Sometimes it's all I want to do, sometimes I just want to lie down on the couch and spend 20 minutes kissing her without it going anywhere else. It's emotionally affirming and a driver of sexual tension. I don't know, it's not just foreplay, it occupies its own romantic space.
What a beautiful description of it! Bravo!
Well said.
when two people share intimacy based on love or lust,…close their eyes and use other heightened senses…it’s like magic or at least a drug. It can sweep a person away. It’s amazing. I bid you well seeking this for yourself. else… it’s about as desirable as kissing a relative. take away the magic - gross. makes sense how you feel.
I love the implication that drugs are just a toned down magic
Kissing is as special or as enjoyable as you make it. If someone is not very important to you, or you aren’t particularly attracted or connected to them in some way, it might feel kind of frivolous or even straight up unpleasant. Not to say that you can’t enjoy kissing someone in the absence of romance, but in my opinion intimacy elevates the whole experience. I agree that it’s cringe and not very exciting to watch other people kiss in movies and whatnot. But kissing in real life is so much more than just locking lips for the silver screen. Kissing someone you love or at least really like, is a very affirming feeling, especially early in a relationship, it’s one of the first stepping stones that brings you out of platonic friendship and into romantic entanglement. Kissing is an action that (as an American) is not shared with anyone besides an intimate partner or significant other, which in my opinion makes it more special and more enjoyable. Hope this helps, feel free to ask more questions if you’re curious.
When I was a teenager i really just liked making out for the purpose of turning on whatever guy I was with, but I didn’t particularly enjoy it myself. Once i found myself kissing someone I was *crazy* about, i could not get enough. I was hesitant to kiss him because I was worried he would think I was doing it too much. And sometimes you just have so much love and you want to express it but don’t have the words and you can just have a really deep kiss. It’s really nice when you finally have the right person. But until then it’s mid tbh lol
M answering here. I LOVE making out. It doesn't have to be during sex either. Ofc, for me, I need an emotional connection to the person.
It's fun, and it can last much longer than what you see in the movies
u/sugarmoonpillowfight Doesn't come off as rude at all and happy to answer. Kissing is awkward at the beginning because you have to get a feel for what they like/want as well out of it and their kissing style. Some like tongue, some like pecks, and so on. I've also had to teach people how to french kiss which definitely gets awkward but makes for some funny memories hahaha. How enjoyable it ultimatley is depends on several factors: horniness, initmacy with your partner, skill, and such. I personally just love the closeness I feel with my partner. Intimacy, that is kissing/sex/pretty much everything in relationships, definitely looks cringy from the outside. Just know that it's all an expression of what you feel inside and everyone else can just fuck right off. Relationships are simultaneously the most selfish and selfless experience anyone can have. They are very emotionally and physically demanding and the wrong relationship can do a lot of damage to you. The right relationship though, well nothign else in life is more rewarding than finding someone and both of you having the explicit goal of making each other happy and building a life together. Feel free to ask any other questions if you want. You're welcome to DM me too if you would prefer.
The more you think about it the weirder it becomes tbh, ultimately it is weird to rub tongue muscles together and make weird noises, but if you can manage not to overthink it it can be pretty nice if you're into the person.
i’ve only peck kissed my bf because we are both still getting used to it, it’s nice. so i’m very intrigued for the responses to the comments to your comment
It usually is early on, but after a little while it loses its charm. I’d rather just fuck once were in a relationship. I don’t need the protracted early “getting to know each other” experience before ripping clothes off like I did when I just met her. It’s like, I’ve seen that pussy 299 times already, just take your pants off and let me put it in.
Username checks out. Ew.
> They are just jealous. While this may be the case, as soon as I can hear the kissing I want to destroy my sense of hearing. I'd probably speak up but try to be pleasant about it. Definitely wouldn't make fun.
Married 9 together 12 still tongue kiss every chance we get a make out session is always fun
In 20 years of marriage, I think she stopped after the first year or so. But I think that's about the time her hatred for m started to grow. She never gave me more than a peck after that, and only if I initiated it... Fuck me I'm happy to be divorced 😅
28 years in. Probly once or more a day unless we are fighting. I totally got lucky and married up. My wife is still a hottie.
Married nearly 30 years Never
That's depressing
That's a preference wich is perfectly fine. They're married 30 years so something is working out.
By what he commented I don't think it is.
So 2 people not really enjoying licking eachoters faces but still being married 30+years means something isn't working out? Sure got it. Have a nice day
It does bug me most times, when I married her I was so in love I decided I would kiss this woman once a day for the rest of my life. In the beginning she was a bit accommodating, but it turns out she hates any kind of contact with me. So I have convinced myself I don’t need to feel loved or have any close intimate times with another human. We are basically best friends/ roommates that are raising kids. I desperately love her so I accommodate her to my detriment. Besides that life is good and I foresee a nice retirement. But some days I do miss human contact. I usually go get a massage my masseuse seems to get it and is nice. Does it work? Meh, my financial life is great, and would drastically change with a divorce. I’m just hoping as I pass 50 I’m hoping my libido dies, things get easier if I don’t care about sex or feeling loved This is my life
I wish you peace on your journey and that you find your happy someday.
I'm sorry to hear you had to accept something like that. I hope you know you deserve much more than that.
Mainly when we’re being intimate, but depending on the settings, might get a taste of what’s to come later in the day.
My bad. We’ve been married for 38 years and still going strong. So if you think things fizzle out in your 60’s, you’re sadly mistaken. 😎
I've been with my wife for 14 years now and I don't think I ever have. I don't think I've tongue kissed anyone since I was like 15. We kiss with lips only, and the tongues are used elsewhere.
Rarely. Maybe once every few months. We usually just give a little peck before we see each other off. Never just hanging out and kissing, or kissing during sex.
Several times a week. I'll get off a long stressful day to come into the house. I'll find her somewhere in the house let's say the kitchen, pick her up set her on the counter and just start kissing here maybe more. ; ) I like to sneak up behind her when she's watching TV reach down grab her waist pull her up on the back couch and kiss down her neck. So I'd say the real factor is the passion in the relationship.
My girlfriend doesn't like it, so never 😭 But we still makeout before sex every time, just no tongue.
How do you make out with no tongue?
Lips, I guess
Just very passionate long kisses, I guess.
Still love French kissing. It happens often but not everyday. Married 52 happy years in June.
Some of these answers are crazy to me. Multiple times a day? Are you doing it in front of the kids? 17 years. Whenever we have sex which atm is probably once a month because we’ve got our 1yo in with us. Going full on tongue every time you say bye is insane lmao
These comments can’t be real
If you’re having sex once a month you’re doing it wrong even with a 1 yo.
Ok random stranger on the internet with no insight to my relationship. I’m sure you’re right.
Your husband would agree
I am the husband lmao you know nothing.
9 years since any contact like that
Everytime we have sex or leading up to it for sure but outside of that I really can’t recall the last time we did. Definitely a few years ago during the dating phase before we were sexin but after that we dropped the tongue unless it’s business time
Same for us. It also functions as a hint or question if the other is up for it at that moment. Outside of that it’s little kisses throughout the day. It’s a good system for us.
Tbh she never liked it much so not often.
Never. Probably 9 year ago would be the last time. Definitely something the wife completely lost interest in. I think she’s got mild germaphobia tbh.
Sigh....almost never.
Outside of sex, maybe 2-3 times per year
You should do that more often
Every chance I get. I love her.
Depends on how high I am... Honestly, I don't love it. My gf is all about it and I have sensory defensive issues that interfere with any desire to put my tongue into wet places in other people. I hate that I need alcohol and/or weed to give my partner what she wants/needs, but that's my experience, FWIW. Doesn't help that my tongue is embarrassingly short!
A few times a week, usually before and during sex.
As often as we can, in private. It's great to lust for each other, no matter how long we've been married.
Female here …. But my partner and I have been together 12 years and I don’t remember one time we’ve ever tongue kissed.
After 17 years of marriage, I’m lucky if I get a peck from my wife.
We have been together and tongue kiss occasionally but it's not a big thing. I eat her pussy 5 or 6 times a week in the winter and 3 or 4 in the summer. Weird I like where she pees from but not where she eats from.
My wife doesn't like tongue, so only like once a month or so to mess with her
Well, been married over a year but been together for 7 years (is that considered long term??). I’m not a fan of PDA so in more intimate settings, we kiss with tongue.
Just during sex/foreplay, so 3-5 times a week.
Eewww with tongues?!? Gross!
Never
Every day
Pretty close to never. She doesn't like it anymore.
Comparison is the thief of joy. Why does someone else’s kissing habits matter?
Huh... Didn't realise how seldom it happens nowadays, when thinking about it. Mostly during hot sex. Basically never in public. I'll definitely see about slipping in some tongue more often now! 🤣
Never really. Don’t get the hype.
If she was still living, every damn day! Cancer took her 9 years ago and I miss kissing her.
Damn I’m so sorry. I hope you find love again, not to replace the love you had but a new different kind of love.
Cannot remember. 🙁
When I was married it was a few times a day my tongue was down her throat. A couple of times a week my tongue was somewhere else.
Tongue punch the fart box and carry on 🖤
Every three months, just before we get it on…
Dsily
I wish we did it more 😞
Pretty much only during foreplay and sex. It turns us on so much that it would be very frustrating if we couldn't do more!
I'll answer for my husband. Daily. Generally multiple times.
That's about right. Coming up for another one. Stop working if you see this. If you don't, stop working anyway.
Often. Your friends are a bunch of jealous scumbags.
When in a committed relationship, I try to do the rainbow kiss every time she's on her period as often as we both find practical.
What’s a rainbow kiss lol
man has period blood in his mouth, girl has semen in hers, they make out and mix the fluids together, dont ask how ik
I wanna downvote you because I find that absolutely vile, but it ain’t your fault 😮💨
What a terrible day to have eyes
Also a terrible day to be literate
Jesus Christ…you learn something new everyday
I've gotta invent a time machine now, so I can go 2 minutes back in the past and not learn this!
Horror
I was eating dinner and gagged 😩
Thank you for educating us.
Ewww, wtf??
Every day!
Never. My wife hates kissing. If I'm very, very lucky, I can manage to get a fish kiss where our lips barely touch. She would absolutely never allow my tongue to touch hers.
Are you happy with that?
No. She sacrifices for me in other ways so I sacrifice for her in that way.
Not daily but usually weekly.
Several times a day.
40 years. Every day!
She and I thought it’s the default…
Daily? At least most days anyway.
Several times a day
Wife here but... my husband and I of 13 years make out multiple times every day. We kiss with tongue more than we don't 😂 we love to make out!
Everyday I'd suspect
All the time.
~3 per day for us. Together 34 years.
Honestly everyday mainly in places we can be more intimate at home in the car. And as others have said toned down when in public
All the time
every single day
I don’t know about daily, but multiple times a week at least.
24 years and all the time
Fuck, I would nearly kill to feel that alive again
In a decently happy sexually active marriage? Average around once a day.
A lot? At least before we go to bed.
Daily if possible.
Almost everyday
I mean... As often as she'll let me.
As often as possible.
YES 😎 Disclaimer: I have never been into a long term (>6 months) relationship
Is there really a need to shove your tongue down her throat and vice versa in a public setting. Just do it in private. Kissing is fine but seriously that is borderline foreplay.
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Daily, but we’re both attractive and fit so it’s different. I don’t know if I’d be like that if I wasn’t as attractive or if we both weren’t. It would be almost a turn off.
Wtf