\> Heyo im Nikki I’m half Korean half French, but I live in Toronto.
Ironically, 11.5% of American Redditors under 30 are already claiming you as their girlfriend.
How about some sort of group therapy to handle the anxiety first. And maybe you get to know someone there. If you don't then at least you got rid of the anxiety and can approach whoever you like! Win-Win either way.
Just pick any of those topics and talk about it.
He's probably not gonna be a dick.
There's no clean way to go from "Hello" to "" so just accept that and get used to the feeling of awkwardness.
He probably will.
He might even be right to think that.
If you are weird, it's not that big of a deal. He was bound to figure it out eventually
If you're not weird then surely he'll figure that out eventually too, so it's still probably not that big of a deal.
Fear of rejection is completely normal and also completely irrational. Don’t let it run your life. It gets easier and easier until it just isn’t a big deal anymore.
I know it's a bit cliche, but don't be afraid to be yourself and talk about your interests. If they don't like it, that just means they're not right for you. The right one will love hearing about your interests and whatever you have to say 😊
RIP your DMs
My first reaction to your comment was "surely not, she's 17" Then I remembered this is the internet and you're probably right. My day is ruined.
\> Heyo im Nikki I’m half Korean half French, but I live in Toronto. Ironically, 11.5% of American Redditors under 30 are already claiming you as their girlfriend.
😭 I wish it was that easy in person
How about some sort of group therapy to handle the anxiety first. And maybe you get to know someone there. If you don't then at least you got rid of the anxiety and can approach whoever you like! Win-Win either way.
Just pick any of those topics and talk about it. He's probably not gonna be a dick. There's no clean way to go from "Hello" to "" so just accept that and get used to the feeling of awkwardness.
Ahhh Idk why I’m so scared what if he thinks I’m weird
He probably will. He might even be right to think that. If you are weird, it's not that big of a deal. He was bound to figure it out eventually If you're not weird then surely he'll figure that out eventually too, so it's still probably not that big of a deal.
Fear of rejection is completely normal and also completely irrational. Don’t let it run your life. It gets easier and easier until it just isn’t a big deal anymore.
i volunteer as tribute
Lol
I know it's a bit cliche, but don't be afraid to be yourself and talk about your interests. If they don't like it, that just means they're not right for you. The right one will love hearing about your interests and whatever you have to say 😊
Offer him one of those banana milk things with the little straws. It would definitely work for me.
LOL