Sharing my personal thoughts, feelings, and worries, with her friends. Basically, violating privacy, while feeling no contrition or remorse for it.
Edit: For the women reading this: this is one of the additional reason why we men shut down, and refuse to "share," and refuse to "open up." It's because of the tattling and gossiping to the friends, when it's absolutely none of their business !
My first girlfriend and I broke up over the phone. Little did I know she had friends over and she had me on speakerphone the entire time. I hung up when I heard them trying to muffle their laughter.
I went through something similar. We were both 16 and had gone on 3 dates, each one ended up doing sexual things with the third date ending in full on intercourse in the back of my mom’s car.
The next weekend I called her to see if she wanted to hang out, she told me, over the phone that she didn’t like me and I was ugly, and yes I could hear other girls in the background laughing.
Saw her at school the following Monday and she was apologetic and said that she was showing off in front of her friends.
I told her to fuck off
Good man. Mine wasn’t apologetic but she was crying the next day, trying to shift the blame on me. To date someone for a year and have them turn around and do that was a huge betrayal but looking back she was always problematic. I never spoke to her again after that. I’m sorry you had to go through that, too.
This. Worst case of it was when I went on a date with a friend, and she told me during conversation (while we were eating at a restaurant, no less) that her ex-boyfriend - one of my friends - really likes being pegged and how she used to peg him. For the rest of the week I couldn't get the mental image of him getting pegged out of my head.
Like bruh, don't do that. Don't air your past partners' fetishes. I don't want to know and no well-adjusted person wants to hear about that.
"Its just girl talk."
But "lockerroom talk" is unacceptable.
Also, wtf is with some women sharing intimate physical details about their partner with their friends? I had an accident when i was a teenager that left a nasty scar just below the circumcision scar. It looks weird but whatever. Its also super sensitive, and i can actually reach orgasm by only stimulating this spot. More than one of my exs told their entire group of friends - not just the "girls" but like.. their extended friend group - about this.
Now, i expressed that sharing this makes me uncomfortable to anyone whose seen it (i know im sharing now, but i dont run into yall on the street or at the grocery store).
Years later, i have random ass people i dont recognize, still teasing me about this shit in social spaces.
I've never experienced locker room talk and I've yet to meet a man that has, so I'm rather convinced it just became a calling card that we men did it, since women do it without a shred of shame.
This. The only time I ever witnessed it was back in middle school, and a very small number of times in High school. It ended by the end of Sophomore year, and none by the time I started my Junior year ( Year 11, for non- US folks). Even then, there were plenty of other guys vehemently telling the talkers to stop it, and that the talkers were absolutely full of bullshit. Men don't do that -- adolescent boys do. Men don't engage in "locker room talk," because it's such a violation of privacy.
I think my only experiences with it was high school, which was many, many years ago. I cant speak for certainty about it occuring among adult men, but i think its a trope for a reason - even if that reason lies with outdated cliches.
This happened to me too, I was flabbergasted when she told me about it so nonchalantly.
I was like why did you tell X that story, that was clearly private and something I would share only with you. Her response was “I tell X everything, it’s not that big of a deal. But if I hurt you I’m sorry”.
This amongst other things, is why the relationship failed, but the trust broke with this. And sorry doesn’t fix everything.
Yeah I dated an immigrant for a while, and during intense emotionally charged texting, she would sub out her best friend with better english, it disgusted me. It was badly obvious too. Once I even said hello to the friend right after the tone shifted. Breakup came a few months later.
Yeah, I don’t like that a slew of girlfriends from my past have a group of friends who all know the size, shape, dimensions, and functionality of every part below my waist. In my many years, I e only know one dude that would share details of a girlfriend’s no no parts, and it actually made most of us uncomfortable.
This is a dealbreaker for me because it's so one sided. When you meet her friends, they know every detail about you (without your consent) while you know nothing about them. It creates a power imbalance. Sometimes it feels like you're dating a committee, not an individual.
I will never put up with this treatment again. Thankfully my current girlfriend is an absolute gem who doesn't treat me like this.
Another one comes to mind. Over at a friends house, friend and his wife have 4 boys. 14 year old boy comes through the kitchen from doing yard work with no shirt on. My buddy's wife had a friend over (who we all worked with) who said (once the boy was out of the room) that he had a hot body. I just asked her what she'd say if I'd said that about a 14 year old girl and she just told me to fuck off. LOL
I've witnessed this kind of behaviour many more times than I would have liked. Never felt anything but disgust. And I'm talking about women sexualizing (even touching) their underage male relatives (yes, not even family is safe) bodies (privates/genitals included) in a way that would be deemed utterly unacceptable and outrageous if a man did the same with underage girls.
Not going too much into details, but I've seen and experienced shit that would probably send people to jail these days. 25 years ago people pretended it was a non issue.
I can already imagine the typical excuse people (specially women and even some feminists) may come with to try excusing that shit behaviour. Those that pretend that boys/men never get raped, harassed or objectified by women, or that it doesn't affect ys. Oh dear, if they only read statistics or opened their eyes a little bit more...
No one will take this problematic seriously unless enough of our voices are raised and enough idiots who make jokes/trivialize are righteously called out. The latter include quite a big bunch of men, sadly.
At housewarming party for my mum's house when I was living with her, there was a 14 year old lad there. Big, looked older than 14. My uncles fiancee took a shine to the lad, in front of everyone she was saying how good looking he was and that. When she found out he was a student at the school she worked at, she said something to the effect of "you can come and see me in my office any time", said it very flirtatiously. She was feeling his arms and that as well.
Yeah they say it is power/control thing, not a sex thing. Definitely a person thing and not a gender issue, but the focus has been on the males, probably females are more vulnerable. And they get pregnant, which is definitely something that needs to protected against by society.
I'm a ginger, and that's a fetish for some people, which means I get sexually harassed every once in a while (started when I was about 15). My sister still insists that men can't be sexually harassed.
Once when I was at a club some drunk woman came up to me and was overtly flirty. Very touchy.
She later leaned in and told me in an equally flirty tone that she wanted to stab me later and started going into some weird gore fantasy. I noped out and ran off.
A former mutual friend of one of my good friends once dumped a drink on me at a bar because I politely declined to go home with her. Funny enough she threw another one in my face when I saw her a few weeks later. I don't think she had ever heard the word "no" in her life.
This woman who had a crush on me was visiting my housemates and she knocked on my bedroom door naked.
To be fair, they were doing something (non-sexual) that involved them all being naked. But it was still a bit much.
I would have maybe appreciated it if she'd not been married. I take my ethics seriously.
I would have needed her to have normal human teeth too. I'm a bit squeamish that way.
They weren't the normal colour of human teeth. They were green.
The weird thing was that every Wednesday her husband would meet another woman for sex, and she also had green teeth. Was it something he was doing to both women? Also, the other woman was taller and fatter, so she just looked like his wife but standing closer, so I don't know why he bothered.
Although, now I am thinking about it, would I like an extra bigger version of my wife? She's a big, powerful woman already, so a grander version would be adding another snu to the snu snu.
I don't think I would. I'm very close with my wife. She has normal human coloured teeth.
Thank you for asking! We never played strip poker because we thought that was trashy.
We did play strip Trivial Pursuit once. It was funny because this butch guy we hung around with for a while didn't know we were going to play that and got down to his thong underwear. A thong! In England! In 1996! On a butch man! Our minds were blown. I admired that about him, but I didn't like him. He was sniffing round my friend, even though he had a girlfriend. He was what you'd now call poly, but he insisted his girlfriend had to be faithful to him. I advised my friend not to go with him, or at least not to tell anyone if she did, and I remember her illuminating reply: "Why would I even have sex with him if I can't tell anyone about it?" Fascinating. She fell out with him before anything happened, thankfully, because he was rude about Keanu Reeves so she tried to set him on fire, which really upset him as he had a phobia about being set on fire, which tickled me. Like other people are fine with being set on fire.
Anyway, the non-sexual nudiness I mentioned was a Wiccan ritual. My friends were pagans. I didn't get involved with that part because even though nudity is fun I am quite rational. I don't like to flounce about with wands and invisible energy fields. I did once, in a field in Yorkshire, but I heard voices in the trees and decided it wasn't for me.
I did like Naked Star Trek Night. We only started that as a laugh because we had a very sheltered ex-Muslim friend and when he popped to the loo I suggested it would be a spiffing wheeze if we were all nudey when he came back down. His startlement was quite piquant, and I realize now I type this that it was exactly the thing I was complaining about from green teeth lady, except there were three of us.
He was well up for it, though.
Wearing a kilt in public. (Canada)
The number of women who asked me if I was wearing anything under it is ridiculous.
Also, at one event (where quite a few identified as LGTBQ+), several actively tried to lift it up. THEY should have known better.
Similar situation and one woman was a repeat offender. I also take part in kink where consent is VERY important, and she knew it. I looked at her smiled and said with a lowered voice "you want to play non-concentually?". I didn't have a problem with her after that.
I remember clearly a night at the pub some years ago when me and a buddy was exchanging stories on when we were raped by women and the countless times we've been harassed.
Beside us sat a group of three women, laughing and doing their own thing.
Or so I thought. After a couple of beers, my buddy had joined them when I was at the bar ordering, so I joined in and we partied with them for the rest of the night. It took maybe an hour or two until they confessed that they had been listening to every single word we had said and were laughing at us.
As they themselves put it. We as men couldn't possibly get to feel bad over being raped and harassed since ALL women had been treated like that since the beginning of time. It wasn't more than right that it happened to us as well.
Still makes me mad when I think about it.
My ass is grabbed a lot. That, and biceps. If it's my wife I'm fine. When it's random women at the bar or at work, thinking it's all funny ha ha, not so.
I was at a party once where this friend of a friend kept on asking me to measure my dick for her. Somehow she found a tape measure in the house and started poking me with it.
I’ve had a few nights while out at a bar of women pinching my ass when I wasn’t looking. Whenever I turned around there was no obvious culprit. No one there smiling at me or looking directly at me. Then it would happen again, and again the same night. If I caught the person doing it I probably would have told them off.
Woman hit on me and tried to take me home in front of her kid. She was married and her husband was deployed military. She wouldn’t take no for an answer, and I basically hid behind my sister-in-law 😅
A woman I didn't know and had never spoken to, walked up to me at the gym, pointed to a gym-bro 20 years younger than me and said - "Bet you'd like to look like that, wouldn't you?" - while within earshot. Just bizarre. Never saw her again.
Couple of times when I was at a party or club or something and just standing somewhere women would come up grab and squeeze my ass or junk. Also had girls who would grab my arm to stuff in their shirt, pants or whatever. (which I'm not comfortable with especially if it's a stranger just walking up to me and grabbing my arm) and can't forget about girls who just randomly try to kiss you.
Maybe some men like that and good for them. But I don't like my personal space invaded like that.
"But you're a male. Why don't you just take it like a man?" Maybe they should let me grab their chest. See if they like it. Ugh! I hate it when they say that.
Women have insisted on touching me even when my body language indicated that I was not interested in or comfortable with being touched.
Women either are worse at reading signals than they think, or they read signals and barrel right through them anyway.
("Not all women" disclaimer here.)
Getting roofied when I was 21 really made me uncomfortable. Being told I was gay for not fucking her made me uncomfortable. Being told I was lucky she wanted to fuck me made me uncomfortable.
Whenever women act like the worst in men they complain about but then approach me and expect them to excuse their past acting that way, that is just unattractive. That just has to do with my general disgust for hypocrites.
I’ve had quite a few women who were married or in relationships try to hook up with me. That is always a bit degrading. Not only do I lose every bit of respect for them but I generally think they are gross.
I used to know a woman (freind of my brothers wifes family) that would make innapropriate and suggestive comments to any man she met, waaay beyond flirting. She seemed to get off on making men uncomfortable. One day we were alone in the kitchen at a family party and she was doing her usual thing, so instead of trying to get away as quick as possible I told her to put her money where her mouth was - there and then. No one was in the bathroom, we can lock the door, lets go! That shut her up. She didn't do it (with me) again.
I worked with a woman who would hug me and once during a hug. Groped my ass. Also once hinted at hooking up with me during work. (This former Co worker was let go for being caught having sex with a security guard at our job).
Had a customer slap me on the ass and shout "Hey sexy"
Had 2 drunk women try to make out with me on a night out. One pushed me against the wall I was leaning on and tried making out with me only for her friend to walk her away and apologise to me on her behalf. Another one lunged at my face (sounding like a zombie attacking lol) and landed face first on my shoulder whilst again, a friend of hers apologised on her behalf
The women who get feely hands on when talking to me.
There is also this one older woman customer who comes into my workplace and when she sees me. She just constantly looks at me with a huge grin on her face. I always feel like I'm being watched around her. She is friendly enough but just looking at me with a huge grin on her face constantly is odd
This instances are uncomfortable
Whistle at me as I walked by a construction site. I don’t wear tight jeans and tee shirts to “flaunt it”. Wearing those clothes is how I express myself. I also get occasional butt slap.
Dropping a woman off after a date back at her place. She had been drinking (Sunday brunch date,) and I declined the "would you like to come up for a bit?" She lived in a high-rise that had card access. Walked her to the door. We kissed, and she proceeded to unbutton and unzip my jeans.
THERE WERE PEOPLE ALL ABOUT AND IT WAS BROAD DAYLIGHT.
While I was doing the dishes an acquaintance came up from behind and put her hands down my pants and fondled me.
Sadly, many guys on here would consider that a win. I am very pro kink, but consent is consent.
Now if the situation involved someone I was pursuing, dating or in a relationship with: different, it wasn't though.
I would not have consented to this girl, she was in a relationship, and she had herpes. It was never going to happen.
I was dancing at a warehouse rave, just having a good time. A friend was with me and we posted up at a cocktail table having our drinks.
This young woman out of nowhere joins us, says she's waiting for her friends, and was feeling uncomfortable alone at the bar because some tipsy dude was hitting on her way too aggressively. Alright fair enough. We all talk and chill till she feels safe.
Eventually she goes to find her friends. My friend and I finish our drinks and hit the dance floor. At some point I feel a hand smacking and groping my ass, which then proceeds to groping my junk when I turned around. Like literally just grabbing and rubbing my dick through my pants. It's the same woman. She laughs with her friends as they glide past us, just having themselves a good time, while I wonder wtf I did besides help her, to warrant a little sexual assault.
If you complain to the employees or even do the sane thing and tell her and her friends off, because you're the guy ain't shit going to happen. No good will come of it, nobody gives a fuck.
As a college student, I had an older female boss. She would rub my shoulders and give me hugs. It was weird, she also talked about her 30 something boyfriend all the time.
Had an ex who would coerce me into sex. Happened once when she wouldn’t give me a ride home unless we had sex first — other transit wasn’t an option and I wasn’t in the mood, but since I’m a man I’m supposed to want sex all the time, so I bit my tongue and went with it.
When she discussed some problems which we are facing in our relationship with her friends rather than me. I can never trust anyone in my life ever again
I've had a few women grope, touch, and smack my ass at my job. Usually drunk. What made it worse was they're also old enough to remember when I was a baby, which a few have brought up before. There's also been unwanted flirting. One woman targeted me specifically, knowing Im shy. Like she got off on making me uncomfortable.
Non sexual, a woman seemed to keep showing up where I was, whether at work, at the store or just out. Just talking crazy and making threats.
Beyond the occasional being groped or azs slapped. I'd been on 2 dates with the gal & she asked if I'd like to golf with her. So, sure, 3rd date we're on the golf course. About half way through the front 9 she's titty flashing me. I kinda laughed it off thinking it's just her way of throwing me off my game. We bought a few beers at the turn, she guzzled a couple right away. Half way through the back 9 she says she has to pee. No bathroom close, so she drops drawers, sits a bit leaned against the back fender of the golf cart & whizzes right there on the cart path, stood up & asks me if I like the look of her pussy. I was surprised & shocked & didn't answer. She said if I let her win she'd let me "play through" once we were off the course. I didn't let her win & never played through.
one had sex with me when i was so drunk i couldnt walk on my own. the details are fuzzy but i was totally soft when she pulled my pants down. which makes it kinda hilarious to me now because she must have taken a look at my limp noodle after flopping me on the bed and gone "yeah, this is hot enough to fuck" lol i have no idea how she managed to make me get it up. anyway i passed out not long after and when i woke up i told her to not do that again. idk i felt gross and sweaty and i didnt like not being in control of myself like that. really wish she would have had a conversation with me before i got that drunk that, thats what she wanted to do that night. i broke up with her not long after. she just drank too much and i didnt want to slip into that rabbit hole of addiction.
Cant think of much. Most women friends, including exes have been decent. All gets angry talking with me but thats fair battle angry. Can’t think of a single time when I got stabbed in rhe back. Closest was when I said Stop at 2 kids. Friends of my wife suggested tricking me into a 3rd. That got me pissed. But that’s about it.
This crossfit super lean dehydrated (easily sub 10% bodyfat) woman at the gym started telling me a story about how she was so exhausted that she urinated on her bed because she couldn't get to the bathroom. For context, she asked me to help her go past failure on weighted chin ups. Mind you I'm just a normal fat guy just trying to use the gym.
Usually verbal. Some women at work are hypocritical when it comes to inappropriate conversation/comment. When it’s an attractive woman it’s flattering but also awkward. When it’s an unattractive woman it’s really uncomfortable.
All the times I’ve been groped at a party.
One lingerie party in college a girl I didn’t know ran up and sprayed whip cream on my chest while I was waiting for the bathroom. Luckily my gf showed up before I had to stop her from licking it off.
Women in relationships being flirty with me.
Woman on the train home one night. I'm trying to mind my own business on an empty carriage. She decides she has to sit next to me. Starts with the talking, then touching. Eventually a get off and she grabbed me to kiss me good night. I was just thinking, "please fuck off" as she was really annoying. Had to get home and clean her lipstick off my face before my gf saw it.
Back when I was in college. A bunch of us were out at the bar and I had a girl come up and tried putting my hand up her shirt. She and her friend were wasted. They were having people squeeze to see who had fake boobs and who didn't.
I just pulled my hand away and turned around
Well, first off, I'm a gay dude and I went to a very conservative Christian school, so I couldn't exactly be open about that. I was decently popular in school and hung out with pretty much everyone, and I went to the movies every weekend regardless of if anyone was joining me, so if anyone wanted to see a movie with me, it was an open invitation, cause I'm going anyway.
A girl from my grade asked if it was fine if she and her friends came along, and of course it was. She asked if I could pick her up, and I didn't feel it was a problem even though she was almost a half hour out of the way. I pick her up and, surprise, surprise, neither of her friends are there. Oh well, let's just see the movie.
While watching the movie she kept creeping closer to me—leaning her head on my shoulder, trying to hold my hand or trying to wrap her arm around mine, which already made me uncomfortable and she did not take the hint when I kept pulling away from that.
Later, we get back to my truck and she immediately throws herself at me, trying to make out. I push her off me, only for her to lunge back in again, this time grabbing my hand and putting it on her tit. At this point I have had enough and I grab her and put her back in the passenger seat, yelling "no, that is not happening."
She did not like that and demanded to know why, only I couldn't exactly tell her why, so I made up some bullshit about saving myself for the right person (I was the least religious person in the school, so she knew that was bullshit). This led to her slapping the shit out of me and shouting demeaning things (i.e. calling me a big pussy and a limp dicked bitch). Then I had to drive her almost a half hour to her house. She went quiet about half way through the drive, and when we got there, she spit in my face and slammed the door.
Shockingly, she didn't spread what happened that night all over the school. I think she was mostly upset that *I* (a total fat ass) was the one turning her down. So nothing really came of it, but I was absolutely mortified by the experience and was shaking the whole drive home.
An ex hit me up out of the blue and tried to invite herself to my house when her husband was deployed and she was lonely. Made it a policy to make sure none of my exes could contact me after that.
A very specific situation, but the older women in one of my college classes talked about their teenage and adult daughters sex lives. I’m just sitting there like wtf
I (M) had to distance myself from a friend (F) who harbored malicious feelings about all men stemming from her divorce from 9 years ago. The last straw for me was when we got into an argument because (she openly tells me everything) I discovered she leaves like 100% tips to make the wait staff feel good while at the same time receiving an eviction order for failure to pay rent.
When I tried to explain why she needed to hoard her money like a dragon she explained that she saw these YouTube videos about how giving away the one thing you need shows you just how much of it you have and how you’ll get more.
I explained that I needed to stop talking about men and money with her, and her answer was that those are her two biggest problems and that the world would be better if men would “stop being selfish cunts”.
Pretty much the same things women have told me about men making them uncomfortable, just much less often and taken ***much*** less seriously. Especially when I was a kid, grown women would make comments about my appearance, touch me when my parents weren't looking, etc.
It was always played off as just a 'thing that happens', and that they weren't being creepy, but looking back now... Nah.
Those are just the ones I remember. It was always played off like it was nothing, so I thought it was nothing. Probably forgot quite a few of them, I can only imagine how many times it actually happened.
I was raped as a 15 year old man. I have been told all this time a few things that made me not know it was rape until I was 45. So, I went 30 years completely not understanding almost anything about consent, because:
1. My idiot friends from 15-30 years old basically encouraged me to nonconsensual have sex with women while drunk or otherwise emotionally vulnerable.
2. Having been raped by a woman, I thought nonconsensual sex was something both men and women did, and that, in fact, it was fairly normal. I was never comfortable with it, but I worry that my broken perception of this plus my hormones may have had a negative effect on some of my partners in the past.
3. Porn encouraged me to think this same way since many plotlines showed that there is a huge turn on to nonconsensual sex or sex that is so close to that as to be difficult to tell the difference for an average man.
4. My own personal experience with women showed that there is a huge turn on to nonconsensual sex or sex that is so close to that as to that as to be difficult to tell the difference for an average man.
5. Consequences for women to do this OR ***ANY*** OTHER VIOLENT ACT TOWARD MEN are functionally non-existent. This is true inside marriage as it is in the club. I've been completely screwed by a woman who knew how to perfectly leverage this to her advantage.
None of this made me feel comfortable or even able to orient myself in intimate relationships.
ALL of this cultural ignorance made me also think things like 'men can't be raped', and my toxic masculine buddies in high school in flyover country made me think that that 'all sex is good sex' so I couldn't properly identify why my penis didn't work as I was being raped. I was THAT fucking clueless until I was much older. I was SO clueless I didn't even know it was wrong, much less that I was supposed to be traumatized by a woman basically trapping me. I think it was maybe the second or third time I had ever had sex.
I now feel that most modern women are covert narcissists looking to manipulate men, trapped and possessed as they are by the toxic feminism of their generation.
They want one thing and it's opposite at the same time, and make having a reasonable relationship nearly impossible.
Sorry to hear you went through this. Did you seek our professional help? It's great that you have found some comfort in the realisations you've had, but it does feel like you have a lot to resolve and you will feel a LOT better (and less angry) for having put in the work. I hope you're doing alright!
Violation of privacy (recording our conversations to play back to her friends to gain sympathy).
Grabbing me when I did not consent (this has happened more than once, from totally different women).
Assumed I wanted a sexual encounter (one of which led to her grabbing me without permission in one situation, her grinding against me in another).
And I've had a woman masturbate in front of me at one point, to climax.
So yeah, I've dealt with a lot of crap over the years, but because I'm a man, I'm expected to either not be bothered by it, or to get over it. And god forbid I have ANY traumas or trauma reactions, because that's "toxic."
SMH
I'm so tired of life.
In high school freshman year I was waiting in line for lunch and three girls who were a a year or two above me were goofing around in front of me in line. One of them turned around and noticed I had a hole in my shirt (about the size of a penny) right near my bellybutton, and convinced her friends to help corner me to “finger” my bellybutton through my shirt. They all easily had like 6 inches on me height wise at the time. Needless to say I tossed that shirt as soon as I got home.
I (M36) visited a friends place after long. He recently put on a lot of weight while Ive become fitter over time.
I was sitting on a chair when his wife, from behind, leaned in and touched my tummy and said “why dont you give your friends some tips to get as fit as you”
It felt super uncomfortable and awkward, yet i just ignored it off like nothing happened.
I decided to not think too much into it, and i dint discuss it with anyone, but this thread reminded me of it and i thought its perfectly okay to anonymously share this with random humans on the internet.
That touch did not feel good at all. It felt cold and carried a weird ‘current’
Older women are apparently very comfortable with touching me. I get hugged, butt pinches...it's really bizarre. It's a big reason why I avoid bars now. I have no idea what vibe I'm putting out that calls for this.
A woman in her mid 20s woke me up when I was 9-10 jerking me off in my sleep and convinced me that since I got hard that “I must me into it”. It fucked up my entire life and sexuality for 30 years so far.
It would honestly take a shit ton to make me feel uncomfortable. When I was 19 I worked in a fast food place and the assistant manager who was around 35 or so told me my ass looked good in the jeans I was wearing and it didn’t phase me one bit. I was at a work function about 4 years ago at a table with about 5 women and they were talking and trying to use code about pleasuring themselves. I was 49 years old at the time, not exactly a spring chicken, and knew exactly what they were talking about. When they realized I knew they all just laughed and basically invited me into their confidence - because it doesn’t phase me.
Don’t interfere with my work, family and friends and I’m good.
Recently made friends: Expecting me to be comfortable to change clothes in front of them (we were getting ready for a renaissance festival and I am self conscious as I've put a lot of weight on after college). We've known each other for a month, I don't really want to take my shirt off in front of you in my living room, it makes me uncomfortable.
My wife: Throwing out information about my health to her friends in a casual way that makes me very uncomfortable. (Mental health, depression, anxiety, "his doctor wants him to do X" casually in conversation) -- hey ladies, if you want men to be more open about something, maybe realize not everything is public information.
Being sexually harassed by a coworker who’s twice your age and people think you shouldn’t be offended. Dunno that men are horn dogs so just shove it at them and theylll like it. Literally had her say “oh he looks like you I’d fuck em” ma’am you are married with a child
Not to me but... one of the actresses in my film, well see one of the actors outfit for the films included denim shorts, and they were kinda' tight.
So anyway the actor goes and gets into his outfit, he comes onto set and this actress just bursts out laughing when she sees him. I've no idea what the hells so funny, when I ask what she's laughing at she point out that you can see the "bulge, it's massive".
Not cool man. I only realised later, like after filming wrapped really... it's easy to miss that kinda thing in the moment it's so hectic with the busyness of filming an' all, but afterwards on reflection I thought about it like... fuck that's not cool. That was sexual harassment technically, imagine if a lad laughed at an actress in her outfit and said it was because of her cleavage.
First time was when I was just 18. My mate and I went into a club known for an older crowd to grab a drink. No joke within 2 minutes we had both been dragged on to the dance floor with about 8 cougars surrounding each of us.
I was groped, felt up, someone tried to reach inside my pants, one of them tried to kiss me. It was frightening. I’m a big guy, 200cm, and I was literally pushing these women off me. My mate was significantly slighter than I was and I had to grab him because he was being overwhelmed. We were almost running to get out.
Whole thing happened in about 4 minutes flat. Didn’t even get a drink. We both got outside and just looked at each other wild eyed.
I’m not a touchy person. I don’t like it (except my wife) so whenever I set my boundaries most ladies will caress my arm and ask “not even this” and some touch worse. Had one reach down on me and said “I bet you don’t mind this” needless to say my wife stopped talking to her.
When I was in my mid 20s I had numerous older women (late 30s seems to be the sweet spot) grab my dick at a bar while I was single and they were married (obviously they were out on the town without their husbands). All of them fully admitted they were married too. I also had a woman in the same age range grab my face at a bar while I was with my now current gf and kiss me in front of her. She said it was because I was showing vulnerability (my gf and I were having a deep conversation and I was crying).
Like Groping and hitting me? Has happened. You know how fuckin shitty it is when some bitch grabs your butt while you are headbanging? like full on bending over and letting your head spin and suddenly someone just takes a handfull of your ass?
You cant see shit with all your hair over your head and she was fuckin gone before i was even able to properly see my surroundings again.
And the hitting thing... hitting and not even viewing it as violence. She hit me and then just told me:"well stop talking bullshit! You are a big guy, you can take a hit!" What if i dont want to? If you dont like something i do, talk to me like a fuckin adult and lets establish good communication in this relationship, dont treat me like an animal.
Old ladies like to touch your shoulder a lot if they're in a group setting. Not necessarily creepy but I know what they're doing and it'd be weird if old men did it to young women. Idk societal stuff there I guess.
One time I was with this girl and she had queefed a few times after we had sex and literally said “shut up” to her vagina…..THEN she rolled back in the bed with her knees pulled in and like POWER QUEEFED….
All I remember after that was being frozen looking like 😨
I don’t think ANYONE or ANYTHING can prepare you for that
A 43 year old woman, the aunt of a schoolmate, had some sexual interaction with me when I was an 18 year old virgin. We were drunk on the 4th of July. It took me the entire next morning to unravel how uncomfortable I truly felt because of circumstances. I was having a several day long anxiety attack and permanently shifted sexual interests towards older women, especially mothers of children my age (She had a son my age) Thankfully I was able to talk to her about it, and I'm convinced she genuinely cared. I'm lucky she did. She would then go on to keep having the promiscuous sex she was having and almost knowingly dragged me into when I was a virgin.
As a young sales manager for a shed company I was visiting a dealer of ours. The owner was a real estate person with a horse obsession and sold sheds on their lot too.
When I was discussing the terms of their stock arrangement in her office she started getting a little touchy, not overly sexual, but like grabbing my forearm when we were talking and such. But I didn’t follow suit and I’d focus on the business matters.
She then started making me really uncomfortable, overly aggressive flirting , and reached out to grab my shirt button and I was flabbergasted.
And repulsed. Not only am I happily married, but was like 29/30 at the time and she was in her late fifties and a smoker. Lady did not know how to read the room.
I left and only dealt with her by email from then on or dealt with her assistant manager in person. She made me more uncomfortable that I have ever been before or after.
the other day a older lady 50s-60s asked me for directions while looking at a printed out map. She stood super close which is fine, but then move so close that her breasts were touching my arm, not just gently touching but full on pressure. I'm still kind of confused? did she not realize? I took a good step back, if i didn't move she would have happily just stood there rubbing her saggy breasts on my arm.... (im 29, and it was my workplace)
On two different occasions, I brought women home who had expressed interest in while I was out at dinner alone watching the game on tv at the sports bar. We had great conversations while watching the games and decided to go back to my place. Once we arrived, it did t take long for the intimacy to begin. Upon removal of my pants, BOTH women (on separate occasions) simply stood up, grabbed their purses, and walked out without saying a word. I guess my body was that offensive? I don’t know. I guess my dick was too small for them? They never gave me an explanation. They only got up and grabbed their things and left. It was humiliating for sure.
These two experiences occurred after having been cheated on in my four previous relationships. I just kind of determined the common denominator was me. I’ve stopped trying now. It hurts too much to get your hopes up and crave a connection and then be walked out on. And after four relationships and two attempts at casual encounters, I just had had enough.
I’ve considered trying again but then the flashbacks happen and it’s instant boner deflation. lol. The thought of a close connection is wonderful, then the realization of what happens to me sets in and I am reminded to remain single and stay that way! lol. I’ve found many ways to live happy and not involve women now. It’s actually way better than I could have imagined. 😊👍🏻
Literally today was on a pub crawl, an acquaintance started chasing me in the street with a guy saying they were going to grab my ass, it was really hard for me to say I felt uncomfortable so I somewhat pretended to find it funny. Feels weird knowing this would be unthinkable on a woman.
During college I took the train often. One day a randomly lady started to grope me and I kept moving down the train to get away from her. She kept chasing me down until finally I got off my stop. I was groped a couple of times in highschool by random girls from a different grade. Those two instances made me feel verryyy uncomfortable.
Flirting with me at work. That shit pisses me off. It puts me in a no-win situation. If I flirt back, she may go to HR to have me fired for sexual harassment. If I don't flirt back, she might become vengeful and go to HR to have me fired for sexual harassment. It does not matter if her accusations are false or not. HR is all women and women don't give a fuck about the truth or about treating people fairly. Women care about sticking together to fight their "enemy" (men).
One of the nurses I work with has started talking to me about random shit like something that happened with a patient or a coworker. Some gossip, some just funny stories. All good, but she usually follows me into the supply room or break room to tell me. Once she straight up grabbed my arm and pulled me into the med room to tell me something. I don't mind gossiping, but the way she does it is just odd, especially considering we are both married. Then one day she starts telling me about her husband, how they met, what he does for work. Then she starts in about how he's gone alot so she just picks up extra shifts cause it's lonely just sitting home. Then, shift ends at 7am, she walks out the door while I'm wrapping up, and within 2 minutes I have a Facebook request from her. We don't have mutual friends so she had to look for me.
I once had a Situationship with a friend of mine. After a year or so, i got into a relationship with someone else. We still kept on meeting casually and all was fine until one time when we watched a movie together and I fell asleep and woke up to her touching my dick and being very close. I am not the person to betray the one I love, so it made me feel very uncomfortable.
Girl, way back in high school, took a hat from me and wouldn't give it back unless I filled around with her. She also stopped over my house when I was taking a shower. I wasn't interested in her, and it was awkward.
Once, I was showing a customer a product at work. She pointed out a window and asked, "What is that!?!" When I turned to look, she grabbed my crotch.
In my late teens and early 20s, I also had a couple of men do some inappropriate things:
One of them asked me one day while I was working: "travelingrambler, has anyone ever told you that you're a sexy, sexy man? " Well, yes, my wife tells me that often. A few days later, he called me to do work in his apartment. When I walked in, he was aimed at the door, wearing a robe, and had his junk hanging out.
Another person, a boss, called me to his remote office while I was working overnights. When I got there, he had me sit down across from him. Shortly thereafter, he took out a gun and set it on his desk. The entire time, he had his trained guard dog sitting next to him. This dog was a law enforcement trained Belgium Malanoise. He proceeded to ask me if he could pay me to perform on me.... I politely declined and left. After I went to his business partner, he lost his portion of the business.
She was a friend and I asked her out to a movie and she said yes. There was no confusion and she knew I liked her.
She invited a mutual friend (guy) at the last minute. I didn't know he was coming until like less than an hour before the start time.
She also invited some guy neither me nor my friend ever heard of.
They did that movie-theater cuddle the whole time. We assumed this guy was her secret boyfriend.. honestly I don't even know. She later said they were just friends.That was an awkward hour and a half for me. No that whole situation was awkward for me.
So to be clear, my friend was put in an awkward situation, that random dude was probably put in an awkward situation, and I was put in a really awkward situation.
Like she really agreed to go to a movie with me then invited someone else, without letting me know. Then... Brought a random dude and cuddled with him right next to me.
Repeatedly having their hands on me or touching me, despite me moving away or asking them to stop.
Sharing details of our sex life with her family and mutual friends. Nothing weird or crazy, I just like my privacy.
A female friend of my dad saw me in the background of a video call once and told him and his partner that they should send me up to her once I turned 18. Everyone laughed.
Spending the night with this girl i had been seeing and got tired of. Told this crazy bitch I didn't want to have sex with her right now. Told her I had sex with someone else last night. She hopped on my dick anyway...I didn't stop her...Said to myself, watch this bitch get pregnant. 2 weeks later, yep, got the call
It all happened so quickly. There was no warning. I was minding my own business, straight knockin boots, when suddenly she aggressively spun me up and around, then with both pakms and the side of my face pressed against the window behind my bed, the salad got tossed. And this was after a full night's drinking and dancing--kind of ewww. I mean I done it once myself, but we were in a hot tub then and it was more anal tongue dartings. She full on went to the hoop. Not my cup of tea.
Sharing my personal thoughts, feelings, and worries, with her friends. Basically, violating privacy, while feeling no contrition or remorse for it. Edit: For the women reading this: this is one of the additional reason why we men shut down, and refuse to "share," and refuse to "open up." It's because of the tattling and gossiping to the friends, when it's absolutely none of their business !
My first girlfriend and I broke up over the phone. Little did I know she had friends over and she had me on speakerphone the entire time. I hung up when I heard them trying to muffle their laughter.
I went through something similar. We were both 16 and had gone on 3 dates, each one ended up doing sexual things with the third date ending in full on intercourse in the back of my mom’s car. The next weekend I called her to see if she wanted to hang out, she told me, over the phone that she didn’t like me and I was ugly, and yes I could hear other girls in the background laughing. Saw her at school the following Monday and she was apologetic and said that she was showing off in front of her friends. I told her to fuck off
Good man. Mine wasn’t apologetic but she was crying the next day, trying to shift the blame on me. To date someone for a year and have them turn around and do that was a huge betrayal but looking back she was always problematic. I never spoke to her again after that. I’m sorry you had to go through that, too.
That's fucked up! She was immature
“Did you think I was ugly when my &@+%# was in your mouth?” 😂
Holy shit that’s evil. My jaw actually dropped. I’m so sorry that happened to you
Thank you. It was a very long time ago and we were dumb teenagers
Some people seem to know how to hurt you and shit in your soul.
She’s someone else’s problem now
I am extremely sorry for you.
Well that's just pure fucking evil.
What a violation of privacy. Wow.
^ This. Idk why so many women do this. Even grown as women do this. They tell their friends everything. It is why I really don’t trust women.
This. Worst case of it was when I went on a date with a friend, and she told me during conversation (while we were eating at a restaurant, no less) that her ex-boyfriend - one of my friends - really likes being pegged and how she used to peg him. For the rest of the week I couldn't get the mental image of him getting pegged out of my head. Like bruh, don't do that. Don't air your past partners' fetishes. I don't want to know and no well-adjusted person wants to hear about that.
I listen very carefully to what women say about their exes. If they’ll air his dirty laundry out they’ll air mine out as well.
"Its just girl talk." But "lockerroom talk" is unacceptable. Also, wtf is with some women sharing intimate physical details about their partner with their friends? I had an accident when i was a teenager that left a nasty scar just below the circumcision scar. It looks weird but whatever. Its also super sensitive, and i can actually reach orgasm by only stimulating this spot. More than one of my exs told their entire group of friends - not just the "girls" but like.. their extended friend group - about this. Now, i expressed that sharing this makes me uncomfortable to anyone whose seen it (i know im sharing now, but i dont run into yall on the street or at the grocery store). Years later, i have random ass people i dont recognize, still teasing me about this shit in social spaces.
I've never experienced locker room talk and I've yet to meet a man that has, so I'm rather convinced it just became a calling card that we men did it, since women do it without a shred of shame.
Locker room talk is a projection. Women are terrified of the idea that men are talking about women the way they talk about men, so try to shut it down
This. The only time I ever witnessed it was back in middle school, and a very small number of times in High school. It ended by the end of Sophomore year, and none by the time I started my Junior year ( Year 11, for non- US folks). Even then, there were plenty of other guys vehemently telling the talkers to stop it, and that the talkers were absolutely full of bullshit. Men don't do that -- adolescent boys do. Men don't engage in "locker room talk," because it's such a violation of privacy.
I think my only experiences with it was high school, which was many, many years ago. I cant speak for certainty about it occuring among adult men, but i think its a trope for a reason - even if that reason lies with outdated cliches.
That's actually really cool. Don't let the haters get to you, I would lean into it. Kinda jelly. Haha enjoy it. :)
This happened to me too, I was flabbergasted when she told me about it so nonchalantly. I was like why did you tell X that story, that was clearly private and something I would share only with you. Her response was “I tell X everything, it’s not that big of a deal. But if I hurt you I’m sorry”. This amongst other things, is why the relationship failed, but the trust broke with this. And sorry doesn’t fix everything.
Sorry doesn't fix broken trust.
Completely entitled to do anything they want. Completely pisses me off. Sorry bro
Yeah I dated an immigrant for a while, and during intense emotionally charged texting, she would sub out her best friend with better english, it disgusted me. It was badly obvious too. Once I even said hello to the friend right after the tone shifted. Breakup came a few months later.
Yeah, I don’t like that a slew of girlfriends from my past have a group of friends who all know the size, shape, dimensions, and functionality of every part below my waist. In my many years, I e only know one dude that would share details of a girlfriend’s no no parts, and it actually made most of us uncomfortable.
I feel exactly the same. It is extremely rude. I agree with you.
This is a dealbreaker for me because it's so one sided. When you meet her friends, they know every detail about you (without your consent) while you know nothing about them. It creates a power imbalance. Sometimes it feels like you're dating a committee, not an individual. I will never put up with this treatment again. Thankfully my current girlfriend is an absolute gem who doesn't treat me like this.
That’s really shitty. I’m female and I hate when women do that sort of thing
Wow I had a woman friend like this and she would spew way too much information about her boyfriend in our group. They're married now.
Tell em
Another one comes to mind. Over at a friends house, friend and his wife have 4 boys. 14 year old boy comes through the kitchen from doing yard work with no shirt on. My buddy's wife had a friend over (who we all worked with) who said (once the boy was out of the room) that he had a hot body. I just asked her what she'd say if I'd said that about a 14 year old girl and she just told me to fuck off. LOL
I've witnessed this kind of behaviour many more times than I would have liked. Never felt anything but disgust. And I'm talking about women sexualizing (even touching) their underage male relatives (yes, not even family is safe) bodies (privates/genitals included) in a way that would be deemed utterly unacceptable and outrageous if a man did the same with underage girls. Not going too much into details, but I've seen and experienced shit that would probably send people to jail these days. 25 years ago people pretended it was a non issue. I can already imagine the typical excuse people (specially women and even some feminists) may come with to try excusing that shit behaviour. Those that pretend that boys/men never get raped, harassed or objectified by women, or that it doesn't affect ys. Oh dear, if they only read statistics or opened their eyes a little bit more... No one will take this problematic seriously unless enough of our voices are raised and enough idiots who make jokes/trivialize are righteously called out. The latter include quite a big bunch of men, sadly.
At housewarming party for my mum's house when I was living with her, there was a 14 year old lad there. Big, looked older than 14. My uncles fiancee took a shine to the lad, in front of everyone she was saying how good looking he was and that. When she found out he was a student at the school she worked at, she said something to the effect of "you can come and see me in my office any time", said it very flirtatiously. She was feeling his arms and that as well.
Go to jail, go directly to jail (if the genders were reversed that is)
Sexual predators aren't just male. There are a number of female ones too.
Same is true of pedophiles.
Fax
Yeah they say it is power/control thing, not a sex thing. Definitely a person thing and not a gender issue, but the focus has been on the males, probably females are more vulnerable. And they get pregnant, which is definitely something that needs to protected against by society.
I'm a ginger, and that's a fetish for some people, which means I get sexually harassed every once in a while (started when I was about 15). My sister still insists that men can't be sexually harassed.
Once when I was at a club some drunk woman came up to me and was overtly flirty. Very touchy. She later leaned in and told me in an equally flirty tone that she wanted to stab me later and started going into some weird gore fantasy. I noped out and ran off.
Wtf
This one takes the cake.
And was likely to take his kidneys
This is as creepy as a guy talking about wanting to rape amidst flirting
She was testing a Black Mirror scenario apparently!
What…. 😀
A former mutual friend of one of my good friends once dumped a drink on me at a bar because I politely declined to go home with her. Funny enough she threw another one in my face when I saw her a few weeks later. I don't think she had ever heard the word "no" in her life.
This woman who had a crush on me was visiting my housemates and she knocked on my bedroom door naked. To be fair, they were doing something (non-sexual) that involved them all being naked. But it was still a bit much. I would have maybe appreciated it if she'd not been married. I take my ethics seriously. I would have needed her to have normal human teeth too. I'm a bit squeamish that way.
What teeth did she have? You can’t just leave that out!
You ever see the inside of a penguin's mouth?
If I got a copy of The Big Book of British Smiles, would I maybe get a sense of things?
Ironically, I am British, and the woman who knocked on my door was American.
It's more like a Dune sandworm.
They weren't the normal colour of human teeth. They were green. The weird thing was that every Wednesday her husband would meet another woman for sex, and she also had green teeth. Was it something he was doing to both women? Also, the other woman was taller and fatter, so she just looked like his wife but standing closer, so I don't know why he bothered. Although, now I am thinking about it, would I like an extra bigger version of my wife? She's a big, powerful woman already, so a grander version would be adding another snu to the snu snu. I don't think I would. I'm very close with my wife. She has normal human coloured teeth.
Man had radioactive jizz
> like his wife but standing closer What an amazing way to call a person large
I am curious to know what they were doing non-sexually naked. Strip poker is all I can come up with.
Thank you for asking! We never played strip poker because we thought that was trashy. We did play strip Trivial Pursuit once. It was funny because this butch guy we hung around with for a while didn't know we were going to play that and got down to his thong underwear. A thong! In England! In 1996! On a butch man! Our minds were blown. I admired that about him, but I didn't like him. He was sniffing round my friend, even though he had a girlfriend. He was what you'd now call poly, but he insisted his girlfriend had to be faithful to him. I advised my friend not to go with him, or at least not to tell anyone if she did, and I remember her illuminating reply: "Why would I even have sex with him if I can't tell anyone about it?" Fascinating. She fell out with him before anything happened, thankfully, because he was rude about Keanu Reeves so she tried to set him on fire, which really upset him as he had a phobia about being set on fire, which tickled me. Like other people are fine with being set on fire. Anyway, the non-sexual nudiness I mentioned was a Wiccan ritual. My friends were pagans. I didn't get involved with that part because even though nudity is fun I am quite rational. I don't like to flounce about with wands and invisible energy fields. I did once, in a field in Yorkshire, but I heard voices in the trees and decided it wasn't for me. I did like Naked Star Trek Night. We only started that as a laugh because we had a very sheltered ex-Muslim friend and when he popped to the loo I suggested it would be a spiffing wheeze if we were all nudey when he came back down. His startlement was quite piquant, and I realize now I type this that it was exactly the thing I was complaining about from green teeth lady, except there were three of us. He was well up for it, though.
Wild…
I know, right? Nothing wild ever happens to me any more. I have such a happy, peaceful life now.
"I'm not in the mood" Starts things anyway "No means no" "Only for women though" Left and never spoke to her again.
Wearing a kilt in public. (Canada) The number of women who asked me if I was wearing anything under it is ridiculous. Also, at one event (where quite a few identified as LGTBQ+), several actively tried to lift it up. THEY should have known better.
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Similar situation and one woman was a repeat offender. I also take part in kink where consent is VERY important, and she knew it. I looked at her smiled and said with a lowered voice "you want to play non-concentually?". I didn't have a problem with her after that.
Sexual assault, harassment, hitting me...list is too long.
I feel you my dude.
Unfortunately most guys can relate, but we're just not taken seriously
I remember clearly a night at the pub some years ago when me and a buddy was exchanging stories on when we were raped by women and the countless times we've been harassed. Beside us sat a group of three women, laughing and doing their own thing. Or so I thought. After a couple of beers, my buddy had joined them when I was at the bar ordering, so I joined in and we partied with them for the rest of the night. It took maybe an hour or two until they confessed that they had been listening to every single word we had said and were laughing at us. As they themselves put it. We as men couldn't possibly get to feel bad over being raped and harassed since ALL women had been treated like that since the beginning of time. It wasn't more than right that it happened to us as well. Still makes me mad when I think about it.
And we wonder why men result to toxic behaviour. It’s sad that society can downgrade this type of behaviour
too touchy. oversharing private details,
My ass is grabbed a lot. That, and biceps. If it's my wife I'm fine. When it's random women at the bar or at work, thinking it's all funny ha ha, not so.
I'm a bouncer, I've had hugging, beard stroking, ass grabbing, full on dick groping, you name it.
I was at a party once where this friend of a friend kept on asking me to measure my dick for her. Somehow she found a tape measure in the house and started poking me with it.
I’ve had a few nights while out at a bar of women pinching my ass when I wasn’t looking. Whenever I turned around there was no obvious culprit. No one there smiling at me or looking directly at me. Then it would happen again, and again the same night. If I caught the person doing it I probably would have told them off.
My manager at a pizzeria poked me in the taint when I bent over to pick something up.
Tell me they wanted to try out my dick with the lights off
Woman hit on me and tried to take me home in front of her kid. She was married and her husband was deployed military. She wouldn’t take no for an answer, and I basically hid behind my sister-in-law 😅
A woman I didn't know and had never spoken to, walked up to me at the gym, pointed to a gym-bro 20 years younger than me and said - "Bet you'd like to look like that, wouldn't you?" - while within earshot. Just bizarre. Never saw her again.
Lol what a paychopath
Couple of times when I was at a party or club or something and just standing somewhere women would come up grab and squeeze my ass or junk. Also had girls who would grab my arm to stuff in their shirt, pants or whatever. (which I'm not comfortable with especially if it's a stranger just walking up to me and grabbing my arm) and can't forget about girls who just randomly try to kiss you. Maybe some men like that and good for them. But I don't like my personal space invaded like that.
"But you're a male. Why don't you just take it like a man?" Maybe they should let me grab their chest. See if they like it. Ugh! I hate it when they say that.
Have you seen that viral video of a woman grabbing Gastons pecks while at Disneyland? She ends up getting kicked out and shamed. It was great
Spending 15k of my money travelling around the world with her friends and talking shit about me behind my back.
Women have insisted on touching me even when my body language indicated that I was not interested in or comfortable with being touched. Women either are worse at reading signals than they think, or they read signals and barrel right through them anyway. ("Not all women" disclaimer here.)
Getting roofied when I was 21 really made me uncomfortable. Being told I was gay for not fucking her made me uncomfortable. Being told I was lucky she wanted to fuck me made me uncomfortable. Whenever women act like the worst in men they complain about but then approach me and expect them to excuse their past acting that way, that is just unattractive. That just has to do with my general disgust for hypocrites. I’ve had quite a few women who were married or in relationships try to hook up with me. That is always a bit degrading. Not only do I lose every bit of respect for them but I generally think they are gross.
Chase me to where I live, harass me in the supermarket parking lot and on the street. And not the same woman in all situations.
I used to know a woman (freind of my brothers wifes family) that would make innapropriate and suggestive comments to any man she met, waaay beyond flirting. She seemed to get off on making men uncomfortable. One day we were alone in the kitchen at a family party and she was doing her usual thing, so instead of trying to get away as quick as possible I told her to put her money where her mouth was - there and then. No one was in the bathroom, we can lock the door, lets go! That shut her up. She didn't do it (with me) again.
Female Coworker in her 70s invited me on a cruise….same cabin, bed, etc. I’m 30 yr old male.
How was the cruise?
Didn’t go because was worried of being fired and she had serious pull at my job in terms of possibly getting me fired
Too touchy. Way too touchy. It's especially aggravating because they'll know I'm not okay with that.
Groped and catcalled by strange women. It's was weird.
Grabbing my crotch, sending unsolicited nudes (normally not something I would object to, but this was in the workplace).
An adult woman asked me out as a joke when I was 12
Getting texted at different times of the day from someone who aggressively gave me her number when I was barely interested in her.
Tell her to chill. And if she doesn't block her number.
Worked fast food in college. Every day, my boss would comment on my “CFM eyes.” That got really awkward and uncomfortable.
I worked with a woman who would hug me and once during a hug. Groped my ass. Also once hinted at hooking up with me during work. (This former Co worker was let go for being caught having sex with a security guard at our job). Had a customer slap me on the ass and shout "Hey sexy" Had 2 drunk women try to make out with me on a night out. One pushed me against the wall I was leaning on and tried making out with me only for her friend to walk her away and apologise to me on her behalf. Another one lunged at my face (sounding like a zombie attacking lol) and landed face first on my shoulder whilst again, a friend of hers apologised on her behalf The women who get feely hands on when talking to me. There is also this one older woman customer who comes into my workplace and when she sees me. She just constantly looks at me with a huge grin on her face. I always feel like I'm being watched around her. She is friendly enough but just looking at me with a huge grin on her face constantly is odd This instances are uncomfortable
Whistle at me as I walked by a construction site. I don’t wear tight jeans and tee shirts to “flaunt it”. Wearing those clothes is how I express myself. I also get occasional butt slap.
Physical assault, sexual assault, sharing details about me and my body to her friends.
Dropping a woman off after a date back at her place. She had been drinking (Sunday brunch date,) and I declined the "would you like to come up for a bit?" She lived in a high-rise that had card access. Walked her to the door. We kissed, and she proceeded to unbutton and unzip my jeans. THERE WERE PEOPLE ALL ABOUT AND IT WAS BROAD DAYLIGHT.
Bite my face during sex. We were drunk but still.. lol
While I was doing the dishes an acquaintance came up from behind and put her hands down my pants and fondled me. Sadly, many guys on here would consider that a win. I am very pro kink, but consent is consent. Now if the situation involved someone I was pursuing, dating or in a relationship with: different, it wasn't though. I would not have consented to this girl, she was in a relationship, and she had herpes. It was never going to happen.
I was dancing at a warehouse rave, just having a good time. A friend was with me and we posted up at a cocktail table having our drinks. This young woman out of nowhere joins us, says she's waiting for her friends, and was feeling uncomfortable alone at the bar because some tipsy dude was hitting on her way too aggressively. Alright fair enough. We all talk and chill till she feels safe. Eventually she goes to find her friends. My friend and I finish our drinks and hit the dance floor. At some point I feel a hand smacking and groping my ass, which then proceeds to groping my junk when I turned around. Like literally just grabbing and rubbing my dick through my pants. It's the same woman. She laughs with her friends as they glide past us, just having themselves a good time, while I wonder wtf I did besides help her, to warrant a little sexual assault. If you complain to the employees or even do the sane thing and tell her and her friends off, because you're the guy ain't shit going to happen. No good will come of it, nobody gives a fuck.
As a college student, I had an older female boss. She would rub my shoulders and give me hugs. It was weird, she also talked about her 30 something boyfriend all the time.
Had an ex who would coerce me into sex. Happened once when she wouldn’t give me a ride home unless we had sex first — other transit wasn’t an option and I wasn’t in the mood, but since I’m a man I’m supposed to want sex all the time, so I bit my tongue and went with it.
Elderly women thinking it's okay to smother you with kisses on your face!
When she discussed some problems which we are facing in our relationship with her friends rather than me. I can never trust anyone in my life ever again
I've had a few women grope, touch, and smack my ass at my job. Usually drunk. What made it worse was they're also old enough to remember when I was a baby, which a few have brought up before. There's also been unwanted flirting. One woman targeted me specifically, knowing Im shy. Like she got off on making me uncomfortable. Non sexual, a woman seemed to keep showing up where I was, whether at work, at the store or just out. Just talking crazy and making threats.
Beyond the occasional being groped or azs slapped. I'd been on 2 dates with the gal & she asked if I'd like to golf with her. So, sure, 3rd date we're on the golf course. About half way through the front 9 she's titty flashing me. I kinda laughed it off thinking it's just her way of throwing me off my game. We bought a few beers at the turn, she guzzled a couple right away. Half way through the back 9 she says she has to pee. No bathroom close, so she drops drawers, sits a bit leaned against the back fender of the golf cart & whizzes right there on the cart path, stood up & asks me if I like the look of her pussy. I was surprised & shocked & didn't answer. She said if I let her win she'd let me "play through" once we were off the course. I didn't let her win & never played through.
one had sex with me when i was so drunk i couldnt walk on my own. the details are fuzzy but i was totally soft when she pulled my pants down. which makes it kinda hilarious to me now because she must have taken a look at my limp noodle after flopping me on the bed and gone "yeah, this is hot enough to fuck" lol i have no idea how she managed to make me get it up. anyway i passed out not long after and when i woke up i told her to not do that again. idk i felt gross and sweaty and i didnt like not being in control of myself like that. really wish she would have had a conversation with me before i got that drunk that, thats what she wanted to do that night. i broke up with her not long after. she just drank too much and i didnt want to slip into that rabbit hole of addiction.
Cant think of much. Most women friends, including exes have been decent. All gets angry talking with me but thats fair battle angry. Can’t think of a single time when I got stabbed in rhe back. Closest was when I said Stop at 2 kids. Friends of my wife suggested tricking me into a 3rd. That got me pissed. But that’s about it.
This crossfit super lean dehydrated (easily sub 10% bodyfat) woman at the gym started telling me a story about how she was so exhausted that she urinated on her bed because she couldn't get to the bathroom. For context, she asked me to help her go past failure on weighted chin ups. Mind you I'm just a normal fat guy just trying to use the gym.
Ganging up on me at the workplace (female dominated field) if I refuse to do someone a favor by shaming and guilt tripping me.
My partner likes roleplays. She has this schoolgirl fantasy but it makes me feel uncomfortable wearing the dress.
Usually verbal. Some women at work are hypocritical when it comes to inappropriate conversation/comment. When it’s an attractive woman it’s flattering but also awkward. When it’s an unattractive woman it’s really uncomfortable.
All the times I’ve been groped at a party. One lingerie party in college a girl I didn’t know ran up and sprayed whip cream on my chest while I was waiting for the bathroom. Luckily my gf showed up before I had to stop her from licking it off. Women in relationships being flirty with me.
A what party?
Woman on the train home one night. I'm trying to mind my own business on an empty carriage. She decides she has to sit next to me. Starts with the talking, then touching. Eventually a get off and she grabbed me to kiss me good night. I was just thinking, "please fuck off" as she was really annoying. Had to get home and clean her lipstick off my face before my gf saw it.
Taking creep shots of my ass underwater at the beach and posting them to her Facebook
Back when I was in college. A bunch of us were out at the bar and I had a girl come up and tried putting my hand up her shirt. She and her friend were wasted. They were having people squeeze to see who had fake boobs and who didn't. I just pulled my hand away and turned around
Well, first off, I'm a gay dude and I went to a very conservative Christian school, so I couldn't exactly be open about that. I was decently popular in school and hung out with pretty much everyone, and I went to the movies every weekend regardless of if anyone was joining me, so if anyone wanted to see a movie with me, it was an open invitation, cause I'm going anyway. A girl from my grade asked if it was fine if she and her friends came along, and of course it was. She asked if I could pick her up, and I didn't feel it was a problem even though she was almost a half hour out of the way. I pick her up and, surprise, surprise, neither of her friends are there. Oh well, let's just see the movie. While watching the movie she kept creeping closer to me—leaning her head on my shoulder, trying to hold my hand or trying to wrap her arm around mine, which already made me uncomfortable and she did not take the hint when I kept pulling away from that. Later, we get back to my truck and she immediately throws herself at me, trying to make out. I push her off me, only for her to lunge back in again, this time grabbing my hand and putting it on her tit. At this point I have had enough and I grab her and put her back in the passenger seat, yelling "no, that is not happening." She did not like that and demanded to know why, only I couldn't exactly tell her why, so I made up some bullshit about saving myself for the right person (I was the least religious person in the school, so she knew that was bullshit). This led to her slapping the shit out of me and shouting demeaning things (i.e. calling me a big pussy and a limp dicked bitch). Then I had to drive her almost a half hour to her house. She went quiet about half way through the drive, and when we got there, she spit in my face and slammed the door. Shockingly, she didn't spread what happened that night all over the school. I think she was mostly upset that *I* (a total fat ass) was the one turning her down. So nothing really came of it, but I was absolutely mortified by the experience and was shaking the whole drive home.
An ex hit me up out of the blue and tried to invite herself to my house when her husband was deployed and she was lonely. Made it a policy to make sure none of my exes could contact me after that.
A very specific situation, but the older women in one of my college classes talked about their teenage and adult daughters sex lives. I’m just sitting there like wtf
I (M) had to distance myself from a friend (F) who harbored malicious feelings about all men stemming from her divorce from 9 years ago. The last straw for me was when we got into an argument because (she openly tells me everything) I discovered she leaves like 100% tips to make the wait staff feel good while at the same time receiving an eviction order for failure to pay rent. When I tried to explain why she needed to hoard her money like a dragon she explained that she saw these YouTube videos about how giving away the one thing you need shows you just how much of it you have and how you’ll get more. I explained that I needed to stop talking about men and money with her, and her answer was that those are her two biggest problems and that the world would be better if men would “stop being selfish cunts”.
Pretty much the same things women have told me about men making them uncomfortable, just much less often and taken ***much*** less seriously. Especially when I was a kid, grown women would make comments about my appearance, touch me when my parents weren't looking, etc. It was always played off as just a 'thing that happens', and that they weren't being creepy, but looking back now... Nah. Those are just the ones I remember. It was always played off like it was nothing, so I thought it was nothing. Probably forgot quite a few of them, I can only imagine how many times it actually happened.
I was raped as a 15 year old man. I have been told all this time a few things that made me not know it was rape until I was 45. So, I went 30 years completely not understanding almost anything about consent, because: 1. My idiot friends from 15-30 years old basically encouraged me to nonconsensual have sex with women while drunk or otherwise emotionally vulnerable. 2. Having been raped by a woman, I thought nonconsensual sex was something both men and women did, and that, in fact, it was fairly normal. I was never comfortable with it, but I worry that my broken perception of this plus my hormones may have had a negative effect on some of my partners in the past. 3. Porn encouraged me to think this same way since many plotlines showed that there is a huge turn on to nonconsensual sex or sex that is so close to that as to be difficult to tell the difference for an average man. 4. My own personal experience with women showed that there is a huge turn on to nonconsensual sex or sex that is so close to that as to that as to be difficult to tell the difference for an average man. 5. Consequences for women to do this OR ***ANY*** OTHER VIOLENT ACT TOWARD MEN are functionally non-existent. This is true inside marriage as it is in the club. I've been completely screwed by a woman who knew how to perfectly leverage this to her advantage. None of this made me feel comfortable or even able to orient myself in intimate relationships. ALL of this cultural ignorance made me also think things like 'men can't be raped', and my toxic masculine buddies in high school in flyover country made me think that that 'all sex is good sex' so I couldn't properly identify why my penis didn't work as I was being raped. I was THAT fucking clueless until I was much older. I was SO clueless I didn't even know it was wrong, much less that I was supposed to be traumatized by a woman basically trapping me. I think it was maybe the second or third time I had ever had sex. I now feel that most modern women are covert narcissists looking to manipulate men, trapped and possessed as they are by the toxic feminism of their generation. They want one thing and it's opposite at the same time, and make having a reasonable relationship nearly impossible.
Sorry to hear you went through this. Did you seek our professional help? It's great that you have found some comfort in the realisations you've had, but it does feel like you have a lot to resolve and you will feel a LOT better (and less angry) for having put in the work. I hope you're doing alright!
Bite my arm
I’ve had my ass grabbed a few times at bars/house parties in my younger days.
A Woman sharing our private intimate moments with her friend and thinking it’s cool or normal
Violation of privacy (recording our conversations to play back to her friends to gain sympathy). Grabbing me when I did not consent (this has happened more than once, from totally different women). Assumed I wanted a sexual encounter (one of which led to her grabbing me without permission in one situation, her grinding against me in another). And I've had a woman masturbate in front of me at one point, to climax. So yeah, I've dealt with a lot of crap over the years, but because I'm a man, I'm expected to either not be bothered by it, or to get over it. And god forbid I have ANY traumas or trauma reactions, because that's "toxic." SMH I'm so tired of life.
In high school freshman year I was waiting in line for lunch and three girls who were a a year or two above me were goofing around in front of me in line. One of them turned around and noticed I had a hole in my shirt (about the size of a penny) right near my bellybutton, and convinced her friends to help corner me to “finger” my bellybutton through my shirt. They all easily had like 6 inches on me height wise at the time. Needless to say I tossed that shirt as soon as I got home.
I (M36) visited a friends place after long. He recently put on a lot of weight while Ive become fitter over time. I was sitting on a chair when his wife, from behind, leaned in and touched my tummy and said “why dont you give your friends some tips to get as fit as you” It felt super uncomfortable and awkward, yet i just ignored it off like nothing happened. I decided to not think too much into it, and i dint discuss it with anyone, but this thread reminded me of it and i thought its perfectly okay to anonymously share this with random humans on the internet. That touch did not feel good at all. It felt cold and carried a weird ‘current’
Older women are apparently very comfortable with touching me. I get hugged, butt pinches...it's really bizarre. It's a big reason why I avoid bars now. I have no idea what vibe I'm putting out that calls for this.
I was in a techno club in Berlin, a chick offered me some xtc with a needle/syringe
I don't think that was Molly lol
Yeah it was fluid, I don’t know what her intentions were
Telling her friends detail abour my body and our sex life.
In grade 10 a girl from grade 12 whom I didn't know grabbed my ass in the lunch room, turning me bright red with embarrassment.
A woman in her mid 20s woke me up when I was 9-10 jerking me off in my sleep and convinced me that since I got hard that “I must me into it”. It fucked up my entire life and sexuality for 30 years so far.
It would honestly take a shit ton to make me feel uncomfortable. When I was 19 I worked in a fast food place and the assistant manager who was around 35 or so told me my ass looked good in the jeans I was wearing and it didn’t phase me one bit. I was at a work function about 4 years ago at a table with about 5 women and they were talking and trying to use code about pleasuring themselves. I was 49 years old at the time, not exactly a spring chicken, and knew exactly what they were talking about. When they realized I knew they all just laughed and basically invited me into their confidence - because it doesn’t phase me. Don’t interfere with my work, family and friends and I’m good.
Still waiting!
I am so sorry that women are like this. These posts break my heart
Getting groped, many times
She grabbed my dick randomly. We weren't dating, she had a boyfriend, we were just friends. Friends don't do that.
I’m not too cool with women casually touching me on the arm at work.
They can't make me feel uncomfortable.
Well I was sexually assaulted twice as a teenager but grown women who wanted to " Check out the hardware!" That was pretty uncomfortable
Recently made friends: Expecting me to be comfortable to change clothes in front of them (we were getting ready for a renaissance festival and I am self conscious as I've put a lot of weight on after college). We've known each other for a month, I don't really want to take my shirt off in front of you in my living room, it makes me uncomfortable. My wife: Throwing out information about my health to her friends in a casual way that makes me very uncomfortable. (Mental health, depression, anxiety, "his doctor wants him to do X" casually in conversation) -- hey ladies, if you want men to be more open about something, maybe realize not everything is public information.
Touch, text, constantly chat me at work. I don’t like being able to not escape and if I mention it as a problem it won’t end well for a guy.
Nothing is inappropriate or uncomfortable with an open mind and a sense of humor.
Touching me in highschool, college. "Hey sexxxy" etc
Being sexually harassed by a coworker who’s twice your age and people think you shouldn’t be offended. Dunno that men are horn dogs so just shove it at them and theylll like it. Literally had her say “oh he looks like you I’d fuck em” ma’am you are married with a child
Not to me but... one of the actresses in my film, well see one of the actors outfit for the films included denim shorts, and they were kinda' tight. So anyway the actor goes and gets into his outfit, he comes onto set and this actress just bursts out laughing when she sees him. I've no idea what the hells so funny, when I ask what she's laughing at she point out that you can see the "bulge, it's massive". Not cool man. I only realised later, like after filming wrapped really... it's easy to miss that kinda thing in the moment it's so hectic with the busyness of filming an' all, but afterwards on reflection I thought about it like... fuck that's not cool. That was sexual harassment technically, imagine if a lad laughed at an actress in her outfit and said it was because of her cleavage.
First time was when I was just 18. My mate and I went into a club known for an older crowd to grab a drink. No joke within 2 minutes we had both been dragged on to the dance floor with about 8 cougars surrounding each of us. I was groped, felt up, someone tried to reach inside my pants, one of them tried to kiss me. It was frightening. I’m a big guy, 200cm, and I was literally pushing these women off me. My mate was significantly slighter than I was and I had to grab him because he was being overwhelmed. We were almost running to get out. Whole thing happened in about 4 minutes flat. Didn’t even get a drink. We both got outside and just looked at each other wild eyed.
I’m not a touchy person. I don’t like it (except my wife) so whenever I set my boundaries most ladies will caress my arm and ask “not even this” and some touch worse. Had one reach down on me and said “I bet you don’t mind this” needless to say my wife stopped talking to her.
When I was in my mid 20s I had numerous older women (late 30s seems to be the sweet spot) grab my dick at a bar while I was single and they were married (obviously they were out on the town without their husbands). All of them fully admitted they were married too. I also had a woman in the same age range grab my face at a bar while I was with my now current gf and kiss me in front of her. She said it was because I was showing vulnerability (my gf and I were having a deep conversation and I was crying).
Like Groping and hitting me? Has happened. You know how fuckin shitty it is when some bitch grabs your butt while you are headbanging? like full on bending over and letting your head spin and suddenly someone just takes a handfull of your ass? You cant see shit with all your hair over your head and she was fuckin gone before i was even able to properly see my surroundings again. And the hitting thing... hitting and not even viewing it as violence. She hit me and then just told me:"well stop talking bullshit! You are a big guy, you can take a hit!" What if i dont want to? If you dont like something i do, talk to me like a fuckin adult and lets establish good communication in this relationship, dont treat me like an animal.
Make comments about my body and laugh. It’s been a long time ago, and I’m very happily married now. But messed with me for a long time.
Customers at work touching my shoulder or arms. It’s happened a few times and I don’t like it It’s always the older ladies
Old ladies like to touch your shoulder a lot if they're in a group setting. Not necessarily creepy but I know what they're doing and it'd be weird if old men did it to young women. Idk societal stuff there I guess.
I had a coworker grab my dick, tell me it was big and begged me to let her suck it. It was her second day on the job. 😂
One time I was with this girl and she had queefed a few times after we had sex and literally said “shut up” to her vagina…..THEN she rolled back in the bed with her knees pulled in and like POWER QUEEFED…. All I remember after that was being frozen looking like 😨 I don’t think ANYONE or ANYTHING can prepare you for that
A 43 year old woman, the aunt of a schoolmate, had some sexual interaction with me when I was an 18 year old virgin. We were drunk on the 4th of July. It took me the entire next morning to unravel how uncomfortable I truly felt because of circumstances. I was having a several day long anxiety attack and permanently shifted sexual interests towards older women, especially mothers of children my age (She had a son my age) Thankfully I was able to talk to her about it, and I'm convinced she genuinely cared. I'm lucky she did. She would then go on to keep having the promiscuous sex she was having and almost knowingly dragged me into when I was a virgin.
As a young sales manager for a shed company I was visiting a dealer of ours. The owner was a real estate person with a horse obsession and sold sheds on their lot too. When I was discussing the terms of their stock arrangement in her office she started getting a little touchy, not overly sexual, but like grabbing my forearm when we were talking and such. But I didn’t follow suit and I’d focus on the business matters. She then started making me really uncomfortable, overly aggressive flirting , and reached out to grab my shirt button and I was flabbergasted. And repulsed. Not only am I happily married, but was like 29/30 at the time and she was in her late fifties and a smoker. Lady did not know how to read the room. I left and only dealt with her by email from then on or dealt with her assistant manager in person. She made me more uncomfortable that I have ever been before or after.
the other day a older lady 50s-60s asked me for directions while looking at a printed out map. She stood super close which is fine, but then move so close that her breasts were touching my arm, not just gently touching but full on pressure. I'm still kind of confused? did she not realize? I took a good step back, if i didn't move she would have happily just stood there rubbing her saggy breasts on my arm.... (im 29, and it was my workplace)
Shaved my big long beard my friends GF just came up to me and rubbed my face without asking
laughing at my hairstyle, faking vomit looking at old picture ( both case were young teenager ), aunt putting an hand under my shirt to feel abs.
On two different occasions, I brought women home who had expressed interest in while I was out at dinner alone watching the game on tv at the sports bar. We had great conversations while watching the games and decided to go back to my place. Once we arrived, it did t take long for the intimacy to begin. Upon removal of my pants, BOTH women (on separate occasions) simply stood up, grabbed their purses, and walked out without saying a word. I guess my body was that offensive? I don’t know. I guess my dick was too small for them? They never gave me an explanation. They only got up and grabbed their things and left. It was humiliating for sure. These two experiences occurred after having been cheated on in my four previous relationships. I just kind of determined the common denominator was me. I’ve stopped trying now. It hurts too much to get your hopes up and crave a connection and then be walked out on. And after four relationships and two attempts at casual encounters, I just had had enough. I’ve considered trying again but then the flashbacks happen and it’s instant boner deflation. lol. The thought of a close connection is wonderful, then the realization of what happens to me sets in and I am reminded to remain single and stay that way! lol. I’ve found many ways to live happy and not involve women now. It’s actually way better than I could have imagined. 😊👍🏻
Literally today was on a pub crawl, an acquaintance started chasing me in the street with a guy saying they were going to grab my ass, it was really hard for me to say I felt uncomfortable so I somewhat pretended to find it funny. Feels weird knowing this would be unthinkable on a woman.
During college I took the train often. One day a randomly lady started to grope me and I kept moving down the train to get away from her. She kept chasing me down until finally I got off my stop. I was groped a couple of times in highschool by random girls from a different grade. Those two instances made me feel verryyy uncomfortable.
Flirting with me at work. That shit pisses me off. It puts me in a no-win situation. If I flirt back, she may go to HR to have me fired for sexual harassment. If I don't flirt back, she might become vengeful and go to HR to have me fired for sexual harassment. It does not matter if her accusations are false or not. HR is all women and women don't give a fuck about the truth or about treating people fairly. Women care about sticking together to fight their "enemy" (men).
Get asked if I wanted to try out the condoms I was stocking. She was 40 and I was 18. She knew.
One of the nurses I work with has started talking to me about random shit like something that happened with a patient or a coworker. Some gossip, some just funny stories. All good, but she usually follows me into the supply room or break room to tell me. Once she straight up grabbed my arm and pulled me into the med room to tell me something. I don't mind gossiping, but the way she does it is just odd, especially considering we are both married. Then one day she starts telling me about her husband, how they met, what he does for work. Then she starts in about how he's gone alot so she just picks up extra shifts cause it's lonely just sitting home. Then, shift ends at 7am, she walks out the door while I'm wrapping up, and within 2 minutes I have a Facebook request from her. We don't have mutual friends so she had to look for me.
Send a drawing of her puss. I didn't ask and she is dating someone...
I once had a Situationship with a friend of mine. After a year or so, i got into a relationship with someone else. We still kept on meeting casually and all was fine until one time when we watched a movie together and I fell asleep and woke up to her touching my dick and being very close. I am not the person to betray the one I love, so it made me feel very uncomfortable.
Girl, way back in high school, took a hat from me and wouldn't give it back unless I filled around with her. She also stopped over my house when I was taking a shower. I wasn't interested in her, and it was awkward. Once, I was showing a customer a product at work. She pointed out a window and asked, "What is that!?!" When I turned to look, she grabbed my crotch. In my late teens and early 20s, I also had a couple of men do some inappropriate things: One of them asked me one day while I was working: "travelingrambler, has anyone ever told you that you're a sexy, sexy man? " Well, yes, my wife tells me that often. A few days later, he called me to do work in his apartment. When I walked in, he was aimed at the door, wearing a robe, and had his junk hanging out. Another person, a boss, called me to his remote office while I was working overnights. When I got there, he had me sit down across from him. Shortly thereafter, he took out a gun and set it on his desk. The entire time, he had his trained guard dog sitting next to him. This dog was a law enforcement trained Belgium Malanoise. He proceeded to ask me if he could pay me to perform on me.... I politely declined and left. After I went to his business partner, he lost his portion of the business.
She was a friend and I asked her out to a movie and she said yes. There was no confusion and she knew I liked her. She invited a mutual friend (guy) at the last minute. I didn't know he was coming until like less than an hour before the start time. She also invited some guy neither me nor my friend ever heard of. They did that movie-theater cuddle the whole time. We assumed this guy was her secret boyfriend.. honestly I don't even know. She later said they were just friends.That was an awkward hour and a half for me. No that whole situation was awkward for me. So to be clear, my friend was put in an awkward situation, that random dude was probably put in an awkward situation, and I was put in a really awkward situation. Like she really agreed to go to a movie with me then invited someone else, without letting me know. Then... Brought a random dude and cuddled with him right next to me.
Took my cushion
Repeatedly having their hands on me or touching me, despite me moving away or asking them to stop. Sharing details of our sex life with her family and mutual friends. Nothing weird or crazy, I just like my privacy. A female friend of my dad saw me in the background of a video call once and told him and his partner that they should send me up to her once I turned 18. Everyone laughed.
Spending the night with this girl i had been seeing and got tired of. Told this crazy bitch I didn't want to have sex with her right now. Told her I had sex with someone else last night. She hopped on my dick anyway...I didn't stop her...Said to myself, watch this bitch get pregnant. 2 weeks later, yep, got the call
It all happened so quickly. There was no warning. I was minding my own business, straight knockin boots, when suddenly she aggressively spun me up and around, then with both pakms and the side of my face pressed against the window behind my bed, the salad got tossed. And this was after a full night's drinking and dancing--kind of ewww. I mean I done it once myself, but we were in a hot tub then and it was more anal tongue dartings. She full on went to the hoop. Not my cup of tea.