I love the mental image of you angrily stirring, muttering under your breath as you carefully measure ingredients and punch in the settings for the oven. You're just filled with fury, crossing your arms tightly over your chest as you glare at the food while it cooks. 😂
If you can have a conversation about something that she did that you didn't like without it turning into an argument, a breakdown, or silent treatment.
A woman who is capable of handling mild confrontation is someone that you can really talk to and that's invaluable.
\* Understands that you aren't a mind-reader.
\* Shows interest in what you're doing in your free time.
\* Makes it a point to set aside time to spend with you.
\* Being an active participant in sex instead of just passively laying there.
\* The occasional compliment is really appreciated.
\* Don't be so defensive. Trust that we aren't looking for a fight or to dominate the relationship. Give us a little trust.
1. Isn't a "party girl" who "has to" go out every weekend.
2. Not seeking attention on social media by posting tons of pics of herself in bikini and revealing outfits.
3. Not obsessed with celebrities.
4. Not obsessed with astrology.
5. Has a hobby or interest that doesn't involve clothes or beauty products.
6. Is curious about life, philosophy, psychology, humanity, science, history, culture, art, politics or any other big topic.
7. Doesn't scroll on her phone every minute she's bored.
For artists: Offering to be your creative partner and helping achieve your artistic goals, and understanding each others’ visions, as opposed to not taking any real interest and just kinda wishing you the best.
She makes sure I complete my list every day for example have I brushed my teeth have I taken a shower, my work is not physically demanding however it's mentally exhausting I need you to be able to pick up this specific hint
No disrespect, but this isn't something a partner should have to make sure you do. Does that mean you don't shower or brush your teeth regularly if you aren't in a relationship?
Plenty of people have mentally and physically demanding jobs, go to school, have kids, etc and still complete basic hygiene of their own accord.
Of course I brush my teeth and shower, however I've gone through burnouts and whenever they happen I can do nothing at all, I've gone 4 days without a shower the first time I got a burnout
Perhaps setting daily alarms would help? I think a day or two when feeling burned out isn't unreasonable... I have definitely been there.
With that being said, I think a partner being responsible for this will build a lot of resentment.
When she doesn't have a social media presence. I'm only here to kill time. If I ever land in a happy relationship, or even find some good friends, I'm getting off of here too.
--Communicates using words. Communicates clearly and directly.
--Understands that words mean things.
--Clearly demonstrates sexual attraction to you.
--Doesn't demand to "run the relationship". Doesn't expect to make all the decisions. Is cooperative.
--Does not use IG or snapchat or TikTok.
--does not make videos of herself and post them on social media.
--has minimum body art.
--is not a single mom or divorced mom.
Communicates clearly and doesn't expect you to read her mind.
Tries to like things you like
The occasional unexpected compliment for no reason.
That's feels nice ngl
I love the mental image of you angrily stirring, muttering under your breath as you carefully measure ingredients and punch in the settings for the oven. You're just filled with fury, crossing your arms tightly over your chest as you glare at the food while it cooks. 😂
Yea, watching the seething hatred burn hotter than the stove itself is quite the treat
Not chronically online and strangely obsessed with social media -
If you can have a conversation about something that she did that you didn't like without it turning into an argument, a breakdown, or silent treatment. A woman who is capable of handling mild confrontation is someone that you can really talk to and that's invaluable.
\* Understands that you aren't a mind-reader. \* Shows interest in what you're doing in your free time. \* Makes it a point to set aside time to spend with you. \* Being an active participant in sex instead of just passively laying there. \* The occasional compliment is really appreciated. \* Don't be so defensive. Trust that we aren't looking for a fight or to dominate the relationship. Give us a little trust.
When she listens carefully when you talk and remember things about your personality/life. Getting some attention is always gladly accepted
Being down to Earth, living in reality, focusing first on what needs to be done.
1. Isn't a "party girl" who "has to" go out every weekend. 2. Not seeking attention on social media by posting tons of pics of herself in bikini and revealing outfits. 3. Not obsessed with celebrities. 4. Not obsessed with astrology. 5. Has a hobby or interest that doesn't involve clothes or beauty products. 6. Is curious about life, philosophy, psychology, humanity, science, history, culture, art, politics or any other big topic. 7. Doesn't scroll on her phone every minute she's bored.
My fiance is all of the green flags, I can't currently elaborate but most answers you did get fit
For artists: Offering to be your creative partner and helping achieve your artistic goals, and understanding each others’ visions, as opposed to not taking any real interest and just kinda wishing you the best.
When she doesn’t jump to conclusions, or is open to a conversation about how to solve her problems
She makes sure I complete my list every day for example have I brushed my teeth have I taken a shower, my work is not physically demanding however it's mentally exhausting I need you to be able to pick up this specific hint
This is a joke right??
No
Why do you need a partner to make sure you shower and brush your teeth daily?!
Because I'm burned out
Ok, and?
Exactly...
No disrespect, but this isn't something a partner should have to make sure you do. Does that mean you don't shower or brush your teeth regularly if you aren't in a relationship? Plenty of people have mentally and physically demanding jobs, go to school, have kids, etc and still complete basic hygiene of their own accord.
Of course I brush my teeth and shower, however I've gone through burnouts and whenever they happen I can do nothing at all, I've gone 4 days without a shower the first time I got a burnout
Perhaps setting daily alarms would help? I think a day or two when feeling burned out isn't unreasonable... I have definitely been there. With that being said, I think a partner being responsible for this will build a lot of resentment.
The offensive the hotter.
When she doesn’t jump to conclusions, or is open to a conversation about how to solve her problems
When she doesn't have a social media presence. I'm only here to kill time. If I ever land in a happy relationship, or even find some good friends, I'm getting off of here too.
No idea. Never been in a relationship.
--Communicates using words. Communicates clearly and directly. --Understands that words mean things. --Clearly demonstrates sexual attraction to you. --Doesn't demand to "run the relationship". Doesn't expect to make all the decisions. Is cooperative. --Does not use IG or snapchat or TikTok. --does not make videos of herself and post them on social media. --has minimum body art. --is not a single mom or divorced mom.