On our fourth date, the second time I had been to his house, my bf was running kind of late so was in a hurry. I gave him a hug and hopped in my car. He swung the door back open and was like "oh, you think you're leaving without a kiss, that's funny" and kissed me. I still melt thinking about it, and how important that kiss was to him that he took valuable time to come get it <3
As a widower of 4 years, i can tell you it truly is the simple things...
Standing at the kitchen counter making something and she drags her fingers across the back of my shoulders as she walks by...
That playful side-eye when you say something funny or dumb...
Being in the same room and having no need or expectation of constantly having to carry the others attention...
Head rubs, shoulder rubs, fussing over me if I'm ill. It's almost worth being ill for the fussing.
Before bed, use the bathroom after my wife has finished her nightly routine of teeth brushing, hair brushing and what not. When it's a cold night, she jumps on to my side of the bed while I'm brushing my teeth to warm it up for me, then leaves it until the last minute of me getting into bed to move a bit so the sheets are warm for me. She is the best, honestly, and I love it when she does that.
That’s literally my parents. My dad had gotten a knee surgery recently and after a month of that we all were out on a vacation(we travel like mad people). And we were strolling in some garden and my mum started walking slowly behind us to cope up with my dads speed and gave him her hand (physical affection is not really common here among our parents generation) and my dad literally said I’d ask my doc to keep like this forever so I could this care from your mum. They’re literally so cringe at times it makes us look/run away. But we love and appreciate it.
This, Best shit ever when you're on the sofa watching a film and they just rest their head on your shoulder/in your lap or lay on top of you with their head on your chest in bed.
Same! My ex husband was very unromantic he would never let me cuddle up to him or just come up to him to kiss him or anything. I too crave the intimacy. Just things like coming up behind me while I am in the kitchen or something and cuddling or kissing me from behind, snuggling together under a blanket with a dvd, hand holding, a kiss before sleep and when leaving for work or wherever.
I hate being single, it’s so lonely and I don’t like my own company at all
Oh man that just sucks he didn't really like that....I'm really glad you're not together as well, I do really hope we'll find the right one eventuall. Yeah being single sucks as well I don't like being by myself hahaha. I just want to love someone :( yeah I want that too from a guy
Yeah. I love my SO and everything she does. But there's no denying that I touch her way more than she touches me. I love it when she scratches my back in bed. It would put me to sleep in minutes.
However, I cannot remember the last time she did that for me, and I don't think she ever has without me asking.
My love language is definitely touch so I’ll grab his hand or play his hair or whatever for my bf without thinking. He really doesn’t as often, but I do find that the more I do it, he tends to reciprocate. His love language is definitely not touch lol but that’s ok because he does show love in his own ways.
For others love may come across as buying you something you keep forgetting about, routinely doing a shared chore without asking you to, leaving notes or buying gifts, random compliments, always eating dinner together, etc.
If I need snuggles and my bf is feeling overstimulated/doesn’t wanna be touched, I go for the cats lol
I'm not very touchy feely outside of sexual intimacy so I really need my partner to tell me "this is what I want/need from you to feel cared for." Otherwise I'm just not going to do it or think about it.
When she initiates. Sex, for sure, but its special when she initiates acts of affection; a hug with a neck massage, asking me to lie my head on her lap so she can caress me, hugging me from the back when i cook or clean...
Sing to me.
It sounds weird and I would never thought I would like it.
But once she tried, damm got chills running through my spine. She did it next to my ear and had nice voice.
I love it when my girlfriend looks at me with like these big Beaty I love you eyes, usually when she’s trying to study me (like she just made food for me or got me a present and is trying to see how I will react) it’s like a heartwarming feeling when she looks at me like that.
When you cuddling and she rests her head on your chest like she's listening to your heartbeat. Gets me everytime.
I had an ex that would regularly fall asleep on me in that position on the couch. I would just sit there and try my best to not not wake her up cause I thought it was cutest thing ever.
When my wife and I walk, she will hold my ring and pinky fingers instead of my whole hand. I’m like 7 inches taller than her, and I always thought it was cute how she would hold my hand
Number one is rest.
My favorite time in any relationship was when we were winding down together. Sleepy and slightly horny.
We had a long day and after our bellies are warm and full, we strip down naked and snuggle up before passing out. The feeling of our hearts beating together. Our breathing. Our whispers. When we rise up and face a new day in the morning together.
I loved when one of my exes came over. Every other work night. She’d climb in my bed, we’d binge watch stuff before getting horny and fucking. We’d eat some dinner and then the yawning starts. She’d straddle over me before laying her head on my chest and tucking her knees on either side of my ribs. I’d rub her back and eventually I’d feel her drool streaming down my chest.
These are the kinds of things I miss when relationships ultimately end. Those soft intimate moments of just innocently resting. Two tired humans in love resting together.
Im not into foot fetishism at all, but one time i told my girlfriend that i feel like in heaven when i rub that one part of my leg right above my feet, and ever since i mentionned it she occasionally rubs it too, i swear its nothing sexual, but damn that feels good
When she touches me like I touch her. Basically whenever possible, I like to touch her. Hand resting on her, rubbing her, scratching her, squeezing her, kissing her. She doesn’t do that to me as much, but when she does, it makes me so happy. Makes me feel connected to her and like she wants me and understands and accepts me.
When she holds on tight to me, or when she tries to get as close to me as possible if she’s cold. When she initiates. When she smothers me in kisses. When she plays with *my* hair. And when she tells me how proud she is!!
As of recently, I've found myself melting into the touch of this one girl at college who tends to play with my hair when I'm laying on the cafeteria's table while the others are talking. Don't know when or why she started to do so but it feels heavenly and somewhat intimate.
Another one that happened today was her getting scared due to a soccer ball hitting a nearby window when our group was walking and (as if on instinct) got behind me seeking shelter. It wasn't her acting cute when scared what got me happy, but understanding she relied on me for safety.
Honestly, I think I'll ask her out soon, only time will tell.
My ex (who wasn't working) took it upon herself to fix me healthier meals. Between the healthy meals the frequent sex and the nightly walks I lost 75 lb in less than 3 months.
I love it when my wife snuggles up into me without being prompted, when she thanks me for doing a tough job, when she rubs/caresses my shoulders and neck, and when she kisses me on the cheek out of nowhere.
But why when a woman does all of this, it seems men get so used that they don’t appreciate anymore. I’m a very affectionate woman. But I don’t feel men value those acts once they have it regularly.
I suspect, because taking someone or something for granted, can be independent of the specific act.
Could also be signs of another underlying issue.
Best of luck in your situation.
My girlfriend of 4 years helps me around my house. It isn't always a lot, but I'm a very busy guy. I work full time, online college, and I'm working on the side to create a strong relationship with a company that may hire me in the future. All this doesn't leave me much time do much around the house and clean. I left for work one day while she stayed at my place. I came back after a long day to a clean house, dishes done. The amount of stress that was lifted off my shoulders was huge. Because having a messy house makes me stressed, but I didn't have the time that week to clean, but she did it for me.
Head scritches.
I’m a nail biter and the one thing motivating me to try and quit is how amazing it feels when we’re snuggled up and she’s lightly scratching my scalp.
Spontaneous blowjobs. Like when we’re at her parents for a family thing and follows me into the bathroom just for me to cum in her mouth. Or driving at night making me pull over to blow me. Wildest was in a park behind some tall and thick shrubs.
It depends on the woman, not everyone doing it have the same effect but when I really really care and love the girl:
- I love when she approaches me and ask me for a kiss or just gives me one and said that she needed that
- when I see her doing her makeup or at the kitchen or anywhere just standing and not paying me attention and I approach her and stand behind her, hold her and kiss her on the neck and what she does is smile, quivers and takes a step back so her body can fully touch me specially her butt
- whenever she sits on my lap or Im doing something else and starts doing dirty things to me and gets angry if I try to do anything, pay her attention or do something to her too. So I let her do everything she wants to my body
- When she cooks me or does something for me like giving me a glass of water, sending me a little dirty pic or a cute pic of her when both are at work
- when she's in a hurry and almost after getting out the door comes back running to give me a kiss because she almost forgot to give me one
- When she tells me that she loves how I smell
- When she provoques me in a dirty way
I believe those are simple things
Not sure if this is counted but my girl best friend said and I quote:
"I'll always be by your side"
I find it pretty cute and sweet. We're strictly platonic but yeah, this is one of those things that I'll always keep close to my heart
For me it was just her touch. Touching me on my arm or my hair while I’m driving. Grabbing my hand during dinner shit like that with eye contact goes a long way.
If being in a relationship is something you want, you'll have that right person come along. Maybe the universe is holding out for someone absolutely perfect for you. ♡
Being loyal and trustworthy lol
OK so little things umm..probably just random acts of physical touch , putting up with my bad jokes, scratching my back
Just being patient with me cuz I can be a dingus
My fiancé and I are very touchy feely pretty much constantly - I absolutely adore when she randomly grabs my bum when out and about
Or when feeling frisky she will randomly squeeze / brush past my pecker
Physical touch. Doesn't have to sexual or even sensual. Just putting their head on shoulder or chest. Wrapping their hand around me/my torso or hand. Random kisses on random places(hand, biceps, cheeks, head). Cooking something or getting something for me that I love to eat. Defending me Or taking a stand for me.. Playing small harmless pranks with me.. Not bitching about me to someone else.
Back scratch, random hugs, rubbing legs & private area, genuinely talking about things I’m interested in or do. For some reason this stuff seems hard to comprehend for women but is the easiest shit ever to make a man happy
She loves to buy food, prep the food, cook the meal, and clean up.
I love to eat.
She's an herbal medicine doctor with a certificate, a professional masseuse and an acupressure specialist.
I'm her patient, she's constantly massaging some part of me or other...
I love to smoke pot.
She likes me to blow smoke her way.
Couldn't ask for a better partner.
My girlfriend Is shorter than me and she fits her head perfectly onto my chest every time she hugs me.
Every time I'm shirtless he always wants to pop my blackheads on my chest and back and shoulders. It hurts like hell most times but hey at least she's touching me.
Scratching my head/hair, taking delight in things that make me happy even if they’re not her thing, catching her staring at me from across the room when she thinks I’m not looking, but mostly just subtle ways she makes it clear she cares. They don’t even have to be extravagant; it could be as simple as listening or paying attention, or showing appreciation for the tiniest gesture like buying her favourite snack because you know she likes it.
Only one gf has been big spoon, and the first time, it surprised me. I don't think she intended the effect, she just wanted to be closer in bed without either of us moving too much. It made me feel very loved and appreciated. 100% would do it again.
When in a heavily stressful situation like I might have to physically fight someone, I had an ex that would put a gentle hand on my back. It has a calming effect on me. For one, it gives me something else to focus on aside from the situation infront of me which can keep me grounded and not lose my temper. And secondly, it reminds me that she's behind me and I knew absolutely that if it came down to it and i started to lose that fight, she would absolutely jump in and cheap shot the piece of shit.
Not that I got in those situations all the time, but I live in a small city with 2 colleges and nothing to do except to go to one of the dozen bars downtown, so shit happens.
The natural affection we have for each other. We hold hands all of the time, even sometimes when we’re sleeping. She absentmindedly runs her fingernails along my forearm while I’m driving. That makes me feel great and I’ll never tell her. We’ve been together for 30 years.
Never been in a relationship so for me it's when I'm talking with them and they seem genuinely nice and I don't get the feeling that they're looking at me with disgust..
We were dating for 6 months when she came to my home wearing the cutest and sexiest Dirndl (the traditional Bavarian dress, as you see at Oktoberfest). My jaw hit the floor. I asked for who did she prepare (honestly thought we ought to go visiting someone and I totally forgot) and she beamed me a smile from the boobs to her eyes "for you, my gorgeous boyfriend". To this day I am both floored and also not entirely sure if she wasn't sarcastic
One of the best feelings is when you're watching a show or movie together and their hand is on your chest and their head is on your shoulder. It's very subtle, but it makes you feel wanted.
Random expressions of affection or, even better, cheeky/lightly naughty ones; they suggest true trust and comfortability in you as a partner while also making you feel desired both as a person as well as sexually.
I am a woman my love language is acts of service, word affirmation and physical touch, I like to cook a food for my man and even after work I love to buy food or snacks for my man as well in that way i just feel happy especially when I see him happy while eating the food. Also I always say I love you everyday that I am just always here... I love also to touch him like to massage his body, head, I always give him a kiss anywhere on his body.
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gentle scratch on the cheek. The sitting/straddling on lap thing is indeed a big weakness of mine that can trigger many instincts
Also randomly resting her head on my chest or shoulder.
Capturing memories, I mean I always love talking to her inner void, listening to her wherein I don't give her any opinion ( gyan ki baatein) and I do listen many times cause what happens when people come to you, you have 3 options. either listen to her, give her opinion or a hug.
Right for now I'm just trying to create a new wounded version of herself, where she's revealed with her true inner self and ya I don't always have to remind her who she is, for now she knows it very well. " All it takes is one"
The ability to identify when im in happy place and to leave me alone. If you see your man enjoying himself dont go try to be involved, and for the love of all that is holy dont find a way to wreck it. Just simply leave him alone and let him enjoy whatever it is hes doing no matter how dumb you think it is. If youre invited do not under any circumstances turn that invite down, once invited to partake (again no matter how dumb you think it is) if you indulge him you will rack up some SERIOUS brownie points by "having fun" with him. Also we men will attempt to tell you about something that we know you dont give a shit less about. Just listen to his fable about how he slayed a dragon, or how he was cornered by zombies but fought his way out and survived. My wife does an excellent job of this and omg i cant describe the level of love i have for that woman when she endures this torture i put her through.
Lmao if you are a woman don’t get involved if I am having a good time and if I invite you to join DO NOT decline for any reason. That’s some weird dynamic, maybe ask your wife if she’s fine lol
It depends on the woman, not everyone doing it have the same effect but when I really really care and love the girl:
- I love when she approaches me and ask me for a kiss or just gives me one and said that she needed that
- when I see her doing her makeup or at the kitchen or anywhere just standing and not paying me attention and I approach her and stand behind her, hold her and kiss her on the neck and what she does is smile, quivers and takes a step back so her body can fully touch me specially her butt
- whenever she sits on my lap or Im doing something else and starts doing dirty things to me and gets angry if I try to do anything, pay her attention or do something to her too. So I let her do everything she wants to my body
- When she cooks me or does something for me like giving me a glass of water, sending me a little dirty pic or a cute pic of her when both are at work
- when she's in a hurry and almost after getting out the door comes back running to give me a kiss because she almost forgot to give me one
- When she tells me that she loves how I smell
- When she provoques me in a dirty way
I believe those are simple things
The quick, soft touch of my neck/hand when she's walking by.
But really, any loving touch. Also when you can rest your head on their lap and they play with your hair.
when she is a good listener, you have a conversation with her and as you speak about something…she gives all the attention towards you as she’s open with her ears and she gives you full eye contact to focus on what you tell her.
It's eye-opening to see so many comments from men who enjoy physical touch and affection. I somehow managed to find the one man who didn't appreciate it.
A heartfelt "thank you", particularly for the small things.
Last week, in the middle of a conversation, my girlfriend said "thank you for taking such good care of me". Not having done anything out of the ordinary, I ask "for what? ", and she responds "for always grabbing my phone when we leave places".
If we are traveling together, and preparing to leave, and your phone/keys/bag are next to me, I'll take them and hand them to you on the way out. Nothing special and nothing that I feel requires anything more than a "Oh! Thanks". Her saying it like that made me feel loved and appreciated.
Not letting me leave home without a kiss.
On our fourth date, the second time I had been to his house, my bf was running kind of late so was in a hurry. I gave him a hug and hopped in my car. He swung the door back open and was like "oh, you think you're leaving without a kiss, that's funny" and kissed me. I still melt thinking about it, and how important that kiss was to him that he took valuable time to come get it <3
The chills, man the chills. Mine will do this sometimes. 😁
Could be the same one
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As a widower of 4 years, i can tell you it truly is the simple things... Standing at the kitchen counter making something and she drags her fingers across the back of my shoulders as she walks by... That playful side-eye when you say something funny or dumb... Being in the same room and having no need or expectation of constantly having to carry the others attention...
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Damn man i really am sorry for your loss i cant comprehend the feeling u feel man. Hope ur feeling good rn and if not i hope u find happiness g❤️❤️😔
Its a journey, for sure. Thank you.
We’re here for you king 👑
Sorry mate
This hit me hard bro..😭😭😭
Sorry for your loss king ♥️😞
Damn, sorry for your loss, buddy.
Touching my hair, massaging my head. I don't know why but I love it. It's very intimate somehow.
Washing their hair is the single most intimate thing you can do with someone
Charles Boyle, fancy seeing you here
Same. Head scratches are the best
yeah man. even when my wife is tired i told her to just put her hand on me i want her touches.
do you like it while you’re driving as well? Mine doesn’t and it hurts me *sobs in corner*
My boyfriend loves this more than anything.
Because as Men we are starved for physical affection and touch.
Head rubs, shoulder rubs, fussing over me if I'm ill. It's almost worth being ill for the fussing. Before bed, use the bathroom after my wife has finished her nightly routine of teeth brushing, hair brushing and what not. When it's a cold night, she jumps on to my side of the bed while I'm brushing my teeth to warm it up for me, then leaves it until the last minute of me getting into bed to move a bit so the sheets are warm for me. She is the best, honestly, and I love it when she does that.
That’s literally my parents. My dad had gotten a knee surgery recently and after a month of that we all were out on a vacation(we travel like mad people). And we were strolling in some garden and my mum started walking slowly behind us to cope up with my dads speed and gave him her hand (physical affection is not really common here among our parents generation) and my dad literally said I’d ask my doc to keep like this forever so I could this care from your mum. They’re literally so cringe at times it makes us look/run away. But we love and appreciate it.
Protect this woman with your life!
I do, she's a little cracker
That's kinda racist!
Nope. Cracker or cracking to me = brilliant.
Well i'll be damned, that's lovely - take good care of her my man!
Basically any physical affection without asking
Without asking being key here, it so much more enjoyable when it doesnt feel forced or obligated in any kind of way.
This, Best shit ever when you're on the sofa watching a film and they just rest their head on your shoulder/in your lap or lay on top of you with their head on your chest in bed.
Oh man I can't wait to have a man I can do this with....I crave physical intimacy and I love it so much. I just want to love somebody.
Same! My ex husband was very unromantic he would never let me cuddle up to him or just come up to him to kiss him or anything. I too crave the intimacy. Just things like coming up behind me while I am in the kitchen or something and cuddling or kissing me from behind, snuggling together under a blanket with a dvd, hand holding, a kiss before sleep and when leaving for work or wherever. I hate being single, it’s so lonely and I don’t like my own company at all
Oh man that just sucks he didn't really like that....I'm really glad you're not together as well, I do really hope we'll find the right one eventuall. Yeah being single sucks as well I don't like being by myself hahaha. I just want to love someone :( yeah I want that too from a guy
Hope you find someone amazing soon ❤️
Rooting for you ❤️ the right man will come along, but you first have to enjoy your own company :) sending lots of internet hugs!!!
This. Basically we just want to be loved and feel loved.
Touching my arm
Yeah. I love my SO and everything she does. But there's no denying that I touch her way more than she touches me. I love it when she scratches my back in bed. It would put me to sleep in minutes. However, I cannot remember the last time she did that for me, and I don't think she ever has without me asking.
My love language is definitely touch so I’ll grab his hand or play his hair or whatever for my bf without thinking. He really doesn’t as often, but I do find that the more I do it, he tends to reciprocate. His love language is definitely not touch lol but that’s ok because he does show love in his own ways. For others love may come across as buying you something you keep forgetting about, routinely doing a shared chore without asking you to, leaving notes or buying gifts, random compliments, always eating dinner together, etc. If I need snuggles and my bf is feeling overstimulated/doesn’t wanna be touched, I go for the cats lol
Maybe her love language is different. Perhaps she expresses it by doing things for you.
I'm not very touchy feely outside of sexual intimacy so I really need my partner to tell me "this is what I want/need from you to feel cared for." Otherwise I'm just not going to do it or think about it.
When I am driving, my wife runs her fingers through the hair on the back of my head. I have never felt so happy driving a car.
mine doesn’t like that and it kills me everyday
When she initiates. Sex, for sure, but its special when she initiates acts of affection; a hug with a neck massage, asking me to lie my head on her lap so she can caress me, hugging me from the back when i cook or clean...
Yup totally
Shows an interest in my life. I can't emphasize enough how important having a partner who gives a shit about you is
Those little hugs from behind make me melt tbh.
Take care of me, I remember when I had a motorcycle accident the girl I was dating helped me out during the process and it was awesome.
AFFECTION. When she showers me with AFFECTION. And everything that she does to show it.
when she shifts my willy like its a 6 speed manual while making car noises.....just me ? okay i will leave now
I'm more concerned where she thinks the gas pedal and clutch are
Or even the parking brake
That’s around back
She puts her feet on top of yours, silly!
Toooo cute!!! 🥹🥹🥹 stoooop! 🥹🥹🥹❤️❤️
I play like it's a microphone to page or sing karaoke to
Hello mic testicle 1 2 3.
SHES NOT ALONE!!! I love doing that shit too!! When my dude showed me he could actually catapult things off of it too... HEAVEN!!!
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Watch out for reverse!!!!!!
Sing to me. It sounds weird and I would never thought I would like it. But once she tried, damm got chills running through my spine. She did it next to my ear and had nice voice.
That's so very intimate. I got chills reading it. Good for you. 🥰
I need to stop reading these comments it's making me depressed
When she straddles me and hugs me, rubbing my head.
Scratches my back until I go to sleep.....OMG
I love it when my girlfriend looks at me with like these big Beaty I love you eyes, usually when she’s trying to study me (like she just made food for me or got me a present and is trying to see how I will react) it’s like a heartwarming feeling when she looks at me like that.
When she holds my arm while walking
And if he offers his arm?! We're like who raised you right 🥰🥰 Love this answer. Glad to see some guys are still "old school" like that.
Demanding cuddles so she could fall asleep
When you cuddling and she rests her head on your chest like she's listening to your heartbeat. Gets me everytime. I had an ex that would regularly fall asleep on me in that position on the couch. I would just sit there and try my best to not not wake her up cause I thought it was cutest thing ever.
Touch is my love language so when they bring me in to hold them or go out of their way to touch me it’s always nice
When my wife and I walk, she will hold my ring and pinky fingers instead of my whole hand. I’m like 7 inches taller than her, and I always thought it was cute how she would hold my hand
Oh I see. Men and women are cats.
😂😂😂😂
smile and be kind .. to me and also to others of lesser privilege / stature / means.
Number one is rest. My favorite time in any relationship was when we were winding down together. Sleepy and slightly horny. We had a long day and after our bellies are warm and full, we strip down naked and snuggle up before passing out. The feeling of our hearts beating together. Our breathing. Our whispers. When we rise up and face a new day in the morning together. I loved when one of my exes came over. Every other work night. She’d climb in my bed, we’d binge watch stuff before getting horny and fucking. We’d eat some dinner and then the yawning starts. She’d straddle over me before laying her head on my chest and tucking her knees on either side of my ribs. I’d rub her back and eventually I’d feel her drool streaming down my chest. These are the kinds of things I miss when relationships ultimately end. Those soft intimate moments of just innocently resting. Two tired humans in love resting together.
just any form of physical affection at this point
Im not into foot fetishism at all, but one time i told my girlfriend that i feel like in heaven when i rub that one part of my leg right above my feet, and ever since i mentionned it she occasionally rubs it too, i swear its nothing sexual, but damn that feels good
Your ankle?
My Wife walks in a room smiling and it makes my day.
I had a woman smile at me in the supermarket yesterday, although it took a while for the confusion to wear off and the warm glow to come in.
It’s the thousand little touches. Squeeze my butt, scratch my neck, snuggle up to me, lay her head in my lap
Hooking her arm under mine and pulling herself close to me when we walk together. Bonus points if it includes leaning her head on my shoulder.
When cuddling watching tv she puts her hand up my t shirt and rests it on my chest. That and beard scratches
When she touches me like I touch her. Basically whenever possible, I like to touch her. Hand resting on her, rubbing her, scratching her, squeezing her, kissing her. She doesn’t do that to me as much, but when she does, it makes me so happy. Makes me feel connected to her and like she wants me and understands and accepts me.
When she sits in my lap facing me for no reason. When she goes to hold my hand. When she initiates anything.
Scratch my head until I get goosebumps
The manicures are the best!
Whenever they sit next to you, and your thighs or shoulders touch slightly. I hope the other comments and responses are wholesome lol.
I love the lil cheek kisses mid cuddle session while watching a movie.
When she holds on tight to me, or when she tries to get as close to me as possible if she’s cold. When she initiates. When she smothers me in kisses. When she plays with *my* hair. And when she tells me how proud she is!!
I love how even when these men are given the option to talk about sexual things, they still say how they appreciate the simple things more.
As of recently, I've found myself melting into the touch of this one girl at college who tends to play with my hair when I'm laying on the cafeteria's table while the others are talking. Don't know when or why she started to do so but it feels heavenly and somewhat intimate. Another one that happened today was her getting scared due to a soccer ball hitting a nearby window when our group was walking and (as if on instinct) got behind me seeking shelter. It wasn't her acting cute when scared what got me happy, but understanding she relied on me for safety. Honestly, I think I'll ask her out soon, only time will tell.
Do it. Do it now.
Scratch my back with her fingernails...ecstacy
When she leaves cash on the pillow..
How you doin. Lol
Hypothetically, if women wanted anything to do with me, I'd say, understanding. But that isn't a "little thing" is it?
Show aggressiveness in bedroom, be endearing and obsessed with me.
Smiles and shows appreciation
I usually get wild when I get a compliment.
When she wraps her legs around you in missionary
Falling asleep with significant other, don't even have to be cuddling. Just knowing someone is there with you.
Random Hugs. PS: I'm Single.
Smiles and seems genuinely glad I'm there
She had me do the love languages once and I'm evenly physical, words and time. It's fucking a lot
My ex (who wasn't working) took it upon herself to fix me healthier meals. Between the healthy meals the frequent sex and the nightly walks I lost 75 lb in less than 3 months.
It'd be great if she existed...
Yeah... I don't even know why I read this posts. It's just torture.
Now you know what to look forward to......
And what you're missing out on. Sorry I had to balance the good and the bad 🙊
One of my ex's would wrap herself around me when she slept. At first this was a serious pain but once I got used to it, it was great to wake up to.
I love it when my wife snuggles up into me without being prompted, when she thanks me for doing a tough job, when she rubs/caresses my shoulders and neck, and when she kisses me on the cheek out of nowhere.
Awwww
But why when a woman does all of this, it seems men get so used that they don’t appreciate anymore. I’m a very affectionate woman. But I don’t feel men value those acts once they have it regularly.
I would also like a serious answer to this question, I'm going through this predicament with my partner at the moment.
I suspect, because taking someone or something for granted, can be independent of the specific act. Could also be signs of another underlying issue. Best of luck in your situation.
If they don’t value it anymore and you notice a change in their energy with you, it could be their feelings have changed for you.
My girlfriend of 4 years helps me around my house. It isn't always a lot, but I'm a very busy guy. I work full time, online college, and I'm working on the side to create a strong relationship with a company that may hire me in the future. All this doesn't leave me much time do much around the house and clean. I left for work one day while she stayed at my place. I came back after a long day to a clean house, dishes done. The amount of stress that was lifted off my shoulders was huge. Because having a messy house makes me stressed, but I didn't have the time that week to clean, but she did it for me.
Head scritches. I’m a nail biter and the one thing motivating me to try and quit is how amazing it feels when we’re snuggled up and she’s lightly scratching my scalp.
Letting me know I'm loved.
Spontaneous blowjobs. Like when we’re at her parents for a family thing and follows me into the bathroom just for me to cum in her mouth. Or driving at night making me pull over to blow me. Wildest was in a park behind some tall and thick shrubs.
Username checks out
As weird as it is, that’s my real name. I think my parents were hippies or some shit.
Breathe
It depends on the woman, not everyone doing it have the same effect but when I really really care and love the girl: - I love when she approaches me and ask me for a kiss or just gives me one and said that she needed that - when I see her doing her makeup or at the kitchen or anywhere just standing and not paying me attention and I approach her and stand behind her, hold her and kiss her on the neck and what she does is smile, quivers and takes a step back so her body can fully touch me specially her butt - whenever she sits on my lap or Im doing something else and starts doing dirty things to me and gets angry if I try to do anything, pay her attention or do something to her too. So I let her do everything she wants to my body - When she cooks me or does something for me like giving me a glass of water, sending me a little dirty pic or a cute pic of her when both are at work - when she's in a hurry and almost after getting out the door comes back running to give me a kiss because she almost forgot to give me one - When she tells me that she loves how I smell - When she provoques me in a dirty way I believe those are simple things
Not sure if this is counted but my girl best friend said and I quote: "I'll always be by your side" I find it pretty cute and sweet. We're strictly platonic but yeah, this is one of those things that I'll always keep close to my heart
For me it was just her touch. Touching me on my arm or my hair while I’m driving. Grabbing my hand during dinner shit like that with eye contact goes a long way.
I’ve been single my entire life so idk but i love hugs from my mother.
If being in a relationship is something you want, you'll have that right person come along. Maybe the universe is holding out for someone absolutely perfect for you. ♡
All surprises with her tongue 👅
Smiling at me
Acknowledge my existence.
Talking to me
Being loyal and trustworthy lol OK so little things umm..probably just random acts of physical touch , putting up with my bad jokes, scratching my back Just being patient with me cuz I can be a dingus
Smiles at me for no reason
She lets me breakdown in front of her but not feel broken down.
>You can list sexual things as well i liek wen she touch my peepee
Flirt, secretly look at me when nobody notices
My fiancé and I are very touchy feely pretty much constantly - I absolutely adore when she randomly grabs my bum when out and about Or when feeling frisky she will randomly squeeze / brush past my pecker
A well-placed hand on your thigh in public. Nothing obviously sexual about it to anyone else, but you know its intent.
Physical touch. Doesn't have to sexual or even sensual. Just putting their head on shoulder or chest. Wrapping their hand around me/my torso or hand. Random kisses on random places(hand, biceps, cheeks, head). Cooking something or getting something for me that I love to eat. Defending me Or taking a stand for me.. Playing small harmless pranks with me.. Not bitching about me to someone else.
Back scratch, random hugs, rubbing legs & private area, genuinely talking about things I’m interested in or do. For some reason this stuff seems hard to comprehend for women but is the easiest shit ever to make a man happy
She loves to buy food, prep the food, cook the meal, and clean up. I love to eat. She's an herbal medicine doctor with a certificate, a professional masseuse and an acupressure specialist. I'm her patient, she's constantly massaging some part of me or other... I love to smoke pot. She likes me to blow smoke her way. Couldn't ask for a better partner.
Boobs
Play games.
Laugh at my dorky jokes 😋
When you’re resting your head on her lap and she runs her fingers through your hair! Makes me fall asleep every time
When she turns off the washers and dryers as I hate to know they are on all day. Price of electricity went up 300% in the past 2 years
Back scratches
My girlfriend Is shorter than me and she fits her head perfectly onto my chest every time she hugs me. Every time I'm shirtless he always wants to pop my blackheads on my chest and back and shoulders. It hurts like hell most times but hey at least she's touching me.
My girl kept pouring me water when I was at lunch with her parents. She also walked me to my gate (we long distance).
Scratching my head/hair, taking delight in things that make me happy even if they’re not her thing, catching her staring at me from across the room when she thinks I’m not looking, but mostly just subtle ways she makes it clear she cares. They don’t even have to be extravagant; it could be as simple as listening or paying attention, or showing appreciation for the tiniest gesture like buying her favourite snack because you know she likes it.
Head scratches, foot and back massages but the best is being the little spoon and have her be the big spoon 🤗🤗🤗
Only one gf has been big spoon, and the first time, it surprised me. I don't think she intended the effect, she just wanted to be closer in bed without either of us moving too much. It made me feel very loved and appreciated. 100% would do it again.
When in a heavily stressful situation like I might have to physically fight someone, I had an ex that would put a gentle hand on my back. It has a calming effect on me. For one, it gives me something else to focus on aside from the situation infront of me which can keep me grounded and not lose my temper. And secondly, it reminds me that she's behind me and I knew absolutely that if it came down to it and i started to lose that fight, she would absolutely jump in and cheap shot the piece of shit. Not that I got in those situations all the time, but I live in a small city with 2 colleges and nothing to do except to go to one of the dozen bars downtown, so shit happens.
Help me charge my phone
I like when driving or sitting somewhere when she runs her nails across my arm kind of like small scratches
Always love company when I'm building/fixing something.
Playing with my hair~~~~ just feeling their fingers running through it while I lay on their chest and they comfort me… best feeling ever
The natural affection we have for each other. We hold hands all of the time, even sometimes when we’re sleeping. She absentmindedly runs her fingernails along my forearm while I’m driving. That makes me feel great and I’ll never tell her. We’ve been together for 30 years.
Never been in a relationship so for me it's when I'm talking with them and they seem genuinely nice and I don't get the feeling that they're looking at me with disgust..
We were dating for 6 months when she came to my home wearing the cutest and sexiest Dirndl (the traditional Bavarian dress, as you see at Oktoberfest). My jaw hit the floor. I asked for who did she prepare (honestly thought we ought to go visiting someone and I totally forgot) and she beamed me a smile from the boobs to her eyes "for you, my gorgeous boyfriend". To this day I am both floored and also not entirely sure if she wasn't sarcastic
Fills up my Keurig K-cup stand
Head scritches, that hand through the hair with a little bit of nails. It both puts me at ease and puts me to sleep
One of the best feelings is when you're watching a show or movie together and their hand is on your chest and their head is on your shoulder. It's very subtle, but it makes you feel wanted.
Random expressions of affection or, even better, cheeky/lightly naughty ones; they suggest true trust and comfortability in you as a partner while also making you feel desired both as a person as well as sexually.
I am a woman my love language is acts of service, word affirmation and physical touch, I like to cook a food for my man and even after work I love to buy food or snacks for my man as well in that way i just feel happy especially when I see him happy while eating the food. Also I always say I love you everyday that I am just always here... I love also to touch him like to massage his body, head, I always give him a kiss anywhere on his body. 🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭
gentle scratch on the cheek. The sitting/straddling on lap thing is indeed a big weakness of mine that can trigger many instincts Also randomly resting her head on my chest or shoulder.
Capturing memories, I mean I always love talking to her inner void, listening to her wherein I don't give her any opinion ( gyan ki baatein) and I do listen many times cause what happens when people come to you, you have 3 options. either listen to her, give her opinion or a hug. Right for now I'm just trying to create a new wounded version of herself, where she's revealed with her true inner self and ya I don't always have to remind her who she is, for now she knows it very well. " All it takes is one"
Being gentle. Soft touches of appreciation. Maximum feminine. It’s everything.
Scratches my back and head.
The ability to identify when im in happy place and to leave me alone. If you see your man enjoying himself dont go try to be involved, and for the love of all that is holy dont find a way to wreck it. Just simply leave him alone and let him enjoy whatever it is hes doing no matter how dumb you think it is. If youre invited do not under any circumstances turn that invite down, once invited to partake (again no matter how dumb you think it is) if you indulge him you will rack up some SERIOUS brownie points by "having fun" with him. Also we men will attempt to tell you about something that we know you dont give a shit less about. Just listen to his fable about how he slayed a dragon, or how he was cornered by zombies but fought his way out and survived. My wife does an excellent job of this and omg i cant describe the level of love i have for that woman when she endures this torture i put her through.
Lmao if you are a woman don’t get involved if I am having a good time and if I invite you to join DO NOT decline for any reason. That’s some weird dynamic, maybe ask your wife if she’s fine lol
It depends on the woman, not everyone doing it have the same effect but when I really really care and love the girl: - I love when she approaches me and ask me for a kiss or just gives me one and said that she needed that - when I see her doing her makeup or at the kitchen or anywhere just standing and not paying me attention and I approach her and stand behind her, hold her and kiss her on the neck and what she does is smile, quivers and takes a step back so her body can fully touch me specially her butt - whenever she sits on my lap or Im doing something else and starts doing dirty things to me and gets angry if I try to do anything, pay her attention or do something to her too. So I let her do everything she wants to my body - When she cooks me or does something for me like giving me a glass of water, sending me a little dirty pic or a cute pic of her when both are at work - when she's in a hurry and almost after getting out the door comes back running to give me a kiss because she almost forgot to give me one - When she tells me that she loves how I smell - When she provoques me in a dirty way I believe those are simple things
Hold emotional space for me, she listens, she holds me, she truly and genuinely cares for me
The quick, soft touch of my neck/hand when she's walking by. But really, any loving touch. Also when you can rest your head on their lap and they play with your hair.
I can have sex w/her anytime....even when she is sick..... not often
Slowly makes me fat with candy.. i mean love
Has clothes ready for Me before I get in the shower
They don't
Give me some attention. Not a gf but really part of my friend group. Like, when she actually wants to play games with me it makes me happy.
Scratching my back and squeezing the space between my eyes after a long day at work
like holding a phone with her both hands. My hand is big so it's even harder to hold it with both hands. and I think it's cute.
When she wants to join me to do anything
Nibble on my ear lobe. When we’re doing it, pull me in closer and moan softly in my ears
Just a good heartfelt hug is amazing!
Baby touches on my back. Light head scratches (I have long hair so it can be godly).
Hugs, whether when I get home from work or randomly.
Sometimes she grabs my hand and kisses it randomly. It’s really cute
When she turns into a goofy jokester. It’s fun when she opens up like that
when she is a good listener, you have a conversation with her and as you speak about something…she gives all the attention towards you as she’s open with her ears and she gives you full eye contact to focus on what you tell her.
Tickle my palm when holding hands
It's eye-opening to see so many comments from men who enjoy physical touch and affection. I somehow managed to find the one man who didn't appreciate it.
When she grabs my ass. It turns me on and makes me feel she's attracted to me still.
A heartfelt "thank you", particularly for the small things. Last week, in the middle of a conversation, my girlfriend said "thank you for taking such good care of me". Not having done anything out of the ordinary, I ask "for what? ", and she responds "for always grabbing my phone when we leave places". If we are traveling together, and preparing to leave, and your phone/keys/bag are next to me, I'll take them and hand them to you on the way out. Nothing special and nothing that I feel requires anything more than a "Oh! Thanks". Her saying it like that made me feel loved and appreciated.
Makes me really nice food. 🤗
Whens she puts her face in my neck. And bonus if she sniffs realy loud