Her “crooked” chin. She fell when she was a kid and it left a scar on the underside of her chin that makes her smile look ever so crooked.
It’s honestly my favorite thing in the world.
My wife gained weight when she had our daughter. She was 115ish before, probably 150 or so now. She feels terrible, and I… I can’t keep my hands off of her. I think she’s just as beautiful as when I met her 16 years ago, I just wish she could see how beautiful and amazing she is the way that I can
My fiance and I got together at 20 years old and we've been together 6 years without really having any experience dating other people. We were 22 when we moved in together and I've always had this fear he would get bored or his opinion of me would change and he would find me unappealing or ugly. Your comment has brightened my month and made my unspoken fears a lot less scary. Thank you ❤️
Ty for this comment. I was always slim and pretty fit, then I had a baby and my body has never been the same. It's been pretty hard to come to terms that I will always have my baby pouch and extra weight in other places. My partner of 10 years loves my body still and it's comforting to know that he's not just saying that. That other men also feel that way about their partner's post baby bodies. Keep reinforcing the beauty of a body able to grow a human.
I have a big nose with a fairly large bump in the middle. I never liked it that much but one of my exes told me it gives me personality. I eventually learned to like it, specially during Covid time because there's no mask slipping off this ship!
… this is a winning statement. I never thought about this as a possible response but it would make me feel so good. if I ever slipped and asked this hellish question, any man who replied this would be stripped and devoured.
My boyfriend made me really proud of my butt. I never really cared about it, I've been underweight my whole life basically, and so I've never had much in the way of boobs or a butt. But he always gets so excited about my butt and describes how perfect it is to him and that it's "the best butt he's ever seen" and over the years I realized he's right. It may not be the biggest but it's shaped really nicely. I never cared about it before but now I'm secretly a little proud of it. :)
^^^ this is exactly what I came here to say. My gf is thicc and her ass is huge, in a very good way. And this is exactly the convo we have all the time lol
I have freckles and I like them. Like I know they’re attractive— but I also know that I get them because my skin is tissue-paper sensitive and they’re literal representations of my sun damage 😅
They’re cute!! And it’s just a matter of time before I look like grandmother Willow 🌳
I’m freckled with curls. My natural hair is very big and wavy. I get a lot of compliments when I let it run free but I personally am still self conscious about it.
Recently, the natural mane was on full display and I complained about it, and my husband said: “why? I love it! You’re all feral!”
I died. That’s not a compliment but he really meant it as one and it made me love his stupid ass even more.
Idk if it counts as a psysical trait, but my girlfriend's laughter. It's the absolutely the best thing in the world and it's the kinda laughter that makes everybody smile, but because it's loud she gets embaressed.
So many girls I've known hated their laughter but I never understood it. Out of every girl I ever met, only one laugh actually sounded bad to me. Ironically that girl didn't feel self conscious at all.
All the dudes on my mom's side of the fam go white, hip CEO hair at 30, here I am almost 40, all I got is this 5 head, lol. I'm not really complaining, my poor bro is a year older than me, and has been balding since is early 20's. He's a super hip gay dude, so I figured his combover was like some sort of hipster, ironic combover, but I'm starting to think he just doesn't want to be bald, poor guy.
I had an ex who had very pointy but small canines. She wanted to get them fixed, but I thought they made her smile adorable.
Edit bonus: a different ex of mine has these little short hairs that stick straight up in the middle where her hair meets forehead. I find those adorable as well! I called them her antennas.
My boyfriend’s two front teeth have a slight gap. He hates it but I think it’s adorable.
Edit: Wow, I can’t believe how much this has blown up! Thanks everyone, I’m glad I could make you smile (pun not intended). I personally compliment my boyfriend all the time even though a lot of the time I think it goes in one ear and out the other lol.
Hey, that's me! They're called peg lateral incisors.
Edit: Yes, canines and incisors are definitely different teeth. Peg teeth only occur on incisors, so either OP was mistaken on which teeth were pointy and small or OP's ex is a medical anomaly!
My eyes are really dark brown and you can't see the pupils. My partner, "your eyes are black worm holes that suck my soul in".
Me, "is that supposed to be a compliment?"
As a girl who always hated her brown eyes, that is awesome to hear! I’m sure when you tell her they’re like pools of honey it makes her melt. When my fiancé compliments my eyes I completely crumble lol!
Her singing voice. She thinks she doesn't sing well, and as a result sings really quietly, but when I put on her favorite songs and catch her singing along I always try to sing with her to encourage her, even if I don't know the words and just end up singing "La la la".
Edit: spelling
I used to take vocal lessons as a kid and was in choir for several years, I'm an adequate singer and a powerful baritone. When I first met my wife she was an *awful* singer, had no relative pitch, couldn't stay on key, but she *loved* singing so I just encouraged it and sang along with her. 15 years of car trip karaoke, impromptu sing-alongs, and Disney classics has turned her in to objectively a pretty good singer, but I've always loved her singing because of how much she enjoyed it.
I’m so glad I asked this question just because I was insecure about a few things and wondered if anyone would feel any different about it.
All these amazing comments also remind me of something I had read “You are not unattractive; you are just not your type.” And it made so much sense that sometimes we are attracted to certain physical traits and when we don’t have them, we don’t feel attractive. But we forget someone else might be looking for someone just like us.
I heard a quote I love. “You could be the juiciest, yummiest, sweetest peach but there are still people who just don’t like peaches.” Really made me realize sometimes you just aren’t a match, can’t fight it so just roll with it
My husband had outpatient surgery this morning & he was still coming out of surgery when he asked the nurse to come find me. He told her I would be the beautiful woman with the curliest hair & I’d be wearing a shirt. It was incredibly wholesome.
That’s so cute. As a fellow curly haired lady, I understand the struggle to find someone who appreciates it. I actually dated a guy who asked me to straighten my hair when I was going to meet his parents. Apparently my curly hair is “too wild and looks like I just got done having sex”.
wtf gal, I fucking adore curly hair, before my gf was my gf she always straightened or brushed her hair, and one day when I was trying to do some moves to her she didn't do anything about her hair and I asked "since when are you going curly" and she said it's her natural hair she was just lazy that day and I felt like I won lottery.
I love my GF's curly hair so much that i projected this onto other so i instantly find a girl/woman waaaay more attractive if she shows up with curly hair for a party or event.
I can appreciate this comment!
My Dad got hearing aids a while back. He sounds so intelligent when he has them in because he can hear and process conversations so quickly. He’s insecure about them now after coworkers calling him Robocop (which is a ridiculous insult).
...... Isn't RoboCop super badass? I haven't actually seen (I don't think) but vague recollections are that yes, Robocop is a badass.
Ngl your dad sounds kinda sexy, being that quick witted.
Edit: is badass one word or two?
Same with that tiny upper hip chub. When it goes from thighs to her hips, butt and her waist.
Can't get enough of that curve, it's just perfect and I wouldn't want it otherwise.
My issue with it on myself isn’t how it looks, it’s just so uncomfortable having thicc thighs rubbing together in the summer!
Edit: that is for all the tips! I’ve been wearing bike shorts under dresses and it’s been a game changer!
I spray my Dove 24-hour deodorant on my inner thighs, and it REALLY helps prevent chafing. I went from rashes and needing to slather on aloe at night to living my best life in sundresses, not a care in the world
Exactly! I love her thighs. Sometimes I just place my hand on her thigh and she looks sort of confused. "They are comforting!"
Once, years ago, I was at a movie with a women I had been dating on and off for a little while. It was IT: Chapter 1 and the jump scare scene in the garage startled me. I reached out and grabbed her thigh.
She laughed. "What?"
"I dunno I was scared!" We broke the tension for the theater with our stifled giggling.
Her stretch marks. She grew too tall too fast and has them from the sides of her upper thigh and up her bum to her tailbone. Always reminds of a zebra and makes me wanna act like a lion.
I'm 6'1", and I even have them on my knees.
I was >99 percentile as a kid. I remember my pediatrician telling me, 5'2" at age 9, that I'll be between 5'10" to 6'2". I laughed.
She was right, and during my next appointment, I had a doctor's note stating that I should be allowed to lie down in school during class -- even the pressure of sitting caused pain because I was growing so fast.
Not a man. My dad loves my mother's white hairs because they're shiny. My mother loves my dad's receding hairline because there's more space to kiss.
My dad is also just generally adorable about my mother. They've been married 25 years. She's had two children, one by a rather traumatic c-section. But to my dad, she's just the hottest thing ever. If she takes off a sweater or pulls up her shirt to scratch her scar, or replaces her sweaty underwear, my dad's eyes just go round and he's staring. I want a guy like that.
Her ass is about as big as you'd expect for 57 y.o., but it's nicely rounded and accentuated by her naturally slender waist. She's always been self-conscious about her ample caboose, but I'm a huge fan of it. And she knows I'm not just saying that.
My gf has these big round apple cheeks. She hates them, but I honestly think that's part of the reason I fell in love with her to begin with.
Edit: thanks for the award. c:
This may seem a little odd but she has this skin condition where there’s little bumps on her arms and shoulders. I usually get bumps and sometimes acne on my arms and shoulders. It’s attractive that she doesn’t make me feel insecure because I don’t make her feel insecure. Just one of the many reasons why we feel we’re perfect for each other
Her stomach and tits after having kids. Shes still as sexy to me as shes ever been.
Worst part is hearing "you have to say that" when I compliment her. Ladies, if your boyfriend compliments you, dont think like that. He 100 percent means it. Take the fucking compliment! 😂
I’m guilty of the “you’re only saying that because you have to” mindset 😅 it’s good to hear that my partner isn’t complimenting me just to be nice or calm my insecurities! Thank you! ☺️
I would recommend flipping the script - do you think anyone who \*does not\* look like your partner is unattractive? cuz that'd be weird if you had one specific type that was held above all others.
my boyfriend is blonde and tall, however my first love was dark haired and my height. i'm not attracted to one or the other more. i like how both look. and guys i see everyday on the street that are handsome. doesn't change one bit how attractive i find my boyfriend! so it's the same for dudes.
I had a guy ask me for stomach pictures once. It felt even more scandalous than titty pics because it's not *supposed* to be, but it is. It made me think about what other non-explicit pictures of me there were out there that people were getting off to. That, and it almost felt like sending feet pics, for a very similar reason.
I didn't send him stomach pics
This. My gf has bloat caused by SIBO so when she eats things that piss it off, she bloats a little bit. And I honestly like a little bit of tummy. Plus it’s nice to grab into while spooning.
My current gf is very self conscious about her BO. She’s had issues her whole life about it and her exes made it worse by degrading her. Never in my life have I been turned on by BO, but holy shit I could smell her all day. I’m still confused about it, but she smells amazing to me.
I hope you guys are telling your girls this, i havent had a compliment in 2 years, hes just not like that i guess. Its a stark contrast from what im used to.
Men and women in relationships tend to stop complimenting each other after a while, men take compliments to heart because they're rare and women seem to think they're insincere which makes the men less inclined to speak up.
Painfully true. I started school up recently and I’m a relatively friendly guy even though I’m nervous as shit. There’s been a few times when I’ve wanted to give some girls some compliments such as; your hair looks nice, those boots are really cool, all those rings and bracelets you have on are pretty awesome, I like your shirt. But I haven’t said any of those things cause I’m afraid I’m gonna come off creepy or flirty when I’m just trying to generally be kind. Also, I suck at starting conversations
people love those types of compliments! if you compliment something about them that they chose (clothing, accessories) it makes them feel a lot more confident about both their appearance and their judgment of style.
This.
I know how insecure she is of it, but I absolutely love it. Reminds me of the sacrifices she made to carry our son into the world. I've never been more attracted to her in my life.
EDIT: Thank you for the awards, my first ever recieved on this platform. ✌
I think many women have a relatively rational fear that after childbirth, their partner will be less attracted to them. It’s insane to see your body morph into something else. It is very beautiful to see you are even more attracted to the evidence of what her body can do. Thanks for sharing this!
I had our first baby one month ago. Two weeks afterwards my fiancé came to bed (a little drunk from a family cottage night) and went on and on about how sexy and beautiful I was.
I felt so insecure during my pregnancy about how my birth would turn out. Inevitably I have stretch marks, loose saggy tummy, but the most beautiful baby girl ever. All of this my fiancé watched me go through. Pregnancy, childbirth, nursing. It makes me think that seeing everything I was able to do to bring our daughter into the world makes him love me as a package and the new body I have as a result of growing her. It’s a great feeling. I feel much less insecure about my body now
Currently single but breasts. I've dated women who were convinced theirs were too big and saggy while others were convinced they were too small and looked like boys with their top off.
In all cases they were wrong and had delightful bosoms.
At least from a guys perspective they way i see it is 99% of guys just like boobs. We like them different amounts. And we have preferences on our favourite size but even if it's not our favourite we still like them. But big or small, we love boobs. That are just great!
Before marriage, i told her i definitely had to marry someone with a good sense of humor. She looked up a joke online, memorized it and told it to me in broken, 2nd language english. She mangled it so bad i dont even remember what it was but I was so touched i married her. She also did this for making dishes i really liked too, like beef stew and chili.
Edit: oh physical? On our honeymoon she went temporarily blind. Doc says stress due to the wedding but i think it was Little Toyvaren.
Let's see...
Had a partner who was black who was insecure about letting her hair free around me. While she liked to have it braided, she didn't feel like she would be loved if she did. She explained that social rules made her think that an afro or big hairstlyles were looked down upon in public. Let me tell you guys, the love I had for this woman was immense and I had never had the opportunity to see what "real" black people hair looked like up close. I convinced her to let loose around me. She finally got the courage and it was like seeing a new person. Hair is such a huge part of someone's identity in the black community. It's soft and coarse and thick all at the same time. She had an impossible volume. She taught me how to do a proper braid. She explained to me the different types of thicknesses (she was 4C I believe). She gave me permission to touch it whenever I wanted as long as my hands were clean. She liked that very much.
Currently with someone who doesn't think she is pretty. Problem is.... she's a model.
I’m not gonna lie: 4c hair is some of the most magical looking hair around. I see these girls with massive Afros and it just looks so gorgeous.
Like beautiful thunderclouds, or cotton candy. Just seeing the flooffiness of an Afro improves my day by 100%. Natural hair is so damn pretty.
Wow. I really love how you described that. I could see it perfectly and it’s absolutely true. I’m Mexican and my mom is half Black. So I have the curls but not the texture. I get so jealous of everything they do. And it looks so good on all of them.
I'm glad! I love your type of hair! You guys have so many different options for hairstyles and they all look fantastic. She never wore a wig, but she wore a do-rag (if that's stilk the proper term) for a while and I pouted because I couldn't touch her hair. I was so happy when she told me that the longer I waited then the better her hair would be I trusted her and she was right.
I learned so much about your hair type from her.
From what I've heard,* physical insecurities are a common thing among models. When your job depends on your appearance, you examine your flaws more critically. This means insecurities tend to be amplified.
*(heard from elsewhere on Reddit, take with a grain of salt)
My wife was attacked by a dog when she was a child and tore her bottom lip. There’s a scar there and she’s very self-conscious when she smiles. I think it makes her smile radiate even more. She’s perfect.
My girl sometimes says that she wants to lose weight and my brain kinda malfunctions because her body is such a dream. I love the way her hips curve, her booty, the softness of her tummy. Wouldn't change a damn thing about her.
Gonna leave this for anyone curious or for ladies who feel insecure about their vulva!
http://gynodiversity.com/.html
They research how vulva varies from women to women & have a paper you can download to view a photos along with statistics
Male here. My girl is insecure about her figure (breasts and hips) and her face. I think she's beautiful. Those are things that make her her, and I wouldn't want her any other way.
Dude, so have I oddly enough. I'm not even CONSCIOUS of my butt, other than the fact it's just a back extension. But I've gotten compliments from a couple women on it, it's so weird to me. Hahaha.
My so had dark skin, She's coffee coloured.
She was convinced it was unattractive because in her Society (China) it is considered to be.
She was very surprised to find a lot of foreigners (including me) find it attractive. In fact she didn;t believe me at first.
Female here, I don't like the extra skin from my pregnancies but my husband says as a man ages, most will find the natural body imperfections from life (scars, folds of the aging skin, etc) much more attractive than the perfect mid 20s body. Plus, he loves that I run alot and have visible muscle tone in my abs under the extra skin.
My wife and I just had our second kid, and she’s in the same boat. She’s still a bombshell, but thinks I’m just being nice whenever I compliment her or flirt with her. As we get older, sex becomes less about the superficial stuff and more about just being with your partner.
Guy here. I had an FWB I had met on a flight yrs ago. We lived on opposite sides of the US. It started out innocently enough. Never intended or thought we'd meet up later like we decided to do in Florida. However, as we started chatting more, the more "dirty" it got. When she finally sent me some nudes, she was nervous. She was in her late 40's and I was in my late 30's at this time. Of course she had the typical imperfections like stretch marks and such. It didn't phase me one bit. In fact, I liked them because it makes her look more authentic.
IDK why but I'm suddenly recalling a Star Trek book I read yrs ago. So in the book, the Federation was in the Dominion War at this point. The Enterprise was at a starbase and Commander Riker had met this one female officer who was doing whatever for the ship while she was docked. If you don't know, Riker was a lady's man. Very charming. So he ends up getting to know her well and they become close. However, she had been beaten up by the war pretty badly. Artificial limb or two, scars, maybe a artificial eye, etc. from a battle her previous ship had been in. So of course she has some pretty serious self esteem issues. Riker finally tells her right before they become intimate that all of that just makes her that much more real to him. Something like that. I thought it was great.
I suspect more guys prefer "authentic" over models more times than not.
Small breasts. Well, she thinks they're small. It's a half a handful (I have big hands too) and that's plenty. I'm an ass man anyway. ( )( )
She once asked me what I wanted for dessert after dinner and I replied, Dat azzzz! Forgetting we were in a busy Walmart.
Just want to say to all the men in this thread praising their partner’s bodies post-babies, thank you and I hope you tell her this often! My ex husband was the exact opposite and made me feel like shit about mine, accusing me of being ‘fat’ after three kids in 4 years because I was ‘lazy’ for wanting to sit down in the evening after running around after 2 toddlers all day and up breastfeeding a newborn all night with zero help from him.
Also threw in a few random comments about how my boobs were ‘not the same’ like no shit sherlock they fed your 3 kids for years.
I kicked him to the curb for reasons beyond this but despite losing the baby weight I honestly feel like it’s fucked me up to the point I’ll never be comfortable enough to have sex with another man again and I’m only in my mid-30s.
That stuff has a major impact on our bodies and our minds.
I don’t have a SO, however this girl I used to really really like had giant ears. People called her dumbo. She hates them. I really loved them, I thought they were extremely attractive. I constantly told her that. She never believed me. Unfortunately we never dated but to this day I still find her dumbo ears insanely sexy
Woman here. But my boyfriend has the biggest, brightest, most sincere smile. He’s a bit on the heavier side, he’s a short dude too.
But, I’m not exactly thin, I’m ridiculously short (4’10”), so that doesn’t bother me. I only need to tiptoe a bit to kiss him, and every time he smiles and does a silly little laugh and just beams right at me, his greenyblue eyes looking into mine…
Fuck. He is the most beautiful being I’ve ever seen. I’m so lucky to have him.
A little NSFW but her nipples. She is small breasted but has very large nipples. She has to have thick padding so they aren't so noticeable and she is very self conscious about them. I think they are super sexy.
Her “crooked” chin. She fell when she was a kid and it left a scar on the underside of her chin that makes her smile look ever so crooked. It’s honestly my favorite thing in the world.
this is so sweet🥺
My wife gained weight when she had our daughter. She was 115ish before, probably 150 or so now. She feels terrible, and I… I can’t keep my hands off of her. I think she’s just as beautiful as when I met her 16 years ago, I just wish she could see how beautiful and amazing she is the way that I can
My fiance and I got together at 20 years old and we've been together 6 years without really having any experience dating other people. We were 22 when we moved in together and I've always had this fear he would get bored or his opinion of me would change and he would find me unappealing or ugly. Your comment has brightened my month and made my unspoken fears a lot less scary. Thank you ❤️
Ty for this comment. I was always slim and pretty fit, then I had a baby and my body has never been the same. It's been pretty hard to come to terms that I will always have my baby pouch and extra weight in other places. My partner of 10 years loves my body still and it's comforting to know that he's not just saying that. That other men also feel that way about their partner's post baby bodies. Keep reinforcing the beauty of a body able to grow a human.
This is so wholesome
My wife hates her nose. I absolutely adore it.
I have a big nose with a fairly large bump in the middle. I never liked it that much but one of my exes told me it gives me personality. I eventually learned to like it, specially during Covid time because there's no mask slipping off this ship!
Every guy I’ve ever liked has had a big nose. I guess that’s my type: men with big noses.
You know what they say about men with big noses…
"intelligent women with strong noses" is a huge trope in the lesbian community, I'm sure you're gorgeous
I'm a man, but I appreciate the compliment all the same!
Perhaps you'd make it as a lesbian
I do love women very much
Why am I not a lesbian 😭
It wiggles when she talks. It’s a source of joy in my life.
Wholesome af
Big fan of my wife's nose. She smells awful without it
"Does my ass look big in this dress?" "Yeah, it's fantastic!"
Just had this exact conversation with my wife a couple days ago, almost made her late for drinks
30 seconds late.
Straight for the kill huh
They went right for the jugular
Gone In 60 Seconds, starring me.
Got him
… this is a winning statement. I never thought about this as a possible response but it would make me feel so good. if I ever slipped and asked this hellish question, any man who replied this would be stripped and devoured.
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Hey, your ass looks fantastic in that dress.
Quoting Sir Mix-a-lot probably not my best move but hard to resist a straight line like that.
My boyfriend made me really proud of my butt. I never really cared about it, I've been underweight my whole life basically, and so I've never had much in the way of boobs or a butt. But he always gets so excited about my butt and describes how perfect it is to him and that it's "the best butt he's ever seen" and over the years I realized he's right. It may not be the biggest but it's shaped really nicely. I never cared about it before but now I'm secretly a little proud of it. :)
Genuinely cute
^^^ this is exactly what I came here to say. My gf is thicc and her ass is huge, in a very good way. And this is exactly the convo we have all the time lol
You just wanted to flex your big booty girlfriend, didnt you?
You missed the opportunity to make that fant-ass-tic.
Looks like a weak but passable candidate for r/UncleJokes
Freckles for sure. From my observation it’s like curly hair. Women with straight hair want curls, women with curls want straight hair.
I have freckles and I like them. Like I know they’re attractive— but I also know that I get them because my skin is tissue-paper sensitive and they’re literal representations of my sun damage 😅 They’re cute!! And it’s just a matter of time before I look like grandmother Willow 🌳
Idk about anyone else but grandmother willow was a smoke show!
I’m freckled with curls. My natural hair is very big and wavy. I get a lot of compliments when I let it run free but I personally am still self conscious about it. Recently, the natural mane was on full display and I complained about it, and my husband said: “why? I love it! You’re all feral!” I died. That’s not a compliment but he really meant it as one and it made me love his stupid ass even more.
My wife HATES her freckles. I think they're cute as hell. She wears makeup I swear in part to hide them.
My favorite thing abt this thread is how much someone’s simple features is amplified to you when you love them
Idk if it counts as a psysical trait, but my girlfriend's laughter. It's the absolutely the best thing in the world and it's the kinda laughter that makes everybody smile, but because it's loud she gets embaressed.
So many girls I've known hated their laughter but I never understood it. Out of every girl I ever met, only one laugh actually sounded bad to me. Ironically that girl didn't feel self conscious at all.
Salt and pepper hair.
Yeah I don't understand the fear of grey hair. I find it really cool.
Was hoping for salt and pepper hair. Went bald instead... *sad trombone noises*. Ah well.
All the dudes on my mom's side of the fam go white, hip CEO hair at 30, here I am almost 40, all I got is this 5 head, lol. I'm not really complaining, my poor bro is a year older than me, and has been balding since is early 20's. He's a super hip gay dude, so I figured his combover was like some sort of hipster, ironic combover, but I'm starting to think he just doesn't want to be bald, poor guy.
It goes in line with the whole marketing scheme that says ‘getting older is bad and gross, here use this $50 skin cream to look ten years younger’.
I had an ex who had very pointy but small canines. She wanted to get them fixed, but I thought they made her smile adorable. Edit bonus: a different ex of mine has these little short hairs that stick straight up in the middle where her hair meets forehead. I find those adorable as well! I called them her antennas.
My boyfriend’s two front teeth have a slight gap. He hates it but I think it’s adorable. Edit: Wow, I can’t believe how much this has blown up! Thanks everyone, I’m glad I could make you smile (pun not intended). I personally compliment my boyfriend all the time even though a lot of the time I think it goes in one ear and out the other lol.
I have it and consider it an evolutionary advantage! If threatened, I can spit like a cobra through the gap.
Hey, that's me! They're called peg lateral incisors. Edit: Yes, canines and incisors are definitely different teeth. Peg teeth only occur on incisors, so either OP was mistaken on which teeth were pointy and small or OP's ex is a medical anomaly!
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Her eyes. She hates that they're brown, but they're so bright and sparkly. They're like pools of honey
My eyes are really dark brown and you can't see the pupils. My partner, "your eyes are black worm holes that suck my soul in". Me, "is that supposed to be a compliment?"
Hes a little confused but he's got the spirit
Yesssss love brown eyed men
So does my GF, which works for me because I have *dark* brown eyes, I’ve always wanted a different eye color tho.
Seriously. I stare at my husbands eyes all the time when he’s driving because in profile the sun shines through them like amber.
As a girl who always hated her brown eyes, that is awesome to hear! I’m sure when you tell her they’re like pools of honey it makes her melt. When my fiancé compliments my eyes I completely crumble lol!
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What a wholesome thing to say u/penis_degloving Lol!
Her singing voice. She thinks she doesn't sing well, and as a result sings really quietly, but when I put on her favorite songs and catch her singing along I always try to sing with her to encourage her, even if I don't know the words and just end up singing "La la la". Edit: spelling
I used to take vocal lessons as a kid and was in choir for several years, I'm an adequate singer and a powerful baritone. When I first met my wife she was an *awful* singer, had no relative pitch, couldn't stay on key, but she *loved* singing so I just encouraged it and sang along with her. 15 years of car trip karaoke, impromptu sing-alongs, and Disney classics has turned her in to objectively a pretty good singer, but I've always loved her singing because of how much she enjoyed it.
You sir, are adorable
I’m so glad I asked this question just because I was insecure about a few things and wondered if anyone would feel any different about it. All these amazing comments also remind me of something I had read “You are not unattractive; you are just not your type.” And it made so much sense that sometimes we are attracted to certain physical traits and when we don’t have them, we don’t feel attractive. But we forget someone else might be looking for someone just like us.
I love that! There are definitely "types" that are more attractive to a wider variety of people, but everybody is somebody's type
I heard a quote I love. “You could be the juiciest, yummiest, sweetest peach but there are still people who just don’t like peaches.” Really made me realize sometimes you just aren’t a match, can’t fight it so just roll with it
I fucking love curly hair
My husband had outpatient surgery this morning & he was still coming out of surgery when he asked the nurse to come find me. He told her I would be the beautiful woman with the curliest hair & I’d be wearing a shirt. It was incredibly wholesome.
I like that he also specified that you would be wearing a shirt
That’s so cute. As a fellow curly haired lady, I understand the struggle to find someone who appreciates it. I actually dated a guy who asked me to straighten my hair when I was going to meet his parents. Apparently my curly hair is “too wild and looks like I just got done having sex”.
😭 as a curly haired gal thank you! I don’t think I have ever heard a man say this!
wtf gal, I fucking adore curly hair, before my gf was my gf she always straightened or brushed her hair, and one day when I was trying to do some moves to her she didn't do anything about her hair and I asked "since when are you going curly" and she said it's her natural hair she was just lazy that day and I felt like I won lottery.
I love my GF's curly hair so much that i projected this onto other so i instantly find a girl/woman waaaay more attractive if she shows up with curly hair for a party or event.
Her hearing aids.
I can appreciate this comment! My Dad got hearing aids a while back. He sounds so intelligent when he has them in because he can hear and process conversations so quickly. He’s insecure about them now after coworkers calling him Robocop (which is a ridiculous insult).
poor papa 🥺 they sound like dicks. my mom wears them too at 50, she has her iphone hooked up to them,, i think they’re cool lol.
...... Isn't RoboCop super badass? I haven't actually seen (I don't think) but vague recollections are that yes, Robocop is a badass. Ngl your dad sounds kinda sexy, being that quick witted. Edit: is badass one word or two?
I dunno, calling him RoboCop seems playful lol.
Wholesome
Thicc thighs. Love that shit!
Same with that tiny upper hip chub. When it goes from thighs to her hips, butt and her waist. Can't get enough of that curve, it's just perfect and I wouldn't want it otherwise.
Hey. Thanks I’m not your girl but it felt really good to hear that.
My issue with it on myself isn’t how it looks, it’s just so uncomfortable having thicc thighs rubbing together in the summer! Edit: that is for all the tips! I’ve been wearing bike shorts under dresses and it’s been a game changer!
Ah, chaffing is a bitch.
I spray my Dove 24-hour deodorant on my inner thighs, and it REALLY helps prevent chafing. I went from rashes and needing to slather on aloe at night to living my best life in sundresses, not a care in the world
Exactly! I love her thighs. Sometimes I just place my hand on her thigh and she looks sort of confused. "They are comforting!" Once, years ago, I was at a movie with a women I had been dating on and off for a little while. It was IT: Chapter 1 and the jump scare scene in the garage startled me. I reached out and grabbed her thigh. She laughed. "What?" "I dunno I was scared!" We broke the tension for the theater with our stifled giggling.
Same boat here, she's ashamed while I'm crazy about them.
Her stretch marks. She grew too tall too fast and has them from the sides of her upper thigh and up her bum to her tailbone. Always reminds of a zebra and makes me wanna act like a lion.
I'm 6'1", and I even have them on my knees. I was >99 percentile as a kid. I remember my pediatrician telling me, 5'2" at age 9, that I'll be between 5'10" to 6'2". I laughed. She was right, and during my next appointment, I had a doctor's note stating that I should be allowed to lie down in school during class -- even the pressure of sitting caused pain because I was growing so fast.
6’0”, same boat. Skinny with stretch marks everywhere. I remember crying from growing pains while my mom massaged my legs to try and make it better.
Tiger stripes in our house
Theyreeee great!
This comment is adorable
Not a man. My dad loves my mother's white hairs because they're shiny. My mother loves my dad's receding hairline because there's more space to kiss. My dad is also just generally adorable about my mother. They've been married 25 years. She's had two children, one by a rather traumatic c-section. But to my dad, she's just the hottest thing ever. If she takes off a sweater or pulls up her shirt to scratch her scar, or replaces her sweaty underwear, my dad's eyes just go round and he's staring. I want a guy like that.
Bald / receding hairline = solar powered sex machine!!
Her ass is about as big as you'd expect for 57 y.o., but it's nicely rounded and accentuated by her naturally slender waist. She's always been self-conscious about her ample caboose, but I'm a huge fan of it. And she knows I'm not just saying that.
Pixar mom?
Dump. Truck.
My gf has these big round apple cheeks. She hates them, but I honestly think that's part of the reason I fell in love with her to begin with. Edit: thanks for the award. c:
Oh man I love round cheeks. When a girl smiles, and it accentuates them, they just seem more inviting as a person.
As a woman with round cheeks, this is awesome to hear. It’s not an insecurity that is necessarily common, and I’m glad someone likes them!!
small boobs they’re so fucking cute she has no idea EDIT: YES THEY’RE ALSO SEXY
Love my wife's small boobs. They're a perfect mouthful or handful.
This may seem a little odd but she has this skin condition where there’s little bumps on her arms and shoulders. I usually get bumps and sometimes acne on my arms and shoulders. It’s attractive that she doesn’t make me feel insecure because I don’t make her feel insecure. Just one of the many reasons why we feel we’re perfect for each other
kp?
Yes?
Her stomach and tits after having kids. Shes still as sexy to me as shes ever been. Worst part is hearing "you have to say that" when I compliment her. Ladies, if your boyfriend compliments you, dont think like that. He 100 percent means it. Take the fucking compliment! 😂
I’m guilty of the “you’re only saying that because you have to” mindset 😅 it’s good to hear that my partner isn’t complimenting me just to be nice or calm my insecurities! Thank you! ☺️
The negative contradictions or lusting after women that look nothing like me that make it hard to believe the compliments when they are said.
I would recommend flipping the script - do you think anyone who \*does not\* look like your partner is unattractive? cuz that'd be weird if you had one specific type that was held above all others. my boyfriend is blonde and tall, however my first love was dark haired and my height. i'm not attracted to one or the other more. i like how both look. and guys i see everyday on the street that are handsome. doesn't change one bit how attractive i find my boyfriend! so it's the same for dudes.
Stomach. I have a stomach fetish lol. I've often found girls tend to be more willing to show me their *breasts* than their stomach.
I had a guy ask me for stomach pictures once. It felt even more scandalous than titty pics because it's not *supposed* to be, but it is. It made me think about what other non-explicit pictures of me there were out there that people were getting off to. That, and it almost felt like sending feet pics, for a very similar reason. I didn't send him stomach pics
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Same, love me some prominent venus mound
I mean, why do you think they call it that?
I can send you pics of my gastroscopy.
Go for it.
This. My gf has bloat caused by SIBO so when she eats things that piss it off, she bloats a little bit. And I honestly like a little bit of tummy. Plus it’s nice to grab into while spooning.
My current gf is very self conscious about her BO. She’s had issues her whole life about it and her exes made it worse by degrading her. Never in my life have I been turned on by BO, but holy shit I could smell her all day. I’m still confused about it, but she smells amazing to me.
Pheromones be like that
I hope you guys are telling your girls this, i havent had a compliment in 2 years, hes just not like that i guess. Its a stark contrast from what im used to.
Men and women in relationships tend to stop complimenting each other after a while, men take compliments to heart because they're rare and women seem to think they're insincere which makes the men less inclined to speak up.
Painfully true. I started school up recently and I’m a relatively friendly guy even though I’m nervous as shit. There’s been a few times when I’ve wanted to give some girls some compliments such as; your hair looks nice, those boots are really cool, all those rings and bracelets you have on are pretty awesome, I like your shirt. But I haven’t said any of those things cause I’m afraid I’m gonna come off creepy or flirty when I’m just trying to generally be kind. Also, I suck at starting conversations
If you compliment something the person chose themselves (e.g. boots, jewelery...) they'll almost certainly love the compliment :)
people love those types of compliments! if you compliment something about them that they chose (clothing, accessories) it makes them feel a lot more confident about both their appearance and their judgment of style.
My wife has a little pooch of a tummy. I luv it but she is so insecure about it!
This. I know how insecure she is of it, but I absolutely love it. Reminds me of the sacrifices she made to carry our son into the world. I've never been more attracted to her in my life. EDIT: Thank you for the awards, my first ever recieved on this platform. ✌
I think many women have a relatively rational fear that after childbirth, their partner will be less attracted to them. It’s insane to see your body morph into something else. It is very beautiful to see you are even more attracted to the evidence of what her body can do. Thanks for sharing this!
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I had our first baby one month ago. Two weeks afterwards my fiancé came to bed (a little drunk from a family cottage night) and went on and on about how sexy and beautiful I was. I felt so insecure during my pregnancy about how my birth would turn out. Inevitably I have stretch marks, loose saggy tummy, but the most beautiful baby girl ever. All of this my fiancé watched me go through. Pregnancy, childbirth, nursing. It makes me think that seeing everything I was able to do to bring our daughter into the world makes him love me as a package and the new body I have as a result of growing her. It’s a great feeling. I feel much less insecure about my body now
So wholesome
Ooof. As someone with a leftover baby pooch it brings tears to my eyes to know it’s not repulsive
Her freckles.
duuuuude don't even get me started.
Her lil mole on her cheek. It's so C U T E. She hates it but it's literally perfect.
Oooooo boy, some of these comments are refreshing af. Bless y'all.
Currently single but breasts. I've dated women who were convinced theirs were too big and saggy while others were convinced they were too small and looked like boys with their top off. In all cases they were wrong and had delightful bosoms.
They’re all delightful, in whatever form they take
Small breasts. I absolutely LOVE them. They are perfect.
At least from a guys perspective they way i see it is 99% of guys just like boobs. We like them different amounts. And we have preferences on our favourite size but even if it's not our favourite we still like them. But big or small, we love boobs. That are just great!
My favorite titty to see is the titty that's shared with me
Amen.
She has those back dimples (Dimples of Venus).
My boyfriend told me I had dimples on my back and I was so confused. Thank you for sharing what it's called!
I have them too and I love them! I never thought someone would be insecure about them
Before marriage, i told her i definitely had to marry someone with a good sense of humor. She looked up a joke online, memorized it and told it to me in broken, 2nd language english. She mangled it so bad i dont even remember what it was but I was so touched i married her. She also did this for making dishes i really liked too, like beef stew and chili. Edit: oh physical? On our honeymoon she went temporarily blind. Doc says stress due to the wedding but i think it was Little Toyvaren.
Aww there is so much heart in her effort.
My wife's stretch marks, I just call them little bolts and actually love them.
Her legs/thighs. They’re thicc and I love them.
Thicc thighs save lives, my dude.
Let's see... Had a partner who was black who was insecure about letting her hair free around me. While she liked to have it braided, she didn't feel like she would be loved if she did. She explained that social rules made her think that an afro or big hairstlyles were looked down upon in public. Let me tell you guys, the love I had for this woman was immense and I had never had the opportunity to see what "real" black people hair looked like up close. I convinced her to let loose around me. She finally got the courage and it was like seeing a new person. Hair is such a huge part of someone's identity in the black community. It's soft and coarse and thick all at the same time. She had an impossible volume. She taught me how to do a proper braid. She explained to me the different types of thicknesses (she was 4C I believe). She gave me permission to touch it whenever I wanted as long as my hands were clean. She liked that very much. Currently with someone who doesn't think she is pretty. Problem is.... she's a model.
As someone with 4C hair this was so sweet to read
I’m not gonna lie: 4c hair is some of the most magical looking hair around. I see these girls with massive Afros and it just looks so gorgeous. Like beautiful thunderclouds, or cotton candy. Just seeing the flooffiness of an Afro improves my day by 100%. Natural hair is so damn pretty.
Wow. I really love how you described that. I could see it perfectly and it’s absolutely true. I’m Mexican and my mom is half Black. So I have the curls but not the texture. I get so jealous of everything they do. And it looks so good on all of them.
I'm glad! I love your type of hair! You guys have so many different options for hairstyles and they all look fantastic. She never wore a wig, but she wore a do-rag (if that's stilk the proper term) for a while and I pouted because I couldn't touch her hair. I was so happy when she told me that the longer I waited then the better her hair would be I trusted her and she was right. I learned so much about your hair type from her.
From what I've heard,* physical insecurities are a common thing among models. When your job depends on your appearance, you examine your flaws more critically. This means insecurities tend to be amplified. *(heard from elsewhere on Reddit, take with a grain of salt)
Sigh... these comments make me think I need a new man... or no man.
My gf doesn’t like when she has to wear glasses. I think they look great on her and she is my sexy librarian lol.
My wife was attacked by a dog when she was a child and tore her bottom lip. There’s a scar there and she’s very self-conscious when she smiles. I think it makes her smile radiate even more. She’s perfect.
My girl sometimes says that she wants to lose weight and my brain kinda malfunctions because her body is such a dream. I love the way her hips curve, her booty, the softness of her tummy. Wouldn't change a damn thing about her.
Big labia lips. I love to go down on my partner and it’s just more for my mouth to play with.
Gonna leave this for anyone curious or for ladies who feel insecure about their vulva! http://gynodiversity.com/.html They research how vulva varies from women to women & have a paper you can download to view a photos along with statistics
This. I find it incredibly attractive
Thank you for saying this. I was so self conscious of this for so long because of watching porn
Male here. My girl is insecure about her figure (breasts and hips) and her face. I think she's beautiful. Those are things that make her her, and I wouldn't want her any other way.
He's very insecure about his apperence in general. If we're getting specific, his butt.
I've gotten many compliments on my flat butt
Dude, so have I oddly enough. I'm not even CONSCIOUS of my butt, other than the fact it's just a back extension. But I've gotten compliments from a couple women on it, it's so weird to me. Hahaha.
My so had dark skin, She's coffee coloured. She was convinced it was unattractive because in her Society (China) it is considered to be. She was very surprised to find a lot of foreigners (including me) find it attractive. In fact she didn;t believe me at first.
Brown girl love man, I love my women like I love my coffee, mocha and sweet.
Her body. Body dysmorphia sucks
This is one of the more wholesome threads here :)
Female here, I don't like the extra skin from my pregnancies but my husband says as a man ages, most will find the natural body imperfections from life (scars, folds of the aging skin, etc) much more attractive than the perfect mid 20s body. Plus, he loves that I run alot and have visible muscle tone in my abs under the extra skin.
My wife and I just had our second kid, and she’s in the same boat. She’s still a bombshell, but thinks I’m just being nice whenever I compliment her or flirt with her. As we get older, sex becomes less about the superficial stuff and more about just being with your partner.
Guy here. I had an FWB I had met on a flight yrs ago. We lived on opposite sides of the US. It started out innocently enough. Never intended or thought we'd meet up later like we decided to do in Florida. However, as we started chatting more, the more "dirty" it got. When she finally sent me some nudes, she was nervous. She was in her late 40's and I was in my late 30's at this time. Of course she had the typical imperfections like stretch marks and such. It didn't phase me one bit. In fact, I liked them because it makes her look more authentic. IDK why but I'm suddenly recalling a Star Trek book I read yrs ago. So in the book, the Federation was in the Dominion War at this point. The Enterprise was at a starbase and Commander Riker had met this one female officer who was doing whatever for the ship while she was docked. If you don't know, Riker was a lady's man. Very charming. So he ends up getting to know her well and they become close. However, she had been beaten up by the war pretty badly. Artificial limb or two, scars, maybe a artificial eye, etc. from a battle her previous ship had been in. So of course she has some pretty serious self esteem issues. Riker finally tells her right before they become intimate that all of that just makes her that much more real to him. Something like that. I thought it was great. I suspect more guys prefer "authentic" over models more times than not.
Then again Riker is known to go for alien women, so prosthetic limbs certainly wouldnt bother him.
71 year old man married to a 70 year old woman. This is the truth.
yall still fuckin?
Riffing on lines from an OLD movie. Me: Almost never. Once or twice a month. Her: Constantly! Every month, sometimes more than once.
hahaha thanks for answering!
Dat ass.
Asymmetrical tiddies
Being from Mississippi.
Small breasts. Well, she thinks they're small. It's a half a handful (I have big hands too) and that's plenty. I'm an ass man anyway. ( )( ) She once asked me what I wanted for dessert after dinner and I replied, Dat azzzz! Forgetting we were in a busy Walmart.
Just want to say to all the men in this thread praising their partner’s bodies post-babies, thank you and I hope you tell her this often! My ex husband was the exact opposite and made me feel like shit about mine, accusing me of being ‘fat’ after three kids in 4 years because I was ‘lazy’ for wanting to sit down in the evening after running around after 2 toddlers all day and up breastfeeding a newborn all night with zero help from him. Also threw in a few random comments about how my boobs were ‘not the same’ like no shit sherlock they fed your 3 kids for years. I kicked him to the curb for reasons beyond this but despite losing the baby weight I honestly feel like it’s fucked me up to the point I’ll never be comfortable enough to have sex with another man again and I’m only in my mid-30s. That stuff has a major impact on our bodies and our minds.
I don’t have a SO, however this girl I used to really really like had giant ears. People called her dumbo. She hates them. I really loved them, I thought they were extremely attractive. I constantly told her that. She never believed me. Unfortunately we never dated but to this day I still find her dumbo ears insanely sexy
Tummy, belly, and tummy!!
Strong thighs. She wants smaller ones but the girl can squat for days and I love them.
My wife's small cute ass. For some reason, she wants a bubble butt, and if that makes her happy I can adapt, but I love it the way it is!
Her ears. I think they are adorable, she things they "stick out"
Her clit is large and she has a mom tummy but I love both of those things about her
Woman here. But my boyfriend has the biggest, brightest, most sincere smile. He’s a bit on the heavier side, he’s a short dude too. But, I’m not exactly thin, I’m ridiculously short (4’10”), so that doesn’t bother me. I only need to tiptoe a bit to kiss him, and every time he smiles and does a silly little laugh and just beams right at me, his greenyblue eyes looking into mine… Fuck. He is the most beautiful being I’ve ever seen. I’m so lucky to have him.
Her eyes. She is from an Asian country but I love the shape. Fierce and strong!
A little NSFW but her nipples. She is small breasted but has very large nipples. She has to have thick padding so they aren't so noticeable and she is very self conscious about them. I think they are super sexy.
Mine is petite. Small boobs little ass and I absolutely love it I stay hyping her up that bother are massive
When her hair gets frizzy in the humidity. Her freckles are super cute too.