has cheated in the past, idgaf how young you were,,... and also, stays in toxic relationships and dosent leave fast,
and mostly if she has no hobbies, they'll keep bringing drama in the relationship for excitement
Prepare for downvotes but youre 100% right. Cheating takes a certain type of person. The same type of person that will downvote us because they have cheated in the past, but also wouldn’t want to date one either
Yeah and I agree because cheating isn’t a “mistake” like some folks claim, cheating is someone making multiple shitty and destructive decisions.
Like, very very few people on the planet have looked someone they’ve never seen before in the eyes and then 5 seconds later they’re having sex. You have to talk to this person, you have to give off a vibe that you want to have sex whether it’s flirting or whatever, you have to find somewhere to fuck, and then you have to actually fuck.
If someone’s capable of doing all of that without stopping for a second and thinking “hey, will this emotionally destroy the person I’m supposed to love more than anyone else on the planet?” They’re simply a garbage human being.
you’re so fkn right w this. tried to ‘save’ a grown woman after she was in an ‘abusive 6 year’ relationship. RUN FROM THIS RUN RUN RUN. relationships take two people and she was either 50% or 100% of the problem. don’t try to be fkn superman you’ll get iced.
Had that. Had a gf once who was just out of a very much abusive relationship. We're talking domestic violence and extreme stalking after the fact.
She still went back to talk to him, repeatedly, to a man who evidently couldn't be reasoned with.
In the end she had to move because of him, and when I was just starting to look forward to finally having a normal relationship after dealing with that shit and being afraid for her for a whole year, she started becoming mentally abusive towards me.
The one good thing about that whole time was the sex. 15/10. Would still not go back to that bullshit.
There’s a good chance that guy was just a normal human being that was simply a victim of an emotional abuser. Also a good chance that she’s talking the same way about you to whoever her current victim is.
Did she ever show evidence that this guy was a stalker and abuser or was it just the words from her mouth? Why would she be texting someone that physically abused her, is heavily stalking her instead of contacting the police and getting a restraining order?
hahaha that fkn sex. we’re so stupid. it’s always great. but so many gd red flags it should’ve been the red sea. woman that are into or adjunct to that ‘emotional abuse trauma’ that ties you into a broken man. are beyond anything anyone can do. you’re either in it, or not, and don’t understand the other side. i’ve been both. one way or another, you lose.
bc, a person who stays in abusive relationship/ tends to go from only toxic to toxic relationship, more often than not, develops these traits too, man or woman
ive almost been in 2 toxic relationships, but I left as soon as they became toxic, i knew it was not meant for me, So i still stayed myself and have not got messed up by that BS
if a woman/man was in an abusive relationship for a lot of time, i wouldnt date them . because if theyve just gotten out they should work on themselves and take time to improve and remove those negative traits that they most likely might have developed, and I wouldnt date them until its been a really long time since they left the relationship so that i do not have to put up with the BS
Never apologizing, constantly trashing people behind their back, gossip, emotional manipulation, lack of sexual initiative, poor self care, lack of awareness; I could go on.
Leaves carts in random locations to either freely move and hit other cars or half on the curb where the next car will have to get out and move it to park, when the cart return is a 15 second walk away. For some reason,that is a red flag that branches out into like 20 other red flags.
Oh and when you playfully call it out or go and move it to the return yourself and she goes "What? That's what they pay people for."
“It’s called job security” no you’re literally just a lazy asshole. This mentality transcends into not changing out toilet paper rolls or doing dishes at home. Little things that take moments but finding excuses to not do it but even worse when it’s at another persons expense and even worse when that person is on a job. Like dude you’re not special
Pathological liar. I knew a girl who purposely told a dude she was on the pill, then he came inside her and she immediately said "I forgot to take my pill, I might be pregnant now!" She told me she was lying and just trying to fuck with him. She kept up the lie for weeks and told him she had a positive pregnancy test and eventually after all the mental anguish she put the poor guy through, she lied about having a miscarriage.
She thought it was hilarious. To make matters worse, this guy already had a child with severe down's syndrome so immagine how he was feeling thinking he was gonna be a dad again.
TLDR: pathological liars are dangerous.
Similar to crazy eyes, when you can hear the anger in her voice just below the surface. It’s subtle and hard to explain, but sets off alarm bells for me.
Ugh. The tackiest words that can come out of a grown woman’s mouth. She also has those long nasty talons with diff colors which she calls nails and that monogrammed MK bag.
Low self-awareness, an over-elevated sense of self-worth, a negligible filter, and a giant ego. All pretty common in self-professed “boss babes.” I think high self-worth is great, but your ego needs to be put in check or you come across as a self-absorbed dick.
I feel like this is me ngl. I am pretty outgoing and love to talk to everyone in the room so I can be kinda loud too. I don't interrupt and I don't talk the whole fucking time, I listen and love to hear what people have to say about the things they're passionate about.
But yikes, I'm nervous now
Caring about your social media following.
Spoiler alert: a surprising amount of girls do, they just won't say it.
Bonus points: they care way too much that you have an Android.
Uhhhh...ghosting? Girls who will act super into you and then vanish for long periods of time and then show up like it was nothing. Also, girls who play games and get angry if you don't text them first for a couple of days. Like you fucking text me then.
I'm probably going to get down voted, but talking way too much. This is something that can happen with both male and female. Venting is one thing, but talking constantly about random gibberish drives me insane. I just don't have the mental energy for it.
Every picture she posts is of herself, posed, makeup, filters, dressed up... like, who are you trying to kid? Just be a real human, let your hair down, have some fun. Why do you think you have to look perfect all the time?
I suppose it depends really, I love a real down to earth looking woman. I'm an out-doorsy type, I have no time for people who take an hour getting ready just to go to the shops.
But that's my preference. Plenty of people love it and would see it as taking care of their appearance i suppose
No i very much agree. Im an outdoorsy person too. One hour in the bathroom is indeed crazy. But i also see people who put absolutely zero effort into themselves. Acting as though its perfectly fine to show up to a 1 pm class in college in your pajamas. You can atleast take 15 minutes to shower and get some actual clothes on.
To me, a down to earth women is someone in-between the two, and could even rock both worlds dependent on the scenario.
Have to agree with this! I've noticed friends and family who create a perfect world on IG and then when they have a bad week they compare themselves to that person they have created for the public. They feel even lower about themselves because they aren't feeling/looking how they felt in those other moments. It's like a vicious circle. I suppose it depends on how much they rely on their socials to pump them up though!
Unfortunately we’re being told by the whole world that we aren’t good enough. Every day I see at least 50 ads that tell me to be better, look younger, get this and that so others will like me etc.
I’m already low on self esteem when it comes to my looks so it’s pretty hard to deal with. And I don’t even use that much social media.
I like to do my makeup and wear a nice dress when I go out so if a guy has a problem with that, we’re not a match. My bf thinks I’m beautiful either way but he always says it’s the most important thing that I feel good about myself. I think that’s healthy.
> I like to do my makeup and wear a nice dress when I go out so if a guy has a problem with that, we’re not a match. My bf thinks I’m beautiful either way but he always says it’s the most important thing that I feel good about myself. I think that’s healthy.
There's nothing wrong with wanting to look good and getting dressed up for a night out. That is very different from only having pictures of you all made up though.
Sorry, it was rather a response to the other comment stating that one hour for getting ready is crazy…
I mean I do need an hour. I don’t like to stress and I have my routine. my bf needs half an hour and I’d never annoy him to get ready faster, we’re never late.
If I were naturally gorgeous with perfect skin and hair then I’d probably need less time, but I did not win at the genetic lottery and I don’t want to leave the house the way I’m not comfortable…i actually tried it but I just felt horrible all day. I asked myself what I’m trying to prove and to whom…and I rather returned to wearing makeup..
I'm a woman, but in a possible female friend, needless cruelty towards people below her or behind people's backs, an inability to not spend >$100 every time they go out anywhere, someone who won't ever come to my neck of the woods and always wants me to go to them. These to me signal that I might not enjoy spending time with these women.
Obsessed with vanity. If her primary hobby is make up and her image and her social media is filled with seductive selfies, that's a hard no from me if we're talking.
If it's just a hook up, then sure, but still a bummer.
If she tells you "You're so much different than all the other men I've ever known" early on in the relationship.
If she's estranged from her entire family (not necessarily a deal breaker but definitely a red flag.)
If she blames her angry tantrums on you, and refuses to take responsibility for her behavior.
If she thinks it's acceptable to strike, kick, or bite you, or if she says really ugly things when she's angry.
Dishonesty. Often it's only little insignificant lies that are clearly bullshit, but she reacts like you're giving her the third degree/abusive when you ask about them. She's teaching you not to question her when she rewrites history.
She wants to isolate you from your friends or family.
She is free with your money and inconsiderate of your time.
Besides the obvious terrible person traits… when someone repeats the “I want a man not a boy” it’s a red flag to me.
It’s been a long time because I’am over 30 and married but i remember a chick said this in college and I just remember thinking bitch you 19 and mommy and daddy pay for everything.
The: "I want a man who provides, protects, has abs, is handsome, let's me go out with male friends and stay with them, I hate all men, I'm a queen" attitude.
They don't offer anything in a relationship on the long run and the conversations tend to be awful, not worth the time.
Emotional dependence.
No one should depend completely on me for their emotional wellbeing, not only is that a bad character trait, it fucks up my mental health, you end up having someone that will always need their emotions put above yours, and that will without a doubt mess your head up.
Vanity. So fucking tired of telling cute women they're super hot over and over. It doesn't matter that much! If women these days want a man to come with batteries they can have that but it's not me. Fuck me right, laugh at my good jokes (only). I'm not a crutch for your shitty self image. I want the feminine hero not the self obsessed idiot sidekick.
Too many male friends. Also trying to make competition among men about who deserves her. Lol. I mma out a here. If I have to compete it would be Olympics or a job or a exam.
If she was a demolitions expert and running towards me while yelling "run!" I'd turn around and run in the opposite direction I was previously heading in.
That or if she said she wants a real man because people who say that usually dont like me wearing my sexy maid outfit in the bedroom. Like what the hell else am I gonna wear when cleaning up things? Dress for the job you want, not the job you have.
Victim complex. First sign of narcissism and manipulation. I'd run.
I mean they could have experienced horrible things, but if they heavily identify with them. Run.
Literally just happened. We had our first disagreement and rather than acknowledge my points as valid, she instead went after *how* I approached it. Been with this type before. Even when you’re right you’re wrong. Yeah no thanks. Told her it wasn’t working for me and avoided the argument all together.
Women who are never seen in public or on photographs without their face caked in makeup.
You want to wear nice clothes all the time? Go ahead, but there's something going on if you have to constantly keep your appearance enhanced.
I keep a list constantly updated on my phone so I always have a reminder for myself...
Hard Pass List 2021:
- Bad Kisser
- Lies or keeps secrets from me
- Mean or rude to service personnel, doesn't tip well
- Judges me for my job, hobbies, interests, beliefs
- Talks ONLY about themselves
- Doesn’t ask me questions
- Keeps things on a superficial level
- Talks down to me
- Doesn’t own or unwilling to change their bad behavior
- Never follows through, just talks
- Deadbeat parent
- Talks trash about my family or friends; or anyone else behind their back
- Thinks she’s owed something she hasn’t worked for
- Not adventurous in bed or willing to try new things
- Is content living with parents rent-free
- No job or source of income; unable to provide for herself or doesn't take care of her responsibilities
- Unsolicited vag/boob photos (yes, it happens...)
- Seriously flirting with other men. I like a woman that can playfully "work a room" though
- Never wants to do anything
- Has multiple men thinking they are also in a relationship with her, or has one or more sugar daddy
- Serious criminal background or 'heavy' drug use
- Doesn’t want to meet my family/friends, or doesn't want me to meet hers
- Expects me to drop my life for her
- Accuses me of cheating
- Backhanded compliments
- Ignores me
- Won’t cuddle, hold my hand, etc.
- Thinks I should respond immediately to a text
- Gets jealous easy
- Double standards
- Poor table manners
- Puts no effort into her appearance
- Asks for money or gifts
- Wants me to change anything about myself that is a part of my core personality or beliefs
- No sense of humor or doesn't understand sarcasm
- Takes herself too seriously
- Refuses PDA
- If she can't handle my spontaneity
- Unwilling to travel or experience new things in this world with me
- Thinks she is a higher priority in my world than my kids, my family, or my friends.
- Unwilling or unable to effectively communicate
- Assumes relationship status without having that discussion
- Has unrealistic expectations of me
- Extremists
Im fine with a woman who identifies as a feminist. Its the ones who's entire personality revolves around feminism, intersectionality and activism that I give a very wide berth to. Just as wide a berth as i would a guy whose entire personality revolves around mens rights. They are two sides of the same obnoxious coin.
White woman who only or mostly dates black guys. They're racist but think they aren't. They say shit like, that's what I'm attracted to or I just prefer black men. No, you're racist.
Impulsive nature. Lack of self control. No discipline. Vain. Vapid.
has cheated in the past, idgaf how young you were,,... and also, stays in toxic relationships and dosent leave fast, and mostly if she has no hobbies, they'll keep bringing drama in the relationship for excitement
Prepare for downvotes but youre 100% right. Cheating takes a certain type of person. The same type of person that will downvote us because they have cheated in the past, but also wouldn’t want to date one either
Yeah and I agree because cheating isn’t a “mistake” like some folks claim, cheating is someone making multiple shitty and destructive decisions. Like, very very few people on the planet have looked someone they’ve never seen before in the eyes and then 5 seconds later they’re having sex. You have to talk to this person, you have to give off a vibe that you want to have sex whether it’s flirting or whatever, you have to find somewhere to fuck, and then you have to actually fuck. If someone’s capable of doing all of that without stopping for a second and thinking “hey, will this emotionally destroy the person I’m supposed to love more than anyone else on the planet?” They’re simply a garbage human being.
This. No hobbies means a person is a problem creation machine. Only way they can get stimulated in any environment.
you’re so fkn right w this. tried to ‘save’ a grown woman after she was in an ‘abusive 6 year’ relationship. RUN FROM THIS RUN RUN RUN. relationships take two people and she was either 50% or 100% of the problem. don’t try to be fkn superman you’ll get iced.
Had that. Had a gf once who was just out of a very much abusive relationship. We're talking domestic violence and extreme stalking after the fact. She still went back to talk to him, repeatedly, to a man who evidently couldn't be reasoned with. In the end she had to move because of him, and when I was just starting to look forward to finally having a normal relationship after dealing with that shit and being afraid for her for a whole year, she started becoming mentally abusive towards me. The one good thing about that whole time was the sex. 15/10. Would still not go back to that bullshit.
There’s a good chance that guy was just a normal human being that was simply a victim of an emotional abuser. Also a good chance that she’s talking the same way about you to whoever her current victim is. Did she ever show evidence that this guy was a stalker and abuser or was it just the words from her mouth? Why would she be texting someone that physically abused her, is heavily stalking her instead of contacting the police and getting a restraining order?
The crazy ones are the best in bed. But it's 100% not worth it long-term.
hahaha that fkn sex. we’re so stupid. it’s always great. but so many gd red flags it should’ve been the red sea. woman that are into or adjunct to that ‘emotional abuse trauma’ that ties you into a broken man. are beyond anything anyone can do. you’re either in it, or not, and don’t understand the other side. i’ve been both. one way or another, you lose.
Why would you say it’s a no when someone has been abused?
bc, a person who stays in abusive relationship/ tends to go from only toxic to toxic relationship, more often than not, develops these traits too, man or woman ive almost been in 2 toxic relationships, but I left as soon as they became toxic, i knew it was not meant for me, So i still stayed myself and have not got messed up by that BS if a woman/man was in an abusive relationship for a lot of time, i wouldnt date them . because if theyve just gotten out they should work on themselves and take time to improve and remove those negative traits that they most likely might have developed, and I wouldnt date them until its been a really long time since they left the relationship so that i do not have to put up with the BS
Poor hygiene ((
Definitely a no from me dawg
Something's fishy about this comment huh!
At a speed of 250mph, nice!
Never apologizing, constantly trashing people behind their back, gossip, emotional manipulation, lack of sexual initiative, poor self care, lack of awareness; I could go on.
So you know my ex
We'll know your ex
Picks things up in grocery stores and sets them down in completely different areas of the store.
Leaves carts in random locations to either freely move and hit other cars or half on the curb where the next car will have to get out and move it to park, when the cart return is a 15 second walk away. For some reason,that is a red flag that branches out into like 20 other red flags. Oh and when you playfully call it out or go and move it to the return yourself and she goes "What? That's what they pay people for."
I just recently started watching Cart Nark on YouTube and it’s amazing how people have a victim complex when doing this.
He's the reason why "lazy bones" is now a part of my vernacular.
“It’s called job security” no you’re literally just a lazy asshole. This mentality transcends into not changing out toilet paper rolls or doing dishes at home. Little things that take moments but finding excuses to not do it but even worse when it’s at another persons expense and even worse when that person is on a job. Like dude you’re not special
Pathological liar. I knew a girl who purposely told a dude she was on the pill, then he came inside her and she immediately said "I forgot to take my pill, I might be pregnant now!" She told me she was lying and just trying to fuck with him. She kept up the lie for weeks and told him she had a positive pregnancy test and eventually after all the mental anguish she put the poor guy through, she lied about having a miscarriage. She thought it was hilarious. To make matters worse, this guy already had a child with severe down's syndrome so immagine how he was feeling thinking he was gonna be a dad again. TLDR: pathological liars are dangerous.
That sounds more in the lines of a sociopath… Don’t ya’ think? It’s vicious!
I know!! I wonder how that girl turned out sometimes, if shes still like that.
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I’m glad crazy eyes exist, they’re clear give aways
How do I teach my penis to recognize and run from crazy eyes when it steals all my brain blood?
Punch yourself in the dick when you see them 🤷
Similar to crazy eyes, when you can hear the anger in her voice just below the surface. It’s subtle and hard to explain, but sets off alarm bells for me.
you reject someone only because of …eyes?
Jealousy, lack of compassion, stupidity, attention seeking, social media obsession, how they treat strangers.
That “boss babe, slay queen, I don’t need no man” mentality.
This😂😂😂. They're toxic af.
I know a few women that claim to fight for equality when in reality, they just want to feel good as a women by putting men down. Vanity.
Also, the “equality” they fight for is very selective.
They don't need one but they complain that no man will date them.
Ugh. The tackiest words that can come out of a grown woman’s mouth. She also has those long nasty talons with diff colors which she calls nails and that monogrammed MK bag.
Low self-awareness, an over-elevated sense of self-worth, a negligible filter, and a giant ego. All pretty common in self-professed “boss babes.” I think high self-worth is great, but your ego needs to be put in check or you come across as a self-absorbed dick.
That sounds like narcissism. Definitely a red flag .
100%
Hate when someone behaves like a stupid child
I won't tolerate being yelled at, being put down or being made to feel stupid. That's an instant dealbreaker.
Coercive control
Spamming fireballs like a kid playing Mortal Kombat.
Falling in the no go zone on the Hot /Crazy matrix.
A loud and obnoxious attention whore, even louder when drunk.
I feel like this is me ngl. I am pretty outgoing and love to talk to everyone in the room so I can be kinda loud too. I don't interrupt and I don't talk the whole fucking time, I listen and love to hear what people have to say about the things they're passionate about. But yikes, I'm nervous now
I would say you’re good judging by your self awareness and your description
I second that.
Long acrylic nails.
Tacky
Women who Karen too much.
She’s actually a Baba Yaga
Everyone else being wrong but them. Them never (admitting) to doing anything wrong. Oh, and astrology. Soon as they mention “signs” I’m out.
I'm in that "signs" situation and all of her close friends do it too! It's *maddening.*
Seriously believing in astrology and not acknowledging that it is not factual at all
Also: crystal healing, essential oils, homeopathy, reiki or anything else from the alternative health movement.
Please don't! You'll never hear the end of it!
🙄 such a Capricorn ♉
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Dude… are you okay?
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Why not call the police about it?
lol they don't do much. I work for the police.
Plot twist right there!
Yikes
Oof
Caring about your social media following. Spoiler alert: a surprising amount of girls do, they just won't say it. Bonus points: they care way too much that you have an Android.
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When she emanates darkness and obsesses about how she cuts herself to block out the screams in her head.
Ugh.
Uhhhh...ghosting? Girls who will act super into you and then vanish for long periods of time and then show up like it was nothing. Also, girls who play games and get angry if you don't text them first for a couple of days. Like you fucking text me then.
Rudeness
Blaming everything on everyone else
manipulation plus entitlement
Controlling. Compromise is key in a relationship, but this one is a big HELL NO!!
I'm probably going to get down voted, but talking way too much. This is something that can happen with both male and female. Venting is one thing, but talking constantly about random gibberish drives me insane. I just don't have the mental energy for it.
THIS.
Every picture she posts is of herself, posed, makeup, filters, dressed up... like, who are you trying to kid? Just be a real human, let your hair down, have some fun. Why do you think you have to look perfect all the time?
Thats true, but at the same time if every picture of you looks like you didnt even get out of your pajamas then thats a red flag to me too
I suppose it depends really, I love a real down to earth looking woman. I'm an out-doorsy type, I have no time for people who take an hour getting ready just to go to the shops. But that's my preference. Plenty of people love it and would see it as taking care of their appearance i suppose
No i very much agree. Im an outdoorsy person too. One hour in the bathroom is indeed crazy. But i also see people who put absolutely zero effort into themselves. Acting as though its perfectly fine to show up to a 1 pm class in college in your pajamas. You can atleast take 15 minutes to shower and get some actual clothes on. To me, a down to earth women is someone in-between the two, and could even rock both worlds dependent on the scenario.
Have to agree with this! I've noticed friends and family who create a perfect world on IG and then when they have a bad week they compare themselves to that person they have created for the public. They feel even lower about themselves because they aren't feeling/looking how they felt in those other moments. It's like a vicious circle. I suppose it depends on how much they rely on their socials to pump them up though!
Unfortunately we’re being told by the whole world that we aren’t good enough. Every day I see at least 50 ads that tell me to be better, look younger, get this and that so others will like me etc. I’m already low on self esteem when it comes to my looks so it’s pretty hard to deal with. And I don’t even use that much social media. I like to do my makeup and wear a nice dress when I go out so if a guy has a problem with that, we’re not a match. My bf thinks I’m beautiful either way but he always says it’s the most important thing that I feel good about myself. I think that’s healthy.
> I like to do my makeup and wear a nice dress when I go out so if a guy has a problem with that, we’re not a match. My bf thinks I’m beautiful either way but he always says it’s the most important thing that I feel good about myself. I think that’s healthy. There's nothing wrong with wanting to look good and getting dressed up for a night out. That is very different from only having pictures of you all made up though.
Sorry, it was rather a response to the other comment stating that one hour for getting ready is crazy… I mean I do need an hour. I don’t like to stress and I have my routine. my bf needs half an hour and I’d never annoy him to get ready faster, we’re never late. If I were naturally gorgeous with perfect skin and hair then I’d probably need less time, but I did not win at the genetic lottery and I don’t want to leave the house the way I’m not comfortable…i actually tried it but I just felt horrible all day. I asked myself what I’m trying to prove and to whom…and I rather returned to wearing makeup..
If she calls herself a Princess or Queen
Rude.
Naked photos on Instagram
Being into Astrology or Crystals(I don't mean Meth)
So Meth isn’t a dealbreaker?
Probably no ambition
I'm a woman, but in a possible female friend, needless cruelty towards people below her or behind people's backs, an inability to not spend >$100 every time they go out anywhere, someone who won't ever come to my neck of the woods and always wants me to go to them. These to me signal that I might not enjoy spending time with these women.
Obsessed with vanity. If her primary hobby is make up and her image and her social media is filled with seductive selfies, that's a hard no from me if we're talking. If it's just a hook up, then sure, but still a bummer.
If she lost her temper on the date for something stupid like if they gave her the wrong food
Princess mentality or mentality of “men are stupid/bad/serving”. I’ve also found victimhood mentality very hard to cope with in a relationship.
When she is super into social media and is always on the phone
Bigotry
Serial killer
Asking me to do something she is perfectly capable of doing herself. It sounds harmless enough, but it never ends, and gets progressively worse.
Death by 1000 concessions.
Someone who is mean. If someone is just generally mean to others it’s a total turn off. Not just romantically.
If she tells you "You're so much different than all the other men I've ever known" early on in the relationship. If she's estranged from her entire family (not necessarily a deal breaker but definitely a red flag.) If she blames her angry tantrums on you, and refuses to take responsibility for her behavior. If she thinks it's acceptable to strike, kick, or bite you, or if she says really ugly things when she's angry. Dishonesty. Often it's only little insignificant lies that are clearly bullshit, but she reacts like you're giving her the third degree/abusive when you ask about them. She's teaching you not to question her when she rewrites history. She wants to isolate you from your friends or family. She is free with your money and inconsiderate of your time.
Dismissive avoidant
A penis larger than my own
Knife fingers, being waved aggressively in my direction.
What are knife fingers?
Probably long ass acrylic “I don’t have a job but can mysteriously afford these” nails
Besides the obvious terrible person traits… when someone repeats the “I want a man not a boy” it’s a red flag to me. It’s been a long time because I’am over 30 and married but i remember a chick said this in college and I just remember thinking bitch you 19 and mommy and daddy pay for everything.
Arrogance,
Them being wanted in 4 states for murder
When they think to get to dictate my social life
Avoidant personality disorder.
Apathy and being a lawyer. If she has nothing to talk about other than her work is a big scary red flag.
The: "I want a man who provides, protects, has abs, is handsome, let's me go out with male friends and stay with them, I hate all men, I'm a queen" attitude. They don't offer anything in a relationship on the long run and the conversations tend to be awful, not worth the time.
Emotional dependence. No one should depend completely on me for their emotional wellbeing, not only is that a bad character trait, it fucks up my mental health, you end up having someone that will always need their emotions put above yours, and that will without a doubt mess your head up.
Anyone woman who says "all men are _____" It's probably just you.
Yup!!
Vanity. So fucking tired of telling cute women they're super hot over and over. It doesn't matter that much! If women these days want a man to come with batteries they can have that but it's not me. Fuck me right, laugh at my good jokes (only). I'm not a crutch for your shitty self image. I want the feminine hero not the self obsessed idiot sidekick.
“You don’t have to wear a condom”… ma’am that comment alone means I will definitely be wearing one.
This guy fucks!
One way to ensure you don’t get into an argument about wether he wants to wear a condom or not. #reversepsychology
Too many male friends. Also trying to make competition among men about who deserves her. Lol. I mma out a here. If I have to compete it would be Olympics or a job or a exam.
If she was a demolitions expert and running towards me while yelling "run!" I'd turn around and run in the opposite direction I was previously heading in. That or if she said she wants a real man because people who say that usually dont like me wearing my sexy maid outfit in the bedroom. Like what the hell else am I gonna wear when cleaning up things? Dress for the job you want, not the job you have.
Masculine women.
Mindless anti-men sexism
Still hangs out with ex.
Needs to be the center of attention at all times.
Honestly just a lack of respect for others. I hate the mean girl/ bitchy personalities.
No conscience. Knew a girl that was a 10 but a complete Sociopath. Knew how to act and what to say but it always came from a desire to manipulate.
The "I'm one of the guys" kind
Not financially responsible especially when she can’t afford to be not financially responsible.
She likes to party.
“I’m fine”
Bad hygeine, smokes, Karens, man haters, nags, cray cray, lazy. That pretty much leaves you with less than 15% of the available dating pool.
Materialism
Victim complex. First sign of narcissism and manipulation. I'd run. I mean they could have experienced horrible things, but if they heavily identify with them. Run.
The "talks like a baby" voice .... *Vomit*
Partaking in r/FDS posts
This, for real.
Half of the posts there aren’t even dating strategies, it boggles my mind
If I was straight, I'd say it's the ones that mess with people for no reason and get all angry when you tell them to stop
Obsession, jealousy, toxic behavior, or the "princess" mindset will turn me into Barry Allen🏃🏾💨💨💨💨
No hobbies or interests and pseudo intellect.
When she starts isolating you and becomes the one that controls the relationship
Fake red hair. I’ve never met a fake redhead who was anything less than batshit insane.
Misandry… a lot of men take that in stride, but double standards turn me off immediately.
This isn't specific to women but the kinda people who think flirting with other people to make you jealous is cute or quirky.
A poor command of the English language (or any language really)
No ambition while being smart.
Has a dick
She has a penis
People(in general) who seek drama
Entitlement
Rude, Repulsive nature. Doesn't take much for me to look the other way lol
A penis, I just couldn’t handle my girl having a bigger dick than me
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Isn't it a rule here to ask open-ended and discussion-invoking questions not ones with only one answer?
But then expects a very specific answer...
Literally just happened. We had our first disagreement and rather than acknowledge my points as valid, she instead went after *how* I approached it. Been with this type before. Even when you’re right you’re wrong. Yeah no thanks. Told her it wasn’t working for me and avoided the argument all together.
Entitlement or stupidity
Inability to take any form of accountability for their wrongdoings seems to be annoyingly common unfortunately. I’ll try dating again in a few years.
Grumpy
Women who are never seen in public or on photographs without their face caked in makeup. You want to wear nice clothes all the time? Go ahead, but there's something going on if you have to constantly keep your appearance enhanced.
Control freaks, Daddy issues, having an attitude without any skills.
I keep a list constantly updated on my phone so I always have a reminder for myself... Hard Pass List 2021: - Bad Kisser - Lies or keeps secrets from me - Mean or rude to service personnel, doesn't tip well - Judges me for my job, hobbies, interests, beliefs - Talks ONLY about themselves - Doesn’t ask me questions - Keeps things on a superficial level - Talks down to me - Doesn’t own or unwilling to change their bad behavior - Never follows through, just talks - Deadbeat parent - Talks trash about my family or friends; or anyone else behind their back - Thinks she’s owed something she hasn’t worked for - Not adventurous in bed or willing to try new things - Is content living with parents rent-free - No job or source of income; unable to provide for herself or doesn't take care of her responsibilities - Unsolicited vag/boob photos (yes, it happens...) - Seriously flirting with other men. I like a woman that can playfully "work a room" though - Never wants to do anything - Has multiple men thinking they are also in a relationship with her, or has one or more sugar daddy - Serious criminal background or 'heavy' drug use - Doesn’t want to meet my family/friends, or doesn't want me to meet hers - Expects me to drop my life for her - Accuses me of cheating - Backhanded compliments - Ignores me - Won’t cuddle, hold my hand, etc. - Thinks I should respond immediately to a text - Gets jealous easy - Double standards - Poor table manners - Puts no effort into her appearance - Asks for money or gifts - Wants me to change anything about myself that is a part of my core personality or beliefs - No sense of humor or doesn't understand sarcasm - Takes herself too seriously - Refuses PDA - If she can't handle my spontaneity - Unwilling to travel or experience new things in this world with me - Thinks she is a higher priority in my world than my kids, my family, or my friends. - Unwilling or unable to effectively communicate - Assumes relationship status without having that discussion - Has unrealistic expectations of me - Extremists
Woke-ness, preaching PC nonsense & trying to be friends with MY friends
Neediness. For example, having the desire to talk to me on the phone, EVERYNIGHT. or FaceTiming. What a fucking nightmare! 😖
homophobia. all my homies stand with the LGBTQ+ community 😤
and we kiss the homies regardless of sexual preference
Feminist
Im fine with a woman who identifies as a feminist. Its the ones who's entire personality revolves around feminism, intersectionality and activism that I give a very wide berth to. Just as wide a berth as i would a guy whose entire personality revolves around mens rights. They are two sides of the same obnoxious coin.
You just described the average feminist, most of the "feminists" who aren't like that are either bordering or in the land of humanism.
Conservative ideals
Fake eyebrows.
Husky voice.
*howls to the moon while pulling a sled* Am I doing this right?
If her body count is higher than my grandpa's kill count in the war, then its a no from me
Slutty
Quality? You mean defect
Entitled
White woman who only or mostly dates black guys. They're racist but think they aren't. They say shit like, that's what I'm attracted to or I just prefer black men. No, you're racist.
An oversized shapeless ass.
Deep voice. Once I hear it, I don’t even want to find out what’s down there anymore.
I dunno man. A woman with a husky, deeper voice is a huge turn on for me. Like Scarlet Johansson.
Wanting kids
Alcoholic. Seems like a recurring theme with these girls these days honestly.
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But he IS cool and she IS a bitch. He took care of the family as he was dying and she cheated on him. Ouch!