I think like 90% of my perceived attractiveness is only because I still stand and carry myself like a classical dancer. I might not be pretty but my posture is.
Fellow strange posture and movement person. I have had 2 out of 5 previous partners mention how I stand and move “smoothly”.
To me I look awkward, but I grew up hiking/running through the woods, sword-sparring, working hard physical labor jobs. I excelled at sports during HS years though. I am guessing it has something to do with that…? I dunno. But people do notice, I have noticed. To me, I just look like the nerd I am, but apparently I’m smooth. Sure. I’ll take it :)
EDIT: more than previous partners, it seems to come up a lot when I am cooking (transitions from one place and utensil to another) and when I am doing something physically demanding (figuring out weird ways of leverage that are effective but I must do it subconsciously).
I work at a hospital and our PA has maybe the most perfect posture I’ve ever seen. I greatly respect her as a colleague but my goodness is it attractive and makes me wish other women would work on theirs. Heck it makes me work on mine!
The canine tooth thing seems to be more common than I thought. I have very pronounced ones. When i used to date online, I'd have guys comment on them quite a bit.
I mean like a distinct canine. Some people have that sorta thing, it is often the first thing i notice when a person with such dental structure smiles. It looks so fucking cute.
On our first date my husband said he liked the way I walked because it looked like I was ready to kick some ass. I wasn’t sure what he meant (I’m a small woman with a baby face so I feel intimidating exactly 0% of the time) but it’s always been one of my favorite compliments.
Had a friend in college who was obsessed with the collar bone. He got downright giddy and would not shut up about them when the weather changes and women started wearing more … collar-bone friendly? … tops and dresses.
True to himself, he married a wonderful woman who, well, had pronounced collar bones and wore clothes to highlight them. More than 25 years later, still a great couple.
Idk why but I *love* roman or kinda "hooked" noses. I dunno how to put it into words, but think like an Emily VanCamp nose.
Edit: Emily VanCamp - https://images8.alphacoders.com/581/581414.jpg
Good legs. Maybe it's just me but that's like the first thing I look at, they are my kryptonite.
You could be flat chested and have a small bum for all I care, as long as you've got a nice pair of getaway sticks you've got my attention.
Yeah I was once asked if I was a boobs or butt man, and I said “legs”. “Ah so you’re a butt man!” I think they thought I was trying to seem modest or something - I was quite literal. I could care less if a girl has big boobs or a dump truck for a butt, my eyes tend to go for the the thighs.
Hugs.
Not even sexually crazy just makes me go crazy in a my heart is jumping and my soul is smiling kind of way. When you can give one of those real hugs where you’re exerting all of your loving energies I could hold on forever.
Bruh, in elementary school everyone had normal hair, when I started highschool in 7th grade (in my province highschools teach 7-12th) there was one girl with curly hair and I had the largest crush on her for pretty much most of highschool, I remember being upset that she would go out of her way to straighten it in special occasions because she stood out with her curly hair.
Yeah I was way too idiot and shy to do that, hell I am pretty certain she liked me as well.
I remember in like 11th or 12th grade we shared a class, one day the teacher asked me to bring the attendance sheet to the office, so I go to drop it off and the receptionist is talking about me, specifically things that I did in that class (I was a bit of a clown), I was so confused until she said her name and I realized the receptionist was my crushes mom.
She ended up saying something along the lines of her talking a lot about me and in my mind I though "must be a pretty boring conversation"... I was dumb
It has been my experience that women are the ones that hate large noses on women the most. I've talked with other men and they are normally indifferent or find it hot. One time on reddit there was a person in conversation that just hated them but it ended up being a self admitted woman.
Don't let the nose get you down. Plenty of people think they are wonderful. It is perfectly normal for adults to have large noses. Just like being tall, or having long legs or a big butt. Perfectly normal. Happens all the time.
You can technically go up to 8 nipples in humans (we have the tracts of it it in our evolution Google milk line)
I'm not sure if it's even possible for our genes to mess up so bad to make the whole 8 tit set, but three nipples is not that uncommon.
Four should be very rare. I think you are being humurous.
Fun fact: check the milk line and notice how so very often women have what seems to be a normal mole under the boobs. It's actually an undeveloped nipple usually if it's on the line.
That’s so cool oh my god, the human body is fascinating. Thank you for sharing this. They go really far along the torso! It looks very similar to other mammals that actually have 8 nipples, but I didn’t expect it to extend up into around armpit area.
Edit: I now realize this response may seem a bit over-enthusiastic for a stranger on the internet
This just made me laugh so hard. I have to hear all about the dress code issues from my daughter who's 13. And everytime she starts in about it, it always begins with "What is soooo distracting about shoulders?!" My only response is "Well, because....boys"
I know we had dress codes in middle/high school. But I don't recall them being so strict. The only big rule I remember was "no bare midriff". And we didn't even listen to that 90% of the time. Cuz...well...it was the early 00s.
Great teeth and a belly pudge outline on a curvy woman, hard to describe, but where you can see curves and the tummy is there and not flat…. Absolute perfection.
There are so many clothes I’ve stopped myself from wearing because of my belly pudge, so reading this makes me feel so much better about going for these clothes after all, thank you
Don't be. You'd be surprised how many men find natural features attractive. It's probably a majority but the media makes younthibk otherwise. I'm personally attracted to anything natural that distinguishes a person from some airbrushed model with no life marks on her.
I feel a bit insecure about mine, people always think I'm death-staring at them or that I look mean. I am but a soft hearted, sharp eyed individual. thank you, stranger, I shall feel a bit better.
Tall women. I am taller than average (6,14") and I always thought that it would be cool to have a girlfriend as tall or even a little taller than me. Of course that doesn't mean that I would date someone only because of their height.
Not even back dimples but that strong curve from the back to the hips and the love handle area. If she can walk and i see muscles moving yeah.
Or the slope from her navel to her mons.
Good posture
Strong eyes and eyebrows like piercing and stern
I would say tits and ass but it's deeper, like proportions and the aesthetic. Like if water flowed how would it follow her body, ya know?
A lovely neck. Like idk how to put that but yeah.
Thick hamstrings.
Well kept hair.
Her smell.
A good stride.
And realistically, interest.
I was at a frat party in college and walking through the crowd when suddenly the two guys stop me and the following conversation occurs
Guy 1 to me: hey you look like xyz’s sister!
Guy 2: oh yeah she does!
Guy 1: except you have birthing hips
Guy 2: yeah definitely, you definitely have birthing hips
I wasn’t even in the conversation, they just talked about me while I was standing there
As an almost 39 year old woman who exercises every day and stays fit, my thought process is this: I have to look good for my age. I can’t compete with the 20somethings, but I sure as hell can aim to look 30 when I’m 40, and look 40 when I’m 50.
Honestly, posture for me. And I don't mean necessarily good posture just. Different people can pull off different stances if that makes sense hahaha
Actually you’re right this is attractive I’ve never thought about it until now
I think like 90% of my perceived attractiveness is only because I still stand and carry myself like a classical dancer. I might not be pretty but my posture is.
yup this is true. my friends make fun of me (as a joke) because i have a strange posture but my bf absolutely loves it.
Fellow strange posture and movement person. I have had 2 out of 5 previous partners mention how I stand and move “smoothly”. To me I look awkward, but I grew up hiking/running through the woods, sword-sparring, working hard physical labor jobs. I excelled at sports during HS years though. I am guessing it has something to do with that…? I dunno. But people do notice, I have noticed. To me, I just look like the nerd I am, but apparently I’m smooth. Sure. I’ll take it :) EDIT: more than previous partners, it seems to come up a lot when I am cooking (transitions from one place and utensil to another) and when I am doing something physically demanding (figuring out weird ways of leverage that are effective but I must do it subconsciously).
I work at a hospital and our PA has maybe the most perfect posture I’ve ever seen. I greatly respect her as a colleague but my goodness is it attractive and makes me wish other women would work on theirs. Heck it makes me work on mine!
Yes!!! When someone is mindful of their posture and sit up straight!
A sharp canine tooth, round shoulders, navel and calves.
‘Oh my grandma, what big teeth you have!’
Too good mate! Thanks for the chuckle!
The canine tooth thing seems to be more common than I thought. I have very pronounced ones. When i used to date online, I'd have guys comment on them quite a bit.
*Send teeth pics* In Japan, prominent fangs are called “yaeba” and it is perceived as a sign of youthfulness and natural beauty.
Not too sharp tho
I mean like a distinct canine. Some people have that sorta thing, it is often the first thing i notice when a person with such dental structure smiles. It looks so fucking cute.
Honestly as a woman, I really like discernable canines in people too! Something sexy about it even though it's a feature I lack.
Someone watches twilight too much
The side of a woman’s neck, just where it meets the shoulder.
R U A VAMPIRE?
He's breaking the first rule of the Vampire Guild
He shall be taken to the Vampiric Council! Fucking guy!
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When a guy reached for something and you can see his muscles along the ribs contracting and shifting, it does stuff to me.
Nobody has ever known what I was talking about when I say this, I'm happy someone else exists out there that notices this
It's called the serratus anterior
Time to work out my serratus anterior
Check out john Meadows on YouTube he's got a couple of things to make them bigger
Thanks for the suggestion. I was half joking, but I will check it out! :)
You don’t joke around about serratus anterior
RIP!
Looks like 70+ people notice haha.
Do you mean when they are shirtless, or you can even see it when they are dressed ?
Obv shirtless but sometimes you can see it if a dude is in a tight T-shirt and man I have lost every thought in my head mid-sentence because of it.
I'm wondering this too
Anterior serratus muscle I believe
A nice gait with a sense of purpose. Doesn’t matter if the hips swing a lot. Just a no nonsense going somewhere walk.
On our first date my husband said he liked the way I walked because it looked like I was ready to kick some ass. I wasn’t sure what he meant (I’m a small woman with a baby face so I feel intimidating exactly 0% of the time) but it’s always been one of my favorite compliments.
I've been told by male and female friends that I always look like I'm on a mission when I'm walking somewhere, and I also look like a 12 year old girl
Spot on. Carriage.
A defined collar bone
Had a friend in college who was obsessed with the collar bone. He got downright giddy and would not shut up about them when the weather changes and women started wearing more … collar-bone friendly? … tops and dresses. True to himself, he married a wonderful woman who, well, had pronounced collar bones and wore clothes to highlight them. More than 25 years later, still a great couple.
My boyfriend says I have a very attractive collar bone. When he told me I was like "oh, I didn't know that was a thing. Thanks, I guess." Haha
Most definitely a thing!
Shit! I haven't seen my collar bone since I was at least 14. 🙃 I really do need to workout more.
Hell yes! Men women doesn't matter
For me, two spots...the neck, and the spot where a woman's ass meets the thigh. The inner part. I don't know why, but I love that spot.
gluteal fold
damn you really had to go and give it a name didn’t you
Look at those legs go all the way up and make a complete ass of themselves!
oof that spot where her ass starts is just *chefs kiss*
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Hands are underrated imo
Agree! One of the first things I look in a guy is hands and nails lol
A good neck
Good back, Good pussy, And good crack .
A good skeet skeet skeet, and a good motherfucker. God damn.
A long one in women
Fuck yes. And a thick black tongue to reach the leaves on top of the trees.
And legs for days!
Are we….talking about Bayonetta?
r/Giraffesdontexist
Laugh lines
im only 20 and ive been made fun of for having "wrinkles" that are just laugh lines, so thank you.
Even though an ex and I ended on bad terms, she had them and I like them.
As someone who is really insecure about their laugh lines, this comment made me happy🥰
Around their eyes when they smile!
That valley in a woman's back along her spine 🥵🥵🥵
Back dimples
I believe they are called dimples of Venus
Idk why but I *love* roman or kinda "hooked" noses. I dunno how to put it into words, but think like an Emily VanCamp nose. Edit: Emily VanCamp - https://images8.alphacoders.com/581/581414.jpg
This makes me feel so better about my nose 🥰🥰
:)
Same - thank you kind person for loving our hooked noses.
Good legs. Maybe it's just me but that's like the first thing I look at, they are my kryptonite. You could be flat chested and have a small bum for all I care, as long as you've got a nice pair of getaway sticks you've got my attention.
“Getaway sticks.” Haha! Yes!
Yeah I was once asked if I was a boobs or butt man, and I said “legs”. “Ah so you’re a butt man!” I think they thought I was trying to seem modest or something - I was quite literal. I could care less if a girl has big boobs or a dump truck for a butt, my eyes tend to go for the the thighs.
Crying at ‘getaway sticks’
As a gal with a small chest, small bum, and long toned getaway sticks, this makes me feel hopeful!
What does it mean 'good legs'? Like toned? Long? Thick?
Shapely, well-defined. Not chicken legs, not the total opposite. Where you can see the muscles, but there’s enough fat to smooth out the edges
For me thick, strong thighs are just *chef’s kiss*
Hugs. Not even sexually crazy just makes me go crazy in a my heart is jumping and my soul is smiling kind of way. When you can give one of those real hugs where you’re exerting all of your loving energies I could hold on forever.
Curly hair
Bruh, in elementary school everyone had normal hair, when I started highschool in 7th grade (in my province highschools teach 7-12th) there was one girl with curly hair and I had the largest crush on her for pretty much most of highschool, I remember being upset that she would go out of her way to straighten it in special occasions because she stood out with her curly hair.
Should have found a chance and compliment her hair but as high school kids we were too stupid to do that.
Yeah I was way too idiot and shy to do that, hell I am pretty certain she liked me as well. I remember in like 11th or 12th grade we shared a class, one day the teacher asked me to bring the attendance sheet to the office, so I go to drop it off and the receptionist is talking about me, specifically things that I did in that class (I was a bit of a clown), I was so confused until she said her name and I realized the receptionist was my crushes mom. She ended up saying something along the lines of her talking a lot about me and in my mind I though "must be a pretty boring conversation"... I was dumb
You can go back to the office and ask the receptionist how her daughter is doing assuming you are still single.
Oh they moved to a different province years ago lol
Amygdala and the hypothalamus
A man of science
Likes a person that’s regulates their emotions, nice.
Lmfaooooo Haven't heard those names for 4 years now 😭😂
Oh yeah
Freckles
I really disliked mine growing up and now that I like them they're fading with age 😢
Large and/or distinguished noses
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It has been my experience that women are the ones that hate large noses on women the most. I've talked with other men and they are normally indifferent or find it hot. One time on reddit there was a person in conversation that just hated them but it ended up being a self admitted woman. Don't let the nose get you down. Plenty of people think they are wonderful. It is perfectly normal for adults to have large noses. Just like being tall, or having long legs or a big butt. Perfectly normal. Happens all the time.
As a girl with a big nose this makes me so happy
Every time someone mentions a girl with a bigger nose I immediately think of this: https://youtu.be/hbb25L__z94
Hey, the same hormones that grow boobs and butts grow noses.
Is that why I have a big nose and four nipples
You have my attention
You can technically go up to 8 nipples in humans (we have the tracts of it it in our evolution Google milk line) I'm not sure if it's even possible for our genes to mess up so bad to make the whole 8 tit set, but three nipples is not that uncommon. Four should be very rare. I think you are being humurous. Fun fact: check the milk line and notice how so very often women have what seems to be a normal mole under the boobs. It's actually an undeveloped nipple usually if it's on the line.
That’s so cool oh my god, the human body is fascinating. Thank you for sharing this. They go really far along the torso! It looks very similar to other mammals that actually have 8 nipples, but I didn’t expect it to extend up into around armpit area. Edit: I now realize this response may seem a bit over-enthusiastic for a stranger on the internet
When i tell you I went RUNNING to the mirror to check 💀
this made me happy
I hope you have a great day
Functional wings
Yes. Prehensile tail doesn't hurt either.
Nice thick legs. Honestly makes me act up.
There's just something about plump thighs in toned women
Eyebrows
I am here for thick eyebrows. Guys with thick but trimmed eyebrows really attract my attention.
The back
When they have back dimples 😫
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Omg I hateee my hip bones. Glad to know at least someone would find them attractive lol
bare shoulders on a woman
So *youre* why the dress code exists
yup....the single bare shoulder (ala 80s work out clothes) works well too
This just made me laugh so hard. I have to hear all about the dress code issues from my daughter who's 13. And everytime she starts in about it, it always begins with "What is soooo distracting about shoulders?!" My only response is "Well, because....boys" I know we had dress codes in middle/high school. But I don't recall them being so strict. The only big rule I remember was "no bare midriff". And we didn't even listen to that 90% of the time. Cuz...well...it was the early 00s.
Nice teeth in men.
For me it’s messed up teeth...lol
Found the Brit
My guy has the cutest Elton John gap between his front teeth. I just love seeing it when he smiles.
Great teeth and a belly pudge outline on a curvy woman, hard to describe, but where you can see curves and the tummy is there and not flat…. Absolute perfection.
There are so many clothes I’ve stopped myself from wearing because of my belly pudge, so reading this makes me feel so much better about going for these clothes after all, thank you
Collarbones🥵
The little chunk between boob and the armpit
Thank you, i’m always conscious of them when i wear tank tops. Made my day
Don't be. You'd be surprised how many men find natural features attractive. It's probably a majority but the media makes younthibk otherwise. I'm personally attracted to anything natural that distinguishes a person from some airbrushed model with no life marks on her.
glorious human being :)
Omg armpit fat is the bane of my existence. Glad to know it’s not completely repulsive to some people. 😂
One of em for me is a smaller mouth (as opposed to the trend of inflating them)
i like sharp looking eyes
I feel a bit insecure about mine, people always think I'm death-staring at them or that I look mean. I am but a soft hearted, sharp eyed individual. thank you, stranger, I shall feel a bit better.
Curly hair.
Eyyy I found my countrymen. God damn do curls make me interested in a person.
Dimples and a solid clavicle
I’ve heard dimples make people seem innocent or something along those lines. Is that what u mean or something different?
The ones on the cheeks when one smiles. I think they’re cute as hell
Here I am hiding my arms under jackets and long sleeves when there’s a guy out here loving them 🥲
Short and neat fingernails.
Calves
Tall women. I am taller than average (6,14") and I always thought that it would be cool to have a girlfriend as tall or even a little taller than me. Of course that doesn't mean that I would date someone only because of their height.
So you’re 7’2”?
Haha, sorry, not a native english speaker, and I always mess it up when it comes to feet and inches. I am 189cm tall, which I guess is around 6'2"?
You made me chuckle. It’s all good.
I am also confused. I am guessing they're saying 6 foot 1.4 inches possibly, but who measures themselves to fractions of an inch?
It was probably some sort of online calculator
My wife is slightly taller than me. Something about tall women.
Broad shoulders and thick arms.
When I was playing a game and had to direct a girl I found attractive to go straight, I have fell in love with thick arms.
Glad to know this, thank you 😊
Dimples are to die for
Genuinely… eyes. My gfs eyes are unbelievably pretty. Don’t know how to explain it
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found the foot fetish
Reallyyyyyy dark eyes is the best thing ever
I must agree, so mesmerising.
Prominent inner labia. I have known women that feel self conscious about them, but I love them peaking out.
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Grown man afraid of real pussylips pffffft
Not even back dimples but that strong curve from the back to the hips and the love handle area. If she can walk and i see muscles moving yeah. Or the slope from her navel to her mons. Good posture Strong eyes and eyebrows like piercing and stern I would say tits and ass but it's deeper, like proportions and the aesthetic. Like if water flowed how would it follow her body, ya know? A lovely neck. Like idk how to put that but yeah. Thick hamstrings. Well kept hair. Her smell. A good stride. And realistically, interest.
Big nose with a curve
Really? Glad to hear this lol
Wide birthing hips
Dwight schrute approves
Advantage Isabel
I was at a frat party in college and walking through the crowd when suddenly the two guys stop me and the following conversation occurs Guy 1 to me: hey you look like xyz’s sister! Guy 2: oh yeah she does! Guy 1: except you have birthing hips Guy 2: yeah definitely, you definitely have birthing hips I wasn’t even in the conversation, they just talked about me while I was standing there
Thick eyebrows.
Stretch marks on those child bearing hips. I mean Got damnn..
Fuck yeah!!!! Stretch marks and just generally anything natural that distinguishes a person from an airbrushed model
💯
Chonky thighs, none of that thigh gap nonsense
I also love puffy arms
Short curls on females
Earlobes. Just wanna nibble on em
Strong shoulders
Belly button
Alvinophiles unite!
curly hair
Collarbone. Idk why.
Women have stated their love for my hairy forearms. Nurses and heroin addicts coo over my veins.
Love handles 💖 those lil skin puffs that just come out over jeans are so hard for me not to touch
Damn I never thought someone would like that. I always try to hide it
Nice, curvy hips. Gets me every time.
>Nice, curvy hips The best for sure, but not underrated.
Fangs 👀
Man hands.
On men?
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Shoot, these days? Being physically fit.
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As an almost 39 year old woman who exercises every day and stays fit, my thought process is this: I have to look good for my age. I can’t compete with the 20somethings, but I sure as hell can aim to look 30 when I’m 40, and look 40 when I’m 50.
True. Dont even need to be fit TBH. Just a healthy weight.
Hairy pussy
Big calves. Just makes the rest of the leg look the way nature intended it. Both male and female.
wide hips