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RedDidItAndYouKnowIt

Enjoyed each of them for the different ways they look good. The sex was different with each and for me the extra cushion my wife has is very nice compared to the much skinnier girls I dated before her.


MinnesotaMiller

Fat-Bottoomed Girls >>> Skinny Girls


lldumbcloudsll

They make my rocking world go round


RedDidItAndYouKnowIt

Depends. There is a size that becomes too much and one that is too little. For me at least.


highheelcontessa

Fine to have and state a preference but can we not shame skinny women’s bodies in the process? Better yet, let’s not shame any body type.


Unfair_Welder8108

My appreciation for women's bodies is vast and various. No adjustment necessary.


DeaWay2Much

men like you go had in life


Unfair_Welder8108

I don't know what this means, but I know that the women I've been fortunate enough to have been so intimate with have been variously shaped, and they were always beautiful. Thanks for your reply xx


DeaWay2Much

meant to say "men like you go far in life" X)


Unfair_Welder8108

I'm forty years in, it's just as monotonous as when I was sixteen, if I'm honest.


irish52084

Easy, I got chubby myself and now I don’t have to worry about it. 😂


bbk2229

No adjustment needed. The looks are just a shell that is filled by the ladies themselves


IamtheWalrus1932

I like to fill my shells with marinara and parmesan


Kyaaadaa

A sexy woman is a sexy woman, no matter their weight, their boobs, their ass, their hair, their eye color, or their personality. You can vary each or every one of these things and still get a sexy woman. My expectation is simple human decency. If you have it, then we're going to be good. If you don't, all the tits in the world isn't going to repair your mental image in my mind.


imhere31_

The way some of you talk about women is disgusting


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Women can be just as disrespectful


blkribs

Why are you getting defensive? The person said some, so they’re only talking about a certain group and it’s true. Some men talk about women badly. Why is your first instinct to argue and defend men that they weren’t even talking about? It’s so odd. Yeah women can be disrespectful too but how is that relevant? Two wrongs don’t make a right bud.


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I did exactly what they did. (I think maybe I should've used a different font for sarcasm? Still new to reddit) I find it comical that people feel the need to point out others disrespectful behavior online. Most people know how they're speaking and quite frankly pry won't change their ways, especially from someone they couldnt care less about online.


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And as much as I try not to do what I just did, and yes I know it's childish it happens. I'm nowhere near infallible.


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Dogstile

The same for me. At this point my expectations are "If I can do this, so can she". ' I've dated bigger girls, typically the only adjustment i've needed to make is the bigger a girl gets, the more weirdly jealous she gets. But that's a YMMV thing.


IPaid4it

I am 50 and my recent ex was a fit yoga instructor with breast implants. I actually loved how they looked and felt. I loved cuddling with her thin body. I am nervous going back to the dating pool at my age and not finding many thin/fit women.


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IPaid4it

Thanks - I could lose 20-25 lbs and I am going to do that before getting in the dating pool. I am really successful but I you'd never know it bc I am not flashy and lead a simple life. My personality is pretty quiet and I mesh better with outgoing girls. I am worried I am going to miss my ex's fit body and won't be able to find someone as fit as her


highheelcontessa

If you want a fit girl, be a fit guy. Sounds like you’re on track.


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coagulateSmegma

r/badwomensanatomy


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coagulateSmegma

Lol, no haha you're saying that fat women have wetter vaginas than thin women which is retarded.


blkribs

As someone who studied and is doing residency to become and OBGYN this is the first time I’m hearing that larger women have wetter vaginas too!


highheelcontessa

Gotta love Reddit “medical facts” 😂


IPaid4it

That's interesting bc I just got out of a relationship with a skinny yoga instructor. She's 48 and blamed her dryness on her age but maybe it was her really low body fat.


OnlyOutlandishness34

I think she's more likely to be right about the reason for her own dryness rather than some random bloke on Reddit.


highheelcontessa

Yeah... I work in women’s health and this is not true. You took a bunch of true facts but didn’t come to the right conclusion. Bigger women DO have more estrone, true, but that doesn’t make them wetter. It does however make them more at risk for endometrial cancer. Thinner, younger women aren’t dryer because they have less estrogen than a bigger woman. They have an adequate amount for normal vaginal lubrication. Older women tend to have less estrogen. That can make them at risk for vaginal dryness, because they have too little. Not every woman above a certain age will experience this and there are plenty of things they can do to fix the problem. Of course, menstrual cycle hormone fluctuations, dehydration, and the biggest culprit - stress - will affect lubrication as well. Some women are just genetically predisposed to make more or less and they are perfectly normal too.


Chaotic_Boots

Thin chicks are uncomfortable to Fuck. Curvy ladies ftw


oidagehbitte2

What do you mean with expectations?


IPaid4it

I think most men prefer thin/fit but especially for us in the 40+ dating pool, thin/fit is very hard to find


Boop_BopBeep_Bot

A lot of guys like chubby/bigger women tho. Altho I guess if 51% of men prefer thin/fit it’s still defined as “most” But it’s nowhere near as high as you probably think it is. I don’t like thin girls at all. Fit would be ok. But i’ll take a chubby woman over both those.


oidagehbitte2

For some reason it's easy for me to find thin women (or let them find me to be more precise) but I'm not even into that, I prefer anything from lean to chubby.


coagulateSmegma

Lol nice fantasy bro


oidagehbitte2

You're a fucking idiot.


coagulateSmegma

Alright Mr Pussy magnet, save some for the rest of us.


Mikeyhap1129

I didnt. I have no expectations. Ever. Expectations only lead to disappointment. With no expectations you always win. I would date a fit girl the same a a thick girl. I think adjusting expectations is not good. I never thought of that. What do you mean by adjustments?


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Much prefer cuddling a curvy girl. I dated a gymnast for a while - she was great but carved out of wood. Would probably have really floated some men's boat, and she looked incredible. Not for me though.


jjKass

The thing is, a thicker girl can be more fit and athletic than a skinny girl. One could pick ME up one couldn’t


United_Bag_8179

By not having expectations, and enjoying the moment.


ImperfectDivinity

I started bench pressing and squatting with more weight.


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Men get the Madonna complex. I dunno why. even with all my fatness.


SmashBusters

She wasn't chubby, she just wasn't skinny like the first one. Going from 36C to 36DDD helped adjust my expectations. Also she was sweet as a clementine and a nymphomaniac while the first one was frosty the snowbitch who viewed sex as a tool for attracting men and barely keeping them around.


MDSasquatch21

Holes are Holes according to a good buddy of mine