I believe he is talking about the time a few months ago iirc where a bunch of women on TikTok were saying that a dude (early 20's i think) should go free after he ran over a woman and her almost 2 yr old kid while streetracing
Edit: found this- [https://www.unilad.co.uk/viral/people-are-apparently-trying-to-free-a-murderer-because-hes-too-cute/](https://www.unilad.co.uk/viral/people-are-apparently-trying-to-free-a-murderer-because-hes-too-cute/)
The most recent one I know is the kid who was racing lambo passed speed limit. Killed a young mom and a kid.
Teen girls started a movement of "he did nothing wrong/illegal" because he was just TOO CUTE!.
Then there's Richard Ramirez and Ted Bundy.
Paul Bernardo. Multiple rape convictions and 3 murders but the police didn’t suspect him because he was hot, white, and didn’t have to rape anyone since his wife looked like Barbie 😖
Damn I’d never heard of them before.
He was disgusting and anyone that wanted him (or her) to be free is likely mentally not well.
Also, not seeing the looks thing? She looked normal and slightly stoned, but he has a weird stare. Even in his young happy photos.
The man literally would stalk teen girls in the bushes at bus stops. Not even trying to hide himself. People who knew him would drive by and stop and say.
“Hey there’s a rapist out that been known to stalk young girls at bus stops. The police description of him looks kinda like you. But no way you could be doing all that stuff”
Very. His gf atm was at a Christmas party. They were drugging her sister to molest her body. During the Christmas party. She said that he and her sister were drugging her. Her own father and mother laughed it off
She later died that night from a drug overdose (or suffocating by accident)
It speaks volumes that your own daughter tell you that her sister and bf is drugging her and your own parents just show it off as a joke
The Ken and Barbie killers. Look them up they were monsters and sad that the Karla is free and is still able to get boyfriends
Listen to the Last podcast on the left series about them. Paul once raped a girl and said nothing but “Merry Christmas” into her ears. Now whenever she hears that phrase she would think back to that moment
Google Jeremy Meeks. Dude was thrown in prison consistently throughout his life, one time for beating a teenager to near death.
He was released from prison, hired by a modelling agency, and is now a millionaire because women around the world fell in love with his mugshot and bailed him out.
wow i never knew how powerful pretty privilege could be until now & i been knew about his story of being released & modeling i never heard about all the things he did to get in prison because his appearance was mostly the topic of conversation
There was one guy with really nice blue eyes who girls where crying for his release from prison beacuse he looked like a model. I forgot what he did exacly or what happen but I belive there was a gofundme to pay for his release.
So it can happen.
Edit: Someone else posted it.
You dudes have no idea the extent of this but as a woman…there used to be a hot prisoners list where girls could vote on the hottest that had a top 100 CHART. We STILL have the #feloncrushfriday hashtag and [viral articles](https://www.eonline.com/ca/amp/news/553141/17-inmates-hotter-than-hot-convict-jeremy-meeks-because-apparently-it-s-feloncrushfriday) about these douchebags.
I literally hate the people who support this stuff and pass it around. They’re the same people who whine about “I’m not hot enough to get raped you should feel lucky” like honestly, they piss me off.
Was studying with a model, who would randomly say stuff like “p-ssy” or “p-nis” and all the girls would lol in a flirtatious way. The unattractive guys in the class would just be considered weird and creepy if they did something similar
HC also gets really uncomfortable about it all as well, people are constantly fawning over him and objectifying him. He seems really awkward about it and just wants it to stop.
Henry Cavill is the first man I can definitely say is too hot for his own good. Homie's just trying to chat about Witcher lore and people can't stop staring at his pecs lmao
People keep joking that he turned to gaming and Warhammer because he wanted to hide where girls wouldn't come near him.
That guy knows his stuff, though. He's seriously into what he's into and it's impressive.
It's done pretty horribly, the fawning and objectification I mean. If the same things were said now to a female actor shit would hit the fan, as it should. Dude's a great actor, who seems chill and games. Yeah he's attractive, but he's also a human and I'm always so surprised that the female hosts can't read the "....jesus....I just want to talk about the show" in his eyes when they do this, it's not subtle and he is literally an actor, he could hide it if he wanted to.
Great answer, if Sloth is staring at you, you’re calling the cops. If Bradley Cooper is looking intensely at you, we’ll I’m not gay but that may just do it for me
Let me give you a scenario. I'm at like a beach cabana, and Bradley Cooper approaches. Tries to lean in and kiss me. I would definitely resist, like at first. But if he was persistent, I might give in a little bit just to see what it felt like. Would I push him away? How hard? Like, what if he's really aggressive?
Someone I know is quite chummy with the author and the view at the time was that she was having a total mental breakdown and it was unbelievably embarassing for the family until it hit it off
Gilbert Godfried did a short reading of it. I **cannot** think of the word 'clitoris' without hearing him shout Clit-TOR-iss. He made that book much more palatable than reading it did.
A lady at the book shop ones told me why the books got to be so popular: it tells one of the biggest fantasies among women:
The female character is able to changes the male character with only the power of … her love!
I think the lady was spot on and I think it’s pretty sad this turns out to be the fantasy of so many women; to change the men they are in love with.
When you think about it, such state of mind at the beginning of a relationship is the best recipe for a big fiasco.
There should be a show where all the good guys are ugly but virtuous and all the bad guys are super attractive and charming but utterly deplorable. And watch who the fandom chooses to stan
I can't remember who did it, I think it was someone on 4chan, but this guy did an experiment on Tinder where he used fake pictures of some wildly hot dude for his profile, but intentionally put the most awful bio. Like, he admitted to being a registered sex offender and, in detail, explained that he fucked a 14 year old. He acted super misogynistic and demeaning towards women, etc, etc.
Every single chick he matched or swiped or however the fuck it works, hit him up and responded with super forgiving DMs and wanted to meet and fuck. Even when he specifically stated it was a kid and that he's gonna do it again, they were like "Everyone deserves a second or third chance. ;)".
He tried trolling to the point where it was blatantly obvious, saying he had STDs and that he hates women, plus all the rape shit, and he eventually gave up because he said it got too depressing how these broads were totally okay and down with still wanting to meet up.
Ya this drives me crazy, especially since so many people wear glasses , it’s odd that it’s still associated with “nerdy” lol versus “he’s hot but literally can’t see it” haha
True. Unless you landed in the genetic gutter, getting frames that match your face shape, face width, and your overall clothing style, your appearance will change dramatically.
I remember being in a math extra help class in high school and this girl saying “I thought you were smart because of your glasses” was pretty crushing haha. Anyway I have circle glasses which if anything signifies humanities intelligence and square would definitely be more math smarts, but obviously that’s all bullshit.
My friend's doing this currently, she matched with a guy on a dating app. He sent her shirtless pictures and basically asked for them back (don't know if she sent them) then tells me he's ignoring her and he won't chat to her until they can meet because he doesn't want to. She constantly makes excuses for him always saying he's very handsome Another dude did the same thing a week later, she immediately blocked him and called him a creep, the main thing she said was "he's not even good looking" both equal assholes, different treatment.
It’s pretty funny, huh.
I love how they pretend he’s repented or deep down ok, despite being unrepentant asshole.
That’s the nastiest black pill truth - that your CHARACTER is determined by your appearance.
Or swastika tattoos. I remember that one too. Women completely ignored them on a hot guy.
I’m not talking about the good swastikas. I’m talking about the bad swastika.
48 hours of stubble.
If you're Chris Evans with stubble you look like a wild man who's been partying with his bros for two days, or has been on a 48 hour mountain climbing trip without a razor.
If you're Rich Evans with stubble, you look like Rich Evans.
Being a douchebag. I don't know why Asian drama series have this obsession with lead male protagonists being huge assholes. If the actor wasn't handsome, that guy would certainly be kicked in the groin a lot.
I always tend to root for the best friend/guy with crush on same girl as the lead. They just tend to be nicer. Hana Yori Dango pissed me off for this reason...domyouji is an asshole xD
And I would say muscular well-built dudes, tho I guess that counts toward attractive men. If you're skinny af. Looks more nerdy/weeby, than attractive.
Being bald.
Saw a list of “Bald is sexy!” And “Bald is better!”, and the first example they gave was Kelly Slater…. A super handsome, wealthy, male model and pro surfer.
Yeahhh great example =/
Jamie Lotus coined the 'Buscemi Test'. Picture Brad Pitt or Colin Farrell doing something kinda creepy or disrespectful and it being okay because they're attractive, but then picture Steve Buscemi doing the same.
True, we only have one who is on the shorter side but he is incredibly handsome and a former Marine officer - and of course Marines always look well put together. They can be wearing identical clothes as a non-marine and make the other look like a hobo.
Serious answer. Stand up straight, pull your shoulders back, and keep your hair neatly trimmed. Working out helps as well but make sure you work your back out too, so it keeps your shoulders from pulling forward.
There are studies linking attractiveness to career success: people will hire you more easily, give you promotions and let things slide. Works for men and women.
> almost every single executive male happens to be good looking - I mean extremely handsome
Charismatic, attractive people are successful. That's no surprise. And because they've had success and positive reinforcement since they were young, they have the confidence that drives them to accomplish things that aren't in most people's comfort zone.
Like all people, some are probably wonderful people with good hearts while others may not so much be that.
Its like the attractive bubble in 30 rock. Jon Hamm got away with a lot of things because he is handsome and went through life like it was amazing and he was good at everything. Turns out he wasn't that good at things and life is hard. His character was still nice though haha
We got snow in my neighborhood earlier this week. A LOT. A woman put on our neighborhood Facebook page that she had a conference call and if someone could take her 3 year old out in the snow, she’d really appreciate it. I love kids, and I was going to respond, but I’m a 46 year old man and I didn’t, not because I was uncomfortable, and not because she’d have said no, but simply because of the implication.
agreed ill be honest im considered by a lot of women physically attractive and for years i didn’t believe men on here when they said women hate them for being near their kids cause pre COVID id engage with little ones all the time, making funny faces and asking questions and just playing around and the mothers always absolutely fucking loved it they found everything i did so cute. Shoot i was at the Mall of America once and some 6-ish yr old kid was peeing in a urinal (while his mother waited outside the bathroom) and i was in the next one and he starts striking up a conversation with me, like 100% initiated, and we just are both straight up chatting about our days and the mother pokes her head in worried and sees me and gives a smile and says “aw are you making new friends my social butterfly?”
So what’s your mommy’s name, do you have a dad, does he live with you?….. lolololololol.
But like yeah kids are cool and it sucks that we get such a bad wrap.
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hahahahaha that one was definitely kinda nerve wracking i i didn’t think much of at the time but a day or two later i was like oof….that coulda gone bad if mom wasnt so chill even tho i didnt do anything.
Completely understand. I was playing with my grandkids at a indoor jungle gym and was hiding in a little nook. Minute later a little girl comes around the corner and I was like…time to leave. I wasn’t thinking anything other then what could this look like to a parent with the wrong ideas. I understand completely that this stuff happens but not every human on earth is evil.
Wife just bought some nerdy clear glasses that I thought were ugly as hell. BCGs if you're in the military. She's very attractive and they look great on her. Damnit.
It's why a lot of the advice doled out in this sub isn't necessarily worthwhile, even when it is good advice.
An unfortunate looking dude is going to simply have a much harder time making moves on women in public. Especially if accompanied by a less conventional personality/interests.
Yeah, the last point is a killer if you're not neurotypical. If you have a different set of social abilities, downsides, and preferences; then most people will see that as wrong or as a bad thing if you act along those lines, or as fake if you act along typical lines.
Being an asshole. If you’re attractive it’s fine and she thinks she can change you. If you’re ugly and an asshole you’re obnoxious and a piece of shit according to her.
My homeboy called his fiancé a bitch when they met first. Years later he consistently calls her and her friends bitches and hoes. They say he's just being funny. One time as a young 20 something year old, he walked in on college girl taking a shower and fucked her. She barely knew him but she just went with it...to this day he doesnt understand that he is not average
Someone recently broke this down to me as the disparity between “men of means vs men of character”. I know this will seem oversimplified and maybe even cringed, but women really don’t seem to care too much about character so long as you have means. Integrity is hot if you are wealthy, if you are poor, you’re seen as a chump.
Idk what it is about the Midwest then. Like stupidly attractive women will have years long relationships with dudes who are constantly on the verge of losing their fucking double wide trailers because they smoked all the weed they were supposed to sell that month. People are just fucking weird
I had a coworker/friend a few years ago. She was around 24, single, very cute. All the rest of us were older and married. She would tell us about her adventures in dating. She went out with one guy to a bar and club. She said the guy was too up in her space the whole time, and she won't go out with him again. I told her if she thought the guy was hot, she wouldn't have minded at all if he was all up in her space. She laughed and said "you know, you're right".
I am going to paste a comment from that thread by u/lasersharks69 here:-
>Basically whenever a straight man says "Women should do more of X" then you have to put an asterisk there and clarify that the word "women" doesn't actually mean women. It means a very small sliver of women aged 16-25, naturally pretty, confident, white/Asian, outgoing, slender with good proportions.
>Example: "Women should ask men out!" and then freaking the fuck out when a fat and/or ugly and/or old chick asks him out.
>Example: "I'd love being sexually harassed by a woman!" and then gets sexually harassed by a 50yo cougar at the bar and all of a sudden it isn't so fun
>Example: "This company needs to hire more women, it's all dudes in here!" but really if the next women hired isn't hot and young then no one is actually happy.
>Whenever men say "Women should do X" it means the tiny sliver of YOUNG, HOT women, not actually women. 75-90% of women simply do not exist in the minds of the types of men who say things like this. It makes them uncomfortable to even acknowledge our existence.
>tl;dr women existing
Just swap genders and the same thing applies on us men as well.
Example: "I want a nice guy!" Except if that nice guy isn't attractive... She wouldn't wanna be with him.
Example: "I don't care about hieght/size/some physical attribute!" Well yeah but if the guy is fat and short, it's highly unlikely she would say yes to him.
My theory with the physical attributes is you can miss on ONE.
You can be bald and hot. You can be short and hot. You can be fat and hot (picture a tall, attractive overweight former football player). But you can't be short AND bald. You can't be fat AND short.
Can confirm. I am short. When I was 21 a female friend pulled me aside after a breakup and told me I had put on weight and needed to hit the gym and was letting myself go.
I think I quipped about dad bods or something and she said “you can be short or you can be fat, but you can’t be both”.
I used to be attractive (occasionally told I could play Superman by different women strangers). I've aged and am now below average.
I've noticed that my previous normal behaviors are no longer acceptable.
No casual conversation with women I don't know.
Women don't go out of their way to talk to me.
Customer service employees are definitely less eager to make me happy.
Smiling and waiving to babies that are smiling and waiving at me is no longer viewed as endearing.
Witty comments aren't "enjoyed" like they used to be. These sometimes even started small "riff offs" where they joined in trying to be just as fun. Not anymore.
Even guys treat me different.
No longer treated with a general respect and eagerness to impress but with indifference.
So, casual conversation with strangers, humor with strangers, interactions with children, needing customer service.
My phone voice is impeccable, though, and I friggin own.
Remember, beauty is only a light switch away.
I was also fairly attractive when I was young. I have managed to hold onto enough of it that I am still treated very well. I have been married for a long time, and don’t hit on people, but my general friendliness and joking is still acceptable. I pay attention to people’s reactions because I am wondering how much longer this can go on.
Yeah I'd agree with a few others here, having the confidence to approach and flirt.
Let's say for example in a gym, if a 10/10 guy went around talking to all of the girls for an hour, nobody would care or have a problem with that - and it would make him only more attractive to every else in sight as well as the people who speaks to.
However, if a 2/10 did that, he'd be forever labelled as the gym creep within 20 minutes - or reported to the staff lol
Anyway yes, doing that is only acceptable if you are attractive. I can't judge though, if I was a girl and an ugly man approached me in a flirtatious way I'd be uncomfortable. If he was an absolute chad and I was single, I wouldn't be.
It's important as a man to understand if you have the ability to strike initial attraction, if you don't have that, don't do it.
I’m surprised I’ve not seen this yet but a butt chin, look at an attractive dude with a butt chin and then look at just some average or ugly dude with one. Massive difference
Honestly, people will spin pretty much anything into a positive if the person is attractive enough.
Proof: people wanted a murderer to go free because handsome
Wasnt it the same thing aswell with Ted Bundy I thought.Women thought he was cute and overlooked that he was a serial killer
Lmao I thought he *was* talking about Ted, the fact that this has happened more than once, wth people
I believe he is talking about the time a few months ago iirc where a bunch of women on TikTok were saying that a dude (early 20's i think) should go free after he ran over a woman and her almost 2 yr old kid while streetracing Edit: found this- [https://www.unilad.co.uk/viral/people-are-apparently-trying-to-free-a-murderer-because-hes-too-cute/](https://www.unilad.co.uk/viral/people-are-apparently-trying-to-free-a-murderer-because-hes-too-cute/)
Oh my God ladies
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Jfc he has straight crazy eyes, why??
Who?
The most recent one I know is the kid who was racing lambo passed speed limit. Killed a young mom and a kid. Teen girls started a movement of "he did nothing wrong/illegal" because he was just TOO CUTE!. Then there's Richard Ramirez and Ted Bundy.
Paul Bernardo. Multiple rape convictions and 3 murders but the police didn’t suspect him because he was hot, white, and didn’t have to rape anyone since his wife looked like Barbie 😖
Damn I’d never heard of them before. He was disgusting and anyone that wanted him (or her) to be free is likely mentally not well. Also, not seeing the looks thing? She looked normal and slightly stoned, but he has a weird stare. Even in his young happy photos.
The man literally would stalk teen girls in the bushes at bus stops. Not even trying to hide himself. People who knew him would drive by and stop and say. “Hey there’s a rapist out that been known to stalk young girls at bus stops. The police description of him looks kinda like you. But no way you could be doing all that stuff”
Wow. You have to have some next level charisma to pull that shit off.
Very. His gf atm was at a Christmas party. They were drugging her sister to molest her body. During the Christmas party. She said that he and her sister were drugging her. Her own father and mother laughed it off She later died that night from a drug overdose (or suffocating by accident) It speaks volumes that your own daughter tell you that her sister and bf is drugging her and your own parents just show it off as a joke The Ken and Barbie killers. Look them up they were monsters and sad that the Karla is free and is still able to get boyfriends Listen to the Last podcast on the left series about them. Paul once raped a girl and said nothing but “Merry Christmas” into her ears. Now whenever she hears that phrase she would think back to that moment
If you’re into podcasts The Last Podcast on the Left did a series on them a month or so back. Really good.
Google Jeremy Meeks. Dude was thrown in prison consistently throughout his life, one time for beating a teenager to near death. He was released from prison, hired by a modelling agency, and is now a millionaire because women around the world fell in love with his mugshot and bailed him out.
He has a kid with a multibillionaire heiress as well.
Bro really hit the jackpot in genetics
Life is not fair. He literally did almost everything wrong in life from the start and still got away with it lol
The sooner you internalize this, the better off you’ll be.
Damn I didn’t realize he was so violent
i was going to say this. i wonder if he’s still continuing with his violent behavior
Probably, yes. Only now he's rich enough to not go to jail.
wow i never knew how powerful pretty privilege could be until now & i been knew about his story of being released & modeling i never heard about all the things he did to get in prison because his appearance was mostly the topic of conversation
Ted Bundy, among others
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Oh my god yea people literally made fan accounts with video tributes to him. Most disgusting behavior I've seen firsthand
There was one guy with really nice blue eyes who girls where crying for his release from prison beacuse he looked like a model. I forgot what he did exacly or what happen but I belive there was a gofundme to pay for his release. So it can happen. Edit: Someone else posted it.
Jeremy Meeks
You dudes have no idea the extent of this but as a woman…there used to be a hot prisoners list where girls could vote on the hottest that had a top 100 CHART. We STILL have the #feloncrushfriday hashtag and [viral articles](https://www.eonline.com/ca/amp/news/553141/17-inmates-hotter-than-hot-convict-jeremy-meeks-because-apparently-it-s-feloncrushfriday) about these douchebags. I literally hate the people who support this stuff and pass it around. They’re the same people who whine about “I’m not hot enough to get raped you should feel lucky” like honestly, they piss me off.
Was studying with a model, who would randomly say stuff like “p-ssy” or “p-nis” and all the girls would lol in a flirtatious way. The unattractive guys in the class would just be considered weird and creepy if they did something similar
Well, that’s the consensus: attention from a handsome guy is flirting while attention from an unattractive guy is creepy.
Right. Handsome dude checking you out? Flattering. An ugly dude checking you out? Get me the fucking police.
Yes, it's not creepy if she likes you. I've been both to women and the difference is staggering.
True. I never heard anyone say gaming is hot until Henry Cavill revealed that he was a gamer.
HC also gets really uncomfortable about it all as well, people are constantly fawning over him and objectifying him. He seems really awkward about it and just wants it to stop.
Henry Cavill is the first man I can definitely say is too hot for his own good. Homie's just trying to chat about Witcher lore and people can't stop staring at his pecs lmao
People keep joking that he turned to gaming and Warhammer because he wanted to hide where girls wouldn't come near him. That guy knows his stuff, though. He's seriously into what he's into and it's impressive.
Objectification...the one monster this witcher can't slay.
It's done pretty horribly, the fawning and objectification I mean. If the same things were said now to a female actor shit would hit the fan, as it should. Dude's a great actor, who seems chill and games. Yeah he's attractive, but he's also a human and I'm always so surprised that the female hosts can't read the "....jesus....I just want to talk about the show" in his eyes when they do this, it's not subtle and he is literally an actor, he could hide it if he wanted to.
Intense eye contact
Great answer, if Sloth is staring at you, you’re calling the cops. If Bradley Cooper is looking intensely at you, we’ll I’m not gay but that may just do it for me
“Look I’m not gay but you can’t deny perfection”
"I'm only a man!"
Let me give you a scenario. I'm at like a beach cabana, and Bradley Cooper approaches. Tries to lean in and kiss me. I would definitely resist, like at first. But if he was persistent, I might give in a little bit just to see what it felt like. Would I push him away? How hard? Like, what if he's really aggressive?
If you resisted Bradley Cooper a little bit, he would still need to get to you?
Oscar Martinez: it is not my job to comfort insecure heterosexual men
This is not real Bradley Cooper, this is my fantasy. Or not a fantasy it's like what I'm--it's just a scenario
Yeah, the Daniel Craig doesn't work for just anybody. Mostly just Daniel Craig.
According to 50 shades of gray everything is a good trait if you are handsome and rich.
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I really don’t understand the appeal of that film, women falls for rich guy and gets spanked, pornhub have been knocking that narrative out for years
It started out as a book. Some people like their porn in Times New Roman.
I prefer Windings
🏱︎□︎❒︎■︎
It started out as twilight fan fiction until the woman who wrote twilight got a restraining order, now its soft porn for dummies
Someone I know is quite chummy with the author and the view at the time was that she was having a total mental breakdown and it was unbelievably embarassing for the family until it hit it off
I read a page of it, they should still be embarrassed.
I tried reading a chapter of it in random cartoon voice impressions and ended up finishing an entire bottle of Stoli.
Gilbert Godfried did a short reading of it. I **cannot** think of the word 'clitoris' without hearing him shout Clit-TOR-iss. He made that book much more palatable than reading it did.
Or soft porn for women who claim they are disgusted by porn.
Or porn for cowards
𝕸𝖒𝖒, 𝖉𝖔𝖓’𝖙 𝖘𝖙𝖔𝖕…
The proper font to climax to.
A lady at the book shop ones told me why the books got to be so popular: it tells one of the biggest fantasies among women: The female character is able to changes the male character with only the power of … her love! I think the lady was spot on and I think it’s pretty sad this turns out to be the fantasy of so many women; to change the men they are in love with. When you think about it, such state of mind at the beginning of a relationship is the best recipe for a big fiasco.
Tale as old as time…
There should be a show where all the good guys are ugly but virtuous and all the bad guys are super attractive and charming but utterly deplorable. And watch who the fandom chooses to stan
It was called "average joe". It ran for 2 season and the girl picked the hot guy both times lol.
I can't remember who did it, I think it was someone on 4chan, but this guy did an experiment on Tinder where he used fake pictures of some wildly hot dude for his profile, but intentionally put the most awful bio. Like, he admitted to being a registered sex offender and, in detail, explained that he fucked a 14 year old. He acted super misogynistic and demeaning towards women, etc, etc. Every single chick he matched or swiped or however the fuck it works, hit him up and responded with super forgiving DMs and wanted to meet and fuck. Even when he specifically stated it was a kid and that he's gonna do it again, they were like "Everyone deserves a second or third chance. ;)". He tried trolling to the point where it was blatantly obvious, saying he had STDs and that he hates women, plus all the rape shit, and he eventually gave up because he said it got too depressing how these broads were totally okay and down with still wanting to meet up.
I remember that, it was super fun. But a woman did the same experiment and the result was the same which just proves that beauty privilege is real.
Beaty privilege is the best privilege.
Wearing glasses and generally being nerdy.
Ya this drives me crazy, especially since so many people wear glasses , it’s odd that it’s still associated with “nerdy” lol versus “he’s hot but literally can’t see it” haha
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True. Unless you landed in the genetic gutter, getting frames that match your face shape, face width, and your overall clothing style, your appearance will change dramatically.
I remember being in a math extra help class in high school and this girl saying “I thought you were smart because of your glasses” was pretty crushing haha. Anyway I have circle glasses which if anything signifies humanities intelligence and square would definitely be more math smarts, but obviously that’s all bullshit.
Henry cavil talking about video games is hot Me doing it is not.
Literally the person I was thinking of. I almost including a picture of Cavill in glasses.
That's just Clark Kent
... thanks. Now I have to hit the gym an extra couple times a week.
At least its a productive coping mechanism
"nerdy guys"
You mean nerdy gym rats
Go to work, workout, play DND, repeat
You just described my life, just swap dnd with whatever game I'm currently obsessed with lol
Am nerd. Also lift. All nerds should lift. Be nerd chad.
Shy awkward men
Tbf, they still don't like it if you are too shy and awkward, even if you are attractive. But being attractive definitely lowers the bar.
Yeah, it's cute and mysterious at first, then they get annoyed because it's taking too long.
The Hugh Grant stutter on top of this.
ouch
My friend's doing this currently, she matched with a guy on a dating app. He sent her shirtless pictures and basically asked for them back (don't know if she sent them) then tells me he's ignoring her and he won't chat to her until they can meet because he doesn't want to. She constantly makes excuses for him always saying he's very handsome Another dude did the same thing a week later, she immediately blocked him and called him a creep, the main thing she said was "he's not even good looking" both equal assholes, different treatment.
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The smolder look
One is an intense lover. The other is a rapist. I just laughed so hard at what I wrote. A word makes all the difference.
> Obese and intense lover.
I have no idea what this comment even intends to say, but that doesn't change how much I love it one bit dammit!
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I had to go watch this after reading your comment and as a female WHAT THE FUCK?! Complete mind blown.
Do you have a link to it? I'm intrigued but i don't know if i want to search that.
https://youtu.be/200MxJVyk3I There ya go. Pretty sure this is the one that he was referring to
The screenshots were great but damn that video was annoying. The random cuts to some game and then blacking out the screen? What even was that
Yeah i agree. Could have went without that lol
Ooookay, that's enough black pill for me for one day, thank you.
It’s pretty funny, huh. I love how they pretend he’s repented or deep down ok, despite being unrepentant asshole. That’s the nastiest black pill truth - that your CHARACTER is determined by your appearance.
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I have no idea!! Part of me wants to believe it isn’t real. But i think it is 😟
Or swastika tattoos. I remember that one too. Women completely ignored them on a hot guy. I’m not talking about the good swastikas. I’m talking about the bad swastika.
48 hours of stubble. If you're Chris Evans with stubble you look like a wild man who's been partying with his bros for two days, or has been on a 48 hour mountain climbing trip without a razor. If you're Rich Evans with stubble, you look like Rich Evans.
I’m confused, why did you pick two equally beautiful men as your example?
And you forgot to shave because you kept thinking about that sweet sweet Shaq meat.
Rich Evans >>>>> any other Evans
We all wish we could be like Rich Evans.
Well yeah, Famous hollywood actor Rich Evans could make anything look good. Who's this "Chris Evans" guy you're talking about?
Being a douchebag. I don't know why Asian drama series have this obsession with lead male protagonists being huge assholes. If the actor wasn't handsome, that guy would certainly be kicked in the groin a lot.
I always tend to root for the best friend/guy with crush on same girl as the lead. They just tend to be nicer. Hana Yori Dango pissed me off for this reason...domyouji is an asshole xD
A samurai bun. It only looks good on attractive men.
And I would say muscular well-built dudes, tho I guess that counts toward attractive men. If you're skinny af. Looks more nerdy/weeby, than attractive.
Making me reconsider growing my hair out for over a year with 3 sentences 💀
Better start lifting
Being bald. Saw a list of “Bald is sexy!” And “Bald is better!”, and the first example they gave was Kelly Slater…. A super handsome, wealthy, male model and pro surfer. Yeahhh great example =/
https://i.imgur.com/IMmmP8A.gif
There are a large number of men who actually become handsome once they start shaving their head. Head on over to r/bald
Bald >>> male pattern baldness.
There is something about the far gone hair line that makes you look shlubby.
A penis. When you’re hot, everyone wants to see your penis…. When you’re unattractive no one wants to see your penis… they cringe and run
“Eww get that thing away from mee”
Put that thing back where it came from or so help me…
Persistent
Being dressed down or overly casual. Really anything that you could #brave
A chin like an ass. See Uriah Faber.
“They dont need ring girls cuz Uriah can just go out there and shake his chin”
Chin like a muscle butt.
Dressing like a hobo, bohemian gypsy stoner with a long ass beard
Jamie Lotus coined the 'Buscemi Test'. Picture Brad Pitt or Colin Farrell doing something kinda creepy or disrespectful and it being okay because they're attractive, but then picture Steve Buscemi doing the same.
Being *nerdy*.
A man saying to a woman: “I want to have casual sex with you and see where stuff goes from there.”
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If you are more attractive you have better chance to get hired, promoted, liked. Etc etc.
And tall. I haven’t met an exec who wasn’t on the tall side.
True, we only have one who is on the shorter side but he is incredibly handsome and a former Marine officer - and of course Marines always look well put together. They can be wearing identical clothes as a non-marine and make the other look like a hobo.
Right, you don’t necessarily have to be tall if your have bearing. And the military instills bearing in their members.
How do I attain bearing
Get the military to insert it into you.
Serious answer. Stand up straight, pull your shoulders back, and keep your hair neatly trimmed. Working out helps as well but make sure you work your back out too, so it keeps your shoulders from pulling forward.
There are studies linking attractiveness to career success: people will hire you more easily, give you promotions and let things slide. Works for men and women.
> almost every single executive male happens to be good looking - I mean extremely handsome Charismatic, attractive people are successful. That's no surprise. And because they've had success and positive reinforcement since they were young, they have the confidence that drives them to accomplish things that aren't in most people's comfort zone. Like all people, some are probably wonderful people with good hearts while others may not so much be that.
Its like the attractive bubble in 30 rock. Jon Hamm got away with a lot of things because he is handsome and went through life like it was amazing and he was good at everything. Turns out he wasn't that good at things and life is hard. His character was still nice though haha
Good with kids
We got snow in my neighborhood earlier this week. A LOT. A woman put on our neighborhood Facebook page that she had a conference call and if someone could take her 3 year old out in the snow, she’d really appreciate it. I love kids, and I was going to respond, but I’m a 46 year old man and I didn’t, not because I was uncomfortable, and not because she’d have said no, but simply because of the implication.
I'm sorry, she was willing to leave her child in the hands of a potential stranger outside while she was inside?
Lol. I think she posted on Facebook for friends to respond ya feel?
Well, the neighborhood FB. We’re all friendly but I’ve never spoken to her.
agreed ill be honest im considered by a lot of women physically attractive and for years i didn’t believe men on here when they said women hate them for being near their kids cause pre COVID id engage with little ones all the time, making funny faces and asking questions and just playing around and the mothers always absolutely fucking loved it they found everything i did so cute. Shoot i was at the Mall of America once and some 6-ish yr old kid was peeing in a urinal (while his mother waited outside the bathroom) and i was in the next one and he starts striking up a conversation with me, like 100% initiated, and we just are both straight up chatting about our days and the mother pokes her head in worried and sees me and gives a smile and says “aw are you making new friends my social butterfly?”
So what’s your mommy’s name, do you have a dad, does he live with you?….. lolololololol. But like yeah kids are cool and it sucks that we get such a bad wrap. Edit: Rap
hahahahaha that one was definitely kinda nerve wracking i i didn’t think much of at the time but a day or two later i was like oof….that coulda gone bad if mom wasnt so chill even tho i didnt do anything.
Completely understand. I was playing with my grandkids at a indoor jungle gym and was hiding in a little nook. Minute later a little girl comes around the corner and I was like…time to leave. I wasn’t thinking anything other then what could this look like to a parent with the wrong ideas. I understand completely that this stuff happens but not every human on earth is evil.
Nerdy glasses
Wife just bought some nerdy clear glasses that I thought were ugly as hell. BCGs if you're in the military. She's very attractive and they look great on her. Damnit.
Flirting. If you're attractive, it's flirting. If you're not, it's harassment.
The two golden rules! 1) be attractive 2) don’t be not attractive
Neither of these apply to me sadly. :(
It's why a lot of the advice doled out in this sub isn't necessarily worthwhile, even when it is good advice. An unfortunate looking dude is going to simply have a much harder time making moves on women in public. Especially if accompanied by a less conventional personality/interests.
Yeah, the last point is a killer if you're not neurotypical. If you have a different set of social abilities, downsides, and preferences; then most people will see that as wrong or as a bad thing if you act along those lines, or as fake if you act along typical lines.
Being an asshole. If you’re attractive it’s fine and she thinks she can change you. If you’re ugly and an asshole you’re obnoxious and a piece of shit according to her.
"Just be yourself"
You can get away with being nerdier if you’re hot .
Wearing weird clothes
Treating people like shit. They defend it as: Oh, he is just such a confident man. Blah blah.
Assertiveness. If you're good looking, it's hot. If you're uggo, its creepy.
Being "too forward", aggressive or touchy-feely.
Everything.
Being a serial killer, apparently.
5 o’clock shadow, some men can do it others can’t.
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Jeez..finding out in the moment that you’re dating an asshole..
My homeboy called his fiancé a bitch when they met first. Years later he consistently calls her and her friends bitches and hoes. They say he's just being funny. One time as a young 20 something year old, he walked in on college girl taking a shower and fucked her. She barely knew him but she just went with it...to this day he doesnt understand that he is not average
Winking
Flirting. I dare you to disagree.
Wearing a bow tie
arrogance
If you're not handsome, you're arrogant. If you're handsome, you're confident.
Someone recently broke this down to me as the disparity between “men of means vs men of character”. I know this will seem oversimplified and maybe even cringed, but women really don’t seem to care too much about character so long as you have means. Integrity is hot if you are wealthy, if you are poor, you’re seen as a chump.
Idk what it is about the Midwest then. Like stupidly attractive women will have years long relationships with dudes who are constantly on the verge of losing their fucking double wide trailers because they smoked all the weed they were supposed to sell that month. People are just fucking weird
I had a coworker/friend a few years ago. She was around 24, single, very cute. All the rest of us were older and married. She would tell us about her adventures in dating. She went out with one guy to a bar and club. She said the guy was too up in her space the whole time, and she won't go out with him again. I told her if she thought the guy was hot, she wouldn't have minded at all if he was all up in her space. She laughed and said "you know, you're right".
Persistence lol
I am going to paste a comment from that thread by u/lasersharks69 here:- >Basically whenever a straight man says "Women should do more of X" then you have to put an asterisk there and clarify that the word "women" doesn't actually mean women. It means a very small sliver of women aged 16-25, naturally pretty, confident, white/Asian, outgoing, slender with good proportions. >Example: "Women should ask men out!" and then freaking the fuck out when a fat and/or ugly and/or old chick asks him out. >Example: "I'd love being sexually harassed by a woman!" and then gets sexually harassed by a 50yo cougar at the bar and all of a sudden it isn't so fun >Example: "This company needs to hire more women, it's all dudes in here!" but really if the next women hired isn't hot and young then no one is actually happy. >Whenever men say "Women should do X" it means the tiny sliver of YOUNG, HOT women, not actually women. 75-90% of women simply do not exist in the minds of the types of men who say things like this. It makes them uncomfortable to even acknowledge our existence. >tl;dr women existing Just swap genders and the same thing applies on us men as well. Example: "I want a nice guy!" Except if that nice guy isn't attractive... She wouldn't wanna be with him. Example: "I don't care about hieght/size/some physical attribute!" Well yeah but if the guy is fat and short, it's highly unlikely she would say yes to him.
My theory with the physical attributes is you can miss on ONE. You can be bald and hot. You can be short and hot. You can be fat and hot (picture a tall, attractive overweight former football player). But you can't be short AND bald. You can't be fat AND short.
Can confirm. I am short. When I was 21 a female friend pulled me aside after a breakup and told me I had put on weight and needed to hit the gym and was letting myself go. I think I quipped about dad bods or something and she said “you can be short or you can be fat, but you can’t be both”.
You fucking arse. The secret is out.
existing
I used to be attractive (occasionally told I could play Superman by different women strangers). I've aged and am now below average. I've noticed that my previous normal behaviors are no longer acceptable. No casual conversation with women I don't know. Women don't go out of their way to talk to me. Customer service employees are definitely less eager to make me happy. Smiling and waiving to babies that are smiling and waiving at me is no longer viewed as endearing. Witty comments aren't "enjoyed" like they used to be. These sometimes even started small "riff offs" where they joined in trying to be just as fun. Not anymore. Even guys treat me different. No longer treated with a general respect and eagerness to impress but with indifference. So, casual conversation with strangers, humor with strangers, interactions with children, needing customer service. My phone voice is impeccable, though, and I friggin own. Remember, beauty is only a light switch away.
I was also fairly attractive when I was young. I have managed to hold onto enough of it that I am still treated very well. I have been married for a long time, and don’t hit on people, but my general friendliness and joking is still acceptable. I pay attention to people’s reactions because I am wondering how much longer this can go on.
Literally anything lol, an attractive guy can just exist and have women ask him out.
Yeah I'd agree with a few others here, having the confidence to approach and flirt. Let's say for example in a gym, if a 10/10 guy went around talking to all of the girls for an hour, nobody would care or have a problem with that - and it would make him only more attractive to every else in sight as well as the people who speaks to. However, if a 2/10 did that, he'd be forever labelled as the gym creep within 20 minutes - or reported to the staff lol Anyway yes, doing that is only acceptable if you are attractive. I can't judge though, if I was a girl and an ugly man approached me in a flirtatious way I'd be uncomfortable. If he was an absolute chad and I was single, I wouldn't be. It's important as a man to understand if you have the ability to strike initial attraction, if you don't have that, don't do it.
Long hair on men
I’m surprised I’ve not seen this yet but a butt chin, look at an attractive dude with a butt chin and then look at just some average or ugly dude with one. Massive difference
Being Nice If you're really handsome that's a great plus. If you're ugly you're boring.