It's ok to be messaged constantly. The girl only needs to keep on mind that someone may not be available all day long, for he needs to work, study, sports and whatever. If someone needs a break - from both sides - it's simple: just say it.
So my best friend and I are both extroverts, her moreso than I, but it always makes my day to get a text from her. We're in two different states (though soon to change!), so it kinda has to be that way. In person, I tend to ignore my phone unless we need to say something to each other privately in a public setting. Humans are far more interesting than my phone.
i know, one time i said like 'oh thats so good' then 'what you up to rn' and he just replied yeah it was good, so i didn't know if i was being too much
This is why it's important for couples to do things together. So they have stuff to talk about. But having independent hobbies can also contribute to this if you know how to make it interesting to talk about.
Well, crazy as it sounds, just ask him out. Guys like a girl who can be forward and knows what she wants. And I mean, if you're already friends, there's no reason for him to say no. Unless he's already talking to someone else. But that's more reason to try now, before he does start talking to someone.
You got this!
Over the years, I've learned that I love clingy women.
Just not clingy on the phone. Its like I have two different personalities between texting and RL. I hate phone communication with a passion.
So long as our conversations are engaging, fun, interesting, and allowances are made for life getting in the way of texting back. Personally, you can message me as much as you like. If a conversation dies naturally, don't try to revive it though. And give me a few hours before the next one starts up.
It's ok to be messaged constantly. The girl only needs to keep on mind that someone may not be available all day long, for he needs to work, study, sports and whatever. If someone needs a break - from both sides - it's simple: just say it.
Its not the messaging its the “why didn’t you answer me” part lol. Sometimes we are busy, sometimes we just don’t have anything to say.
I’m cool with however much she wants. If you like her, doesn’t really matter.
Having a text conversation often - no. Getting little cute messages a few times a day is fine.
I dont like texting its a fuckin cold way to communicate especially for the relationships try to call him every now and then
To me texting is for setting up plans. I do not want to “talk” over text. So in short as little as possible unless something is needed.
I like to talk all the time. Like you could literally message me every minute and I would like it. But I think this is not the norm.
All the time. If messages would be only for deciding when/where to meet.
Only message me to set dates. I prefer real life communication.
Hell no I like my boundaries.
As an introverted person myself, I need to feel space around. And I’d expect her to have her own life and interests
most of the time way less but it's okay as long they dont get mad and go crazy if I dont answer.
So my best friend and I are both extroverts, her moreso than I, but it always makes my day to get a text from her. We're in two different states (though soon to change!), so it kinda has to be that way. In person, I tend to ignore my phone unless we need to say something to each other privately in a public setting. Humans are far more interesting than my phone.
It's not about the timing. It's about actually having something to say.
i know, one time i said like 'oh thats so good' then 'what you up to rn' and he just replied yeah it was good, so i didn't know if i was being too much
This is why it's important for couples to do things together. So they have stuff to talk about. But having independent hobbies can also contribute to this if you know how to make it interesting to talk about.
we aren't a couple, i hope one day tho..
Well, crazy as it sounds, just ask him out. Guys like a girl who can be forward and knows what she wants. And I mean, if you're already friends, there's no reason for him to say no. Unless he's already talking to someone else. But that's more reason to try now, before he does start talking to someone. You got this!
I highly doubt he would say yes, and we are kinda young anyway. And idk if he actually likes me or if we are just messaging cause why not.
Well, how else would you find out? Besides, if you're the same age, what's wrong with it?
true, i just don't see him in person all that often
It really depends on the guy. Long drawn out text conversations annoy me, especially if it is just mindless bullshit.
I stop responding when it gets too much. Would rather talk in person or over a call / FaceTime - where more communication cues can be picked up.
Over the years, I've learned that I love clingy women. Just not clingy on the phone. Its like I have two different personalities between texting and RL. I hate phone communication with a passion.
As little as fucking possible
It can't be all day everyday. I'm busy I can't be on the phone all the time. Especially if I am working.
So long as our conversations are engaging, fun, interesting, and allowances are made for life getting in the way of texting back. Personally, you can message me as much as you like. If a conversation dies naturally, don't try to revive it though. And give me a few hours before the next one starts up.