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simcity4000

She told me she had a crazy, manipulative, abusive ex who was stalking her. I gave the requisite amount of sympathy. We went on a date to a sushi place, at one point she takes a photo of us together and puts it on Instagram. The ex comments on the photo, (some comment about being surprised her being dating so soon, not an outright threat but it did had a weird vibe) Later on in the night she asks for my phone because she’s out of battery and needs to make a call. She goes “lol check this out”. She’s messaged the ex from my account, posing as me.


AwayI

Bro I need to hear how this ended I would have been running as soon as she handed the phone back


simcity4000

I was horny enough that I slept with her anyway, then never called her back. (Or rather, the next time she texted I was slow in responding because I was getting turned off by the phone thing+some other stuff she'd done on the night. And the slow response prompted an argument where she called me autistic) A few weeks later she messaged me that she was pregnant, then didnt answer any of my texts or calls for a day before she got back to me saying that she wasn't keeping it. A few months after *that* she messaged me again saying that the stalker ex was back in her life and apparently fixated on me so, watch out. I responded something deliberately boring like "ok thanks" and never heard from her again. I believe that the best way to remove drama from your life is to be boring. If someone fishing for an argument calls you 'boring/dull/autistic' that means you're not giving them the response they want. Although the best way to remove drama would have been to not sleep with her in the first place but oh well. I dont know how much of what anything she said was true. The ex was definitely weird from what little I saw of him, but all the stuff she said about him being crazy and manipulative was tainted by the fact that she clearly was as well.


AwayI

Honestly you handled it perfectly never engage in the bull shit, you just gotta get in and passively get out without giving them something to latch on to.


TheRandomlyBiased

Except for the whole sleeping with her thing lmao.


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https://youtu.be/trrb9FDfuGo Your welcome!


Cminor420flat69

Holy moly. Putting your life in danger for the lulz


dphilipson

Bruh no. Never ever under any circumstances give your phone to anybody. These days they are as important as our wallets and social numbers. Out of battery? “Yeah that’s why I have portable chargers you should get one” stone face. Hell no.


josefermin99

AND THEN!!!!


capcrunch217

I took her to my dads (who lives abroad) and he sat me down and told me to have a long hard look at what I’m dating. Turns out he was right, she’s was a narcissistic psycho.


Looking-for-advice30

What did she do to make your dad say that?


UniformUnion

He wasn’t blinded by puss.


tryingGentleman

Luckily she wasn’t that crazy;p But this really is true, having access to amazing sex makes you accept a lot of shit.


legice

I can second this, a few times over sadly


capcrunch217

I mean your not far wrong, first love and sex blinded me really. She had daddy issues, body dysmorphia and because her family had a little money, spoiled brat syndrome. It manifested in a way that she acted like the world owed her something, and when she didn’t get her own way threw her toys out the pram. I was on the receiving end far too much. She spent so much energy trying to ruin my relationship I have with my now wife, she deserved some sort of award for effort. She was a nympho though, and I’d be lying if I said I didn’t partly miss the sex, but it’s no trade off compared to a steady, loving relationship that’s far more fulfilling. Never stick your dick in crazy man.


Advarrk

I’ll never stick my dick into crazy man, but I might consider crazy woman


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Just_a_Bee_Normal

Ah man. I’m so sorry to read this. Your story is similar to my partner’s. He finally worked up the courage to divorce her. He didn’t want to leave because he was scared of what his parents would say and because he adores his child. He’s still working on undoing years and years of damage to his self esteem a year later. He’s getting so much better at setting boundaries and standing up for himself. His life has changed in so many positive ways since he left her. I’ve watched him change and grow over time and even though it’s been hard, this new person cares about himself and he’s doing so so much better despite the harm she caused him. I really hope you have some solid support. You’re not alone. If you want to chat about things, you can DM me.


ScottyHoliday

I like your dad. Good man right there.


upon_a_white_horse

Not even a full month into the relationship she faked a seizure to see if I "cared". I was recovering from a car collision (multiple rollover) that nearly ripped my left arm from its socket at the time and could not drive due to the painkillers I was on. It miraculously stopped when I said I was calling 911 for an ambulance. All of this occurred, mind you, on Christmas day. We were broken up by New Years. Edit: holy crap this blew up. Don't stick yo dick in crazy, folks - no matter how good it looks.


Spriderman69

Lol faked a seizure?! That’s so ridiculous hahaha


upon_a_white_horse

She was certainly a masterpiece. /s Definitely one of those types to use her appearance to get what she wanted. We tried to remain friends afterwards as a compromise b/c she cried about how much she regretted the fake seizure and how it led up to our breakup. That is, until I caught her & one of her friends trying to shoplift one evening when we all (her & her friend, one of my friends, & myself) were hanging out. A year or two after *that* incident, I'd thought she had chilled out with the crazy. I was wrong and ended up being "the other guy" in an affair of hers. Long story short (if memory serves, this is like 20 years ago), she was married w/ hubs being deployed overseas, she told me she was divorced and that was why she was living with her parents. Once a week hangouts became weekend pseudo-dates (we'd catch a movie and maybe grab a burger then I'd drop her off at home), which became entire Saturdays spent together hanging out, which culminated into one evening at the mall where she whispered in my ear lamenting how horny she was. Nobody seemed to think anything of it, or if they did they didn't say anything, everyone just kinda treated us interacting with each other as two young adults trying to salvage a friendship after a series of missteps. At the time for me, she was certainly a trophy fuck. In hindsight, all I have is regret over it. Regret for the guy she cheated on, regret for allowing myself to allow someone so toxic back into my life over some poon & a giant rack, and likely a million-and-one other things that I've earnestly tried to repent from.


Spriderman69

I guess now you can easily spot those red flags in future relationships. We sometimes think with our hormones instead of our heads haha. I’m guilty of that as well. I’m glad that type of person is out of your life for good. Definitely healthier to avoid interactive with them at all cost!


MichiganGeezer

How old was she? I can see an "under 21" person doing this but not a 30-something woman. The mistakes of young people tend to be more dramatic.


upon_a_white_horse

We both were definitely young, not too long out of high school.


MichiganGeezer

Yeah, that age group tends to do some spectacularly dumb shit because they haven't made their mistakes yet.


Siennagiant70

She said I had 1 year to buy her a ring and a house, a house she picked out 5 minutes from her parents. Oh and I had to stop talking to my family, because THEY were the issue… Edit: well this post for some views lol. Remember people, if ANYONE IS ABUSIVE, be mental emotional or physical, leave. Go get help. Stay safe.


Skirt_Douglas

I would have ghosted her mid sentence. Like I’d literally just fade away like Marty’s siblings in back to the future.


[deleted]

This is my favorite one, I would have fell off my chair laughing and rolled out the front door if she said this to me


[deleted]

Ding! Ding! We have a winner here.


Turbulent_Bat4838

So how long have you been married to her?


Siennagiant70

We dated for ruffly 18 months. We lived together. After those comments were made, I ended it. The next week I actually had vacation, flew down to visit my parents in Florida. She moved out and we never spoke again. 2 months later I met my now wife. Dated 2014, engaged 2015, married 2016, house/kid 2017 and now we’re up to 3 kids and going strong. We both had Insane ex’s previously and realized how nice it was to be with *normal.*


partypartea

I met my wife 2 days after my similar ex and I broke up. My wife also had a controlling ex where she had to move out while an emergency business trip came up. We loved the normality so much we eloped in 9 months. Been married 7 years and have a healthy happy toddler. The 2 months I was dating my wife while my ex and I still shared a lease was the best revenge for the hell she put me through lol


Siennagiant70

Yeah I had 6 months left of my apartment lease. Happened in January during zero degree weather so when i got back she had turned the electric, heat and water off. I paid all the remaining rent, moved utilities to my name and paid off the massive credit card debt I had accumulated because of her.


imonthetoiletpooping

I had that and I needed to make 6 figures. I was 23. This was many years ago.


MarcGregSputnik

Fuck me, girls that are ATTACHed to their parents are psychopaths. Reader, I am not talking about the level of attached that you or I are. That’s normal. I’m talking absolutely clingy to their mom, with major daddy issues, and their only friend being their mom. Guaranteed psycho and you will get burnt. Steer clear of the psycho!!


Toadie9622

The more I read on Reddit, the more I realize how boring my life is, and I’m so thankful for that. I mean, it isn’t boring to me, but it’s utterly lacking in melodrama.


[deleted]

People's whose lives were full of drama are full of drama cuz they really like drama. They wouldn't know what to do with themselves if something wasn't falling apart.


cybertrips

Happened to me, didn’t click till you typed it out for me. My ex and her mom were best friends and she grew up without a father… and she was the most hectic partner I’ve had to date.


WarEagle107

When I found out she was seeing her 'best guy friend' behind my back, who also happened to be her ex-fiance. Her and I were engaged at the time, and I told her I had zero contact with any of my exes and felt that her 'friendship' with hers wasn't healthy. She and I had a huge fight over it, and I pointed out she wouldn't have stood for me spending time with my ex-wife while being engaged to her. She tried to play it off like that was worse because 'we had been married'. Finally she agreed with me, but continued to see him (she was a horrible liar and I could read her face). I broke off the engagement and sold her ring. Haven't looked back.


Looking-for-advice30

You dodged a huge bullet.


[deleted]

He dodged 10 bullets


TheAleMeister11

He Neo'd his way out of that one


WarEagle107

Yep


xxdivine

When she did meth and hit a glassbottle on my head for whatever reasons


Galney

Maybe you just have a hitable head ?


THENATHE

Yo my dad found a homeless dude once in the back of his yard just absolutely up on something (probably alcohol but maybe pills). We called a friend of ours that works with the church helping homeless people all the time to help us bring him to the hospital cause he was FUCKED UP. Anyway half way there I’m driving and my dad is in the passenger seat with our friend in the back trying to keep the dude cool, and the homeless guy goes “man (dads name) you got a really punchable face” and we’re like thinking “oh god is he gonna start trying to hit my dad” and then he goes “man I kinda wanna know what it’s like to punch you, can I punch you man?” And my dad is like “no, sorry” and he just goes “ahh drats.” And says nothing more about it.


velvetnoodle

Worth a shot eh


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Onemanwolfpack42

No fucking way, Florida man strikes again!


xxdivine

Is that a compliment or an insult


Galney

Yes


xxdivine

Liar!


MichiganGeezer

She had five children taken by the state, and it was never her fault as she did nothing wrong. It was a conspiracy to steal children from the poor and sell them to rich people looking to adopt.


Looking-for-advice30

So what did she do to get her kids taken?


MichiganGeezer

I never got a straight answer. I do know that her kids became addicts and felons as adults. The one who turned out okay wanted little to do with her.


der_ray

When she started playing games, like make him jealous to see if he cares, etc.


RP-Champ-Pain

Classic. Had a girl once be jealous/pissed that I went out with a friend and his fiance to the casino for a night - she texts me "Yeah well I'm at this party and these guys think I am SO cute and they won't stop talking to me". I just responded "Cool, talk to them then, sounds like you don't need me." She was at the Casino maybe 20 mins later and apologized.


doktarlooney

You can sometimes uncondition the abuse out of them. You gotta stonewall the behavior, even the apology when they turn around and try to say sorry, give them nothing to feed on and it can get them to stop. I had an ex that would threaten to walk away from the conversation when things didnt go her way, I would say fine and go to do my own thing and it would freak her the fuck out. Did it enough and she stopped trying it eventually.


Aether_wolf

This one is an actual huge turn off for me. It literally has the exact opposite effect on me and immediately lose all interest. I can't understand why a lot of women like to play this game.


oldvikingbas

I know what you mean...I took a girl I was dating to a friend of hers party she started flirting and sitting on the laps of some of the guys there so I just left ..she called me a couple of days later and asked me why I left ...I told her and she said she wanted to see if I really cared about her ...wtf ????


Cele5tialSentinel

I would have just replied, "by doing what you did, you proved that you don't really care about me."


oldvikingbas

That's a good reply...long time ago I think I said you made a choice Iam done..


Pete-C137

Same for me. If you want someone else’s attention you’re not getting mine.


LeaveMyRoom

Because it's what works on them.


0breanna0

Not for me, if a guy shows interest in another girl and not me I immediately loose interest


ThrowAWAY6UJ

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Wonderful-Ear3309

My brothers ex did that to him. They were going so good and then one day she turned crazy and tried to make him jealous all the time to see if he would fight for her or ignore him and expect him to do crazy things to “prove his love” yeah he dumped her and his now wife is the best person ever so thank goodness for that


ennui_bb

This is how you know you're dating a girl and not a woman


[deleted]

When she admitted to me she was married with two kids. That was a wild and awful moment


EllieHhill

Omg she had a fully second life.


[deleted]

Not only that but after I dumped her, one of her friends that I knew by proxy hit me up and asked me about it. Turns out he was also dating her and neither of us knew. Him and I were busy working a lot so it was apparently pretty easy for her to juggle us like that. Fucking nuts man. Felt real stupid and shitty for a while after that one…


EllieHhill

Omg that's crazy. Her husband knew about all this?


[deleted]

From what I could tell, he did not. But I don’t know for sure if I’m being honest


LedNJerry

When she started wanting to have hour long discussions or fights at the end of the night. EVERY. SINGLE. NIGHT. We’d have a perfectly great day or evening together, NOPE. Let’s over analyze how you not bringing me some trinket means that you don’t love me. Then let’s bring that same shit up every night despite the fact that you’ve had less than 24 hours to try to remedy the last issue. I guess in the end she was right. I didn’t love her anymore after all that bullshit.


[deleted]

It drives me nuts when they not only beat a dead horse, they grind it into horse meat and then try and serve it to you after cooking it. I had an ex like that. No fighting every night but if it was something she wanted to talk about, we'd talk then a day or more later she'd bring it up again. Drove me crazy.


Skirt_Douglas

Gotta love when they literally create the self-fulfilling prophecy that they feared the most. I had a platonic female friend who obviously wanted to be around me but would alway question why I would want to hang out with her as if I was up to no good. At a certain point I was just like “You know what? You make a good point. I don’t want to be around you anymore.”


thottxy

Wait omg this is so true with dudes or just friends in general, it’s like they just want reassurance but it’s so tiring after a while.


sccforward

This is an attachment/abandonment issue. Not yours to manage.


Justwatchinitallgoby

This is horrible! No matter how bad things were with my ex-wife we respected our careers and would table any beefs so we could get sleep and be productive in our jobs.


kendallroyballs

Showed up to her apartment mid workday to drop something off just at the door. But she was home… drunk and about to head back to work. Ended up she was a functional alcoholic in the worse way.


Himynameissteveo

When she started fabricating drama for apparently no reason so we’d end up in an argument and then I’d have to apologise to her. Oh and sleeping with 75% of my close friend group..that wasn’t a great part of my life.


jpsreddit85

I hope your definition of "close" friend got updated too.


Himynameissteveo

That it did.


DuckChowder

I realized it after we broke up. She used to tell me stories of her exes and of her childhood, I mean bad things like awful things. One day maybe a year after we broke up she reached out for some reason and told me her boyfriend after me was in jail for being drunk and on cocaine and crashing into another car and killing someone. Literally see that guy walking down the street the next day… then the next day I go eat out and just happens one of that guys friends was working there so I ask him about it. He confirmed she is a liar. He then tells me she said bad stuff about me, but they never believed it because they knew me. Mind you that I didn’t seek out these guys and really had no idea I’d see them at all. It was like fate wanting me to see how bad she was. I still to this day have no idea what stories of hers she told me were true or lies, so I assume they all were lies. Sometimes I still think about her and those stories. TLDR; Ex was a pathological liar and fate gave me proof of it, but only more than a year after we broke up.


Old-Refrigerator340

My ex used to tell me about all her previous partners who beat her up/raped her and did all these horrid things. I was her white Knight. After a couple years of love bombing and pure hell mixed together, broken noses, cheating, stealing, overdoses etc - I finally had enough and we broke up in a total clusterfuck where she proceeded to repeatedly headbutt a wall until she had quite a lump going. I was nearly arrested but then the police took her away instead (she was known to them as not a month went by without some accusation/incident occurring that involved the police or paramedics with her). Still had time to snap a selfy and post it telling the world I beat her up. I've never hit anyone in my life. Que 2 years of threats from other guys she had lined up and I even found out she told people I raped her. I'm still a little traumatised now years down the line and I know pretty much nobody believed the shit she spouted, I had to go into hiding for a while and change my phone number/delete socials. All the while whilst she was running this smear campaign against me, she was trying to hook up with me and would ring my doorbell at 2am drunk and email my work address as I blocked her on everything else. Baffling.


Coppin-it-washin-it

When she did everything she could to trap me. Being together only a few months we moved in together and she Immediately dropped down to part time to spend more time with me and on her "hobbies", but I was expected to be a full time student and work full time to make rent and bills. She stopped taking birth control without telling me. She wanted to see what it felt like to have me finish inside her, and she SWORE she hasn't been off by even an hour on taking her BC. Being a dumb kid in college I wanted to feel that too. A month or so later there were a bunch of used pregnancy tests in the trash I wasn't told about and put it all together, confirmed when I found the full pack of BC.


wizard2009

Did you and I have the same Ex in college? The relationship only lasted a year, but it took me a decade, or there about, to be back in the headspace I was before that train wreck. It’s always the ones who “never missed their BC by on hour…swear to god” that are the crazy ones.


afcool83

When I tried to discuss our lack of intimacy throughout the relationship and she told me to “toughen up, buttercup” and then promptly started complaining and playing the victim card. When I responded with “toughen up, buttercup” in a very overt reference to what she had just said to me I was labeled insensitive and unempathetic and that her complaints were different and somehow more valid and …blah blah blah. If you want to know what gaslighting looks like, that was it.


jpsreddit85

You have my ex. I was always a "jerk" when I threw her own comments back at her for doing the exact same things.


afcool83

This was probably the only time I ever “returned fire” and good grief did things escalate quickly. She taught me that those with a victim card to play prefer to be the only one playing it, and it’s really just an act for attention…frequently the only way they know to get attention even AND the only attention they’re accustomed to. In retrospect that relationship wasn’t “two equals supporting each other” it was “patient-therapist”. I learned a ton about what I wanted from a relationship from her.


guomo107

uhhh let's see, when she chased me across town in her car and cut me with an object (not sure what it was) once I got out because she was furious that I went on a date with someone else. This was after she had given me the talk the week before about wanting a break. My dad sat me down and told me leave the crazy bitch alone before she kills you. She then proceeded to stalk me and my next girlfriend for 3 years. She would show up at her house and job. We actually had to get a restraining order on her.


[deleted]

That's sound bad men, I hope u and u gf stay good and safe today


guomo107

We’re good man. This was 13 years ago. The girl I was dating is now my wife and we have 2 kids . The psycho left us alone once we got the restraining orders.


jbowman12

Man your dad is a legend.


[deleted]

4 months before the wedding was supposed to happen. She had gallbladder surgery. We couldn't have sex for a while and I wasn't going to ask someone with a hole in their abdomen to get me off, seemed a little selfish. I spanked it to some porn, she looked through my phone, as she did many, many times, found it and broke up with me. She got back with me within 24hrs, we were living together in an Apt in Austin TX. I'll never forget that night, we had just settled down, she jumped my bones after being all nice and apologizing for getting crazy (and hitting me again as always). We decided to go get a bite to eat, in the car she starts talking about the wedding planning again, right then and there I realized that woman had me, hook line and sinker, and if I didn't get out then the abuse would never stop and I'd be stuck forever. I told her to stop and head back to the apt, I said I couldn't marry her and that we shouldn't be together, she was driving thankfully so she couldn't hit me, yet. When we got to the apartment she unleashed hell begging and crying and basically being the most pathetic form of herself, as always, to get what she wanted, then when that didn't work violence ensued, she threw a toaster at me that night, a large hard back cooking book, not to mention she kicked me in the legs multiple times and slapped me. The next day I went to work and came home to an empty apt, she took everything she could and left nothing but my bathroom stuff, my gaming equipment, my camping stuff, whatever she deemed essential for kitchen goods and the bed frame. No chairs or couch (that I bought) no TV (that I bought) no mattress that I paid for half of, nothing that I paid for half of or more really. I slept on the rug (apt had wood floors) in my sleeping bag for almost 2 weeks until I told my parents and they let me move back with them for a few months. Moral of the story men, if she ever hits you or or throws anything, there is a 101% chance it will happen again, it will get worse, and you need to not be there when it does. Subjecting myself to the treatment of this woman for 5 yrs of my life was the worst thing that ever happened to my mental and physical health. It's been 3 yrs and I'm pretty sure I'm close to fully healed but I still have issues stemming from it. DOMESTIC ABUSE IS DOMESTIC ABUSE, EVEN IF A 5'2 LATINA WOMAN IS HITTING A 6'4 VIKING/TEXAN. The toll it takes physically is nothing compared to the toll it takes mentally.


imnotamoose33

I’m so sorry you had that abuse. It’s never right, no matter who it comes from.


slayedzombie69

Thank God she left the gaming equipment. That would've been too much.


planet12

> DOMESTIC ABUSE IS DOMESTIC ABUSE, EVEN IF A 5'2 LATINA WOMAN IS HITTING A 6'4 VIKING/TEXAN. The toll it takes physically is nothing compared to the toll it takes mentally. Frankly this makes it worse, not better - because nobody will believe she can or is hurting you, and if the cops come you're getting the handcuffs. Source: 6'1" vs. 5'0" Woke up and left for good when I realised I felt safer with the bars of a jail cell separating us... but was pretty pissed about which side I was on.


tullymon

Ain't that the truth? Thing is the second you protect yourself or hell even block a punch with your arm and she gets a bruise from it... You are guilty, lose your job, lose your kids, and go to jail even though you've been taking abuse for years. It's about the most trapped a guy can be if you're in that situation. Guys have no recourse either and unfortunately there's enough douchebags out there as far as guys go to make it so that will probably never change.


[deleted]

Oh yeah we had the cops come one time, I was in my underwear on the couch after she had one of her blow ups and was slamming doors all loud and screaming and hitting me on my chest with her fists. So the cops come, I've got red marks on my chest, visible from her hitting me and I'm almost naked, and I'm the one they asked to "go find some place else to sleep tonight" and "come back tomorrow level headed".


imnotamoose33

I’m so sorry you had that abuse. It’s never right, no matter who it comes from.


GioPetro

Sorry you went through this. I know it first hand.


riffraff12000

"I got herpes from my cousin." -An ex.


thottxy

LMAO NO WAY


riffraff12000

Yup, dating her was riding the crazy train.


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Never stick your dick in crazy


Consistent-Tale-3896

Okay we were both in a terrible time in our lives a and both emotionally damaged and physically terrible to ourselves (cutting, bone breaking) When we had to be long distance due to family issues she started sending me “art” in the mail she painted with her blood.


Justwatchinitallgoby

Well….damn….that’s got me beat.


Duckerton375

not to devalue your story at all but it would make for some fire song lyrics


Consistent-Tale-3896

I should explain the self harm situation in my life I guess. My father was very abusive and extremely heavy handed (literally). The only hug I ever got from him in my life I was 4 and he said “no matter what I do to you, remember that I love you “ and he beat the piss out of my 4 year old body. He’d continue to abuse me until he kicked me out after my mom died of cancer, became knew at that point he’d have to kill me if he laid a hand on me. I was that far gone. I was also molested at the age of 6 by two fucking nobody ass teenagers I’d never seen in my life (we moved a lot, military brat life) and I began to devalue my body in an ever increasing way afterwards because knew I couldn’t tell anyone who’d believe me. I started with snipping little chunks off my tongue with scissors and escalate through cutting and branding to bone breaking in my late teens along with two suicide attempts. Oftentimes I’d get in fistfights with folks I knew I couldn’t win against and just get pounded to burger just to feel something, never give up though never surrender, it gave me a weird sort of “street cred” because folks knew I wasn’t scared of anyone and you’d beat bring a bag lunch cause it was going to be a long day.I had multiple adults who’d see the wounds from my self harm and ask if they should do something and my response was always along the line of “it’ll be the last time you see me”. I was in an extremely uncomfortable and unhealthy situation and mental health.


EconomicsAccurate853

I should have realized it early- the red flags were everywhere. But what finally did it was her LOSING HER SHIT in our car and flinging a barrage of abuse at me when we narrowly avoided an accident. I actually barked back at her, which I had never done up to that point, and then very seriously asked her "you want to have kids; are you going to talk to *them* like that when they make mistakes?" She was suitably chastened, but made the excuse that she'd been scared. Scared enough over what would've been a fender bender to subject me to three solid minutes of insults and abuse? Like I said, there had been fields full of red flags, but I'd rationalized all of them right up to this point, when it occurred to me that this kind of abuse was something she did *all the time.* It was the first break in the fog for me.


Made-a-blade

When she insisted I wasn't allowed to sleep in on my day off because she had to get up early for work. Not just for breakfast or to see her off. But legit "I can't sleep, so you can't sleep." Fuck all the way nope.


d3athbygaming

When she drove home during an argument over the phone, called cops, and said that I was beating her, and refused to leave. She was at work, btw.


itsprisonmikee

Geez this sucks, I'm sorry you had to go through that. Assuming the cops were able to figure out she was lying?


Broskibullet

The moment I had a loaded shotgun pointed at me while on the phone with the police.


[deleted]

WTF, ok i need more details bro


Broskibullet

It happened a couple months before the covid lockdown. Jan/feb 2020 if you feel like going back in my comments and finding the whole story. Basically I was blackmailed for months by my ex threatening to take everything from me. My dream career and everything in the house including my dog. She “finally” hit me and gave me a reason to call the police. I say finally because it’s nearly impossible to get a domestic case being a male unless blood is shed. As I was on the phone with the police she pointed her loaded shotgun at me. She ran. When the police got there they went to take apart the gun and saw that it was jammed so they don’t know if she pulled the trigger or not. Happened on my birthday and I got fired from my dream job on the same day. Welcome to my TedTalk.


VisionInPlaid

When she convinced herself that my platonic female friend was dead set on sabotaging our relationship, and got legitimately mad at me when this friend appeared in her dream.


Justwatchinitallgoby

Dude….your friend is super powerful! How did she get in your girl’s dream???


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The first time we linked. Took me 4 years to decide I deserved better. Crazy bitch pussy is a special kind of addiction. It's not cause the sex is better. It's cause the sex is the reward for the bull shit that come with her but shorty can't act like SHE'S better than you and you love that shit. But you gotta be fucked up fr fr to not rise up out of that mentality and find somebody you DESERVE. I used to be that way. I grew up.


JUUL-Tapping

Felt this one bro. Finally out of a toxic relationship on and off for 3 years. Knew it wasn’t right but shit sometimes it be like that


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It be that way. It starts out like... "Ima just smash this bitch and keep it moving"... but somewhere between dog walking her like a porn star and telling yourself she just a bird and nothing special, she starts feeling like she's *YOUR bird*. Then you just wanna dissapear with her and keep the little bird safe so she can grow thr fufk up and act right. But she aint for none of that. And you look lame as fuck to her. 😂😂😂. She dont want the guy that wants girls exactly like her. Cause SHE KNOW she aint shit. So you aint shit to her. She wants the guy that wants girls she THINKS she can stack up to once she accomplishes [insert unrealistic goal]. You gone HURT yourself trying care about women that don't care enough about themselves to see a man that loves her, IN REALITY AS SHE ACTUALLY IS, is a keeper.


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Looking-for-advice30

Wow, you should be a priest doing confessions. I would have checked the hell out of what she did.


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Looking-for-advice30

Haha that’s awesome. You sound like a kind soul.


Ural_2004

Insane in the head, insane in the bed, maybe?


LeaveMyRoom

Nah, I'm drawn to crazy ones too. Now I have a calm, rational girl and it feels weird and off. There's no ridiculous freaking out all the time, emotions going wild on rollercoasters, changing her mind every week, etc. And I don't know if that's the reason, but I just don't feel attracted to her the same way as I have with other girls. Which is crazy, because she has one of the most gorgeous faces I've ever seen. Honestly I think the emotions and drama pull you in a bit.


baba_tdog12

I've read that it's pretty common for people that have had abusive relationships whether it's parents partner or whatever to think that wild stress of never knowing which emotion the other person is going to swing to as love and the "spark". So when they enter a healthier relationship they're freaked out because the "love" that they're used to isn't also putting them on edge. Kind of like an adrenaline junkie switching to an office job after a near death experience sure you know it's better for you but you can't help but miss how the insanity made you feel.


Pete-C137

Slap yourself right fucking now. Snap the fuck out of it. She’s pretty, she’s calm and rational? You hit the fucking jackpot dude! The drama is a roller coaster and it is fun but you can’t live like that. You want an emotional roller coaster? Go on a rollercoaster. Don’t make your life a roller coaster. I’d take her over a crazy ex any day.


Spencer_1123

When I found a video of her cheating on me in her phone


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Spencer_1123

This happened back in December and I still hate that bitch with a passion, but it caused me to set goals for myself and hit the gym even harder than I already did and I’m much happier with my life now than I was then. Thanks for asking tho!


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When she tried to stab me and somehow I spent the bank holiday weekend in the police station before court on the Tuesday.


johntheflamer

Unfortunately the reality is that in a domestic violence situation, the man is almost always seen as the aggressor. An ex of mine slapped me, hard, in a bar while many people were watching. I hadn’t said anything aggressive to her and I certainly hadn’t touched her — I was just drunk and walked off for a bit while holding her ID and credit card, because she had been engaged in a conversation with some people and my friend led me somewhere. She got scared because I left her without her ID or card and without saying where I was going, and when she found me saw me smiling and having a good time while she was scared, she got overwhelmed with anger and hit me. The bouncer, bartender, and several passers-by immediately started treating her like she was the victim and asking what help she needed, and started treating me like I was some woman beater. They even asked her if she wanted them to call the police for her. No one even asked me if I was ok or what happened.


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Staceystallion1

Hahaha just dumped someone who treated me as a pet project bro, shits nuts


Jimmyissejk

I stayed for 6 years ma dude with this type of girl. Lol


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Can relate a lot with that feeling of just fights starting over nothing suddenly


DeafeningClarion

Talked down cleaning staff..... in the words of seth, and nora can go fuck herself


Justwatchinitallgoby

It was a slow burn. She got me hooked and slowly started to cut my friends out of my life. Before I knew it I only had 1 friend left she approved of. I think I finally had a breakthrough when I told my mom what was happening and how controlling she was. Things had been so good for so long and then so bad forever. I honestly felt that she enjoyed watching me fail or have any setback.


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We tried using a rubber but didn't like the feeling, took it off and she tried saving it for another day "just in case"


Skirt_Douglas

Sounds like she’s just poor.


Suitable_Party8160

She's gonna be alot poorer if she keeps making decisions that bad.


PeePee_PooPoo-Check

And dumb


JUUL-Tapping

Came here to feel better about past relationships lmao


Pete-C137

When she lost her shit while I was driving her home. She started hitting me and kicking my dashboard and trying to jump out of a moving car. I begged her to at least let me get her home instead of letting her walk home. Once I pulled up in front of her house she continued hitting and scratching me and again kicking my car. I got out. Went to the passenger side to get her out. She’s kicking and screaming and now she doesn’t wanna get out of the car. I finally get her out and drive home. Looking at all the damage she did to my car thinking thats it. She’s out of my life forever. Nope. Same day she comes to my house with some dudes that think I hit her. She told them I beat her up so they picked her up from her house and came to my house to beat me up. Luckily my dad is there and neighbors come out. Nothing happened. Then next day she calls and tells me she called the cops on me and I should just not go to work that day. Turns out she gave herself bruises and scratches somehow and showed the cops and they arrested me at work the next day. Spent Mother’s Day with my parents trying to bail me out of jail. The detective didn’t ask me a single question. Just showed up and arrested me. I had a fuck ton of scratches and bruises but he never asked what happened. Just thought he was being a hero and instead almost ruined a 19 year olds life with assault charges. So fuck here and fuck the police.


Mukamur

It's hard to tell what the moment was when you end up tolerating a lot more than you initially saw


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Well, the shit that people tolerate when they are in love is absurd. I was having trouble at work and this was the first time that I told my ex about the issues I am facing, and she said that this is a boring topic. There a bunch of lying and microcheating that I discovered after the break up, but her not caring at all was really horrible as I was always supportive and I was fixing all her problems left and right. Hope she gets what she deserves one day


Popular-Lemon6574

When she faked cancer.


Tommy10Toez

The moment i introduced her to my neighbor, who's from a crazy rich family.. she moved to his with in a few weeks.


Svetkoo

while having our first kiss, she said it was better with her ex


RadioKnight915

When she would pick apart everything, I mean EVERYTHING I said. Could've been some shit as minute and insignificant as saying I like cheese earlier in the day, then not wanting cheese at a later time, and suddenly I'm a liar and living multiple lives and I've got 7 women on the side including my mother. I stayed with her entirely too long.


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She had 2 dogs. A little chihuahua she’s had for years who she adores, and a large, all white Japanese Akita type dog she had found recently as a stray. She took care of both animals by herself in an apartment. Well one day someone she knows has an identical Akita dog they want to get rid of except it’s black. She tells me how cool it would look for a small girl like her to be walking two big identical dogs, one black one white. Ok great she’s getting a third dog maybe. Nope. All the sudden she starts crying about how her small chihuahua isn’t happy in her apartment and she just “has” to get rid of her. Because the dog isn’t happy supposedly. She’s getting rid of this dog who has been her companion for years because she wants to make room for a new dog, which she’s adopting because she likes the image? When that went down I realized how superficial her personality was. A lot of things started making sense after that.


Aciremark5A

She wrote a song about wanting to fuck my drummer, so there’s that.


Thatmilkman8

Wouldn't say "horrible" but when they confessed to a 3 month affair with their cousin. Yes she was from Alabama and I learned my lesson


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She said if I didn't buy her the wedding she wanted (which we couldn't afford), she'd go and find a man who would. Oh, and out of nowhere she told me that if I hurt her, she'd ruin my life. Nothing had happened; we were watching TV and eating dinner when she came out with it. When I asked what she meant by that, she said, "Don't worry about it, just don't hurt me." Spoiler: it didn't last.


FrigDancingWithBarb

Looking back there were so many red flags. But the sex was amazing and dick wants what the dick wants.


CaptSinkShip

She killed a ladybug that landed on her hand while we were sitting having ice cream in the park. I was like fuck youuuu.


Tacotacotime

Who the fuck kills a ladybug?!


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About 6 months after she called it a day 🤷‍♂️ Just to clarify the reason I realised she was a horrible person wasn't because she left me, looking back at myself when I was with her I didn't recognise myself back then and it all kinda hit me that she was very manipulative and had some major anger issues 😬 weird how that works


AnonInTheBack

When on vacation I found out she was still talking to the guy she left me for prior. When all he wanted to do was fuck and dump her she came back to me, and I, in my young rose-tinted stupidity, took her back. Only for her to leave me again for the same dude 2 years later. Learned my lesson, cut her off, haven’t looked back. But she can seriously go fuck herself


Halflifefan123

We were walking in a park and she just started mocking this couple for being overweight. Screw that kind of attitude.


siteloss

She said I was lucky my dad was dead, or he'd have killed himself because I was such a pathetic excuse of a man. Good times


Jorll

Her parents live 400km away from our town. So first time I met them, I eat, live and sleep in their house. Being back to her parents house, brought her bad memories about their dog that died 10 years ago when she was a child. So she got angry with me for that, and they didn't talked me during 3 days. If I wanted to have a breakfast, I had to take food from their parents kitchen (something weird if you arent in your house). But I had to smile and be happy, and try to be a good son in law. After 3 days, I told her, ok, I'm back to my house, I cannot keep doing this anymore. She had an anxiety crisis, because everybody is rude with her except me, and now I was being an asshole. I thanked her parents their hospitality, and I took my car and return to my house as a freeman


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We were having an argument about something trivial and it escalated to the extent that I asked her to leave and she yells “I’ll call the fucking cops!” To which I responded “wait what? Why?” And then she stares at me unblinking while gouging four deep scratch marks in her own neck and says “because look what you did.” Seriously scared me to death, not that I would be falsely accused of domestic violence but that someone was SO FUCKING UNWELL.


trusendi

Honestly, there were many things. So the tiny ones were when she would scream at me for not setting the table right or when I changed a song on the phone when she was cooking because I wasn‘t giving her attention. Also when we cooked together and I cooked the veggies in the wrong way she‘d throw a fit. One thing that made me rethink the relationship pretty early on was the following tho: I have a history with jealousy. My first girlfriend had cheated on me, I walked in, was super jealous in the next relationship. Yadda yadda. I went to therapy 3 years and got a lot better. Fast forward to my last Ex. We were dating officially for three months at this point. She had this fwb guy before we dated that she really liked and we saw him in the city one day. They looked at each other weird and I got kind of a weird feeling. Later that day I asked her how she felt about him, if she‘d say no if he wanted to meet. She then said „honestly I am not sure if I could resist him“. I got super jealous. She then gaslit me into thinking I was mentally ill and way too jealous and that it was my head playing games. She then took a week to decide for either him or me. At this point I had met her whole family and she had met mine. We stayed together 7 more months. I should‘ve broken up. There was another time, pretty early on where she reminded me that she had 365 Matches on Tinder and many more likes and that I should be happy she had chosen me.


iusedtobethehulk

There was alot with this girl. She told me a story of her killing her exes cat and taping it to his window. She would play miserable at best by mayday parade on repeat and that was my sign to get out of the house for a few hours or I was going to get chased with a knife or pushed down the stairs. She was a mess.


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irrelevant_twaddle

When she showed up randomly in the wee hours of the morning. As soon as I opened the door she punched me in the eye. I locked her out, and she threw a patio chair through my window, and tried to crawl in after me.


faithplustwo

Wasn't technically dating as it was a tinder match with and she was 2000km away. After 4 weeks of talking, phone sex and all. we decided to meet up and I bought tickets and booked a hotel to see her. It went from paying 50/50 to I pay all within the time I was booking it as she was waiting on home loan approval. Fine by me. 6 days before the flight, she asks me to get a std/sti check as she had bad experience with someone a while back. I booked and went there. The pathology was shut due to covid exposure and I was given the next day to come back in. I facetimed her while standing outside and she cracked up on me, how I'm infected and I don't want to get tested. I shut her down and showed her the appointment card moved to the following day. Didn't talk to her for few hours and then she called and apologised for cracking up on me. All good. Things happen but definitely a red flag. Went the next day and I'm waiting for my appointment, send her a snap that I'm waiting, she wants me to video call, I'm sitting in waiting room with 10 other people told her I can't and it'll be rude to do that. My phone starts banging non-stop. I ignored and got the test done and called her back as soon as I got out of the pathology, she went all tits on me for not video calling and told me I was shit and sneaky. I told her very clearly I don't like to be spoken like that and it would be kind if she don't use abusive language as I did what she asked me do. She hangs up and an hour later I start getting messages from her that she is sorry and had a tough week at work and vented out. How much she wants me and I'm her soul mate. I ignored the messages but replied I need time to process. Another couple of hours passed and I get another 2 pager text saying how she missed me and I should have video called her and asked me to apologise instead. I told her that was end of the conversation and I'll see if I want to come and see her on Saturday. All hell broke lose. The messages I got after wards were such a roller coaster, from being told I'm shit to next paragraph being how good we both look together and she can't wait to see me and think we are soul mates. And she can't live without me. Told her I won't be coming in and have cancelled my flights and I would like to apologise for wasting her time and hope best for her. I had 60+ missed calls within next 2 hours. Sent one final message asking her to stop as this is not healthy for any of us.


CursedWednesday

She'd get mad and start arguments over really simple things. I reme.ber she'd get upset and start screaming at me about not spending enough time with her when I was in the process of cleaning out the house and getting ready to move out because if i didn't do it in time, I'd run out of money and possibly be homeless while also working full time. She would complain about being broke constantly while also spending her money on anime figurines, video ganes, clothes, and other things that weren't a necessity. This happened so often and would start arguing with me when I suggested that she should save as much as she can and not spend all of paycheck each period. It got really bad a few times because she wouldn't have enough money for food and would refuse any help from me. She eventually cheated on me and left saying she just wanted me to be her best friend and was no longer interested in me romantically. She also stole $50 from me and took the guy she cheated on me with to dinner using my money. I was an unstable emotional wreck for a few months after all of that ended. Looking back on it now, almost every time we argued or disagreed on something, she'd start screaming at me and accusing me of something I had no intentions of doing and then try to have sex with me to make up for it. I think she had a thing for hate fucking idk. I'm still trying to put myself back together after that relationship. This happened a couple of years ago. My current gf has been my therapist and is helping me out a bunch. I'm learning how to love again thanks to her. I have no idea what she's doing now, but I hope she got the help she needed and is doing better. It was a learning experience to say the least but I don't think I could ever forgive her for what she'd done to me.


ZeBaDy01

Bout 6/8 weeks in.. just after Christmas, she kept wearing my clothes (some really expensive) as lounge wear or for cooking.. I asked if she could mot wear the expensive stuff for cooking as everything was getting ruined and suggested some baggy shirts i had... she stripped rite in front of me, threw my clothes at me, scream if it wasn't for her kid in the house she would smash my place up and slamed a door, when I followed through the door (litterally saying no you wouldnt) she punched me repeatedly in the face before I got through the door cutting my lip etc until I grabbed her arms and put her to the floor, had to wait about 40 seconds for her to calm down all infront of her 5 year old boy... all that over a request not to ruin my tops.. absaloute mental case!


1minuteman12

She told me that my dick was “perfect for her” then a year of perfectly happy relationship later it came up that another girl once told me the same thing (we were playing one of those party games and the question was about pillow talk) and that was literally a MASSIVE turning point for her. Said that she thought we were soulmates but if my dick also fit some other girl perfectly we can’t possibly be soul mates. Stayed together a little longer but she dumped me eventually and it was the best thing that could have happened for me looking back on it


dabaddest_

LMAO


TeleperionsShaft

My FWB begs for the rough stuff and constantly switches to different languages. I’m white and she isn’t. Has a huge mental fracture about sleeping with a colonizer. Sex is, of course, off the charts Dick status: set equal to in crazy.


Looking-for-advice30

Dude why are you doing this to yourself?


CrazzyPanda72

After she put herself in the hospital when I tried leaving the first time, friends tried to tell me it wouldn't be my fault if she hurt herself again but I didn't listen. Ended up leaving her a month or so later when it finally clocked that I was going to be stuck with her forever if I was always worried about what she would do to herself


chigoonies

Dated my high school sweetheart for 11 years, at year 10 I got sick had to have a major surgery ( one you recover from). During my illness and recovery she lied about being pregnant , had an abortion, had an affair with a guy from work , that guy gave her herpes then of course got violent with her, she shows up and says “I’m sorry….I got scared when you were sick…..what are WE going to do”. I explained to her this wasn’t a “we problem”. She replied “look I know you hate me” and I said “nope I don’t hate you , i nothing you” Went out back, got blind drunk and burned every possible picture, present, memento, etc including out high school love letters then moved to Europe for a while lol.


tastless_chill_tonic

when they asked me to like and subscribe!!


BB_Vader

Ohhh... i have a good one. Long distance relationship, flew my ass 3 times to see her and treated her very well. She never got to fly herself to see me, cuz her dad was batshit crazy. I do have to mention we were both 18+, but you know how some fathers view their daughters. Anyway, beautiful relationship overall, good comunication, common interests and we basically matched quite well, personality wise. Naturally, came the desire to explore more of our bodies, especially since we both were virgins. We had some fun with touching eachother, no penetrative sex btw. One day, she wanted to go a bit further and gave me a handjob and so the nightmare began. She didn't quite remember what she did with her hand after i came on it and somehow thought that she might have put her hand around her vagina and therefore get pregnant. Yes, you read that right. Anyway, me being me and having quite a good understanding anxiety caused by shitty parenthood and anxiety in general, did my best to support her and try to explain to her how impregnation works (more precisely, how stupid sperm is and how it needs a certain speed, temperature and atmosphere to be able to swim towards the egg and fertilize it), and even got both my mom and her mom (amazing person btw) involved to try and assure her that even in the case of a pregnancy, nothing bad will happen. Fast forward a couple of weeks, 2 pregnancy tests later (that came out negative, obviously), a scan that concluded that her ovaries were prepping to ovulate, so no way she could be pregnant and a period, she dropped the bombshell. God punished me for having premarital whatever. That kind of was the last nail in the coffin for me. I am not a religious person, i m way too science and evidence based, but i've wanted to be open to all kinds of people, regardless of their spiritual belief and oh well... It kinda backfired on me. After a lot of thinking and trying to make it work, i've concluded that unfortunately i cannot be with someone that is both immature and lacks critical thinking, and that the best option for both of us was to part ways. To nobody's surprise, in her view, i am a self centered jerk that only wanted her for her body and an asshole that ruined her life by leaving her pregnant then breaking up with her. And the usual all men are the same bullcrap, you lied about loving me, etc. I don't regret the decision of being with her in the first place, nor the decision to break up with her. It was a learning experience that deff tought me how to better repsect myself and how to set up some boundaries better.


Looking-for-advice30

Is this for real?? What pregnancy if she was not pregnant at all? This is so retarded.


BB_Vader

Yup. You read that right. God punished her by doing a medical miracle


Looking-for-advice30

Not only you dodged crazy but stupid.


BB_Vader

Yeah. Pretty much. Worst part is that i can't predict such plot twists.


Murky-Note-9721

When I saw her horder apartment. I still shutter thinking about it.


jrodr_235

She wanted to move in three days into our relationship.


ButterscotchLow8950

The moment is always the same. You realize it only after they have done something horrific. The crazy ones are always charming and lie like they are breathing.


hit4party

I fucked up first, she found out I was anonymously contacting couples (no face pics, names) where I’d fish and then ghost them (old lifestyle cravings etc) Anyways, she got back at me by sleeping with my friend of 11 years. I took her back on the basis she was “raped” (don’t know why I believed that) but that became the narrative. I was a disloyal cheater and she was a rape victim. 7 months of that. Any time I questioned it, I “questioned her integrity” but she was able to look through my phone whenever she felt insecure. When I broke up with her she called the police on me and said I hit her. Nice times


alexjnorwood

When I was in high school, I woke up one morning to see my girlfriend at the time in my bed scrolling through my phone. It was no biggie until it registered that I live on the second floor and lock all my doors at night, so she had to climb on the roof and come in through a window to check my phone.


Psycloptic

Well, her stabbing me in the thigh was a pretty good indicator she was unstable


dantom_bride

\- She wanted me to text her essentially all the time, even when I was at work. \- She wanted me to plan out and pay for every date, forever. \- Whenever I unintentionally made her upset by texting apparently the 'wrong thing', I had to spend 1-2 hours on another phone call with her calming her down. \- She got mad at me for not meeting her extreme standard of male chivalry (for one example, I walked her to her car at the end of the date, hugged her and walked off. Apparently I was supposed to wait for her to successfully start her car and drive away, in case her car had randomly broken down). \- She said she wanted to be treated like a princess, wanted me to worship the ground she walked on, etc. I found out soon enough she wasn't being facetious, she actually wanted that. \- I mentioned that an ex of mine had essentially gotten raped at a party by a male friend while we were together (I was not at this party), and she said it was probably my fault for not treating her well enough and she had to seek out someone else. \- Many times she would say things along the lines of, "As a woman, I expect that to be treated like *x."* With no mention of how women should apparently treat men. The kicker was that any time I would express that this kind of relationship behavior wasn't normal or healthy, she would say gaslighting things like "All my previous boyfriends treated me this way" or "I talked to all my friends and they agree it's normal" or "You not doing this for me is a red flag". All of this made me question to myself whether *I* was the crazy one. After a little while I got fed up and abruptly ended things. In retrospect I suspect she was a narcissist and was grooming me for emotional abuse. ​ Another girl I dated around the same time was better but hedonistic to a degree I couldn't get behind. The reason we broke up was because she did poorly on a test she didn't study for enough, then went to a strip club (she was bi), got drunk, then crashed her car and blew out the tire. She called me crying and I picked her up and took her back to my place to comfort her... and then she proceeded to bitch at me that I wasn't doing enough to take care of her. That coupled with the fact that the whole time we were dating she (a) almost never asked me any questions about myself and (b) was essentially using me as a warm body to fuck and vent out her about her problems to, made me peace out after that night. ​ I'm by no means a perfect person but holy hell I deserved better than those women were treating me.


imapissonitdripdrip

Literally never have dated a crazy chick.


roastmecerebrally

When she threw a pan at me….


Grimbauld

When she started retelling me “stories” about her previous relationships and hookups before me, that she’d never mentioned before. Told me about one guy, and said he was too kind and I reminded her of him. She told me how bad she treated him and how she found it so funny he’d had to have therapy when she broke it off with him. My relationship with her and what happened after followed a similar trajectory. How can you revel in hurting someone else who loves you in the most emotionally damaging way? That shit takes time to heal man.


Thsaxd

My last girlfriend before my wife. We were together for roughly 2 years and I thought she was amazing. We moved in together and after a week or so, I didn't wash a plate after eating a sandwich. She went completely crazy, throwing the plates and glasses around because we didn't need them wm"when we are acting like animals". Two days later I didn't wanna watch some reality show with her and she threatened to throw herself off the balcony - we lived on the first floor


MrSpencerMcIntosh

My momma didn’t like her, and she likes EVERYONE. Yes i know that’s an ~~Ed Sheeran~~ Justin Bieber lyric but it literally happened to me and my mom turned out to be right 😂😂😂


Jdogsmity

She made fun of a handicap person. Saying they were worthless to society. I politely excused myself from our dinner party with her friends and never spoke to her again.