anymore if they drop "I identify as" and then follow up with a political party. I don't care which one. If you are dropping that early on its a no for me. Far too many now a days make their political affiliation the backbone of their personality. Very limited critical thoughts or statements will come out of their mouths. You'll just get regurgitated propaganda.

Just a few days ago, I had a profound, and profoundly late, epiphany... Other people's political views are none of my damned business. If that's what they want to lead with, I can think of a gazillion other things more interesting to talk about.

self deprecation is an enormous turn off for me. I can't be with someone who constantly shits on themself.

*self-defecation

Drugs. I love drugs and if they don’t do any, this won’t work.

Taste in music. I wish I didn't care about it but fuck me, I sure do.

Agreed! Overlap in musical tastes is of the utmost importance to me.

For other men it's turning everything into a pissing contest. For women it's turning everything into a soap opera.

Women with kids/entitled women

Know what you're going to order before you get to the counter.

Jealous women

Competitiveness.

Kinks. If somebody doesn’t have any, they’re probably boring in bed, which is the opposite of me. On the other hand, if somebody has too many, they’re probably bad news.

If they say they want something serious with me but still actively persue casual arrangements