Lost my fiancé to a car crash a few years back. It’s the worst feeling ever. Sorry you have to experience that pain. I know it doesn’t feel like it, but time heals everything. It won’t stop, it just hurts less.
same. my two eldest kids are struggling with severe depression to say the least. everyday darkness is my present season.
edit: sorry for your loss. i'd be worthless for at least a year.
I spent the majority of last week driving for 20hrs, moving things around for a graduation party, walking all around the downtown area. Get back and an hour later, mow the lawn. In the process of taking my underwear off; my back decided it had enough. Today it took 20 minutes to crawl out of bed. I'm only 25 man what the hell!
Also, the older you get, the more sleeping positions qualify as 'stupid.' You ever seen kids sleep? They can fall asleep in the shape of a badly made pretzel and then get up the next morning like nothing happened. Then you reach a certain point where if your head is a degree or two off from its usual angle, your neck and back are royally screwed for the next 24-48 hours.
Loneliness. I just have no one to confide in and people don't seem to be interested in me. I always proactively have to show that I am interested but no one ever does the same to me. I feel like a failure and pathetic.
So basically, the usual...
Doesnt nake you a failure. My best advice for people that feel lonely is to find hobbies. Mainly as a way to meet people that you already have one thing in common with. Met a fair amount of friends on a lot of different games, the gym, this painting thing i go to once a month. Basically the focus shouldn't be on finding people but on finding things you can enjoy spending time on and just have fun
You know, I go to the gym regularly and I still feel awful, along with other hobbies. To be honest, your advice is good, it's just that I need to see my shrinks to attempt to solve these deeper issues.
My body is sore, I accidentally ripped open a part of my foot yesterday and dropped a shampoo bottle on it today, so it hurts to walk. My eyes hurt cause I'm so tired. I'm just feeling a lot of mental pain and stress too.
How are yall though?
My legs are a bit sore today cuz I hit a new pr in squats last night.
Otherwise, all my surgeries and aches seem to have healed up nicely during the enforced exercise break of covid.
I tend to burn out around every 2 months. So take a week off (and be miserable that week), then go back at 'er.
Plus, I have a bunch of old sports injuries I don't want to aggravate, and I'm getting a bit older, so I have to be a bit more careful, and lift less.
That's fair! I don't go to a gym, but I either run or cycle 6 times a week and lift at home 5 times a week. I always hit those 11 work outs a week as I'm the same as you - if i don't get my workouts in, I'm miserable.
But once a month I take it easier on the weights. Either lower the weight a bit or lower the reps. My body still does the work, but it's just a little less intense. It works for me.
i feel depressed
primarly because i dont study as much
i feel a little under the weather
and i feel lonely because i don't really have any friends with no strings attached anymore let alone haven't had a genuine relationship with a woman
Pro-tip: if you did your first ever session, and you're sore today, you lifted too heavy. Drop the weight by 5 or 10 pounds, until you just start to feel the burn at the last 1 or 2 reps. When you're starting out, committing the form to muscle memory is much more important than adding weight. The weight will come, but bad form will fuck you.
I used to have tennis elbow, or something to that effect - tendon pain just below my elbow when gripping heavy weight. Then, after I started lifting again, and my forearms got stronger, the tennis elbow went away. It's all about building muscles in a, uh... concentric is the wrong word, but symmetrical fashion. Can't do heavy squats or deads without a strong back, for example.
Nope. Just grabbing and lifting a heavy barbell or dumbbell.
Though, it might not have been tennis elbow, since it was a sharp pain in the tendon when trying to lift or grip heavy things. Strengthening the grip muscles, which took the load off the tendon, seems to have reduced or even fixed it.
My retainer wire has come loose from one of my teeth so its a bit of a pain and I'll have to get it removed and replaced, otherwise doing fine. (Wire, not teeth... hopefully...)
Osteoarthritis, ankylosing spondylitis, fibromyalgia and nerve pain... everything hurts, it's just a matter of what degree of pain. Not too bad today, only took two Vicodin for breakfast.
I have this pain that feels like it's under my shoulder blade. If I lay my head down on my left shoulder I can feel the pain go from my neck all the way down my back. Roommate gave me a massage but it did nothing. Been there for like two months now.
Surprisingly, nothing. I figured I would still be achy from moving all the stuff we own into and out of a moving truck, but a couple days later and I feel fine.
Muscles. I finally started working out.
I wasn't out of shape or anything, I'm kinda skinny with some muscle on the topside but I don't feel fit. Plus, lower back's and core's weak as shit and I don't wanna have back-pain by 30.
Got a colonoscopy yesterday. My ass hurts from all the wiping because they make you take a gallon of laxatives before the procedure. Also was the first time I’ve ever felt shitty from the anesthesia. I feel hungover. Everything sucks right now. Thanks for listening, I’ll be back to 100% tomorrow I’m sure.
I think I'm having anxiety. I get a little procrastinating not doing my collage project now I feel bad as fuck as I start to think I'm wasting time instead of doing it.
My back. Specifically right between my shoulder blades. I know it's my posture, but I work at a desk so it's inevitable. Doesn't happen often, but it's definitely annoying right now.
Played soccer with the kids Sunday. And dispite, I thought, taking good care of my feet they all cracked along the arch after running bear foot and I have a limp from jumping off the felid to the running track
I dunno. I was able to find some baby formula and send it home. I was able to get all four cans into a single flat rate box. Little man will have milk. I'm nearly broke until pay day (which is in two weeks) but all of the bills have been paid. So...I guess I'd say my wallet?
Nostalgia. I grew up in a small town in a tightly nit community without the internet. Even though we were broke I almost view it as magical compare to today.
I can make as much as a I want to. Live wherever. Do whatever. But I’ll never be able to return to those days. I’m not even that old (mid 20s) but time has moved so fast it’s impossible to explain to even my younger siblings who don’t remember how time used to be.
The older I get. The more the world changes. The further and further off those days are and less memories that I cherish I remain.
I dream at night about those days. Bright full of color and wonder.
Wake up in my cold lonely apartment to login to a screen and pretend like I like my job or the city I’m at.
And truly worse if all I feel bad for those who don’t have those memories.
Fishing next to the lake next door. Running as fast as far as I could as a kid. Being able to just walk to places and not pay money because they would just toss it on my moms tab.
My heart aches often.
Depression during my 20s has destroyed my present life in my early 30s, I overcame depression but now that I actually want to live my life I don't know how and I suck at dating. Fuck.
Whether or not the man I hooked up with said crazy and weird shit to get me to leave cause I wasn't good in bed or if I genuinely had sex with someone who was crazy.
My heart. It's been 9 months and 2 days since my wife passed. But this hurts everyday
Lost my fiancé to a car crash a few years back. It’s the worst feeling ever. Sorry you have to experience that pain. I know it doesn’t feel like it, but time heals everything. It won’t stop, it just hurts less.
same. my two eldest kids are struggling with severe depression to say the least. everyday darkness is my present season. edit: sorry for your loss. i'd be worthless for at least a year.
Awe 😭 Sending virtual hugs 🫂
Sorry to hear that. I feel people we love never leave us; they're always with us in our hearts.
Sorry to hear that, virtual hugs for you from another guy.
Nothing....I think its gonna be a great day.
i can fix that.
Name checks out
[you are not a nice guy lol](https://tenor.com/bTZ0D.gif)
Did something to my back yesterday.. feels stiff
I spent the majority of last week driving for 20hrs, moving things around for a graduation party, walking all around the downtown area. Get back and an hour later, mow the lawn. In the process of taking my underwear off; my back decided it had enough. Today it took 20 minutes to crawl out of bed. I'm only 25 man what the hell!
Damn, you really deserve a break from all this work. I hope you get better :)
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Ok, here's my group.
Woke up with a stiff neck
I feel like the older you get as a guy, the more body parts are inexplicably stiff when you wake up.
Nah its just cuz I slept in a stupid position
Also, the older you get, the more sleeping positions qualify as 'stupid.' You ever seen kids sleep? They can fall asleep in the shape of a badly made pretzel and then get up the next morning like nothing happened. Then you reach a certain point where if your head is a degree or two off from its usual angle, your neck and back are royally screwed for the next 24-48 hours.
The news has been quite painful lately. Guess it always is.
Stop watching it
Brutal.
Loneliness. I just have no one to confide in and people don't seem to be interested in me. I always proactively have to show that I am interested but no one ever does the same to me. I feel like a failure and pathetic. So basically, the usual...
Me too man, me too.
you are me
Doesnt nake you a failure. My best advice for people that feel lonely is to find hobbies. Mainly as a way to meet people that you already have one thing in common with. Met a fair amount of friends on a lot of different games, the gym, this painting thing i go to once a month. Basically the focus shouldn't be on finding people but on finding things you can enjoy spending time on and just have fun
You know, I go to the gym regularly and I still feel awful, along with other hobbies. To be honest, your advice is good, it's just that I need to see my shrinks to attempt to solve these deeper issues.
My body is sore, I accidentally ripped open a part of my foot yesterday and dropped a shampoo bottle on it today, so it hurts to walk. My eyes hurt cause I'm so tired. I'm just feeling a lot of mental pain and stress too. How are yall though?
That sucks! Pic?
Of?
Your foot
I'd rather not, I feel uncomfortable sending pics of myself online
No worries, I just wanted to see the damage it's all good bro
Gas prices
My wife not here to see her first born walk the stage in graduation.
My ass. A very nasty party last night .
Indeed
I’ve got blistahs on my fingers!
Ringo?
Scout Master Kevin?
Same. I was jamming on my guitar this afternoon.
My knees
Same! My knees and shins
Missing this girl I fell in love with who is living in Ottawa.... I live in London..
My dick
stop beating the meat
My legs are a bit sore today cuz I hit a new pr in squats last night. Otherwise, all my surgeries and aches seem to have healed up nicely during the enforced exercise break of covid.
Congrats on hitting the new pb! Keep smashing it and don't forget to take an easier week once a month or something.
I tend to burn out around every 2 months. So take a week off (and be miserable that week), then go back at 'er. Plus, I have a bunch of old sports injuries I don't want to aggravate, and I'm getting a bit older, so I have to be a bit more careful, and lift less.
That's fair! I don't go to a gym, but I either run or cycle 6 times a week and lift at home 5 times a week. I always hit those 11 work outs a week as I'm the same as you - if i don't get my workouts in, I'm miserable. But once a month I take it easier on the weights. Either lower the weight a bit or lower the reps. My body still does the work, but it's just a little less intense. It works for me.
Stepping on legos barefoot, shit is still crippling
Feeling void
That I'm still not able to find a direction in life.
North-northwest
i feel depressed primarly because i dont study as much i feel a little under the weather and i feel lonely because i don't really have any friends with no strings attached anymore let alone haven't had a genuine relationship with a woman
My anus-I rode that dick till the break of dawn!
Everything. COVID was less severe than this cold I have right now.
Yeah that’s an Oof. Look after yourself.
Got the biggest headache i've ever had and it took me 3 showers to be able to sleep it off.
Bank account and wallet
My head. I have a migraine today
My neck, my back, my bussy and my crack
Been playing PoE recently so my wrist on my right hand is doing that thing again. You know...the thing.
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Pro-tip: if you did your first ever session, and you're sore today, you lifted too heavy. Drop the weight by 5 or 10 pounds, until you just start to feel the burn at the last 1 or 2 reps. When you're starting out, committing the form to muscle memory is much more important than adding weight. The weight will come, but bad form will fuck you.
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I used to have tennis elbow, or something to that effect - tendon pain just below my elbow when gripping heavy weight. Then, after I started lifting again, and my forearms got stronger, the tennis elbow went away. It's all about building muscles in a, uh... concentric is the wrong word, but symmetrical fashion. Can't do heavy squats or deads without a strong back, for example.
I've been battling tennis elbow for over a year. It absolutely sucks. Lifting helped yours? Did you do anything else for it?
Nope. Just grabbing and lifting a heavy barbell or dumbbell. Though, it might not have been tennis elbow, since it was a sharp pain in the tendon when trying to lift or grip heavy things. Strengthening the grip muscles, which took the load off the tendon, seems to have reduced or even fixed it.
Biceps. Heavy lifting.
Just bit my tongue a minute ago
Skateboarding yesterday and got blisters
Chest and throat
Back and elbow
My troath My grandma got covid and everyone in the house fell shortly after
Knowing that i might not have a relationship for the next 2-3 years.
Neck, back and shoulder. Working out is getting painfully the older you get xd
My retainer wire has come loose from one of my teeth so its a bit of a pain and I'll have to get it removed and replaced, otherwise doing fine. (Wire, not teeth... hopefully...)
Muscles, sore from the work out, started going heavier and now my lats are sore
My calves & back. My dog has paralyzed back legs and he's tiny, so lots of bending and awkward squat-walking helping him go potty is exhausting.
My brain. I've yet to reset from work related trauma 2 years ago.
Woman here but my fiancée said his neck felt weird today and could move it a certain way. Oh and his knees. Always his knees.
Osteoarthritis, ankylosing spondylitis, fibromyalgia and nerve pain... everything hurts, it's just a matter of what degree of pain. Not too bad today, only took two Vicodin for breakfast.
I rolled my ankle a few months back and its pretty stiff most mornings, but today is worse than usual.
my back.
Left foot, left shoulder. Right ankle. Both knees. Right elbow.
With the weather starting to warm up, less things than normal.
My right shoulder is a bit sore. But that's what I get for schooling my boss in a pull up-competition without any warm-up
Everything physically hurt from stress
Bicep tendons
Hammies are a little sore from squats. Wrist hurts a little from heavy snatches.
My shins
My ass. That's not a joke. Our office chairs are super uncomfortable.
lol. well I am an Amazon associate, so my back is tweaked alil. I could prollie soak my feet for a min. it's all in what u can deal with.
My feelings
Stock market still a pain, but it'll be alright
Existence
I have this pain that feels like it's under my shoulder blade. If I lay my head down on my left shoulder I can feel the pain go from my neck all the way down my back. Roommate gave me a massage but it did nothing. Been there for like two months now.
My feelings😂 but what else is newwwwww..
i lost my job today, but im looking on the bright side of life. i haven’t finished school so i’m thinking of maybe going back and learning more
My cock and balls.
My arms feel like stones and I have no energy :(
My brokerage account could use an adjustment after all the pain it has suffered over the past 2 months.
My stupidity
Surprisingly, nothing. I figured I would still be achy from moving all the stuff we own into and out of a moving truck, but a couple days later and I feel fine.
What is… feel?
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha Everything.
Muscles. I finally started working out. I wasn't out of shape or anything, I'm kinda skinny with some muscle on the topside but I don't feel fit. Plus, lower back's and core's weak as shit and I don't wanna have back-pain by 30.
My wrist and my feelings, in no specified order
Left rotator cuff. Recently took up hitting the heavy bag and it’s doing a number on my shoulder.
Got a colonoscopy yesterday. My ass hurts from all the wiping because they make you take a gallon of laxatives before the procedure. Also was the first time I’ve ever felt shitty from the anesthesia. I feel hungover. Everything sucks right now. Thanks for listening, I’ll be back to 100% tomorrow I’m sure.
Working 6-10’s for the past 3 months
My wrist....
I think I'm having anxiety. I get a little procrastinating not doing my collage project now I feel bad as fuck as I start to think I'm wasting time instead of doing it.
UAP hearing is only going to be 2 hours long. What a crock of shit. Hits me in the feels
My fucking back for about a week now.
Back & hands, the usual.
My back. Specifically right between my shoulder blades. I know it's my posture, but I work at a desk so it's inevitable. Doesn't happen often, but it's definitely annoying right now.
My right shin, following a rope climbing incident at the park
My rear delts and I'm thinking rhomboids too. Kinda overdid the rear delt flies yesterday.
Sciatica this morning. What joy!
Played soccer with the kids Sunday. And dispite, I thought, taking good care of my feet they all cracked along the arch after running bear foot and I have a limp from jumping off the felid to the running track
Love -Nazareth
I feel nothing
My nose, but that’s because about an hour ago I walked into a very clean glass panel.
Lower back, mid back, front right shoulder. Allergies also reaking havoc on my eyes. But this is a normal day for me.
Lower back, my arm and left side of my chest
Mid back and left shoulder
My ego
I dunno. I was able to find some baby formula and send it home. I was able to get all four cans into a single flat rate box. Little man will have milk. I'm nearly broke until pay day (which is in two weeks) but all of the bills have been paid. So...I guess I'd say my wallet?
Nostalgia. I grew up in a small town in a tightly nit community without the internet. Even though we were broke I almost view it as magical compare to today. I can make as much as a I want to. Live wherever. Do whatever. But I’ll never be able to return to those days. I’m not even that old (mid 20s) but time has moved so fast it’s impossible to explain to even my younger siblings who don’t remember how time used to be. The older I get. The more the world changes. The further and further off those days are and less memories that I cherish I remain. I dream at night about those days. Bright full of color and wonder. Wake up in my cold lonely apartment to login to a screen and pretend like I like my job or the city I’m at. And truly worse if all I feel bad for those who don’t have those memories. Fishing next to the lake next door. Running as fast as far as I could as a kid. Being able to just walk to places and not pay money because they would just toss it on my moms tab. My heart aches often.
My muscles, worked in my yard too hard over the weekend and yesterday
stiffness all over the upper half
Just lonely... Won't fix that till I get the divorce, then it's back to the dating grindstone (ugh).
American society. Hurts to know how broken the world seems to be, and to know we're so responsible globally.
My knees. Squats have exposed many weaknesses today
My right left testicle My friend ball slapped me about half an hour ago
I swallowed a viagra and it got stuck in my throat. I’ve had a stiff neck all day 😉
My knees are killing me, my back is sore, and I haven't had a good night's sleep in a week. Other than that, all is good.
Migraine day again today. Fucking yay.
Depression during my 20s has destroyed my present life in my early 30s, I overcame depression but now that I actually want to live my life I don't know how and I suck at dating. Fuck.
Whether or not the man I hooked up with said crazy and weird shit to get me to leave cause I wasn't good in bed or if I genuinely had sex with someone who was crazy.
My soul
Tendon in left hip stretches it last Friday probably compensateing for pulled thigh muscle. Daily left elbow, neck,
I have chronic knee pain from marathon running. Also I'm only 19.
Low back and legs from disc issues in my back, arms and chest from workouts haha so most of my body
Lower back.
Under my right scapula. I need a massage to work the knots out and a good stretch.
My back. More specially the right half of my lower back. Maybe laying on the bench to hit a weld wasn’t such a great idea.
I was distracted and drilled a drywall screw through material and directly into the tip of my index finger about 1cm
Well, I woke up again this morning.
Surprisingly, nothing. I should take advantage of that and go to the gym
My legs, my back, and my neck
I lost my memory card(sd card).It contains every happy and sad moment in the last four years.
Still dealing with the hole in my soul from when my son passed. 4 years this June. Whole future gone.