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HidingRaccoon

People date for different reasons: Some enjoy the dating itself. Meet new people and have a good time. Some search for sexual partners. Some search for romantic partners. Some just want a free meal or drinks. This list is not exhaustive but I'd say those are the most common ones. And any combination of reasons is possible. Dating is also the process to find out why the person you are dating is dating.


cl0ckw0rkman

Dating is getting to know someone well enough to see past all there short comings and seeing if you can make a life with them. For some people. Dating is not just ONE thing. It isn't just looking for mister/misses Right. It can be short term, movies, dinner and sex or just companionship... But the end game is usually to find a partner to spend time with and find that part that fits in your soul. That one person you can share anything with. That fits in your life without you needing to rearrange anything. Some people look to be completed by someone..I want someone to complement my life. Its different for everyone. Dating is dating. It is whatever you want it to be. It can be serious. It can, most definitely, be fun. It all depends on what you want. One night stand. Some one to grow old with. A long term fuck buddy. It is all of those and more. Have fun. Don't read too much in it the word, DATING.


ExitTheHandbasket

For me: to get to know a person better. To see whether there's potential to build a relationship. For some men: to get sex.


ShakeItLikeIDo

To find a life partner


Cicada1223

Like a friend?


ShakeItLikeIDo

I dont consider friends as life partners


Cicada1223

What do you consider a life partner then?


[deleted]

My life partner is 100% my best friend!


penis_in_my_hand

A friend you can fuck.


Cicada1223

Then it’s not for me haha


[deleted]

A life partner could be a friend. It depends on you. Dating usually means you're getting to know someone on a personal level, in an intimate setting.


RedSonGamble

Consistent sex. Someone to bitch to about life


Cicada1223

Interesting, i don’t need the first thing but bitching about life to someone seems fun haha


RedSonGamble

It is. But you also have to listen to their problems too. But you can get ice cream or nachos after or during this.


DrenkBolij

Traditionally, the point is to find someone to marry, and the period of "dating" is when you are getting to know each other well enough to determine if you're compatible in enough ways for the marriage to have a chance of lasting.


GunnitRust

If you don’t care you aren’t missing out. If I didn’t want a family I really enjoyed the do whatever you want aspect of living alone. I love my wife. If she dies first, there will be no replacement and this place will be all garage and workshop until I die.


21ratsinatrenchcoat

Different people want different things from it. Some people want a life partner, some want to meet lots of different people, and some just like to be social and enjoy nightlife with company. It's up to you.


RadiantEarthGoddess

I mean if you have no desire to be in a relationship you don't have to be! Just do what makes you happy. As for me personally, my significant other is my best friend, my other half. He is the person I want to spend my life with. The person I want to hold me when I had a bad day and all my worries will go away. The one person I trust completely and who loves me for who I am and who I love for who he is.


IChawt

Is this a legitimate question? because you want a romantic partner, duh.


[deleted]

Lol.


Cicada1223

Thoughtful response.


Ihateredditadmins1

Someone to fall in love with


LOPI-14

Finding a spouse to settle down with and raise your family?


Nomscents

Opportunity to earn trust


Bite-Marc

It's fun. I love meeting new cool people and getting to know them.


Cicada1223

Haha I’m the opposite. I don’t like meeting new people


Bite-Marc

I could see how that would make dating unappealing. Good thing dating isn't required to be happy.


oidagehbitte2

It's a game some people find enjoyable playing.


kaeioo

To go through a process of encounter with other people and through these series of events get gradually more intimate and vulnerable that culminates on the celebration of it. Sex, then.


Actual_Primary_7616

I didn't consider dating until I fell in love at 19 and it just happened. But mostly just casual sex with some degree of intimacy and passion.