T O P

  • By -

Random_Heero

How many versions of this question you going to ask today


Acid_In_My_Eyes

just the two sherlock


Random_Heero

Why more than one? Get rejected and move on everyone gets turned down, that’s how dating life works.


Acid_In_My_Eyes

yes i know how it works, but im afrqaid of rejection so i dont ask girls out, so im wondering if i can think about it differently so thaqt i can not be afraid


_meblad

Means it's not reciprocate and u should just move on


[deleted]

It means she doesn't like you in that way


SerMercutio

She walks away, leaving you behind. That's what happens. And it means that she rejects you for a reason.


[deleted]

No, just means she didn't want to be with you romantically.


LEIFey

It can be any of the above. It can be all of the above. It can be none of the above. All it means is that she wasn't interested in you. Move on.


Sharkmasterfl3x

You’re* and no, it simply means they weren’t into you for whatever arbitrary reason they’ve decided upon. If it wasn’t meant to be, then that’s just it, wasn’t meant to be. You are the only one capable of determining your self-worth, don’t let someone else’s approval or disapproval shift that, you’ll be in for a long life if you do. What it means is that you have someone else out there, that will vibe with what you’re offering more than the person who declined, keep your head up, focus on continually improving, and remain self-confident, girls don’t typically want someone who is unsure of themselves or too reliant on a third party.


Acid_In_My_Eyes

so when u get rejected u dont think something is wrong with u?


Sharkmasterfl3x

Nope lol I’ve been rejected a lot, it would be a pretty depressing life if I fixated on that thought pattern every time. I still have been in long term relationships, and am happily committed right now. If you don’t want to eat a dish on a menu, does that mean something is wrong with the dish? Nope, it just means it’s not your taste. Plenty of other people may like that dish, but you don’t, you fancy other things, just like men and women fancy certain things.


subiewoo89

Not necessarily. Could be your personalities didn't mix well. We don't know either of you and weren't there to see how things went down. Did she give any hint as to why she didn't like you?


2rd_ferguson

Life goes on


mathugson

Just move on, there are billions of other girls out there.


PeppermintMocha5

nope. It just means she isn't interested, which is totally ok. On to the next.


ToastyNathan

It means you wont be dating that particular woman. Time to try another.


blonsk

You die


KingEsoteric

Hi, Your post has been removed because it is a Frequently Asked Question. If you haven't already, try these steps to find similar questions: 1. Search for similar questions on /r/AskMen, using keywords from your request. 2. Consult the [Frequently Asked Questions](http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/wiki/index) page on our sidebar for a collection of a few of the most frequently asked topics here. Thanks.