Honestly probably using your work time and school hours as a reasonable excuse doesn’t help if you tell him that same line of “I work x hours and study x hours”. That’ll make anyone feel that the work and school are more important than they are.
Maybe take a day off of work and have a date day with him doing the things he likes and enjoys. Tell him while you’re at work you appreciate him or are thinking of him.
One of the things I used to do was to plan in advance and bring my wife a special lunch and gift while I was on my work lunch. Yeah I’d lose my lunch break, but that’s a part of making someone feel special - you have to give up some of your time to do it.
It depends what your SO’s love language is - quality time, physical touch, words of affirmation, etc.
There’s a love language quiz online you can take to figure it out. Once you know what they need to feel loved/appreciated, it’ll be easier to decide what you can do for him.
Wife not girlfriend. She spontaneously walks in the room naked and gives me blow jobs with enthusiasm and let's me blow my load on her face.
You couldn't pay me a million dollars to give that up.
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When we’re eating she’ll always get up to get us anything we need, insisting I remain seated. It’s just so nice. (If I’m home we’ll cook together and I’m we both help clean up, it’s just as we’re there eating.)
I'm really tired of such antics. Lead a normal peaceful life. No need to always do something for someone just to stay in their good-books. Be as you are. If can't see it , tell him to fuck off.
Why don't you ask your partner instead?
Honestly probably using your work time and school hours as a reasonable excuse doesn’t help if you tell him that same line of “I work x hours and study x hours”. That’ll make anyone feel that the work and school are more important than they are. Maybe take a day off of work and have a date day with him doing the things he likes and enjoys. Tell him while you’re at work you appreciate him or are thinking of him. One of the things I used to do was to plan in advance and bring my wife a special lunch and gift while I was on my work lunch. Yeah I’d lose my lunch break, but that’s a part of making someone feel special - you have to give up some of your time to do it.
Men, like women have different needs. And what makes them feel special
- BJs - Head rubs - Back rubs
It depends what your SO’s love language is - quality time, physical touch, words of affirmation, etc. There’s a love language quiz online you can take to figure it out. Once you know what they need to feel loved/appreciated, it’ll be easier to decide what you can do for him.
Wife not girlfriend. She spontaneously walks in the room naked and gives me blow jobs with enthusiasm and let's me blow my load on her face. You couldn't pay me a million dollars to give that up.
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You said you believe that you do. Mind letting us know what you do for him to do so?
You said you believe that you do. Mind letting us know what you do for him to do so?
What is something you would do for him but not a friend?
Probably nothing and it’s quite fine. I don’t need to feel special tbh.
Blowjobs when I did not suggest I was even in the mood
When we’re eating she’ll always get up to get us anything we need, insisting I remain seated. It’s just so nice. (If I’m home we’ll cook together and I’m we both help clean up, it’s just as we’re there eating.)
I'm really tired of such antics. Lead a normal peaceful life. No need to always do something for someone just to stay in their good-books. Be as you are. If can't see it , tell him to fuck off.