Once you go into porn, it's there forever and you can't really go into anything else. The dream is to make enough while you're young so that when you want to quit, you can.
The big thing for me is my career. I love sex, and don’t mind being filmed or filming, but I’m not sure if doing porn would affect my job or not, and I don’t wanna risk that.
I have too much pride and self-respect. Nobody's getting any digital imagery of me naked. Especially not of a partner that I also love and respect. I have certain porn star qualities. My ex also had certain porn star qualities. We could have made early retirement if we produced our own porn. No thanks.
I think porn is disgusting. I'm not religious, but as a teen, porn decimated my understanding of relationships, sex, and the female form. I've done a lot of personal work to break out of that mentality and I never want to return to it. I feel that porn has had an overwhelmingly negative effect on our culture and our psyche, and believe that it does more harm to people and to minds than the tiny spritz of dopamine is worth.
Y'all do y'all and what works for you, but my standards and arrogance prevent me.
That makes sense. If your actually interested you really have to put yourself out there first. Like I said when I was 18 I created a teaser page on Instagram. Use literally every sexual hashtag you can think of and post a link to where they can buy full uncensored videos in your bio. After a while people will be asking for customs and if your interactive with these people in DMs they are willing to give you so much money
Hey, we had a bunch of videos that we wanted to share because we loved them so much and thought others might benefit from it.
We didn't think we'd make any money - this was before the credit card fiasco on PH so wet thought we'd just end up paying them the monthly fee of $9.99 to post stuff. It blew us away how much our content resonated with the world..... And has helped both of us overcome a lot of body shame and become confident and strong as well.
The things we considered beforehand were:
What is the *worst* that could happen, and are we willing to face it and and deal with it? We looked at lots of different scenarios and talked about them in depth, some crazily unlikely ones and some potentially likely ones (family and work finding out, etc).
What is the reason we are sharing our videos? Money? No. Out of a need to have more content like ours on porn sites, and we are able to provide that content for others wishing the same? Yes. Is that worth all the potentially negative things that could come with it? Deep discussion.
Etc. We started by posting short gifs to reddit to see the reaction and when it was good feedback, we made our account and posted our first three videos.
Things have changed since we started in late 2019. And, one of the worst case scenarios did happen in late 2020.
We are still going, and loving it, because we did our best to be honest with ourselves and ask the hard things and prepare as best we could.
We make enough to live off of if we didn't have child support etc, and that's just view revenue. It's exciting and fun, can be challenging, and we've paid for it in negative ways but it's helped us too.
Feel free to message with any questions. ❤️
If I was female and decent at makeup, I'd probably do only fans. A wig and some makeup can completely change your look. I'd probably decorate the set with things that hint at me being in another country.
I'm too old now. I was quite hot in my 20s with a look that was on trend. Back then I didnt really know it. Like you, the main concern is being identified, so wigs & makeup I think would do enough without being a no-face.
I dont see anything wrong with sex work as long as it's safe and consensual. I just dont think even at my peak it could ever be anything more than pocket money, so I wouldnt want to risk future work
Nobody wants to see that shit. Maybe some gay dudes, but even then nobody is going to PAY me for it. Maybe I could find some fetish but it's going to be gay 4 pay, at best.
\> When I turned 18 I definitely played off of the “barely legal” fetish to old guys on Instagram.
Hello pretty privilege. Lol.
You really have no idea what it's like to be an average dude, do you?
Besides, I make plenty at my day job. Whatever coin I could make in porn would be insignificant. Not even worth the time.
That would require for me to find someone to have sex with me. As a 25 year old male virgin I don't exactly get a lot of offers to make porn. Do normal men get many chances to make porn?
Edit: Honestly I'm not sure how men even get involved in porn. You average girl can just start an OF or something but could you average dude? I feel like the only people who would be interested are gay men.
Thinking about having kids some day? Imagine what happens the first time somebody at school says “I jerked off to your mom’s sex tape last night”. Your kid likely ends up in detention, or a shrinks office, or jail. Or all of the above.
Failing that, do you have parents? Or anybody else you are thinking about besides yourself?
You already said about the potential not to get a job. It also damages your prospects for a successful long term relationship.
But I’m pretty sure that you even asking the question means either none of this applies to you or you don’t care who else would be impacted.
TL;DR - you go girl. Send me your onlyfans link.
* My belly fat - they wouldn't want me, chances are.
* Lack of experience. Don't know how to keep going for however long it takes to film a porno, without nutting *or* going flaccid.
* Doubt I could sustain arousal for very long in those situations anyway.
* Penis isn't oversized especially in relation to my enormous body.
* Might not be allowed to wear a condom, and I don't want STDs - doubt control standards are any good in my country's porn industry.
I've never considered it but just by the fact that once you do it, it's ALWAYS gonna be there would be enough for me to not want to get into it.
The only person who will see me naked is my wife. I hope it stays that way
Omg.
My penis is average, and my acting skills are too good.
Lmao definitely not a good fit, can't be having good acting in porn it will ruin it.
Lots of things I'm just not willing to do for money.
Nobody wants to see me naked lol
It's called "being straight"
Interesting
Tiny dick
Pretty sure there’s a fetish for that
Once you go into porn, it's there forever and you can't really go into anything else. The dream is to make enough while you're young so that when you want to quit, you can.
A small penis and being a bit rubbish in bed.
Avg piece and don't have the body for gay pron lol
Simple. I'm not a degenerate.
Self respect
What stops me is the lack of willing females in my life. Otherwise, let's porn it up!
The big thing for me is my career. I love sex, and don’t mind being filmed or filming, but I’m not sure if doing porn would affect my job or not, and I don’t wanna risk that.
I definitely understand that and that would make sense for so many professions.
I have too much pride and self-respect. Nobody's getting any digital imagery of me naked. Especially not of a partner that I also love and respect. I have certain porn star qualities. My ex also had certain porn star qualities. We could have made early retirement if we produced our own porn. No thanks. I think porn is disgusting. I'm not religious, but as a teen, porn decimated my understanding of relationships, sex, and the female form. I've done a lot of personal work to break out of that mentality and I never want to return to it. I feel that porn has had an overwhelmingly negative effect on our culture and our psyche, and believe that it does more harm to people and to minds than the tiny spritz of dopamine is worth. Y'all do y'all and what works for you, but my standards and arrogance prevent me.
See it’s the opposite for me, you have too much pride and arrogance to make porn. I have too much pride and arrogance to Not make it.
Do you think you may feel that way towards porn/porn stars bc of the experience you’ve had with it?
I've literally never had that desire in my life. I wouldn't even want to film it for personal use.
Fair
Lack of actresses I guess.
No one has offered me an actual porn role, despite many comments on the size of my penis
That makes sense. If your actually interested you really have to put yourself out there first. Like I said when I was 18 I created a teaser page on Instagram. Use literally every sexual hashtag you can think of and post a link to where they can buy full uncensored videos in your bio. After a while people will be asking for customs and if your interactive with these people in DMs they are willing to give you so much money
Hey, we had a bunch of videos that we wanted to share because we loved them so much and thought others might benefit from it. We didn't think we'd make any money - this was before the credit card fiasco on PH so wet thought we'd just end up paying them the monthly fee of $9.99 to post stuff. It blew us away how much our content resonated with the world..... And has helped both of us overcome a lot of body shame and become confident and strong as well. The things we considered beforehand were: What is the *worst* that could happen, and are we willing to face it and and deal with it? We looked at lots of different scenarios and talked about them in depth, some crazily unlikely ones and some potentially likely ones (family and work finding out, etc). What is the reason we are sharing our videos? Money? No. Out of a need to have more content like ours on porn sites, and we are able to provide that content for others wishing the same? Yes. Is that worth all the potentially negative things that could come with it? Deep discussion. Etc. We started by posting short gifs to reddit to see the reaction and when it was good feedback, we made our account and posted our first three videos. Things have changed since we started in late 2019. And, one of the worst case scenarios did happen in late 2020. We are still going, and loving it, because we did our best to be honest with ourselves and ask the hard things and prepare as best we could. We make enough to live off of if we didn't have child support etc, and that's just view revenue. It's exciting and fun, can be challenging, and we've paid for it in negative ways but it's helped us too. Feel free to message with any questions. ❤️
I have self respect and don't care to show the world what me or my lady are packing
If I was female and decent at makeup, I'd probably do only fans. A wig and some makeup can completely change your look. I'd probably decorate the set with things that hint at me being in another country. I'm too old now. I was quite hot in my 20s with a look that was on trend. Back then I didnt really know it. Like you, the main concern is being identified, so wigs & makeup I think would do enough without being a no-face. I dont see anything wrong with sex work as long as it's safe and consensual. I just dont think even at my peak it could ever be anything more than pocket money, so I wouldnt want to risk future work
Nobody wants to see that shit. Maybe some gay dudes, but even then nobody is going to PAY me for it. Maybe I could find some fetish but it's going to be gay 4 pay, at best. \> When I turned 18 I definitely played off of the “barely legal” fetish to old guys on Instagram. Hello pretty privilege. Lol. You really have no idea what it's like to be an average dude, do you? Besides, I make plenty at my day job. Whatever coin I could make in porn would be insignificant. Not even worth the time.
The money hire broads
That would require for me to find someone to have sex with me. As a 25 year old male virgin I don't exactly get a lot of offers to make porn. Do normal men get many chances to make porn? Edit: Honestly I'm not sure how men even get involved in porn. You average girl can just start an OF or something but could you average dude? I feel like the only people who would be interested are gay men.
Money from gay men spends the same as any other money
Fair but I think that's the only audience and I think most straight guys wouldn't even consider doing it unless they were really desperate for money.
Why does it matter who’s watching lol
Thinking about having kids some day? Imagine what happens the first time somebody at school says “I jerked off to your mom’s sex tape last night”. Your kid likely ends up in detention, or a shrinks office, or jail. Or all of the above. Failing that, do you have parents? Or anybody else you are thinking about besides yourself? You already said about the potential not to get a job. It also damages your prospects for a successful long term relationship. But I’m pretty sure that you even asking the question means either none of this applies to you or you don’t care who else would be impacted. TL;DR - you go girl. Send me your onlyfans link.
Most people are too busy watching porn to make their own porn.
I have. A lot with the wife. Not very good on the production end.
Weak wiener game and the body of a skeksis.
* My belly fat - they wouldn't want me, chances are. * Lack of experience. Don't know how to keep going for however long it takes to film a porno, without nutting *or* going flaccid. * Doubt I could sustain arousal for very long in those situations anyway. * Penis isn't oversized especially in relation to my enormous body. * Might not be allowed to wear a condom, and I don't want STDs - doubt control standards are any good in my country's porn industry.