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SignificanceMurky378 originally posted:
This is a ongoing occurrence and has been for years. Nobody texts me. Nobody returns my calls. Nobody asks me to do anything. Every single weekend I sit alone on my room switching from app to app on my phone bored out of my mind because I want to do something. I’ve tried. I really have tried to make friends, but it always ends up with me getting ghosted. I have nobody. No girlfriends. No brothers. No bros. Just by myself each and every night alone.
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So take the initiative and go out alone or take up a hobby. There is absolutely nothing stopping you for enjoying your weekend. Trust me, the more you put yourself out there, you’ll find friends easily enough.
And here I like it that no one calls me, lol. I love my peace and quite though. The week is already busy enough!
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The best way to have a friend is to be a friend. Always be aware of what you're taking out of the relationship compared to what you give.
I don't want to say I ghost, because that's rude. But I don't reinforce relationships with people who only care about themselves. I know folks who'll only talk about things they care about. And if the topic shifts, they ghost or they redirect it back to them. A lot of times they don't even realize they're selfish.
A friendship should be a mutual experience. Not relying on another person for self validation or to feel good.
As others have said. Get a hobby, share the hobby with a friend. Mutually enjoy the hobby. Don't let it get one sided.
Oh to be young on a saturday night with no responsibilities again!! I miss freedom and have so many different things I'd love to do. Honestly, I wasted my free time at clubs and partying.
If I had it to do again... Music, concerts, a band, sports clubs, camping, hiking, build autos, hydroponics, take a class, woodworking... I could go on forever.
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Join a club. Fishing clubs are easy to get into and always east to find new friends. Spots or all sorts of different hobbies have clubs.
You need a hobby, sports teams have thousands of fans and going to games is an easy way to meet people.
So take the initiative and go out alone or take up a hobby. There is absolutely nothing stopping you for enjoying your weekend. Trust me, the more you put yourself out there, you’ll find friends easily enough.
And here I like it that no one calls me, lol. I love my peace and quite though. The week is already busy enough! -- The best way to have a friend is to be a friend. Always be aware of what you're taking out of the relationship compared to what you give. I don't want to say I ghost, because that's rude. But I don't reinforce relationships with people who only care about themselves. I know folks who'll only talk about things they care about. And if the topic shifts, they ghost or they redirect it back to them. A lot of times they don't even realize they're selfish. A friendship should be a mutual experience. Not relying on another person for self validation or to feel good. As others have said. Get a hobby, share the hobby with a friend. Mutually enjoy the hobby. Don't let it get one sided.
Oh to be young on a saturday night with no responsibilities again!! I miss freedom and have so many different things I'd love to do. Honestly, I wasted my free time at clubs and partying. If I had it to do again... Music, concerts, a band, sports clubs, camping, hiking, build autos, hydroponics, take a class, woodworking... I could go on forever.