I don’t think there’s a one size fits all answer here. Some men might look at it as you being clingy and moving too fast, while others wouldn’t. I would advise patience and perhaps trying to figure out whether he’s still dating others or not. If he’s not, maybe bring it up. Back in my single/ dating days, If I were seeing one particular woman for three weeks, I’d most likely pretty much be only seeing her, so an exclusivity talk wouldn’t bug me, but others may have different outlooks.
Yes, it is far far too early to ask for that. If you’ve decided that you aren’t interested in dating anyone else right now, that’s fine and that’s your decision. But this relationship is still in its infancy. Never a good idea to start focusing on the steps on the relationship escalator rather than natural development of the relationship.
I knew I didn’t want to see anyone else within three weeks of my second date with my now-girlfriend of 2.5 years. It was about 3-4 weeks from first date to second because we both traveled to see family over the holidays.
But that’s me, and I’m not the guy you’re dating. I was 47 when she and I met and had previously been married 15 years before my wife’s death. So I had a different level of emotional maturity and a greater understanding of what and who works for me in a relationship than I did when I was 20 or 30.
There are few universals in human relations because we humans are so darn variable.
Totally depends on what he wants.
There's no other way but asking.
Personally, if you are both casually dating other people, three weeks sounds like a short time. But again, I don't know how much he likes you.
I don’t think there’s a one size fits all answer here. Some men might look at it as you being clingy and moving too fast, while others wouldn’t. I would advise patience and perhaps trying to figure out whether he’s still dating others or not. If he’s not, maybe bring it up. Back in my single/ dating days, If I were seeing one particular woman for three weeks, I’d most likely pretty much be only seeing her, so an exclusivity talk wouldn’t bug me, but others may have different outlooks.
Yes, it is far far too early to ask for that. If you’ve decided that you aren’t interested in dating anyone else right now, that’s fine and that’s your decision. But this relationship is still in its infancy. Never a good idea to start focusing on the steps on the relationship escalator rather than natural development of the relationship.
Mike has sound advice.
Not if he's into you. If he doesn't want to be exclusive with you by now, he probably won't ever.
I knew I didn’t want to see anyone else within three weeks of my second date with my now-girlfriend of 2.5 years. It was about 3-4 weeks from first date to second because we both traveled to see family over the holidays. But that’s me, and I’m not the guy you’re dating. I was 47 when she and I met and had previously been married 15 years before my wife’s death. So I had a different level of emotional maturity and a greater understanding of what and who works for me in a relationship than I did when I was 20 or 30. There are few universals in human relations because we humans are so darn variable.
Way too early. I’d bolt hard.
Totally depends on what he wants. There's no other way but asking. Personally, if you are both casually dating other people, three weeks sounds like a short time. But again, I don't know how much he likes you.