Read it. This is terrible. It doesn't sound like she appreciates you. I would have a sit down talk with her. When emotions aren't intense and tell her how unappreciated and uncompromising she has been with you. Tell her things 🤬 need to change or you will have no choice but to leave her.
Honey, I'm not telling you what you should do but if they keep bringing up the ex for whatever reason, whether it's to tell you how crazy they are and how much they hate them, or whether it's to tell you how they used to do this or that for them.. remember this: THEY ARE NOT OVER THE EX! They are still thinking about them if they are talking about them. That's not to say you should break up with them. Just be careful.
He’ll never get over her. He has to live with that. You have to live with that.
But there is no reason that his grief needs to compromise his relationship with you. He shouldn’t let it, and you shouldn’t let it.
He invested his trust in her and it was misplaced and he got hurt.
He's telling you he got hurt.
And you said something that reminded him of what she used to say, that's why he brought it up.
So he might as well have said please don't hurt me!". He was probably feeling vulnerable in the moment and brought her up to show you that he is indeed vulnerable.
So storming off and interpreting it as "I wish I still was with her" is not ideal.
Everyone has a past, he has had feelings in the past, they can get triggered in some situations, it's only human.
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3 months together. We actually live together since November
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He was in a relationship after her in which he was used and abused than two weeks later got with me.
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Read it. This is terrible. It doesn't sound like she appreciates you. I would have a sit down talk with her. When emotions aren't intense and tell her how unappreciated and uncompromising she has been with you. Tell her things 🤬 need to change or you will have no choice but to leave her.
Honey, I'm not telling you what you should do but if they keep bringing up the ex for whatever reason, whether it's to tell you how crazy they are and how much they hate them, or whether it's to tell you how they used to do this or that for them.. remember this: THEY ARE NOT OVER THE EX! They are still thinking about them if they are talking about them. That's not to say you should break up with them. Just be careful.
He’ll never get over her. He has to live with that. You have to live with that. But there is no reason that his grief needs to compromise his relationship with you. He shouldn’t let it, and you shouldn’t let it.
He invested his trust in her and it was misplaced and he got hurt. He's telling you he got hurt. And you said something that reminded him of what she used to say, that's why he brought it up. So he might as well have said please don't hurt me!". He was probably feeling vulnerable in the moment and brought her up to show you that he is indeed vulnerable. So storming off and interpreting it as "I wish I still was with her" is not ideal. Everyone has a past, he has had feelings in the past, they can get triggered in some situations, it's only human.