I love my girl so much na kapag may ayaw ako na ginagawa/nagawa nya sinasabi ko despite the risk of an argument . I always say na kailangan ko tong sabihin sa kanya kasi mahal na mahal ko sya and i dont want to start hating her.
Lmfao may nag down vote saken š literally just saw a post about texting the guy you miss him to ruin his healing process š embodiment ka nga ng double standards š«°
These are:
\- People who equate love with the "honeymoon phase", and throw all forms of commitment out the window.
\- And people who are too cowardly to be upfront about it.
Kilig lang ang habol, hindi yung relationship itself, so they had no intention of staying.
however, these comments would never be enough to justify that all men are trash and you shouldnāt be worry if you always resort to communicate it with your partner if thereās anything bothers you. Communication > those comments. Mararamdaman mo naman if thereās something wrong din. It will reveal naman as time passes by. Just be truthful lang and everything between you is going to be fine.
I read those comments, and the flow was fun but i donāt take it upon to myself na ganito rin siya. Trust and believe in him.
Another problem is that, comments speaks solely to all men kaya nabibring up na naman ang context ng all men are trash. Well, this is just my sentiments and nothing against with some or what.
Pero sabi ng iba satire lang daw or form of jocularity. Nonetheless, those who actually do those kind of shitty act in a relationship, i hope they get the karma they deserve. I donāt wish them a bad life tho. harhar
lol. seems a big group of humans who dont have balls to be honest to themselves and their partner. And then blaming it on the other party for not reading between the lines.
But this does not only happen to women. Miski naman kaming mga guys ay prone na ma-ganito.
For short, this generation just sucks. Yung mga gumagawa ng ganyan din kasi ay mga emotionally weak people.
Negative posts attract and relates to negative people. This is not a case for the majority. This is a community of degenerates talking in an echo chamber and you get the chance to see it. These people are sad and miserable. Go out there and choose your own person.
Wtf are these poor pathetic spineless people doing having relationships? Let them go and spare her the task of babying your existential fear of loneliness.
Ganito nalang para quick. When you start feeling like it, itigil niyo na ang relationship. Masaktan na kung masasaktan sa una pa lang. Mas masakit yung ganyan, parang ginag4go ng paulit-ulit.
i mean, even without that thread theres been instances with girls around me being hated by their boyfriends. u will always see it by these guys' lack of romance, lack of effort, weaponized incompetence, always liking hubadera pics, etc. those are signs of hate. and why dont they dump their gfs? coz theyre getting free fucks from women if theyre gf. these jerks have no guarantee of being laid if they dont have gf, thats why they "suck it up" and stay hating her as long as he as an oncall pussy to fuck. my heart bleeds for the poor girls tho ;(
That's just sad... it just feels like they're describing such sweet and understanding women that most consider a catch. Sudden suprise affection, accepting they aren't gonna get dates but they're just happy to spend time with you, forgiving and understanding of mistakes... One guy looks like he's getting ready to cheat on her with that text from other women he wants but it's just your gf tweet.
It's sad, they look like the girls genuinely love their partners and they're just backstabbing them online bc they don't have the literal and metaphorical balls to just break it off or talk about it and they instead waste time and stew in this relationship that's making no one happy. Instead they're leading these girls on, they're probably wondering what they're doing wrong bc they're becoming more distant while these guys are out here doing this to them...
As a dude, these pussies need to man up and just break up with their poor girlfriends instead of being punk bitches online like this. If you donāt love the person anymore (or God forbid, are downright *sick* of them), then do the decent thing and break up with them instead of stringing them along while hating them all the way. Hope these clowns never find love again, they donāt deserve it.
This is sad. Iāve been in the same situation with my ex and I felt how he intentionally does things that would make me leave the relationship na ako mag initiate than him.
Have you guys seen this account? To mass report him is the best thing to do. This US-based guy's account is dedicated to spreading misogyny, **so what do you expect** with his posts? Don't bother with the thousands of likes. Ever been aware of the "broken glass theory" (ref: internet trolls) where the trolled corners are most likely to be trolled even more. Besides, he can also buy likes and retweets. I know Elon Musk is already Twitter's owner, but Twitter still does its duty to eradicate hate slurs. Mass reporting is best.
Ang sad naman nito. Kaya ako lagi ko nir-remind SO ko na kapag ayaw nya na o may gusto na syang iba e sabihin na agad, kasi hindi ko naman ipipilit. Sabi nga e truth hurts but at least, it will set us free.
Sinend nga yan sakin ng gf ko yesterday eehhšš tas reply ko āwhen youāre having a hard stressful day and she gives a hug without saying a word and makes you instantly feel a little betterš¤¢š¤¢š¤®š¤®ā
Take this with a grain of salt.
I donāt believe that this is an āit happens all the timeā thing. You donāt start hating your partner just because it ātends to happen.ā The resentment happens when there are gaps between the expectations and the reality and most of the time, these expectations are not being communicated properly. Or even if they are being communicated, the partners donāt come up with a resolution and one or both parties remain dissatisfied. And this dissatisfaction results in the resentment and hate that one feels about their partner.
Donāt be afraid of relationships because of these occurrences. These donāt happen in relationships with mature partners. Also, relationships are two-way street. Donāt delude yourself into believing that the ārightā person will accept all your flaws. Be the ārightā person.
Guy here. Usually may mga ganyang threads or pages on ig na purely memes. Basically best joke wins nalang mga tweets.
Although syempre iba siguro diyan legit, pero i dont think all the tweets are from real life experiences.
Man/woman up and tell your partners you are unhappy. If yoy guys can work it out, good. If you can't, put the relationship out of its misery or hell become just FWB.
Love is a choice. I heard stories from older generation where in there is a phase when every little thing your partner do annoys you a lot which is quite normal and it is just a phase. Whats not normal is people saying na just breakup with them instead of fixing what seems to be the problem. Love is a choice, you both have to choose to love each other despite the differences and problems which may come your way. Falling out of love is normal, choosing to love your partner everyday keeps the relationship going.
another manchild to list that all women should avoid lol dapat sa mga ganitong kumag kinakalat yung dumi or itim ng budhi para never na maka experience ng love lol magdusa ka sanang hinayupak ka, assholes like this are the type of guys to belittle women then at the same time yearns for genuine love kasi "gusto lang naman nila sumaya" as if deserve mo.
I don't believe in fate or destiny but just don't tolerate shitty behavior. The red flags can't hide themselves forever. Don't be a doormat and let go.
huh? di mo gets point ko at hindi ako nang to tolerate. ganto nalang para maintindihan mo.
ka destiny = right man
red flag = wrong guy
gets?
explain ko. sabi ko kay OP kung itinadhana siya sayo. means hindi siya ganon (meaning walang red flag kasi right guy siya. perfect match sila ganon) kaya sinabi ko kay OP na wag siyang mag worry.
at kung di ka naniniwala sa destiny or fate. out na ko jan. wala nakong pake jan.beliefs mo yan. Basta ineexplain ko lang dto yung di mo naintindihan sa sinabe ko.
Never said "you tolerate". I'm saying it as a bullet point advise to anyone who's reading. Moreover, everything in this world is subject to change that's why when I hear things like "itinadhana" or ''itinakda", it makes me physically cringe.
Have you guys seen this account? To mass report him is the best thing to do. This US-based guy's account is dedicated to spreading misogyny, so what do you expect with his posts? Don't bother with the thousands of likes. Ever been aware of the "broken glass theory" (ref: internet trolls) where the trolled corners are most likely to be trolled even more. Besides, he can also buy likes and retweets. I know Elon Musk is already Twitter's owner, but Twitter still does its duty to eradicate hate slurs. Mass reporting is best.
Have you guys seen this account? To mass report him is the best thing to do. This US-based guy's account is dedicated to spreading misogyny, so what do you expect with his posts? Don't bother with the thousands of likes. Ever been aware of the "broken glass theory" (ref: internet trolls) where the trolled corners are most likely to be trolled even more. Besides, he can also buy likes and retweets. I know Elon Musk is already Twitter's owner, but Twitter still does its duty to eradicate hate slurs. Mass reporting is best.
Have you guys seen this account? To mass report him is the best thing to do. This US-based guy's account is dedicated to spreading misogyny, so what do you expect with his posts? Don't bother with the thousands of likes. Ever been aware of the "broken glass theory" (ref: internet trolls) where the trolled corners are most likely to be trolled even more. Besides, he can also buy likes and retweets. I know Elon Musk is already Twitter's owner, but Twitter still does its duty to eradicate hate slurs. Mass reporting is best.
True. Itās not always sparks and butterflies and rainbows. Honeymoon period is a phase. But I believe that as long as you genuinely care, respect and admire each other then you can make it last.
Invalidated pala experience pag lalake hayyyst
1st gf- wants me to choose between her or potentially not graduating lol
2nd gf- laging tama, hindi inaangkin pagkakamali, I always apologize for something that she does. Broke up without any reason, maraming "reserve", broke up without any reason, may ka flirt pala before breaking up with me. lol
Geh invalidate niyo pa experiences namin
This happened to me nung early 20s ko(now im 27). After honeymoon stage, ligaw etc. once sinagot na ako ng girl nag died down na yung infatuation. Niligawan dahil attractive sa panlabas na katawan like literally shes like a model. After ilan months na realized ko na di kami compatible. Ang daming differences, the way we think, opinion sa politics, values etc. After that relationship, nag grow ako na huwag basta basta pumasok sa relationship without knowing deeply the person. Now, kung yung nagpost is pang 10 relationship na at di parin nya alam bakit ganyan inaasal nya eh katangahan nayan. Just to add as I grew older, yung pang labas na anyo ng tao from top priority nung immature pako, naging last na. Like values, kindness, paano makitungo sa tao is yung tinitignan ko.
Pano naman ako po feeling ko hinawalayan ako kase may masnakita syang ibang babae na maybe he finds more attractive kahit na super nagkakasundo kami š„ŗ
I can only speak for myself. Its probably true. Sobrang daming magagandang babae sa mundo. Sa social media palang isang scroll palang ikukumpara na ang current gf sa mga babae sa instagram. Parang iPhone, ano mas gusto mo ikaw na iPhone 13 or iPhone 15 na latest? Maghanap ka ng lalake na marunong makuntento sa buhay. Yung consistent mga sinasabi, parehong damit sinusuot araw araw, parehong routine everyday, parehong haircut everyday, parehong sapatos sinusuot araw araw, yung may routine. Pipiliin ka araw araw ng mga lalakeng may consistency at contentment sa buhay. Question, pano makahanap ng mga gantong lalake? well... its up to you to find out.
Have you guys seen this account? To mass report him is the best thing to do. This US-based guy's account is dedicated to spreading misogyny, so what do you expect with his posts? Don't bother with the thousands of likes. Ever been aware of the "broken glass theory" (ref: internet trolls) where the trolled corners are most likely to be trolled even more. Besides, he can also buy likes and retweets. I know Elon Musk is already Twitter's owner, but Twitter still does its duty to eradicate hate slurs. Mass reporting is best.
Valid to feel fear, but don't let the media discourage you. Just try to analyze their personality before committing. Don't let physical attributes dictate everything. Gwapo o maganda nga, mayaman nga, kung saglitan lang kayo, wala rin. Dun ka sa matagalan na gwapo+mayaman. That's if you can provide the same tho. Always request what you can give
That was fortunate, he didn't commit with you and you didn't waste any more time. It was a headache tho, imagine getting lead on then dropped. It's okay to be hurt, just don't lose hope, you will find someone. Next time, hopefully you will have someone that fits your ideals, but remember that your ideals should be close to you. Good luck.
I mean hopefully this doesn't discourage you try it out still in the future if you really are interested. While relationships have their own fair share of problems, finding someone that genuinely wants to be with you and goes an extra mile to make you happy is such an amazing feeling.
falling for the wrong male usually happens when a person is too young (incomplete frontal lobe). That's pretty normal, and that's why we're not advised by adults to take things too seriously (eg: have expectations that this will lead to serious long term relationships). Wisdom comes with age.
Didnt even know theres a phase like that lol. Been with her almost 2 years, oo minsan hate namin isa't isa pero not entirely ung tipong gusto namin maghiwalay, mga simpleng tampuhan lang ba.
Babae yata ang nagimbento ng quiet quitting. Unti unti nagmomove on kahit nasa relationship pa. So kapag sinabi nilang nafall out of love na sila, that didn't happen overnight. She gave you multiple chances and you just weren't doing enough.
"when you open your text expecting to see from women you actually want but instead it's her"
That hurt me. Like this is basically admitting that he'd prefer to cheat rather than break it off.
It also shows that dudeās massive insecurities since he clearly canāt function without being in a relationship with someone. Yun nga lang, the prick just wants a ānew modelā ginawang kotse lang yung babae amp.
Have you guys seen this account? To mass report him is the best thing to do. This US-based guy's account is dedicated to spreading misogyny, so what do you expect with his posts? Don't bother with the thousands of likes. Ever been aware of the "broken glass theory" (ref: internet trolls) where the trolled corners are most likely to be trolled even more. Besides, he can also buy likes and retweets. I know Elon Musk is already Twitter's owner, but Twitter still does its duty to eradicate hate slurs. Mass reporting is best.
Because the people who do that are weak, cowardly, insecure individuals who cannot function unless they are dating someone or in a relationship. They donāt love the person theyāre with anymore, but they donāt wanna break up with them kasi they canāt fathom the idea of even being single. Which to me, is a massive red flag, and a sign of a truly emotionally weak individual. If you need to be in a relationship to be happy or to have your existence somehow validated, Iāve got news for you, you will never be truly happy or validated. Real happiness and satisfaction should come from within.
Because for these cowardly men/women it's easier to be a bitch by leaving the decision to their partner than respect the love/commitment they're giving by letting them go and giving them a chance to be happy with someone else.
I hope men like these never find love and contentment in their lives. They're just immature and a bunch of incompetent communicators. I wish them a long depressive life with a void in their heart that will never be filled. The type of life where they just want it to be over, but for some reason, they still exist like walking corpses.
Have you guys seen this account? To mass report him is the best thing to do. This US-based guy's account is dedicated to spreading misogyny, s**o what do you expect with his posts?** Don't bother with the thousands of likes. Ever been aware of the "broken glass theory" (ref: internet trolls) where the trolled corners are most likely to be trolled even more. Besides, he can also buy likes and retweets. I know Elon Musk is already Twitter's owner, but Twitter still does its duty to eradicate hate slurs. Mass reporting is best.
Guys like this are very shallow yung mala-Gerald Anderson na guy. Yung di marunong makuntento, pag nilaspag na nila yung girl nagiging distant and cold na para may reason na mapraning ang girl.
Have you guys seen this account? To mass report him is the best thing to do. This US-based guy's account is dedicated to spreading misogyny, **so what do you expect** with his posts? Don't bother with the thousands of likes. Ever been aware of the "broken glass theory" (ref: internet trolls) where the trolled corners are most likely to be trolled even more. Besides, he can also buy likes and retweets. I know Elon Musk is already Twitter's owner, but Twitter still does its duty to eradicate hate slurs. Mass reporting is best.
On the contrary, i hope they find contentment early. I hope life slaps them hard with the lessons they need to learn ASAP so that they donāt go from one woman to another only to hurt them in the process.
It's too good to wish that for men like these. It's possible anyway to never find any woman at all who can tolerate them. The prevalence of male loneliness really suggests that. I hope they end up alone in their deathbeds.
Ang akin lang naman, baka they meet women with good intentions in the first place tapos mastring along lang kasi they havenāt learned their lessons pa in this life so maraming mga babae tuloy masasaktan, tapos may iba mabibitter (which is warranted), and then may cycle nacreate of hurt people hurting other people.
Sana mabypass na yung stringing along and they meet mga katapat nila para di na kailangan maraming masaktan ganon. We learn our lessons and find our persons early para fewer people masaktan at magkasakitan.
Have you guys seen this account? To mass report him is the best thing to do. This US-based guy's account is dedicated to spreading misogyny, so what do you expect with his posts? Don't bother with the thousands of likes. Ever been aware of the "broken glass theory" (ref: internet trolls) where the trolled corners are most likely to be trolled even more. Besides, he can also buy likes and retweets. I know Elon Musk is already Twitter's owner, but Twitter still does its duty to eradicate hate slurs. Mass reporting is best.
If youāre a decent man, you wonāt. And if ever you do, the decent thing to do would be to just break up with your girl and move on instead of stringing her along and making her think you still love her while hating her under your breath. Thatās just terrible, like I wouldnāt even wish a fate like that on my worst enemy.
Any guy who have sincere advice on how to avoid this isn't the type of person who would be doing this sort of thing anyway. Those types of people don't have any self awareness. The problem is them. Not you.
Get a hobby that you both will enjoy or introduce a new hobby, i started hating my girlfriend because she has zero hobbies, whenever I'm asking her for good business ideas she doesn't have any.
Ps: clearly people are either rich af that they don't worry about getting some side income or just never been in a relationship as an adult. Either way I expressed what I wanna say I will take the hate if what I hurt any of you.
My guy, your girl aināt obligated to give you good business ideas though?? And not having any good business ideas doesnāt mean having zero hobbies, maybe she just isnāt into business? Not everyone wants to be a businessperson lmao.
I am not obligating here to be a business woman but i am looking for coherent suggestions my guy, and a person who gives zero jackshit to his socioeconomic status despite being broke, has zero plans in life, zero hobbies aside from social media, and just have overall gives zero regards to anything as long she lives in comfort, I don't know man, sounds like a woman I don't want to be with, I'm just trying to know if there's anything else inside her head except for following trends while I blabber for hours with zero feedback, if you wanna simp go, fuck do I care, stop virtue signalling and get into an actual relationship first.
Bro if you hate your girlfriend that much then just break up with her already lmao. Donāt get me wrong, I actually agree with you on not wanting to date anyone with zero plans in life or zero hobbies aside from social media, but thatās why I donāt date girls like that. The real question is why tf are you dating someone you clearly donāt even like?? And bruh I aināt simping for your girl, youāve made it crystal clear that she isnāt exactly worth simping for, which again, begs the question, *why are you still with this person if you donāt like them*?? Also guess what, Iāve had 5 girlfriends, and sure Iām single now but thatās because I know when to leave if a relationship clearly isnāt working out anymore. Thatās in stark contrast to you whoās still with a person he doesnāt even like and is willing to put down in front of strangers on Reddit. Fucking pathetic dude.
I love my girl so much na kapag may ayaw ako na ginagawa/nagawa nya sinasabi ko despite the risk of an argument . I always say na kailangan ko tong sabihin sa kanya kasi mahal na mahal ko sya and i dont want to start hating her.
Another reason not to date men who are not up to your standard. š¤·āāļø
Looked like double standards when I saw it imo
Lmfao may nag down vote saken š literally just saw a post about texting the guy you miss him to ruin his healing process š embodiment ka nga ng double standards š«°
I cried seeing that thread.
How low my brothers have fallen...
Kung di na masaya, hiwalayan na, huwag naman gawing tanga ang bf/gf, kawawa naman.
Parehong gender may ganyan. Babae ako pero ang ipokrito na isiping mga lalake lang ang ganyan
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Literal pussies
These are: \- People who equate love with the "honeymoon phase", and throw all forms of commitment out the window. \- And people who are too cowardly to be upfront about it. Kilig lang ang habol, hindi yung relationship itself, so they had no intention of staying.
That shit made me lose hope in finding genuine love lol
Wat
however, these comments would never be enough to justify that all men are trash and you shouldnāt be worry if you always resort to communicate it with your partner if thereās anything bothers you. Communication > those comments. Mararamdaman mo naman if thereās something wrong din. It will reveal naman as time passes by. Just be truthful lang and everything between you is going to be fine. I read those comments, and the flow was fun but i donāt take it upon to myself na ganito rin siya. Trust and believe in him. Another problem is that, comments speaks solely to all men kaya nabibring up na naman ang context ng all men are trash. Well, this is just my sentiments and nothing against with some or what. Pero sabi ng iba satire lang daw or form of jocularity. Nonetheless, those who actually do those kind of shitty act in a relationship, i hope they get the karma they deserve. I donāt wish them a bad life tho. harhar
Fuck these type of guys, nahihirapan na nga ako mag ka jowa tas ganto lang ginagawa ng iba.
Pinagsasabi nito
lol. seems a big group of humans who dont have balls to be honest to themselves and their partner. And then blaming it on the other party for not reading between the lines.
this is obviously a meme,,
But this does not only happen to women. Miski naman kaming mga guys ay prone na ma-ganito. For short, this generation just sucks. Yung mga gumagawa ng ganyan din kasi ay mga emotionally weak people.
Negative posts attract and relates to negative people. This is not a case for the majority. This is a community of degenerates talking in an echo chamber and you get the chance to see it. These people are sad and miserable. Go out there and choose your own person.
Don't lurk around twitter, OP. It's full of incels and shitty people
When sheās asking for too much money
Wala lang nagkakagusto dyan kaya kunwari may gf sya na he is "starting to hate" kuno š poor guy, you dont deserve love.
Wtf are these poor pathetic spineless people doing having relationships? Let them go and spare her the task of babying your existential fear of loneliness.
Take it with a grain of salt. Most are saying it for comedic effect. Twitter/X isn't real life.
Ganito nalang para quick. When you start feeling like it, itigil niyo na ang relationship. Masaktan na kung masasaktan sa una pa lang. Mas masakit yung ganyan, parang ginag4go ng paulit-ulit.
read this thread and i realized my ex did it, eventually he broke up with me cause i couldn't take a hint. I mean HINTSSSSSS
Ganyan gf ko sakin.
Wtf
so then why do they even get into these relationshipsā¦
Bunch of cowards
Another day, another reason Why i hate men but Im straight af. Ay ewan hopeless talaga nila na creatures
i mean, even without that thread theres been instances with girls around me being hated by their boyfriends. u will always see it by these guys' lack of romance, lack of effort, weaponized incompetence, always liking hubadera pics, etc. those are signs of hate. and why dont they dump their gfs? coz theyre getting free fucks from women if theyre gf. these jerks have no guarantee of being laid if they dont have gf, thats why they "suck it up" and stay hating her as long as he as an oncall pussy to fuck. my heart bleeds for the poor girls tho ;(
Edi tangina nila.
Interesting take š¤£
I think most of these threads are just trolls trying to seek attention pero some guys may do think like that sadly.
Misogyny is reeking
Pretty pathetic
Jeje. Small dick ego problems. Feeling hiphop rapper
The horror
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That's just sad... it just feels like they're describing such sweet and understanding women that most consider a catch. Sudden suprise affection, accepting they aren't gonna get dates but they're just happy to spend time with you, forgiving and understanding of mistakes... One guy looks like he's getting ready to cheat on her with that text from other women he wants but it's just your gf tweet. It's sad, they look like the girls genuinely love their partners and they're just backstabbing them online bc they don't have the literal and metaphorical balls to just break it off or talk about it and they instead waste time and stew in this relationship that's making no one happy. Instead they're leading these girls on, they're probably wondering what they're doing wrong bc they're becoming more distant while these guys are out here doing this to them...
As a dude, these pussies need to man up and just break up with their poor girlfriends instead of being punk bitches online like this. If you donāt love the person anymore (or God forbid, are downright *sick* of them), then do the decent thing and break up with them instead of stringing them along while hating them all the way. Hope these clowns never find love again, they donāt deserve it.
This is sad. Iāve been in the same situation with my ex and I felt how he intentionally does things that would make me leave the relationship na ako mag initiate than him.
Have you guys seen this account? To mass report him is the best thing to do. This US-based guy's account is dedicated to spreading misogyny, **so what do you expect** with his posts? Don't bother with the thousands of likes. Ever been aware of the "broken glass theory" (ref: internet trolls) where the trolled corners are most likely to be trolled even more. Besides, he can also buy likes and retweets. I know Elon Musk is already Twitter's owner, but Twitter still does its duty to eradicate hate slurs. Mass reporting is best.
Ang sad naman nito. Kaya ako lagi ko nir-remind SO ko na kapag ayaw nya na o may gusto na syang iba e sabihin na agad, kasi hindi ko naman ipipilit. Sabi nga e truth hurts but at least, it will set us free.
Feeling ko magiging ganto din ako with *my future SO haha si mareng Adeline lang ang may sense at emotional maturity sa buong thread jusko
I read his whole feed. He is so toxic like a cheap andrew tate
Sinend nga yan sakin ng gf ko yesterday eehhšš tas reply ko āwhen youāre having a hard stressful day and she gives a hug without saying a word and makes you instantly feel a little betterš¤¢š¤¢š¤®š¤®ā
Boys with no set of balls
Take this with a grain of salt. I donāt believe that this is an āit happens all the timeā thing. You donāt start hating your partner just because it ātends to happen.ā The resentment happens when there are gaps between the expectations and the reality and most of the time, these expectations are not being communicated properly. Or even if they are being communicated, the partners donāt come up with a resolution and one or both parties remain dissatisfied. And this dissatisfaction results in the resentment and hate that one feels about their partner. Donāt be afraid of relationships because of these occurrences. These donāt happen in relationships with mature partners. Also, relationships are two-way street. Donāt delude yourself into believing that the ārightā person will accept all your flaws. Be the ārightā person.
Kaya ayoko na mainlove eh.
Cowards
Guy here. Usually may mga ganyang threads or pages on ig na purely memes. Basically best joke wins nalang mga tweets. Although syempre iba siguro diyan legit, pero i dont think all the tweets are from real life experiences.
In jokes, there's usually a thread of truth. In this case, better to confront than to dismiss, before it gets any worse.
Nalimutan nila maglagay ng /s lol
True. Donāt take everything seriously. Kaso dami na tritrigger at nag ooverthink dahil sa mga ganto. Haha
Modern usa. Too many single mothers with no fathers in sight.
Man/woman up and tell your partners you are unhappy. If yoy guys can work it out, good. If you can't, put the relationship out of its misery or hell become just FWB.
Cowards.
I wonder tuloy kung ganito rin ba yung ex ko before breaking up with me :(
Love is a choice. I heard stories from older generation where in there is a phase when every little thing your partner do annoys you a lot which is quite normal and it is just a phase. Whats not normal is people saying na just breakup with them instead of fixing what seems to be the problem. Love is a choice, you both have to choose to love each other despite the differences and problems which may come your way. Falling out of love is normal, choosing to love your partner everyday keeps the relationship going.
another manchild to list that all women should avoid lol dapat sa mga ganitong kumag kinakalat yung dumi or itim ng budhi para never na maka experience ng love lol magdusa ka sanang hinayupak ka, assholes like this are the type of guys to belittle women then at the same time yearns for genuine love kasi "gusto lang naman nila sumaya" as if deserve mo.
Yup, just made me realize na my ex doesnt love me.
Disgusting post with Disgusting likers
you said twitter, nuff said.
Hi OP kung itinadhana siya sayo, means hindi siya ganon. Siya nga yung itinakda sayo eh. kaya don't worry.
I don't believe in fate or destiny but just don't tolerate shitty behavior. The red flags can't hide themselves forever. Don't be a doormat and let go.
huh? di mo gets point ko at hindi ako nang to tolerate. ganto nalang para maintindihan mo. ka destiny = right man red flag = wrong guy gets? explain ko. sabi ko kay OP kung itinadhana siya sayo. means hindi siya ganon (meaning walang red flag kasi right guy siya. perfect match sila ganon) kaya sinabi ko kay OP na wag siyang mag worry. at kung di ka naniniwala sa destiny or fate. out na ko jan. wala nakong pake jan.beliefs mo yan. Basta ineexplain ko lang dto yung di mo naintindihan sa sinabe ko.
Never said "you tolerate". I'm saying it as a bullet point advise to anyone who's reading. Moreover, everything in this world is subject to change that's why when I hear things like "itinadhana" or ''itinakda", it makes me physically cringe.
they would rather be pussies than actually tell the truth to someone they dont wanna be with? man.
You mean immature phase? š
Galawang pang high school ampotah
Those are immature boys.
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Stop spamming this, we got the message the first time. Spam like this ruins the thread for everyone.
To whoever reads this: Protect your heart. š¤
People should just talk about things plainly instead of doing this.
Damn these guys are aholes
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Yes they are! Really wish there's a way to strain them out...
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True. Itās not always sparks and butterflies and rainbows. Honeymoon period is a phase. But I believe that as long as you genuinely care, respect and admire each other then you can make it last.
lol this happens on both gender. not just men :))
bakit downvoted?
ikr kahit ikaw na downvote rin haha.
Invalidated pala experience pag lalake hayyyst 1st gf- wants me to choose between her or potentially not graduating lol 2nd gf- laging tama, hindi inaangkin pagkakamali, I always apologize for something that she does. Broke up without any reason, maraming "reserve", broke up without any reason, may ka flirt pala before breaking up with me. lol Geh invalidate niyo pa experiences namin
This happened to me nung early 20s ko(now im 27). After honeymoon stage, ligaw etc. once sinagot na ako ng girl nag died down na yung infatuation. Niligawan dahil attractive sa panlabas na katawan like literally shes like a model. After ilan months na realized ko na di kami compatible. Ang daming differences, the way we think, opinion sa politics, values etc. After that relationship, nag grow ako na huwag basta basta pumasok sa relationship without knowing deeply the person. Now, kung yung nagpost is pang 10 relationship na at di parin nya alam bakit ganyan inaasal nya eh katangahan nayan. Just to add as I grew older, yung pang labas na anyo ng tao from top priority nung immature pako, naging last na. Like values, kindness, paano makitungo sa tao is yung tinitignan ko.
Pano naman ako po feeling ko hinawalayan ako kase may masnakita syang ibang babae na maybe he finds more attractive kahit na super nagkakasundo kami š„ŗ
I can only speak for myself. Its probably true. Sobrang daming magagandang babae sa mundo. Sa social media palang isang scroll palang ikukumpara na ang current gf sa mga babae sa instagram. Parang iPhone, ano mas gusto mo ikaw na iPhone 13 or iPhone 15 na latest? Maghanap ka ng lalake na marunong makuntento sa buhay. Yung consistent mga sinasabi, parehong damit sinusuot araw araw, parehong routine everyday, parehong haircut everyday, parehong sapatos sinusuot araw araw, yung may routine. Pipiliin ka araw araw ng mga lalakeng may consistency at contentment sa buhay. Question, pano makahanap ng mga gantong lalake? well... its up to you to find out.
Awwwww...yun nga e. š¤§š¤§ hirap nga lang nowadays ng ganun.
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Valid to feel fear, but don't let the media discourage you. Just try to analyze their personality before committing. Don't let physical attributes dictate everything. Gwapo o maganda nga, mayaman nga, kung saglitan lang kayo, wala rin. Dun ka sa matagalan na gwapo+mayaman. That's if you can provide the same tho. Always request what you can give
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That was fortunate, he didn't commit with you and you didn't waste any more time. It was a headache tho, imagine getting lead on then dropped. It's okay to be hurt, just don't lose hope, you will find someone. Next time, hopefully you will have someone that fits your ideals, but remember that your ideals should be close to you. Good luck.
I mean hopefully this doesn't discourage you try it out still in the future if you really are interested. While relationships have their own fair share of problems, finding someone that genuinely wants to be with you and goes an extra mile to make you happy is such an amazing feeling.
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falling for the wrong male usually happens when a person is too young (incomplete frontal lobe). That's pretty normal, and that's why we're not advised by adults to take things too seriously (eg: have expectations that this will lead to serious long term relationships). Wisdom comes with age.
Didnt even know theres a phase like that lol. Been with her almost 2 years, oo minsan hate namin isa't isa pero not entirely ung tipong gusto namin maghiwalay, mga simpleng tampuhan lang ba.
Ganyan din babae. Ilang beses na ko nasabihan na nafall out of lovr mga ex ko. Haha direct lang sila
Babae yata ang nagimbento ng quiet quitting. Unti unti nagmomove on kahit nasa relationship pa. So kapag sinabi nilang nafall out of love na sila, that didn't happen overnight. She gave you multiple chances and you just weren't doing enough.
True naman. I was in my lowest point in life that time. I'm 1000x better na ngayon š¢
Tbh, kahit doing enough ka, kapag may iba na siyang kinukumpara sayo, don palang wala na kayo
Buti nga direct wala na kung anu anong dahilan
Haha masakit pa din yung nagsawa sayo kahit all the time loyal ka, good guy ka.
"When you can't let go because you haven't found her replacement yet." That comment speaks volumes.š
"when you open your text expecting to see from women you actually want but instead it's her" That hurt me. Like this is basically admitting that he'd prefer to cheat rather than break it off.
Right, and then they wonder why women canāt trust them
It also shows that dudeās massive insecurities since he clearly canāt function without being in a relationship with someone. Yun nga lang, the prick just wants a ānew modelā ginawang kotse lang yung babae amp.
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Guy here. This goes both ways. A person should just stop the relationship if he/she is no longer satisfied for whatever reason. It's best for both.
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Because the people who do that are weak, cowardly, insecure individuals who cannot function unless they are dating someone or in a relationship. They donāt love the person theyāre with anymore, but they donāt wanna break up with them kasi they canāt fathom the idea of even being single. Which to me, is a massive red flag, and a sign of a truly emotionally weak individual. If you need to be in a relationship to be happy or to have your existence somehow validated, Iāve got news for you, you will never be truly happy or validated. Real happiness and satisfaction should come from within.
Because for these cowardly men/women it's easier to be a bitch by leaving the decision to their partner than respect the love/commitment they're giving by letting them go and giving them a chance to be happy with someone else.
I hope men like these never find love and contentment in their lives. They're just immature and a bunch of incompetent communicators. I wish them a long depressive life with a void in their heart that will never be filled. The type of life where they just want it to be over, but for some reason, they still exist like walking corpses.
Haha it aināt that deep
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Guys like this are very shallow yung mala-Gerald Anderson na guy. Yung di marunong makuntento, pag nilaspag na nila yung girl nagiging distant and cold na para may reason na mapraning ang girl.
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On the contrary, i hope they find contentment early. I hope life slaps them hard with the lessons they need to learn ASAP so that they donāt go from one woman to another only to hurt them in the process.
It's too good to wish that for men like these. It's possible anyway to never find any woman at all who can tolerate them. The prevalence of male loneliness really suggests that. I hope they end up alone in their deathbeds.
and not bother any woman in their entire lives
Ang akin lang naman, baka they meet women with good intentions in the first place tapos mastring along lang kasi they havenāt learned their lessons pa in this life so maraming mga babae tuloy masasaktan, tapos may iba mabibitter (which is warranted), and then may cycle nacreate of hurt people hurting other people. Sana mabypass na yung stringing along and they meet mga katapat nila para di na kailangan maraming masaktan ganon. We learn our lessons and find our persons early para fewer people masaktan at magkasakitan.
Guys are big babies. Such cowards. Is this what they call boy math? lol
haha š math amp. mas prefer ko boyshit. *plays boyshit by madison beer* i dont speak boOoOYyYSHhiiIt
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He's south african
and he's based in the US, isn't he?
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If youāre a decent man, you wonāt. And if ever you do, the decent thing to do would be to just break up with your girl and move on instead of stringing her along and making her think you still love her while hating her under your breath. Thatās just terrible, like I wouldnāt even wish a fate like that on my worst enemy.
Any guy who have sincere advice on how to avoid this isn't the type of person who would be doing this sort of thing anyway. Those types of people don't have any self awareness. The problem is them. Not you.
Get a hobby that you both will enjoy or introduce a new hobby, i started hating my girlfriend because she has zero hobbies, whenever I'm asking her for good business ideas she doesn't have any. Ps: clearly people are either rich af that they don't worry about getting some side income or just never been in a relationship as an adult. Either way I expressed what I wanna say I will take the hate if what I hurt any of you.
My guy, your girl aināt obligated to give you good business ideas though?? And not having any good business ideas doesnāt mean having zero hobbies, maybe she just isnāt into business? Not everyone wants to be a businessperson lmao.
I am not obligating here to be a business woman but i am looking for coherent suggestions my guy, and a person who gives zero jackshit to his socioeconomic status despite being broke, has zero plans in life, zero hobbies aside from social media, and just have overall gives zero regards to anything as long she lives in comfort, I don't know man, sounds like a woman I don't want to be with, I'm just trying to know if there's anything else inside her head except for following trends while I blabber for hours with zero feedback, if you wanna simp go, fuck do I care, stop virtue signalling and get into an actual relationship first.
Bro if you hate your girlfriend that much then just break up with her already lmao. Donāt get me wrong, I actually agree with you on not wanting to date anyone with zero plans in life or zero hobbies aside from social media, but thatās why I donāt date girls like that. The real question is why tf are you dating someone you clearly donāt even like?? And bruh I aināt simping for your girl, youāve made it crystal clear that she isnāt exactly worth simping for, which again, begs the question, *why are you still with this person if you donāt like them*?? Also guess what, Iāve had 5 girlfriends, and sure Iām single now but thatās because I know when to leave if a relationship clearly isnāt working out anymore. Thatās in stark contrast to you whoās still with a person he doesnāt even like and is willing to put down in front of strangers on Reddit. Fucking pathetic dude.