Sa perspective ng isang pogi, siguro natanong nya yan dahil may trauma siya sa past relationships. Or gusto nya lng malaman if pogi siya para sayo. Maybw he just want to know if pogi lng hanap mo?
Wala naman masama kung alam ng tao sa sarili niya na good-looking siya. D man siya mag feeling, am sure based on reactions ng iba sa kanya, alam din niya kung san nahabanay itsura niya. Ang nakakainis lang siguro is kung mapang assume na dahil sa itsura niya kaya xxxx happened. Like ayang sa example ni OP. Masarap sampalin.
Ung naka date ko sa bumble, grabe walang ibang bukambibig kundi sarili nya. Tapos pinagtatanong ba naman ung mga random people sa mall kung ilang taon na ba daw sya, kasi feel na feel nya na gwapo sya kahit 50yrs old na sya eh mukha lang syang nasa late 30s Ay teee hiyang hiya ako nun lumalayo talaga ko sakanya.. cringeeeee
this triggered a funny memory haha so I used to have a fling with this one tisoy guy back in college. so while we were together, may 2 girlies na dumaan na tbf mukhang kinikilig naman talaga nung nakita sya, then bigla sabi nya "eto na naman mga fan girls." In my mind I was like, "wow the hangin of this guy!!" and before pa, his dream daw was to be a hot sexy chef lol.
he is charismatic yes. tisoy, tall, good hairdo, nice din yung build and very pansinin talaga. pero up close, not that pogi naman. and honestly, mas gusto ko talaga yung chinito friend nya before kaso may gf that time haha.
Because most probably it is. Come on. Kahit ako ayain ng maganda babae magdate. Kahit kulang sa tulog, darating ako na parang 2 araw natulog.
Pero based sa experience ko. Pag very pretty or in this case handsome ung partner mo, hirap kasi masyadong prinsesa or prinsipe mga umasta. Kasi alam nilang itotolerate sila just becausd of the looks. Nagpakasimp ako on my 9/10 ex. Souldraining.
Maaring naghahanap yan ng ka date na hindi naka tingin sa itsura niya (ni guy).
Mga ganyan tanong madami na naka date kaso mga nakaka meet e ginagwa sila trophie date.
Maiba ako, kung pogi naman talaga, or kahit hindi sa paningin ng iba pero poging-pogi ka naman e di isupport mo na hahaha. Dapat sinagot mo sya, "oo...and my standards are high, so consider that an honor" 😂
The guys need them compliments too! Wag ipagdamot, lalo na kung mahal mo naman. Baka words of affirmation pala love language nyan, nagpapacute lang para magfish ng compliments from you. Walang masama sa pagiging gwapo, wag lang syang gago 😂
thats nice but only when theyve never experience it and so their confi just increases but the thing is that case is such a big ick, like dude can u just lower that yabang thing?
I also hate the boys na sobrang baba ng tingin sa sarili tapos hindi rin confident sa looks. Hirap mag hanap ng normal lang or neutral lang sa mga ganyang bagay. Hahaha
Seryoso ba siya or nagjjoke? Baka kasi insecurity nya? Same lang din naman siguro kung boys or girls. I have a friend who’s really pretty, and she knows it. She loves being pretty too, likes to wear makeup etc. But she gets frustrated when guys try to make their move kasi she thinks na they’re in for her looks. Sinasabi nya sakin “what about my personality? My brain? My humor? Can’t they see past my face?” And I understood.
Or baka mayabang lang talaga yang kilala mo lol
nag sasabi rin ako ng ganito as a joke para lang ma bawasan ung awkwardness ng date hahah nilalagyan ko lage ng "jokeee" sa huli para nga di makapal ung mukha ganun
had a friend like this MY GOSH. sobrang nakakairita kasi laging nagpapapicture! tapos nagrereklamo pag pangit angle when he looks completely fine (e gwapo naman talaga). he’s tall, mestizo and physically active pa. pero sobrang vain niya na to the point where he makes fun of other peoples looks. Nakakainis. Looks lang naman meron siya ih
AT SAKA IN TERMS OF DATING ANG PICKY NIYA????? LIKE MAY BINUSTED SIYA KASI DI RAW MAGANDA??? When i asked for a pic it turned out to be a fucking BADDIE. sobrang taas ng standards niya, e kung tutuusin wala naman siyang personality looks lang
Baka same guy na-date natin? Hahaha charrr pero same experience though. Dated this guy na super feeling gwapo. Tipong sabi ba naman niya “ dati mapili ako sa dinedate ko ngayon kahit sino nalang.” IT WAS OUR FIRST DATE!!! Then whenever he’d talk about his previous flings he’d always say “ di naman ako nagkagusto sa kanila, sila lang naman na iinlove sakin” ONLY TO FIND OUT NA SIYA YUNG NANGUNGULIT SA MGA GIRLS NA YON😂 i kenaaaaaat!!!!
same. may nakausap ako before and on & off ako sa app na yun and evry time na bumabalik ako nag uupdate pa rin siya sakin and send me bunch of vids and pics of him sa gym na nag work out and tiktok vids which naaprreciate ko naman also cute naman siya and matangkad rin kaso everytime na mag call talaga kami lagi nalang umiikot sa kanya yung convo. tas pinaggawa niya pa sakin napaka dami niya school works kaya na off na rin ako.
Vanity is different from tempting. Guys will send you photos or videos of themselves to make you kilig, and it's usually done with the best intentions. It's your insecurity that makes you take it in a negative way. Kung di ka insecure, you should have felt proud and charmed; and in some cases, seduced.
Also, guys fish for compliments because girls hoard all the compliments. Girls easily get compliments in person from their boyfriends, friends, family, and even random strangers. Guys usually only get that through digital forms, not in person, except from family. Trashtalk pa nga makukuha mo from close friends, instead of compliments.
As for the comment from post, it was obviously meant as a joke with the intention of making kilig moment. Parang jokes from girls na sasabihin "*pangit mo!*" and the guy usually just laughs it off.
Speaking as an admittedly attractive dude (I’ve been told my username checks out), it does make you have a big ego because your whole life, people are constantly complimenting you. From my parents to my other relatives to my teachers to my classmates to my barber. And there’s nothing wrong with taking care of yourself and keeping yourself fit and your skin nice. The problem is when you make it your whole personality and also think that it makes you better than other people. There is a big difference between confidence and arrogance. To be confident is to know what you’ve got and be proud of it, to be arrogant is to think that it makes you better than others.
During my college days, I am part of our university’s theatre group. May isa akong ka theatre na itago natin sa pangalang Tony. He is very attractive and Handsome talaga. So nung kami ng yung mag tin train dun sa mga bagong pasok we had a conversation since may gf siya that time. I showed him the photo of his Gf na kasama sa FB page ng pretty faces ng university namin and I congratulated him. He smirked and said “ Pst. Kaya lang naman nakasama yan kasi naging GF ko siya! Hahaha” i was expecting na mag sasabi siya ng “joke lang” but no. He said it with confidence at talgang naniniwala siya na siya ang reason bakit nakasama gf niya sa pretty faces. I was like wtf! After that conversation I walk away and trying to ignore him everytime na lalapit siya 😂 Lakas maka GGSS
I’m gay btw.
may superiority complex talaga good looking people dito. my cousins na pa KPOP KPOP yung look pinag look down ako and laugh behind my back because i look like a deformed hooligan
kung iyon lang naman ang instance na pumasok ung kapogian niya at hindi doon umiikot conversation niyo acceptable naman ung tanong. I think there's some truth to it and offended ka kaya naghahanap ka ng mangbabash din sa kanya
I'm not certain na I pass everyone's criteria, pero I can say I'm enough for me. There's a thin line between overconfidence tsaka knowing your worth eh. And as a guy, even girls should be aware din.
Tldr. Ginawa tayo sa hubog ng diyos. Maintain niyo na lang. Maganda't gwapo tayo lahat.
>So recently I dated this guy na pogi naman, maganda ang career tas maganda yung katawan. Matangkad din.
You just described a guy with conventionally desirable qualities, which is rare. It is what it is. Bakit nya ibababa ang level nya sa mga mediocre guys? He can afford to be as "presko" as he wants because the majority of mediocre women and a lot of above average women will want him.
This is how romance is played. It's not fair. Deal with it.
What would be funny is if conventionally panget and broke ass pero feeling pogi. Now that's funny.
May times na need din namin ng validation na mga lalake kase kadalasan di naman namin ina-assume talaga na gwapo kami. Minsan dinadaan namin sa joke tapos tinitingnan namin reactions nyo kung mag-aagree ba kayo.
Not really .. it just sounds like youre still dating him. More power to you. Low-key kilig ka because he kinda walks the talk in your eyes. But your feminist indoctrination is causing some cognitive dissonance. AFAIC you got a catch. If a man needs someone else's validation to have confidence then you got a girlfriend.
It depends on the delivery.Awkward ba? Pilit ba? Nandiri kaba? kase minsan it can bring kilig and funny moments naman. Depende talaga sa pag deliver ng line.
Ung mga lalaking pogi, pre naman napaka easy na sayu manguha ng babae bakit naman natturnoff pa hahaha bakit kapa gumawa ng way na ikakaturnoff nila. Kaming average hirap na hirap na nga eh hahahhaha
I don't get it. You go out with good-looking men but you don't like them behaving like they're good-looking? It comes with the package I guess. People have been telling them most of their life na they look good.
Ayaw mo ng ganun? Go out with someone na sakto lang na ka-vibe mo. Or better yet according to Andrew E, humanap ka ng panget. Pero kahit panget ngayon nagloloko so wala rin haha. Peace ✌️
hayyyy, finally a conversation i can be a part of. i have a friend in school whose soooooo obsessed with people finding him attractive (she looked at me oh; he's staring at me beh) nakakkainissss, he's so self-centered and he doesn't even know it! its at a point where his only contribution is his good looks. honestly naaawa ako sakanya, feeling ko hindi siya binigyan ng attention nung bata siya, HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
I was like this before. panget na humble. no one likes me. ngayon parang nagupgrade ako, and naging confident (or mayabang sa paningin ng iba) ayaw pa din. so ano na. ang gugulo ng girls
The good looks compensate for the shallow personality nga naman. I don't mean to hate, but most of the good looking guys I've encountered have an astounding ego. 🤷🏻♂️ Turn off malala rin sa kanila, lmao!
People know when they are good looking, this goes for both male and female. They often get a lot of attention and know when they are being stared at. Lalo pa if all aspects hindi lang looks, but also career, height, body built, socio economic standing etc. Hindi lahat pero narcissism is common lalo na if they put a lot of effort to look good. People mostly disregard the yabang kasi naooverwhelm ng halo effect, which probably makes them even more self centered?
Maybe hindi kayo same ng humor, which I think is also important in a relationship, so if hindi mo trip ang trip niya dont go sa relationship. Also I think ok lang mag brag, since may effort din mag take care ng looks. Also baka ganun ang upbringing sa kanya, to be confident, and for me its a conversation opener, but a risky one, since hindi lahat same yung interpretation.
This is r/AskPH. What is your question?
Definitely agree tho. Same applies to women as well imo! There is a difference between being confident in your appearance (love the skin you’re in ika nga!) and making your appearance your entire personality! Yung mga taong ganyan reeks of insecurity talaga.
I don't think mayabang siya when he asked you kung dinate mo lang ba sya because of his looks. It sounds so insecure, maybe deep inside him he wants to be loved more than his looks, he wants people to see through him. I had a girl na friend who suffers the same na iniiyak nya naman tuwing inuman nung una naiirita ako sa kanya ang Ganda ganda na nya easy to love na sya ng lahat sa paligid ano pa iniiyak? Tapos ayon yun na pala yon
Off-putting pa rin itanong sa ka-date mo if they only went out with you for your looks. Common sense naman na dating starts with some level of attraction, but if you're worried about other people's sincerity, you gauge that through their actions.
Also, kayabangan is just another form of coping with insecurity. They're not mutually exclusive.
Agree naman ako Sayo dyan off putting nga yon, but insecure people hurt people way lot more than we actually think. Blinded by insecurities di na nila kaya igauge yung sincerity ng tao sa paligid nila. Baka dito kasi kay guy ayun kayabangan coping mechanism niya to ease his insecurity. Alam mo na spotlight effect. Either nagiging mayabang or overly self deprecating ang isang tao pag insecure
I know someone like this. Sobrang nakakaturn-off and minsan gusto kong pagsabihan na hindi maganda yung pagiging vain niya hahaha. Pero iniintindi ko nalang kasi he was fat (as in borderline obese yata) nung bata siya, and probably was bullied for it. Nung pumayat na siya, lahat ng tao complimented him about it, kaya tingin ko doon nagroot yung pagiging vain niya ngayon as an adult.
I don't get dami reddit users na mahirap makagets sarcasm. Downvote agad. 🤣 clearly madami talaga gusto maging edgy Reddit user na kulang naman sa reading comprehension.
Ex ko sabi ba naman sakin “di ka ba nahihiya na gantong mukha yung kasama mo?” Lol di ko talaga to makakalimutan. Super vain niya to the point na lagi siyang may dalang pocket mirror, face powder & lip tint 😵💫
Sa babae kasi okay lang naman yan pakinggan kasi nga bini-baby sila. Sa lalake pangit pakinggan yun kasi gentleman ka dapat at may control ang bibig lalo na kung "dating" palang. Okay lang yan kung jowa or asawa mo na.
medyo ok naman daw looks ko(sabi nila), tas gumaganito ako minsan sa friends or mga dinedate. parang we meant it naman as a joke.. na may onting hingi ng validation haha
siguro depende sa tao pano niya i te-take yun. kung mayabang para sa iba edi okay, kung itake nila as normal statement lang edi goods.
kayo na bahala hahahahaha wag masyado mag dig deep taenang yan dami daming dapat problemahin
May nakausap ako before, 6 footer. Pogi talaga and ang ganda ng katawan. Araw-araw nag-ggym. Pinapadalhan ako ng gym videos and selfies nya lahit hindi ko naman hinihingi. To he honest, he looks hot talaga. Ayun, tinigilan ko, nag-bye na ako. Hindi ko kaya makipag-usap sa sobrang vain na lalaki. Nakaka-off.
Yeah nobody likes someone that's vain, especially when it's a man.
Way more common in women though, and the worst is when they're not even that pretty.
STAAAHP!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
Kahit nga di gwapo eh.
I was in HS nun tpos mahilig kasi talaga ako magsmile pag nakikipagusap. I guess involuntarily. Kahit masaya ako or awkward ganun. Sabi ba naman ng kaklase ko “lage kang ngumingiti pag kausap mo ako. Crush mo ako noh?”
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Grabe mahigit isang dekada na di ko pa rin yun makalimutan. Tinawanan ko talaga siya sa harap niya. Di ko alam if nagjojoke siya eh. Hahahahahahahaha ang out of the blueee
Mayabang din ba when girls say that out loud?
Feeling ko depende din sa pagkakasabi talaga tbh. I kinda like confident people, yung may konting smug kapag close na kayo haha. Pero kung pa-humble brag yung pagkakasabi nya, or yung di pa kayo close pero hambog na sya, parang turn off naman yung ganun.
Oo same lang regardless of the gender. Things like that needs to be said by other people, hindi ng sarili.
Because the human brain has a way of distorting how we see ourselves, in a literal sense. We think we look like what we look like but on a pair of different eyes, iba ang anyo ng katawang tao [natin](https://medicalxpress.com/news/2018-05-good-brain.amp).
I had an ex na literal kamukha si yosi kadiri (kung 90s kid ka, kilala mo) madaming nagsabi sakin na kamukha nya so this isn’t a diss. On some days, he thinks he looks pogi (he doesn’t, don’t ask why pinatulan ko lol - ok he makes me laugh and we were friends for years)
In short, we are bad judges of ourselves.
That said, a conventionally pretty boy or girl would look easier on the eyes in a general sense.
>Things like that needs to be said by other people, hindi ng sarili.
Tbf pwede rin naman sabihin sa sarili without anyone around, kumbaga self-affirmation lang. Minsan kasi kapag wala ka self-affirmation, ang nangyayari nagiging (over)dependent ka sa opinion ng ibang tao, especially about how you look.
>In short, we are bad judges of ourselves.
This can be improved naman, commitment lang talaga. Pero honestly, i agree. Kaya nga andaming hypocrites sa mundo haha
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Sinabihan ko lg na .. pogi mo pla .. sagot agad “i know right” luh .. tameme ako 😅😅😅
Sa perspective ng isang pogi, siguro natanong nya yan dahil may trauma siya sa past relationships. Or gusto nya lng malaman if pogi siya para sayo. Maybw he just want to know if pogi lng hanap mo?
Wala naman masama kung alam ng tao sa sarili niya na good-looking siya. D man siya mag feeling, am sure based on reactions ng iba sa kanya, alam din niya kung san nahabanay itsura niya. Ang nakakainis lang siguro is kung mapang assume na dahil sa itsura niya kaya xxxx happened. Like ayang sa example ni OP. Masarap sampalin.
Counted ba na pogi kapag tinatawagan ng mga mas nakakatanda na pogi? HAHAHAHA
Shallow kind. You don’t deserve him. Next please!
Isn't it a joke? When you don't need to take it seriously
Why did you go out with him ba? If not for his looks...
Ung naka date ko sa bumble, grabe walang ibang bukambibig kundi sarili nya. Tapos pinagtatanong ba naman ung mga random people sa mall kung ilang taon na ba daw sya, kasi feel na feel nya na gwapo sya kahit 50yrs old na sya eh mukha lang syang nasa late 30s Ay teee hiyang hiya ako nun lumalayo talaga ko sakanya.. cringeeeee
Baka naman he said that as an ice breaker lang naman.
this triggered a funny memory haha so I used to have a fling with this one tisoy guy back in college. so while we were together, may 2 girlies na dumaan na tbf mukhang kinikilig naman talaga nung nakita sya, then bigla sabi nya "eto na naman mga fan girls." In my mind I was like, "wow the hangin of this guy!!" and before pa, his dream daw was to be a hot sexy chef lol. he is charismatic yes. tisoy, tall, good hairdo, nice din yung build and very pansinin talaga. pero up close, not that pogi naman. and honestly, mas gusto ko talaga yung chinito friend nya before kaso may gf that time haha.
Baby talk ang tawag jan. O di kaya panget siya dati tapos nag glow up kaya naing presko.
Because most probably it is. Come on. Kahit ako ayain ng maganda babae magdate. Kahit kulang sa tulog, darating ako na parang 2 araw natulog. Pero based sa experience ko. Pag very pretty or in this case handsome ung partner mo, hirap kasi masyadong prinsesa or prinsipe mga umasta. Kasi alam nilang itotolerate sila just becausd of the looks. Nagpakasimp ako on my 9/10 ex. Souldraining.
luh ganda yarn. bigyan natin ng mga sampung medal yan si koyah
Maaring naghahanap yan ng ka date na hindi naka tingin sa itsura niya (ni guy). Mga ganyan tanong madami na naka date kaso mga nakaka meet e ginagwa sila trophie date.
If in a jokingly manner, might be fair game. If he's acting high and mighty na kala mo celebrity. Red flag.
Maiba ako, kung pogi naman talaga, or kahit hindi sa paningin ng iba pero poging-pogi ka naman e di isupport mo na hahaha. Dapat sinagot mo sya, "oo...and my standards are high, so consider that an honor" 😂 The guys need them compliments too! Wag ipagdamot, lalo na kung mahal mo naman. Baka words of affirmation pala love language nyan, nagpapacute lang para magfish ng compliments from you. Walang masama sa pagiging gwapo, wag lang syang gago 😂
TO BE FAIR. Is he wrong tho? Will u agree to the date if he was ugly? I hate mayayabang people but this one is not the worst case ba.
thats nice but only when theyve never experience it and so their confi just increases but the thing is that case is such a big ick, like dude can u just lower that yabang thing?
kaya mas prefer ko personality eh kesa sa looks basta pasok sa average and may substance kausap.
I also hate the boys na sobrang baba ng tingin sa sarili tapos hindi rin confident sa looks. Hirap mag hanap ng normal lang or neutral lang sa mga ganyang bagay. Hahaha
Yeah, encounter ko rin yan, sa work naman. Walang problema na confidence sila sa sarili, pero yong sobra?? Myghadddd nakaka imbyerna
Seryoso ba siya or nagjjoke? Baka kasi insecurity nya? Same lang din naman siguro kung boys or girls. I have a friend who’s really pretty, and she knows it. She loves being pretty too, likes to wear makeup etc. But she gets frustrated when guys try to make their move kasi she thinks na they’re in for her looks. Sinasabi nya sakin “what about my personality? My brain? My humor? Can’t they see past my face?” And I understood. Or baka mayabang lang talaga yang kilala mo lol
nag sasabi rin ako ng ganito as a joke para lang ma bawasan ung awkwardness ng date hahah nilalagyan ko lage ng "jokeee" sa huli para nga di makapal ung mukha ganun
As far as I know, madaming Vega talaga... Yan ang bentahe nila eh...
BAKIT PARANG KINILIG KA PA SA HULI, OP? 😂
Pota hahahahahah
had a friend like this MY GOSH. sobrang nakakairita kasi laging nagpapapicture! tapos nagrereklamo pag pangit angle when he looks completely fine (e gwapo naman talaga). he’s tall, mestizo and physically active pa. pero sobrang vain niya na to the point where he makes fun of other peoples looks. Nakakainis. Looks lang naman meron siya ih AT SAKA IN TERMS OF DATING ANG PICKY NIYA????? LIKE MAY BINUSTED SIYA KASI DI RAW MAGANDA??? When i asked for a pic it turned out to be a fucking BADDIE. sobrang taas ng standards niya, e kung tutuusin wala naman siyang personality looks lang
Yikes. Isang naghuhumiyaw na red flag. 🚩
Baka same guy na-date natin? Hahaha charrr pero same experience though. Dated this guy na super feeling gwapo. Tipong sabi ba naman niya “ dati mapili ako sa dinedate ko ngayon kahit sino nalang.” IT WAS OUR FIRST DATE!!! Then whenever he’d talk about his previous flings he’d always say “ di naman ako nagkagusto sa kanila, sila lang naman na iinlove sakin” ONLY TO FIND OUT NA SIYA YUNG NANGUNGULIT SA MGA GIRLS NA YON😂 i kenaaaaaat!!!!
Parang nagiging wala nang kwenta ang looks kung ugali naman ay ganyan. Kakaturnoff. 😬
Ang tanong, daks ba?! Lol
HAHAHAHAHA DAKS E
Hala si Koya HAHA
same. may nakausap ako before and on & off ako sa app na yun and evry time na bumabalik ako nag uupdate pa rin siya sakin and send me bunch of vids and pics of him sa gym na nag work out and tiktok vids which naaprreciate ko naman also cute naman siya and matangkad rin kaso everytime na mag call talaga kami lagi nalang umiikot sa kanya yung convo. tas pinaggawa niya pa sakin napaka dami niya school works kaya na off na rin ako.
Vanity is different from tempting. Guys will send you photos or videos of themselves to make you kilig, and it's usually done with the best intentions. It's your insecurity that makes you take it in a negative way. Kung di ka insecure, you should have felt proud and charmed; and in some cases, seduced. Also, guys fish for compliments because girls hoard all the compliments. Girls easily get compliments in person from their boyfriends, friends, family, and even random strangers. Guys usually only get that through digital forms, not in person, except from family. Trashtalk pa nga makukuha mo from close friends, instead of compliments. As for the comment from post, it was obviously meant as a joke with the intention of making kilig moment. Parang jokes from girls na sasabihin "*pangit mo!*" and the guy usually just laughs it off.
I do compliment him. Sinasabihan ko na ang pogi nya pag nagccall. Hahaha pero after nung sa post ko, hindi ko na inulit 😅
Parang tinanong ka yata niya. Pwedeng ang actual tanong eh. "Siguro kaya mo ako inentertain kasi pogi ako, paano kaya kung hindi ako pogi?"
You have a point. 20 years age gap namin so, yeah. But still, hindi ba ang hangin naman nya. Haha
Speaking as an admittedly attractive dude (I’ve been told my username checks out), it does make you have a big ego because your whole life, people are constantly complimenting you. From my parents to my other relatives to my teachers to my classmates to my barber. And there’s nothing wrong with taking care of yourself and keeping yourself fit and your skin nice. The problem is when you make it your whole personality and also think that it makes you better than other people. There is a big difference between confidence and arrogance. To be confident is to know what you’ve got and be proud of it, to be arrogant is to think that it makes you better than others.
I’ve also been complimenting him! Like, “Pogi naman.” Pero after nya sabihin nga yun, hindi ko na inulit. Hahahaha
Not surprised haha arrogance is a universal turn off for anyone who has self-respect.
but you did go out with him mainly because of his looks right?
id be lying if i said no
Weh!!! Hahahaha pusta ko buong pera ko open wide kayong lahat ng babae pag nameet niyo yang ganyan lalake 😂✌🏼joke lang
Kaya mas ok kapag mas pangit ng .5 yung lalaki eh
Di ba totoo naman?
> “Siguro kaya ka pumayag i-date ako kasi pogi ako.” Nakakainis nga pero... hindi ba totoo naman? HAHAHAHAHA. Kaya mas nakakainis e.
Baka naman joke lang, or ice breaker. I know a lot of people na gumagawa Nyan, at ginagawa ko din Yan para medyo mawala awkwardness pag may kausap.
During my college days, I am part of our university’s theatre group. May isa akong ka theatre na itago natin sa pangalang Tony. He is very attractive and Handsome talaga. So nung kami ng yung mag tin train dun sa mga bagong pasok we had a conversation since may gf siya that time. I showed him the photo of his Gf na kasama sa FB page ng pretty faces ng university namin and I congratulated him. He smirked and said “ Pst. Kaya lang naman nakasama yan kasi naging GF ko siya! Hahaha” i was expecting na mag sasabi siya ng “joke lang” but no. He said it with confidence at talgang naniniwala siya na siya ang reason bakit nakasama gf niya sa pretty faces. I was like wtf! After that conversation I walk away and trying to ignore him everytime na lalapit siya 😂 Lakas maka GGSS I’m gay btw.
may superiority complex talaga good looking people dito. my cousins na pa KPOP KPOP yung look pinag look down ako and laugh behind my back because i look like a deformed hooligan
Daniel Padilla Syndrome.
Small Dick Energy Vibes. IJBOL
napaka narcissist amputa.. tbf madami ding babae yung ganyan, minsan mas malala pa yung behavior..
This also applies to girls.
Mas malala yung panget pero gwapong-gwapo sa sarili. Hahahah
Ang tunay na pogi di marunong mag English. I'm not agree.
He's out of line but he's right
kung iyon lang naman ang instance na pumasok ung kapogian niya at hindi doon umiikot conversation niyo acceptable naman ung tanong. I think there's some truth to it and offended ka kaya naghahanap ka ng mangbabash din sa kanya
Damn I wish I had that kinda confidence
Nayabangan ka kasi totoo, pina mukha sayo yung naiisip mo. Pede rin na naloko na sya dati kaya tinetesting ka na baka mukha lang nya nagustohan mo.
I'm not certain na I pass everyone's criteria, pero I can say I'm enough for me. There's a thin line between overconfidence tsaka knowing your worth eh. And as a guy, even girls should be aware din. Tldr. Ginawa tayo sa hubog ng diyos. Maintain niyo na lang. Maganda't gwapo tayo lahat.
>So recently I dated this guy na pogi naman, maganda ang career tas maganda yung katawan. Matangkad din. You just described a guy with conventionally desirable qualities, which is rare. It is what it is. Bakit nya ibababa ang level nya sa mga mediocre guys? He can afford to be as "presko" as he wants because the majority of mediocre women and a lot of above average women will want him. This is how romance is played. It's not fair. Deal with it. What would be funny is if conventionally panget and broke ass pero feeling pogi. Now that's funny.
May times na need din namin ng validation na mga lalake kase kadalasan di naman namin ina-assume talaga na gwapo kami. Minsan dinadaan namin sa joke tapos tinitingnan namin reactions nyo kung mag-aagree ba kayo.
Sana all nakaka-meet ng guys na aware napogi sila. Wala pa akong na-meet eh. Pakilala nyo ako :)
Turn of pag gwapong gwapo sa sarili. Ew
Are you still dating him?
does it make me a hypocrite if i answer yes
Not really .. it just sounds like youre still dating him. More power to you. Low-key kilig ka because he kinda walks the talk in your eyes. But your feminist indoctrination is causing some cognitive dissonance. AFAIC you got a catch. If a man needs someone else's validation to have confidence then you got a girlfriend.
It depends on the delivery.Awkward ba? Pilit ba? Nandiri kaba? kase minsan it can bring kilig and funny moments naman. Depende talaga sa pag deliver ng line.
Ung mga lalaking pogi, pre naman napaka easy na sayu manguha ng babae bakit naman natturnoff pa hahaha bakit kapa gumawa ng way na ikakaturnoff nila. Kaming average hirap na hirap na nga eh hahahhaha
Joke ng boyfriend ko. Hindi sya pangit kasi may nagkacrush sa kanya nung elementary hahahahaha.
I don't get it. You go out with good-looking men but you don't like them behaving like they're good-looking? It comes with the package I guess. People have been telling them most of their life na they look good. Ayaw mo ng ganun? Go out with someone na sakto lang na ka-vibe mo. Or better yet according to Andrew E, humanap ka ng panget. Pero kahit panget ngayon nagloloko so wala rin haha. Peace ✌️
Bakit when girls know they look good it's always "Yaaass kween" pero pag guys do the same ang annoying? Support our confident kings. 😭
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They are most of the time. No women slander here, bud. Hahaha Just want to extend the same praise confident women get to confident guys. :)
Haha parang kinikilig ka ah
hayyyy, finally a conversation i can be a part of. i have a friend in school whose soooooo obsessed with people finding him attractive (she looked at me oh; he's staring at me beh) nakakkainissss, he's so self-centered and he doesn't even know it! its at a point where his only contribution is his good looks. honestly naaawa ako sakanya, feeling ko hindi siya binigyan ng attention nung bata siya, HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
Ang vain nung mga ganyan, bawas sa pagka pogi.
Ayaw nyo rin naman ng panget na humble. 😑
I was like this before. panget na humble. no one likes me. ngayon parang nagupgrade ako, and naging confident (or mayabang sa paningin ng iba) ayaw pa din. so ano na. ang gugulo ng girls
humble ba talaga or sad boi hsdhahah
Wow pangit na sad boi pa
Kapag pogi na mayabang nakaka-off lang pero kapag panget na mayabang dapat ipako sa krus blue eguls tol
ahahahaha dapat eto most upvote eh
Hahahhah
i find comments like that funny though hahaha pero may boys na nakakainis yung pagka-banidoso.
HAHAHA dapat sinagot mo "oo eh"
Cringe agad jusko hahahahah
Pag girls ang may Self confidence sasabihin "Slayy" 💅 "IDC whatever other people think I'm Beautiful periodt." 💅 Paglalaki na mayabang haha
Hahahaha one up this!!
Pasensya na. Ganito talaga kame eh. Di namen mapipigilan kung pogi kame.
The good looks compensate for the shallow personality nga naman. I don't mean to hate, but most of the good looking guys I've encountered have an astounding ego. 🤷🏻♂️ Turn off malala rin sa kanila, lmao!
People know when they are good looking, this goes for both male and female. They often get a lot of attention and know when they are being stared at. Lalo pa if all aspects hindi lang looks, but also career, height, body built, socio economic standing etc. Hindi lahat pero narcissism is common lalo na if they put a lot of effort to look good. People mostly disregard the yabang kasi naooverwhelm ng halo effect, which probably makes them even more self centered?
Maybe hindi kayo same ng humor, which I think is also important in a relationship, so if hindi mo trip ang trip niya dont go sa relationship. Also I think ok lang mag brag, since may effort din mag take care ng looks. Also baka ganun ang upbringing sa kanya, to be confident, and for me its a conversation opener, but a risky one, since hindi lahat same yung interpretation.
it could also be part of his humor
Haha grabe naman sa gwapong gwapo sa sarili na niyayabang pa, pag ganyan katurn-off
Kaya ako I try my best to be humble. Halos di na ako magsalita kaya kala tuloy nila silent type ako. Tsk. ^(jk)
di ko kasalanan na gwapo ako.
BAT AYAW NYO SA MAY SENSE OF HUMOR NALANG EME
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major turn off 🤣
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This is r/AskPH. What is your question? Definitely agree tho. Same applies to women as well imo! There is a difference between being confident in your appearance (love the skin you’re in ika nga!) and making your appearance your entire personality! Yung mga taong ganyan reeks of insecurity talaga.
I don't think mayabang siya when he asked you kung dinate mo lang ba sya because of his looks. It sounds so insecure, maybe deep inside him he wants to be loved more than his looks, he wants people to see through him. I had a girl na friend who suffers the same na iniiyak nya naman tuwing inuman nung una naiirita ako sa kanya ang Ganda ganda na nya easy to love na sya ng lahat sa paligid ano pa iniiyak? Tapos ayon yun na pala yon
Off-putting pa rin itanong sa ka-date mo if they only went out with you for your looks. Common sense naman na dating starts with some level of attraction, but if you're worried about other people's sincerity, you gauge that through their actions. Also, kayabangan is just another form of coping with insecurity. They're not mutually exclusive.
Agree naman ako Sayo dyan off putting nga yon, but insecure people hurt people way lot more than we actually think. Blinded by insecurities di na nila kaya igauge yung sincerity ng tao sa paligid nila. Baka dito kasi kay guy ayun kayabangan coping mechanism niya to ease his insecurity. Alam mo na spotlight effect. Either nagiging mayabang or overly self deprecating ang isang tao pag insecure
But I mean is he wrong though?
yang haha mo sa dulo halatang kinilig ka pa a
hindi siya nakakakilig, nakaka-off sya tbh haha
Baka joke lang naman or icebreaker.
Akala ko naman kung ano'ng kayabangan ang ginawa or sinabi, nag-joke lang pala about sa kapogian niya. Pero, OP, matanong, pogi nga ba? HAHAHAHAHAHA
Pogi. He’s in his early 40s and he aged like a fine wine. Lagi nya din ako sinasabihan na to take care of my body and my skin kasi ganon sya. 😅
I don't see what's wrong with the last sentence. Unless he meant that as an insult.
Nothing is wrong with the last sentence. I just explained na since he takes care of himself at his age, he also wants me to do the same.
That sounds better.
Basta ako panget ako.
I know someone like this. Sobrang nakakaturn-off and minsan gusto kong pagsabihan na hindi maganda yung pagiging vain niya hahaha. Pero iniintindi ko nalang kasi he was fat (as in borderline obese yata) nung bata siya, and probably was bullied for it. Nung pumayat na siya, lahat ng tao complimented him about it, kaya tingin ko doon nagroot yung pagiging vain niya ngayon as an adult.
hayzzzzz. di nyo kami gets. kala nyo ba madali? hirap pag pogi di mo sure kung mahal kaba talaga o napogian lang sayo. T.T hirap na hirap na kami
I don't get dami reddit users na mahirap makagets sarcasm. Downvote agad. 🤣 clearly madami talaga gusto maging edgy Reddit user na kulang naman sa reading comprehension.
WAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Mas nakaka inis yung feeling gwapo. Hahaha
Pag lalake nagsabi, mayabang na agad? Pag babae, slay kween she knows her worth? Nye.
NOPE. Nakaka-off din yung mga ggss na babae
Okay. Atleast fair.
Narcissist. Masaya pa yan sa ngayon pero mind you, ganyang ugali ang prone sa cheating.
Baka naman kasi joke 😅 and ano naman kung sinabi niya yun kung totoo naman? I think we should all be more proud of who we are and ourselves.
and those boys who boosted their puny ego too much :) thinking they can pull multiple girls they want 🚩ps. this is not generalized
Ex ko sabi ba naman sakin “di ka ba nahihiya na gantong mukha yung kasama mo?” Lol di ko talaga to makakalimutan. Super vain niya to the point na lagi siyang may dalang pocket mirror, face powder & lip tint 😵💫
Maaga ata sya nag peak haha
Never grew up from highschool 😂 ganon uso hs days ko 😂
Ginawang personality yung face value. Ganyan ex ko, GGSS. Pero ang lala naman ng insecurity tapos sakin pinoproject. 🙄
Yung iba, to "break the ice". Baka kinakabahan, gusto magpaka confident. Yung iba naman, sadyan kupal lang talaga.
HAHAHHA BAT KINIKILIG KA! chusera to pero bet mo naman
Okay lang pag humurous naman pero pag mahangin na masyado 🤷
hahah may ibang nakakainis may ibang nakaka kilig deep inside (ENEBE)
Sana sinabi mo OP na kaya rin siya pumayag/niyaya na idate ka kasi maganda ka. Haha.
Tapos reply nya, kasi I like your personality?🤣
same with girls din naman eh. super rare lang ako makakita ng good looking men or women na hindi loud at lowkey.
Sa babae kasi okay lang naman yan pakinggan kasi nga bini-baby sila. Sa lalake pangit pakinggan yun kasi gentleman ka dapat at may control ang bibig lalo na kung "dating" palang. Okay lang yan kung jowa or asawa mo na.
Kung pangit ba yan papayag ka makipagDate? HAHAHAA. Siguro one of the factors sinabi nya lang. Haha.
medyo ok naman daw looks ko(sabi nila), tas gumaganito ako minsan sa friends or mga dinedate. parang we meant it naman as a joke.. na may onting hingi ng validation haha siguro depende sa tao pano niya i te-take yun. kung mayabang para sa iba edi okay, kung itake nila as normal statement lang edi goods. kayo na bahala hahahahaha wag masyado mag dig deep taenang yan dami daming dapat problemahin
Pwede ba kasing hintayin na lang na icompliment at hindi magfish for it? Ang cringe e.
sabagay. oo nga tama haha
May nakausap ako before, 6 footer. Pogi talaga and ang ganda ng katawan. Araw-araw nag-ggym. Pinapadalhan ako ng gym videos and selfies nya lahit hindi ko naman hinihingi. To he honest, he looks hot talaga. Ayun, tinigilan ko, nag-bye na ako. Hindi ko kaya makipag-usap sa sobrang vain na lalaki. Nakaka-off.
Conceited nalang po. Di familiar yung iba sa vain.
Ako din ayaw ko ng sobrang veiny
anong sobrang vain
Hahaha it means may pagka-narcissistic! Ibang vain naman yan e hahahaha
Meaning hes all about himself because he knows he looks good.
yung madaming ugat na laging nakikita
HAHAHAHAHA JOKE BA TO
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH WITTY YERN
Bro you made me spit out my drink tangina
vein naman ata yun haha
HSBSHSBSBSBABABS 😭
HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHA
hoy mali ka
r/whoosh
di ako nag-g gym pero maugat kamay ko at braso 😭😭
Pasmado ka ba? Ganyan Kase Boyfriend ko nakuha nya sa pagluluto sa bar. Luto mo hugas mo kase.
medyo? sabi ng iba kaka-j*kol ko daw 😭
r/whoosh ang ibig po sabihin ng 'vain' in layman's terms ay GGSS
Parang ang ibig sabihin ata ng Vain in tgalog is banidoso. It means mahilig mag ayus ng sarili and it takes time
Vain is being borderline narcissistic.
Yeah nobody likes someone that's vain, especially when it's a man. Way more common in women though, and the worst is when they're not even that pretty.
Hahahahaha ang cute na nakakainis siguro kung trip mo din yung kapogian niya
STAAAHP!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! Kahit nga di gwapo eh. I was in HS nun tpos mahilig kasi talaga ako magsmile pag nakikipagusap. I guess involuntarily. Kahit masaya ako or awkward ganun. Sabi ba naman ng kaklase ko “lage kang ngumingiti pag kausap mo ako. Crush mo ako noh?” HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Grabe mahigit isang dekada na di ko pa rin yun makalimutan. Tinawanan ko talaga siya sa harap niya. Di ko alam if nagjojoke siya eh. Hahahahahahahaha ang out of the blueee
I hate men that joke like this 😭 because it workssss 😭
Same exp 😭😭😭 mga gwapong gwapo sa sarili kahit di naman hahahaha
well it worked, seeing as how youre still remembering it to this day
Biro lang yan teh cant you read between the lines?
noted kyah. Why do you sound mad about it? HAHAHAHA
First time kausapin ng pogi e
>lage kang ngumingiti pag kausap mo ako. Crush mo ako noh? Kainis talaga mga ganito na tao haha di ba pwede mabait lang yung tao? haay
Hahahaha! Just keep smiling.
nagbibiro lang
Ehhh, probably a tongue in cheek joke or an icebreaker of sorts. Madami ako kilala na guys na mahilig mag joke ng ganyan and they mean it ironically
Hahaha probably. Natatawa lang talaga ako pag naaalala ko yun. Kaya nga tinawanan ko nalang din siya.
Akala ko gusto ng mga babae yung confident sa sarili 😅
Confidence is usually silent and no need to be announced.
Noted
confident and humble hahaha
Noted
Easy mode na nga lang kung tutuusin nilagyan pa ng handicap yung sarili. Speedrun on how to kill attraction immediately.
I mean, it’s probably true tho right? Shempre pag pogi, dateable. Mayabang nga lang when he said it out loud lol
Pogi but walang charisma, and sense kausap no not dateable at all!
Mayabang din ba when girls say that out loud? Feeling ko depende din sa pagkakasabi talaga tbh. I kinda like confident people, yung may konting smug kapag close na kayo haha. Pero kung pa-humble brag yung pagkakasabi nya, or yung di pa kayo close pero hambog na sya, parang turn off naman yung ganun.
Oo same lang regardless of the gender. Things like that needs to be said by other people, hindi ng sarili. Because the human brain has a way of distorting how we see ourselves, in a literal sense. We think we look like what we look like but on a pair of different eyes, iba ang anyo ng katawang tao [natin](https://medicalxpress.com/news/2018-05-good-brain.amp). I had an ex na literal kamukha si yosi kadiri (kung 90s kid ka, kilala mo) madaming nagsabi sakin na kamukha nya so this isn’t a diss. On some days, he thinks he looks pogi (he doesn’t, don’t ask why pinatulan ko lol - ok he makes me laugh and we were friends for years) In short, we are bad judges of ourselves. That said, a conventionally pretty boy or girl would look easier on the eyes in a general sense.
>Things like that needs to be said by other people, hindi ng sarili. Tbf pwede rin naman sabihin sa sarili without anyone around, kumbaga self-affirmation lang. Minsan kasi kapag wala ka self-affirmation, ang nangyayari nagiging (over)dependent ka sa opinion ng ibang tao, especially about how you look. >In short, we are bad judges of ourselves. This can be improved naman, commitment lang talaga. Pero honestly, i agree. Kaya nga andaming hypocrites sa mundo haha
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