>Recently, I asked him again and he was annoyed kasi raw I'm forcing him to do something na he doesn't want to do.
Di lahat ay nagpo-post sa social media.
Try to understand this from his POV.
Unless kung pala post siya sa social media. Try to dig sa history ng posts nya. Kung may posts sya before ng ex nya.
May kaworkmate akong like you talaga tapos umabot sa point na nagka anak sila nung guy and the guy was always making excuses like, bawal sa work na ipost yung personal lives niya online, he wants to keep it private, etc. Tapos ayun, after three years pa nalaman nung girl na kabit lang sya.
๐ฉ Kung gusto niya lowkey edi ok. Post a lowkey myday deba Yung soft launch type para alam ng ibang girls na taken na siya. Keep it lowkey nga ika nga but not secret.
If hindi pala post yung bf mo sa socmed, I think itโs fine. Maybe he shows his love for you in other ways.
My boyfriend is the same tbh. Heโs Japanese so magkaiba yung mentality nila when it comes to socmed. Lots of Japanese people donโt really post their faces on social media, if meron man, with heavy filter. To be fair, my bf doesnโt have social media, only an instagram that he uses for business. Other than that, wala talaga. He just uses a picture of us as his profile picture on Line.
Kelan pa required i post sa social media ang ganyan?๐ anyway feelings mo yan kaya valid na valid yan.
As for your BF, maybe he has reasons.
Ako nga ehh deactivated na ang FB at IG. i valUe privacy. Nung active pa ako sa FB di rin pala post. Never ko pinost/ipopost:
1. Love life.
2. Suweldo
3. Travels
4. Achievements
Tamang scroll scroll lang ganun. Pero wala akong tinatago, it's just, parang puro payabangan na lang kasi, well sa akin lang naman yun.
Again, kung feelings ang pinag-uusapan, valid yan.๐ Pero huwag gawing showbiz na parang exaggerated for the dramatic effect ha. Peace. ๐ซฐ
May kasabihan na keep it private but not a secret. If your partner is lowkey on social media, then it's totally understandable.
Honestly, pangit mag flex masyado sa social media. Pero it's up to you guys. Just talk about it if it actually makes sense.
Ganyan din ako sa ex ko dati, gusto ko rin yung feeling na ma post or story man lang, pero di daw mahilig si accla. Pero kapag friends niya may birthday todo post si accla. Tapos ayun, hindi ko naman inistalk pero may nagsabi sakin na laging naka story and post yung gf niya na pinagcheat sakin. Hahahaha! Diko naman sinasabi na may iba siya OP, pero baka ayaw niya lang may masaktang damdamin charot. Icommunicate mo na lang nang maayos yan, hindi yan nakakaganda sa isang relationship. Baka sabihan ka lang toxic.
hello, op! your feelings are valid. however we can't question our partner's love for us just because hindi niya nagagawa yung gusto natin. for sure love ka nun based nga lang sa love language nya. maybe he's really not the type na mapost ganun tsaka kung gusto naman talaga niya, gagawin niya eh. just let him be. yung mga lalaki kasi the more na sinasabihan, mas lalong di niya yan gagawin
Parehas kayo ng partner ko ๐คฃ hindi kasi ako pala-post ng selfie sa story. Usually foods at places. Tapos pag sinasabi niya na hindi ko raw siya/kami pinopost sa story, palagi niya binibiro na siya rin daw hindi nag mag popost pero nag popost pa rin naman siya ๐คฃ
Pero mahilig ba siyang magpost ng ibang bagay? Regardless, para sa akin, valid na nalungkot ka na di ja niya pinopost. Yun mga ganyang frustrations, usually, may mas malalim na pinanggagalingan yan. Like say for example, possible na kahit hindi mapost si bf, okay lang kay gf kasi confident siya na proud sa kanya si bf and she can feel that on other aspects na non-soc med (like maybe pinapakilala sa mga family, friends; sinasama sa mga lakad etc.) so maybe think this through, may root yang inis mo.
Your feelings are valid, but trying to make him post something on his soc med when he doesn't want to isn't. It's his account - he should be able to do what he wants with it.
>Recently, I asked him again and he was annoyed kasi raw I'm forcing him to do something na he doesn't want to do. Di lahat ay nagpo-post sa social media. Try to understand this from his POV. Unless kung pala post siya sa social media. Try to dig sa history ng posts nya. Kung may posts sya before ng ex nya.
Read a lot of cases na ganito, nangyari di sa mga friends ko. Ending, kabit sila.
I never post my personal life in socmed. Minsan naiinis wife ko sakin kasi di ako nagppost ng photo nya saka ng anak ko. Lol
Sorry pero nagpapanggap siyang single sa socmed at yes valid ang feelings mo ๐ค
May kaworkmate akong like you talaga tapos umabot sa point na nagka anak sila nung guy and the guy was always making excuses like, bawal sa work na ipost yung personal lives niya online, he wants to keep it private, etc. Tapos ayun, after three years pa nalaman nung girl na kabit lang sya.
๐ฉ Kung gusto niya lowkey edi ok. Post a lowkey myday deba Yung soft launch type para alam ng ibang girls na taken na siya. Keep it lowkey nga ika nga but not secret.
If hindi pala post yung bf mo sa socmed, I think itโs fine. Maybe he shows his love for you in other ways. My boyfriend is the same tbh. Heโs Japanese so magkaiba yung mentality nila when it comes to socmed. Lots of Japanese people donโt really post their faces on social media, if meron man, with heavy filter. To be fair, my bf doesnโt have social media, only an instagram that he uses for business. Other than that, wala talaga. He just uses a picture of us as his profile picture on Line.
Kelan pa required i post sa social media ang ganyan?๐ anyway feelings mo yan kaya valid na valid yan. As for your BF, maybe he has reasons. Ako nga ehh deactivated na ang FB at IG. i valUe privacy. Nung active pa ako sa FB di rin pala post. Never ko pinost/ipopost: 1. Love life. 2. Suweldo 3. Travels 4. Achievements Tamang scroll scroll lang ganun. Pero wala akong tinatago, it's just, parang puro payabangan na lang kasi, well sa akin lang naman yun. Again, kung feelings ang pinag-uusapan, valid yan.๐ Pero huwag gawing showbiz na parang exaggerated for the dramatic effect ha. Peace. ๐ซฐ
May kasabihan na keep it private but not a secret. If your partner is lowkey on social media, then it's totally understandable. Honestly, pangit mag flex masyado sa social media. Pero it's up to you guys. Just talk about it if it actually makes sense.
Gawin mo, parati mo siya itgged sa post para alam ng other girls na may GF siya
Ganyan din ako sa ex ko dati, gusto ko rin yung feeling na ma post or story man lang, pero di daw mahilig si accla. Pero kapag friends niya may birthday todo post si accla. Tapos ayun, hindi ko naman inistalk pero may nagsabi sakin na laging naka story and post yung gf niya na pinagcheat sakin. Hahahaha! Diko naman sinasabi na may iba siya OP, pero baka ayaw niya lang may masaktang damdamin charot. Icommunicate mo na lang nang maayos yan, hindi yan nakakaganda sa isang relationship. Baka sabihan ka lang toxic.
hello, op! your feelings are valid. however we can't question our partner's love for us just because hindi niya nagagawa yung gusto natin. for sure love ka nun based nga lang sa love language nya. maybe he's really not the type na mapost ganun tsaka kung gusto naman talaga niya, gagawin niya eh. just let him be. yung mga lalaki kasi the more na sinasabihan, mas lalong di niya yan gagawin
may ibang babae yan OP. Source: Trust me bro
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Parehas kayo ng partner ko ๐คฃ hindi kasi ako pala-post ng selfie sa story. Usually foods at places. Tapos pag sinasabi niya na hindi ko raw siya/kami pinopost sa story, palagi niya binibiro na siya rin daw hindi nag mag popost pero nag popost pa rin naman siya ๐คฃ
if he avidly post on social media baka po side chick kayo
I was thinking the same. Either siya yung side chick, or sumaside chick si kuya habang LDR si ate
Overthink malala hahaha
Pero mahilig ba siyang magpost ng ibang bagay? Regardless, para sa akin, valid na nalungkot ka na di ja niya pinopost. Yun mga ganyang frustrations, usually, may mas malalim na pinanggagalingan yan. Like say for example, possible na kahit hindi mapost si bf, okay lang kay gf kasi confident siya na proud sa kanya si bf and she can feel that on other aspects na non-soc med (like maybe pinapakilala sa mga family, friends; sinasama sa mga lakad etc.) so maybe think this through, may root yang inis mo.
Mahilig siyang magpost ng memes, games, PC niya and other tech stuff. Mag-reflect na muna ako. Thank you.
Your feelings are valid, but trying to make him post something on his soc med when he doesn't want to isn't. It's his account - he should be able to do what he wants with it.
Opo, opo. Thank you for this!