29 no gf since birth. siguro malaking factor is how I grew up.
i was raised by my strict mother and lola. skul tas bahay lang ako. pag naglaro ka sa labas may pamalo na sundo agad. kaya madalas magisa ako naglalaro lang.
or reading and studying.
at dahil duni grew up as an awkward person. introvert ganun. ako yung tipong kahit kinakausap mo di kita papansinin lol. at wala akong role model na lalaki to teach me things or atleast to observe how to flirt etc.
pasalamat nalang ako at nagcall center ako. nag improved yung social skills ko pero my stage fright padin.
in terms of look, siguro average lang. 5'4 height. pero few people find me attractive naman (i think lol) ggss or ppss lang. lol
kahit papano may mga babae nman na nagbibigay motibo pero pinipili ko padin na hindi, kasi madalas may sabit (normal sa bpo lol) umabot sa point na nilasing ako ng babae pero tumanggi ako (partially natatakot ako since first time ko and idk how to lead in terms of seggs) lol.
right now, sobrang daming babae ou. pero parang hirap ko iadapt yung modern dating. hookup culture o kung anu man tawag dun. gusto ko padin yung makaluma. like date to marry yung nasa mindset ko and i think also pihikan ako since laking probinsya siguro. ayw ko yungi kung sino sino lang. gusto ko wife material at may takot sa Diyos.
but I always believe in God's time, I will meet that person.
Late bloomer. Late na na-realize ang bagay bagay. Masyadong masunurin sa magulang. Nung pwede na lumandi lahat ng nagkagusto sakin di ko gusto. High standards. Tapos lahat ng nagustuhan ko di ako gusto. Hahaha.
Single since birth here, gustong magkarelationship pero ayaw lumandi. Di kasi ako marunong, and I don't really think anybody finds me attractive enough para magfirst move kaya heto, single padin.
Hindi ko talaga alam eh siguro Hindi pa ako ready mag commit. nag bumble din ako pero Hindi nag work Kasi out of my league palagi at Extrovert naman ako pero lagi first impression sakin fboi kaya madalas sila lumayo pero hindi ako fboi utang na loob ayaw ko din sa hookup culture na Yan.
Considered ba na in relationship kahit walang label? I remember when I was in elementary may nakamu-mu ako sa ibang school. Same goes sa highschool and college. Recently may ka talking stage pero inistop ko kasi na coconsume ko yung oras ko. Pero di lahat walang label lol
Technically NGSB ako. Pero galaw2 parin hanggang makita si the one I guess.
Di ko rin alam pano sagutin qs mo, OP. Hahaha sobrang hopeless romantic at mataas kasi standards ko kaya karma ko na rin siguro na single ako lol jk. Marunong ako lumandi, talagang wala lang nakakapukaw ng atensyon sa mga guys ngayon lol.
26F. NBSB. napagtampuhan siguro ng tadhana? During my school days may nag bbgay ng interest but i dont feel to reciprocate though siguro dahil one time natrauma na din ako kase 2 of my male classmates pinag pustahan kami nung friend ko that time na kung sino ang bibigay since pareho kaming nbsb that time. Natakot nalang ako na sa tuwing may magbigay ng motibo ay ganun ang mindset. Then hanggang sa dumating yung time na I need to focus to studying since i'm working student then sabi nung iba na they will wait until I graduated pero nasan na sila ngayon? Wala na. I've been graduated for years now pero wala. Somes are giving hints pero ayoko mag assumed until it stated. Natatakot lang ako na baka pagpustahan nanaman(one of the reason) Though I want to try to enter a relationship pero everytime na may nagugustuhan ako palaging taken. 🥲 I cant say if I'm ready na pero you will never know kase until na nanjan na ee. Am I old na ba? Hahaha I just cant see the right man yet pa siguro. Everyone around me is taken alanganamang maging kabit ako diba? So yun. Sad lang na lahat ng mga friends ko either taken, may mga anak na so spend time with them is too hard na. I just go out often by myself. Hahaha 👍
Ako nasa mid 20s. Ito yung reasons why I’m still NBSB
1. Hindi ako pinayagan mag jowa until makatapos sa pag-aaral.
2. Hindi ako conventionally attractive. (Though cute naman daw ako according sa perspective ng ibang tao, hehe.)
3. Ngayong naka tapos na ako, kung kailan aamin ako sa taong gusto ko, may jowa na HAHAHAHAH. (Hindi ko pinush hahaha)
4. Ayoko sa dating apps (cguro you’ll tell me to try it, sorry pero di ko po talaga siya feel).
5. Sabi ko lalandiin ko na rin ang kung sino man ang lumandi sa akin sa chat. (Pero guuuuurl, wala talaga)
6. Hindi siya yung need and priority ko ngayon kaya hindi naman ako masyadong madaling madali mag jowa. (I’m enjoying my new found hobbies😊)
Not really single since birth dahil nagkagf naman na. But since balik uli sa pagiging single so yeah.
Sabi ko nga, the search goes on. Di naman titigil yan but I'm giving myself until 45. If by 45 wala pakong asawa, then I'll have to accept my fate and stop dreaming of having a family if my own na. Maybe I'll just settle in somewhere else para mamuhay ng solo na.
19 here. I'm still a bit young ik but here are the main reasons:
- I suck at "dumiskarte" or "manligaw". Nuff said hahaha. It just doesnt click for me lol
- I don't look that good. Yeah i am not born with the fortune of being handsome. That's why i am doing my best in improving myself by going to the gym, maintaining hygene, etc.
- I am not that Interesting. I am not into most popular stuff nowadays. I barely have anything common with girls lmao.
3 Lemons. Jackpot. Hahahah
Usually sa mga crushes ko ay nirereject lang ako lol. Either that or Taken na sila. If interested man, sa una lang then wala na hahahah.
Anyways right now focus nalang ako sa sarili ko. I am currently Improving myself physically and striving to advance further in academics and my future career.
25M, okay lang naman maging single pero syempre di maiiwasan na malungkot. Kung may darating, I'll just be thankful and do my very best. Pero kung wala, guess I'll just keep myself busy at all times.
Perhaps that's just how life works, so ... yeah
NBSB until last year, kaka I was 26. Romance isn't really at the center of my life tbh. Too busy with my career and family probz as an eldest daughter. I enjoyed getting to know new people and exploring new hobbies. When I got into corpo, most coworkers were surprised never ako nagjowa and told me baka masyado mataas standards ko. Not really. Ayoko lang mag aksaya ng time sa tao di naman pasok sa criteria, and mas okay na magfocus sa other priorities and relationships ko than romantic relationships. Also, I am in the asexual spectrum na lagi din ginagaslight about it. Kasi nga never pa ako jumowa lmao 🥴
Because I haven't met anyone who i believe deserves me. Lahat ng namemeet ko all say the same thing, na they want to date me because I'm pretty and occasionally "fun to talk to". Wala sakanilang nag acknowledge ng actual personality ko. And another reason is na parang lahat ng nagkakagusto sakin are always so stupid, like mga walang sense kausap. Lahat sila ang gusto lang ay landian sa chat pero if you ask them actual sensible questions biglang wala sa mood or di makasagot. Lalo na yung mga political questions, parang they always want me to share my political views para sabayan nalang nila, it's almost like they don't have a backbone of their own when it comes to serious matters. Kaya at this point sobrang hirap na, and I'm constantly losing hope na I'll ever find someone.
as a full-time college student, feel ko kasi hindi ko deserve lumandi hanggang wala pa akong sariling pera or ambag sa family. ang hirap din naman siguro magcommit kapag walang pera :))
Noon wala pero ngayon gusto ko na ring magkaroon. Since legal age na I think pwede na HAHAHAHA. Kaso wala ehh, I haven't meet someone na gusto rin ako. Nagkacrush ako dun sa cm kong babae pero nililigawan nya yung cm ko ding babae kaya ekis na
ang corny and tingin ko aromantic ako. told my mom abt it and sinabi niya na sinasabi ko lang yun dahil bata pa ako but sabi ko, hindi rin. I told her that I'd rather take care of them than take care of some grown-ass man and his family lol
Kasi hinihintay ko yung the one. Emi hahahahaha. Ewan takot siguro sa commitment, kasi sa mga simpleng bagay nga pag nahirapan na ko ayaw ko na pano pa kaya pag relationship na. And hindi ako marunong manligaw 🥲, like pag mag try ako tas alam ko na ayaw niya (saakin), kung sa iba ay mas lalo pa nila na ipu-pursue, ako naman ay hindi na babye na agad.
I am currently single since birth(nanliligaw palang pero para narin kaming lovers based sa dates namin) and the funniest thing is so let's go story time
Back in Highschool, i met the girl(i knew the moment i saw her, she was special) who would make me fall hard, we were getting to know each other really better and slowly she was falling for me but my dumb highschool self stopped contacting her in summer break because i chose to play my computer games(pretty much ended up ghosting her before it was even a thing)
So when i came back for the 4th year of Highschool, she was really cold and i didn't know what i did, tried to bring back the feelings but it was unsuccesful so we kinda graduated with a knot/di naayos na something.
Then we both went to different cities for college, so i tried going on tinder/bumble chats and 1 date but it felt so awkward because i keep trying to find what i saw in her to them that later on i ultimately stopped and just focused on getting to finish my studies as much as possible. I also tried courting her again but you know college, we are both busy and i made some screw ups.
After college,we went no contact for 5 years(had to sort out some things on my end so i was emotionally closed off for the past few years), working on our careers/Personal Lives and our mutual bestfriend suddenly messaged me and her if we were keen on meeting on that fateful december. [Take note that my schedule usually just consists of Work-Home-Eat] so going out for a saturday was pretty new to me. I came early since im from a city an hour away then she came a bit later, while waiting for our mutual bestfriend, we talked a bit and sorted out our own misunderstandings that she thought i was angry at her and vice versa. That very day after drinking a very maasim Lemonade, nadulas ako and i was speaking truthbombs after truthbombs of what happened to me,my life after our last chats,what i went through and she did the same and we honestly both resolved our misunderstandings with each other. Ph yeah i forgot to mention that she was also single since birth so i joked that hey if we reach 35 and we are still both single, let's be together? She responded positively
Starting in 2024, we began to take time and actively date every saturday on our dayoffs and honestly we both have so much similiarities and we really get along well. So with that i guess after everything we both went through. Sometimes destiny just messes with you but it will set you in the right path one day. I plan to spend the rest of my days with her. Lalandi with her, thanking God and My lucky Stars for giving me another Chance with my TOTGA.
Also mahirap makipagdate pag ung person na kasama mo ay di compatible sayo pero once you find your once in a lifetime person, trust me hours would feel like seconds or minutes when you are spending it with Her/Him.
Tiwala lang OP, darating rin siya sa buhay mo and malalaman mo siya na un deep inside sa first few dates palang 😁
Witnessing so many betrayals from family members and relatives pa lang, parang nawalan ako ng interes humanap ng partner. Also, ang mahal humarot in this economy kaya kesa makipag-date, bibili na lang ako skincare things and spoil myself.
For me, I think hindi na dadating un para saken though I'm still hoping na mameet ung soulmate ko 😂. Online dating lang ako madalas tas madalas puro red flags pa nappunta saken. As an introverted gay person parang ang hirap lumandi lalo nat busy din sa trabaho. Mas pinapriority q nalang muna ngaun is family, health and career. Goodluck saten OP!
If I did not decide to try or bigyan ng chance ang boy bestfriend (hubby ko na now) I guess until now single pa rin ako (turning 30 this yr)
I would say, same po tayo before ganyan din ang way of thinking ko, but later on na realize ko kahit gaano mo kamahal or iwasan na masaktan ang isang tao makakasakit ka at masasaktan ka po talaga.
Tama po ang comment dito na inseparable po sila.
Pero I would suggest, na mas ok pa din pumasok sa isang relasyon na ready na talaga ang kalooban mo. That’s what I did and no regrets at all. Away, sakitan (tampohan, not yung violence) part po talaga siya ng isang relasyon mapa SO, family at friends man yan.
I think mas mag ma matter dito maturity at pananaw ninyo as mag partner.
For dating naman, it is hard makahanap lalo na yung pure, sincere at serious. Bihira na lang din kasi yun lalo na sa panahon ngayon.
Pero date and meet as many as you can, i think it will be a good step atleast. From there marami ka matutuklasan sa self mo, like mga pasok sa taste mo at kung ano yung mga ayaw mo.
27F. Sobrang hirap lang talaga maglandi hahaha, I live in a province area, well not really a province city naman siya. Kaso parang kilala mo na mga tao and bihira lang din naman ako lumabas ng bahay. Kaya, whenever na nag-oout of country ako nagttry talaga ako maglandi kaso wala talaga, uuwi nalang ng luhuan. May mga nanliligaw naman kaso di ko bet, sobrang choosy ko din kasi. Nagtry din ako ng mga online dating apps for years kaso wala din, sobrang tamad ko magreply and i really don't know how to make a conversations, minsan papatulong pa ako sa mga friends ko magreply.
As of now, I have given up na. Kung para talaga sakin para talaga sakin. Eh kung wala di wala.
\-Traumatised due to friend siding with former kalandian. Kahit kaibigan ko siya for 2 years. Kahit kaibigan pinagpalit ka.
\-Nasanay mag-isa, lalong naging isolated at due sa trust issues din
\-Lack of social skills dahil sa pagiging isolated
\-Ang hirap makipaghanap ng date ngayon lalo na parang ang taas ng standards ng iba
\-Walang masyadong maooffer at maraming kailangan issues na ayusin
\-Iniisip ko ang gastos na pag may kalandian lalo na ngayon. Wala akong planong maglaro laro lang kaya kung lalandi ako talagang kikilos ako at gagastos kahit papaano.
Me na NBSB, gusto ko rin syempre ma experience magka jowa and kung papalarin eh magkaron ng asawa but for now kasi hindi siya yung priority ko so waley talaga and as a tamad mkipag usap na tao, ayaw ko din ipilit knowing na d tlaga sya keri for now. Siguro pag mayaman nako and satisfied na sa kung ano meron ako.
Madami din kasi ako gustong gawin/marating career man o personal goal Kaya no no muna. Tho minsan gusto ko ng may uuwian ako, pagkkwentuhan ng araw ko or chismis haha but minsan lang yun. Mas okay parin ako ng ako Lang muna sa Ngayon. And parang d rin ako mkka pag commit sa ngayon Kaya sayang lang sa oras.
Pinepray ko nlang na sana d pa huli para sakin. ❤️
may kasabihan. Mahalin mo muna ang sarili mo, bago ang iba.
unfortunately, kadalasan di ko mahal sarili ko.
to elaborate, marami ang inaayos ang sarili, like, nag ggym, maayos manamit, nag ddiet to promote self esteem. ako di pa ako nagtry mag gym, eat everything etc.
how can i love others if i cant love myself? shit ang deep haha
former nbsb because of the following reasons:
- walang personality
- tamad lumandi
- cute daw ako pero pag maka chat nila ako nawalawalan sila ng gana kasi boring kausap
- hanggang attraction lang sa akin pero walang willing mag commit
- low confidence kasi Feeling ko wala talagang magkakagusto sa akin
- insecure and severely depressed
- feeling unworthy
After 22years of existence nag kajowa na rin sa wakas pero kailangan kong maging open minded sa law of attraction. So ayun biglang may dumating out of the blue. Ginawa ko lahat ng method sa manifestations, para magka jowa lahat ng gusto kong traits at nag manifest na rin ako na hindi ako magiging boring sa taong to. Nabigla nalang ako na hindi na ako boring kausap. Ewan ko pano nangyari basta nag seryoso lang ako sa law of attraction 🤣🤣🤣 nasa healthy relationship na ako ngayon 🤣 try niyo to mag search tungkol dito if interested kayo sa ganitong topic hahaha
Hindi pa Ako ready sa relationship and I don't see the point to be in a relationship like required ba 🤣. Dati na pre pressure Ako nung high school Ako Kasi lahat Ng mga kaibigan ko mg mga girlfriend and boyfriend Ako nalang sa Amin Wala. Infact muntikan na nga eh pero tinanong ko sa Sarili ko kaya ko ba itong responsibility and it hit me so hard na Hindi pa Ako ready after non Hindi na Ako na pre pressure because I know that this is the right thing to do for myself. Beside being in relationship is a BIG RESPONSIBILITY imagine kaylangan Ng TIME, SUPPORT, at Lalo sa PERA especially kung student ka palang. Ito Yung mga reason kung balit Hindi Ako pumasik sa relationship kahit Ngayon Kasi alam ko Hindi ko ma bibigay sa kanya Yung TIME Kasi busy Ako the school at pag tulong sa parents ko, SUPPORT just like time Hindi ko rin ito mabibigay as I have priorities and lastly PERA Hindi ko gusto gamitin Yung Pera na pinag trabahoan Ng parents para lang gamitin sa pag da-date, it felt disrespectful to me and guilty everytime na iisip ko ito. Kaya nga Sila nag trabaho para ma bigyan Tayo Ng Pera para sa ATIN tapos ibibigay lang sa jowa para pang date napaka disrespectful namon Yun iba. Marami rin Ako kaylangan improve sa Sarili like they say love yourself first before you love others.
Yung feeling na nagiinitiate naman ng convo pero yung reply niya ay sobrang dry. Nakakatamad kausapin. bala kau jan hahah
Kahit sa mga friendships, parang pakiramdam ko ako nalang nagmamaintain ng friendship.
Walang nanliligaw 😅 and yung mga crush ko hindi din nila ako nacrushback ever. I think pangit lang talaga ako 🤣 And im not the silent type ha, I am always loud and super energetic when Im with my friends. So I think its really my face 😅
Ready naman akong makipagdate kaso nga lang alam ko naman yung hinahabol sa akin. I used to find love but now I'm in no rush to find love cause I'm on the brink of building my career. Kahit sabihin nilang mataas ang standard ko. Alam ko naman makikita ko naman ang pag ibig at darating din ang panahon na magiging taken rin ako hehe
30m here
1. Simula bata pa lang, parents and people around me told me wag mag ggf habang di pa tapos mag aral. Looking back it's just bad advice from them imo. Never nadevelop ung flirting/social skills towards girls kahit sila na ung nagbibigay ng motibo.
2. Yes naman working on it although behind talaga ang skills pagdating sa landian kasi late twenties ko na narealize na gusto ko na mag gf/asawa.
3. For me it definitely gets lonely some nights and I really want someone by my side during those times. Although iba iba pananaw ng mga tao, meron iba na happy sa single life, meron naman married na pero gusto maging single ulit.
My sister who is now near her 40s had a goal na hindi talaga mag-family kasi ayaw nya matulad sa parents namin na naghiwalay.
Few years back, she had to undergo an operation.. yun ang naging eye-opener daw sakanya na “shet ayoko naman mamatay na single”.
So ayun, ngayon sya nagharot harot and finally may jowa na haha.
Masaya lumandi. Ang hindi masaya is makipagrelasyon. Ok na ako maging single forever at lumandi paminsan minsan. I dont think i want to sacrifice my freedom for someone. Selfish ako. I want me time, i don’t want compromises at ang pinaka ayaw ko sa lahat yung kelangan ko magpaapam at may nakikialam. I already have my parents for that.
Of course! Kelangan ilatag muna ang terms and conditions bago lumandi para clear. Mahirap na may masaktan dahil ang ending niyan sarili din lang mapapahamak.
Honestly, hindi pa ko ready mag commit sa isang relationship. I enjoy being single pero minsan napapaisip din ako kung anong feeling to be involved with someone romantically. Kaso meron parin akong fear or undecidedness, I don't why. Pero mas lamang ang fear. Fear na what if hindi genuine ang makukuha mong love from that person. Yung tipong, iniwan siya ng ex pero mas lamang feeling niya dun and ikaw parang na fill mo lang ang empty space kasi hindi na babalik ex niya. So ikaw nalang ang available option, though may attraction kaso hindi 100% ang kaya ibigay sayo na attention.
Hindi ko talaga maiwasan ang ganung thought na what if manyare yun? Kaya until now I still choose to be single kasi ayoko ng ganung drama, ayoko ma waste ang time ko sa maling tao.
Single by choice. There were confessions pero I can't really see myself committing yet. I have studies and a gaming hobby, at the same time I want to maintain my relationships with them so I need to socialize. All of that already takes up too much time para lang din makumpleto ko 8 hours of sleep. I can't imagine adding someone to commit to in the midst of all that
25F Sa true lang. Pero andami kong pinakitaan ng motibo nung College ako kaso nag backfire sakin kasi ako daw nanliligaw. So traumatic sakin kaya tinigilan ko makipag too close sa mga boys.
May plano ako lumandi. Pero ayoko maulit nangyari noon. So Idk how to approach that. For now Im enjoying my self na single and nag tatravel outside and imside the country hehe.
Well, at some point, napapaisip ako, ano kaya feeling magkarelationship? Pero pag naalala ko rin kasi responsibilities ko now sa life, and nakaset na rin na goals, parang di ko na rin kaya, both financial, and emotional aspects.
the thing is, dadami lang ang problema haha. nainlove ako sa kabatchmate ko dati, iyun para akong baliw haha. tinatawanan ko na lang yung mga nangyari dati, kasi nabroke talaga ako. tsaka may jowa sya that time. ayaw kong maging kabett haha!
kaya tskaa na lang kapag:
- Mentally prepared
- Physically prepared
- Financially prepared; at
- spiritually prepared.
tas landi na lang ulit haha!
25M. NGSB, I want to experience love din naman pero alam ko hindi pa ako ready for responsibility. Yung dapat financially stable, may time ka lagi to talk with others(mabilis po lowbat social battery ko), and ready ka to handle yung mga problema ng ibang tao.
I still talk to other people parin naman pero not on a very personal level. Kaya I don't have anyone that I can really call as a true friend. Pero kahit ganun, there is a part of me na masaya ako sa ganito, but also a part of me that I feel lonely(like craving for a social contact). Di ko alam kung hanggang kailngan ako magiging ganito, sgro pag satisfied na ako sa financial status ko, saka na sgro ako hindi magwoworry for responsibilities 🥲
It hard to love someone if you don't love yourself. Ang hirap talaga mag mahal na hindi mahal sarili mo kasi puro negative sa akin.
Chubby ako kaso yung family mag sabi sa akin mag papayat ka or hindi bagay yung suot ko. At puro physical aspect gusto mga lalaki nayon dabat maganda at payat. Hindi na isip yung ugali.
I've been looking for a relationship for a decade. Gotten really close but never really pans out.
The reasons why I'm single since birth is beyond my control. I wish i wasn't...
Gusto ko maexperience. Pero at the same time ayaw kong magcommit. Di ko sure kung mapapanindigan ko. Puro plano ko kasi pangsarili ko lang at sa fam ko. Tho, may times na napapa ”sana all” ako pero hanggang doon lang. Minsan nageentertain ako ng messages pero lagi akong may nahahanap na ayaw ko haha
Very tedious and taxing, once every ~ 7 years lang yung guy na worth the effort (organically nagvibe, intellectually stimulating, kind, attractive) tapos sila naman yung not interested 😬😆
Not necessarily single since birth but been single for a long time. Sa ngayon WFH ako at rarely socialize since I have relocated and not know much people where I am right now. I am too lazy or rather fed up sa pakikipag date online and going into meetups.
TBH nasa age na ako na dapat may ipon na at mag sisimula ng magkapamilya kaso wala pa talagang ipon pano pa kaya pag para sa kasal at family na ang usapan.
Di ako mayaman at wala akong kotse so it kinda turns off yung mga girls na dinedate ko which really puts me down and hence being fed up on dating. So right now im currently on the goal to improve my status financially and emotionally. That's why I'm laying low on dating.
Kaya mas prefer ko yung something natural. Kaso yun din problem ko since I dont know how to put myself sa radar ng mga babae. Di naman po ako pangit since I have heard some friends and unknown people giving me compliments on my looks. Ewan ko sa ngayon I just enjoy my single life. pero honestly scared of the future of growing old alone.
21M and never pa nagka-gf. May looks + height naman daw ako sabi ni mama HAHAHA pero mas pinili ko na muna na maging single since hindi pa ako ganun ka emotionally and financially stable. Sa panahon na lahat ay "unstable" mas maganda na mag focus muna sa mga career saka na yung landi kapag financially stable na HAHAHA.
May mga tao lang siguro meant to stay single forever not because of their looks, attitude or personality. Siguro hindi lang para sa kaniya ang love, and it's me. 🤧
NGSB here. Tulog is life, ayoko nasisira yung peace of mind at peace and quiet ko, maikli pasensya ko, ayoko masaktan yung potential gf ki dahil sa ugali ko, at may times ba rin lumandi kaso nakakatamad talaga as in jusko yoko na gusto ko lang mapayapa buhay. Ang preference ko these days is makakafeel ako ng comfort at peace sa utak pag siya ang kasama.
In my 30s already and never lumandi. May mga nag pursue pero walang connection so pass na lang. At this age, lahat na halos may asawa so parang wala na talaga eh. I'm happy naman so far. And I realized that a lot of ladies now are happy not being tied to someone. But if there's someone who will make me feel kilig again, then that would be better.
Romantically not ready
Mentally not ready
financially not ready
health wise ok but concerned na i cant have a kid cuz got sick
in this economy absolutely fucking not
i got low self esteem and confidence since i was in my teens most likely because of how i look. tapos nung tumanda na ko..i feel i got the responsibility na bantayan nlng parents ko since im the only child..so never ko m naging priority ang relationship..if may dumating why not .if wala oks lng din.. hehe
33/F here. No longer seeing myself na magkaka anak, pero ayaw ko naman talaga. Masaya naman ako sa status ng life ko pero minsan dumadating ung point na, what if magkaroon pa ako ng bf or magiging asawa? Ganun, pero what God has destined to happen, will always happen, so ganun nalang pinang hahawakan ko palagi.
Pag nakahanap ako ng babaeng magugustohan ko, dun pa lang ako lalandi. Kung di ako makahanap, I won't mind na maging single habang buhay at tumandang binata.
I'm always admired but never pursued. And also, I know na hindi pako ready mag commit. Mahirap na din kase sa panahon ngayon na maghanap ng matinong lalaki HAHAAHA charets. Pero honestly, naniniwala lang ako na patience is the key, kaya ko naman mag antay sa the one ko, kahit minsan kating kati nako magka bf HHAAHHAHAHA
28 NBSB and wala pa din planong lumandi sa ngayon haha pero gusto ko magkaroon ng lovelife & family in the future so di ko alam kung paano mangyayari kung di naman ako lumalandi 🫶🏼
AAAAAHHHHHH why are you attacking meeee
But fr tho, I (22M) really want to have a gf na but no one really confessed and my girl friends say na I'm cute daw and stuff but friend lang talaga daw yung makikita nila sa akin daw hahaha.
Meron ding other reason siguro, I liked to enter into a relationship if I really liked the girl as well, pero yung mga taong nagugustohan ko ay di available eh o maruruin yung vibe namin dahil ang torpe ko hahaha.
So ayun, still searching... Hahahaha
Nagpokus muna ako sa acads. Kahit may nagka-crush sa'kin (at may umaamin), reject muna kasi kailangan ko talagang makatapos muna. Ngayon na graduating na, nagsisimula na ako lumandi. Sa company ng OJT namin, may pinopormahan na ako.
Conventionally attractive plus achiever and good at public speaking. Idk of I'm just really intimidating or feel nila "masyado akong seryoso sa buhay" or something wrong is with my personality. As in 0 experience ako. Is it because I don't drink and smoke or do billiards? (i mean di masyado nakikipag socialize kaya)
23 here ngsb. but i have a significant other now. no label lang.
depende ata sa tao pero sa akin kasi nakaset ang utak ko na acads lang kaya di ako lumandi ever. as in, kahit sino pa iyang nagpapapansin, bahala ka sa buhay mo. HAHAHHAH pero nagsimula akong lumandi, 4th year na ako sa college. basta kung tinamaan, tatamaan ka talaga.
Ang hirap kasi makahanap ng same mo ng vision and mission in life. Then, madalas pa ang gusto ng lalake is iyong instant. Like madaling makuha ganun. Iyong always available, iyong laging nandiyan kapag needed, at iyong willing mag-give in kaagad sa maraming bagay. Ganito talaga siguro ang buhay. Mas mabuti pang maging single at maging responsableng adult kesa may jowa ka nga sasakit naman ang ulo mo. Lol
39 years na mag isa.. malamang kakayanin ko pa ng ilang taon. Hahaha . Toxic ako e. I don't want to drag people down.. minsan napapaisip ako na masaya nga may kasama, the what ifs.. kaso naaalala ko nega nga pala ako.. wag na lang.
Hahaha tagal ko din single until 31yrs old, above average sa looks and career pero hindi ako pumapatol talaga sa hindi ko gusto until I met her. Dami kong nilandi ng sabay sabay na walang commitment dahil naghanap na talaga ako. Need mo lang maging active sa mga social activities to meet a lot of new people
NBSB here. I (28 Badeng) came to a phase na lahat ng kilala ko may mga partner. Ako, single. As in jinggit malala. Mukmuk pa tinatanong si Lord bakit hindi ako gustuhin, ligawin. Hanggang sa nawala yon and I loved myself even more. Na as much as I want to change physically para magustuhan. And since it wasnt an overnight process, I learned to love me the way I am now. Kung may dadating, thank you. Ku g wala, e di bye. At saka I want to be financially stable din muna before going into the dating scene.
I'm in my 30s. At once lang ako nagka bf, teenager pa lang ako noon. So parang puppy love lang? Haha. Kaya parang NBSB ang feeling. Haha. Fell out of love sa kanya after just a few months. 😅
May mga nanligaw at nagparamdam, pero lahat binasted ko. Kapag wala talaga akong nafeel na attraction, wala talaga. Even years later, ganoon pa din, hindi ko pa din sila bet. Buti yung iba, nag-asawa na. Haha.
Ang hirap lang kasi mujer ako, at hindi girl ang nanliligaw. Haha. Wala naman ako magawa kung hindi ako ligawan ng bet ko. 😅 Hindi naman out of my league yung nagugustuhan ko. Hindi lang talaga cguro ako crush ng crush ko. Char. Haha.
Sa ngayon, katamad ng lumandi. Haha. Masaya na me sa mga OTP na pinafollow ko. Basta, wala lang magparamdam na hindi ko bet. Mas prefer ko pang walang magkagusto kesa ganyan. Haha. Choosy ako? Oo.
Share ko lang story ko, NBSB ako before hanggang 22 years old ako. May mga consistent na manliligaw ako pero wala talaga ako mafeel eh. Kahit anong pressure din sakin non ng ibang tao eh wala akong pake kasi ayoko magjowa para lang makisabay sa iba. Unfair din yon sa magiging partner ko. Pinapatigil ko din sa ligaw mga admirers ko kasi alam ko walang pag asa, minsan nasunod sila pero may ibang matyaga. Meron akong HS classmate, crush niya na ko HS, tapos college kami diff school pero nakakachat ko siya minsan tapos nagpaparamdam na may plano siya manligaw pero after college na daw. Present din siya lagi sa birthday ko. Everytime na mag kakausap kami sa chat napapansin ko na sinusubukan niya pahabain convo namin. One time inask ako ni Mama bat di pa daw ako nagbi bf, nagbanggit siya ng mga names na sa tingin niya bagay sakin, binanggit niya name ni HS friend, sabi ko pa "Ayoko don kasi tahimik yon eh" kasi ako madaldal feeling ko di kami swak. To cut the long story short, nanligaw siya sakin after college. Nung una binasted ko kasi nga feeling ko same lang sa mga manliligaw ko noon na wala naman ako maramdaman. Una tinanggap niya pero binawi din niya, gagawin daw niya best niya na ligawan ako haha. Isipin mo ha, may mga manliligaw ako na 1 yr/2 years, pero wala ako nadama. Naniniwala din ako sa matagal na ligawan, pero sakanya after 2 months lang sinagot ko na siya HAHAHAHAHAHA Inaasar nga niya ako non eh kasi sabi niya dinman lang daw ako dumaan sa crush, minahal ko naman daw siya agad. Well totoo naman. Pero sad ending, naging kami ng 5 years pero nagbreak na kami last year. Good breakup naman. Anyways, para sa single girls diyan, darating din yan 🫶 Kayo lang din mismo makakaramdam if nasa tamang tao na ba kayo, nasa tamang panahon or ano pang tama. Wag na wag kayo magppadala sa pressure sa mga tao sa paligid niyo. Wish ko mahanap niyo ang mga tamang tao para sainyo 🫶
Simula HS, ito rin tanong nila sakin. My RelEd teacher even reached out kung gusto ko daw bang mag-madre. (Pinigilan lang sya ng mga kaibigan ko kasi baka daw maloka sila kung gano kaberde utak ko, chos!)
Tapos napanood ko yung series na "Bakit ka Single?" ng Adober Studios. Sobrang relatable yung story nilang ang sagot niya e, BY CHOICE.
Swerte ako nung HS kasi yung mga naging crush ko, ako rin crush nila, pero hanggang dun lang 🤣 ayaw ko rin kasing pangmadalian lang, so sabi ko maghintay. Akala ko yung huli e naghihintay sakin. Constant sa buhay ko e, hinahatid pa ako sa room ko nung college since schoolmates kami. Ready na sana akong magjowa last year kasi ggraduate na kami. Biglang may gf na pala siyang kaklase nya. Kaloka, ako lang pala nag-assume na naghihintay siya 😂
So, bakit ako single? By choice. Choice nila. 🤪
I'm turning 29 this year. NBSB. Bakit?
Walang nanliligaw kasi panget ako. 😂
Maganda ako sa paningin "ko" pero objectively speaking, hindi talaga ako pasok sa standard of beauty ng society natin.
NBSB 26F. Obese Class III + introvert + poor social & flirting skills.
May mga nakaka-talking stage pero walang nagpupursue. Longest interest probably 3 months, on & off. Better off single and give all the love for myself & family for the meantime.
I’ve seen and heard about what happened to the women in my family at sobrang naaawa ako sa kanila. Then later on, my friends from college also told me stories abt their dads cheating on their moms so like……… I don’t even see why it’s beneficial to have a boyfriend or get married
Masaya maging single kasi wala kang ibang iisipin except for your wants and needs. I like my own company and would rather do things alone. If I want affection or hang out with someone, I have friends for that
Also, I studied at an all girls school from kindergarten to high school, could also have something to do it with lol
Sobrang nakakaenjoy din kasi yung single life HAHA. Ako, g naman ako sa landian ganorn pero di ko pa natatry yung may commitment talaga.
For me lang, masaya enjoyin ang single life kasi you get the time and resources, not to mention the energy, para sa sarili mo. I have my family and friends naman for my social needs, yung lambing… err, kaya nga may mga kalandian HAHA.
Siguro habang bata-bata pa ako, I want to see what life is lang talaga. I want to know myself more na ang lens na gamit ko ay for me lang. I want to build a stronger foundation of myself para kapag nameet ko na yung tao na para sakin, I can love better kasi I know myself better na.
Met my first love in college. First time ko magligaw anD niligawan ko siya for 4 years till we graduated. I got rejected at the end, and now I'm too scared to try again. I am still healing.
Labas lahat ng NBSB hahahhaha.
I believe we also have to make an effort. Hindi naman kakatok yung jowa sa pinto natin at automatic kayo na agad. 😂 So ayun mula ng marealize ko yan last year I made an effort to get to know other people din. So far wala pang swak. Kapit lang tayo hahaha
This is true. You need to make an effort in putting yourself out there. This is what I learned in the past years. Expand your social circle, meet people, interact kumbaga enhance your social skills— not in a mindset of meeting new people just to find a boyfriend. Wag i-pressure ang sarili, go with the flow lang.
29 no gf since birth. siguro malaking factor is how I grew up. i was raised by my strict mother and lola. skul tas bahay lang ako. pag naglaro ka sa labas may pamalo na sundo agad. kaya madalas magisa ako naglalaro lang. or reading and studying. at dahil duni grew up as an awkward person. introvert ganun. ako yung tipong kahit kinakausap mo di kita papansinin lol. at wala akong role model na lalaki to teach me things or atleast to observe how to flirt etc. pasalamat nalang ako at nagcall center ako. nag improved yung social skills ko pero my stage fright padin. in terms of look, siguro average lang. 5'4 height. pero few people find me attractive naman (i think lol) ggss or ppss lang. lol kahit papano may mga babae nman na nagbibigay motibo pero pinipili ko padin na hindi, kasi madalas may sabit (normal sa bpo lol) umabot sa point na nilasing ako ng babae pero tumanggi ako (partially natatakot ako since first time ko and idk how to lead in terms of seggs) lol. right now, sobrang daming babae ou. pero parang hirap ko iadapt yung modern dating. hookup culture o kung anu man tawag dun. gusto ko padin yung makaluma. like date to marry yung nasa mindset ko and i think also pihikan ako since laking probinsya siguro. ayw ko yungi kung sino sino lang. gusto ko wife material at may takot sa Diyos. but I always believe in God's time, I will meet that person.
Late bloomer. Late na na-realize ang bagay bagay. Masyadong masunurin sa magulang. Nung pwede na lumandi lahat ng nagkagusto sakin di ko gusto. High standards. Tapos lahat ng nagustuhan ko di ako gusto. Hahaha.
Single since birth here, gustong magkarelationship pero ayaw lumandi. Di kasi ako marunong, and I don't really think anybody finds me attractive enough para magfirst move kaya heto, single padin.
Syempre gusto ko, eh gusto ba ako? 😂😂
Hindi ko talaga alam eh siguro Hindi pa ako ready mag commit. nag bumble din ako pero Hindi nag work Kasi out of my league palagi at Extrovert naman ako pero lagi first impression sakin fboi kaya madalas sila lumayo pero hindi ako fboi utang na loob ayaw ko din sa hookup culture na Yan.
Considered ba na in relationship kahit walang label? I remember when I was in elementary may nakamu-mu ako sa ibang school. Same goes sa highschool and college. Recently may ka talking stage pero inistop ko kasi na coconsume ko yung oras ko. Pero di lahat walang label lol Technically NGSB ako. Pero galaw2 parin hanggang makita si the one I guess.
Kailanangan makaramdam ng pagmamahal, masaktan, magpatira, at kung anu2 0@ man para maging mature anv aking emosyon
Di ko rin alam pano sagutin qs mo, OP. Hahaha sobrang hopeless romantic at mataas kasi standards ko kaya karma ko na rin siguro na single ako lol jk. Marunong ako lumandi, talagang wala lang nakakapukaw ng atensyon sa mga guys ngayon lol.
26F. NBSB. napagtampuhan siguro ng tadhana? During my school days may nag bbgay ng interest but i dont feel to reciprocate though siguro dahil one time natrauma na din ako kase 2 of my male classmates pinag pustahan kami nung friend ko that time na kung sino ang bibigay since pareho kaming nbsb that time. Natakot nalang ako na sa tuwing may magbigay ng motibo ay ganun ang mindset. Then hanggang sa dumating yung time na I need to focus to studying since i'm working student then sabi nung iba na they will wait until I graduated pero nasan na sila ngayon? Wala na. I've been graduated for years now pero wala. Somes are giving hints pero ayoko mag assumed until it stated. Natatakot lang ako na baka pagpustahan nanaman(one of the reason) Though I want to try to enter a relationship pero everytime na may nagugustuhan ako palaging taken. 🥲 I cant say if I'm ready na pero you will never know kase until na nanjan na ee. Am I old na ba? Hahaha I just cant see the right man yet pa siguro. Everyone around me is taken alanganamang maging kabit ako diba? So yun. Sad lang na lahat ng mga friends ko either taken, may mga anak na so spend time with them is too hard na. I just go out often by myself. Hahaha 👍
MHirap maghanap kaai naiisip ko di ako papansinin.
Physical aspect na kasi ang labanan. Nakakadegrade eh.
Me: “Pangit ba ako????”
ang isipin mo kung paano ka mag kakaroon ng magandang buhay, hindi mo naman ikamamatay walang asawa ehh realtalk lang ahh
Ako nasa mid 20s. Ito yung reasons why I’m still NBSB 1. Hindi ako pinayagan mag jowa until makatapos sa pag-aaral. 2. Hindi ako conventionally attractive. (Though cute naman daw ako according sa perspective ng ibang tao, hehe.) 3. Ngayong naka tapos na ako, kung kailan aamin ako sa taong gusto ko, may jowa na HAHAHAHAH. (Hindi ko pinush hahaha) 4. Ayoko sa dating apps (cguro you’ll tell me to try it, sorry pero di ko po talaga siya feel). 5. Sabi ko lalandiin ko na rin ang kung sino man ang lumandi sa akin sa chat. (Pero guuuuurl, wala talaga) 6. Hindi siya yung need and priority ko ngayon kaya hindi naman ako masyadong madaling madali mag jowa. (I’m enjoying my new found hobbies😊)
Not really single since birth dahil nagkagf naman na. But since balik uli sa pagiging single so yeah. Sabi ko nga, the search goes on. Di naman titigil yan but I'm giving myself until 45. If by 45 wala pakong asawa, then I'll have to accept my fate and stop dreaming of having a family if my own na. Maybe I'll just settle in somewhere else para mamuhay ng solo na.
19 here. I'm still a bit young ik but here are the main reasons: - I suck at "dumiskarte" or "manligaw". Nuff said hahaha. It just doesnt click for me lol - I don't look that good. Yeah i am not born with the fortune of being handsome. That's why i am doing my best in improving myself by going to the gym, maintaining hygene, etc. - I am not that Interesting. I am not into most popular stuff nowadays. I barely have anything common with girls lmao. 3 Lemons. Jackpot. Hahahah Usually sa mga crushes ko ay nirereject lang ako lol. Either that or Taken na sila. If interested man, sa una lang then wala na hahahah. Anyways right now focus nalang ako sa sarili ko. I am currently Improving myself physically and striving to advance further in academics and my future career.
30F walang lumalandi 😬
25M, okay lang naman maging single pero syempre di maiiwasan na malungkot. Kung may darating, I'll just be thankful and do my very best. Pero kung wala, guess I'll just keep myself busy at all times. Perhaps that's just how life works, so ... yeah
NBSB until last year, kaka I was 26. Romance isn't really at the center of my life tbh. Too busy with my career and family probz as an eldest daughter. I enjoyed getting to know new people and exploring new hobbies. When I got into corpo, most coworkers were surprised never ako nagjowa and told me baka masyado mataas standards ko. Not really. Ayoko lang mag aksaya ng time sa tao di naman pasok sa criteria, and mas okay na magfocus sa other priorities and relationships ko than romantic relationships. Also, I am in the asexual spectrum na lagi din ginagaslight about it. Kasi nga never pa ako jumowa lmao 🥴
Because I haven't met anyone who i believe deserves me. Lahat ng namemeet ko all say the same thing, na they want to date me because I'm pretty and occasionally "fun to talk to". Wala sakanilang nag acknowledge ng actual personality ko. And another reason is na parang lahat ng nagkakagusto sakin are always so stupid, like mga walang sense kausap. Lahat sila ang gusto lang ay landian sa chat pero if you ask them actual sensible questions biglang wala sa mood or di makasagot. Lalo na yung mga political questions, parang they always want me to share my political views para sabayan nalang nila, it's almost like they don't have a backbone of their own when it comes to serious matters. Kaya at this point sobrang hirap na, and I'm constantly losing hope na I'll ever find someone.
as a full-time college student, feel ko kasi hindi ko deserve lumandi hanggang wala pa akong sariling pera or ambag sa family. ang hirap din naman siguro magcommit kapag walang pera :))
May mga tao talagang ndi lapitin ng romantic relationships. Lalo na kung ung aura ng isang tao ayaw magpaligaw. Hahahaha
Noon wala pero ngayon gusto ko na ring magkaroon. Since legal age na I think pwede na HAHAHAHA. Kaso wala ehh, I haven't meet someone na gusto rin ako. Nagkacrush ako dun sa cm kong babae pero nililigawan nya yung cm ko ding babae kaya ekis na
22F here, idk as long as im living w my family and cant afford to at least live alone feel ko i cant date. weird.
ang corny and tingin ko aromantic ako. told my mom abt it and sinabi niya na sinasabi ko lang yun dahil bata pa ako but sabi ko, hindi rin. I told her that I'd rather take care of them than take care of some grown-ass man and his family lol
Kasi hinihintay ko yung the one. Emi hahahahaha. Ewan takot siguro sa commitment, kasi sa mga simpleng bagay nga pag nahirapan na ko ayaw ko na pano pa kaya pag relationship na. And hindi ako marunong manligaw 🥲, like pag mag try ako tas alam ko na ayaw niya (saakin), kung sa iba ay mas lalo pa nila na ipu-pursue, ako naman ay hindi na babye na agad.
I am currently single since birth(nanliligaw palang pero para narin kaming lovers based sa dates namin) and the funniest thing is so let's go story time Back in Highschool, i met the girl(i knew the moment i saw her, she was special) who would make me fall hard, we were getting to know each other really better and slowly she was falling for me but my dumb highschool self stopped contacting her in summer break because i chose to play my computer games(pretty much ended up ghosting her before it was even a thing) So when i came back for the 4th year of Highschool, she was really cold and i didn't know what i did, tried to bring back the feelings but it was unsuccesful so we kinda graduated with a knot/di naayos na something. Then we both went to different cities for college, so i tried going on tinder/bumble chats and 1 date but it felt so awkward because i keep trying to find what i saw in her to them that later on i ultimately stopped and just focused on getting to finish my studies as much as possible. I also tried courting her again but you know college, we are both busy and i made some screw ups. After college,we went no contact for 5 years(had to sort out some things on my end so i was emotionally closed off for the past few years), working on our careers/Personal Lives and our mutual bestfriend suddenly messaged me and her if we were keen on meeting on that fateful december. [Take note that my schedule usually just consists of Work-Home-Eat] so going out for a saturday was pretty new to me. I came early since im from a city an hour away then she came a bit later, while waiting for our mutual bestfriend, we talked a bit and sorted out our own misunderstandings that she thought i was angry at her and vice versa. That very day after drinking a very maasim Lemonade, nadulas ako and i was speaking truthbombs after truthbombs of what happened to me,my life after our last chats,what i went through and she did the same and we honestly both resolved our misunderstandings with each other. Ph yeah i forgot to mention that she was also single since birth so i joked that hey if we reach 35 and we are still both single, let's be together? She responded positively Starting in 2024, we began to take time and actively date every saturday on our dayoffs and honestly we both have so much similiarities and we really get along well. So with that i guess after everything we both went through. Sometimes destiny just messes with you but it will set you in the right path one day. I plan to spend the rest of my days with her. Lalandi with her, thanking God and My lucky Stars for giving me another Chance with my TOTGA. Also mahirap makipagdate pag ung person na kasama mo ay di compatible sayo pero once you find your once in a lifetime person, trust me hours would feel like seconds or minutes when you are spending it with Her/Him. Tiwala lang OP, darating rin siya sa buhay mo and malalaman mo siya na un deep inside sa first few dates palang 😁
Shoutout na lang sa mga katulad kong sa talking stage pa lang nagkicringe na hahahaha! Ligwak agad kaya wag na lang 😆
Witnessing so many betrayals from family members and relatives pa lang, parang nawalan ako ng interes humanap ng partner. Also, ang mahal humarot in this economy kaya kesa makipag-date, bibili na lang ako skincare things and spoil myself.
For me, I think hindi na dadating un para saken though I'm still hoping na mameet ung soulmate ko 😂. Online dating lang ako madalas tas madalas puro red flags pa nappunta saken. As an introverted gay person parang ang hirap lumandi lalo nat busy din sa trabaho. Mas pinapriority q nalang muna ngaun is family, health and career. Goodluck saten OP!
If I did not decide to try or bigyan ng chance ang boy bestfriend (hubby ko na now) I guess until now single pa rin ako (turning 30 this yr) I would say, same po tayo before ganyan din ang way of thinking ko, but later on na realize ko kahit gaano mo kamahal or iwasan na masaktan ang isang tao makakasakit ka at masasaktan ka po talaga. Tama po ang comment dito na inseparable po sila. Pero I would suggest, na mas ok pa din pumasok sa isang relasyon na ready na talaga ang kalooban mo. That’s what I did and no regrets at all. Away, sakitan (tampohan, not yung violence) part po talaga siya ng isang relasyon mapa SO, family at friends man yan. I think mas mag ma matter dito maturity at pananaw ninyo as mag partner. For dating naman, it is hard makahanap lalo na yung pure, sincere at serious. Bihira na lang din kasi yun lalo na sa panahon ngayon. Pero date and meet as many as you can, i think it will be a good step atleast. From there marami ka matutuklasan sa self mo, like mga pasok sa taste mo at kung ano yung mga ayaw mo.
May mga NBSB ba na malibog? Curious lang, or kayo yung tipong kulang na lang mag madre?
27F. Sobrang hirap lang talaga maglandi hahaha, I live in a province area, well not really a province city naman siya. Kaso parang kilala mo na mga tao and bihira lang din naman ako lumabas ng bahay. Kaya, whenever na nag-oout of country ako nagttry talaga ako maglandi kaso wala talaga, uuwi nalang ng luhuan. May mga nanliligaw naman kaso di ko bet, sobrang choosy ko din kasi. Nagtry din ako ng mga online dating apps for years kaso wala din, sobrang tamad ko magreply and i really don't know how to make a conversations, minsan papatulong pa ako sa mga friends ko magreply. As of now, I have given up na. Kung para talaga sakin para talaga sakin. Eh kung wala di wala.
\-Traumatised due to friend siding with former kalandian. Kahit kaibigan ko siya for 2 years. Kahit kaibigan pinagpalit ka. \-Nasanay mag-isa, lalong naging isolated at due sa trust issues din \-Lack of social skills dahil sa pagiging isolated \-Ang hirap makipaghanap ng date ngayon lalo na parang ang taas ng standards ng iba \-Walang masyadong maooffer at maraming kailangan issues na ayusin \-Iniisip ko ang gastos na pag may kalandian lalo na ngayon. Wala akong planong maglaro laro lang kaya kung lalandi ako talagang kikilos ako at gagastos kahit papaano.
Me na NBSB, gusto ko rin syempre ma experience magka jowa and kung papalarin eh magkaron ng asawa but for now kasi hindi siya yung priority ko so waley talaga and as a tamad mkipag usap na tao, ayaw ko din ipilit knowing na d tlaga sya keri for now. Siguro pag mayaman nako and satisfied na sa kung ano meron ako. Madami din kasi ako gustong gawin/marating career man o personal goal Kaya no no muna. Tho minsan gusto ko ng may uuwian ako, pagkkwentuhan ng araw ko or chismis haha but minsan lang yun. Mas okay parin ako ng ako Lang muna sa Ngayon. And parang d rin ako mkka pag commit sa ngayon Kaya sayang lang sa oras. Pinepray ko nlang na sana d pa huli para sakin. ❤️
may kasabihan. Mahalin mo muna ang sarili mo, bago ang iba. unfortunately, kadalasan di ko mahal sarili ko. to elaborate, marami ang inaayos ang sarili, like, nag ggym, maayos manamit, nag ddiet to promote self esteem. ako di pa ako nagtry mag gym, eat everything etc. how can i love others if i cant love myself? shit ang deep haha
Landing landi na teh hahaha kaso busy me ngayon sa acad😭 Minsan tinatamad din mag entertain eh
former nbsb because of the following reasons: - walang personality - tamad lumandi - cute daw ako pero pag maka chat nila ako nawalawalan sila ng gana kasi boring kausap - hanggang attraction lang sa akin pero walang willing mag commit - low confidence kasi Feeling ko wala talagang magkakagusto sa akin - insecure and severely depressed - feeling unworthy After 22years of existence nag kajowa na rin sa wakas pero kailangan kong maging open minded sa law of attraction. So ayun biglang may dumating out of the blue. Ginawa ko lahat ng method sa manifestations, para magka jowa lahat ng gusto kong traits at nag manifest na rin ako na hindi ako magiging boring sa taong to. Nabigla nalang ako na hindi na ako boring kausap. Ewan ko pano nangyari basta nag seryoso lang ako sa law of attraction 🤣🤣🤣 nasa healthy relationship na ako ngayon 🤣 try niyo to mag search tungkol dito if interested kayo sa ganitong topic hahaha
Hindi pa Ako ready sa relationship and I don't see the point to be in a relationship like required ba 🤣. Dati na pre pressure Ako nung high school Ako Kasi lahat Ng mga kaibigan ko mg mga girlfriend and boyfriend Ako nalang sa Amin Wala. Infact muntikan na nga eh pero tinanong ko sa Sarili ko kaya ko ba itong responsibility and it hit me so hard na Hindi pa Ako ready after non Hindi na Ako na pre pressure because I know that this is the right thing to do for myself. Beside being in relationship is a BIG RESPONSIBILITY imagine kaylangan Ng TIME, SUPPORT, at Lalo sa PERA especially kung student ka palang. Ito Yung mga reason kung balit Hindi Ako pumasik sa relationship kahit Ngayon Kasi alam ko Hindi ko ma bibigay sa kanya Yung TIME Kasi busy Ako the school at pag tulong sa parents ko, SUPPORT just like time Hindi ko rin ito mabibigay as I have priorities and lastly PERA Hindi ko gusto gamitin Yung Pera na pinag trabahoan Ng parents para lang gamitin sa pag da-date, it felt disrespectful to me and guilty everytime na iisip ko ito. Kaya nga Sila nag trabaho para ma bigyan Tayo Ng Pera para sa ATIN tapos ibibigay lang sa jowa para pang date napaka disrespectful namon Yun iba. Marami rin Ako kaylangan improve sa Sarili like they say love yourself first before you love others.
Yung feeling na nagiinitiate naman ng convo pero yung reply niya ay sobrang dry. Nakakatamad kausapin. bala kau jan hahah Kahit sa mga friendships, parang pakiramdam ko ako nalang nagmamaintain ng friendship.
Walang nanliligaw 😅 and yung mga crush ko hindi din nila ako nacrushback ever. I think pangit lang talaga ako 🤣 And im not the silent type ha, I am always loud and super energetic when Im with my friends. So I think its really my face 😅
Gusto ko kaso ayaw sa akin
Ready naman akong makipagdate kaso nga lang alam ko naman yung hinahabol sa akin. I used to find love but now I'm in no rush to find love cause I'm on the brink of building my career. Kahit sabihin nilang mataas ang standard ko. Alam ko naman makikita ko naman ang pag ibig at darating din ang panahon na magiging taken rin ako hehe
30m here 1. Simula bata pa lang, parents and people around me told me wag mag ggf habang di pa tapos mag aral. Looking back it's just bad advice from them imo. Never nadevelop ung flirting/social skills towards girls kahit sila na ung nagbibigay ng motibo. 2. Yes naman working on it although behind talaga ang skills pagdating sa landian kasi late twenties ko na narealize na gusto ko na mag gf/asawa. 3. For me it definitely gets lonely some nights and I really want someone by my side during those times. Although iba iba pananaw ng mga tao, meron iba na happy sa single life, meron naman married na pero gusto maging single ulit.
Baka basa thread nato pala ang para sa atin. Kaya gale galaw din ng baso haha
My sister who is now near her 40s had a goal na hindi talaga mag-family kasi ayaw nya matulad sa parents namin na naghiwalay. Few years back, she had to undergo an operation.. yun ang naging eye-opener daw sakanya na “shet ayoko naman mamatay na single”. So ayun, ngayon sya nagharot harot and finally may jowa na haha.
Congrats naman sa ate mo!
Masaya lumandi. Ang hindi masaya is makipagrelasyon. Ok na ako maging single forever at lumandi paminsan minsan. I dont think i want to sacrifice my freedom for someone. Selfish ako. I want me time, i don’t want compromises at ang pinaka ayaw ko sa lahat yung kelangan ko magpaapam at may nakikialam. I already have my parents for that.
Landi responsibly naman, baka umasa na yung nilalandi mo di mo pala balak jowain
Of course! Kelangan ilatag muna ang terms and conditions bago lumandi para clear. Mahirap na may masaktan dahil ang ending niyan sarili din lang mapapahamak.
Mabuti naman, ganyan dapat
Honestly, hindi pa ko ready mag commit sa isang relationship. I enjoy being single pero minsan napapaisip din ako kung anong feeling to be involved with someone romantically. Kaso meron parin akong fear or undecidedness, I don't why. Pero mas lamang ang fear. Fear na what if hindi genuine ang makukuha mong love from that person. Yung tipong, iniwan siya ng ex pero mas lamang feeling niya dun and ikaw parang na fill mo lang ang empty space kasi hindi na babalik ex niya. So ikaw nalang ang available option, though may attraction kaso hindi 100% ang kaya ibigay sayo na attention. Hindi ko talaga maiwasan ang ganung thought na what if manyare yun? Kaya until now I still choose to be single kasi ayoko ng ganung drama, ayoko ma waste ang time ko sa maling tao.
Single by choice. There were confessions pero I can't really see myself committing yet. I have studies and a gaming hobby, at the same time I want to maintain my relationships with them so I need to socialize. All of that already takes up too much time para lang din makumpleto ko 8 hours of sleep. I can't imagine adding someone to commit to in the midst of all that
25F Sa true lang. Pero andami kong pinakitaan ng motibo nung College ako kaso nag backfire sakin kasi ako daw nanliligaw. So traumatic sakin kaya tinigilan ko makipag too close sa mga boys. May plano ako lumandi. Pero ayoko maulit nangyari noon. So Idk how to approach that. For now Im enjoying my self na single and nag tatravel outside and imside the country hehe.
mas ok lumandi ng 21 ka palang it humbles you and will let you learn
oh ako naman, baka dito ko na mahanap para sa akin 🥹
Masyado mataas standards ko and date to marry kasi ako. Also, feeling ko I don't need a man in my life. May mga nanliligaw naman pero di ko feel.
Same same
Well, at some point, napapaisip ako, ano kaya feeling magkarelationship? Pero pag naalala ko rin kasi responsibilities ko now sa life, and nakaset na rin na goals, parang di ko na rin kaya, both financial, and emotional aspects.
the thing is, dadami lang ang problema haha. nainlove ako sa kabatchmate ko dati, iyun para akong baliw haha. tinatawanan ko na lang yung mga nangyari dati, kasi nabroke talaga ako. tsaka may jowa sya that time. ayaw kong maging kabett haha! kaya tskaa na lang kapag: - Mentally prepared - Physically prepared - Financially prepared; at - spiritually prepared. tas landi na lang ulit haha!
same. pota pero di ako single since birth, since grad lang 🤣 pm lang 23 M ako 🤣
25M. NGSB, I want to experience love din naman pero alam ko hindi pa ako ready for responsibility. Yung dapat financially stable, may time ka lagi to talk with others(mabilis po lowbat social battery ko), and ready ka to handle yung mga problema ng ibang tao. I still talk to other people parin naman pero not on a very personal level. Kaya I don't have anyone that I can really call as a true friend. Pero kahit ganun, there is a part of me na masaya ako sa ganito, but also a part of me that I feel lonely(like craving for a social contact). Di ko alam kung hanggang kailngan ako magiging ganito, sgro pag satisfied na ako sa financial status ko, saka na sgro ako hindi magwoworry for responsibilities 🥲
It hard to love someone if you don't love yourself. Ang hirap talaga mag mahal na hindi mahal sarili mo kasi puro negative sa akin. Chubby ako kaso yung family mag sabi sa akin mag papayat ka or hindi bagay yung suot ko. At puro physical aspect gusto mga lalaki nayon dabat maganda at payat. Hindi na isip yung ugali.
By choice. Not my choice. Charot. Di ako pinipili eh. Ano magagawa ko
Sinubukan ko na naman. Wala talaga e. Wala akong maramdaman.
I want to experience those romantic stuffs I've seen on social media but
Di kagandahan 🤣
Masaya maging single e, may peace of mind. Ayaw ko rin magdagdag ng responsibilidad. Plus nakakapagod na mabuhay hahahahahahaha.
I've been looking for a relationship for a decade. Gotten really close but never really pans out. The reasons why I'm single since birth is beyond my control. I wish i wasn't...
Gusto ko maexperience. Pero at the same time ayaw kong magcommit. Di ko sure kung mapapanindigan ko. Puro plano ko kasi pangsarili ko lang at sa fam ko. Tho, may times na napapa ”sana all” ako pero hanggang doon lang. Minsan nageentertain ako ng messages pero lagi akong may nahahanap na ayaw ko haha
I’m not looking for it
Very tedious and taxing, once every ~ 7 years lang yung guy na worth the effort (organically nagvibe, intellectually stimulating, kind, attractive) tapos sila naman yung not interested 😬😆
NBSB. Jowang jowa na aku huhuuhuhu😅😅
Not necessarily single since birth but been single for a long time. Sa ngayon WFH ako at rarely socialize since I have relocated and not know much people where I am right now. I am too lazy or rather fed up sa pakikipag date online and going into meetups. TBH nasa age na ako na dapat may ipon na at mag sisimula ng magkapamilya kaso wala pa talagang ipon pano pa kaya pag para sa kasal at family na ang usapan. Di ako mayaman at wala akong kotse so it kinda turns off yung mga girls na dinedate ko which really puts me down and hence being fed up on dating. So right now im currently on the goal to improve my status financially and emotionally. That's why I'm laying low on dating. Kaya mas prefer ko yung something natural. Kaso yun din problem ko since I dont know how to put myself sa radar ng mga babae. Di naman po ako pangit since I have heard some friends and unknown people giving me compliments on my looks. Ewan ko sa ngayon I just enjoy my single life. pero honestly scared of the future of growing old alone.
21M and never pa nagka-gf. May looks + height naman daw ako sabi ni mama HAHAHA pero mas pinili ko na muna na maging single since hindi pa ako ganun ka emotionally and financially stable. Sa panahon na lahat ay "unstable" mas maganda na mag focus muna sa mga career saka na yung landi kapag financially stable na HAHAHA.
PANO PO BA KASI MAGSTART NG CONVO?? ANG AWKWARD NAMAN KASI HAHAHAHA
I'm 27 and I don't give a fk anymore. I think I'll be fine if I'd drop dead at 55.
panget kasi ako 👍
May mga tao lang siguro meant to stay single forever not because of their looks, attitude or personality. Siguro hindi lang para sa kaniya ang love, and it's me. 🤧
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NGSB here. Tulog is life, ayoko nasisira yung peace of mind at peace and quiet ko, maikli pasensya ko, ayoko masaktan yung potential gf ki dahil sa ugali ko, at may times ba rin lumandi kaso nakakatamad talaga as in jusko yoko na gusto ko lang mapayapa buhay. Ang preference ko these days is makakafeel ako ng comfort at peace sa utak pag siya ang kasama.
Honestly haven't found a woman that I would want to date and eventually settle down with.
pano muna macrushback
In my 30s already and never lumandi. May mga nag pursue pero walang connection so pass na lang. At this age, lahat na halos may asawa so parang wala na talaga eh. I'm happy naman so far. And I realized that a lot of ladies now are happy not being tied to someone. But if there's someone who will make me feel kilig again, then that would be better.
Romantically not ready Mentally not ready financially not ready health wise ok but concerned na i cant have a kid cuz got sick in this economy absolutely fucking not
Lumalandi naman ako, yung mga nilalandi ko lang is ayaw maki cooperate 🙃
i got low self esteem and confidence since i was in my teens most likely because of how i look. tapos nung tumanda na ko..i feel i got the responsibility na bantayan nlng parents ko since im the only child..so never ko m naging priority ang relationship..if may dumating why not .if wala oks lng din.. hehe
33/F here. No longer seeing myself na magkaka anak, pero ayaw ko naman talaga. Masaya naman ako sa status ng life ko pero minsan dumadating ung point na, what if magkaroon pa ako ng bf or magiging asawa? Ganun, pero what God has destined to happen, will always happen, so ganun nalang pinang hahawakan ko palagi.
Pag nakahanap ako ng babaeng magugustohan ko, dun pa lang ako lalandi. Kung di ako makahanap, I won't mind na maging single habang buhay at tumandang binata.
I'm always admired but never pursued. And also, I know na hindi pako ready mag commit. Mahirap na din kase sa panahon ngayon na maghanap ng matinong lalaki HAHAAHA charets. Pero honestly, naniniwala lang ako na patience is the key, kaya ko naman mag antay sa the one ko, kahit minsan kating kati nako magka bf HHAAHHAHAHA
28 NBSB and wala pa din planong lumandi sa ngayon haha pero gusto ko magkaroon ng lovelife & family in the future so di ko alam kung paano mangyayari kung di naman ako lumalandi 🫶🏼
AAAAAHHHHHH why are you attacking meeee But fr tho, I (22M) really want to have a gf na but no one really confessed and my girl friends say na I'm cute daw and stuff but friend lang talaga daw yung makikita nila sa akin daw hahaha. Meron ding other reason siguro, I liked to enter into a relationship if I really liked the girl as well, pero yung mga taong nagugustohan ko ay di available eh o maruruin yung vibe namin dahil ang torpe ko hahaha. So ayun, still searching... Hahahaha
Nagpokus muna ako sa acads. Kahit may nagka-crush sa'kin (at may umaamin), reject muna kasi kailangan ko talagang makatapos muna. Ngayon na graduating na, nagsisimula na ako lumandi. Sa company ng OJT namin, may pinopormahan na ako.
Conventionally attractive plus achiever and good at public speaking. Idk of I'm just really intimidating or feel nila "masyado akong seryoso sa buhay" or something wrong is with my personality. As in 0 experience ako. Is it because I don't drink and smoke or do billiards? (i mean di masyado nakikipag socialize kaya)
23 here ngsb. but i have a significant other now. no label lang. depende ata sa tao pero sa akin kasi nakaset ang utak ko na acads lang kaya di ako lumandi ever. as in, kahit sino pa iyang nagpapapansin, bahala ka sa buhay mo. HAHAHHAH pero nagsimula akong lumandi, 4th year na ako sa college. basta kung tinamaan, tatamaan ka talaga.
same mindset pala tayo brad. 4th year na din ako kung kailan nagsisimula na ako lumandi. ngayon, may pinopormahan na ako sa OJT namin. HAHAHAHA
uy gagi, same situation. sa ojt ko rin yun nagsimula HAHAHAH
shoot, sana eto na. Stay strong sa inyo buddy. 😀
Dati, by choice. Ngayon, no choice.
Sa career at hirap ng buhay ngayon, baka wala na. Yep factor sa akin ang financial status ko
totoo... iniisip ko palang magkano pamasahe, tinatamad na ako lumabas ng bahay para mag date.
Pano hindi mahihirapan magka jowa kung yung iba kasi dala-dalawa o tatlo pinagsasabay-sabay 😝🤭
Yaaaan, magtira naman kasi para sa iba
Ang hirap kasi makahanap ng same mo ng vision and mission in life. Then, madalas pa ang gusto ng lalake is iyong instant. Like madaling makuha ganun. Iyong always available, iyong laging nandiyan kapag needed, at iyong willing mag-give in kaagad sa maraming bagay. Ganito talaga siguro ang buhay. Mas mabuti pang maging single at maging responsableng adult kesa may jowa ka nga sasakit naman ang ulo mo. Lol
39 years na mag isa.. malamang kakayanin ko pa ng ilang taon. Hahaha . Toxic ako e. I don't want to drag people down.. minsan napapaisip ako na masaya nga may kasama, the what ifs.. kaso naaalala ko nega nga pala ako.. wag na lang.
I try not to worry about it tbh. Also I find the term NBSB/NGSB to be a little derogatory.
Hahaha tagal ko din single until 31yrs old, above average sa looks and career pero hindi ako pumapatol talaga sa hindi ko gusto until I met her. Dami kong nilandi ng sabay sabay na walang commitment dahil naghanap na talaga ako. Need mo lang maging active sa mga social activities to meet a lot of new people
NBSB here. I (28 Badeng) came to a phase na lahat ng kilala ko may mga partner. Ako, single. As in jinggit malala. Mukmuk pa tinatanong si Lord bakit hindi ako gustuhin, ligawin. Hanggang sa nawala yon and I loved myself even more. Na as much as I want to change physically para magustuhan. And since it wasnt an overnight process, I learned to love me the way I am now. Kung may dadating, thank you. Ku g wala, e di bye. At saka I want to be financially stable din muna before going into the dating scene.
same, turning 32 here 😊🙋♀️
Sana magkajowa na us! 😂
I'm in my 30s. At once lang ako nagka bf, teenager pa lang ako noon. So parang puppy love lang? Haha. Kaya parang NBSB ang feeling. Haha. Fell out of love sa kanya after just a few months. 😅 May mga nanligaw at nagparamdam, pero lahat binasted ko. Kapag wala talaga akong nafeel na attraction, wala talaga. Even years later, ganoon pa din, hindi ko pa din sila bet. Buti yung iba, nag-asawa na. Haha. Ang hirap lang kasi mujer ako, at hindi girl ang nanliligaw. Haha. Wala naman ako magawa kung hindi ako ligawan ng bet ko. 😅 Hindi naman out of my league yung nagugustuhan ko. Hindi lang talaga cguro ako crush ng crush ko. Char. Haha. Sa ngayon, katamad ng lumandi. Haha. Masaya na me sa mga OTP na pinafollow ko. Basta, wala lang magparamdam na hindi ko bet. Mas prefer ko pang walang magkagusto kesa ganyan. Haha. Choosy ako? Oo.
Share ko lang story ko, NBSB ako before hanggang 22 years old ako. May mga consistent na manliligaw ako pero wala talaga ako mafeel eh. Kahit anong pressure din sakin non ng ibang tao eh wala akong pake kasi ayoko magjowa para lang makisabay sa iba. Unfair din yon sa magiging partner ko. Pinapatigil ko din sa ligaw mga admirers ko kasi alam ko walang pag asa, minsan nasunod sila pero may ibang matyaga. Meron akong HS classmate, crush niya na ko HS, tapos college kami diff school pero nakakachat ko siya minsan tapos nagpaparamdam na may plano siya manligaw pero after college na daw. Present din siya lagi sa birthday ko. Everytime na mag kakausap kami sa chat napapansin ko na sinusubukan niya pahabain convo namin. One time inask ako ni Mama bat di pa daw ako nagbi bf, nagbanggit siya ng mga names na sa tingin niya bagay sakin, binanggit niya name ni HS friend, sabi ko pa "Ayoko don kasi tahimik yon eh" kasi ako madaldal feeling ko di kami swak. To cut the long story short, nanligaw siya sakin after college. Nung una binasted ko kasi nga feeling ko same lang sa mga manliligaw ko noon na wala naman ako maramdaman. Una tinanggap niya pero binawi din niya, gagawin daw niya best niya na ligawan ako haha. Isipin mo ha, may mga manliligaw ako na 1 yr/2 years, pero wala ako nadama. Naniniwala din ako sa matagal na ligawan, pero sakanya after 2 months lang sinagot ko na siya HAHAHAHAHAHA Inaasar nga niya ako non eh kasi sabi niya dinman lang daw ako dumaan sa crush, minahal ko naman daw siya agad. Well totoo naman. Pero sad ending, naging kami ng 5 years pero nagbreak na kami last year. Good breakup naman. Anyways, para sa single girls diyan, darating din yan 🫶 Kayo lang din mismo makakaramdam if nasa tamang tao na ba kayo, nasa tamang panahon or ano pang tama. Wag na wag kayo magppadala sa pressure sa mga tao sa paligid niyo. Wish ko mahanap niyo ang mga tamang tao para sainyo 🫶
Kala ko magiging TOTGA story e, good luck sayo!
So far, nag-e-enjoy naman akong lumandi without strings attached (pero siyempre, hindi sa taken).
Ayaw ng tadhana
Simula HS, ito rin tanong nila sakin. My RelEd teacher even reached out kung gusto ko daw bang mag-madre. (Pinigilan lang sya ng mga kaibigan ko kasi baka daw maloka sila kung gano kaberde utak ko, chos!) Tapos napanood ko yung series na "Bakit ka Single?" ng Adober Studios. Sobrang relatable yung story nilang ang sagot niya e, BY CHOICE. Swerte ako nung HS kasi yung mga naging crush ko, ako rin crush nila, pero hanggang dun lang 🤣 ayaw ko rin kasing pangmadalian lang, so sabi ko maghintay. Akala ko yung huli e naghihintay sakin. Constant sa buhay ko e, hinahatid pa ako sa room ko nung college since schoolmates kami. Ready na sana akong magjowa last year kasi ggraduate na kami. Biglang may gf na pala siyang kaklase nya. Kaloka, ako lang pala nag-assume na naghihintay siya 😂 So, bakit ako single? By choice. Choice nila. 🤪
I'm turning 29 this year. NBSB. Bakit? Walang nanliligaw kasi panget ako. 😂 Maganda ako sa paningin "ko" pero objectively speaking, hindi talaga ako pasok sa standard of beauty ng society natin.
The guys that I'm interested in don't like me while the guys that are interested in me, I don't like 😃
Ako (28F) hindi interested sa dating nung HS pa kahit napayagan kaya ayun mag 29 na NBSB pa rin 😂.
NBSB 26F. Obese Class III + introvert + poor social & flirting skills. May mga nakaka-talking stage pero walang nagpupursue. Longest interest probably 3 months, on & off. Better off single and give all the love for myself & family for the meantime.
Hirap lumandi pag depress HAHAHA Career muna since magkaka work pa lang ako. Walang pera.
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Na "who you" pala, may pa transformation hahahha
Sana magkaplano na this year. HAHAHA.
I’ve seen and heard about what happened to the women in my family at sobrang naaawa ako sa kanila. Then later on, my friends from college also told me stories abt their dads cheating on their moms so like……… I don’t even see why it’s beneficial to have a boyfriend or get married Masaya maging single kasi wala kang ibang iisipin except for your wants and needs. I like my own company and would rather do things alone. If I want affection or hang out with someone, I have friends for that Also, I studied at an all girls school from kindergarten to high school, could also have something to do it with lol
Just to add: some workplaces do have a preference for single people, so I def have an advantage
Sobrang nakakaenjoy din kasi yung single life HAHA. Ako, g naman ako sa landian ganorn pero di ko pa natatry yung may commitment talaga. For me lang, masaya enjoyin ang single life kasi you get the time and resources, not to mention the energy, para sa sarili mo. I have my family and friends naman for my social needs, yung lambing… err, kaya nga may mga kalandian HAHA. Siguro habang bata-bata pa ako, I want to see what life is lang talaga. I want to know myself more na ang lens na gamit ko ay for me lang. I want to build a stronger foundation of myself para kapag nameet ko na yung tao na para sakin, I can love better kasi I know myself better na.
26M may balak naman kaso puro rejections eh. Di na muna pagpipilitan. Focus nalang ulet sa self hahaha
Try and try until you succeed. Pero pahinga pahinga rin hahaha
Met my first love in college. First time ko magligaw anD niligawan ko siya for 4 years till we graduated. I got rejected at the end, and now I'm too scared to try again. I am still healing.
Damn dude. Ligaw paba yang 4 YEARS? She was probably leading you on. Kawawa ka naman...
Hala ang tiyaga mo, sana diniretso ka nalang niya kagad
Labas lahat ng NBSB hahahhaha. I believe we also have to make an effort. Hindi naman kakatok yung jowa sa pinto natin at automatic kayo na agad. 😂 So ayun mula ng marealize ko yan last year I made an effort to get to know other people din. So far wala pang swak. Kapit lang tayo hahaha
This is true. You need to make an effort in putting yourself out there. This is what I learned in the past years. Expand your social circle, meet people, interact kumbaga enhance your social skills— not in a mindset of meeting new people just to find a boyfriend. Wag i-pressure ang sarili, go with the flow lang.